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How old are your kids? Christmas day is pretty shitty for kids if all they want to do is spend time with their parents but you travel to see family and everyone is busy chatting with each other and making some elaborate meal. Maybe your husband is trying to make Christmas enjoyable for your children?
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 05:08 PM
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I hope it works out!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 03:11 AM
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I'd fantasize with him or entertain the idea like I did before, but he wanted to take it a step further and actually do it . yeah this is common - nearly all women are "bi" or "interested in a thressome" if they think a man wants to hear that but they don't actually follow through. I don't think I'm saving the best I don't know if there is anything you can do honestly but from a theoretical standpoint it seems to me like you might want to consider doing things (within your comfort zone) that let…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 02:35 AM
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Ugh that sucks. You are in a very tough spot because this is his problem to sort out but it affects you in that if he has regrets later in the relationship you potentially invested yourself for nothing. Both of you have overshared unnecessarily so hopefully others reading this can get an idea of why they don't want/need to tell all these details. He knows that I am bisexual and have entertained the idea of polyamory or threesomes in my previous relationship This sounds adjacent to if not exactly…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 01:44 AM
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there's this whole thing about women lying about their past, being secretly alpha widowed Do yourself a favor and stop watching YouTube videos about this, because it is screwing with your mind. That's not red-pilled talk that's red meat. It's the man's job to have enough sexual partners so that whatever your number is, he doesn't care or feel like he missed out before settling down. As long as he is inspiring you to give him your sexual best, then your partner count and what you did doesn't real…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:00 AM
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Does RPW recommend reading 48 Laws of Power? Law 38: Think As You Like But Behave Like Others. That would help you a lot here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 02:32 AM
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Edit Whoops, I mistook your post as a serious question! Have fun theorycrafting on the internet...
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 11:43 PM
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I feel like you are not providing the full context here. How does one arrive at the situation where the two of you are looking at pictures of your friends and discussing them together? This doesn't make any sense to me. Did you show him their Instagram and ask how they look? Did you find him looking at their pics alone and he commented to you when he was found out?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 11:00 PM
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I always hear a main way to bring value as a woman is "keeping his belly full". This is false. The main value you bring is your sexual availability and enthusiasm. Everything else is a "value added" scenario. If your man doesn't need cooking as a value add then you just bring something else, which it sounds like you have handled. Enjoy this time where you get to be 'sous chef' as chances are high that as time goes on and especially after kids he will tire of being the only one doing the cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 10:53 PM
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Meh. I don't really see those meaning anything without more context. It's like saying a woman is low quality if she spends more than 4 hours on social media per week. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. Can't tell just from that.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/21 08:43 PM
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Most men will want to settle down with one woman at some point. What might underly this is not personal towards you but it is the way marriage is setup today; there is literally nothing in it for the man that he can't have with you without marriage. He can live with you forever without getting married. He can raise a family with you without getting married. He can buy you a ring and you can throw a party together without getting married too. But once he allows the government control of his life …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 01:16 AM
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It's your sub of course but don't you think if you know what the man might be doing that would help you choose the action that is best for the woman?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 12:30 PM
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I’m finally with a man who treats me amazingly well and I believe is the person of my dreams. ​ I’m juggling a full time role, gym, a graduate degree, side business, and I also volunteer with the community — this is my personality ​ Its so obvious. Something has to change with this list. Right now you've said you are spending less time with him to instead have your fulltime role/gym/graduate degree/side business/volunteer so it sounds like you have chosen what you will give up and what you will …
/r/RedPillWives06/12/21 09:23 AM
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Something is definitely up here, and there is not enough context to tell what. Maybe he is not RP aware and doesn't realize why a woman doesn't want to plan everything. Maybe you have been a battle-axe of a wife and he is sick of dealing with you being disappointed in his choices. Maybe its something else. I don't know, and I still want to help you, so I'll tell you what "date night" should be from the point of view of a red pill aware married man with 2 kids who was 'unplugged after marriage' a…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/21 07:29 AM
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Just because a forum has "red pill" in the title doesn't mean that any of the posts or forum members are "red pilled". You just walked into the men's locker room and didn't like the conversation, thats all. None of what you describe is red pill, its just guys talking. As for your questions in your 2nd to last paragraph, that is why the red pill exists. Guys owe you "leadership" and "protection" and "respect" in the same way that you owe them a sloppy deep throated blowjob to completion.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 04:14 AM
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This is a great question and one I am struggling with as to how I would advise my daughter in a few years. I think the best thing is to work in reverse of how a RP man is suggested to go about things. For the man, the suggestion is to not date exclusively until if/when a year of a non-exclusive relationship passes with the girl being someone who compliments his life/doesn't cause him grief. If/when this happens, a year or 2 of exclusive dating is recommended and if the girl can offer a compellin…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/21 02:20 AM
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This is definitely not red pill. You are conflating "trad con" with red pill and the two are not even close. If fact, a man in today's age is taking on a tremendous risk in agreeing to a SAHM, as in a divorce, which can be initiated at any time for no reason at all, the SAHM status will mean extra support payments from him had the wife also worked. I crave the mental stimulation, learning, and growth that my chosen path will provide me This is very perceptive - a SAHM runs a good chance of getti…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/21 01:52 AM
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Fair enough, but the issue then is not being transparent about the past for the sake of honesty. It's that she needs his help to get past it. That's fine, as being the oak is one of the things the guy should be able to bring to the table. In that case you wisely point out not to dump this baggage early in the relationship because it is definitely not attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 11:51 PM
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From my point of view it's more relevant how OP behaves towards her SO. She can have a lousy past but still act appropriately towards him. Only other explanation I can see is she intends to use how her parents treated her as an excuse for her own behavior in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 11:33 PM
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All of society teaches women to never do anything for the express pleasure of a man. The feeling she describes is the natural outcome of the world we live in.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 04:03 AM
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Why in the world do you need to tell him this? No good can come of it and it is of no consequence to him. Are you planning to use it as an excuse for your behavior? Bury it and move on. When/if he meets them, keep it brief and tell him they're crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 02:28 PM
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What I mean is, because you were not sexually available to him, he knows you have not invested anything into the relationship yet. Of course he would "play it by ear" and wait to see if you were sexually available before investing more. That is normal behavior for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:45 PM
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You had not yet invested anything into the relationship so you can really say he "left you".
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:10 PM
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First of all, anyone can make a youtube channel and call themselves red pill doesn't mean that they are. Second, no guy, red pilled or not, needs you telling them what is "honorable." Don't hate the players, hate the game.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 03:45 PM
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Read this post by whisper titled "Hypergamy is monogamy" https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/848 If you can even read.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 02:46 PM
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It's neither. Hypergamy is monogamy. Women are fiercely loyal to their best option.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 08:01 AM
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A few issues here. He knew your stance early on yet continued with you He is texting about this important issue. That's not good. This should be an in person discussion The only thing I can think of is that you both agree to not do the screening.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 05:23 AM
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I dont think the women count towards your body count but if a man knows this part of your past then you are setting yourself up for a different kind of problem. For a man to know that you are invested in the relationship and that he should commit, you'll need to avoid putting yourself in a situation where you 'could've cheat. Normally this is easy, just avoid being in situations with other men. But if he knows of your past then even hanging out with your friends might have him doubting your inve…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 06:19 PM
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I hope she sees this bro
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 06:06 PM
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That person is not giving you RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 06:03 PM
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Worry more about how you look than your scale weight when you are in this healthy bmi range. Use the wife goggles concept to your advantage. Sounds like you just need to stop stress eating really. Maybe add some weights to recomp a bit. Only you know for sure because none of us can see you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 05:21 PM
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Something is up with that and if your n count is not zero, then it is a potential issue in the future. Tread with caution.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 01:15 AM
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