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| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Sounds like you're upset about your reaction and now you're getting upset at the comments that imply you didn't handle the situation optimally. You don't have to start a fight. You don't have to stand up. You don't have to say anything. Everything can be communicated through eye contact. So if I look you in your eyes until you look down sheepishly I have asserted my dominance over you without threatening, doing, or saying anything to you. And if you react to it poorly, it just makes you look bad… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Be handsome?I'm maybe slightly above average in looks and I consistently pull women from guys that are significantly more attractive than myself. Stop making excuses. RSDTyler is a balding middle age overweight ginger of average height that pulls 10s and is 1 of the most prominent figures in the pickup community. If looks mattered as much to women as they do to men, do you think that would be possible? Women can smell your insecurity. And your insecurity about your looks makes you much more unattractive tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Let's be real here. All this advice about being the bigger man, or mindset, or being alpha, is not the key point here. The key is using your brain. Look at the guy. Does he look physically superior to you? If you were to honestly evaluate the situation as an impartial bystander, who do you think would win the fight? That's what your reaction should be based on. If you're physically superior to him, don't antagonize him but continue to look him in the eyes, smiling, and assert your dominance. If … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | In response to "Looks really are everything" PostFrom an evolutionary psychology perspective, physical attractiveness in men is an indicator of good health. According to the red queen hypothesis, if you live in a pathogen dense area (think 3rd world countries) and still manage to be good looking, it means you have good genes which are capable of battling the local pathogens. Therefore women find you more desirable and are even willing to share you rather than having a monogamous relationships with a man who has inferior genes. However, most of… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | As if you needed another reason to get your daily 8 hours, a new study has come out linking lack of sleep to a larger waistlineNothing is "better". He asked me what I did and then y'all got upset at my response. That's a loser mindset to have. I'm not framing my lifestyle as advice for you, however it works well for me. Not everybody is capable of putting in the same amount of effort or struggle into what they want to accomplish. But only losers blame others who do things they can't achieve themselves. The greatest example of this would be what's currently going on in professional MMA. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 09:20 PM |
| -1 | As if you needed another reason to get your daily 8 hours, a new study has come out linking lack of sleep to a larger waistlineMeditation For complex projects: adderall and caffeine. I do have some days when I catch up on sleep but for the most part my body has adapted. I've been able to train myself to function even in unpleasant situations. Cold showers. Sleeping on the floor. Fasting. Endurance exercises. I'm not necessarily recommending this for everyone, it's just what I do. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 08:53 AM |
| -5 | As if you needed another reason to get your daily 8 hours, a new study has come out linking lack of sleep to a larger waistlineI sleep from 3-6 hours a night except for Sundays and I have perfect abs which I continue to work on every other day. Sleep is great. But when you're young and trying to become successful, you will have to choose between sleep and success. Because as great as sleep is, success is better. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to believe at this point.Best method for threesomes during the night time which has worked for me personally is this: I lead the interaction. Usually approach 1 girl (preferably in club environment) and do basic game. Try to be social with people around me while talking to her. Ask her if she's ever kissed a girl before. Then grab another girl and pull her into our conversation. Key is grabbing the other girl in a smooth way (i can't really describe this in words, you just gotta know how to do this) and dominantly sayin… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 02:50 AM |
| 7 | TRP and Female OrgasmIt is inevitable that quality of sex with the same person will decease over time. The most exciting part of sex is the danger, the spontaneity, the mystery and lack of knowledge about what will happen. Every woman looks slightly different naked, feels slightly different, sounds slightly different, cums slightly different. Personally for this reason as well as a strong biological predisposition to spread my seed to as many women as possible, I tend to avoid monogamous ltrs. If you are in an ltr a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 02:42 AM |
| 2 | My accidental use of Dread Game on my exGood job. It feels good to end the relationship on your terms and even get some goodbye fucks out of it. A lot of the material on TRP can be really helpful to you both with personal growth and social growth/success with women. However, always remember that posts can be made by anyone so if it's not on the sidebar, don't take the advice as fact. Always try to think about whatever you read logically. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 02:39 AM |
| 29 | Beware of the broken/rebounding womenSo let me get this straight, you wrote a field report about a tinder match who you failed to meet up with, and the whole time you didn't know what her face looked like? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 12:11 AM |
| 18 | Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks outDear iizkaraa, I will gladly explain this to you, although I'm sure it won't change your already preformed opinion. Our current social norms are beneficial to some people and detrimental to others. For attractive women, the current social norms are extremely beneficial. Due to anisogamy, men and women must mate in order to pass on our genes. However, sperm are tiny, numerous, and cheap, while eggs are few, large, and expensive. Therefore, the sex that has to give up more natural resources for pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/17 10:39 PM |
| 224 | Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks outYet another post that confirms the basic premises of this sub. There are different biological and social expectations for men than for women. Here is proof. There is no such thing as gender equality. Only balance between the genders. One of the most useful skills you can learn is to ignore all the SJW hamstering. It doesn't offer anything of value and it's mostly useless drivel constantly updated with made up terminology. Don't let it bother you. Don't react to it. Realistically, those people ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 2 | A Case For Female Friends in Late Teens and Early 20sIf you're capable of having attractive female friends and you're happy doing so, I don't see an issue with it. Personally I am incapable of maintaining platonic relationships with attractive women. It is inevitable than whenever I enter a long term friendship with an attractive woman, we will eventually either sleep together, or drift apart. And I haven't gotten any value out of being friends with ugly/fat women. To each their own though. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Man works himself to death for his family, still treated like a shit.I'm currently studying for an evolutionary psych class and felt this might be relevant. Our desire to mate/have sex is biological and due to our desire to procreate and pass on our genes. There are 2 types of mating strategies. Long term mating strategies and short term mating strategies. Short term mating strategies are biologically more appealing to men. Long term mating strategies are biologically more appealing to women. This can be explained by the fact that Eggs are few, large, and costly,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 04:36 AM |
| 1 | When a girl is too submissiveBeen in a similar situation mate. Ultimately I dumped her. It destroyed her and she would desperately hit me up whenever I was in town. Pretty much saying and willing to do whatever to get back together. Of course I turned the offer down. I'm just not built for monogamy. No matter how few flaws the girl may have, I will always eventually get bored | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.This is the wrong attitude to have. I agree you shouldn't be insecure about it. Have a good time and don't worry about your performance the whole time. Also don't ask her how you're doing. If you're good in bed, you'll know. If you have to ask, you're probably not good in bed. That being said; Sex is like anything. If you're going to be doing something a lot, you might as well get good at it. If you plan on having a lot of sex, you might as well learn how to do it well. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | The Nuance of Intergender "Friendships"Don't get complacent. She wants to go out with other guys, then you go practice your game too. She'll lose interest in that other guy as soon as she sees you've got 5 other girls texting you. Women get bored of you if you get comfortable. Never give them your undivided love/attention. Because once you have nothing new to offer them, they seek out someone who does. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 07:59 AM |
| 9 | TRP says don't shit where you eat. I ignored that advice and it predictably backfired on me, and rightfully so. Don't shit where you eat, it's not worth it.This sounds like the plot to a low budget comedy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 07:47 AM |
| 1 | My first two experiences in a new town where girls thought me going to jail was a joke.iPhones have an excellent app called a "voice recorder". It doesn't take up nearly as much space as a video and your phone doesn't have to be in a certain position to film you having sex. Also voice recordings are much more likely to be admissible in court than a video recorded without her consent. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Kicked plate out of my carThis comment perfectly sums up my thoughts on this post. Well done. Take your upvote | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | That feeling you get as soon as you nutAgreed. We do it for the sense of accomplishment. When I nut I don't care about the girl anymore, but I still feel good about the fact that I just banged an attractive woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Kabbalah and being alphaI'm very familiar with this feeling. I accomplished all my goals. Educational, social, and physical. I have money. Women to fuck whenever I want. I'm in great shape. But it's empty. So I read. Hoping to find something to inspire me. To make me feel passionately. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | UHH, TRP BECOMING TOO PUBLIC?? HELP IDKSomething I learned from my mentor in business school is to never share your goals before you accomplish them. Telling people you're going to lose 50 lbs makes you feel good. The support and positive reaction people respond with makes you feel good. You feel so good that you don't even bother putting in the effort to lose 50 lbs. Because losing 50 lbs takes effort while telling people you're going to lose 50 lbs takes no effort. Similarly, there's no reason to talk about TRP. There's no reason t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Stoicism: The rational approach to happiness (practical pessimism, destroying "positive thinking", a complimentary philosophy)Excellent post! One of the best I've read in a while. Thank you for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Tucker Max- 100% Real? All Fake? Exaggerated?I've read his stories right before attending university. I found them incredibly entertaining. Were they true? Possibly Were they exaggerated? Most likely But were they entertaining? Definitely And that is the job of a good author. He did his job. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 09:32 PM |
| 13 | "FBI translator married Isis recruiter she was meant to be investigating"Honestly I'm impressed. His skype game was probably excellent. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Met a natural alpha and I was a beta again.I'm going to drop a harsh truth on you. That's a loser attitude to have. No matter what you do, there will be someone out there who does it better. That's why you have to improve. A good way to do that is to learn from people who do it better. You should watch this guy and try to emulate his behavior. Learn from him. Obviously don't just straight up copy his style but adapt what he does to your own personality. Don't look for excuses to quit or give up. Excuses are for losers. Successful people … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Listen to her BODY!!!!Would be interesting if this is even remotely true. However it's definitely not universal. I look people straight in the eyes when I lie to them. If I look to the left it's not an indicator that I'm lying,but simply me looking to the left. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 03:01 AM |
| 7 | Don't Make A Fuss About It (Whatever It Is)Here is my 2 cents on the situation. Whenever I am in an ltr or even a str with a woman and she begins to yell at me, I don't respond. All I do while she yells is stare her down. If she tries to hit me (usually in hopes of provoking a reaction), I grab her arms and hold them so she can't move. Due to the fact that I lift and do mma, this is very easy for me and she does not pose any threat. After she is done yelling she looks at me like a child looks at her father after she has done wrong. I res… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/17 03:22 AM |
| 35 | When improvement outpaces confidenceI like this post. First off I like the lack of excuses. That was on you. This was not her fault, not the timing, not the vibe, it was you throwing away an opportunity. By recognizing that, you've already taken the first step to avoiding having it happen again. This post is definitely something I can relate to so let me share how I helped myself to deal with this. The first thing I did was to define in which situations I wouldn't approach women. Consider this your personal zone. For example, I to… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Today's news.com.au hit-piece - "What Young Men Really Want" (written by a woman)There was a huffington post article written by a person who's gender im not certain of, that talked about how much better the world would be if we took away white men's ability to vote. There are lots of shit articles out there. Not much else you can do with a degree in feminist studies and a minor in philosophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 06:43 PM |
| 7 | TRP and just being an altogether smart manThis is a good post but I cracked up reading the comments. Playing a musical instrument doesn't make you beta. Neither does playing chess. Or knowing history. Being beta is a state of mind. If you worry about whether a woman will find your hobbies/talents sexy, you are a beta. I've picked up girls playing Pokémon go. One time a girl asked me what I did last weekend, and I said I played runescape. It doesn't matter what you say or do. It's how you say or do it. Don't be afraid or nervous to talk … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 09:01 AM |
| 4 | Women are Scared of Real MenSounds like you're complaining about a power dynamic that's unfavorable towards you, rather than focusing on what you can do to circumvent this obstacle and accomplish your goals. This subreddit is for self improvement. If you want to complain about women and make excuses for not getting laid, go somewhere else. Your post brings nothing of value to this sub. Men who have swallowed the red pill do not make excuses. Excuses will get you nowhere. Complaining about privilege will get you nowhere. St… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Letting her rant (dad has cancer)Just because it did not work for you does not mean it will not work for others. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 08:03 AM |
| 9 | Letting her rant (dad has cancer)Just let her rant. She's losing her dad, that's a huge deal. Women are emotional creatures. She needs to talk it out. Don't be an emotional tampon but also don't be a dick. She's suffering. Oh and if she starts venting about it to another guy, consider your relationship over. A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Guy Creates Panty Drying Dating ResumeGood post. I didn't need to read any of it because looking at his "dating resume" was enough motivation for me. Fuck my rest day, I'm going back to the gym now. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Flake and HamsterSounds like a wasted opportunity. And while I am a big fan of not replying to women's texts, you easily coulda salvaged that if you had replied. However it is tinder so you really didn't lose much. Try cold approaching if you want to post more field reports. Reading tinder field reports is boring. (Congrats you got laid of an app people only use to get laid. That's 1 step above a hooker.) Anyways good luck in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:28 AM |
| 6 | How far down the SJW rabbit hole do you want to go, motherfucker?Doesn't affect or bother me. I have no desire to sleep with my mother and she has no desire to sleep with me. Furthermore this male is sleeping with his mother who I find repulsive, so he is not my competition. Therefore he is irrelevant. You have the wrong mindset. Let liberals believe what they want. Their beliefs keep them down and stop them from getting in your way. By talking shit about or trying to change their beliefs, you're on the same level as them. Wasting your time trying to make a d… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is Engineering a Losers' Profession?Engineers get paid well. Women like money. Money gives you power. Yes there are a lot of blue pilled men in engineering. The nerdy kids who hated social interaction would much rather speak to a computer through code, than a person through verbal and nonverbal communication. But that doesn't mean that engineering is a loser profession. Any profession that pays well is a good profession. If you take the red pill and learn what this sub has to offer, you can attract women regardless of your profess… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:12 AM |
| 12 | Women, their relationship with gay men, and their accusations of "homophobia"(hint: it's all rooted in misandry)First off, homophobia or homophobe is a word that has been ruined by SJWs just like words such as feminism, rape, racism, sexism, etc... They use this word to generalize men who don't like homosexuality. Which is incorrect. First off, as op said, nobody fears gay men. What people fear is becoming gay against their will. They fear that by allowing and normalizing homosexuality, they or their relatives/friends/kids may one day wake up and realize they're gay. This may seem irrational, but so are m… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:07 AM |
| 149 | Don't save her. She does NOT want to be saved.If her family likes you, she will probably cheat on you. Girls need to be stimulated. The kind of guy that impresses mommy and daddy doesn't make her wet. She wants a guy that's exciting. The kind of guy that will take control and turn her on to the point where she's willing to fuck him in a bar bathroom. As advanced as human beings seem to be, we are animals and our deepest carnal desires are biological. Women may preach feminism and equality but they still want a man to take charge. Not with h… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 12:38 AM |
| 11 | FR, failed to escalateAlways try to maintain eye contact. That is a habit you should build. If you're with her and she is clearly into you, go for the kiss any time the eye contact lasts longer than 3 seconds. Never panic and look away. In this specific situation, as soon as your legs started touching, i would of put my hand on her leg and looked her right in the eyes. If she maintained eye contact for 3 seconds I'd go in for the kiss. Every situation is different but eye contact is always useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 12:33 AM |
| 2 | My Cousin is A Beta And I'm So Sad About ThisWhoever cares less about the relationship is in control of the relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | A reminder that sensible people must wage war against censorship and SJW-ismThis post is ignorant. You think that only the other party has flaws, because the sources that feed you this info are biased against them. Both parties are much more similar than you think. Both parties are controlled by billionaires attempting to use their money to gain as much political influence as possible. Both parties are at this point full of people trying to improve their standing and move upwards financially and politically. Nobody gives a shit about the best interests of the country or… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Incel who thinks he's escaped inceldom by being cuckWhy did you post this here? This is in no way red pill content. You're making fun of some guy who just saw a vagina in real life for the first time. Does that make you feel better about your own failures? Sure his story is pathetic, but so is your need to share this and make fun of him. Even though I will admit the title was funny. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 10:01 AM |
| 2 | My 5 plates - and some lessons I have learned in my decade long PUA/RP journeyI like your first plate. I wouldn't mind having a girl like that. An unpaid housekeeper that will cook for me. Her low sex drive makes no difference as long as she doesn't expect monogamy. I can go fuck sluts any day but if I come home to a clean house and dinner ready for me, I'd be pretty ecstatic. Sounds like she doesn't need a lot to keep her happy either. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Think Pickup is Creepy (and Why they're Wrong)I don't care if women think pickup is creepy. It's clearly working on them seeing as they're sleeping with me. Women have no idea what they want. The worst advice I've ever gotten about women has been from women. A woman will spend all day telling you that she wants a nice guy who treats her well, respects her, shares his feelings, and isn't afraid to show his emotions. Then she goes home with an asshole like me who doesn't even remember her name. Don't listen to what women say about getting wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sI'm currently a university student and with tuition/housing costs, money is tight. I figured that I spent years learning how to pickup women and I might as well put those skills to use to get myself a nice meal once or twice a week. I'm not saying it's my proudest accomplishment, but I also can't say I'm ashamed. Just doing what makes my life better. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up on a daily basis is cool but it can get boring and hurtfulI agree to an extent. Sleeping with different women every night who you feel nothing towards, does get boring after a while. So here's what I did after I got bored: First I stopped using tinder except for the occasional free dinner. When it comes to getting laid, tinder is 1 step above fucking a hooker. It's incredibly easy and aside from getting a nut, pretty much pointless. There's no feeling of achievement from fucking a girl off tinder. Not using tinder to get laid made it more difficult bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Where the quality bitches at?Here's a thought. Maybe you keep getting slutty girls because those are the type of girls willing to fuck you. Maybe your SMV isn't high enough. Maybe you don't exhibit the type of aura or behavior that non slutty girls are looking for. But to imply that all women are like this is just an excuse you tell yourself. There are 3.5 billion women on this planet. Let's assume that at least 50 million of them are fuckable. What do you think is more likely? That there isn't a single girl out of 50 milli… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 09:08 AM |
| 6 | They didn't care -- in fact, I think they liked itI hooked up with a girl and she liked it pretty rough. I looked in the mirror afterwards and she left hickeys on my neck. The next day I went to a party and every girl that came up to me commented on the hickeys. I made out with a bunch of them and brought 1 home. Women find it incredibly attractive to know that other women want you. Women are competitive and their behavior exhibits a strong social desirability effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sIf it makes you feel better I'm a guy and I do a variation of this as well. I don't really like online dating because it takes the sense of achievement out of it for me. However I need something to do while taking shits and tinder is perfect. So what I like to do is when I match with a girl on tinder, I'll invite her to meet up with me at a restaurant. I'll tease her about bringing money cuz I'm not a cheap date. Then I order whatever I want, and eat most of it. Flirt with her the whole time, ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 08:33 AM |
| 0 | How good is pick up artistry in SJW heavy cities?Yes. And interestingly enough, many vocally feminist women like to be dominated in bed. Sjws are usually shy beta pussies trying to impress women with their niceness. But sexual attraction is uncontrollable. Women aren't sexually attracted to these guys. They crave a dominant confidant alpha male who won't put up with their shit, no matter how much they try to deny it. My experience is more in the realm of hookups than relationships though. I would never want to be in a relationship with a woman… | /r/seduction | 12/03/17 03:11 AM |
| 6 | My true intentions ?It's a basic shit test. Tons of ways to respond. Main thing is to not get defensive. Simplest response would be: "to take you out" | /r/seduction | 12/03/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Is "hi" really enough?You can literally say anything as an opener. It's all about the perception you give off. If you're a confident guy who has something to say and doesn't give a fuck about her response, she will be a lot more into you. I've gone up to a group of girls and opened with, "I'm about to ruin your friendship." "What's up I'm Dro." Watch those videos where guys approach girls with stupid openers and still end up getting the number. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 04:32 AM |
| 14 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementI have been truly officially dumped only once in my life. It was my first ltr and I was devastated. This was many years ago, before I used Reddit or knew about pickup other than from the book, "The Game". Out of anger at my ex and a desire to inflict that feeling I felt on as many women as possible (I was a young angry vindictive fucker), I decided to improve myself. Working out and reading lots of interesting literature so I'd have stuff to talk about. I quit gaming and spent my time learning r… | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | The Ten Commandments for Hooking Up with your FuckbuddyI don't agree with a lot of these. My fuck buddies come to me and are happy for the fact that I am willing to spend time with them. Also you're absolutely right about doggy style. It's the easiest position for a woman to orgasm in while being fucked. However I dont like doggy style. It bores me. Fuck buddies are there for a reason. No point having the same sex in the same position. Experiment. I've found so many cool positions just trying stuff out with a girl I was fucking that happened to be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever just looked at people getting girls and thought "wtf is wrong with me"?Some people are naturals. Naturally extroverted, naturally alpha, naturally attractive, naturally confident talking to women. Most people are not though. So they have to learn. All of these things can be learned. Sure it's unfair some people got them naturally. But contrary to popular belief, whining about it won't help you. If you want something, you gotta put in the effort to get it. Rather than complaining that your neighbor already has it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 08:24 PM |
| 2 | This sub made me realize why I was/am crushing on that girlCheck /r/theredpill If you can ignore the cynical misogynistic content, you will be exposed to a wealth of information from people that came from situations just like yours. As for your situation, you will never get this girl. To her you are a beta friend who gives her puppy like affection but nothing more. She's not sexually attracted to you. That sucks but it's ok. Also telling her your feelings for her was a bad move. Girls don't get wet when a platonic male friend bares his soul to her. Neve… | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 08:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Insta-Date! Sort of...Hey man you're awesome! Good work! It's so nice to see a thread on here that's not about tinder or online dating. You actually got off your ass, stopped looking for an easy way to get laid, and approached. Respect. Also good job. Keep approaching other girls while you plan the date with this 1. That will keep you from getting too attached to the outcome and will therefore make her want you more. Women want a guy who will be ok with or without them because that means he has value on his own, and … | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | When Neg theory back-fires, need help.The people in the comments already answered your question perfectly but you shouldn't be trying to neg over Facebook messenger anyways. Just tease a bit. If you want to neg then do it in person so you can be perceptive of social cues. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Best way to eat a girl out?Tease. She should already be bucking and trying to press up against your face by the time you're kissing her thighs. When you eat pussy you have all the power. Tease her. Play with her. Bring her to the edge. Make her beg. As for literal mechanics, go watch lesbian porn. They'll explain it better than words can. Don't jerk off tho. Porn can be a learning tool. But you need to maintain self control. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I am kind of salty about online dating. Can you tell me if it's justified, or I am having a limiting belief?"Just cold approach bro". Online dating is the easy way out. So much less stressful to text a tinder girl while taking a shit, than to go out and talk to a random girl you find attractive. Most pickup coaches advise against online dating because even when you succeed you don't get anything. No improvement, no increase in confidence. You don't feel like you earned the pussy you're fucking so you don't improve. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is monk mode a good option for Virgins?If you're so desperate to get laid, go get a hooker. People on here will try to tell you otherwise but if being a virgin is such a mental issue for you, the solution only costs like $100. Personally I don't care about the physical aspect of sex as much as I like knowing that I successfully seduced a girl but I remember how badly I originally wanted to lose my virginity. Just do it and stop with the excuses after that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:50 PM |
| 4 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.The more attractive a woman is, the more surprised she will be if you don't give a shit about her. A lot of men are confused about why treating women like shit doesn't work for them. It's because nobody wants to be treated like shit. But a very attractive woman is so used to being adored and given attention that if you don't do this, she will assume you are special and have higher smv than she does. Flirt with her friends. Ignore her. If she tries to talk to you, tell her to buy you a drink firs… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over my first loveI don't do relationships. I haven't for many years. I do hookups, friends with benefits, 1 night stands, and every variation of commitment free sex you can think of. The environment I am in facilitates such opportunities so it is essentially nirvana. Except I fucked up just like you. I caught feelings for 1 of my friends with benefits. And I've tried to get over her. I've slept with many women since it ended. I've been with women that are far more attractive than her. Women with bigger boobs and… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 08:19 AM |
| 4 | Not many cute girls at my community college but....Walk up to her and say hi | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Do Any Of You Guys Get Tripped Up By Women Who Come On Strong Out of The Gate?Honestly, it sounds like she was turned on and you didn't seize the opportunity. She's texting you sexual things cuz she wants to do sexual things. Keep that energy going and keep it up in person too. Don't go from sexual texting to boring date interview questions. Maybe next time in this sort of situation take her to a bar or something for the date. Get a drink n flirt. Then take her back to your place. Women are horny too, but they want to go somewhere before they fuck so they don't feel like … | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Can the 3-second rule be counter-productive?The 3 second rule is very important. The longer you hesitate, the more likely you will be not to approach. Approaching and getting rejected is way better than not approaching at all. You will improve over time. For now keep practicing. We all start somewhere. You're doing good. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Living with a ChadTinder matches mean nothing. Tinder is a hookup app. If you use it properly, you can get laid. All girls on there are less hot than they appear in their pics (obviously).The girls that are that hot don't need tinder because they constantly get approached in real life. Chad Thundercock is successful on tinder but he is also successful in pulling women in real life. Tinder success is meaningless if you can't replicate this success in cold approach interactions. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Emotions are like Advertisements, RE: Fuck Your FeelingsI'm a borderline sociopath. I feel very little and I am unable to experience empathy for humans or any animals except for dogs. Which the psychologist I went to found very interesting. The reason I'm telling you this is simple. Feelings are a hindrance for picking up women. But they are also what makes picking up women worth it. I've slept with countless women but I feel nothing except carnal physical pleasure. Don't hate having feelings. Embrace them. Utilize them. Learn to hide them when neces… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What did a woman do to seduce you?Be attractive. I'm a man, I don't need to be seduced. If she's good looking and she wants me, I'm in. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Feel free to wallow in self pity. But you will continue to lose to other guys. A guy like me will always be able to steal your girl. Do you know why? Because when I go approach a random slut at a club, no matter how hot, my manhood is not on the line. If she rejects me I will laugh. I will say whatever. I will move on. Why? Because standing in the same club are other woman. All of whom want my dick. They don't know it yet, but I'm going to show them soon enough. So like I said. Wallow in self pi… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:41 AM |
| 20 | I think I tend to aim out of my league with girls, physically.Leagues don't exist. That being said, women don't become attracted to men solely based on physical appearance. Women are attracted to men that represent confidence and stability. You need to take charge. To not be scared and to not be a shy little bitch. That doesn't come naturally to most people. You need to learn it. By practicing. By talking to girls over and over again. Until you realize that they are flawed nervous individuals too. That when a cute guy talks to them they get scared too. And… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Your painful night is weak. That night you got rejected by a hot girl. That night a soldier in Syria had his leg blown off by a land mine. He lay on the ground writhing in agony as blood seeped from his smoldering wound. I promise you his day was more painful. So man up. Grow some balls. And move on to the next girl. And the next 1. You don't even deserve to get laid if you haven't tried and been rejected at least 10x. Oh and learn to close. The first goal is to start a conversation. The second … | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Easy Tinder Text Game, The 6 Message RuleTinder makes it incredibly easy to find women to sleep with, but I can't say I like the app. Unless you're desperate to get laid, tinder isn't necessary. I consider it a good tool for people just learning to interact with women and looking for the easy way to get a lay and get experience. Nothing matches actually going out and getting women. And you will almost never find a tinder woman that's as attractive as a 10 you bump into on the street. 10s on tinder aren't 10s in real life. And the 1s th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How To Become ExtrovertedI am neither an introvert nor an extrovert. I find I am a mixture of the 2 but can lean more towards 1 side when it is beneficial to me. Something a lot of people in this thread need to understand is that being introverted and being shy is NOT the same. To the people talking about how they were introverted and anxious and are now extroverted and free. You weren't introverted. You were a beta bitch terrified of social interaction. Now you're not. Introverts are capable of interacting socially jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 09:32 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend's drunk friend tried to justify her slutty behavior and the hamster went into overdrive. What women say is not an indication of what they think.I'm going to tell you something that you're not going to want to hear. If you met a girl and seduced her in 10 minutes of conversation. Hooked up with her for 30 minutes. Then took her home and fucked her. Chances are this isn't her first time. So the girls that are sleeping with you right away probably have a high body count. If that bothers you then by all means don't sleep with them. Personally I could give less of a shit. I care only in terms of stds and if she can prove to me she is clean t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 08:59 AM |
| 9 | [FR] How I pulled a lay in an hour.Getting hard is a good thing not a bad thing. She feels you against her and it turns her on. Plus it shows her you don't have a tiny dick. Unless you're sitting in class when it happens, there's really no downside to getting hard when you're with a girl. To be honest with you, when I'm drunk sometimes I wish I could get hard cuz it would turn her on to feel me against her. But alcohol makes that challenging. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Open Relationship, AKA Voluntary CuckoldryI saw this video as well. Didn't even bother me because I don't find these cucks relatable in any way. Personally though, I'm a huge fan of open relationships. The main reason I don't get into monogamous relationships is because I don't want to be stuck with 1 pussy. I enjoy constantly gaming and fucking different women. Each 1 is a new experience. If she's good in bed and into me, I can turn her into a fwb or fuck buddy. I don't care if she fucks other guys. Sex is an area in which I believe I … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 10:55 PM |
| 4 | The Long PlayCompletely agreed. You don't know how many women I've taken back to my place or gone to their place on the day we met. They don't want to feel like sluts so they tell me "were not going to fuck tonight" I say something along the lines of "I wasn't offering" or just anything that indicates that even though she said it, not having sex was actually my choice. Then a few minutes later we'll make out, I'll kiss her in the right spots, and we'll end up having sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Elon Musk ex-wife asked for over 1 billion dollars in divorce settlementsSee this is where you guys are incorrect. You as men react to gold diggers the same way as woman react to men who live TRP lifestyle. Gold digging is the female version of TRP. Allow me to explain. As men we try to better ourselves in order to achieve success and pleasure in our lives. This for the most part involves physical well being and financial comfort. Biologically speaking however, this also involves women, at the very least for the purpose of satisfying our sexual needs. So we learn how… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I Let My Girlfriend F*ck My Bestfriend - and stayed with her afterward.This hurt me to read but I appreciate you sharing your experiences. I myself could never allow such a thing to happen. But that is why it is so interesting to read about it, because we have different mindsets and experiences. I can't really give you advice on the topic because it's already happened. Just work on yourself. Adopt the trp mentality. Find the way that works for you. Personally I'm incredibly dominant in my relationships. I take full control. If my plate slept with somebody I specifi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 07:45 PM |
| 6 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.I disagree with this. OP is not "wasting" his life. He is happy in the situation he is in. Not everybody needs or desires to be a true alpha. If they did then being alpha would become irrelevant because it is the status quo. Op is content with his situation but he just wanted to see our views on it. He doesn't listen to your comments, that's fine. If you are striving for the alpha mindset as many of us are, then his response/reaction to your advice is not relevant. All that is relevant is that y… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | So I spoke to two girls in my class today.That's what's up. Start small and appreciate the little things. Everything you do that's a step out of your comfort zone is a success. Keep pushing forward and improving | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 05:54 AM |
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