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Red Pill TheoryRP085/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 10:14 PM
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Of course she wanted you to make a move, and of course she was turned off when she saw what you were made of (can't even make a move). What makes this girl a little different from the average vapid girl is her quality as a person, I guess you could say. (Meaning, that she sees some sorta beauty or value in life; that which you see in her that your mind is spinning as "special"; her ability to operate with a high-ish quality of consciousness, I guess you could say). But, her biological program is…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:01 PM
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You had me cracking up with this line: This is all hamstering for "men do, women talk". Excellent, I've gained some clarity. Cheers, man.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:02 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I think "Inner white knight" is accurate, and it's interesting how I wasn't clearly aware of that (or if I had some awareness of it, it was only very dim) until you mentioned it. Funny how it's easy for me to see something like "white-knight-ness" in somebody else, but difficult to see in myself. I've been thinking more about this issue and I think this is mostly correct. I have had some internal fears for a while in which I typically presume that women need protecting, …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:34 PM
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Thanks. I've always known that virtually all people have "psychological hurdles" in all kinds of areas, and I've been practicing the intervention I mentioned for 8 years. The only thing that happened in 1 day is that I realized this issue has nothing to do with acquiring more knowledge and everything to do with changing my beliefs. So I'll do just that and hopefully I'll profit.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:15 PM
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I resonate with your reply the most. (Thank you to everyone else who chimed in, nonetheless). I had a lot of trouble on a past job doing sales for precisely these reasons. You are essentially making money off selling people shit they don't need or won't help them all that much. My exact thoughts, which led me to not sell a lot, performing the worst in my group. I cared about the people on the other end of those sales. I too think sociopaths get laid with ease because they naturally have no troub…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:34 PM
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I have a conflict of thoughts about a specific issue and I would appreciate the input of a seasoned veteran to help me attain a clearer bigger-picture perspective. I have the understanding that being very cold/cruel with women, with an attitude of "control"/domination, them yielding to your command/power, doing what you want to do, and crucially, feeling like there is an element of "threat" to you like you are dangerous, conducting yourself without empathy, makes them feel very turned on by you …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:57 PM
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Think back to an experience in which a girlfriend of yours or chick you were into was happily planning to go dye her hair, get some new clothes that make her look great, do her nails, buy some new make-up, buy a new pair of heels, and basically make herself look stunning, afterwards walking around proudly and self-satisfactorily looking great, and thus getting the attention and desire of all the males around her. Be honest with yourself and you'll find that deep down, you probably felt a twinge …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:29 AM
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You are correct in that dominating and ravishing are exactly what they want. You would also be correct that when she's had a hundred guys attempt to be "nice"/"sweet to her as a sexual strategy, she feels like there is no real masculinity to turn her on, and in that case, a cocky self-assured guy would be a breath of fresh air. However, it is also true that women do want to swoon over a man, and to feel like they are giving themselves lovingly to him. (Studies show women release oxytocin {love h…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:20 PM
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Consider what makes a woman turned on and leads her to orgasm. While domination and submission is an absolute core of it, contrary to what many erroneous (distorted by ego) takes on the matter state, it's not about making her feel "dirty" or diminishing her. Rather, it's about her wanting to submit to you (serve you, please you) in a loving way. This is exacerbated by your masculinity, by your sexual desire of her, and by being someone she deems worthy of being submissive to, pleasing, and gushi…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 04:05 AM
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Re-posting my comment because I originally linked to another subreddit and forgot it's against the rules. Situations like the one you related cause a woman to have the feeling that she is cheap. They'll put up with it temporarily for horniness' sake, but will do so knowing beforehand that they will ghost you afterwards, since seeing you again will mean the re-surfacing of the perception of "cheapness", which doesn't feel good to her. Contrary to the often-too-quick-to-be-formed conclusion that w…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 03:47 AM
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Yeah. You're not wrong. I didn't pick the words that best describe most cases. What I meant to do wasn't to excuse people who have a weight problem; my intent was to point out that these guys are saying "fatties are losers" not because their particular problem (weight) is uniquely different from other problems people have, making them especially "loser-like", but simply because they don't like fat people.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:41 AM
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So in that case, anyone who's addicted to something (the overwhelming majority of people) are losers?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:56 PM
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Being fat is caused by food addiction. Research shows that at the core (physiologically, psychologically), all instances of addiction are identical regardless of what the substance/activity is. Food addiction Drinking addiction Drug addiction Internet addiction Porn addiction Exercise addiction Worrying addiction Validation addiction Videogame addiction etc. Are all people who are addicted to something losers?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:24 PM
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I've thought of this before. One day I introspected and observed the way I have always felt toward the provider-type adults in my family growing up. The cool uncle who's done a ton of favors for me and gotten me cool things, my grandmothers who give me food and stuff, my parents of course, and so on. And yes, we are by nature selfish cunts, we don't feel like we owe them anything, we feel prepared to simply move on and abandon them when there's a good opportunity. And this made me realize this i…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:01 PM
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That they are. I'd say the lack of gratitude and the narcissism is nurture, their biological imperatives are nature, and the manipulativeness is a survival strategy to deal with the mixture of the nature and the nurture.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:24 AM
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I agree that women are manipulative to a reasonable extent. Of course not all women; many of them make efforts to be good people without resorting to that, but you do see a lot of it. And somebody gave a pretty good explanation which makes sense to me. They said, basically: Women have been powerless since forever. It's a man's world, after all, we control everything. And all this powerlessness creates a strong resentment. And coupled with the drive to find some form of power, they do the only th…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 09:04 PM
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Oh no, no bitterness at all; I'm like you, if your username reflects your attitude. You raised a point I was about to mention: While we have an instinct that makes us feel like doing [xyz]; ultimately the choices we make are made at the level of the individual consciousness inhabiting that human being. And that consciousness can (and often does) make the choice to do something that goes against the drive, for the purpose of creating a good which is larger than the gratifying episode. While the p…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:11 PM
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Holy fucking shit. I had heard some comments that hinted at this previously but I had wished it wasn't true. A guy who works in porn (the business side; not as an actor) who knows quite a lot about women (and life) said that the human female has basically evolved to cuckold the men. One example of something he said: Unlike primates like the baboons, who will display a bright-red behind to signal fertility, human females have evolved not to show when they're fertile, and have evolved to hide it f…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 07:17 PM
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I feel like I've heard this phrase before. I probably did read it, in the book "What do Women Want?", by Daniel Bergner. It is correct. Also a similar phrase, said by the sex researcher in the book, Meredith Chivers: "Being desired is the orgasm".
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 07:03 PM
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I mean, to be fair, yeah. What the fuck else are they gonna do. They're programmed to leave a man for a better man if he comes along. It's only through our mental concepts of fairness that hypergamy creates misery for a man. In nature, it didn't fucking matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:43 PM
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Men look at women through the Internet; women display themselves for men through the Internet. This is only an epiphany if you don't already realize that women's arousal is based on being the observed/desired/lusted-after party.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:36 PM
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Holy fuck. This makes me realize I may be a bit naive or guillible to take those kinds of comments from women at face value. Since it's crystal-clear to me that all women are very sexual and there can be arrangements where a husband is cool with his wife posting, it typically doesn't cross my mind that when a woman says things like that she's being a lying piece of shit. I have zero problem with women's evolution-shaped sexual drive/instincts, but it's the deliberate deception I can't stand.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:28 PM
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Ok, I get what you mean now. You're basically pointing out that media outlets like CNN have an agenda when they make these kinds of reports, which is to allocate more power to women (taken away from men), via presenting narratives that make people form beliefs about women being victims and needing more (from men). So in essence what you're saying is: "They're not the humanitarian people you're giving them the credit of being; they're manipulators of people's thoughts". I guess I can see that pos…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 02:23 PM
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Why did you laugh? That's what journalism is; shedding light on issues. Granted, CNN have lately demonstrated to be a pretty piss-poor outlet, but it's still journalism. They're doing a report on an issue. What's funny about that? Can you specify what you mean by "getting changes that lead to more of their unhappiness", 'cause I'm worried I might be stupid if it's that obvious and I'm supposed to know it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 05:57 AM
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The point of the article is to point out the loneliness and depression young girls feel because of society's idea of what they should be. As such, it's meant to make you reflect on whether or not we should adjust our approach to how we bring up our daughters, so we can spare them the suffering of growing up with all sorts of debilitating ideas. Its point is to create awareness that hopefully can transform into compassion for them. Do you think a 15 year old girl feels depressed and lonely just t…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 05:41 AM
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I agree with this sentiment simply because in the big picture, it is the only way to operate that makes sense. Doing things from a position of love means cooperation, trust, everyone benefitting. Doing things from a position of fear means chaos, unstability, mistrust, and disorder. The little picture perspective assumes love is a chemical, or an irrational belief. But love is a fundamental aspect of consciousness, beyond the gender or even the species you are. Its opposite is fear, which is what…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:02 PM
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Hang in there, it will all pass eventually. And it seems like perhaps the worst part is already behind. Don't beat yourself up over what happened; we learn from what happens and we grow. If there's one tiny thing I would recommend that you do in this kind of difficult situation, it's to actively distinguish—perhaps even say to yourself out loud—what you are grateful for, even if it's small things. What you'll find is it will make the ordeal go smoother. Do it routinely, like when you wake up and…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:17 AM
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I have 1 observation for you, my friend. It seems to me judging by the way you express these ideas and by the way you seem to be cautious that you are focusing on all the risks of getting involved with women, in a disproportionate amount that is not good for you. To people who have never taken the time to read about the scientific (yes, actually scientific) aspect of "The Law of Attraction", as it's called in New Age circles (aka "The Secret"), the concept seems like a laughable delusion embrace…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 03:43 AM
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It's true that in some circles hysteria runs so high they intend to impose absurdly unnecessary measures to protect the psyches of seemingly ever-increasing fragility of today's women, but nevertheless I would advice not to be afraid diving into dating. Fear can never help you get closer to good results; it can only get in the way. Be relaxed, be honest, be aware, and most of the time, I would say, you shouldn't have a problem. Most women, in my estimation, know on some level that such hysteria …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 02:35 AM
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Now that's a far-blue pill idea if I've ever heard one. But I can believe some people would be that deluded. Regarding the second paragraph, I feel like there's a lot of women out there who can be trusted not to be idiotic enough to get you in that kinda trouble. As long as you 'get' how their feelings work well enough to never make them feel 'violated' or 'wronged' by doing clumsy things that quite frankly lots of males do, you should be okay. The rest of the risk would be posed by truly malici…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 03:46 AM
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I get a feeling he is a "defender of women" in his mind, with a bias in favor of them and against those evil men who dare to sexualize them, and if you are "one of those", he won't even talk to you. He is also not man enough to confront directly. It sounds like he is insufferable (because I've had guys like that who treated me that way despite my—in my estimation—benevolent intentions), but in the end, he's probably not happy either. No man can truly be if he doesn't feel like a man. It's like y…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 02:27 AM
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Women cum the hardest getting fucked cold-blooded, but a part of women's blue-pill cultural beliefs is that the aggressive/dominant part of male sexuality is nurture (by a tyrannical socially-constructed patriarchal culture) rather than nature, and so they want to believe sexual magic, love, and happiness can occur without it. Then they experience it and cum hard from it and are conflicted, not understanding why it's so hot to them, and feeling like they betrayed the sisterhood by submitting to …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:21 PM
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Being feminine doesn't make you miserable; it just makes you relate to the other gender in a subordinate manner which women actually enjoy. And being masculine doesn't make you fake; it just makes you operate in the world from a position of domination. Gender instincts/energies are part of the biology of the human animal. The choices made by the individual are a result of their own personal quality and come from their consciousness.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 09:29 PM
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Yes, I do agree with that and that's how I interpreted it. It's the strength in general that moves a male up in rank/hierarchy, surpassing other males; the strength that makes the one at the top (the alpha) be there. The strength in your energy, and physically, frame, influence, status, etcetera.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 10:38 AM
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Thank you for plugging this, I found it on amazon, it sounds extremely interesting and I'll read it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 09:22 AM
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I resonate with this. If I were to try to put it in words, it's as if you are making her submit, with your dick. More and more so with each thrust. And all your moves are in alignment with this theme. It's engaging in the psychology that fucking her is degrading her (literal definition: to lower the grade of something). Not misogyny (i.e. unhealthy degradation or degradation for the wrong reasons {having a chip on your shoulder}), but healthy, normal, natural domination (the way we evolved); whi…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 08:55 AM
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There was a book, I don't remember if it was Kezia Noble's, or Marni [Something]'s book called "Get Inside Her", but it was written by a woman so I think it was one of those two. The author says an activity was done (can't remember if the author organized it or someone else) in which a group of women (can't remember how many; a workshop full of them?) were asked to write down a list of all the desirable attributes/qualities they would want in an ideal man. Then they were asked to narrow that lis…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:08 AM
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From what I understood she rented a bedroom inside his and his mom's apartment.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:11 AM
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Hey there. I just realized my reply to you was "shadowbanned", most likely because it included a link. You can see it on my profile though from 5 days ago, it just occurred to me to check this. The original said: "90-day Fiance", and it included the site where I watched it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:14 PM
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Personally I opt for and recommend changing one's beliefs, because they are the root of virtually all our problems. I know and practice an effective intervention if you're curious to try it over an Internet voice call. No charge.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:00 AM
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If you look at it from the girls' perspective he's a fucking loser, and women hate letting men they deem inferior get away with stuff. They get off on stomping on them on the ground with their high heels. Why do I say that? Look at his demeanor, the looks, the voice, the frame, the status, everything. And it really wasn't even funny; the "are you a mom" thing. The only reason "negs" exist is because of insecurity in the person using them; trying to "knock down" a girl from an imagined pedestal a…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:29 AM
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I think this post will probably get deleted because I made one myself about a reality show, it got deleted, and then I realized there was a rule about not posting stuff about shows.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:14 AM
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I know you didn't ask me but I would put it like this: Being a gentleman means treating people with the sufficient amount of etiquette, respect, manners, generosity, and good intentions one would expect of a normal, balanced, "grown-up" person. This in no way implies "no balls". It makes you a "full" man. The confusion of some people could lie in the fact that a gentleman treats other people well, and, isn't that the same as being "nice"? No. The essence of being "nice" is being neutered. Having…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 04:36 AM
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"All you want me for is sex". From David X: "Hmm, let's see... I have a back scratcher I pay my own bills I'm organized at home I'm a pretty good cook... You know? You're right!"
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:50 PM
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I will never understand how a woman will disregard everything that is 100 percent certain about her hardworking, faithful and dutiful husband/father to take a chance with the "other man" because...I don't know - feelings maybe? From "The Alabaster Girl": But think about it... would a woman really throw it all away for the fleeting notion of a mere fling? Does she really desire that fantasy-romance-novel life more than the one she currently inhabits? Would she really trade her life with her kind,…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:01 PM
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I know you didn't ask for my opinion, but I'll tell you something. My "gut reaction" to your post is that you live out of your intellect. There's different "layers" to a person's "self" other than the intellect. People who are dumber (or people who are more right-brained or whole-brained) tend to be more in touch with their intuition rather than having to dissect and logically analyze everything, which isn't in itself necessarily a bad thing, but it can lead to getting lost trying to understand …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:14 AM
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Well, this is the most clear and informed I've been about this until now, thanks. (Oh, a full interview with Rollo, cool. I'll watch that now.)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 10:30 PM
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I think a year. For no other reason than that's the "sense" I've gotten from previous talks; that they wait from a number of months to a year to release them in full for free, but I don't really know. It's just an estimation I made up in my mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 08:55 AM
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Yes, my single biggest piece of advice for doing anything that one finds difficult as a result of fear, is to get rid of the fear by diving directly into the beliefs that cause the fear. I'm good with beliefs so if you want you can PM me and I'll give you some free coaching over Skype/Hangouts. (Same for anyone else reading this)
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:31 AM
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Sure. When I look at all the guys out there teaching stuff, for the most part I notice a distinct lack of core "redpill" understanding. All of these three guys "get it" at a deep core. From Johnny Soporno, I realized the utter ridiculousness and madness of our societal/cultural beliefs and paradigms regarding sex, and how they corner women very unfairly into positions of guilt and shame if they choose what feels good to them, and I learned his attitude of being a friend to women. Being on their …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:04 AM
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I will say this. I've been interested in learning about these subjects (women and dating) for about ten years. And I've read and watched a ton of stuff from all kinds of sources. Even though in the end, The Red Pill was the single biggest and most powerful chunk of my learning, before I stumbled upon it (around 4 years ago), I learned a lot from individual people who were out there teaching things they knew. Among them were Alan Roger Currie, Zan Perrion and Johnny Soporno. Who are probably the …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:08 AM
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Nice example. Fascinating how these things correlate innit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 04:50 AM
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That's really interesting to me how even when the dad is that "violent" (feminist labeling), it only makes the daughters more stable, whereas feminists would push to convince you that that kind of demeanor is completely unacceptable and try to eradicate it. Of course, that strong/violent/masculine energy has to be directed outwardly in a manner that is protective of the family for the daughter to grow up stable (as I imagine was the case with your ex-girlfriend), vs someone who directs it inward…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 12:09 AM
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I enjoyed this short anecdote(s). It just occurred to me how even the mother needs the man's strength to fall back on and feel safe and not be neurotic, and be able to raise the children properly, which single mothers don't have. So not only the children don't have that, but also the mother needs that and without it there's entropy. With it, stability flows downwards from the head of the family to the mother to the children.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 12:01 AM
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In a study, it was found that women are turned on by fear + being wanted/taken/fucked. When they tested without the desiring/taking/fucking and it was only fear (e.g. a rabid dog chasing them up a flight of stairs), the arousal wasn't there. It was only when it was aggresion/fear coupled with that intent to fuck them. Source: https://www.amazon.com/What-Do-Women-Want-Adventures-ebook/dp/B009NG1SQ2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1508624869&sr=8-1
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 10:26 PM
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The "feminist" attitude is ego, which comes from fear. Women that are balanced don't need that. When men are weak, the fathers are weak; the raising of their daughters is weak; girls don't feel that strength to fall back on; they feel vulnerable, which makes them neurotic. Makes them need everything to be 110% safe or else they're more neurotic. Places with strong (i.e. balanced) men are places where daughters feel safe. They're not neurotic, they don't feel threatened/anxious/triggered everywhe…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 10:15 PM
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Yes, we can all be strong and happy and gay, yay! ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:38 AM
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Yes. Just don't mistake bad game in which you make it all about conquering her vagina like you said (which turns her off), with having a healthy hunger for it (which turns her on). And they're also nervous and full of insecurities a lot, so a lot of times we're in the same boat. They just express very differently from us.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:11 AM
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Not being receptive isn't not caring. Being too feminine is what makes her sick and cause her to leave.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:05 AM
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I'd never thought about that, that's cool.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:42 PM
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I think when a person digs down to the deepest, deepest foundations of something, the understanding that comes with it shaves off thick layers of filler, and it allows you to 'get it' at its core and see clearer and bigger pictures. I think this concept is a foundation of our animal blueprint, and all the ramifications that stem from it can afterwards be understood in their proper contexts with more nuance. One thing I do remember from Mark's book was a flawed understanding of women's erotic des…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:26 PM
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Let's pretend the external is put aside, and we only focus on the internal. A redpill newcomer can go on a date and be very, very receptive to his date (on the inside), while on the outside, he does everything right on paper: Not reactive to her, only proactive. Following redpill advice. But what about the inside? The fact that he's very nervous in the first place means that he's receptive. Mentally, he's still looking up to her, calculating his every word and action so as for her to like it, an…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:07 PM
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To this I would add, don't forget that women are a huge pleasure. Yes, there's some fears we have to get over in being with them, but ultimately, they're a joy more than an imposing trial to be overcome. Always look on the bright side.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:59 PM
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Thank you. I agree with this, and, a man who is the ultimate manifestation of rock-like energy is the one source she will want to be receptive to the most, for guidance and approval. Which to a man would be humiliating but to women it's exhilarating and freeing.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:51 PM
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I skimmed it once and thought it was okay. What section?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:49 PM
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The boss receives input from the employees while still being the masculine. To avoid being feminine isn't to shut down your brain. "Disconnection" is meant in the sense of, stop mentally placing others above you trying to find out how/what you should be to make sure they approve.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:47 PM
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Think of the jerkest jerk you can possibly imagine. Typical macho, serious, aggressive type. Intimidating. Notice how he is not open at all. He doesn't listen to anyone, he only does what he wants. Is he wrong/ignorant? Maybe. Do women care? Not at the feeling level. Logic and reason are great tools that we should always use, but always remember that at the end of the day, women's genitals respond only to domination.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:41 PM
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I agree it's not necessary. Nevertheless, I find it very curious how women have that gut-level attraction to them.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:05 PM
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Thank you. One guidepost I use is, I think about times when I've cared/worried what a girl thinks (me being receptive to her), and then I realize that they're the ones who should be that way toward me, and I adjust.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:33 AM
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Everyone has feminine and masculine energy within them to some degree at any given time. Not a matter of right vs. wrong or good and bad. For instance, the dynamic with your boss is necessary. However, be the same way with your plate and it all goes downhill.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:13 AM
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Disconnected from receptivity, not from everything. Some males disconnect from everything (anti-socially) out of avoidance. Fear of facing what's there. That fear is receptivity. Be social, non-receptively.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:23 AM
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