TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

RP_PO Archive

View 3 posts and 175 comments by RP_PO on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
175

RP_PO/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 07:08 AM
91

RP_PO/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 01:48 PM
7

RP_PO/r/askMRP19/04/19 12:04 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I believe volume builds mass, and heavier weight builds strength. So I do a month or two of heavy weight low rep, and with my new found strength, I am able to do more weight within the 8-12 rep range. I think it’s ill advised to do just one or the other exclusively. That being said, you’re high if you think the 3-6 rep range doesn’t build mass, and the 8-12 rep range doesn’t build strength. Just both have their relative strength.
/r/askMRP04/12/20 05:06 PM
4

She did you a favor. Don’t waste it
/r/askMRP10/09/20 01:13 PM
1

Fuck off
/r/askMRP21/04/20 01:50 PM
1

Guilty
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/20 07:54 PM
1

My man
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 12:32 AM
1

Good shit here. Good, quality and quantity of ammo. Also, lights. Get good lights and mounts for them. Blinding, high lumen lights. I have a Remington Marine Magnum loaded up the way HOA said, and it has a high lumen tactical light on it. I think it’s a Fenix, if I remember right. But my go to in close quarters of my home is my Glock 19 with a Streamlight TLR-1 on it with rechargeable lithium batteries. Loaded with HST rounds. Makes it easy to maneuver and “clear” my house, which I have practice…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 08:13 PM
8

Frame crosses language barriers, and he has none.
/r/askMRP24/03/20 03:20 AM
6

The reason you were in jail involved anal didn’t it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 09:28 PM
3

Love having home gym equipment. Another easy way to get multiple muscle groups with one piece of gear, is this guy: https://bruteforcetraining.com/products/copy-of-strongman-sandbag-kit-50-125lbs-colombia-blue Brute Strength sandbag. Do rows, swings, throw it over your back for squats, hold it out front for front squats, run with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 07:28 PM
7

NICE spike after that setup. Well played
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 04:22 PM
2

Check out Stud Bar too. I have one of those and they’re incredible
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 03:01 PM
2

I always have a good amount of food, supplies, and ammo on hand. Mags loaded, gas cans full, etc. plan in place with wife on board. Still at the hospital. Our policies change daily. Another meeting today. Covid is one thing. I’m glad to see states, and the US starting to take it more seriously. Some places will be overwhelmed, but at this point, I’m worried about the economic fallout.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 09:33 AM
5

“A dribble of old man powdered kool aid? Yea I’m sure the ladies love that.”
/r/askMRP10/03/20 08:48 PM
2

Postpone the wedding indefinitely, and pass all the shit tests that follow. Use her as a sparring partner to become who you need to be. I’m only 10% joking. Do this with the mindset that she will hysterically bond, etc, so her behavior will only be marginally realistic, and in the end you will likely end it. Or just end it if your moral compass cabs stomach that. And read the fucking entire side bar and internalize it.
/r/askMRP01/02/20 01:19 AM
3

That’s my thing with it. Watch sports, fine. But, at least attempt some feats of strength yourself. Some bitches whine about cutting the grass, much less a multiple day hunting trip. Candy asses.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 12:40 AM
1

Take ownership then, be light hearted at home, and eliminate covert contracts.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 10:53 PM
15

I’d be more pissed about not being able to lift for a while than I would be over my wife’s mostly meaningless and arbitrary shit tests increasing, but to each their own.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 09:19 PM
2

Impressive ego. It must take you far in life. Not far into your wife’s pants, but far.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 05:03 PM
5

How is his wife going to get dicked up all the time if he does online classes though?
/r/askMRP22/01/20 06:03 PM
5

You caught her cheating. How are you this blind? Wtf else would she be doing there? Burn it to the ground.
/r/askMRP22/01/20 06:02 PM
7

I would say your frame is shit, but let’s be honest: you have no frame. You are so encased in her frame it has squeezed you and your balls into non existence. You don’t exist as a human person, much less a man. When you live so deep in someone else’s frame, and have such deep oneitis, you cease to exist. Think about that. Search blindly on the floor of your “existence” and find your balls. Then nurture those nanoparticles until they turn into something passable as testicles, and maybe they’ll se…
/r/askMRP22/01/20 01:58 PM
8

I think most dudes here have shit frame. Myself included. Years of conditioning by your environment, politics, women, peers, parents.....stripped away and a new shiny “frame” created in a matter of a couple of months? Give me a break. You mentioning kids having absolute frame is spot on. They don’t give a shit, and know exactly what they want. They go after it without fear, and without any thought for their own safety or anybody else’s.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:47 PM
-1

Aside from weekly flowers and chocolates, giving her anything she wants including limitless back rubs has worked well for me. She now gets super sexy dressed up multiple times a week for me. I just wish she didn’t always go out with her friends until 2 AM or all day the next day after dressing up like this. Or come home smelling like men’s polo cologne. It’s weird that her friends wear this cologne, instead of perfume, but who am I to judge. I also wish my dick didn’t hurt her vagina so much. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 10:58 PM
2

Aside from weekly flowers and chocolates, giving her anything she wants including limitless back rubs has worked well for me. She now gets super sexy dressed up multiple times a week for me. I just wish she didn’t always go out with her friends until 2 AM or all day the next day after dressing up like this. Or come home smelling like men’s polo cologne. It’s weird that her friends wear this cologne, instead of perfume, but who am I to judge. I also wish my dick didn’t hurt her vagina so much. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 10:58 PM
1

I think of most MRP journeys as 1. tearing down the shitty mental models and tearing yourself away from everyone else’s frame, then 2. Building yourself and your world under your new (true) models and in your frame. Looks like you are deep into the building phase. Hope you can put this divorce shit behind you and see your kids more often soon. I’m still in the tearing down phase, so thank you for insight as to how it looks to be truly on the other side. I appreciate the vulnerability. I knew you…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:47 PM
1

“LTR” Own your shit, and own your principles. Why are you qualifying yourself to her rather than the other way around? Figure out what principles you want live by, and live by them. Or just keep being a limp dick fag. IDGAF, I’ll be at the gym/range either way.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 11:56 PM
5

Weak shit. My squat is weak, but at least it fucking exists.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 10:32 AM
2

That’s fucking classic
/r/askMRP01/01/20 10:15 AM
2

Been a while since I posted in OYS, and I need to. Made alot of progress in some areas, and uncovered some weaknesses and covert contracts in others. Short post, but I need this documented. Physical, bulk is going good, and quite lean. Strength gains have not been what I want, especially for squat. 180 lbs Bench: 325 Squat: 360 Dead: 470 OHP: not sure, using dumbells lately. 4X6-8 with 65-70 lbs Weaknesses: Uncovered a covert contract. For a while I was “not giving a shit” about sex. Partially t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 07:41 PM
2

Jesus H Christ
/r/askMRP22/12/19 12:53 AM
6

Just eat more, honestly. It’s bulking season, and you are on TRT anyhow, so I wouldnt worry much about losing abs....you likely wont. I switch things up every 6-8 months or so. I go between reps of 3-6 for 6 or so months, then hit more volume of 8-12 reps for 4 or so months. Gain more size in that hypertrophy rep range though. I can gain strength without adding much size on 5/3/1, but when I crank up the calories I can.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:17 PM
4

Lol
/r/askMRP08/12/19 01:25 AM
5

“She’s even asked me if we should just be friends” This stood out most to me. She friend zoned you. Read that again: she friend zoned you. Long ago, when the sex went away. Then she went overt, and actually said the words to you. Women hate going overt, but she is that over you that she felt she had to. You’re in good company here. You’re a faggot fuck, and I suggest you go monk mode. Get angry, and let it drive you. Life is too short and easily lost to spend it the way you are. No currency is m…
/r/askMRP07/12/19 11:08 PM
3

You never guessed which one you are. Try this. Just view life as though she is a plate that just so happens to live with you. Doesn’t matter much if she leaves or not, because your mission is you-centered. Not marriage-centered, or her-centered, or even kid-centered. It’s got alot of guilt associated with it, but that’s been beaten into you. That will fade. Brush the guilt aside each day until you no longer have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/19 05:56 AM
14

You say you read through the sidebar, but you somehow missed the part about hysterical bonding. We tell people here to be the oak. The oak grows slow and steady, and eventually strong and immovable. The weed grows fast as shit, and withers away one day under the shade of the oak. Guess which one you are. Also, there is probably an oak laying wood on your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:28 AM
4

This would be a soft ball
/r/askMRP05/12/19 02:12 PM
8

Did you.....do more shrooms tonight?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/19 03:41 AM
4

Man I can understand that. Doesnt sound like it’s for lack of trying on your part. I think SBIII is a good resource, as you’ve seen in his comments. He’s a wise, albeit artistic and flamboyant cat that teeters on the fence of gayhood. Just never falls over....
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 05:02 PM
3

It’s not that simple. There has to be struggle, in addition to solitude. A great deal of struggle. How can you know your mission until you know who you are. How can you know who you are until you’ve stripped away any facade or inauthentic part of “you” through struggle. Not just solitude, but struggling with something all alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 10:16 AM
2

I’m in the same boat. Would never get married again. This guy seems dead set on this particular monogamous relationship though.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 08:37 AM
4

Agreed. If you have alot of money just stay monogamous and unmarried. If she really wants to be with you she will. I have a rich buddy that has a kid with a chick, married in every sense of the word except legally. She stays with him because he has his shit together and doesnt put up with hers.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 12:55 AM
0

I dunno man. She might be a stripper.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 07:21 PM
2

Agree with this, but SBIII is right. Most folks with sleep apnea snore, but not everybody who snores has it. In either case, it figured out. It will fuck you up if you have it, cause heart issues, weight issues, unrelenting fatigue. It’s nowhere near benign.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 08:58 AM
8

“Hell yes that thing was expensive. How else am I going to record me nailing you from behind in high def?” Get a gun that costs more than the ring next time. Cameras are gay as fuck.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 11:24 AM
2

How much protein per day? Your body requires more protein the older you get beyond 30 if you want to make considerable gains
/r/askMRP12/10/19 12:59 AM
0

This southpark reference should have more upvotes than it does.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 12:45 AM
3

Man I’m always still hungry until 2nd breakfast. I know the feeling.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/19 09:17 AM
6

Dude says shit like that because he’s well known around these parts, and people know his backstory. He’s an asshole with a big fluffy heart whether he admits it or not who is trying to show other dudes what is possible if you change your mindset. But all that is lost on you because....well.....you’re a pussy bitch.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:35 PM
4

It gave me a chub though
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 11:41 PM
1

Orifice yeeting school
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 03:21 PM
41

Not enough. Do daily for best results
/r/askMRP23/09/19 01:21 AM
6

Seriously. Don’t do fad diets. Keep it simple: good ratio of protein, carbs, fats, and lots of veggies/water. Do that at less than your TDEE, and you’ll do fine.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 02:02 AM
7

No, put it in HER ass
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/19 01:30 AM
2

Try anal. If hard no, hard next.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/19 01:08 AM
4

“Arguably an impossible act of god himself” Lol
/r/askMRP20/09/19 11:49 PM
1

The crickets are bad this year. Step on those fuckers walking to my car to and from work, it’s annoying.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 06:34 PM
1

I agree with most of this. But It’s not the vulnerability itself that is a gift to her. Like you said, that’s a weakness/vulnerability either way. If I choose to show her that vulnerability, and thus my most “true self” or whatever the hell....i do consider that a gift to her, and to us combined. I screwed it up by showing it to her as a covert contract, which is a double whammy of weak. 1. The initial weakness of losing a son, which is understandable, and 2. The weakness of how I deal with that…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 09:55 AM
1

This is pathetic. Life is too short to live it in fucking fear. Especially in fear of a human female for fucks sake. What you really fear is losing her, and you are using your shitty beta model to prevent that. Start here: you already lost her. Also: start by saying no. There is no shit test jiu jitzu involved with saying fucking no. Maybe your balls will come out of hibernation if you do that. Bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 12:52 PM
32

This is pathetic. Life is too short to live in fucking fear. Especially of a damned female human. What you really likely fear is losing her, and your shitty model is to appease her so as not to lose her. Start from here: you’ve already lost her. That will make it easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 12:40 PM
1

Would it work if I just told her I was alpha?
/r/askMRP18/09/19 11:16 PM
2

If I tell my wife she’s not allowed to cheat on me, and smack her ass, does that mean I am alpha enough and dont need the sidebar?
/r/askMRP18/09/19 12:21 PM
3

Big Daddy RP gonna get his 50%, or I know some of you wannabe Corvettes will be missing a headlight or two.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 11:05 AM
19

Took the analogy too far. Opened up a car rental business. Got arrested. Thanks for nothing.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 09:23 AM
10

No, officer you dont get it: I’m AWARE of the speed limit.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 04:00 PM
0

Seriously. Any sane motherfucker who reads the sidebar while single.....never gets married again. Prepare to be divorce raped dick bag
/r/askMRP16/09/19 02:25 PM
13

Agreed. I want to live my life in a way that makes everyone around me wonder “whats that fucker up to now?”
/r/askMRP15/09/19 05:50 PM
1

I was worried for a bit
/r/askMRP14/09/19 01:32 AM
1

You’re right about telling her how it should go down. It’s not all black and white, I just wasnt there yet to set a boundary for how she should act around my vulnerability. Where I messed up was showing that vulnerability to her as a covert contract thinking she would comfort me. In my frame now, if I show vulnerability, it will be as my gift to her: to let her see the true me that feels pain. Like you said, it will be my choice, and her privilege to be a part of that. Or her choice to turn her …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 02:36 PM
7

That ego will fuck you up in the end. If you are satisfied with your use of your time, what the fuck are you doing here?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 09:30 PM
4

Yes you are a faggot, and it’s obvious. Pointing out your faggotry has no utility beyond beating us to the punch (defense mechanism) Instead, write down the concrete steps you are taking to fix your faggotry. Be more specific. It’s ok to have broad goals as your strategy, but if you dont have the tactical plan set up, you are doomed to fail. Saying “read WAY more” is not specific, and useless. Say “finish NMMNG by Friday” is where you want to be in your tactical plan. Stop snacking on 4-5 books …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 02:08 PM
2

Not only no, but fuck no. This is garbage advice. The only answer to cheating is full on Mad Max shit. Period.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 01:51 PM
2

Man your divorce is brutal. But you are more brutal, you fucking gorilla. Hard as fuck mindset. Congrats on being free.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 12:57 AM
12

OYS #9 Thank you all who offered support on my post about my son. This community is legit. Also, go fuck yourselves, let’s get to work. MRP Journey ~ 7 months 32 y.o. 5’8” 172 lbs. Currently 10% BFP by Jackson Pollock 3 caliper method, and 13% by Navy method. Married 6 years, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM, The Way of Men Currently reading: 12 Rules for Life Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1RM Pullups: 28 reps max…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 08:50 AM
5

You’re playing the fucking victim here. “It was mommy’s idea for me to start the business” “she has the ideas for going out on dates” Christ, go do what YOU want to do. Dont listen to her shit. And dates are gay. Go do some awesome shit and allow her to come with you. Going for a day swimming in the river is free, and a shit ton more fun that whatever shit she comes up with
/r/askMRP26/08/19 10:06 PM
5

Man that’s a good take on it. I’m learning how to show emotion in a masculine way, and lead her at the same time. I have years of poor mental models to break and discard to get there, but I wont stop or slow down.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 12:38 AM
3

Glad to be here. One of the best lessons I’ve learned from MRP is that being vulnerable with other men is vastly more constructive and less destructive than being vulnerable to your spouse. It takes a frame stronger than mine to be vulnerable with your spouse in a constructive way.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 12:21 AM
2

For sure. It’s almost universally destructive to a marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 12:19 AM
3

I like this alot. Great perspective. I think that’s how i’ve fucked up in the past: i would just jump straight to the “fuck you, I’ll do it myself” mentality and never give her a chance to add her value. But not from an abundance framework, more from an angry, vulnerable wounded dog framework. The more I change for the better, the more I think I can incorporate masculine vulnerability as a gift to her, so she can choose to add value and help her man. Thanks alot for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 12:15 AM
4

Man I’m so sorry for your loss. I remember seeing you post about this before, and had you in mind when I wrote this post....just couldn’t remember your username. Yes, fuck anybody who gets uncomfortable. I won’t stop talking about him. He was easily our sweetest child, loved him some cuddles, and was stubborn as shit just like his old man. I do things from my frame, but now that he’s gone my frame includes him, if that makes sense. I enveloped his memory in my frame, and consider his legacy as w…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 12:11 AM
7

I’ve made peace with it brother. We talk about adding value all the time....and the truth is, I add tons more value to my life than my wife adds to my life. Including finding my way through this, comforting myself, and finding my new normal.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 03:41 PM
17

That’s the thing. I had been healthy about it, in that I would go for drives to get it out. I would rage for hours in my anger phase of losing him. When I felt it, I would cry. I did lean into it. My mistake was talking about my despair with her when it hit me again. I will always allow myself to feel. But I stand by it: nobody will ever see me cry again. Me crying was for me and my own health. I made the mistake of trying to share that with her. Rookie mistake. I can vent/feelz/etc to my brothe…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 11:33 AM
13

She’s a good woman. She is definitely welcome aboard my ship, and it’s journey and destination are 100% mine now (always was mine, but now I own it) Her not knowing what to do is natural for a woman in that position. Can’t fault her for that. Im so grateful to have found this place, because it gave me the tools to be the type of man to weather this storm and live a good life for my boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 11:03 AM
23

Good insight, brother. She acted in that moment how 99% of women would. I dont fault her. It was a very eye opening experience for me to see her reaction. I was still a couple of months away from crawling out of the matrix, so it left me very confused and hurt. Now that I see the truth, it’s almost comical to me how normal her reaction was.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 10:57 AM
3

Beautiful. From the book of sidebar. Chapter 2, verse 69
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 09:14 PM
14

Not sure how I feel about you thinking of me while your wife is riding you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 09:59 AM
8

Scared me deep into your GF’s hole. Hang on, gotta grab some more paper towels. Faggot
/r/askMRP11/08/19 01:02 AM
1

If a LDS gets within 5 feet of him he’ll break his streak. Man’s got a type. Makes me think he’s onto something
/r/askMRP10/08/19 03:57 AM
5

Fix yourself and you’ll likely end up preventing that. Focus on yourself, the byproducts may or may not come. My mission is all about me, but I will leave a legacy, including my kids because that is what I want. In the end they will be who they want, but not for lack of discipline and tools that I will give them.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 02:36 PM
1

Hahahaha! I was wondering that too. If there is a nice ass within a mile of me, I’ve known about it for weeks. Get your T checked if you dont notice shit like this. And lock some situational awareness in your frail body.
/r/askMRP30/07/19 12:54 AM
3

Shooting, alot. Rifle, trap, pistol. Fishing. Camping. Golfing. Trips for multiple days, away from estrogen for a while helps get your mind right.
/r/askMRP29/07/19 04:53 AM
8

This one is seriously underrated on MRP. I think this shit is on par with lifting, STFU, and sidebar....assuming you found yourself a solid group of men to do men shit with. Irreplaceable .
/r/askMRP28/07/19 08:52 PM
2

Just revert back to something sexual. “Yup, gonna fill it up with dirty dishes next. Only thing left on my list for today is tearing filling that ass up later with some dick”. Shitty retort, but just own it, dont DEER, and make it sexual. Be less of a fag Edit: the more you do this, the less of a “chore” it becomes, and the more natural it is. Just AA/AM
/r/askMRP28/07/19 12:56 AM
1

Haha damn. That is some solid game. Yea, I think a grin is all I could muster in the moment on that one....only later to think of making fun of her for being one of those “people of Walmart shoppers”. The next step for me is internalizing that it’s her way of flirting and having fun with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 12:37 PM
5

I think the AMOGing weeds out some guys who never really develop their own frame. A guy comes in here and posts an OYS, and gets owned by a veteran RP guy. Over time they look up to the guy that owned them, and aspire to be them. Thats not bad early on; it gives them something to aim at while they get their shit together. But if they never fully develop their own frame, they get trapped in what their new “mentor” describes as manhood instead of developing their own manhood, congruent with their …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 09:07 PM
2

Fucking Army cat. At least you weren’t a POG though!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 01:28 PM
4

This fucking post is a right cross to my jaw. I am becoming my mission statement, and frame is my biggest growth area. Thats a badass app. Sold.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 11:35 AM
7

Fuck your feelings. A woman doesn’t care about your feelings, she cares about hers. Fuck your feelings. Get that through your head, bitch.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 03:28 AM
5

No. Just BE above her, and her shit. Acta non verba is the entire shit behind MRP.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 03:01 AM
2

Good fucking OYS man, and nice gains. Just curious, i know you now regret it, but what was your reasoning for mentioning divorce? Or was it purely pissed off, emotionally driven?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 02:37 AM
1

Havent touched on that in a while. I think that’s the perfect book for me to re-read, and do the exercises.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 02:05 AM
2

Nice try, but you’re not going to convince me to upload a video of an ass to grass squat for you to critique (jerk off to) my form. As for the rest: fucking A right, and nobody gives a fuck about me. I wasnt looking for pity, but if thats how it came off...well the proof is in the pudding, so my pitiful ass needs to STFU. Why do I allow a warm hole to be my source of my sense of self worth? You got me there. Im going to fucking turn my psyche inside out until I find that fucker and carve it out …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 12:48 AM
3

With each of your lifts, you offered excuse or resignation. Yada yada, BUT. Yada yada, STUCK. Get your fucking mind right. You’re negative about your shit. Be positive and wreck the gym. You’re not made of glass. Go find out what you actually ARE made of, pussy
/r/askMRP23/07/19 09:25 PM
3

I need to relax and practice patience. These models have been in place for years. I have no doubt I will figure out why I need her validation. It will either hit me one day, or my MAP will just simply leave it behind with the old me. Either way, I’m waging war against any external validation in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 01:39 PM
3

Got that right. Gym time is way easier, and requires way less patience.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 01:36 PM
4

This whole time. No wonder my wife can’t orgasm
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 01:34 PM
9

OYS #8 - doing this on my phone so formatting is ditched 5’8” 170 lbs (weight loss hasnt been deliberate these past two weeks. More work than food lately, but my shift will change soon and its game on for some serious gains) Deadlift: 465 Squat: 350 Bench: 315 OHP: 185 Pullups: 29 Mission: see OYS #7. Or dont, it’s my mission. Ditching the format, so may as well dive in. I have glaring weaknesses in my progress/frame. I’ve come to realize I still seek validation from my wife. Im on a night shift…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 08:48 AM
1

I’d love to Bic my head but I look like a dumbass without hair. Shit works for you. As does the “I am fat” look. Eddie Hall DGAF if he looks fat
/r/askMRP23/07/19 04:08 AM
3

Damn, this right here is easily a response for my OYS tomorrow.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 02:04 AM
1

Do 1.5 x bodyweight
/r/askMRP20/07/19 03:14 AM
2

Lol
/r/askMRP20/07/19 03:13 AM
1

For you not trying to be a dick, I bet he takes it really hard
/r/askMRP19/07/19 11:25 AM
2

No prob. Get out there and live this beautiful fucking life. Maybe she’ll join you
/r/askMRP18/07/19 10:52 AM
3

Jesus H, I’ll bite: -carpentry. Build shit. Get creative. -shoot an obscene amount of guns. Accurately. -camp. Real camping -hiking -kayaking -volunteer work. Pick something -wrestling with my boys instead of plopping on the couch. Its good for everyone. -smoke ribs/pulled pork, etc -lifting (get to the point where you enjoy the hell out of the journey and the progress. It’s a growth area for me, but I legit get grumpy if I haven’t lifted) These are a few things on MY list. You may not like any …
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:36 AM
1

Something else that may help is simply doing lockouts to work on that sticking point. Find a powerlifting bench that you can put racks on that stops the bar about halfway through your ROM. Or blocks on your chest. Something to really hit your specific stall point. I used to do lockouts, and they increased my numbers pretty quickly for a while. Nice squat and DL. Well on your way to hitting 900 without your bench even thrown in.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 12:58 PM
1

That’s exactly what it is for me too. Slowly, i’ve managed to decrease the butthurt to the point where it’s negligible, but I have to remain aware of it or it will rear its ugly head.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 04:52 AM
2

I love my stumpy hobbit arms
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 10:13 AM
9

Definitely. It’s counterintuitive, because women’s narcissism and ego wants the “glory” of leading, but they fucking hate it. The deeper into MRP I go, the more I see women’s primal nature fighting their ego at every turn. It’s fascinating and maddening at the sane time. AWALT
/r/askMRP16/07/19 03:58 AM
6

Sounds like your wife is frustrated with her role of being the leader of the family. She wasn’t designed for that. You can stay “easy going” and still take extreme ownership and leadership of the family. In fact, it’s a requirement. Deep down, she wants to be a little girl again, but she cant since she’s saddled with the burden of leadership. Own your shit, lift, and sidebar. It’s all on you, never forget that.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 03:39 AM
4

It doesn’t sound like you are OI, but in the faking it until you make it stage. If you were OI, it wouldnt keep you up. Interview with General Mattis: Interviewer: what keeps you up at night? Mattis: Nothing. I keep other people up at night. His frame. His world. Other people are simply lucky enough to be living in it....or unlucky if they are terrorists. Keep “being OI” until you really are actually OI. You’ll know because you’ll have more peace, and will be able to sleep at night. I sleep like…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:21 PM
8

“Want some fuk?” probably. Because he read the fucking sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 05:51 AM
1

Just keep trucking, and understand you don’t have much figured out at this point. We can give you pointers, but experience and finding your own frame are the best teachers.....if you’re reading the sidebar and living in the squat rack
/r/askMRP13/07/19 10:02 PM
3

Wait. Is this one of those MRP satire posts making fun of autistic dick bags? Well done. Should have told her to put your gum in her mouth Edit: where are your stats and OYS, faggot fuck
/r/askMRP13/07/19 01:28 PM
1

Damn right about that lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 09:24 PM
1

Hahaha- fuck i peed
/r/askMRP11/07/19 11:31 PM
1

None of it is on smith machine. I just dont know how to take anything seriously, especially on reddit. Anybody crazy enough about lifting to have numbers like mine aint using a smith machine to get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 09:30 PM
14

Do what the fuck you want to do. Base absolutely nothing off of your wife’s mind.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 11:10 AM
6

Jesus
/r/askMRP11/07/19 10:50 AM
17

Is your flair “Red fucking commando” because you always do such hardcore reconnaissance on folks before commenting? Fucking hell haha
/r/askMRP11/07/19 08:39 AM
1

That’s the goal now that I’m done with this cut. Nice, steady, mostly clean mass gains.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 03:04 AM
1

Well it’s all done on a smith machine, so.... All kidding aside, Part of me would rather just be a monster brick shithouse at the same numbers, but maybe that will come true when I hit my goal numbers. Alot of calories are in my future
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 10:55 PM
1

Edit: I’m an idiot
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 09:57 PM
4

Calling it a “joke” after the fact is just a form of gaslighting and you damn well know it. Hold her ass accountable and set the damn boundary. Dont even argue the fact that it’s not a joke, she’ll win that one. Simply say, “fine. It’s not a funny joke, nobody is laughing, so cut the shit out”
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 08:49 PM
4

You’re in denial if you think it’s not as psychologically damaging as the babysitter thinks. She’s less biased than you are. Sure, kids do understand more than we give them credit for....but look at the scores of guys coming into this sub looking for help because they were sold a lie by their mothers and society, and believed it. You seem to be hoping to get further along in your MAP before you set a hard boundary here, but setting a boundary for this behavior should be PART of your MAP. And soo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 08:43 PM
1

You’re right. I worded that poorly though. What I mean is, if this thing burns down, I will still be standing; not that I am actively trying to burn it down....yet. I am struggling with ego. Im having a hard time realizing my value and showing the confidence that comes with that, while also tempering my ego. I’m at a loss, but I think time in my own frame may be the key to killing ego. I always appreciate you calling me out, and holding me to the standard.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 02:51 PM
1

I do agree with your take on what I wrote, but it was poor wording on my part. What I mean is, if the whole thing were to burn down, I’d still be standing; not that I am actively trying to burn it down. That said, I do have some resentment that I need to deal with....and I know ego is one of my biggest problems. I’m having a hard time realizing my true value and putting off the confidence gained from that realization, while also tempering my ego. It’s a big growth area for me. Your calling me ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 01:40 PM
2

OYS #7 MRP Journey ~6 months. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 172 lbs (-10 lbs total from my cut) Currently 10% BFP by Jackson Pollock 3 caliper method, and 13% by Navy method. Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM, The Way of Men Currently reading: 12 Rules for Life, and Bang Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1R…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 11:24 AM
1

My wife offers duty BJs all the time. But now her clitoromegaly is getting out of hand and I gag every time.
/r/askMRP06/07/19 08:33 PM
5

Maybe he should throw a ton of gear into his regimen for some mediocre strength gains for his bodyweight
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 09:41 PM
1

I agree. Sure, crossfit is gay, but there’s something to be said for enduring one of their ridiculous workouts (murph) while also having advanced/elite squat, deadlift, and bench. I think it requires more grit to finish a nasty HIIT session than a fun heavy leg day. Builds character and mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 06:01 AM
3

That’s some serious frame. I 100% agree that the gym is irreplaceable on this journey. I wish I had seen earlier on that the gym mindset of conquering and frame can be lost the moment you step back outside the gym doors if you let it. You can be alpha at work and in the gym, and beta bitch boy at home. I was. Often still am. The trick is adopting the right mindset for how you perceive and act on the entire world around you (from your frame), not just those niche areas where you’re already a warl…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 02:12 AM
1

Touchè. My wife fucks me with hers, and mine is just for looks anyhow. I like your style fucker
/r/askMRP27/06/19 07:01 PM
2

You should wear a belt. It’s a great fashion item, and can be used to lock some discipline into your wife’s soul.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 05:31 PM
0

Never use your hands. You want your hands to be viewed as instruments of love. Or instruments of defense when she domestically abuses your candy ass.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 03:35 PM
1

I appreciate it brother. I’m not on any TRT, and still haven’t gotten my levels checked. If I notice any changes, though, I will definitely get my levels checked. I’ve always had the never quit attitude in the gym and my time in the infantry. u/SBIII helped me tweak my mission. It was pretty weak before, but I am much happier with it now. It definitely is almost all frame. I’m growing, and starting to see that now. I’ve been through alot of shit, so resiliency has never been a problem, but I hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 02:11 PM
6

This amuses me
/r/askMRP26/06/19 03:01 AM
5

Fucking spot on bro. Im struggling with heart and mind lately. I’ve done quite well in the physical world, look great, and put up good numbers. But the mind is where it’s at. My mind is only strong when willing my physical body to do something, and rarely strong when creating my own frame. I have a long way to go, and you provide a good example of where to aim. Keep owning life and keeping us in MRP honest. Also go fuck yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 01:52 AM
2

Do you wake up with morning wood? If you do, your low libido is likely psychiatric in nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 01:01 AM
1

Been in the gym since 2005, but only really started hitting squats and deadlift since 2012 or so. Wish I had started doing that sooner, but better late than never.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 12:16 AM
5

OYS #6 MRP Journey ~6 months. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 172 lbs (-10 lbs total from my cut) Currently 10% BFP by Jackson Pollock 3 caliper method, and 13% by Navy method. Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM, The Way of Men Currently reading: 12 Rules for Life, and Bang Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1R…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 01:34 PM
1

There are days where all I have time for is one of the big four, and thats all I do. Just get under the bar. For years I beefed my bench up and neglected squats. When I started doing squats, my max was probably around 205 while my bench was around 290. Anybody who knows anything knows that your squat should be the stronger lift. What did I do? I got under the bar and said fuck everybody squatting way more than me. I hurt my back more times than I care to remember (hurt, not injured. Most people …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 01:24 PM
1

OYS #5 MRP Journey ~5 months. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 172 lbs (-10 lbs total from my cut) Currently 10% BFP by Jackson Pollock 3 caliper method, and 13% by Navy method. Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM Currently reading: 12 Rules for Life Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1RM Pullups: 28 reps max Mis…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 03:53 PM
8

Feelz, feelz, feelz. What feelz right and good MUST be good and just. Amirite, comrade?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 11:22 AM
1

What an abortion of a post. Gave me ebola
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 03:12 PM
0

Wait.....what’s a powerlifting?
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:35 PM
3

Yea 185 lbs is weak, but I wonder how many “monster” squats on this sub are genuinely ass to grass. Then again, I wonder if his 185 is ATG either.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 08:47 PM
1

Calibration will be a factor for sure, and you’re right: if there are any brakes on this train, they’re broke to shit. She can hop on, or get out of the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 02:30 PM
1

OYS #4 MRP Journey ~3 months. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 174 lbs (-8 lbs total from my cut[explained in “physical/lifting”]) 15% BF (4 weeks ago), Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM Currently reading: SGM, 12 Rules for Life Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1RM Pullups: 28 reps max Mission: I am the warri…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 01:07 PM
2

Your breakdowns are always a breath of fresh stop being a pussy air.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 03:07 PM
1

For sure. Doing things for ourselves, and apart from our wives is crazy important. I think it’s a large component of building/strengthening our frame.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 04:42 PM
1

Very true. I dont count it as a win when I get my kids to bed on time or handle a tantrum. It’s just a part of my life to handle these things. I need to view these interactions with my wife this way as well.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 04:41 PM
7

Most recently it was her bitching about me putting multiple events for me on the calendar: camping, bro trip, golfing. Bitched about not spending time with her and about not going on a girl day date with her friend. I laughed and encouraged her to do that, but that nobody would plan her day date for her and her friend. She feverishly and childishly started texting her friend. Said I was being a dick, but laughed and smiled at all the AA/AM I was using. Old me would have DEER’d and turned the thi…
/r/askMRP19/04/19 02:30 PM
2

Lower abs pending. I will send you traps and lats to tide you over until my cut is done mid/late May.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 12:13 PM
2

During a cut, keep your lifts a bit lighter than you would while trying to bulk. This will help maintain while not being so stressful that you’re tearing down with no means to build back up. Dont expect real strength gains while cutting, but your max shouldnt suffer too awfully much either. I hate cutting
/r/askMRP18/04/19 11:26 PM
11

She branch swung, and invited you to the tree. Next she’ll boot you out of the tree. Just enjoy the ride and better yourself for the next one. Also, I never understood how dudes read the sidebar, and STILL turn their back on swallowing the pill.
/r/askMRP18/04/19 09:45 PM
1

This gave my nethers tingles
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 05:39 PM
3

I agree, but the point of us being here on this sub is to change our mindset. If we’re in her frame, we get annoyed and pissed at her fickle shifty nature. If we’re in ours, we understand fickle is AWALT, and is of little consequence to us —> IDGAF. I struggle with this childish shit, but I know the goal is to not give a damn and become unaffected.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 04:18 PM
2

OYS #3 MRP Journey ~2 months. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 172 lbs (-10 lbs [explained in “physical/lifting”]) 15% BF (4 weeks ago), Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook, TWOTSM Currently reading: SGM Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1RM Pullups: 28 reps max Mission: I am the warrior in any situation, by cultivating…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 03:59 PM
1

Good shit here. Though fuck you if you think a tampon is for wounds. Packing, pressure dressings, direct pressure, and tourniquets are for bleeding control. Tampons are for absorbing blood, and killing buddies of tacticool dudes who read a shitty opinion on casualty care.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 06:50 PM
11

But how will anyone know you’re alpha unless you tell em?
/r/askMRP14/04/19 06:43 PM
1

This is a very good post for this situation. I need to slow down on my withdrawal much more, and be more subtle about it
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:34 PM
1

Nice, I like it. Thanks for the tip and paying it forward. I have a long way to go, and alot of sacking up to do
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 04:21 PM
3

Excellent critique. Those are all really good points. I will revise my mission so that it relies on nobody else, and can be accomplished through my own means. As far as contradicting myself: it definitely is worded in a contradictory way. What I meant was “through the nature I (will have) cultivated”. Dumb wording, only to say I will, moving forward, cultivate a natural leadership through habit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:29 PM
2

OYS #2 MRP Journey ~1.5 month. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 178 lbs (-4 lbs) 15% BF (2 weeks ago), Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Currently reading: TWOTSM (Halfway through – not overly impressed with some concepts from this book, but will finish it. Stats: Squat: 350 1RM DL: 465 1RM Bench: 315 1RM OHP: 185 1RM Pullups: 28 reps max Mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:24 AM
2

It’s important to push your limits. It’s also important to gain the wisdom to know you will get better/stronger faster and have better injury defense if you take off ADEQUATE days from the gym with active recovery. Micro-tears are a bitch if you keep adding them on with unnecessary and counter-productive stints of 100% effort for days on end in a short term intensity schedule in a misguided attempt to undo years of eating your way into Jabba’s palace. Mediocrity is for the weak, and anything wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 09:44 PM
5

OYS #1 MRP Journey ~1 month. Began 1 month after finding and reading MMSLP twice in a week and realizing I was destroying my marriage with blue pill 32 y.o. 5’8” 182 lbs 15% BF, Married 6, 2 kids (4&2) Books read: MMSLP, NMMNG, The Rational Male Currently reading: WISNIFG, and Book of Pook Have always lifted, for strength more than anything Squat: 350 True max DL: 465 True max Bench: 315 True max OHP: 185 True max Mission: Be the warrior I once was before meeting my wife. It’s still there, but d…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:11 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter