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1	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? I mean I think women need to put in effort to enjoy it of course, but even if she tries to enjoy it if he’s not paying attention to whether she’s enjoying herself that will also obviously affect the experience to a great degree. I never said it doesn’t require effort on both sides. I have actually asked a guy to do something that I liked before and he got offended and didn’t do it. Needless to say, it was disappointing and I didn’t get a lot of pleasure with him. A lot of guys have big egos abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 07:46 PM
1	Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum? I think it’s because generally whether a man cares about the woman’s pleasure actually makes a huge difference in how pleasurable it will be for her whereas the opposite is not true. After all, men usually try to skip foreplay as they don’t really need it for a good experience. The thing is, a lot of women don’t get much pleasure from penetration unless it’s done in a specific way and she can’t control that. I think a lot of men don’t realize how different it is for a woman in terms of the basel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/19 06:55 AM
1	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell I don’t think chubby women are as attractive as leaner women to the majority of men. They certainly aren’t the counterpart to fit men. I think maybe you just are attracted to chubby women? On the other hand maybe you consider a healthy body fat percentage for a woman to be chubby? Women can’t really be that lean without running into health problems.. so the same body fat percentage as a chubby man could be considered fit for a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/19 04:07 AM
1	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell It’s not the same for women, a lot of women don’t want any bulk on their arms at all. You know, they just have a different aesthetic than you do and don’t want to look athletic. It’s pretty easy to gain visible muscle on my upper body in my experience,and personally I do not like it. No, I don’t look like a bodybuilder, obviously, because i am not trying to look like one anyway, but I also don’t like my arms to be big at all. Actually it makes it hard to find clothes that fit properly because mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 03:14 PM
1	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell Yes, but there’s a minimum amount of fat needed as a woman to be hormonally healthy. And where I store fat is due to genetics. If I got more muscular, it wouldn’t make me look slimmer because I store fat on my legs. I have been more muscular and I don’t look slim, just more athletic. The only way my legs will look slimmer is by losing fat. Which may or may not be sustainable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 05:38 PM
1	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell Not sure what you’re trying to say here. It’s not true that you can’t be underweight if you have muscle. Look at many professional models, ballerinas, or professional dancers for example; many of them are underweight but have visible muscle tone. Their body doesn’t “eat the muscle” because they are maintaining their weight and using their muscles and getting enough protein. They aren’t necessarily healthy, though. They are the ideal but their body shape, body fat percentage, and overall aestheti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 05:13 PM
1	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell I mean Kate Upton is not on really good shape for a model though, she definitely should be in better shape for her career. Models are supposed to be skinny. She has a thick waist.. I’m a girl and I wouldn’t want my body to look like hers. But she’s definitely better looking than the average woman in the US. The other women just looks like an average woman to me. Personally I don’t think she’s ugly but she’s obviously not the ideal, either. Just because you work out and eat healthy does not mean …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 04:52 PM
3	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell A lot of women do things like fitness classes, yoga, barre, pilates, spin, bootcamps, run marathons, etc.. part of the reason is because men at the gym can be really creepy and most women don’t want to be that muscular so lifting weights is not a priority for them, although it’s getting more popular. Tbh I go to a gym that is about 50/50 males and females and most people are not in that great shape whether they are a man or women. Tons of guys also focus far too much on getting muscular but not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 04:47 PM
3	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell That’s probably because those guys need to lose weight. Leanness matters more than the size of muscles for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 03:42 PM
4	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell Really attractive men only tend to have LTRs with fairly skinny women though	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 03:38 PM
4	Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hell Well I have a pretty low BMI but I store most of my fat in my lower body and I do have a wider frame so I have thunder thighs and prominent cellulite. I’m pretty sure I’d have to be fairly underweight to look slim. Not everyone can achieve the ideal easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/19 03:36 PM
1	CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or so I said it’s “probably part of the reason,” not the only reason. So this is a pointless debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/19 04:39 PM
1	CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or so When did I say that? I am just talking about information that’s already widely known, which is that the changes in the brain are much more profound between 18 and 26 than 26 and 32. Doesn’t mean your brain doesn’t keep changing, and there’s a point where it start changing but not for the better. I guess you just feel like calling bullshit on anyone who doesn’t agree with you. Besides, the end result still means that on average, someone who is middle-aged is more mature and capable of making bett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/19 02:56 PM
1	CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or so Why can’t it be both? The experiences you have do affect brain development. And I don’t see how you can call bullshit on that, unless you’re an expert.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/19 02:36 PM
5	CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or so 18 year olds aren’t allowed to buy cigarettes, medical marijuana, drink alcohol, or gamble... both men and women’s brains (specifically the prefrontal cortex which is the most important part for decision making) aren’t developed fully until age 26, that’s probably part of the reason why teenagers make lots of stupid decisions. They’re actually not fully grown yet. 18 is an arbitrary cutoff and it doesn’t reflect reality as most people aren’t fully independent and self-sufficient at 18 nowadays. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/19 03:31 AM
3	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Did you read those comments? She was banned because she was rude to people, not for talking about her clitoris.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/19 02:57 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? If it doesn’t translate to the real world, what was the point? To reinforce your opinions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:52 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Sure, but if they don’t care about each other’s mutual enjoyment then it’s not about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:33 PM
2	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Thats the at risk numbers, I don’t think there’s hard data on how many actually are getting it done still because it’s so rare, plus it’s illegal in 35 states and I’m sure no medical doctors not from countries where cutting is common are performing it nowadays. I think you should read some of the subreddits here and you will see women do care about sexual pleasure. There are reasons women have expressed their sexuality less than men historically. I for one would hate to have no clitoris as it’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:32 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Well, I’m assuming if he is forceful with her she would get bruised, anyway. I don’t think you understand what I’m saying. There’s no point to this conversation because you’re just repeating your point of view over and over. Sure it’s scary. But obviously unless there are some witnesses you will get away with it, too, a lot of times women report men and nothing really happens to them because the police don’t know how to handle domestic violence. It’s not as though they will automatically believe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:10 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Alright but honestly how many women can actually kill a man with a punch? That’s a bit ridiculous, don’t you think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:06 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? I don’t think you really understand the physiological differences between men and women. There’s a huge difference. I am average strength for a girl, actually more athletic than average because o do work out. I’ve done powerlifting before and I couldn’t deadlift that amount let alone push it away from me easily. It’s not that easy to fight someone who is 1.5 times your size. Also lots of guys are much bigger than 80 kg in the US (lots of overweight people). You know it’s not black and white like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:03 PM
2	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Yes, casual sex where the people are using each other’s bodies as masturbation tools is objectification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 12:50 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? The evo-psych that people talk about on TRP absolutely is BS. None of those people are science-literate, and it seems you aren’t either if you’re so eager to believe whatever they tell you. That’s the irony of that sub, you really have to buy into a lot of flimsy half-truths that seem right without any critical thinking. Do you think what you’re doing is any better than gender studies? Have you actually taken any evolutionary psychology classes or did you get your information from the internet a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:42 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? I’m aware of rules to protect men against false accusations. I do sympathize with men because obviously that’s not a good position to be in. However, those rules were created in part because there’s a possibility that the accusations were not actually false. I don’t think any of those things about men. I believe men and women deserve equal rights and protections. However the way you make your argument makes me think that you don’t believe rape actually ever happens and that most accusations are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:34 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? The difference is that a man can easily throw a woman off of him because he has a lot of upper body strength, while a woman can’t do the same thing. It’s much easier for a man to overpower a woman unless the woman is some type of bodybuilder and the man is really weak. Now what happened to him is different because he could easily have forced her to stop. Assuming that she heard him, what she did is wrong, still, but it’s not the same situation because the likely outcomes are different. The woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:20 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? That’s true, but you didn’t actually address what I said. Liking someone for their looks doesn’t mean you can’t like them for other non-shallow reasons. Dating a person for no other reason than for sex/ their looks is still objectification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 01:10 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Alright the scenario could happen, but what is the likelihood that it actually happens? I think it’s more likely for a guy to have sex with a girl and not stop when she tells him to. Some men are predatory and violent, unfortunately. Most women aren’t going to make up a story about rape, unless they’re insane, it makes no sense for someone to make a big deal out of nothing. That’s not being naive, that’s being logical. I’ll tell you how you can avoid this happening to you: don’t be a pushy douch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 02:36 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? You don’t get it at all. I don’t think you actually read my comment. I didn’t say that if a man want to sleep with a woman he’s objectifying her. I’m saying that if he goes out of way to try to get a woman to have sex with him when it is totally inappropriate and she’s not exactly giving him signals that she’s interested, that guy is stupid. If a man tries to get his employee to have sex with him, that’s probably because he’s self-centered and doesn’t see her as a person with equal rights. The s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 02:27 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Yeah, you TRPers love to talk about evolutionary psychology as if it’s proven and not pseudoscience. You can come up with any explanation to suit your beliefs, and maybe it “makes perfect sense” to you, but that doesn’t mean your beliefs reflect reality.. I’m guessing you have never taken any academic courses on these subjects and you got all your ideas from reddit... I have a feeling you’re talking about Brock Turner’s trial.. well the thing is he didn’t “grab her ass,” he actually raped her wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 02:22 AM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Are you serious? Damn, you must have horrible sex FYI most women do care about sex, you need to widen your perspective What country do you live in? Are you Muslim? That would explain a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 06:51 PM
2	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Not exactly.. it’s exploitation when she isn’t attracted to him and feels forced to do it. Otherwise she enjoys it as much as the guy does, if he’s trying to make it good for her too. The fact that you believe that makes me think you are inexperienced and not very good at pleasuring a woman. The problem is men don’t see women as people, they see them as objects to be used. If they saw women as people they might consider a woman’s point of view before trying to get her to have sex with him. Clear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 06:37 PM
3	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? I don’t think this is true at all in the West. A lot of women masturbate and own vibrators nowadays. Maybe if they are repressed and have never masturbated they wouldn’t care. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 06:32 PM
1	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Really? That doesn’t seem like a common reaction at all. That’s ridiculous. You would need to provide evidence of these talk shows for me to believe that. That’s really sad that those women don’t value their clitorises.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 06:02 PM
2	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Tbh any guy stupid enough to try to get sexual favors from employees deserves whatever fallout he gets. There’s a power dynamic there that puts the woman at risk of losing her job if she says no. And if she says anything about it she will also ruin her reputation. It’s a form of coercion. So I can see why men might believe that a woman was into it, when all along she was internally cringing and later accuses him of sexual assault. Not to mention there’s many times when the woman just doesn’t res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 06:00 PM
1	What would happen if a majority of guys became "redpilled" in the specific sense of disfavoring LTRs/marriage, strongly preferring short term/no strings, arranging priorities around maximizing viability as a short term partner, etc.? The income is high there because the housing prices are high.. it’s an illusion. There are lots of homeless people there today because we no longer have asylums and there are lots of drugs and SF is considered a destination for the homeless population. There’s more aid and better weather in CA cities than in other cities. All of that has nothing or at least very little to do with people not getting married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 05:27 PM
3	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? What women are saying that??? I’ve never heard a woman say FGM is not a big deal lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 05:16 PM
2	Women may have it easier when it comes to attaining sex. But we have so many risks like STD/pregnancy/emotional attachment/social stigma. Why don't people take this into account? Do you really think false-rape accusations are more common than actual sexual assault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 05:14 PM
1	STDs at an all-time high, condom use in decline, and syphillis is highest among ages 25-29. Most people have HPV. I believe it’s over 80% PF the population, Usually they don’t test for it because of that, so most people don’t know they have it. I believe there are over a hundred different strains, and not all types are likely to cause cancer. The HPV vaccine can only prevent you from getting some of the strains. Most people don’t get HPV warts even if they are a carrier. And warts go away, and usually you don’t get them again. It’s not that bad, just like herpes. I’m surprised your obg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/19 02:50 AM
4	STDs at an all-time high, condom use in decline, and syphillis is highest among ages 25-29. Don’t forget hpv and hep b..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/19 02:24 AM
1	People on this sub seem to be confusing 30 year olds with 45 or 50, besides it's not like middle-aged people aren't attractive too! I am basing that off of my upper middle class family in Southern Europe and their social circle. They played sports as kids but the adults do not really work out. They didn’t have a big gym culture and I never saw people biking or running there like I do in US. They have less stress though. I wouldn’t say they eat super healthy (they weren’t that into veggies and vegetarianism/ veganism/ being a health but of any kind is very uncommon there). and most of them smoke and drink a lot. I think it ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 02:15 AM
1	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men middle class, idk why it’s so hard for you to believe. You must have grown up around a lot of superficial people	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/19 01:31 AM
3	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men I’m a girl and I’ve had mostly female friends my whole life. We aren’t impressed by cars. And yeah, women who go after rich men are gold diggers. Unless they are on the same level of wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 10:07 PM
1	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men Maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think that many women are gold diggers. Well, I am from California but the distribution of wealth is still similar to the rest of the country. 50% of households are middle class. 20% are considered upper-income. 30% are lower-income but many of them are probably young people who grew up middle class, or they are retired and so they could technically still be considered middle class. So most women aren’t gold-diggers if gold-diggers are almost always poor/ lower class…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:35 PM
1	People on this sub seem to be confusing 30 year olds with 45 or 50, besides it's not like middle-aged people aren't attractive too! I don’t think Europeans age well, either. They smoke a lot more and tanning is really popular. If anything they have more wrinkles. There is also less of a fitness culture in Europe from what I’ve seen. Americans tend to be chubbier, of course, but European countries are getting there as well. I think it’s probably also that a lot of guys here are still in college and unsuccessful. Part of it is probably how you dress and act. And whether you tanned. Maybe since you’re in Northern Europe you hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:27 PM
1	People on this sub seem to be confusing 30 year olds with 45 or 50, besides it's not like middle-aged people aren't attractive too! Collagen powder is not anti-aging. There’s some evidence it can help people with joint issues, but it’s not going to do much for your skin and hair unless you’re protein malnourished. There are things you can do to minimize the loss of collagen though (retinoids and sun protection).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:05 PM
1	People on this sub seem to be confusing 30 year olds with 45 or 50, besides it's not like middle-aged people aren't attractive too! It’s protein.. yes it has calories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:03 PM
3	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men Lol, so I am right. Maybe instead of showing off the small amount of wealth you have you should focus on saving it. That’s how people become affluent. Then you won’t have to worry about gold diggers and you’ll be able to support yourself in retirement..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:02 PM
2	Lower-libido folks what can/cannot you relate to the pillosphere with your dating experiences? I guess you’ve never taken a class on evolution. It’s really not as simple as that. There’s no reason why we’re here. Unless you believe in a creator, we were not “designed” to pass on our genes.m. After all your genes will survive if you help others who are related to you survive and pass on their genes. Therefore not everyone needs to procreate for their genes to be favored by evolution. You just need your family members to pass on their genes. Evolution didn’t “breed out” those who don’t proc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 06:40 PM
4	Lower-libido folks what can/cannot you relate to the pillosphere with your dating experiences? I’m not sure if 1-2 times a week is technically low libido. I think that’s actually the average rate at which people have sex. Married people have sex twice a week and unmarried people have sex once a week (based on a survey). So you and all those women you dated are normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 06:31 PM
5	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men Not really, maybe if you are going after lower class women who think conspicuous consumption is a good thing. People who can take care of themselves would not value it, they might see it as tacky, or as a waste of money. Generally middle class and upper middle class people are not as impressed by things like that, unless they are car enthusiasts themselves, which is rare. If you had a minivan or something that was in terrible condition before and upgraded to a newer model/ something that is well…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 06:22 PM
8	Why do older females (30+) fail to grasp why men prefer younger nubile women? The same could be said of men.. bald men are unattractive. Most older guys are unattractive, even guys that were attractive in their youth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 09:05 PM
8	CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux. Girls who are good looking usually date guys their age, too, especially in college	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/19 05:57 AM
2	Q4W: What is a Fuckboy to you? Well, some lies are worse than others. Some lies are harmless and others are harmful. I would say deliberately misleading someone when you know they will be hurt by your actions is immoral. And I don’t take my morality from religion, either. If you think it’s wrong to harm people in other contexts but not in a context where you benefit, it’s because you’re self-centered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 10:17 PM
1	TRP Is getting deleted TRP actually does have a lot of hateful people on it though. It’s not just conservative... it’s misogyny.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/19 09:39 PM
1	Q4W: What is a Fuckboy to you? Don’t lie usually goes before don’t steal	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 09:23 PM
1	Q2Women: Can you give me some examples of looksmatches between men and women? He wasn’t super hot when he was younger, just good looking enough for a successful acting career. He has always had soft, boyish features.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 01:50 AM
3	This Generation of Men Hey I’m not a dude but I think I get what he’s saying. Obviously, if a guy is relationship-minded, he will wait to have sex when you’re comfortable with him, but putting an arbitrary number of 3 months on it is pretty much unreasonable to a lot of guys since you might seem like you aren’t attracted to him. Unless you’re a teenager or something and sexually inexperienced, or your dating pool is a bunch of conservative Christians, that won’t fly with a high-value man. Anyway the guy won’t commit u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/19 03:10 AM
5	What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub? Basically it says don’t act desperate. Don’t spend all your time trying to please someone within the hopes that they will commit to you. Don’t always be the one calling first, have your own life and don’t drop everything in your schedule to see him (especially if he’s not doing that for you). Don’t do things for him that a wife or serious girlfriend would do for him like cooking for him all the time or cleaning his place, especially if you don’t live together. Even if your goal is to get married…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 01:43 AM
0	What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub? I don’t think high-value men feel threatened by assertive women. I think a guy who wants a doormat probably is insecure with his masculinity. There’s a difference between being overbearing or controlling and being assertive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 01:23 AM
10	What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub? Have you read the book? The title is tongue in cheek. The advice is actually to be assertive, have boundaries, and not be a doormat. Not actually to be a “bitch.” It’s common sense for people with good self-esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 01:19 AM
3	Is dating harder for men today (in general) than it used to be? Or are men today less motivated (in general) than they used to be? I think there were always people who worked out and cared about fashion.. maybe you just weren’t aware of it because you didn’t care? I don’t know that men do more than ever considering men are more obese in general than ever before (close to 40% now in the U.S.). Famous celebrities and actors have dadbods today, too. Actually it’s way more common for male actors to be out of shape than it is for female actors from what I’ve noticed. That said, women are also very obese and overweight. Still, ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 01:00 AM
1	My husband told me that I'm not very attractive This makes sense to me now that he told you you’re unattractive. I think Chinese culture tends to be much more confrontational about physical beauty, especially to women.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/19 12:43 AM
2	My husband told me that I'm not very attractive Well if I were you, I would at least try to get a part time job that you can use the money for to improve your appearance. I think the easiest thing is to fix your teeth; you just need to get braces or Invisalign and you can whiten them at home. If your face is truly asymmetrical, you can get surgeries, but some asymmetry is natural in everyone. As for the shape of your body, if you don’t already you should start to work out (especially lifting weights), I think his matters more than your weight…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/19 12:26 AM
25	Reading men don’t love women like you The book Why Men Love Bitches is about assertiveness, not bitchiness. The title is supposed to tongue-in-cheek. I would not want to be in a relationship with a man who did not like that I was assertive. The alternative to being assertive and up front about what you want may be that you are sacrificing your needs for someone who may not respect you. I remember the book says things like you should be able to pay your own way, take care of your own needs, don’t always be calling him first, don’t al…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/19 07:43 PM
1	Traditional gender roles were never two sides of the same value, and talking about happiness is irrelevant I disagree, women still have the option to fulfill traditional roles. They are both considered equally valid choices by the vast majority of modern feminists. Feminism is supposed to be about being free to make whatever choices you want. There is a key difference there from what you’re talking about. I think people who believe that traditional roles are more “right” feel as if feminism has attacked their way of life because it’s no loner the default position that everyone takes, but just because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 11:33 PM
5	Advice to give your man when HE wants to be more positive? You guys could look into stoicism together. Also mindfulness is a good way to ground yourself when overcome by any type of emotion. I think trying some guided meditation would help. Personally I’m quite neurotic and doing a lot of exercise, especially cardio, helps. Also cognitive behavioral therapy can be used to deal with any type of negative thinking patterns, whether or not someone has a mental illness.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 09:45 PM
6	Virginity is like a trophy. Some people here might tell you to wait for marriage but honestly I don’t think that’s a good idea unless you are religious or something and only go for men with the same beliefs. I think sexual compatibility is a really important part of a serious relationship, and I personally wouldn’t get married to someone who I wasn’t compatible with. Not saying you need to test that out right away in a relationship, but I also don’t think that it “taints” you to have sex with a person you love. Personally …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 06:16 PM
6	Youth obsessed The OKCupid studies are interesting, but hardly unbiased. I don’t understand why you think those two links “prove” your point. It’s not that simple; in the real world the whole women hitting the wall while men are untouched thing doesn’t seem to be true, based on statistics at least. Women like providing men but not to the point that they will be most attracted to the oldest, richest man. Younger men are still more physically attractive. If a woman can find a man closer to her age who is a provi…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 06:05 PM
9	Youth obsessed That doesn’t disprove her idea at all. Sure some men can look good older, but most don’t age well. A lot of women don’t age well, either. Even if women drop in attractiveness due to aging more than men do, that doesn’t men aren’t also significantly dropping in facial attractiveness. And just because perceived “power” is more important to women than it is to men, and hat it rises with age for men, doesn’t mean that it offsets the drop in facial attractiveness enough to actually make older men att…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 03:07 PM
8	Youth obsessed Leo DiCaprio is not even good looking anymore, he’s just able to get younger women because of his fame.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 02:54 PM
7	Youth obsessed There are definitely significant cultural and generational differences between age groups. Like older people are more likely to be conservative, they often listen to whatever music was popular in their youth, etc. There’s a big difference in how different generations spend their time as well. I think older people tend to become less outgoing and spontaneous because they usually have more responsibilities and less time for that sort of thing. But I think there is also a huge difference in how act…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 02:17 PM