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| 1 | How can I overcome approach anxiety? | RPinthemaking | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 07:58 PM | |
| 1 | I want to change my financial situation. | RPinthemaking | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 04:24 PM |
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| 2 | She appears really interested and seems attracted to me but has a boyfriendThis sounds like the situation I’m in lol, except she mentioned her boyfriend in the first few conversations we had :/. I say go for it OP. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Do gays have more estrogen?I don’t think so. My last manager was gay and dude was masculine as fuck. I learned a lot about standing my ground from him and when I found out he was gay I just couldn’t wrap my mind around it. I assumed that gays were all feminine lolo. Live and learn! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls throw themselves at you when you are cocky?Cocky personalities will just piss of other men who know you're full of bullshit and women with past experiences with cocky men. This is so fucking true. At my last job I literally almost got into a fight with a coworker cause of this. It kinda feels great to piss these guys off. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Stop Whining. Love the painWhat books would you recommend? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How beta can you be, you ask? A man marries his lesbian "best friend" in hopes of eventually getting with her. After waiting for 22 years he realizes it's not happening so he decides to become a transgender lesbian to win her affections. She wants a divorce.The only article in all my time here that has literally made me go "OMFG." God help us | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ?Yes but I feel it's rare. First girl I slept with saw my dumbass couldn't get the hint until she took me to her room and started grabbing my crotch. All my other failed smash attempts the girl would give up after me not leading. I'm slow. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Try looking up some positions that you’ve never tried before. New experiences always brought me excitement and with that faster and better climaxes. Yeah... don’t go by her word, go get tested. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Who’s suggestion was it to go raw and did she suggest doing something new? If it was her than that means she blames herself for not being able to get you off. Keep it that way and enjoy the validation sex while working on nofap to be able to nut and when you do look her in the eye and say, “look you finally did something right.” PS. Be careful with going raw, babies and stds ya know. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 7 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Lmfao I went through the same thing. First time I fucked a girl after having spent years jerking off my god, we must have done it for hours. She ended up getting upset because she figured I’d though she was ugly. I actually kind of liked it because I was able to get so much pleasure for hours but yeah, do no fap for a few months and watch your stamina crash. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Tell me what to doLearn from your mistakes and strike another girl with your new found knowledge. In a way, you’re lucky because you’ve experienced a very humiliating rejection first and so most if not all rejections from here on out will be less painful. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How can I improve my lifestyle?This sounds like me. What my plan has been so far is to try to find a decent job that will allow me to have more disposable income on the side to explore new hobbies. Some that I have been considering are learning how to play the guitar, traveling, and cooking. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you wasted large chunks of your life24, I wasted all of highschool and college playing video games. I discovered trp about a year ago when I finally got out of a blue pill relationship. Currently trying to get my shit together and other than being broke, I'm at the happiest I've been in a long time. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD)I feel that with the rise of single motherhood, we're going to start seeing more and more of these girls and given that around ~80% of guys are beta, those that do stay with the mother of their child are not going to be in a position to have much influence on their daughter's development. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Gfs phoneGive them an inch and they'll take a mile. Prepare yourself for a barrage of shit tests next time you don't give in. Next time this happens let her do her and you do you, keep an eye out for unusual behaviour and make a decision off that. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Need help with sexual oneitis/still counts as oneitisI feel like this'll be my downfall when I get with a crazy chick. How would one build up mental blocks or is it something that you can only learn from having fallen and gotten back up? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How important is someone’s body language?Bro, I feel the same way and here's the kicker for me though. Once I'm in the conversation with a women, I'm completely oblivious to body language cues until afterwards when I'm going through the events in my head ughhh. Don;t know if it's lack of confidence or anxiety but it's annoying because I've lost guaranteed lays like this. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Creating boundaries - Are my demands legit or have I lost mind? (she loves attention whoring)Iron Rule of Tomassi #4: NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. This girl should be nothing more than a plate for you. Ignore her behaviour and go out and smash other girls. Let her find this out covertly and prepare to watch her validate herself for you. That is of course, if you follow through with this. Otherwise, prepare to have her monkey swing to the next alpha that comes her way. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What was the goal of this kind of shit test?Exactly, and that’s part of the reason why I had to get out of that relationship. I’m guessing the reason she shit tested me so often was because this was during the worsening of my blue bill traits. I hoped that all the shit I went through would have given me experience for the future but it’s only when I get on here and think clear headedly that I’m able to see the error of my ways. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | What was the goal of this kind of shit test?First time it happened I said fuuuuuuck and she recommended we buy Plan B which she heard of from her sister but I’m sure she used it in the past given how quickly she was in bedding me. Second time, I told her you’re getting your ass on birth control. She said she’d get on birth control. I told her I didn’t like condoms and suggested an IUD instead. The whole time up until she finally had it inserted she kept bringing up the cons of IUDs and complaining about the pain, Looking back now I’m gues… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | What was the goal of this kind of shit test?Excellent response OP. I went through the same tests and at first I thought she was gauging my interest to see how I'd react to the idea and if I reacted positively to it, then she'd come out of the IUD and get herself pregnant on her own. But looking back on it, she did have interactions with a new guy around that time so I"m guessing she may have been screwing around with him behind my back instead. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have moved to better towns and cities and how has it affected your life both dating and non-dating wise?Haven't moved but I did road trip to other states and I felt I got more attention there than my current hometown. I'm guessing it's cause I'm more exotic as spanish guy in those areas versus my town. Non-dating wise, I feel that it has given me a rush of adventure being in a new environment. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?Met this girl on reddit. Got into an LDR with her, lost my virginity to her. She asked to move in with me, I said yes. Sex stayed consistent for half a year or so, then crashed. Combination of her scaring me multiple times that she was pregnant and her consistent bickering with my mother, which was enabled by me, led me to breaking up with her. Got oneitis for her after that and then somehow stumbled upon TRP. Wish I knew exactly what it is I googled to land here. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Having look and style but no personality and bad vibes. I want to fix thisI feel like a lot of this was written by me. What's been helping me keep a clear head is meditating. Maybe try a 5 minutes to start and then gradually work your way up to 30 and soon enough you'll see yourself being able to be more attentive and actively listen. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I want to change my financial situation.Living with mom atm but I have to help with rent. I have two internships under my belt but still nothing in the way of job offers. What’ll probably end up happening is I’ll wait it out to hear back from these last few companies I interviewed with and if nothing comes from that, I’ll go back to school for engineering. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I want to change my financial situation.Yes. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | What lengths would you guys go to bang a hottie? (in terms of booking a hotel, driving to her, etc.)Back in my worst of blue pilled days I did just that. It went great, had lots of great sex but it cost me a ton both financially and emotionally (ended up with oneitis). Would I do it again? I don't know. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How can i get better at attracting women, if i walk with a cane?Get a nice cane that complements your style. Use that cane in more ways than one. Essentially, let it become an extension of yourself. For what it's worth I've always viewed cane's as a symbol of experience and commanding respect. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Important reminder for men in the gameThanks so much OP. This post gave me the courage to finally leave a toxic environment. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Life Lessons learned from being unemployed for the past monthAwesome post OP. I am a new grad but a lot of what you've said pertains to my current situation. I've been working in a shitty internship role for the past year and have applied to hundreds of jobs with only a handful of interviews. One was with a Fortune 500 company and you're point about being shittested more for higher paying roles goes true for this company. They literally had me go through 4 interviews and a technical test before deciding against me. Before I found TRP I was just barely coa… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Clueless BetaStrikes Kill AttractionThis reminds me of when I was into my first few months of self improvement and a girl in one of my classes began displaying IOIs. One day I dropped my frame pretty bad in front of her and as quickly as it came, the attraction died. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with building habits? Try this.Definitely a good trick OP! In terms of tracking progress I use an app on iOS called Productive. The app lets you swipe on habits when you complete them and each day displays a streak counter. Seeing the counter go higher and higher each day motivates me. Productive App | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Never forget your true advantageThat is an amazing advantage in and of itself. Make the most of all the time gained and misery avoided from discovering the red pill as a youngin’ bud. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Chad advice needed!Don't pay any mind to it and i f she throws a shit test about it respond by telling her you use your height to your advantage. My favorite is, "I usually go for girls whose tits are at eye level." | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | HB8 hit on meText for only logistics. Anything else, call. Calling allows you to display more confidence and engage in actual conversation. Plus she's more forced to give an answer right then and there. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything that can be done with not being able to grow facial hair? (or to grow more)Minoxidil. Apply 1mL of the liquid form for a few months and then switch to the foam. Reason for starting with liquid is that it is absorbed better than the foam and thus will show initial results quicker. It does dry out your skin and leave an ashy look which is why I suggest switching to the foam afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | 23y GF and I (22m) havent has sex in 2 months. What to do?Periods don't last for two months. She's losing attraction to you and what you need to do is focus on improving yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Does your ltrs /so's sexual history bother you?For a quick lay, No. For a potential LTR prospect, Yes. A girl who has been bedded by many guys will have a much harder time developing a sincere bond with men, and will be more quick to branch swing. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Where to take her on first date?Grab a bite to eat at a place that's relatively close to your place. Screen her there for an hour or so and then lead her to a nearby bar for drinks. Depending on how receptive she's been thus far, suggest that you head back to your place for drinks and to show her your butterfly collection (or whatever interesting thing you have at your place). Be sure to have a bottle of wine in your fridge before hand and also don't forget to do kino in both venues. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How Many Dates A Week Without Being Needy? She Is EXTREMELY interestedIf she was extremely interested she would have found a way to have sex by now. Consistent dates back to back within a short time frame can suggest a lack of options in her eyes and that would result in decreasing attraction. Space out your dates with this chick to one or two (absolute max) a week and game other chicks as well. This will help build up abundance mentality as well. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How do you separate a shit test from rejection?This along with the stern no. You'll know it when you see it. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to calculate her period?You can use an app like Clue to track her period. Based on what you're telling us the first half of her period (hypergamous state) seems to be on the beginning half of the month. This is the time period where her horniness is at her highest for alpha traits and you'd be best to act your most alpha. The latter half of the month would be the luteal state where she'd be more interested in comfort. Good luck mate. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Online dating, waste of time or holy grail?Preferable in the states. Outside, color can actually work to your advantage. For instance, in Asian countries darker skinned males are highly sought after as quality mates. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:31 PM |
| 7 | How to maintain Resistance for Oneitis?The more 'perfect' they seem on the outside, the more fucked up they are internally. Realize that if she hasn't displayed IOIs towards you by now, she probably won't. I suggest you NEXT the girl and work on developing an 'I come first' mindset, and in time this will lead to an abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Online dating, waste of time or holy grail?If you're white and tall then yes, it can be a great supplemental source of pussy. Otherwise, you'll have better luck day gaming since girls tend to be less picky in person. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Guy bails on marital therapy, gets ripped, starts spending weeknights in New York City for new job, nails young Brazilian and surprise surprise...his marriage gets much much betterI had to hold in a laugh when my ex said this to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | My God... It's Full Of... Kittens.Much appreciated mods, I look forward to better quality posts now. Cheers! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:27 AM |
| 7 | The Seven Lifting CommandmentsLaw 8: Thou shall rerack your weights. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 13 | Meeting the "nice girl" who turned out to be a total slutI know that now. Thanks bud. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/18 05:17 PM |
| 47 | Meeting the "nice girl" who turned out to be a total slutCan confirm. I was fucking this girl, asked her if she was okay and the sex immediately went downhill. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/18 01:26 PM |
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