RUSTYSKEP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Do i tell her?		RUSTYSKEP	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/21 04:54 AM

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3	Ex wife demanding allergy test EASY SOLUTION. YOU take her to get allergy tests, immediately. ON YOUR OWN ACCORD. Meaning, you dont tell her you took her to the Dr. And make dang sure if it says shes likely to get the sniffles from a cat, you fix that problem stat. Now let her file her motion with the courts and when you show the judge you, as a dad, did all the things you should have done, back when it should have been done, only goes to discredit her one more time. Small victory but in the eyes of most courts, they rely hea…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/22 02:58 PM
2	How do you predict the response would be ! THROW IT IN THE TRASH. HIRE ATTORNEY...LET HIM SPEAK. NONE of that means a dang thing if its not signed by a judge...doesnt matter if she agrees to terms or not. Sooner or later she will have reason to not play along, and you will be left holding an empty bag of promises, that you cannot enforce. Being nice isnt going to better the situation, its only opening the door for her to take advantage.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/22 09:39 AM
2	Think it’s about time to call it quits on a 11 year marriage with 3 kids Dont worry, it usually gets much much worse than that long before theres any resemblance of help coming your way. Prepare for the typical... Restraining order. Its a given, every woman uses this ploy to get INSTANT custody of the kids. Courts do not care if allegations are true or not, they will honor her insanity, and you will likely never get full custody of them again barring she does something highly illegal. Remember, you're a FATHER, not the mother, you have no rights. If you do not adopt …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/22 11:08 PM
3	Wife just walked out While she's out, ask her to pick up a gallon of milk.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/21 02:40 PM
3	Journalist looking to talk to men about divorce [post is mod approved] Id only be able to testify as to what never to do. From the mental aspects of justifying irrational behavior to the insane mental games i played myself with that ultimately destoyed my life, and the "i can drink this pain away" mentality. Not sure any of it is worth repeating, and certainly doesnt paint a pretty picture. Took me years to open my eyes to my own foolishness throughout that process. But i dont think my situation is vastly different than many others that are losing or lost a perciev…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/21 08:33 PM
3	Journalist looking to talk to men about divorce [post is mod approved] Hmmmmm. And what exactly is the angle of the dangle you are attempting to capture?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/21 08:22 PM
14	How do you know it’s over and not worth the fight? The answer is always the toughest to cope with. You know that little voice that says, dont stuck your finger in a moving fan, dont eat yellow snow, etc etc....its rarely wrong. You listen when that voice turns up the volumn. Its rough. I feel for you, been there.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/21 04:17 PM