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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Trust and feeling uneasy in relationships with women. | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 01:15 PM | |
| 1 | Trust and feeling uneasy in relationships with women. | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 08:01 AM | |
| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women. | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:58 PM | |
| 1 | Trust and feeling uneasy in relationships with women | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 11:26 PM | |
| 0 | I'm getting more women but im having trouble with the emotional side effects. How do i deal with toxic mindsets now that im getting more women. | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:57 PM | |
| 0 | Anyone have anxiety in relationships with women? | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:52 AM | |
| 0 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women. | RRthrowawaye | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 11:50 PM |
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| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13I'm late to the party so I doubt anyone will see this I'm currently dating/in a vague relationship with a woman and I constantly have this looming uneasy feeling that something bad is going to happen. I am not scared of losing her, I just don't want to be hurt emotionally. I don't know how to deal with these feelings and I'm a bit uncomfortable with them. In fact, I'm even considering breaking up with her so we can end things on a high note, or so I won't be broken up with. I feel like I'm getti… | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 06:55 AM |
| 0 | I'm only attracted to the women that reject me? This is becoming a problem.Holy shit OP, are you me? We need to talk. This is a huge problem I have dealt with. I'm not even sure why I'm drawn to these women, is it because they're more attractive, is it the challenge, is it something else? I have no idea. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women.Looking foreword to you expanding on this! | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women.Because if you'd processed the rest of his post before replying, it would have been evident that OP is basically a try-hard, which is something fully within our purview here at Seddit. hahaha :( It's not that bad, really. Most of the issue I realize is my preoccupied/anxious attachment style. We should all be more aware of our adult attachment style. Anyway I re-read my post, I was in a very emotional/dramatic place at the time and things are NOT as bad as they seem from my writing. I gave off t… | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women.What do you know about my situation? What if I live in the middle of no where? I'm not in a environment conducive to meeting people. | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Trouble dealing with the emotional pains that come with the game and balancing vulnerability and non neediness.Here are some issues I see you in. I am trying to solve these problems myself, so writing this down has helped. I even read that mark manson book. I'm glad you made this post. Please PM me from your main so we can keep in touch! how many girls have you slept with and how many years have you been dating? What's your age? tell us a little about yourself. Shit, maybe I really like this girl. Then BAM, gone. It still fucking tears me up to see her around, it's been a month since I've last contacted … | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm currently dating a girl that is way out of my league. I fear she will leave me and I don't want to ruin what we have right now because of these issues. What do I do?OP, you simply have an unhealthy attachment style. It's very important to be aware of this as it can help you. I have the SAME issues that are happening to you(check out my thread if you're interested) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_in_adults#Attachment_styles Like me, you probably have an anxious/preoccupied attachment style. You need to be aware of it so you can fix it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women.It's not really as bad as it sounds. It's not like ALL this happens at the same time and it's probably not as dramatic as you think(for the most part) I've experienced similar things when I used to fail in the early stages, but now I care very little. Instead of easing into dating, women, etc I jumped right in. Its just a transitional process. We also all come with baggage. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting more women but im having trouble with the emotional side effects. How do i deal with toxic mindsets now that im getting more women.Holy shit your words are so wise and on point. You have experienced this? The problem is that you're not Outcome Independent. You're actually attached to an outcome with these girls that involves something, even if it's simply an outcome like, "I need to see her next weekend," or whatever. Once you're dependent on that outcome happening, you're resting your confidence and worth on something that's not sustainable. You're completely right. I'm just getting hurt from different angles. How do I bec… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 01:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting more women but im having trouble with the emotional side effects. How do i deal with toxic mindsets now that im getting more women.Thank you for your comment, I expanded on what I had to say here. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1fnd3c/how_do_i_deal_with_the_emotional_and_mental_costs/ | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile the fact that the girls you're dating like and date other men?You have CHOSEN to get attached to an outcome (starting a serious relationship) with girls before you have even finished the investigation phase to find out if you guys really had chemistry or not....or if they want what you want. And you have apparently decided to allow this thought pattern to continue unchallenged, because you think it's "normal". What is the correct thought pattern? I went on three dates and she passed on my end. Well, news flash. You are dealing with other human beings who c… | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 03:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you reconcile the fact that the girls you're dating like and date other men?You are insecure. Is it really bad to care that a girl you like likes someone other than you? I just feel like that's a normal feeling, no? Though this feeling has no place in the modern dating world. This is what can take seduction from "a nice guy" to "that asshole player." Eventually you will start to get comfortable with picking up girls, but will get more jaded at the same time. I typically run sexually aggressive/asshole game but I ran provider with this one because I'm honestly interested… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile the fact that the girls you're dating like and date other men?I just want someone to say those types of things about me but I never feel like any girl is that "sprung" for me or into me enough. I always feel like every girl I'm dating is sort of neutral about me since she has a guy she likes more from her past or whatever. Is anything I do brand new to the girls I talk to? With all women I date....I feel like I'm sort of a guy she just hangs out with when her number ONE guy isn't around or when she has no other choice. Like I'm second choice or the guy she… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 09:44 PM |
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