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Great work man. I’m jealous I went into construction and not tech like some of my high income friends
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:53 PM
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I got really lucky and had a lay after the first time. I think I did about 15 approaches after that and had 3 more. Currently found a high value women who makes me happy to the point where I don’t have fomo about smashing many different girls Not saying that to be condensing, but I never would have found her if I didn’t start cold approaching and gain the confidence
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:51 PM
1

Freedom is good also!!
/r/seduction31/05/22 01:29 AM
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Wait until they go out of their way for you / do something nice for you / approach you and then tell them a joke/story come other creative positive reenforcement
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:23 AM
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Grab her but the root of her hair and slam her into the bed room door (doors are better then walls as they absorb a lot of the impact so you can realistically do it with lots of force). Tie her arms up with your shirt or pants. Bit her lips. Vigorously lick the inside of her ear as far as your tongue will go. Have her spit on your face when she’s riding you. Kiss her cheek gently three times then throw her over. Put your belt around her neck like a leash. Lick her face. Randomly cum without warn…
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:44 PM
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Focus on yourself, career, sports, fitness, goals Start approaching women and trying new things The worst number of girls is 1
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:02 PM
0

Don’t reach out again. And if you see her again play it cool and confident like it’s HER loss. But still obviously be super funny/sweet or what ever and hopefully she’ll come around. Then at least she’ll see you as an option for the future
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:19 AM
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20yo Don’t stress bro, I was in a way worse spot then you when I was 20. Now I’m 29 and absolutely crushing it. Just focus on yourself in your 20s, dating for men gets WAY better as you age. Just don’t fuck up and get married or have kids lol Like 80% of the things that make men attractive get better as they age
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:08 AM
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Search u/omlala
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:53 PM
1

I always say either “I’m saving my self for marriage” Or “It’s probably lower then you think”
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:31 PM
11

I wasted alot of my 20s with OLD, deleted all my apps and just focus on day/night game and have been crushing it
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:20 AM
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I’ve heard it’s better to ask for drinks/date/in person meeting with in the first few texts U/omlala has the GOAT OLD and texting guild, highly recommend. It seemed ridiculous at first but it works wonders I promise
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:45 AM
-1

Not sure about suave but definitely dominating. Its hard for me to have wingmen because I usually steal the show and get all the attention lol
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:06 PM
2

I have a pretty ugly face which caused me low self esteem most of my life. But I take good care of my body and totally own it now. Also I forged a pretty good pretty good personality and I’m consistently told I’m fun
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:52 PM
2

For me (29m) personally I used to have a harder time landing dates until I reached my mid-20s but my success rate on a first date is probably around 80% lay/relationship. I’ve been told I’m fun and have great personality
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:31 PM
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Way to many factors to determine what’s going wrong, would need to know way more about you However, it’s very impressive you can land that many dates! Most guys would have a hard time with that. Keep it up and learn what works for you and what doesn’t
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:49 PM
1

When fishing for salmon, use the right bait.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:11 PM
3

Basically for social proof and to be more of a fun time
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:54 PM
3

More career/life success, also more experience and confidence with women. I suspect I’m more of a “real man” now and less of a boy like I was in my earlier 20s
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:02 PM
5

Not at all. I didn’t start having much luck until I was about that age
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:27 PM
2

Very well said. Makes you a total prize in their eyes
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:42 PM
21

Basically it’s keeping her guessing if you like her or not. I find this useful in all areas of life not just pick up. Keep everyone swinging between validation and rejection. Don’t always focus on them when they’re around you. Be aloof and distracted sometimes, give them intense attention and genuine praise other times.
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:11 AM
2

Do not send that lol. Just ask her to hang “what to go check out a show?”/“drinks?” Or what ever, nothing like dinner or anything provider like. Just keep seeing her but also pursue other options. I’m willing to bet if you become less invested in her then she is in you then she will be the one who wants a relationship with you
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:48 PM
2

Honest truth I used to be depressed largely impart because I think I had “hurt by girls syndrome” from when I was younger. I’ve been working out since I was 17 and have had bouts of being absolutely yoked. But the thing that got be over my depression was going out and getting better with girls. Now I feel way more confident even when I’m not seeing anyone. Just the knowledge I can is great
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:11 PM
9

Cool
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:53 PM
1

When I would go out to the bars to game I would usually start with a couple of drinks slow and try to have no more then 4 a night. Sometimes ended up drinking way more if I met someone who is fun and it just took that direction. Almost never bought girls drinks so usually it didn’t go that way
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:35 PM
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I think you’re rationalizing this the wrong way. The real world isn’t all positive feelings. It’s all sorts of random chaos. Women (and men) want a REAL partner. You’d get bored if your partner was only positive all the time. Don’t just try and make your partner feel good. Lots of guys make this mistake (“nice guys”). Make her feel every emotion, make her feel real and alive. I wouldn’t go out of my way to make a partner feel bad. Don’t be afraid to put your foot down or walk, but you should nev…
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:35 PM
1

Hot babes
/r/askTRP09/08/21 02:36 PM
4

Plate her
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:15 AM
1

Thanks bro, was hard to do because she was such a rocket and good in the sac but I’m not going to validate someone like that anymore. Love this community, a real group of brothers.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:56 AM
1

Pretty much man. Haha. She was fucked though started hanging out with long term FWB who she’s been fucking for years and between each boyfriend and wouldn’t let me do the same. Called me things like “fragile” “coward” “insecure” because I wasn’t cool with getting cucked. Honestly I think she was like the embodiment of modern feminism
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:08 AM
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LTR’d an older ex party girl. (Was a true 10/10 in my defence)
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:16 AM
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Psychological egoism and over validation Ended things with my last ex because she kept threatening to fuck other people. I would calmly call her out on it and she said it helped her feel in control of the relationship (emotional manipulation). Funny thing was she calls me a psychopath
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:57 AM
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I would say no more then once a week but ideally once every two weeks
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:30 AM
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“I saw you have an IG with a lot of followers” with a shit eating grin - one example I remember
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:16 AM
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They bring up my IG 29
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:26 AM
2

Haha fair enough
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:45 AM
1

Think that would for sure be bad? Wouldn’t being sexually open be a good thing?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:44 AM
0

Fair point thank you
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:56 AM
1

Haha thanks
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:25 PM
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Just did last night, feel great! Now can pump and dump all hot girl summer
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:24 PM
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Honestly both for now, need more experience in vetting apparently. I think I made the mistake of LTRing a girl just because she was a rocket
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:22 PM
2

That’s very fair. Thanks man
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:40 AM
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Asked me if she could hang out with long term FWB as friends
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:39 AM
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You’re saying dump her? Would be nice to keep fucking her... any tips?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:53 AM
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No, never. LTRing was a mistake, last time I do that
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:53 AM
2

Man I’ve been in a similar boat. I’m an extremely ugly dude, have literally the worst acne scaring I have ever seen. Ever. After being extremely depressed and anxious until the age of 20, I had to practice smiling in front of a mirror because I didn’t know how to genuinely make eye contact with some one and smile at the same time because my self esteem was so low. After getting jacked as shit I was able to score a HB9 gf but ultimately got cucked because of my BP ways. Currently dating one of th…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 07:03 PM
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I dated a girl 2 gfs ago who had significantly lower SMV then me. I’m talking 1-3/10. I was doing it because I thought I could be a great person who sees someone for who they were on the inside. In her case it turned out she was severely BPD. Constant irrationality, jealousy, suicidal threats. Worst relationship I’ve been in but glad I did it for the experience. Now in an LTR with a 9/10 but honestly shit is getting old and I see how LTRs are RP on hard mode. This will be the last LTR I enter.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:20 PM
3

This was inspirational to read. Great attitude OP. And best of luck brother.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:36 AM
1

Check out u/omlala’s guild to online dating. Such a game changer
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:04 AM
2

If you’re trying to get better at something what’s wrong with this? Please teach us how to become a man
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:35 PM
1

Going to try this. I hate hearing myself talk lol but I bet it will help. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:34 PM
2

Haha maybe those snap chat glasses after I get a few hundred approaches under my belt
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:15 PM
3

Amazing will do. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:51 PM
1

Thanks brother
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:11 AM
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Likely just testing her frame. I wouldn’t let her see it phase you at all. LTRs do this shit all the time. What is your relationship with the guy like? Does your gf and the guy hang out one on one? Had an LTR who asked me if she would hang out with the guy she was fucking when we started fucking. I hung out with an old plate (now an escort) and told her about it. What are the odds... now she understands asking to hang out with a fuck buddy is inappropriate when you’re in an LTR...
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:09 AM
3

Could you give more context? Are you talking co workers? Ignore. It’s the most powerful weapon
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:05 AM
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Girls need to have emotional outbursts. It’s your job as a man to keep your cool and show her you can handle it. Be her rock. If you’re talking drama as in things that take more of a tangible form (ei. Stealing your phone, threatening to kill self, cheating) I personally would delete as I’m not going to let women negatively impact my life anymore
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:03 AM
3

Society is in part structured around long term monogamous relationships. Major institutions will never acknowledge true female nature because the red pill is in fact very hard to swallow. Lots reject it with out trying it out as a theory to see if it explains our social reality
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:33 PM
4

This is one of the best posts I’ve read.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 08:41 AM
1

No grow up
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:09 AM
1

I think so yes. If you’re an absolute weapon in the sack and really sick across the board she can fuck who ever she wants it’s her loss.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:56 AM
1

In terms of online game checkout u/omlala’s guild I have no clue how to do it in person without at least an initial degree of attention
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:43 AM
2

Means hoe I think it’s a police code
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:38 AM
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Helium
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:33 AM
1

You could be upfront with your feelings of discomfort asking the request and why and then lay it all on the table Sounds like one or the other it will have to be hat in hand
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:31 AM
0

Also been wondering this. Seems like something the top man would do but wouldn’t want to hurt someone
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:10 AM
0

Be spontaneous. Take her to multiple locations. See a giant horse statue? Climb it. See an art exhibit open between bars? Go check it out
/r/askTRP28/05/21 08:09 PM
1

Yes for sure. But at least it’s better you’ve found it now or at all! Think about the majority of men who will remain blue pilled their entire lives
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:17 AM
2

It sounds like you know what to do. In moderation a little bit of over validation here and there is good for a LTR as it builds comfort and trust. But too much gets you cucked for sure
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:16 AM
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Fuck more then once per session. I think most girls are flattered if you bust quick at first and then go one or two more rounds after
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:14 AM
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Agree/laugh it off. I doubt it will come up at a pool party but don’t be a total aspie and argue any RP stuff/feminism ect.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:13 AM
2

U/omlala has the best guild I have ever read. Works very well for hotter chicks
/r/askTRP27/05/21 10:52 PM
9

She likely enjoys her freedom. I’m amazed it’s been like that for 17 months great work. Any tips?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:19 AM
1

Mate. I’m facially ugly as sin. Always had a problem with women until last couple years. Been jacked for last 8-10 but still had no success until I acted the part. I think a ugly guy who has frame/game/confidence can be way more intriguing then a very handsome guy with the same level of those things Have a co worker who has been rated as a 1/10. Guy is short, ugly, cross eyed and speech impediment. HOWEVER the man is funny as fuck and very intelligent. He has an extremely hot girlfriend
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:57 PM
6

She is into you. Her and her friends are trying to have some fun and she thought of you. You got this brother
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:59 PM
1

Nope. As long as you’re not too old you can’t do bouncer stuff.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:51 PM
1

Haha no unfortunately
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:50 PM
1

I would for sure. Looks pretty bad if you ask for her back Yeah my situation was very similar in most ways. She reached back to me after 5 days and it was a pretty bad break up (blind sided her and she did not take it well lol) Ended up getting back together and things are really good now. Although I plan on sticking and moving in a few months
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:58 AM
1

Oof. Might be hooped. I was in a very similar situation but she reached out to me so I was able to maintain frame. Were you two monogamous?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:14 AM
1

Where in my post did I say this was everyday?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:31 AM
2

Out of curiosity how long do you think each of those things take?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:50 AM
0

Seems insecure a f. One time said it’s a red flag if a girl has had more then two sexual partners or if one of those partners has been a ONS. Lol seems a bit hypocritical from a red pill coach
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:02 AM
20

Yes. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:55 AM
5

Speak to more girls. I think there is mixed opinions on this but I think having platonic female friends is an asset
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:31 AM
3

Great advice
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:28 AM
2

Good call man. You should have tried to kiss at the end of that first date but all good not worth worrying about. Girls respond well to the escalation in mood over a date so it’s better to start on a low note/low energy and end on an exciting note and at the very least a kiss.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:22 AM
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Typically I find I’m more motivated when I’m single. Not sure what advice to give it seems like you’re doing everything in the right direction. Do you read self help books? I find them very useful
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:16 AM
6

I would have done the same thing. At that stage it’s a total numbers game based on what she has going on and your SMV/frame/game pie
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:10 AM
4

You’re basically communicating ‘I see you as a higher value human then myself’
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:09 AM
11

A successful relationship is never 100% possible. I’m sure they happen all the time but it’s not in either partner’s hands and based entirely on their situation
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:55 AM
2

Ask
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:53 AM
1

Female dating strategy
/r/seduction26/05/21 04:11 AM
26

Jesus lol AWALT
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:43 AM
1

I would just ignore until gf brings up as an issue I have sex with my LTR 1-3 times a day and send it each time like it’s my last day on earth with loads of foreplay. Every once and a while she will be pushy and ask for more sex without regard to recovery period or how tired I am (this could be after a 60km bike ride, workout and couple of sex sessions for example) She basically got rid of her last bf because he wasn’t giving it to her more then once a week and only when she initiated I bring th…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:33 AM
3

Last little bit it’s been online (maybe due to covid) but I find maintaining frame/demonstrating value/seeing through BS way easier in person
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:19 AM
3

Then don’t use it no one cares
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:56 AM
2

How do you look/feel? Bloated/fatter? I find my scale/water weight can make my weight wildly inaccurate
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:34 AM
1

Shit test/lost interest doesn’t matter. Just ignore. Good chance she will reach out soon with some “sorry opened this and forgot to respond” BS
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:33 AM
3

Haha thanks man my thoughts exactly. I laughed pretty hard about it regardless.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:32 AM
14

Haha brutal. A good lesson to learn though
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:32 PM
58

Man I wonder how often guys pull a chick when she is with her bf. That would fucking hurt lol.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:28 PM
3

I do a super intense short workout 3 times a week and it works wonders. Super set everything. Time rests between sets. Add calisthenics
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:27 PM
1

The juice isn’t worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:26 PM
1

Some of the biggest/strongest guys I know only lift 3 times a week. I used to lift 2 hours a day but now I only workout like 3 hours a week and am still making similar gains haha. Made me rethink how I train
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:25 PM
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100% my guy. And when most of their followers are thirsty guys who want to smash they’re more likely to like all their posts. Bet you know a bunch of HBs from HS who inexplicably have thousands of followers on their personal page
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:23 PM
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Get this shit all the time when out with my LTR as well. It’s insane. She is extremely attractive and has said she doesn’t even get approached this much when by herself.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:22 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:20 PM
8

Likely just wanted the follow. It seems like half the girls on Tinder just use it to get more follows from thirsty guys.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:20 PM
33

Made a play dough portrait of me smashing a girl after our 1st date, took a photo and sent it to her. There was no second date.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:19 PM
1

It’s only fair
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:57 AM
6

It sounds like you were too rejecting. Even the hottest most overly validated HBs can be eventually turned away by too much push and not enough pull behaviour
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:54 AM
1

Themed page works great, make memes, interact with similar pages
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:48 PM
2

Social media presence (few thousand IG followers) has been quite the asset
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:57 PM
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Probably. Does it matter? Did you find her attractive? If so shoot your shot
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:56 PM
1

Absolutely man good point
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:23 PM
2

Like young chicks going home with way older guys just because they were coke dealers or whatever
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:38 PM
7

Bouncer. I’m not even that big lol. This is the most red pilled job I think there is. Had countless girls throw themselves at me, give me numbers, SC, IG you name it. Also you see the gross side of women. Saw some shit I truly wish I didn’t. Solidified the redpill in me.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:24 AM
2

I think with plates it’s not a good idea
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:50 PM
1

Increase SMV
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:06 PM
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Builds another point of contact and a window into each other’s lives which increases comfort. I’m not sure if it would be a bad thing with a LTR and it would probably be a little weird after a while if you didn’t meet each others friends
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:05 PM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274 Have you read this?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:31 PM
9

Avoid it! It’s for her to bring up. There’s a good piece in the side bar on how to handle it. Basically you want to keep doing what you’re doing without committing
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:18 PM
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You may have appeared sexually judgemental which is one of those things you don’t do under any circumstance. “A girl will suck on your toes and take it in the ass if you’re not sexually judgemental” I’m fairly sure if you did go down on her it would have led to sex or maybe at least her going down on you
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:16 PM
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Have you had “the talk” yet? Just spin her like a plate Most girls are secretly down for poly but need to maintain a degree of plausible deniability so I doubt our right saying it would work out well for you
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:13 PM
1

approach some girls dancing and say something like “hey is it cool if I dance with you guys? I’m not trying to hit on you or anything” something disarming, I’m sure you can think of something better other girls see girls having fun with you, social proof start approaching other sets more aggressively
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:11 PM
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Haha I honestly doubt it’s too much of a issue. She probably rationalizes it as you hanging out with your friends less because you’re spending time with her Also it’s probably good she feels a little insecure and that it’s at least possible you could be talking to other girls
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:51 AM
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Don’t stand directly facing her if possible, a little to the side so you have to turn your head to one of your shoulders to look at her Also make it so at the drop of a hat you can walk away. Like you’re not “too comfortable” or plan on staying there for long. There’s probably lots of other stuff you can do that I can’t think of atm
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:45 AM
1

Try to just approach one girl every day and say hi or start a convo without the intention of asking her out. Expand from there to more girls/number closes after you get comfortable. I was shy at first but after increasing my SMV and approaching I found they were pretty receptive for the most part
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:30 AM
4

Over validation. Those same women will be extremely angry and bitter towards men after they hit the wall
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:23 AM
3

Remember to make them feel like you honestly don’t want anything when you approach. Structure your body language like you could leave at any second
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:21 AM
14

I think you handled perfectly. Zero mate guarding or giving a f. She is just testing you and you passed
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:05 AM
1

Might be effective if you’re trying to find LTR but you are probably nerfing yourself if you’re strictly looking for tail. I really like the idea of pretending you weren’t going to show either or “haha I forgot that was today” or something like that in response to a flake
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:46 AM
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Don’t be available all the time or too readily available. Makes you seem like you don’t have better things to do or an interesting life
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:10 AM
2

Our time to shine
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:01 PM
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Being an arrogant narcissist gets pussies wet That and the social proof of seeing you with other chicks Makes perfect sense
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:55 PM
8

Only text for logistics Also check out u/omlala’s guild for internet dating, there is a texting section so useful. I can attest to its usefulness. However seems to be more geared to really hot chicks who are overly validated as is Chicks with lower SMV/self esteem will need more validation and take flight if you are too alpha I’ve found
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:28 PM
1

It’s not there but google it, there’s a few reblogs. It was originally a 4 chan green text
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:03 PM
1

Read “so you want to get fucking laid? Here’s how” Great little guild that got me RP’d years ago
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:41 PM
5

Good post OP excited to try. Would have never thought of the filters/sexual preference thing
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:36 PM
2

Use it as an opportunity to work on SMV and score even better plates
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:02 AM
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Does he ask your approval? Why would you care if they are former plates/gfs? I guess it would depend on how he goes about it and if it’s in anyway respectful to you
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:59 AM
1

I get the idea of a trad wife is nice but some need to get with the times and adjust their expectations
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:57 AM
2

Completely agree OP. Guys who think like this are same guys who care about a plates notch count or if a potential LTR has had a ONS in the past
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:50 AM
3

Oh 100% bro. Utter trash actually a total red flag for me. Had a bitter sweet one about a year ago where I matched with a chick who led me on hard in the past while she had a bf without my knowing. Fucked her for a few weekends and dumped her
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:04 AM
4

Have you talked to a physiotherapist? I’m no expert in injuries but that doesn’t sound good
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:52 PM
5

Dating for guys gets lit starting around late 20s Act like an 18F who has just discovered the CC. Bounce from girl to girl without a care in the world. Don’t get married. Don’t have kids. Don’t make large investments. Have your fun it’s your turn now.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:51 PM
5

I know what you’re asking. I wouldn’t drop the convo point blank because it would seem like you might be butt hurt. Depends on your relationship with her but you could say “have fun, send me a pic when you get a chance!” Which shows you’re ok with not texting and not upset
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:18 PM
72

Pretty rare. Usually the hot ones don’t need to develop character to be appealing to the opposite sex. A lot of guys will say looks are all a women brings to the table and the primary factor of her SMV but I definitely feel like things like character and humour are important especially when looking for a LTR
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:16 PM
14

Girls are like busses. After one leaves another one will be down the road in 15 mins
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:14 PM
2

Going to an antique mall! Honestly if drinks/bar won’t work it’s my no. 1 date spot. Also if it’s a girl I want to intrigue/see LTR potential in then it’s definitely the 1st date joint And yes man, go with the flow don’t over think it. An absolute weapon like yourself should be able to smash outside if need be
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:36 PM
2

Great ideas. I would also suggest antiquing (trust me) Maybe blow it off by saying your chauffeur is on vacation so she will have to take over until he’s back I used to do this from time to time. I have my own place so I would get them to pick me up there and then drop me off after which was perfect for inviting them in “for a glass of water” lol. Regardless don’t let it get to your head it’s not a big deal. As long as you’re taking lead on the date and being somewhat dominant otherwise I doubt …
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:05 PM
2

Most men are not fashionable (myself included). It’s very hard for a physically fit guy to dress in a way that accentuates his physique without looking too boastful
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:59 PM
1

Use it as a tool to help you not your main crutch. I’ve been jacked since I was 20 (28 now) but I found having a IG with a few thousand followers has helped me more then being yoked ever did. It’s social proof. I linked it in my dating apps and noticed way more dates + most even bring it up on first date
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:57 PM
5

I’m sorry to say it bro but it sounds like you’ve already come across as insecure. Mate guarding is a sure fire way to get cucked. If you really want to improve your odds you need to not get jealous at all. Keep spinning plates. Watch the oneitis. Best of luck brother.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:24 PM
1

I’m 28, in Canada and having no problem. Mask or not, I’ll shoot my shot. Obviously with bars closed it’s a bit harder but I think it shows way more confidence to approach during lockdown
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:11 PM
64

Withdraw attention and see how she responds. By mate guarding/pursuing her more you will just send her his way quicker. Don’t be afraid to walk from any relationship. If someone said that to me it would be a hard next.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:58 PM
3

Fuck her
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:45 PM
2

I would be surprised if you weren’t single digits at 140lbs 5’9” Regardless best of luck brother
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:08 AM
2

Seems like an extreme weight loss if you’re 5’9”, what body fat % are you aiming for? Try eating oats, eggs and high protein foods as they will keep you full for longer. Avoid simple sugars as they don’t
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:57 AM
1

Great advice
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:19 AM
1

Up to you, I doubt either really matters. Would probably help your game if you did a set about of numbers per venue if you’re working on being outgoing
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:17 AM
6

Best of luck brother. Been there it’s sucks.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:06 PM
1

You sounds more like the “other guy” bet she has a boy friend or someshit
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:58 PM
1

Make memes/interact with other accounts
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:29 PM
0

Make memes to promote my business/my self as an employee
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:28 PM
1

No I didn’t
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:28 PM
3

I have about 7k on mine and I linked it in my dating app profiles. Definitely noticed an increase in dates and more then half of dates will bring it up when I meet them for the first time
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:36 PM
9

I think you’re good so far. Don’t call her out on it. Ignore but set up dates and smash like it’s no big deal
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:10 AM
20

I wouldn’t my guy, if you don’t throttle your girl she will find someone who will. Rough situation brother I feel for you. I would withhold attention before I withhold sex. Do you two live together?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:08 AM
20

Make sure you still have your wallet
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:40 PM
4

I would stick to original plan regardless of her intention. Shows confidence and leadership and you will maintain frame.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:39 PM
3

Yeah it’s so sick. Wish I knew this when I was younger so I didn’t take it to heart and get so bummed out. Red Pill is life.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:05 PM
13

Man when I was in my early 20s I would get cheated on/ monkey branched etc. This was before I was RP’d. I watched a No Jumper YouTube episode where Robesman said dating gets way easier for guys in their late 20s + I’m 28 now and this is 100% true. Lots of guys on here say men’s dating prime is in his 30s which I believe is also true
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:56 PM
2

I’m surprised this doesn’t have more responses, it’s a great question. I was hoping to read them. I’ve been struggling with this as I work really long days for a company, run my own little business, rent property and have recently been having lots of success with the ladies. For me it’s a grind, a contestant balancing act. I keep telling my self the pain will get easier. Used to average about 6 hours of sleep a night but now I’m at around 5. It’s been stressful at times but I feel more alive and…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:05 AM
1

Yes absolutely. But definitely seem to get complacent when just with one LTR women. The worst number of girls is one
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:59 AM
1

Why did you cut her off? You must have thought it was for the best. Feels bad the first few times but just remember she would fuck you over in a heart beat if it benefits her
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:58 AM
1

Honestly give it a shot! The boys all laughed at me and poke fun but that’s a small price to pay IMO
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:50 AM
1

Do it my guy. You will see
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:58 AM
2

If you have dark hair dye your hair blonde. The faker the better. Trust me. Has gotten me more female attention then being yoked at single digit body fat ever did.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:53 PM
1

If you think your sick it doesn’t matter what anyone else things because they’re wrong
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:00 PM
1

Yes it’s worth it. Mindset for any Hb should be similar bare in mind a HB6 will likely require more validation then a HB10 who will be more intrigued by you the more aloof/rejecting you are
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:57 PM
14

You, the man, are the prize. Never forget that. Pussy is cheap and given away at the drop of a hat. Your attention is invaluable. I borrow confidence and re-assurance from the person I will be in the future because I’m putting in hard work today and doing everything I can to be successful. Physical attractiveness for women is far more important then it is for men. Most good looking guys are actually blue billed betas. Your personality will get you way farther then looks. Land a date with an 10/1…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:52 PM
7

This post concerns me
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:35 PM
1

Good call man
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Haha so true I didn’t even think about that.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:30 AM
4

So funny. Red Pill teaches women’s nature and encourages men to disregard women as their priority and focus on more important things. FDS mostly bashes other women, makes fun of men with small penises and the goal seems to still largely get married to a HVM lol
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:01 AM
1

I would withhold attention. Canceling your plans may be extreme for this situation but your call
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:08 AM
2

Thanks man I’ll for sure try that out!! Sounds like my kinda pain lol
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:37 AM
1

Was the argument disrespectful to you or was it more of an emotional outburst?
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:35 AM
8

Even though I much prefer the actual gym I’m #homegym master race and I built a fixed gear bike which I can already tell is a huge game changer and is going to help my game in like 4 different ways
/r/askTRP15/05/21 10:18 PM
1

Hard to say without knowing 1. You’re regular texting freq and 2. How intense the argument was As a general rule of thumb I wouldn’t let it disrupt your regular communication rhythm. Unless she really disrespected you, by ignoring her more then usual you could come off as a little butt hurt
/r/askTRP15/05/21 10:16 PM
3

You’re so young man. The fact you posted this says a lot about who you are and where you’re going. I didn’t start asking myself stuff like this until I was 21. Now I’m 28 and on a pretty good path. Chin up brother you got this
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:42 PM
1

Highly recommend
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:28 PM
1

I personally have found a lot of that stuff to be outdated and mostly useless. Interesting to read and see the history of game. The info and tools I’ve acquired on this sub and the main RP sub have been far more valuable. Have you read u/omlala’s guild for online dating?
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:07 PM
1

Outside in forest area, back of cargo van if you have one, her place
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:04 PM
3

Good advice
/r/askTRP15/05/21 06:55 PM
1

Sounds like there’s nothing you can do
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:22 PM
1

Is confronting her a possibility?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:15 PM
1

Can you just ignore it? Why is it causing you grief?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:05 PM
19

Yeah I think beta bait is a good way to put it. After a rejecting comment like the one she made I wouldn’t reach out again
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:02 PM
4

Haha best advice.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 07:51 PM
2

OP did the right thing good job OP
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:12 PM
2

I would say get your foot in the door with beta courtship (what she things she wants) then turn her on by leadership/alpha behaviour over time
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:08 PM
2

Sounds like she might be inexperienced or have lower self esteem. Might require more validation as a result
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:54 PM
8

Absolutely. That’s the bad boy/alpha angle. Much better then the beta/provider angle. However you should always chase excellence which comes in the form of Monetary gain for many
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:41 PM
4

I also wonder this. I have seen the female studies but never heard about male ones. I don’t plan on getting married but I would at least like the option to.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:39 PM
3

Yeah it’s sucks man. Such feminine behaviour. I was the biggest blue billed cuck as a result. Had to observe movies/TV/books and find male role models to see how a man behaves
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:35 PM
7

You are right, being okay with your friends treating your bf poorly is not ok. As for completely ignoring/being curt it’s up to OP’s discretion. I’m not familiar with the intricacies for their relationships prior to this. Maybe start by being curt and if it persists completely ignore them
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:33 PM
27

I think you were right to ignore. I would withhold attention towards her friends until they stop. If it continues after you’ve done this for a while withhold attention from gf as well. What was the insecure behaviour out of curiosity?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:03 PM
1

Really depends what your goals are with her, I would definitely not text for two days at least. By not reaching out to her she will hampster and likely reach out to you making it a sure thing. Like still be friendly but act like it was a one time thing. Or that’s what I would do if I were you and wanted to plate
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:57 PM
3

Fair enough. The term I should have used was in a relationship with.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:52 PM
2

It’s the worst. And they always start shit but if you say anything back they instantly fall into the role of a victim
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:32 PM
2

If it comes across as you being worried you didn’t preform well yeah but if strictly to book for another sick appointment I don’t see why it would necessarily be a bad idea
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:31 PM
4

I link my IG and then have a paragraph of all the sweet sports/interests I have
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:05 PM
4

I’m in almost an identical situation with my dad. Our fathers sound the same. My dad is a passive aggressive sensitive old man. If he was anyone else I would tear his head off at this point. Constantly makes little pushy comments etc. I just ignore but super frustrating. It’s the relationship I have in my life that upsets me the most/ I am most out of control with. I’ve barked at him before but he will literally just ignore me for weeks haha
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:04 PM
89

Next
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:17 PM
3

Good insight
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:44 PM
6

Did you just wanted people to tell you did the right thing?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:44 PM
2

Sounds like you know exactly what’s going on. Not sure why you would make a post asking
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:20 PM
7

Getting upset isn’t masculine. She did that head tap because she liked you. Now she thinks you’re a little boy
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:58 AM
5

You got butthurt and let her and your classmate see
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:35 AM
2

This seems oddly specific lol
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:30 AM
2

High value behaviour
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:29 AM
1

Seems like a good call
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:09 AM
1

Why not?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:00 AM
1

Nice work brother
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:59 AM
2

Might come off as a bit apologetic
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:59 AM
27

Maybe dating her during all of her prime and then leaving her for a way younger chick after she hits the wall
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:17 AM
5

Sorry man I don’t understand. How is she detaching? In general, I would respond by withdrawing a similar amount of attention
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:51 AM
4

I wouldn’t text at all then and just be super cool at work, maybe just the slightest touch of a little smirk like it’s her’s and yours little secret. There’s no rush it’s not like either of you won’t be seeing each other again
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:49 AM
12

Yeah maybe a little petty. I would have laughed it off or some how made a joke about fucking her with it
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:09 AM
3

What kind of ASD are we talking here?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:07 AM
1

Are there super casual opportunities o talk to her at work?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:05 AM
8

Personally I wait 2-3 days. Gives her a good chance to reach out to you first. I think 1 day is too thirsty and a week + is too rejecting
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:38 AM
4

I bet chicks love that shit also lol
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:27 AM
1

Honestly. Better then becoming complacent and beta
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:53 AM
7

They’re blissfully unaware
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:52 AM
5

Haha that’s actually gangster a f
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:52 AM
1

Because the top man fucks loads of women
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:24 AM
2

Probably yeah
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:23 AM
1

Are there chicks in your town? Where do you see them? Try dating apps?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:23 AM
1

All go to same highschool?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:25 PM
1

Are you in grade school?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:22 PM
2

Not sure if too much awareness is a bad thing. If you want to be blissfully ignorant (nothing wrong with that) just be blue pilled.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:21 PM
10

You pretty much got it haha. Basically lots do that and eventually cuck then divorce their husband to extract his resources They want to get as much experience and attention while they can during their SMV peak but after they find out their days are numbered they smarten up and try to find a high income man to take the plunge YouTubers: Entrepreneurs in Cars, Strong Successful Male and Casual Bachelor have lots of insight and case studies on this
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:00 PM
3

Although the statistics all show marriage, co habitation etc is on the decline. We will never fully become a RP/polygamist society. The major institutions (university, economy, politics) will never acknowledge it. A lot of things are propped up by long term monogamous relationships. Single dwelling homes and a lot of real estate in general is bought primarily by couples to raise families in. Plus it would really make life difficult for women. This thing of ours... is best kept lowkey
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:54 PM
8

Try breaking up with her
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:47 PM
1

Where is the question?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:13 PM
2

^ best advice you’ll get
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:04 PM
40

This might actually be a good thing for you. It’s a top man quality
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:53 PM
7

I would assume yes. Women want relationships with HVM. If she thinks it’s possible and in your nature this will keep her working hard to win you over. Perhaps the best combo would be the occasional LTR every so often (with a sub 1 year expiration date)
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:51 PM
5

Definitely could be because she was shy or ASD. Could also be because of your skill set. Regardless looks like you’re still in the game, try again and aim of at bare minimum a kiss at the end of the date
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:27 PM
1

Yeah it’s amazing, recently put this into practice for the first time fucking top kek
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:37 AM
2

Great post
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:24 AM
16

Sounds like you don’t want to do it. Don’t do it.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:03 PM
5

Great perspective
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:09 PM
2

I just do my thing same as always.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:05 PM
4

Closure is how women desexualize men. It serves no other purpose.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:04 PM
15

My guy, you should be hitting weights hard. Lots of opportunity to build muscle at your weight. Try a push/pull/legs routine or strong lifts with some aesthetic movements added to the mix. Despite what lots say cardio is a great idea but instead of doing a lot of cardio at a low intensity try doing 10 mins at maybe 6.2 before and after your lifting
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:03 PM
4

Work on yourself to a point where you’re the prize
/r/seduction12/05/21 09:09 PM
-1

No
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:05 PM
1

Fuck 100
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:04 PM
14

Spin plates. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:03 PM
0

I think in your case the women are just using you for messaging validation which is mostly because you’re showing provider (beta) traits during the convos U/omlala had an awesome guild for this sort of thing but I can’t find it anymore
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:50 PM
1

Then red flags don’t really matter too much. Honestly though if anything it’s probably a good thing she’s friends with your ex. Ex must not have totally trashed you after break up
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:22 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:20 PM
1

Enjoy it while you can. Are you trying to LTR her?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:20 PM
1

That is extremely helpful thanks brother
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:08 PM
4

It’s a red flag if you’re trying to LTR or marry. It doesn’t matter if you’re trying to plate. The Red Pilled man basically does the same thing, jumps from women to women without a care.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:50 PM
1

Improve your SMV. Spin plates. The worst number of girls is 1
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:48 PM
3

I honestly think you and I are in pretty similar situations, I’m just working on my skills like crazy and am noticing lots of improvements in their reactions. I think being called a player/fuck boy is a good thing in the early stances of shit tests. How do you respond?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:34 PM
19

I find “red pill game” works really well specially with hotter chicks. Lower SMV/self esteem chicks require much more validation so redpill alpha stuff is too rejecting for them. I’ve been seeing HB8+s and still get rejected by HB6s lol Not really sure how active you are in finding more plates during this time. Were you doing lots of approaches?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:26 PM
2

What women would sign up for that.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:56 PM
2

Don’t do it. Trust fam. It’s low value behaviour to do that in this situation and it’s a great way for you to gauge her investment in you.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:54 PM
2

Do not re confirm. If she flakes do not contact her. She likely will reach out apologizing with some excuse a few days later. Then pretend you didn’t show up either! Reschedule. Smash.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:38 PM
6

This.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:10 PM
2

I mean sounds like a good bet if LTR + marriage are something you’re interested. I’d be a little worried about her hypergamy seeing as that she will make more then you, but that’s not an iron rule. I personally wouldn’t but it sounds like we have different goals
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:40 PM
61

She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:27 PM
6

She is trying to turn you beta. Lots of LTR girls do this. It’s a large part of why guys get complacent in relationships I think you did the right thing emotional detachment is better then being controlling Being controlling will almost always get you cucked
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:07 PM
3

Haha I’m so happy you got the reference
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:27 AM
2

We all jus want to be sick kents
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:25 AM
27

I don’t really know what it is but sounds like a nice liberal way of saying convincing your husband to be a cuck
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:56 AM
1

Shoot your shot again
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:01 AM
2

I find it depends on the way you set up the interaction before meeting. I can’t seem to find it but u/omlala’s guild to online dating was amazing at this
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:44 PM
3

Just kiss her with her mask on, no joke alpha a f. She probably just forgot or was nervous It seemed like she was enjoying herself, do you guys have plan for second date?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:42 PM
6

True, but even then it’s a provider (beta) attraction trait. I definitely wouldn’t send those pics. It’s pretty transparent you’re showing off. It’s way more powerful when you let them figure that stuff out on their own over time and not off the bat. Do you live with your parents?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:41 PM
2

Being relentlessly self improving is good and being hard on yourself is good. But don’t be so hard on yourself you freeze up and miss opportunities. Most people you cross paths with don’t give a fuck about you and won’t remember “that weird little thing” you did or what ever after 1 min because they’re in their own heads thinking about themselves
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:27 PM
8

Replace it with hot girl(s) to fuck
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:24 PM
17

No super beta. Be jacked but don’t flex your muscles in front of people. Have nice cars (if you like cars) but don’t rev your engine at girls. Buy property and stack your cash, but don’t talk about it. Showing off signals a need for external validation. The alpha knows he’s a sick cunt.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:23 PM
-2

Honestly from what you’ve said I would potentially LTR. Who knows the nitty gritty of the situation. Girl sounds like she has a lot going for her
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:10 PM
-6

By modern standards <15 N count is really low
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:09 PM
1

Swipe on dating apps/Instagram engagement Built a pretty sick IG this way. 100% helps me get laid more the being jacked ever did. I even get free shit sent to me for shoutouts lol
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:07 PM
1

Sounds like she is a bit insecure and maybe injecting a bit of comfort at this point would be a good idea. But that’s just speculation. Regardless that pussy is no doubt wet a f for you
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:57 PM
6

Like u/rocket2777 said, that’s a thing of times of old for the most part. I’d say 10-20% of fathers actually care about that. My dad was a piece of furniture, passive aggressive and sensitive a f. I used to study characters on tv and movies to get an idea of how to act like a man
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:06 PM
2

Great point.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:04 PM
11

Like any skill it takes practice. When I started I would literally be shaking and stuttering lol now it’s fun a f. Learn to enjoy getting rejections. It’s very flattering to get hit on! Girls like it. When you start it’s going to feel weird and creepy, but as you continue to work on yourself and raise your SMV it will get better and better I promise
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:04 PM
3

What’s a TRP therapist?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:52 AM
4

Honestly man, so liberating
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:32 AM
1

Haha it’s what ever you want it to be man. What’re your goals?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:20 AM
3

Nice thanks man haha so much easier to digest Are you active in your religion’s community? Would this not be a good place to meet someone like that? Do you care if she is a virgin? It’s great your in shape, don’t look bad, and have a good business. I think the part of TRP that will help you most is what women find attractive.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:19 AM
4

I find girls with lower SMV/low self esteem need more validation because they too easily feel rejected and are easy to take negs to heart. Girls with high SMV are the opposite because they have legions of guys being nice to them so when you’re more succinct/aloof/rude they are intrigued in what makes you so special Either way you want the girl to always be swinging some where between total validation and rejection never fully do either
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:20 PM
2

Read it man, it will help. Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:14 PM
3

Working on goals. Career, health and fitness, knowledge, money, your purpose, ect
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:12 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:54 PM
5

Asking TRP on how to land a wife is like asking a pack of wolves how to groom a sheep
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:51 PM
11

Few reasons. Forces me to keep seeking high value women. LTR’s make men complacent. Also I feel like an asshole being someone’s bf knowing full well I’ll never get married.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:48 PM
4

Didn’t read put your writing in paragraphs next time
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:34 PM
1

Maybe that ex was hitting her up and she’d rather be with him
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:22 PM
6

Personally not too long, usually a few weekends lol. I just don’t give a shit about them after I get the experience at this point. Unless they are really high value then I will “LTR” them with a sub year expiration date.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:18 PM
2

Have yet to pull at the bar with my bike yet (just got it a month ago) but going to invest in some pegs for the back wheel lol I’ve never been on a app date where I would say having a car was instrumental in its success. Had a date where I didn’t feel like driving so I told her I was drinking and got her to pick me up from my house! We went out for drinks and when she dropped me off after it was the perfect opportunity to invite her in for “a glass of water” ^ try that out. Regardless I think yo…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:13 PM
6

Closure is what women use to desexualize men. Think of your relationship like a movie and closure is the ending where all the loose ends are wrapped up. Never engage in closure. Even if you get dumped just say “k” and move on. I would rather live on in a chicks head as a sexual legend then an emotional beta Good work spinning plates that will help
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:35 PM
46

I used to be same way. The more I date though the less I care.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:32 PM
1

Make my own memes and kind of took off
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:30 PM
2

Yeah man it sounds like you’re doing it right Good job brother
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:05 PM
1

Bicycle my guy. Get a fixed gear and learn some tricks. Great for just stopping when you’re going somewhere and see someone who catches your eye. Makes going to and from the bar logistically way easier. I have 4 vehicles and I travel more with my bicycle then all of them put together.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:03 PM
2

Definitely sounds like she likes you if she is going on dates with you. One thing I’ve noticed after raising my SMV substantial in the last 1.5 years is how much more shit women give me lol. Usually they’re eye fucking the shit out of me while they do it though
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:59 PM
1

Those are shit tests and it sounds like you did a good job passing them. Continue doing what your doing she’s getting wet
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:48 PM
5

Girls will be around after you achieve your goals. Your youth is better spent bettering yourself
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:46 PM
1

Last week for me: -hardware store -sheriff who was questioning me -our provincial capital building -bar (she turned out to be an escort lol)
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:42 PM
0

It’s hard. You want to look active. An IG with a lot of followers is so good for social proof. I have about 7k on mine and link it on my dating Apps and almost every girl brings it up on our first date lol
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:40 PM
2

It’s like kinda like a meme page where I make memes to promote myself and my little company. Kind of just took off. But I always toss a sexy pic of myself up every 10-20 posts or so
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:11 PM
1

I’m the exact same as you 160lbs 5’10” I’m pretty yoked rn six pack, lots of veins. Not sure what my BF% is though Not sure how long you’ve been lifting for/what your routine is like/what you know about health an nutrition but I’d aim for at least 100g protein a day Compound movements Super sets Lots of fruits and veggies
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:25 PM
10

That’s a huge weight loss good job man. How tall are you? Is eating at a deficit going to help you with your goal?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:19 PM
4

I would have just ignored. Never want to totally reject a plate
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:14 PM
34

Can’t speak from experience. I’d say keep on with the Red Pill. Work on being confident and humorous. Nothing is more impressive and attractive then someone who has been dealt a shit hand but keeps their chin up high and kicks life’s Ass. Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:13 PM
8

She is not your girl it’s just your turn
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:35 PM
12

Jealous is different in men and women for evolutionary reasons. Men don’t want a woman who fucks/gets attention from other men because when humans all lived to survive you wouldn’t want to expend your resources raising another man’s (alpha male’s) child. Woman secretly want a man who receives loads of attention from other women because that’s they only way their hypergamy is satisfied. Then they know they are spending their energy on the top man.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:57 PM
-1

I’m at the point where I’m totally cool with everything up to being involved with a MFM but I’m going to work on that after reading about how the best way to get a FMF is giving your girl a MFM
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:27 PM
4

No but after that plate is washed and dried someone else is eating off it shortly after and that I don’t care about. If you’re an absolute weapon in the sack you don’t have to worry about other guys fucking your girl because it’s her loss.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:52 PM
10

It’s a funny dynamic. Because you should be confident enough to not care about sharing your plates with your friends. But also your friend should be respectful enough towards you to not do that unless he knows you genuinely don’t give a shit.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:47 PM
4

Exactly man. Every time I have that feeling of guilt and “what if I can’t find anyone better” I end up with a way better chick or experience. Girls are like busses, after one leaves a new one will be down the road in 15 mins
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:40 PM
2

If you think you and your friend are doing nothing wrong just ignore him don’t escalate the situation. It’s not beta to be respectful
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:38 PM
2

Ignore him. He is probably unhappily married to a women who nags him every waking moment they’re together. And is jealous of your youth and unlimited opportunity
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:36 PM
3

Best comment
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:35 PM
3

You’re so young man, you’re doing well being RP’d at 21, good job. Remember she is not your girl, it is just your turn. Just think about all the new plates you’ll be spinning in Cali And watch the jealousy next time, nothing gets guys chucked like mate guarding Best of luck bro
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:32 PM
3

Nice man. It’s hard but you’ve made the right choice. I’ve been there. No reason why you can’t re-plate her after you’re a bit more grounded
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:29 PM
1

How do new women rate relative to ex? Do you think you actually miss her or all the investment and good times she represents? Time heals all wounds Regardless you’re in a better position now
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:27 PM
1

Best advice
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:26 PM
3

Nice man yeah all those sound like good posts, keep at it. Express yourself. Interact with others Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:26 PM
3

What’s your IG, I can take a look and give advice. You can DM it to me if you want, but no worries if you don’t want to share. Post regularly, maybe once every two weeks to start and up to once a day. High quality photos, you want to imply you have an awesome lifestyle without bragging (no pics next to cars you don’t own, lame shit like that) Make your account public if it’s not already and interact a lot with new accounts by liking their photos Having a themed page really helps, maybe make your…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:46 PM
3

A high follower IG helps, I got 7,000 and link it in my dating apps and most girls will bring it up on first date. We have intense covid protocols where I live and I’ve been approaching more then ever. I think it shows even more assertiveness Shopping, work, riding my bike, going out for food, hardware store all places I’ve cold approached last week
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:38 PM
4

This is a global phenomenon. Enjoy it
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:34 PM
0

Increase calories, track weight and BF% maybe try GOMAD What do you weigh and what is your routine like?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:32 PM
12

Basically you make it “just happen” don’t even try to get her horny until you’re in the sex location. Just focus on making her feel different emotions and keep her swinging between validation and rejection until then Ask her if she wants to hang out maybe? Where are you meeting these girls?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:44 PM
1

Bouncer, great for girls as well
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:28 PM
3

Haha good call you’re right
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:06 PM
2

That makes sense man. Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:05 PM
26

Naturally red pilled are basically men who just are alpha with out trying or knowing about the red pill community Red pill aware are men who discovered the community, read the side bar, digested it, became it
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:23 AM
12

I don’t think you should have gotten married
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:18 AM
15

Great question. I would say naturally red pilled <10% and Red Pill aware <1%
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:54 AM
8

This.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:35 AM
1

Great comment
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:26 AM
2

Who knows man. If you really want her just roll the dice and reach out
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:09 AM
7

Trust me man, zero is better then one.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:05 AM
2

She probably enjoys the sad emotion she is feeling, no joke
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:04 AM
5

Why did you unfollow her? She might have interpreted that as too rejecting
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:11 AM
6

Yes 100% man! The worst number of girls is one
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:08 AM
2

The first one sounds pretty good man
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:07 AM
1

Your call, I doubt it really matters
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:38 PM
9

Don’t do it man. Suffer through the pain. Maybe try to plate.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:37 PM
5

She might feel shame getting back with you from being cheated on and probably told all her friends
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:34 PM
1

Not really sure what your relationship is like but it’s definitely a comfort move. I usually start throwing those in after a couple months after they’ve earned it
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:32 PM
2

18 year old server banged like 4 other staff within 1 st month of working there Total dime (truly a HB10) server has “roster” of guys she fucks which includes players from both our professional football team and hockey team, high profile lawyers, business tycoons and sugar daddies I would just regularly see the most innocent looking 18-25 year olds go home with the grossest and sketchiest older men Had so man girls just absolutely throw them self’s at me it was unreal. Might try to get that gig …
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:14 PM
1

Two different bars but one was right by our cities party strip
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:12 PM
11

18 year old server banged like 4 other staff within 1 st month of working there Total dime (truly a HB10) server has “roster” of guys she fucks which includes players from both our professional football team and hockey team, high profile lawyers, business tycoons and sugar daddies I would just regularly see the most innocent looking 18-25 year olds go home with the grossest and sketchiest older men Had so man girls just absolutely throw them self’s at me it was unreal. Might try to get that gig …
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:12 PM
1

Psychological egoism. Everything they’ve done they’ve done because they thought it was the right thing to do at the time. Then they rationalize it later. So if they do something they regret down the road they point fingers to defuse their responsibility
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:04 PM
10

I’m going through the same thing man, feels good. The way I see it is everyone wants to bring the top man down to their level so they call you arrogant. Some might subtlety try and sabotage you but take all of this as a sign you’re killing it. As long as you’re not bragging or fucking people over (screwing up their goals to better your own) you should be fine Better to be an asshole then a pussyhole Great work man you’ve earned it.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:01 PM
14

Yes. Used to work as a bouncer in addition to my day job and the shit I saw and heard made me red pilled as shit.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:55 PM
1

Between sessions?
/r/seduction09/05/21 08:29 PM
3

You’re on track bro but it will take time and practice. Start approaching, doing so against covid regulations is way more assertive. I was in the same boat when I was 20 and I heard a guy (Robesman) say that things don’t get lit as a man until your in your late 20’s. As 28 year old I can 100% confirm this is true and it has been getting better and better
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:59 PM
13

It’s the best feeling ever. As a 28 year old who dramatically raised his SMV in the last 1.5 year I feel like a 18F about to hop on the CC. I look up and see girls staring at me quite often. When I approach, they are way more giggly/down to talk/strong eye contact/play with hair. I get more negative attention from girls also, they go out of their way to give me a hard time (all while eye fucking me) this is just a mild shit test, easy to pass Also men treat me better as well. My friends and coll…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:34 PM
1

Self improvement and focusing on your purpose aside, The Red Pill and it’s strategies are more for intersexual relationships between men and women. I mean learn what you can, but I’m not sure why you care if you’re gay. Sometimes I wish I was gay because I would be able to understand men better
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:26 PM
1

Ah nice, I personally would have done the exact same thing
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:23 PM
6

Yeah man I would advice against it haha. Plus I bet chicks are pretty flattered when they make a guy bust quick/go multiple times (if you can) Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:55 PM
2

Not sure really, maybe my wording would be more succinct. But I would have for sure had a similar vibe. Sends the message.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:28 PM
9

I typically don’t jerk it before the date and just try to fuck 2-3 times once they’re in my bed. I guess that doesn’t really help you if you can’t get it hard afterwards. But if you jerk it before date won’t you run that same risk?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:22 PM
8

I think you’re idea of making a dead set plan for the weekend and inviting her to join us pretty good at this point. I would probably have given her a little attention after she reached out to me on SC as I think maybe she could feel too rejected after you withheld attention after that Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:21 PM
1

Don’t pled or beg. Get her in sex location, make her feel good and comfortable and make it just happen. Or Act like you don’t care she is withholding sex and withdraw attention
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:18 PM
2

It was a test and you failed.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:17 PM
5

Quit porn ASAP. Your girl needs to get throttled and if you won’t do it she will find someone who will. Also take good care of your health. Hopefully you’re already doing these things but eat clean, lift, do cardio, don’t smoke, don’t use excessive drugs or alcohol, drink lots of water. Also foreplay helps a lot. Dry hump, dirty talk, get her to dirty talk to you, get her to suck you, go down on her. There’s no rush, it’s not uncommon to take a few mins to get hard Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:14 PM
2

Makes sense, I would have done something similar
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:20 PM
9

If someone disrespects you they need to be out of your life. Doesn’t matter how cute they are.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:18 PM
13

Don’t lower your standards just keep practicing. One thing I find true is when you do push/pull with lower SMV girls they are much more sensitive to negs and require much more validation. I’m finding higher SMV girls get insanely intrigued and interested the more rude/aloof you are because they want to know what makes you so special. A female is sexually attracted to a man with a higher SMV so to land those HB10s you better be acting like an 11 yourself.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:05 PM
1

Haha, think Ryan Gosling in Place Beyond the Pines (but I’m pretty ugly and slightly more autistic)
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:59 PM
7

That’s all good, I can relate. I think you’ll get a better response to your question at a mainstream relationship sub
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:27 PM
3

Could have had regret from having a ONS. Maybe it’s her way of communicating to you she’s a little embarrassed because she’s “not that type of girl” I’m going to start following up with my ONS’ but only because I want to have a paper trail it was consensual so I don’t get me too’d
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:23 PM
6

I doubt that is done to play games on her end but maybe she wants to trigger a chase-me reaction out of you. She could have seen posting a gym pic as sign you require external validation which is a low value move
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:20 PM
13

Not sure why a guy with an SMV as high as yours decides to be in an LTR when he could spin a bunch of plates and gets his needs met
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:17 PM
10

No way of knowing. Don’t let it phase you.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:14 PM
1

Don’t call her out on it, act like you don’t notice. Be flattered, it shows she is putting additional thought and energy into you.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:25 PM
5

She’s sounds like an awesome plate who is down for causal sex. I wouldn’t go out of my way to contact but next time you bump into her act like you totally forgot about what happened until you saw her again and give more negs then usual in the beginning
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:19 PM
7

Personally if it’s just a plate I flat out ignore. If it’s a gf/LTR I might offer a suggestion/sympathy/offer to help if situation calls for it. It’s comforting behaviour if you acknowledge it
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:17 PM
1

Are you going to wear it down or in a bun? I think John Snow’s look (both messy down and in a tight bun at the back) is really good
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:26 PM
3

Definitely. I usually have some stubble which is dark so it’s obvious it’s dyed which I actually think is a plus. Long hair would be cool but seems like so much extra work to make it look nice
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:23 PM
1

I read somewhere it’s a good idea to fuck at least 30 women before even considering a LTR/gf and I’m beginning to think that’s a good idea as I get more and more RP’d
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:19 PM
7

I assume as long as you take proper care of it and it works for your style it would be a huge plus It sounds weird, but I dyed my hair blonde (brown naturally) and am getting way more female attention then I ever have in my life. More then being jacked/having six pack ever got me. Not sure if that’s just because it works for my style but was seriously such a game changer.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:17 PM
2

Just ignore, assume plate dropped. I’m willing to be she will hit you up within a couple of days with her explanation.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:14 PM
58

Possible, but I’m going to give the man the benefit of the doubt. I’ve been there.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:13 PM
2

So did she respond? Was she upset?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:01 PM
3

I do pretty much the same shit and they say the same thing. But I just ignore and they comeback/apologize after they realize I’m not budging. Not going to enter someone else’s frame
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:52 PM
2

Yes. Why not?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:49 PM
5

Yes
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:49 PM
1

Need more context. Did she text you the next morning after she realized you left?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:48 PM
237

You’re a good looking guy man. Maybe you’re just putting too much pressure on yourself and it’s easy for the girl to see.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:43 PM
3

Use it to motivate you. Watch Whiplash it’s one of the most motivating movies ever made. I think this is a fairly common plot line where the protagonist bounces back and after a shit ton of hard work proves everyone wrong
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:36 PM
4

Do: -keep your cool -make him look stupid -laugh it off Don’t: -escalate aggression -let it phase you -loose frame Did something happen?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:05 PM
1

Great advice. I’ve always thought the no closure thing was the only way to go but this makes more sense.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:57 PM
2

If she is sending signals I would walk up and softly say “hey” with strong eye contact and see what she says. She will likely reply “hey” back and then you can introduce yourself/ask her name/ask what she is up to doesn’t really matter
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:54 PM
1

Sounds like you have things under control
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:51 PM
2

I was the same way but I think I’ve pretty much worked my way out of it. Be as succinct as possible, it takes practice. Watch Ryan Goslings character in Place Beyond The Pines and (god mode) Drive. This is the mysterious and intriguing demeanour girls think is sexy.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:49 PM
14

Hope for the best, expect the worst. Assume your gut is right but keep your cool. Based on what you’ve said not sure she was LTR material for you even by your own standards. And check that oneitis, I hope you got a couple of plates on deck. Wish you the best brother
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:45 PM
2

Low double digits at 28 but just redpilled recently
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:43 PM
-1

Yes to your question
/r/seduction07/05/21 03:43 PM
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