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RUALUM15/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:24 PM
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You missed a chance at escalation
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 08:47 PM
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To this, we have received absolutely zero apology for the sheer and unbridled misogyny that the administration demonstrated. Don't you mean misandry?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:32 PM
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Eloquently said. And yet somehow the reddit admins will lose this battle either way. They either fashion together a straw man argument and get publicly exposed or relent with their tails between their legs and admit defeat.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 03:53 PM
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Great realization. You can only keep improving. Don't forget what you learned through your failures, but let go of the feeling of failure. You can't dwell on what can't be changed, you can only move forward with a positive attitude. No one is good enough for everyone in life, but they are good enough for some people. However, the person you should always strive to be your best for is yourself. You're on the right track. Keep grinding.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 04:10 PM
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I don't get mad at women for being programmed the way that they are, I get mad at myself for not being the best version I could have been.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:59 PM
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My roommate told me that his dads best advice to him was “Once a yes, always a yes.” That means if a girl at any point has liked you in your life, assume that attraction is still there and act on it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 07:39 PM
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It's possible, but you need to have a rock solid frame. I was seeing a girl about two months ago who I banged a couple of times and was dating. I wrongfully judged that she was girlfriend material and asked for exclusivity. She said that we are "just friends". After that conversation, I hung up on her and blocked her. Didn't talk to her for a week and saw her out with mutual friends. She mentioned how much it drove her crazy. I told her to deal with it. I made out with her that night. Still left…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 02:00 AM
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It's not about looks. A girl could be a complete bitch or can't develop enough interests or passions to hold a conversation.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 11:30 PM
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There is no such thing as a 10. A 10 has a perfect personality/looks. And I assure you no 19 year old has the potential to develop both.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:54 PM
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Can you read body language at all? I know this point is beaten to death, but read "What Every Body is Saying" by Joe Navarro. It's a great body language guide, but most body language is intuitive. You can tell when you offended someone, but you have to decide whether that discomfort is on the surface or more deeply wounded someone. And part of that is where your comment is coming from. Most women know that my goal isn't to be malicious when I'm talking to them because maliciousness comes from a …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 01:37 PM
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If I make a bad joke, I don't apologize for real, even if the girl acts insulted. I make another. Great point. Just got back from a trip to Miami where these two girls were giving me shit from day 1. I hooked up with one of them by being cocky/funny and flirting with them as soon as we arrived. No one is going to nail every joke/witty comment 100% of the time. Sometimes women are going to give you a look because you messed up. You have to follow it up with another one because when that joke/witt…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 01:32 PM
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While Tucker Max was spot on with that comment, don't use him as an example. His stories are entertaining reads, but you'd be naive to believe he is 100% honest in any way in his books.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 05:08 PM
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Glad to see I wasn't the only one who was thinking this.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:42 AM
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I think the reason this post was so upvoted was because all of these guys will think that they can stand around, not change, and have a more positive energy or aura, expecting women to suddenly notice them. The world doesn't work that way. Those who succeed are those who fail the most and put their ego aside. They work tirelessly and influence those around them, rather than react or wait for someone to approach. This is the most horseshit post I've ever seen.
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:56 PM
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I'm just confused how many idiots upvoted this.
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:34 PM
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Your post has some decent tips, but holy shit does your title make me want to commit suicide.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 03:51 AM
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Any suggestions in any of these places?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:04 PM
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Me and my boys from back home are taking this trip later in the year! I hear it's a blast.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:58 PM
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Travelling solo to Dublin, London, and Amsterdam next month since I had a lot of days off left of PTO from work. I'm pumped! People seem so surprised that I'm going alone, but the thought never really occurred to me that I wouldn't go just because my friends couldn't.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:57 PM
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Don't count it as a lay. Put that one in the learning department and move past it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:03 PM
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Women are a short term validation tool. It may be about being successful with them in the short term to be able to have the sexual release that men need, but long term it's always about achieving success and self-actualization as a man. You should always strive for this greater goal, but what is that goal? That's for you to decide what your most important priorities are.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:27 PM
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Loved this post. Not bragging, hit on key points, and gave us some perspectives to consider. Great work.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:24 PM
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We look for her and I find her full on making out with some hot guy and just casually tap on her shoulder and say "we're leaving, taking taxis, what are you doing?". I didn't know I could cringe this hard before. The conversation in the group starts getting sexual and at some point she just bumps me, looks at me straight in the eye and does the blowjob motion with her tongue. You didn't do anything, other than display non-neediness and outcome independence by not fawning over her at the club and…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:31 PM
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the claritin d I took earlier Really, you're going to blame Claritin d? Sometimes you can't get it up, there's no need for a male hamster excuse. Just accept it and move on. Other than that, simple, concise FR.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:01 PM
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You didn't become a beta, you were always a beta. Change that and your frame of mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:21 PM
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The prophet speaks again. Wonderful insight man.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:25 PM
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Discipline, my friend, discipline. Make your mark in little ways every day and before you know it, all of those little marks will amount to big changes. The first step is getting on the right path, the second is following through on your promises to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:50 PM
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No one cares about your journey. They only care about the destination. I don't care that you're confused and I'm sure no one else here does either. Just show us what you've accomplished. How much can you lift now compared to before? What sorts of milestones have you hit? What have you achieved? Great, so you want to be a guy again. Why should we applaud you for being on the same plane the rest of us were here before? Just go out, do you, hit your goals, and be proud of it. But I'm not going to c…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:45 PM
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What the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:19 PM
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You described me to a T. Great game? No. Average, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:59 PM
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I had a light muscle strain that de-railed me for a day or two. Since then, I've learned the importance of stretching. 100% recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 11:43 PM
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When it comes to approaching random women, I struggle immensely, but if I get meet women organically when we participate in the same activities it's easier for me. Put yourself in a position to succeed and the results will follow. So should you try and put yourself out there? Yes, in situations that you are and aren't comfortable with. That is the only way you will grow.
/r/seduction05/11/16 03:51 PM
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Why would an autistic loser get laid? He's not socializing or putting himself in an environment to meet girls. It's all a numbers game man. And you have to adapt to your situation. I've been doing a lot better lately just by joining sports leagues and joining a club in my city for the sole purpose of meeting people. I now work for that company and get paid to meet people now. Only you can improve your situation. No one gives a shit what your problem is. The question is how can you bring value to…
/r/seduction04/11/16 10:44 PM
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Absolutely. I'd think she might have a similar problem as a short guy in the sense that super tall girls aren't necessarily sought after. My plan lately has just been to say "fuck it" and go for things. It's been working out lately.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:05 PM
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I've actually had a girl do a 180 on me within the first 5 minutes of meeting her because she knew "I got it". She is the roommate of a plate I'm talking to. The scenario happened when she accidentally invited the wrong guy over to her apartment to fuck.I thought it was hilarious so I laughed . In response, she verbally berated me for 5 minutes that I was judging her and thought she was a slut. I laughed throughout her tirade and stoicly responded "I don't care who you are or what you do. I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 01:06 PM
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I'm sure you did. It's a very polarizing sub-reddit where people both love and hate it. I find the self-improvement information it provides very useful. Make your own judgement about it, don't let others think for you.
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:46 AM
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Giving Up Gambling Porn Watching football for 10+ hours a weekend Taking Up Paying off credit card bill completely
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:25 PM
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Yes. Like anything in life, if you feel that it would benefit you, then subscribe. If not, disregard. You stated you're having problems, I'm giving you suggestions. I've read through enough of your post history to see that you're over-analyzing your interactions with this girl, but as I've said, actions speak louder than words. If she's not texting back or putting in any effort, she's not interested. Do you think for a guy she was really interested in she would hesitate to text him back? Girls a…
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:41 PM
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Then change it. /r/theredpill is a good place to start.
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:01 PM
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One of my favorite books to read is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. No one is perfect at socializing, but there are certain skills you can develop over time to make yourself friendlier and more approachable. Socializing like anything is just a skill that is perfected over time. The most important thing is listening. People love to talk about themselves, so you're going to want to listen 70% of the time, 20% of the time ask questions and lead the conversation, and 10% …
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:43 AM
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Not giving a fuck doesn't mean being a dick, it means being confident in your actions and doing what you want, regardless of what other people think. You're invested in the outcome, but are scared to make the journey. Don't care whether or not you get the girl and you're more likely to get the girl. It's a paradox, but the goal is to be yourself and make your own choices because you want to, not because society tells you to act a certain way.
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:31 AM
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Never listen to someone's words. Actions always speak louder than words and by the way she behaves you'll know whether she's into your or not. I'm 23 years old and I've dated girls that are older than me by a few years and younger too. Right now I'd say your hopeless because you think that something that a mutual friend said is going to stop a girl from liking you. Be confident and go get what you want. If my friend said that to me, my response would be: "Watch me get her."
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:08 PM
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Wow. This comment definitely hit the hardest because the fact that she would want to close the distance makes a lot of sense. Great insight!
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:36 PM
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I've always been of the school of thought that a girl should enhance your life, not make it more difficult. If the good outweighs the bad, continue it. If not, let it go. If you have to think too hard about it, it's bad. However, i'm adamant that if you ever have to choose between your career, which is essentially your future and the future of your children and a girl, you pick your career without hesitation.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:01 PM
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I have no clue. I'd rather stab myself than be put through this. He's too stubborn to see his flaws. He's letting emotions control his logic which is why the relationship will fail.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:47 PM
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FWIW, he told me it's months of hell in between seeing her to stay faithful. He said he almost can't help how angry he is during sex when he does see her because of what she puts him through. He's met a few good girls too, but I fear he's too attached. You will both eventually learn your lesson, for better or worse.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:46 PM
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That was my point as well. She's getting his attention, time, and commitment, but is barely putting out. I told him he's getting screwed and for all we know she could be seeing a guy on the side. He's looking for some strange, who says she hasn't found a side piece already? He pays for everything and I told him to stop that too. He can be saved, but it's going to take her absolutely destroying him to fix these flaws. He's more of a purple pill guy, with more blue than red tendencies. Just hearin…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:42 PM
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Thanks for the advice. He is one of the coolest dudes I know and when he is single can pull quicker than most guys. He's looking outside of his relationship for sexual options, but wants to stay with his girlfriend even if he does something on the side. I've already explain to him that this is the beginning of the end, but he doesn't see it that way. We're going to Cancun in March and he's bringing his girlfriend. I couldn't tell him how much of a mistake that was, but to each their own. Thanks …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:38 PM
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All I read is you settle for the first girl that shows interest in you, lack self-respect for letting these women walk all over you, and then create a fantasy world for these hoes that don't deserve any of your time. Respect yourself first, determine what kind of personal and relationship standards you want to have in life, and then go out and go for it. Don't slip into a new relationship until you truly know what you want and are confident being single. You've been the bitch in your relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 08:29 PM
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5'7" guy with a 5'10" plate, it's not all about height. I talked to her at the bar, communicated and showed my value well through my dress and actions, and actually had the balls to make the move.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 05:39 PM
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