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Live Footage of Male hamstering. I'm trying to lighten you up, but as the other guy said, you are overthinking. Take a step back, and if she buzzes your phone, just say cute and leave it at that. find other muses to interact with and if she comes into the picture, then continue where you left off. Be cool.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:51 PM
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I've worked on myself, losing 60 or so pounds, weight lifting, read the sidebar and the only thing left is approaching women. But I have a shitty starting point and need to remove my ego. I've attached my opinion to women that I feel I need to validate myself to girls and they can sniff this. Getting rejected will make me feel like shit without a safe place to return to. I'll figure something out, I hope
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:02 AM
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I've read the side bar, but I guess it is never enough until it is internalized. I never read when I say no i feel guilty, nor have heard of it. Though, I did read no more MR nice guy along with Models. I'm struggling to avoid the opinion of family when they influenced me so much. I'm again, slowly cutting back. My mom shit tests me like a mother fucker, and each time I play them off like they're nothing. Before I'd be scared or worried. I might do a reread and work on Models and mr nice guy aga…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:50 AM
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But I guess what I'm getting at is, Investing in sports, hobbies and work leads to bigger, better promotions. Investing in women involve either making a family or wasted effort on her part cause she could spend time with a guy who can be a father and give her the children she craves
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:51 AM
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I guess I never had the chance to fail, cause I was forced to pursue perfection and trying to have everything great on the first try. It is bullshit thinking but when you are raised like that your life and haven't gotten a chance st seeing the dating market, it makes backing out a safer option
/r/askTRP28/02/17 06:05 PM
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And this is where I start to reject mgtow. It feels like they gave up and am not willing to try. If you saw my posts right now, I wasn't seeking attention or women when I was at my hornets at 12 to 18. I guess what I'm saying is, what can I do to train my entire body and mind to work for it, to start somewhere? Perhaps my ego says you can't fuck unless you have your own place, have a killer body and making 60k+ I'm only 22, and it seems ridiculous but years of just putting myself off the dating …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:04 PM
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You have to tell me about this reality, because it isn't like I don't want to play the game, I just don't understand it when it comes to others naturally. I used to be obese but I've dropped down to at least average body, and now working out att he gym to slim down to 15 percent body fat, and hopefully cut even further. Even back then, I didn't want pussy, I wasn't starved for it and actively avoided attention with women. Now, I just want it because of its perceived value, like how an alpha male…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:00 PM
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You have to understand, I wasn't chasing pussy or spitting game until about a year ago, and I am 22. I only want it now to get it over with, I don't get aroused or intrigued by women's bodies like I used to, it's not appealing to me. and I've stopped with porn to the best of my abilities. While it isn't completely gone, I just watch amateur shit. Like really homemade amateur shit. So, I'm lost and MGTOW feels safe, but I'm asking if it's worth chasing pussy as its more on the status than the wor…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:57 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/1Yp1yU6.gif How I felt
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:43 AM
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Oh I've been with them for years. Said short player friends was fucking pussy whipped, shitted on and looked as lesser than life. You obviously are looking for some way to feel in woe and be validated that it's not all that bad and not have to put in that much work. I've seen them grow from boys to men through sheer work. Of course, there are things that I don't know, but the change is immense.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:42 AM
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People wanted to fuck The Weeknd before he got his fame, and he based his stories on real life. The man is 5'6. Kanye is 5'8 Keep your weight down, build some muscle and have some type of personality and you should be home free. Yes, it helps if you were taller, but the fuck you're going to do? Friend of mine is 5'3, 5'4 and he's getting tail like it's nothing cause of his attitude. They tried to talk shit about his height at a local party and he was quick to say you ain't going to be talking ab…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 01:46 AM
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I'm not a politician, Dodge me the terminology And why should I? I'm not condescending, perhaps to you, but I speak in a general form so anyone reading this may relate. If this offends you, please leave or better yet destroy my argument rather than let emotion come to play anyone and give short passive, aggressive responses. I'm not superior, I'm far from it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:13 AM
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Check out any recent comments or field report and the stunning amount of claims of single mothers, manipulative women, cheating and otherwise non LTR quality females involved. I'm not a white knight and I'm only calling it as I see it. If trying hard and acting like an emotional asshole with no regards to your partner to get laid with low quality women is satisfactory, then so be it. But if severe complaints and emotional problems are born from this and you are quick to run AWALT from those you …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:54 AM
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You believe that he's shaming others for being alpha but he isn't. He even suggests there may be a period where everyone who has baggage and trauma with women may go to over compensate for the years and it won't be pretty. I don't entirely love The Red Pill because I truly feel we've been burned and abused early. And we take it out on women to compensate for the bullshit when it doesn't have to be this way. The lanugage is heartbreaking for me but I know deep down it's tough to cope in this worl…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:15 AM
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Now fear of intimacy is something I wondered about personally and if I hit all the symptoms. As for autism, I technically have ADHD. I feel normal but what is normal to begin with.Maybe I am autistic without realizing it. Now my favorite part.I love this post because this is why I'm at a tough stage. I don't like the language of the red pill despite the frustrations brought about from women.I want companionship but then there are days where I rationalize not trying to date or such. Then days I w…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 10:39 PM
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I live with my parents cause I'm young, I haven't gotten a job to explore the opportunity and three, not playing russian roulette with my dick. I do accept the suggestion since it would psychologically help me.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 09:44 PM
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Yeah, I never fantasized about the women, thinking that they arepure and I'd be dirty for such thoughts. Then down the road realized it is shit and proceeded to sexualize every single woman in my path that is remotely attractive. Saw a woman in a instagram ready outfit, tights or leggings, white sneakers, baseball cap, rocking hips and body. God, the porno reel in my mind went haywire and forced me to head elsewhere to calm nyself down before giving a visible sight to my state.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:37 AM
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While it isn't a complete answer, it supplies context and shows that it's normal to objectify women as sexual creatures. And while they may debate that they don't, they really do.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:34 AM
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I know but after chilling in a bigger city, hot, drunk women going crazy and dancing the night away. I would not participate but sinply astonish how many go just to party with friends. I'd avoid them like thr plague.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 05:56 PM
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I do, but even then I do not do it often, once a week or two weeks and it feels like a duty and not because I am aroused. I do not want to blame the world but glancing at others hooking up and seeing me as "defective" annoys me I do not know where this inferiority came from but I want to get rid of it. If approaching is the answer, then, I have no choixe. Is there a way to stop self repressing my libido?
/r/askTRP30/04/16 05:52 PM
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I'm 21 right now. I don't use introvert as a crutch but I find it where I don't like to party and do stupid shit and have a defeatist purpose if I don't have a reason. I've grown to be a more serious guy but right now, I'm planning on acting like my aloof, relaxed sense. I guess art of seduction it is. I've read models twice and doing it a third time after learning about the red pill. The book's keeping my sanity and ability to cherish women, but not through rose stained glass. Power of Now's go…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:24 PM
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Yeah, like, before I didn't try to impress anyone but myself and I ended up getting popular but again, once I started learning game, red pill and shit, my inner game crumbled. I did radiate happiness and perfection, a feeling of just being in a bubble of abundance. But the harsh truths permanently killed my vibe. I'll do my best and will try to use the topics I love. And will try to shine this aura of entertainment.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:20 PM
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The red pill uses a logical approach but Models does it where you are yourself, your body and behavior matches who you are. When you are a rock and everything about you is congruent. Women will know you aren't bullshitting and are honest. They listen to what you are doing and not your words. That's why if you ever say fake compliments with women, they get pissed. A girl said she looked ugly when it wasn't the case and I looked in her the eye, smiling and said I think you look cute, no bullshit, …
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:18 PM
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Robert glover
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:14 PM
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I'm an itnrovert, yet I was the life of the party before and making others laugh and give them some freedom. Just the chill guy. Maybe I gave the IDGAf vibe but when I read pickup and the likes, then the red pill, my inner game has been in shambles and haven't recovered. Though, art of seduction is in the bucket list and will be reading simultaneously with 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 09:13 PM
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No more mr Nice guy 48 Laws of Power Art of Seduction Models In that order. No more mr nice guy is how to get what you want in life. 48 laws is perfect in business. Art of seduction can be used for sales tactics. Models isn't just women, it is also a way to improve yourself to be the best human you can be through lifestyle, diet and workout ethic.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 12:03 PM
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You don't understand what this forum is about. There's misogyny in this forum thanks to those who've been lied to all their entire life from women and absentee father figures. This is how they cope with it. Via anger and knowing they have a way to express it online without backlash. Now, it hurts me when such ideas refer to women like objects and footstools because it's demoralizing. But after starting Mark Manson's how to attract women through honesty, he even suggests going through a therapist…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 11:57 AM
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Negative reinforcement. You are right. Just now, I thought about applying for something and then negativity hit me as if I wouldn't get the part. But then I realize I'm searching for excuses rather than face shit head on and get an answer. Thank you Sir Edward. I appreciate your time
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:47 PM
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try applying sex god method, try new and exciting ways for sex, be dominant, and see how far she'll take it. Not much to add. If she's not interested or is bored, find someone else because it's slowly declining against your favor.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 08:07 PM
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Thank you, I'll try to stay present.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:46 PM
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Hm, I have no experience with this but I'll try my hand. She sees a girl holding your hand. That's probably worst thing that could have happened. If you two were walking together, than she could assumed you are attractive to a girl. But this might put a dent in your plans. If anything, talk with the Mexican girl, and when she asks, (not if, SHE WILL ASKS) tell her to not worry about it. She'll probably ask again. Just smirk, eye fuck her and change the topic like the weather. She'll get the hint…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:25 PM
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Already halfway there.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:45 PM
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Nice. When I improve my posture, I go to 5'7, 5'8 in a military posture but on the off chance I might be able to grow two more inches, it'll give me a better chance with women from height alone.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:31 PM
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I need to know how much of a growth spurt we talking? I'm the same height, 5'6, 5'7. I'm curious what your height is now?
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:22 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EA1OYV2PYaU @ 1:45 This is all I can think about how you handled it. Great job. You kept frame and didn't take no shit from her. Great field report
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 09:47 PM
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You're right. While I do not have a car or the money for a motel, at least I know that it's in my complete grasp to get what I want. A self fulfilling prophecy when I can change it around. Thank you for showing me there's always an answer. As they say If there's a will, there's a way.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:43 PM
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AWALT You need strong boundaries. I have a sibling who likes to shop and I'm pretty passive around them. BUT, the moment money comes up, my gaurd is up and they know how stingy I am. Thus, they never ask and are self reliant. They know I won't budge unless circumstances. Car payment cause of an issue that I know about and seen? Pass. Money for shoes or boxes? Haha, step aside. You are valuable, give her respect and protection but don't let her think she can put her hands in the cookie jar every …
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:38 PM
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About to start up the gym and make a commitment this weekend. And make it a consistent part of my life. Thank you for your time.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:04 PM
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I'm not here to give a defeatist attitude, but I forgot to mention that I live in one of the richest county in the USA and so, living by myself with a minimum wage job is self-destructive. But trust me, this had been on my mind and have a place when I work and get just enough money.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:37 PM
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You can't gain muscle and not gain weight, nor lose weight and not lose muscle. You have to sacrifice something. If you control your diet, you can minimize fat gains and maximize muscle by buffing up. Then once you gain muscle in roughly a year, you should have 4 pounds in a year, keep working out and then start cutting while using the same weight for your body for maintenance. This tells your body you NEED this muscle and look elsewhere for the energy loss. AKA Fat.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:36 PM
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Read Way of Superior Man. This will be a grand test of who you are. An example in the book is called for the man to be shiva, unbreakable, unchangeable from her influence. Be the man, a rock, give her a hug, or the next time she starts this shit, caveman her by picking her up, throwing her on the bed and be just a pure animal. See how things go and her reaction. Be primal, dominant and be a man if this happens and see if she retracts and become fully feminine and submissive around you.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:28 PM
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Get outta here, that's easily 15 percent body fat. You look good to be honest. Just lower your calorie intake a bit while increasing your work load as a balance. You should be well on your way. I lost over 100 pounds from diet alone but I need to lose 5-20 pounds for my body to be a huge difference thanks to height. I'm probably at 20-25 percent body fat but it's around the hips and chest. Do this math Say you weigh 200 with 50 pounds of fat. That's 25 percent body fat You lost twenty pounds and…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:24 PM
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Must be the biggest shit test. Read sex god method since penis size won't matter until it becomes a sour point. The fact you asked others you fucked only makes it worse in a insecure way. Of course they'd fuck others who have a bigger package. But it doesn't matter, It's how you make them feel and get them wet. Read Sex God method on ruling the bedroom and use The Red Pool side bar and top posts for theory to implement for yourself. don't hang yourself up.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:26 AM
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Rant incoming with personal experience, here's a TLDR; Don't give a fuck about others, give a fuck about who you are and what you have for value. I don't mean be a little beta saying I got money, isn't that enough? No, cultivate a lifestyle and prove those fuckers wrong. I was an omega. People avoided me and the friends that stuck with me, stayed with me. They were told and even yelled at by peers as WHY THE FUCK YOU HANG OUT WITH HIM! They had reasons, overweight, low drive, slept in class etc.…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:10 AM
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Basically, it's the concept that you can leave her and find other women, which instills dread in the woman you are seeing. She'll work harder to be better and get your attention. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2rsk3s/the_intelligent_alpha_male_smv_and_why_dread_game/ This is the long, detailed version for theory. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2yn5j5/guys_wife_stops_putting_effort_into_their/ Here's a true example of real life of what dread game does in application
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:31 AM
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Crew Cut. Probably the most masculine cut a man can get. Want proof? I had hair slightly longer than yours, got along with men and women. Cue the haircut over the weekend, came in, everyone was astonished, some guys gave me pure respect, women were gawking and one couldn't even say anything for what felt like ten seconds with an open mouth like holy shit! It's respected in society, go for it, complete with a baseball cap, badass, bad boy vibe and see how that goes.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:59 PM
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Radio Silence. She wants to separate and probably is used to men chasing here. Just say k. This would frustrate her. K? That's it? He doesn't give a fck about me? Rant blah blah and continue to ignore. If she wants you and isn't bullshitting, she WILL chase and for the love of god, CLOSE this time. In the meantime, go fuck someone else while she's dealing this.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:41 PM
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"Usually it's said around here no contact til the date" You answered your own question. Why build rapport? Are you sure this is truly her? And won't be catfished? Don't respond and just show up to the date. This is a little red flag, catch others on the date.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:32 PM
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Give her one chance, be as red pill as possible, get her alone, arouse her and when she does some LMR/ASD, back out and be like "k" Put your pants on, get water or watch Tv. If she truly cares, she'll re-initiate. . If she continues this, just tell her you got to get up early in the morning or whatever. If she doesn't cave then, you now know exactly where she stands. Even better, freeze her out when you make out, saying we shouldn't be doing this or something.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:28 PM
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Listen to abdada. If you haven't put your dick inside that vag, consider it dried up and will never be yours. She could do oral, anal, titfucking or any other act but since you didn't truly fuck her, she won't spread her legs for you. Find someone else, this is a done deal
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:19 PM
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Pre-selection. Possible FWB when they are down for it, especially after you had sex with them. Using them to introduce you to other women and guys to boost your social circle, especially the hot girls that you can then fuck. If you mean be a beta man who only gives her compliments and buy her shit while she gives you a compliment, get the fuck out, curb stomp such behavior. Lady friends are great if you are trying to get laid, already had gotten laid with them or to boost your social standing. B…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:02 PM
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Go further in depth. I can't quite understand. The best I can think of is giving you attention and you eat it up but the moment you try to make the moves she looks at you like you treat her like a piece of meat. If anything, be solid, be a rock and say what. Not what as in what is your problem BRO! What as in a stoic calm manner. If she doesn't say anything, deject and push her away when she tries to be affectionate. Don't reward her for bad behavior. Only reward good ones. For better effect, wo…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3jsri5/skeptical_about_trp_theory_try_it_on_your_exgf/ https://archive.is/k6BbE Read all of this. It's a collective guide for using Red Pill on ex. It's a two parter. Utilize it. If you became a sexual man with money and a better life than most, trust me, she'll be interested. And probably will test you to see if you have women in your life or you are desirable by other women. Be the rock that doesn't give away validation for free. Make her earn it. T…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:56 PM
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Forget where the link is but here's a TLDR version. Game is the most important thing to have. Attraction isn't based on looks. There was a thread where a woman confessed to a guy she masturbated solely on how a guy made her feel. Game, social standing, alpha like behavior, not giving a fuck, doing shit for yourself is the best thing you can do. I was quite overweight but I talked the room, chatted with all around me, some cute girls there and got attention from a girl in the back row, giving me …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:47 PM
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Yep, and like I said, if you say don't worry about it and she starts growing curious, she might ask you when you wish to hang out. She'll say what happened yesterday or Friday. Then tease her, if you so curious, come to [location of date] And there, she has further incentive. These shit tests responses blend together and can turn it into a frame that it's all of her own being. She's curious, and if she is so curious, she will yield to your demand. If not, next her Good luck man.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:23 PM
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Multiple ways. Agree and Amplify: As one said, washing your hair or going to a hair stylist for advice. Works if owning a crew cut or bald. An answer that isn't serious. Change the subject: "Don't worry about it" is perfect. And I bet you when you go out, she's going to ask what you did on Friday because she'll be thinking you were out gaming other girls if she cares enough. Ignore completely. Completely ignore and don't respond, hit her up when you are free. Pressure flip: Aren't you a nosy gir…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:06 PM
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If she moves in with you or vice versa, you are then screwed should things turn sour. If she cheats, you have to deal with the fact she lives in your place and all the shit she ever gave you. Worse if you live at hers because she can evict you and you have no place to live. This is why TRP states it's a war. Know your ammo, assets and tread carefully in a LTR. This isn't to discourage you from going but know who you are fighting and dealing with. And if her SMV is so high there are guys with bet…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:31 PM
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"Jealousy is an ugly trait to have." Or "Oh, so you are stalking me now. That's what you were busy with?" Something along those lines. She's mad you aren't texting her but can text others. She's trying to get under your skin. If anything, I'd ignore and keep going with your life. Don't ever explain yourself to her. You're better off calling her out on her traits/personality than validate her claims. If she actually asked around and knows you aren't actively texting her, consider it a plus IF you…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:58 PM
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