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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 21, 2025Loved reading this, but wondering what you’re working on personally and areas of biggest weakness? If you’re not growing, you’re shrinking. Don’t take your foot off the gas! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Therapy vs MRP adviceAt its core the MRP isn’t about giving you “advice”. There’s no set of tips and tricks to get your wife to love you, fuck you, and fix your marriage so you can live happily ever after. This space isn’t even about her, it’s about YOU…which is the point of eliminating the need for her (or anyone else’s) validation. Sex is absolutely a need, the need for HER validation is supremely unattractive and the easiest way to have her stop wanting to fuck you. Validation isn’t how she acts toward you, it’s … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/24 11:26 AM |
| 28 | Therapy vs MRP adviceYes, you worked against yourself. Therapy for instance, it didn’t work because you can’t outsource authority to a 3rd party and expect your wife to see you as the man to respect. It’s water under the bridge now, no use in looking back. Start over today…know that your behaviors and mindset were being led by 2 counterproductive mental models: 1) Your need for her validation. 2) Your covert contracts. Be attractive, don’t be unattractive - your actions have been unattractive. Start reading the side… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread: FinancesI’m in tech sales. You’re right though, gotta get this reigned in. Not living paycheck to paycheck because I pay us first (max out 401k and brokerage account), but still - it’s way too much and no discipline. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread: FinancesRight there with you - it makes my stomach hurt thinking about it sometimes. Some of these categories are easy to drop, others are not gonna be so straightforward. We are 60/40 discretionary to / non discretionary on overall spending. 17% is our mortgage. 8% groceries ($1,529). 6.8% home goods ($1,313), 5.6% is wife personal care ($1,073), 5.3% is private school, car repairs has been a big one this year ($963). Clothing is out of control…$2,016 a month. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread: FinancesI run our finance’s and she knows it. Took control 3 years into the marriage when I got her bought into paying off $60K in debt and getting on track financially. We went through financial peace university together (Dave Ramsey) and finished the course as a couple. Stay at home mom, 2 kids under 6. No debt but the mortgage. $1.3M net worth, not including the home equity. I’ve tracked every single dollar for 2 years straight using CoPilot (amazing app) and an excel spreadsheet broken into 9 Macro … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/23 02:16 AM |
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