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| 1 | On incels.I can relate to the frustration and it's very hard not to get emotional about an injustice the way that knocking yourself out of the gene pool by trying to be kind is. The ultimate middle finger by society that keeps complaining about selfish assholes. Asking people to be nice and then continuing to reward those who don't care while villifing those who do. Only people REALLY enjoying all this are the people nobody really likes. Feelsbadman | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Autistic men are not "coddled"Thank you for taking the time to explain | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/26 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Autistic men are not "coddled"Point at the part where I said something that made you believe I don't realize this so I can understand why everyone is getting so defensive. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/26 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Autistic men are not "coddled"After the fourth war the neurodivergents finally accepted that it really isn't that important whether Star Trek or Star Wars is better and collaborated on establishing an eternal paradise. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/26 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Autistic men are not "coddled"Oh right I see, my mind was wandering to online communities and not to - like - villages haha Would be an interesting experiment for sure. I think neurotypicals would miss us more than we'd miss them because a lot of interesting things and ideas would vanish from their world and they'd become incredibly homogeneous in their thinking. But it's obviously a complete coin toss how well neurodivergents would cope without neurotypicals. We'd certainly need completely new structures and norms that don'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/26 03:08 AM |
| -6 | Autistic men are not "coddled"when momma aint happy, nobody's happy" is happening a lot. This is way further into a relationship than what I was talking about (dating), though. I was talking about opportunity to get into such relations, not about what it's like once you're in. I'm aware of and literally not at all trying to downplay what men in abusive relationships go through. Again: You don't have groups of female pickup artists preying on drunk men in discos. That's the kind of dynamic I'm talking about. Yes men can and d… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/26 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Autistic men are not "coddled"What an ugly mess of a name :s (the fallacy I mean) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 10:37 PM |
| -13 | Autistic men are not "coddled"I was talking about how ND women getting more dates is not necessarily resulting in more desireable outcomes - from that angle I did not really think about men. And frankly, yes women abusing men absolutely happens but from a sheer biological power difference this is simply much more dangerous for women. I mean that's kind of the whole point I'm making. They may have more dates, but those dates are way more often dangerous to them than they'd be for men. This isn't a "men don't have problems" ki… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 10:31 PM |
| 7 | Autistic men are not "coddled"How to keep NT out though? Because otherwise this is basically the adult version of children's chat room swarming with predators. Imagine word getting out to fuckboys that there is an open space where vulnerable women hang out under the impression of it being some sort of safe space. Oh boy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 09:07 PM |
| 12 | Autistic men are not "coddled"men have proven time and time again to be far more tolerant towards "the struggling guy girl" This is a bit dicey though because struggling girls are also easy targets for all sorts of abuse And this is much more of a dice roll for neurodivergent women than it is for neurotypical women. Obviously not all men who'd date an ND woman are dangerous, but all dangerous men surely know to appreciate stumbling into a cute woman who's outstandingly bad at detecting deception, but also above average needy… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 09:04 PM |
| 36 | Autistic men are not "coddled"As much as I love progressive ideals, lefties pointing out toxic traits (like tribalism) as some sort of right wing only problem while it's just a very neurotypically human thing that the lefties are fantastic at playing themselves is just so annoying to me as someone who really fucking loathes obvious hypocrisy. And this is not just "we only hate haters", which I guess is fair considering the paradox of tolerance. It's way more of a hyper vigilant, mega vindictive witch hunt used primarly to pu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 08:44 PM |
| 42 | Autistic men are not "coddled"I dipped into this discussion once and it ended with "but women get raped" so I guess men just have no problems worth talking about | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 08:14 PM |
| 12 | It annoys me how angry stupid sexist shit makes meIt does annoy me with how women are always looking for a way to insist they have it worse. It doesn't even matter. Women well may have it worse. Not in every category, but as a whole. Between society not taking them serious and them being more defenseless to violence ... like whatever, just saying it's perfectly possible that they win that cup. The important thing is that this doesn't matter. First of, yelling for equality and then going "but we have it worse so we get equality+" is hypocritical… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/26 10:28 PM |
| 1 | It annoys me how angry stupid sexist shit makes meA victim is morally allowed to do all the bad things that are categorically not as bad as the thing that's happening to them. That's the logic. Not even "to the people who do it to them", as they freely do this shit to men who are innocent of raping women. Being a potential victim of rape is a free pass to behave like a complete asshole to everyone, as long as the assholery isn't as bad or worse as rape. You also don't have to actually have been raped personally to have this privilege, just belo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/26 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Most parents fear daughters will grow up unsafe in publicWomen could get rid off a large part of sexual harrassment if they started approaching men they like, instead of 100% relying on men approaching them. It'd take pressure off men (men would get less desperate), give men who are shy to approach all the time more opportunity to learn to navigate such encounters AND give men a feeling for what it's like to be approached - aka giving them first hand experience in what kind of behaviours feel really shit to get exposed to (especially by people you hav… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/26 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Most parents fear daughters will grow up unsafe in publicBecause women are so into equality that they are doing everything in their power to keep gender dynamics in a way that will forever give women an exit strategy/plan B. Broke/Bum women exist, we just don't call them that. We call them stay at homes/housewifes. Because if a woman struggles to get her life/career together, she only needs about 20 bucks of makeup, a place where well earning men hang out and the willingness to literally sell herself out. Works every time. A service they expect men to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/26 04:45 PM |
| 5 | On incels.Valid points | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/26 01:44 AM |
| 13 | On incels.Many are for sure, I can't disagree that a lot of women seem to completely lack wits when they are attracted to someone (though not sure how gendered - I believe the main difference between men and women here is that men don't parade around claiming they're attracted to something they're not actually instinctively attracted to). But it is still hilarious considering how for decades (likely way longer) women have insisted that MEN are the ones controlled by their genitals while all data points po… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 09:51 PM |
| 29 | On incels.Because apparently women are perfect personality detectors until it's a shitty manipulator man lol. Yea always loved that one. Incels deserve being romantically excluded because if women don't pick them, there must be something wrong with them. At the same time women are completely defenseless against detecting the toxicity emanating from the men they date until it's too late. Both, victim to men's superior manipulation skills but also borderline psychic in their ability to determine that men th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 05:36 PM |
| 25 | On incels.Only halfway through but he describes the entire issue so incredibly poignant and well, wow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 10:49 AM |
| 41 | On incels.I don't think that's related here. It's more like not being the villain of your own story (I was not set out to cause harm so I cannot possibly have hurt someone) + society coddling women (lots of validation for their perspective) + the history of how all this has played out over the last 10-20 or so years (gave a logical chain of events in my other reply here if you care for it, not gonna write that again). Women WANT caring and kind men. But they're terrible at identifying them (not just women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 10:43 AM |
| 67 | On incels.It's not impossible to understand even without assuming misandry, just rather sobering. I think the important bits are 1) Social signaling: Normal people lie. A lot. (Neurodivergents often struggle with lying and with realizing how much normal people lie) When normal people talk about themselves, it's way more important to them to curate their own social image than to be honest. So asking people if they'd prefer an intelligent, well mannered and kind man or an assertive roughhouse who can barely… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 09:28 AM |
| 123 | On incels.Many incels are disappointed about putting effort into not being the kind of assholes women are vocal about hating, while having a less active romantic life than said assholes do. With the stories women share about how the men they chose treat them, it can feel quite hurtful to a normal human being who's not a psychopathic abuser to be repeatedly second, third or no choice. These men feel betrayed by the delta in what women say they want (rational wishes for e.g. long term stability and safety) … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Genuinely curious where women get the idea men sexually assault men more than womenWhen there is both genders involved, society also tends to assume blame with the man and not with the woman. Like you have two people cooking meth, society is prone to default to the assumption that he probably made her do it. It's completely infantilizing towards women but they enjoy the feeling of social validation and the lee way for getting away with stuff (not even actively thinking about it, but growing up with that kind of privilege makes it hard to see that you're being unfairly advantag… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenThis observation of yours might even be entirely correct. I'm not gonna check because those details don't really matter for the point I'm making. What you need to understand is that that no trends you notice on these types of social media platforms can be trusted to translate into real life. Everything you mentioned can be easily explained by how making money on social media works and that explanation has nothing to do with "Honestly, authentically speaking about your true thoughts". When you fe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenIt's way more likely that social media stuff like twitter or instagram is fake shit and there is a money reason for whatever you see there. There is absolutely an audience to be milked with appealing to their frustrations. There MAY be female influencers out there who post honestly about this, but I assure you there is plenty who are very intentionally pulling emotional strings of hurt men by acknowledging their pains and/or reaffirming their biases. Be VERY careful with shaping your views on th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/26 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenI'm cautious about instagram bubbles reflecting reality. Those videos of women making these claims can easily be some form of emotion/rage baiters where they play the bias confirmation and profit off men seeking that validation without actually facing the struggles the claim to face. Gen Z is probably a decent indicator, though. So maybe men actually do have some self respect. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Here are some sources created by feminists I want an in-depth critique on.Yea. And I do believe that all these things exist. It's just when a massive social media group of 16-24 year old kids learns about these things (like ... badly learn them) there are bound to be plenty who love getting victim points and virtue signaling points and don't really care about understanding the nuance or putting any effort in themselves. Let's not pretend everyone who calls themselves a feminist has read "the feminist manifesto" [aka actually read up on the core principles and what tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenIt seems to me that the most vocal and toxic feminists also tend to be the biggest party animals, and they base their opinion of men entirely off of the douchebags they encounter in these places. Women picture their ideal partners as ... the usual bla bla. Intelligent, caring ... you know the drill. And they genuinely want that. Intellectually. Women get aroused by ... much different things. Many of the attributes women are actually sexually attracted to highly correlate with assholes. Like how … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenThis backlash won't happen because 1) There is a substantial amount of men that flourish in the status quo. Expect no help from them, they're benefactors. 2) A lot of but not all men going on some sort of general strike (of whatever form, like refusing to initiate romantic contact or ramping of critizism of female behaviour and expectations) would just make it easier for those who aren't on strike and unless some 90% of men join this (lmao as if) women wouldn't even feel it. Because they'd have … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Differences in Prevalence Rates of Sexual Assault of College Men and WomenI think this can most likely be easily explained by the dynamics we have in dating. Men have a lot of pressure to initiate romance, men are expected to take the lead in how a relationship develops, men are expected to be the ones who initiate physical contact (kissing, touching, etc.) ... and then there is the sparse, unreliable information men have on how to behave in such a situation "Be confident, don't show fear, be manly, be assertive" all these are things that factually work overwhelmingly… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 06:14 AM |
| 20 | Here are some sources created by feminists I want an in-depth critique on.The good old "men should talk about their feelings" into "your feelings are wrong and you're a bad person for feeling them" trap | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 05:57 AM |
| 11 | Here are some sources created by feminists I want an in-depth critique on.Epistemic Silencing: Labeling a man a "misogynist" undermines his credibility and dismisses his claims without engaging with their substance. This one was so funny. The lack of self awareness is staggering. (I mean the original obviously, didn't notice you role reversed instead of quoting) Anyone remember when women framed their shaving habits about feeling forced by men to do it? Like framing their own insecurities and tendencies to please to be liked as if men were holding a gun to their heads… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Still think "manosphere", is toxic? How about UN Women saying MRAs are "core part" of manosphere?I mean I can get into hundreds of specific areas but I guess I would summarize it like that. I think you did a very solid job at summarizing it without bloating it up with dozens of specifics. Well done. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/26 05:42 AM |
| 26 | Dating app double standard: Hinge requires you to enter your height but there isn't even a field for weightbut that will never happen with how desperate the average man is for female validation. You say that as if women weren't craving the attention of men. The difference is that men proactively give it to women while men have to go through a trial and error process to maybe get it thanks to women sitting on their privilege of being the ones who are approached (instant positive validation) | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 04:56 PM |
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