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RPWAlethiaTheElf/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:51 AM
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"Love, I really want to send you back to finish school and get rid of those med[ical] bills for you, but you can't reasonably expect me to do that when we've only been together for less than a year and you've cheated on past partners. You need to show me how much the relationship means to you before I open the floodgates. Trust me, I really want to, but I gotta fight the temptation." If I hand't been privy to RPW when he said that I would have been livid as before I had a nasty habit of feeling …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 08:54 AM
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Like the other ladies have said here already, you need to stop thinking about it so much so it doesn't turn into an actual problem. However, I know its much easier said then done because I'm in the same situation, my husbands only been with me and I six total. Those thoughts you wrote have appeared a lot in my own head and if you let them continue you will start getting into really crazy territory like: "Should I be having threesomes with him to bridge the gap? Will that allow him to experience …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 04:45 AM
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Nor were any anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:33 AM
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Welcome to the internet, where people will ask for stats on something, and then immediately follow it with an anecdote about how they are the exact, polar opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 05:59 AM
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If that makes you sick, I think you need thicker skin. I just finished watching this from Karen coincidentally, so it kind of was a point-prover. Her point (around 13;32 in the vid) that men view objectification as success in the dating world, while women do not is the crux of the topic. /u/apullin raised a good point about the frequency of this happening as well; I've gotten so used to this myself (have it happen at least once a day), so it's a bit of an eye-opener to remember, since woman almo…
/r/MensRights11/06/15 05:26 PM
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clicks link has to sit through yet another childhood story for a set up and a secondary "they used to do this/that to me" pity party Yep, definitely a Ted talk.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 05:05 AM
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You know, I can't count how many times a feminist apologist has used something along the lines of "We need to stop this us against then mentality." or "feminism isn't waging a war against men, we're trying to work with them to gain equality for everyone."; and now they have a multi-million dollar, Hollywood movie with an all-star cast portraying it exactly as such. "Really, it's about all of us working towards a universal goal and the good of humanity."
/r/MensRights05/06/15 11:10 PM
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I don't find Amy Schumer funny at all, even the skits she does for Comedy Central that are supposed to "be aimed at women" fall short; this one was especially cringe-worthy. I saw this trailer a few weeks back while watching T.V. with my boyfriend, and he pointed out the only funny line in the entire trailer was made by a (most likely) side character, John Cena; and since I didn't laugh as much as he did, it must be a Boston thing that went over my head.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 05:47 PM
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You're supposed to make his dick hard, not his life. Just know he is wrong and I am right. JUST KNOW. I've caught and stopped myself from doing this, but other women really need to become aware that just because the collective says/does something doesn't mean you should say/do the same.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 02:01 PM
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My own mother isn't a narcissist, self-absorbed maybe, but not enough to enough to be called the former. I'd caution people to not be so quick to label someone as a narcissist, since, as a dark tetrad trait, it is a serious accusation and not one to throw at someone who may just be arrogant. Unless you seriously answer yes to all those questions, I wouldn't start going around calling your mother a narcissist. There is one field test you can do though: When your around said person, watch how much…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 12:23 AM
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[...] what do you do up until the person does something that proves they deserve your respect or for people who you never necessarily encounter at all? Treat them like shit? Simple, you don't do anything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 12:12 PM
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Maybe in the past year or so, I’ve started to notice that he’s, to put it bluntly, racist. While I wouldn’t consider myself a feminist (I’m not into activism or any of that), I like to consider myself a decent person who treats others with respect and believes people ought to be treated equally, etc. I'll start by saying that I can understand not wanting to be with someone who doesn't share your values, as when you are in a relationship with another person you two are a combined unit. Whatever t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 09:19 AM
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In response to a comment about narcissists, you spend two lengthy posts talking about yourself...look into the mirror and tell me what you see.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 04:06 PM
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Quoting OP here: [...] he profusely apologizes and asks if I'm okay. I agree with you /u/Ojisan1, this can be a habit formed in bad upbringings, especially if one of the parents is a narcissist. My boyfriend will fall back into the same habit sometimes and it is infuriating. I couldn't understand why it kept coming back until I met his mother, and I never wanted to strangle a bitch more in my life than her. If a child spends his entire formative years growing up in the shadow of someone like tha…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 07:36 AM
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refreshes page, post gone You're quick. All I got out of that post was the two were saving themselves for one another, she slept with someone else, and he still wants a relationship. I couldn't understand the second half.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 03:01 PM
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I'm wondering if there is some equivalent text out there for women? The ones that come to mind are: Nina Hartley's Guide To Total Sex - Not read it, but when I was stripping (got to remember to use that word instead) there were a number of girls reading it and it's supposed to be very good. It's aimed more at couples/guys though, not exclusively women. How To Be A Great Lover - Was given to me for an evening by a friend and was surprisingly good. I'm ordering it for myself now that you've remind…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 08:42 PM
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Other times this program is that one catalyst I need to get off the computer in the morning and get to work. I'm going to try this, thanks for the link! :) EDIT: CT's free version is very simple, but it doesn't allow you to block out all websites, so there is still that temptation to go browsing if you get sucked in. The extension I found for Chrome is also free (StayFocused), but completely cuts all internet use if that's what you need.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 06:00 PM
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I have also been trying to be everything to my SO, but I see the women around me (whether on social media or wherever) and I cant help but just feel...inadequate. I see these women who are beautiful, having beautiful wedding and beautiful lives, and theres a part of me that wonders if that will actually ever be me. And If I can be that feminine, beautiful, graceful. When I used social media during university, I'd always have other women asking me how I looked so beautiful or glamorous; that was …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 05:57 PM
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TL;DR I'm thinking about taking the plunge and moving to be with my SO without work lined up beforehand, but my anxiety is getting in the way. I'm in a somewhat similar position as you are, my man is from the US and I'm from the UK and we're moving towards one of us having to move the other's country. What would be ideal for us is me moving out with him, as he has his own apartment and in ~2 years will start building his own house, but as you say "taking the plunge" without any kind of safety ne…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 07:03 AM
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I'm speaking in the future-sense, if she has children with him, the only route she can go is marriage. Think before you comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 03:38 PM
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I'm sure my children would be intelligent enough to understand that while they believe their religious faith to be true, not everyone else does. You don't need to have classroom instruction to tell them this. They could be raised Catholic of course, and go to Sunday school, [...] This must have been your upbringing. One does not learn over a millennium of collective human experience and esoteric knowledge by going to Sunday school as a kid. It's your duty as a Catholic parent to prepare your chi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 05:40 AM
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[...] I would allow them to be raised Catholic, provided I was also able to teach them about all world religions, because I think it's important for them to learn tolerance. Just by you saying this, you are going to have problems in the future. You approach the subject as if you think Catholicism isn't tolerant and that will insult your SO, guaranteed. Your responsibility in the marriage contract (that you need to sign in order to get married in the Church) is that any kids born of your union be…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 04:26 AM
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In my experience if a guy is into you he'll usually ask something like what your plans are for the upcoming weekend, in which case its easy to slip it in. This is a really good observation and I'm going to remember it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 06:46 AM
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Did a bit of morning reading going through that site, it's not that bad and there is a lot of good information there. This article was particularly interesting, I had always wondered if I was the only who thought our world worshiped independence. Though their advice aimed at men isn't that great to say the least.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 12:40 PM
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I doubt it will work for all men, but it is definitely an interesting trick to keep in mind. Maybe it's just my inner sadist, but I would like to see my man beat the crap out of the other guy if this situation happened, there's something really...primal about it. I don't know how to describe it, I'm not a wordsmith.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 12:07 PM
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I am 26 years old, probably a 3 or 4/10 on the scale. [...] He's my third boyfriend and my eighth sexual partner. I'm not judging your past, I'm just surprised that if you are really a 3/10 that you were able to get eight men to sleep with you... Any ideas on what I can do to help us out? Or how I can do better? Watch the porn with him and see if it gets both of you in the mood. When he comes home one day, surprise him by making dinner naked and see what happens. Give him the opportunities to ta…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:16 PM
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I know what you mean, I don't listen to music unless I'm dancing, but all that stuff (hip-hop/r&B, some electronica) is overloaded with sexual themes. Even the folk stuff I like (like Romania's Andrea/Sahara) is heavily sexualized; my favorite group, Nikitia is probably the worst of them. I've been liking some of the lighter stuff my man listens to though, like: Nightwish, Amaranthe, and Lacuna Coil which have been the least "dirty".
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 10:59 PM
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I think really I am just looking for advice from more experienced people telling me that I am really not missing out on anything and just to ignore everyone telling me I am! The only thing your missing out on is pain. Feel lucky that you have only been with your S.O., it makes it that much more special. Your friends say what they do out of jealousy, they want what you have. Don't pay any attention to what they have to say, better yet, find some new friends if these prove to be really toxic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 06:24 PM
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really, you can combat your past a bit by letting him "own" you any way he needs to have that demonstrated. That's the goal I have mind. The Rationale Male link really gave me the answer I needed as it was the last piece to the puzzle. I can't really surrender to my boyfriend if he doesn't already feel like I'm his, if that makes sense. I knew my past with cheating was the biggest hurdle to overcome, so I tried the phone thing already (it was mentioned in a few other threads on here iirc) by giv…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 03:05 PM
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I'll see if I can be on tonight, unless I can get it to work through my phone. I may bug you all with dumb questions though. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 02:36 PM
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I browsed AskWomen a few times, but didn't see any reason to return regularly, same with TwoX. Maybe I just haven't acquired any enemies yet, but I didn't realize people would actual PM this kind of stuff to you, just because you voiced a different perspective. : / What happens if your husband divorces you or (God forbid) dies young? How will you support yourself? Will you move back in with your parents? What happens when they pass? Do you move on to mooching off a sibling? I used to be ashamed …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 11:03 PM
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I'm not trying to make him jump through hoops, I just don't want to pile every experience into the beginning of the relationship and not have anything left for the future. We only just started being intimate 2 weeks ago anyway, so it'd be a bit weird to bring in another person into the bed so soon; and that's still assuming he will want that too, we've haven't really discussed our desires yet. Why do women persist in this mentality Well...we are crazy...so... ;D
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 05:09 PM
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Those are amazing! And the first one comes in black! :D five minutes later It all adds up so quickly...
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 03:30 PM
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I've only had one threesome (FFF) and it wasn't that great. I wouldn't be opposed to having one with him at all (I kinda like the idea), but I'd rather wait till the relationship is more solid and I'd rather save it as a gift for sometime special.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 02:53 PM
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[...] which is why maybe giving it some time and not overwhelming him with it all could be a good thing. I think you're right and I'll save the conversation till my trip over there when we're both in a good mood and away from everyone else. Thank you for all the helpful insight! :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 02:50 PM
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That was a really interesting and helpful read, thanks. :) Unless a woman is a porn actress, I don’t think it’s the number of guys that bothers Men; and I don’t even think it’s the details of how many dicks she’s had. What’s bugs men is that they want to possess her. This once the missing piece of the puzzle I needed. I think I'm going talk to him again and try to delve a bit more deeper into the details on my past to help make sense of it, so he's not following ghosts. Since I'm bisexual and my…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 11:23 PM
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Sure, go ahead. You can send me a message too if that's a better option for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 07:06 PM
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I know a lot guys are really sensitive about it, I don't understand why though. I've read enough of Reddit to know not to go anyway near the subject.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 02:06 PM
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I didn't think of that, so thank you for telling me. He doesn't even know the names of my past exes (well, except the one), let alone how big they were, nor does he seem to show any care for it. So I wonder if I'm the first to bring it up, does that throw up a red flag to him? And I'd be lying, so if he does find out somehow, I'd just have created another problem for him to deal with. I'd rather just not mention it and keep Pandora's box sealed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:06 PM
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All you can really do is your very best to put his mind at ease and help him to feel able to really relax and not worry about your commitment to him. That's the idea that I had and what I'm striving for with the help of RPW. I realize our relationship has started off on less than ideal footing because of my past and I'm determined to do everything I can to make up for it. I struggle a little with this too, oh to have known about TRP years ago! May I ask about your struggle?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 11:56 AM
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I just reread my post and realized it could be seen as accusatory, so I apologize if it came of like I was attacking you, I wasn't. However, I disagree with the notion that you shouldn't have compassion for people you aren't directly related to. I think you should try to practice compassion for all people and things, because if everyone thought this way - the world would be a better place. You operate from the central idea that the world can be a better place, I don't think it can be. Just in th…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:43 PM
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These are probably going to be an unpopular opinions, even for RPW, but: I am well aware that there is awful sexism that women living in The Middle East, Africa and some Asian countries have to deal with on a day to day basis. Have you ever asked yourself why you should even give a damn about those women? They are in separate countries in entirely different continents, so why burden yourself with their problems? Just because they share the same parts as you? If that's the case, we really are liv…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:09 PM
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If a man I was dating even so much as implied that he was cheating, I would break up with him and end it immediately, no ifs ands or buts. I had the same sudden reaction when I first read it, and while I still wouldn't tolerate a man implying to cheat since I've been cheated on before, that isn't all of what "dread game" is. When me and my boyfriend went out to dinner last week, with him looking particularly dark and sexy that night, I got somewhat jealous when our waitresses began flirting with…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 09:14 PM
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The LARPing would be a bit extreme for me I think. ;) I only know the World of Warcraft one since my brother got addicted to it during college. I just asked my guy about it and he said while it's kinda a let down that it shut down, he wouldn't be interested in an open-world version of it where he would have to deal with other people; since those games live and die off their social interactions, other players can really ruin your time. I get what he means and I really like playing as just the two…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 05:44 PM
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It really is an well done area; I haven't played any horror games (don't want to either), but my boyfriend who hates them absolutely loves that level because, in his words, "It's so good because it's pure terror, which is the most refined form of fright for entertainment. You only ever get glimpses of what is actually scaring you and you end the level wanting to go back into the mansion because you want to understand the mystery and terror.". Me and him have very different tastes in hobbies, but…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 01:42 PM
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Thanks. :) That phrase (don't judge me) is a pet peeve of mine, you might as well say "I can't deal with criticism".
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 03:49 PM
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If you're so afraid of someone judging you, don't post on a public forum. Humans judge, you need to learn to live with it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 02:33 PM
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Let's just break it down to an ELI5: That was very helpful actually, as I really do not know anything about fitness. I've stuck with those three activities for a long time and I guess never seen the point in changing my exercise routine. I guess a better way to phrase my original question would have been what are the benefits of lifting weights compared to what I do now (which would be classified under cardio I'm guessing)? Apologies if I offended you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:37 PM
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Ballet Beautiful Omg, these are perfect for me! Thank you for throwing that name out there. :D EDIT: I notice almost everyone here is doing some kind of weight training, doesn't that make you bulky? Between my yoga, dance, and running I stay in shape pretty well, so I'm wondering why some of you seem to be killing yourselves with weights?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 01:44 PM
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I never used to play them, but I started to with current boyfriend and actually having quite a fun time. I really like the games with some kind of ancient historical mystery to solve so it feels like we're Mr. & Mrs. Indiana Jones. :) We've been going through Vampire the Masquerade: Bloodlines and I've really enjoyed just exploring all the background in that game, it's such a well-crafted and detailed setting (with actual Vampires). And the Haunted Hotel...oh my god...I nearly peed myself at the…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 01:28 PM
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That was a really helpful post, going to go through the rest of her blog when I get home from work. They want to feel desired and like the woman is utterly and completely addicted to him, and only him. That put so many things in perspective for me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 07:33 PM
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We did and he said he's thinking it over while on his business trip and we'll talk again this weekend. I'm trying to think of nice things to do to inch his mind closer to staying, but I'm still new to RPW. :(
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 02:54 PM
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...but don't try to say things like, "But you're the best," or, "they didn't mean anything," or anything else you might come up with to make it better because it will only make it worse. Why will it make it worse?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 04:24 AM
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Yes, his is 0.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 04:17 AM
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My boyfriend and I started having this discussion on Saturday actually and we're going to finish it when he's back from his trip. When I was honest with him and told him my number (5), his face and demeanor visibly changed and he became very unsettled. I'm dreading the rest of the conversation. Among my friends, my number is the lowest and I never thought it would really matter and that I would be fine, but now I'm realizing it does and I'm really scared I'm going to loose this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:25 AM
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