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RPRob768/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:38 PM
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RPRob768/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:15 PM
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So should I push then freeze out when she resists? or just keep cool about it and let her set her own pace? This "virgin" thing throws me off.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:06 AM
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Could you elaborate on what you think is stressing her out/what's on her mind and how to ease those concerns?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:57 PM
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I do get the feeling of the shit testing. I actually did do a freeze out once or twice and it really upset her. I stopped the freeze outs and kind of settled for BJs and foreplay on her, but maybe I need to go back to them. I actually have told her those exact words, and she frantically tried to reassure me and love me, and said herself she feels bad about it. Should I go back to making her feel like shit with freeze outs? Because I can, it's just shitty because of how sweet and subservient she …
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:26 PM
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Yeah, she isn't a virgin in the stricter sense, but there still is the issue of her never having a penis inside her vagina. Honestly, I wish she wasn't a virgin at all, because this is a pain the in ass sometimes. She is extremely submissive and good to me sexually and in other ways, but this is a block. What do I do when she resists? Freeze out? De-escalate and re-escalate hasn't worked so much for me. Also, as lame as this sounds, I can't get her to orgasm. I have never had this issue before i…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:16 PM
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Should if she blocks escalation, do a physical freeze out? I have done that, but she gets pretty upset by it. Maybe I'm losing frame by not freezing out?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:09 PM
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Ok then, she isn't a virgin in the strictest of terms, but she hasn't been penetrated vaginally by a penis. I keep pushing, but I don't want to be a dick, she is good to me in most other ways sexually and not. She knows what I expect, but I am being patient with her.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:08 PM
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I can get through it, but I don't want to rape my girlfriend. I have even come close to forcing it in when she says stop, but I can't do that. Is that what you're telling me to do? How hard is it to penetrate the first time?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:58 PM
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Yeah knowing when to stop continuing interaction is tough. It's almost like a matter of delayed gratification, like being on a diet, or procrastinating. I do need to be more conscious about this. I am curious if you have any examples of amused mastery and pressure flipping when it comes to control. I understand the premise, but the practice still eludes me. That was a good article for LTR game, much appreciated.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 01:41 AM
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Thanks for the response and articles, I definitely needed those. I think that I appeared to be too available, and too caring in that I was nurturing her when she was sick at my house. Also I think that she is getting the vibe that I am too controlling, which is one of my faults within relationships. Between her having strep throat before our plans, my micromanagement nature, our time together, and her PMS, she needs time and space to sort things out and figure out what I am to her.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:57 AM
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I've already responded as said. Sold her ticket, and will be going with friends. Going to stay vague about the festival happenings, unless she happens to come around before then.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:44 AM
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Well, I have physically felt her hymen, so there's that. We had issues when I was pushy about sex, and scared her. I am confident that she is a virgin despite previous doubts. I plan on giving her a lot of space, already sold her ticket, and am going NC. Usually this brings her back around. If not, I have my answer. To answer point A: I agree, she has many moments of transcendence, but can be immature and Kardashian and cotton candy headed. This is why I assume the father figure role. B: What le…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:43 AM
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Also: she is still pretty sick, says she is out of it. And fwiw she is about to/is pmsing.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:52 PM
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I think she thrives off male attention due to her trust issues. I've mad expectations clear, and she's been growing into them, just not sure if calling her out of shortcomings is hurting me here. I'm assuming a father-like role fwiw (she calls me daddy). What do you mean about giving her space but having self respect? Shouldn't giving her space, creating distance, be conducive to my self respect?
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:50 PM
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Well she isn't fucking, but she definitely has other men/monkey branches. There's a lot of orbiters in this equation. I've mad my expectations pretty clear and am giving her time to grow into them, as she was, I think her hypergamy instinct is just too strong. She has some trust issues with men.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:49 PM
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