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RPADestiny/r/askMRP14/01/22 05:32 PM
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You’re fucking up even more right now by letting this shit go to your head. Reframe this shit and learn from it. I fuck up regularly with my wife (probably not in huge blowup ways) and I just say to myself “oh man you fucked up there and should have handled that differently” but I always own it. The last time I fucked up big we didn’t talk for about a day and then she decided to tell me how she didn’t like what I had to say to her the other night. I kept it short and simple and basically said th…
/r/askMRP07/03/22 05:31 PM
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Look at your behavior and pretend you are your wife for a second. Are you someone that you would want to follow through hell and back? Just pretend for a moment that you are your wife and you’re married to you in these various scenarios you’ve listed out. The point is that you aren’t there. Nobody wants to follow you. You aren’t a valuable enough guy. Quit worrying about your wife and what she thinks. Keep your mouth shut, lift heavy weights and work on your own shit. Quit telling her what you w…
/r/askMRP11/02/22 07:44 PM
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The point is that you’re taking her seriously. Why the fuck do you care what she thinks. Some of the comments you make like asking her why she sounds upset. You’ve got a lot of work to do. Your wife clearly runs you. Not the other way around. Your entire post is littered with hers and shes. You’re entirely in her frame. You’re reactive. Go back to basics.
/r/askMRP11/02/22 05:55 PM
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Didn’t even read pst the first main paragraph. Here is some advice: if you had a four year old blabbing all this shit how would you treat it? That’s your answer. Your wife is a child. Treat her as such.
/r/askMRP11/02/22 05:41 PM
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I hear you. I really do. Reminds me of something I picked up somewhere in the red pill space that I tell myself when we have had an argument or are butting heads: "don't try and fix the problem/stop worrying about making things 'okay'". I guess I take that as be okay with being the bad guy and own it because women are cutthroat and you're just being used if you aren't playing the same hypergamy game. I just need to keep mowing down my ingrained beta shit so this stuff becomes nothing but an inst…
/r/askMRP16/01/22 04:24 PM
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Yea because I've addressed those issues over the past year instead of kept quiet. That's what I'm getting at. Maybe I need to quit dancing around the weight issue. But at the same time I get your point. I'm not gonna go "either loose the weight or hit the road jack!". But I'm not going to pretend she's not unhealthy and overweight just to make her feel good or avoid her negative reaction/emotions on the topic.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 08:51 PM
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Yea I have thought of doing that. The idea of her crying doesn't bug me much anymore thanks to red pill. Well, it doesn't bug me enough to stop me from saying something for the most part (I'm not perfect at this yet, only been studying red pill for a year). I know in the back of my mind that her weight is a big deal. So I have been a pussy when it comes to that. I guess you're right Rian, the thought of her crying makes me wanna roll my eyes and sigh like "here we go...". But I have made huge pr…
/r/askMRP15/01/22 08:22 PM
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2 autistic thumbs up. Thank you.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 04:39 AM
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Guess you were wrong.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 03:14 AM
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Nice. Thank you!
/r/askMRP15/01/22 02:45 AM
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I literally replied how helpful the OG comment was. This has nothing to do with my original post. It's everything to do with redundancy on your part.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 02:44 AM
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Some other sad sack of shit posted that. Try reading the comments first.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 02:40 AM
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Damn dude. Thank you. I listen to Rian and Rollo like crazy but never came across this on Jack's channel.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:59 AM
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Lmao, I love it. I mean that too. Ty.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:53 AM
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Nice. Thanks!
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:52 AM
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First of all, fuck you. Second, you're right.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:50 AM
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No shit Sherlock homes. Wtf do you think I'm saying here? That I was never a blue pilled beta who let my wife gain a bunch of weight after being with child? This is about dealing with the fact that I was blue pilled for years and now I'm cleaning the mess up. Why do you even think guys even discover red pill? Move on numbskull.
/r/askMRP15/01/22 12:55 AM
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Good advice. Thanks. I'll have to work on that and cut the fitness nerd shit. I can get way too intense when someone asks me about a subject/hobby I'm really into and just over explain and over load someone with info. It's a lot like DEERing I'm guessing.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 11:48 PM
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Where does one learn these powers? I've heard other dudes talking about this like it's easy. I enjoy flirting and a little bit of catch and release action but I never push it to any point past innuendo and laughs. It seems like it would be a hassle to be fucking on the side when you're married with kids. Like I would spend a ton of time making sure my tracks are covered and paranoid because women talk and shit gets around. Is the key to this just not caring if your wife finds out. Does this go b…
/r/askMRP14/01/22 11:44 PM
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I might actually do this. I don’t even know if you’re being funny or not but she will come home regularly with some take out or fast food bullshit. Would be funny and send a message to just grab it out of her hands and throw it in the trash.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 09:09 PM
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Male 32 yrs/5 9/185lbs/15-20% bodyfat (mirror) I don't do one rep maxes since I lift in my home gym alone but my current high lifts are BP 225lb x6, SQ 265lb x8, RDL 185lb x12 (I was doing regular deadlift a lot heavier around 240lbs for about 5 or 6 reps but switched them out for Romanian and do much lower weight and higher reps on those because of strict form). You're right, I've been very hands off with her on fitness and health. She has asked me for help a handful of times and I jump in and …
/r/askMRP14/01/22 09:06 PM
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It means I do my shit regardless of her. I live my life the way I wanna live it and I do the things I wanna do without influence from her. AKA, if I leave her tomorrow I'm doing the same shit I was the next day. She has asked for help. I have given her a detailed and nerdy breakdown and explanation about how weight loss happens in the kitchen and even helped her figure out her BMR and set her up with a calorie tracker and the amount of calories she needs to shoot for every day to loose x-amount …
/r/askMRP14/01/22 08:58 PM
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I’ll have to sell her vehicle. A lot of it is just junky take out food she orders or picks up after work.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 08:07 PM
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I know what you’re saying. Mine has spent loads of money on online bullshit weight loss shakes and crap in the past. And I sometimes hear her listening to clueless “fitness influencers” on social media spewing feel good nonsense about diet and exercise.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 07:16 PM
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So tell me in a non cryptic fashion how in the hell I'm supposed to handle this issue? I think what you're saying is that I've got a lot of work to do on myself still. I don't disagree and I don't mean to sound like I've fixed everything about me over the past year. I'm simply saying I'm off to a strong start with learning Red Pill and I'm currently hung up on fat wife not losing weight when everything else has improved drastically within my marriage and life. So do I continue to tell myself "10…
/r/askMRP14/01/22 06:24 PM
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Hmm. Thinking back. There have been a number of times over the past year where she got all jacked up to start some weight loss or working out journey but then she just fizzled out after a few weeks. I might just need to take command and bark orders to her with this stuff. I don’t think she has any idea what to do and I have a lot of knowledge at this point about eating and working out combined.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 06:05 PM
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First of all, your question is dumb as shit. It just shows that you've done no work, no reading, no nothing and you're a dumbass. Read the fucking sidebar moron. I can't believe you are even asking if a thing like gaming is wrapped up in the concept of frame. Jesus fucking christ dude. Having said that, to answer your question more directly: If you actually do your homework and get your shit together you will find that gaming becomes naturally less and less of an escape from your shitty blue pil…
/r/askMRP03/01/22 04:16 AM
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I mean it's very simple: Are you doing a thing with the expectation that someone will do a thing in return for the thing you are doing? That's a covert contract. Quit doing it. It's passive aggressive female and beta male energy. Stop doing things with expectations attached that are COVERT. It's fine to be OVERT (like a man) and say you want or expect something but don't go Rambo with it either.
/r/askMRP18/12/21 03:14 AM
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