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| 1 | Should I 26 F let my fiancé 30M sleep with other women?You're a loser if you let him do this. What the hell are you getting married for if he's become dissatisfied before you've gotten married? In the first place, what sort of man would humiliate his future wife like that? Yeah, you'd be jealous if the 3 of you did it together, but that's not unique. You'd also be jealous if he slept with other women without you. He doesn't care about your jealousy. He just wants to bag other chicks. You're not somehow hindering his success by letting him run free. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menI'm not sure if you're trying to be sarcastic but I genuinely do agree. Of course, it's not wholly or even majority this guy's fault. Maybe even "fault" is the wrong word here. It's more like, his "responsibility" to vet his partner as well as he can. Of course there are just some things you can't tell, but sometimes it's quite clear that a guy or girl is a cheater. In those cases, you kinda did to yourself if you just ignored all the red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Chivalry is not deadI sort of disagree with you on that. It's one thing to do a favor for a person who happens to be attractive. It isn't a problem if their beauty likely influenced you to be kind, even you would have been generous if the person was unattractive. It's even fine if you are consciously aware that you were at least slightly motivated to do something, but still keep said person at arm's length. It crosses a line when one will bow to someone just because they're attractive. Or, when you do something for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?This is a classic case of each side not knowing the labors of the other. It's like women who think any guy who can get actor level jacked in a month, although that's way less common of a belief. There's a lot of complexity to what makes a women beautiful; it's not just dieting. You need to eat the exact right amount to have curves while still being skinny, makup, hair, all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Which Emma Stone? Because current day Emma Stone, yeah probably a 6/10 ( no shade on her, I wish her happiness with her family ), but Emma Stone when she was younger was like a 8/10 at minimum! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?She isn't the best example considering she's had multiple boyfriends before, but you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is not deadYeah, I agree. A lot of guys out here don't realize that with maybe a year's hard work, you can get to the point where every couple of times you go out, a girl will try flirting with you. And that's just the beginning. It used to seem impossible to me and now it's just kinda normal. And I'm Indian and 5'8 in the US; the exact demographic that the Blackpill wants to consume! Guys are out here saying "it's over for me" because of my race and height despite that being further than the truth. Of cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Chivalry is not deadWell, my "medieval literature knowledge" is just playing F/GO, but yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is not deadRespect for the Don Quixote reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry is not deadIt's not that people think you mind, it's that they themselves are shocked because they can't get the same. That's not a jab at them though. This is expected with the interactions between men and women. This is why I want to grind to the point to where the tables are flipped! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Chivalry is not deadNo, she has a point. Courtly romance is in of itself an ideal. The best examples of what that ideal might be are the fiction that fully embodies it, not the real life people who couldn't live up to that. Of course, I'm a guy myself, I'd never subscribe to that courtly romance stuff, even in the middle ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Chivalry is not deadNah, I get what you mean. Look to Lancelot and his affair with Guinevere, which was written when courtly romance was very popular. The few times they actually had sex ( well, Lancelot thought he was doing it with Guinevere ) it ended in terrible disaster for the Round Table. Even if it's fiction, it's still a good example because it embodies the trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?Nothing. Why should I be afraid? Is she going to shoot me? No? Then there's little a man or woman could do to me, realistically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I transitioned to man when I was 26, and discovered his hard it is to be a man. Now Imma tell you men how to be better men.I don’t know, I kinda like being stoic though. Something bad will happen to me and a I’ll just be like “ok” and move on. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I just keep listening about the social problems that female biology/identity creates...Damn, an actually nuanced take. Nice, man. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Why is it more and more men do not want to be chivalrous, obliging and helpful anymore? What is happening?I get what you’re saying. Sorry about that, it seems where I live in the US (NJ) women don’t get angry at you for asking to help. Anyhow, even if they did, I think I’d still offer, just because it’s the right thing to do. Who knows, maybe I’m a part of the problem. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | A mom-of-two has taken the internet by storm after teaching her seven-year-old on how to be a good husband.Same with my mom! | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Do Not QuitOh hey, I ran into you again. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Why feminism is both sex positive but also sex negative and thus all the talk about objectification even though women do it themselves but it's ok when do it.This is why I’ve got to grind until I’m attractive. I can’t have an ending where I’m a pathetic worker bee who has to contribute to society but gets little success out of it. We joke that guys will let a girl use their back as a bench if only she’s pretty, but in truth 10 women will battle themselves over one guy if he’s hot. Once I’m there, I’ll have the power. And, it shall by my responsibility to use it wisely. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 11:28 AM |
| 9 | Male suicide is something that society doesn't care at allHey man, don’t be. A group’s mistakes don’t make you guilty. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Does Female Privilege Exist?Yeah, everyone does to some extent. I really don't like the whole "you have privileges and you have to apologize for it" thing though. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/23 09:24 PM |
| 2 | My Little Girl Has Wanted To Live With Me For Years, Is Unhappy At Her Mother's, What Can I Do?I’ll include you in my next prayer, man. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Spain launches tech to make sure chores are shared equally: The app tells wives if their men are doing enough housework.I will say, there are a ton of wackos on this subreddit. More for me to dismiss it as a minor party, although they’re still small. I think it’s all the RedPill guys after that subreddit got shut down. Don’t get me wrong; RedPill is super useful, but I was there when the subreddit was still up and I check their personal website every so often, and there are so many hateful nut jobs who don’t want to improve. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Sons of Feminism: The esteemed Janice Fiamengo on the damage that feminism has done, irreparably to men, and to relationships between men and women.I see. That clears things up for me, thanks. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | does a high body count affect men and women differently?Probably, but either way I still think it’s not a good idea to rack up a high number. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | No More Mr. Nice Guy is fantasticExactly bro, such a goated book. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | AI is biased against menYeah, makes sense that ChatGPT would do that. On a side note, the joke is actually funny, and I’m a guy. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist?Why are we downvoting him? He just seems polite and curious? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Reddit is turning into a FemosphereDamn, really? Would you mind sharing one briefly with me? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm not the VillainNah, what happened in the post was horrible, but I would still believe that NiceGuys is real. Lots of simps out there. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm not the VillainI’m so sorry man. Just tough it through. In a couple years School will be over. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm not the VillainEveryone reasonable is staying quiet because of the mentally challenged mob. Same goes for why others might start distancing themselves. No one is trying to catch the heat of a army of righteous idiots. Just make sure you don’t abandon him too. Play some videogames or D&D with him, or something. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:15 PM |
| 10 | Are paternity test common and should women refuse them?I see. What about those ancestry test kit things? Heard a ton of stories about people exposing cheating through that. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Sons of Feminism: The esteemed Janice Fiamengo on the damage that feminism has done, irreparably to men, and to relationships between men and women.You’re sort of right, but I wouldn’t lump all women into a boogeyman. That’s what was done with us using “the patriarchy”. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Mean girls: Half of misogynistic tweets are sent by women, study showsAlways wondered, is soy really bad for men? Because I know some Asian chads who eat soy often. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:58 PM |
| 12 | Are paternity test common and should women refuse them?I might be wrong, but I’m pretty sure you don’t need a mother’s permission for a paternity test, currently, in the United States. Generally, it is considered a cheating accusation. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:55 PM |
| -2 | Guess the countryThat’s terribly unfortunate too. I don’t know why the India rape cases didn’t come to my mind. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | No wordsGet ready for Jeffery Dhamer 2.0 💀 | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | No wordsAh yes, very gentle tone in the video, I agree. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | No wordsYou’ve got to be joking. Skinship is a necessity for children and it is traumatic to lack it. Constant rejection like this is terrible for the kid because in the olden times, children that were rejected by their parents ended up dead. There is a time and place to teach about boundaries. And it’s definitely not before your kid can’t speak and so can’t set boundaries himself. After all, she technically filmed her baby without consent. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | No wordsJack the Ripper entered the chat 💀 | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Guess the countryOh, I see. Yeah, I knew about the whole Dowry thing and how goddam shitty cops are ( my dad literally had to bribe one into not committing a crime against us once ), but god damn. Thanks man. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:15 PM |
| 20 | Guess the countryMy god. I thought FDS was already dead and buried. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | My baby brother was circumcised.What's the difference between the religious and regular? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 05:56 PM |
| 83 | Guess the countryWhy is all this stuff happening in India? Genuine question, I'm Indian myself but haven't been there in a while. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Ex-feminists of this sub, what made you turn away from feminism?Hey man, I'm not a simp and I never was one, and I agree, but being equally unreasonable solves nothing. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Ex-feminists of this sub, what made you turn away from feminism?Yeah, I will say it was a bit uncalled for. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Ex-feminists of this sub, what made you turn away from feminism?It’s downvoted because people disagree with it. That’s how Reddit works. Also, chill out, snowflake. It’s only at -1. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Boys get lower grades at school for the same performance.Damn, this is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?"No, no, and no. That goes vise-versa too. Anyone who thinks it's sexist to not like grandmothers is very obviously loony. Same thing for the guys who deludingly think women should love them for being on welfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:02 PM |
| – | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Alright then. 1) Would you mind telling me what specifically the podcasts say ( including the more controversial takes, even if you don't agree with them )? I stopped keeping up with them when they switched to podcasts but I know that Lilith fellow has a bit of a reputation for saying "Kill all men" or similar stuff on twitter. Furthermore, what is your stance and the FDS stance on . . . 2) The wage gap? Is it real? 3) Stay-at-home Wives? 4) Marriage? Is it a generally good or bad thing? If it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Hrm, actually, I’ll half-concur. I remember being there before the whole thing went podcast, and some stuff was decently reasonable. I still think generally FDS isn’t good, as it was kind of just dedicated to bashing men. RP does that too ( and that’s usually the worst side of RP ), but a huge -and I mean huge- portion of RP is calling each other out and constructively insulating each other. FDS? Not so much. Plus, FDS calls men sexist for wanting very common and reasonable things. I remember th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?The No.1 goal of an FDS follower is to gain as much benefit as possible, regardless of it’s effects on other people. Also, IMO they’re generally kind of rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Harvard scholars: Marriage makes women happier and healthierMen live longer because the boys will let him buy a rocket launcher, but his wife won't! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 12:33 AM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling inferior to women in STEM degrees?It always amazes me how female red pill is like 100% times more wholesome than male red pill. Although, I think it's just natural for spaces dedicated to young men to be a little sharp ( like shooter videogames ). | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Can you share your favorite (relatively easy) dinner recipe?Make some Fish Fry or something. Pretty simple and good meal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 12:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movement> being aggressive IS toxic by definition I disagree. Especially for men, the ability to be aggressive is a necessity, and there is nothing inherently wrong with it. Anger is one of the most primal emotions of the human brain so that people will not let himself be wronged by another. A man with no aggression within him is a soft doormat that will be trampled by society and will be too flattened to reach the heights of their dreams. Listen -I know from experience, the doormat life is stuff that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Advice on anxiety on “The Wall”Calm down! You're 24! Just ask him to marry you soon and take a deep breath. If he wants a future with you it'll be painless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementSo, you know what masculinity is right? I'd define it as generally encompassing things like Liftin' weights, taking risks, competition, conflict and combat, speaking deeply, and being aggressive. These are all essential aspects for a young man who wants to be, well, a man, and yet in the modern day social media and schools will discourage all of this. Mainstream media says you have to put 0 work in your body to be attractive, that all competition is bad because where there are winners there are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementYes, those are the draws of the modern day. I am not saying that things were perfect back then, but that I think it’s best to draw the good things from each culture and time period. So- what does the current say have right? Well, pretty much everything you stated. The modern day is a very civilized world. What does it have wrong? Well, it extremely discourages marriage, having children, and masculinity, and a society can really suffer when it’s lacking in these 3. The modern day is a setting tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Eh, I guess, but I plan to come out top anyway. I'm studying for a comfy job and I'd plan to marry a nice woman -I recon the "boss-babe, take half your shit when Chad roles around" type is not only rare but easy to spot. And so then, in the case that I marry a woman who's really devoted . . it's kind of cruel to not give her real marriage, right? if I mess up ( never would ) and strike her with a hammer or something, she should be able to take everything, shouldn't she? And besides, let's be hon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you think society treats both sexes?Yeah, I agree with you. One thing I will say- many societies have realized this with men and woman. The societies that are the most cruel and oppressive to women are that way because they know that if they promise a man a 'perfect' woman, he'll work harder for the state. In essence, women are often sort of sacrificed to get the most out of young men, who are one of the most important and impactful demographics in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Dang, that makes zero sense . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Yeah, I agree, although what you listed falls into "not doing anything". I'm saying it's unfair to pretend that no women disappear when the money stops rolling, which is a decent percent ( I'm not attacking women by the way, personally I feel that you can spot those types of gals a mile coming, and so it's your fault if you marry one ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given?I mean, it’s not about laziness, it’s about respect. Self respecting guy won’t pathetically compete for a woman who isn’t really treating him fist because she’s seeing 10 different guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given?1 by a long shot. Of course instant if infatuation is better than “hrm let me see what my options are”. You misunderstand 2 being better because you won. You already won the game with 1 in that she’s choking you over her other potential options. The only difference is that honestly you “won” less with 2 because she had to think about it and consider if you really beat of the other guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.I agree with you, but I also say that part of the reason very much is woman not wanting a guy that makes less than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Hey guys, just had this idea, but if a guy sold every single thing him his position to his brother for $1, would that mean the woman gets nothing in divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementI mean, men are struggling even in the current system. It’s far from pristine and RP is what let’s us get the life our grandfather had ( family, good job, beautiful wife, all that ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementNot so. If people can learn valuable public speaking lessons from Hitler than I think you can get something from Respill, with is thousands of times less bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementNah, part of it is that, put there’s a great deal that’s actually useful. It really boils down to who you get your redpill info from. So, I recommend to stop watching Tate and check out Hamza. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenWell, yeah, but that natural. Women are tying their best, but of course they can’t give as good of advice as guys in this type of stuff. They aren’t playing the same game as us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?I mean, they wouldn’t. FDS-ers are often selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisySome Redpill creators like Hamza do tell men to commit, but yeah generally you’re right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him?I’d hope not, but for sure this is something that happens. That’s why I say, if you’re getting married you should marry a traditional woman who doesn’t frequent clubs or bars, and on top of that you yourself should be that “chad” type guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How do you personally define “single by choice”?So, “single by choice” just means that they aren’t actively looking and could theoretically get in a relationship if they wanted to, but for some reason is explicitly staying out of one. Nah there’s not a hard number it just has to generally be true that you could probably get a relationship if you wanted it, ie you’re desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Where Is an appropriate place for young man to approach a woman he likes in 2023?Any social place will do - just make sure you won’t see many people again if you get rejected. One thing I feel guys have to know is that it’s okay to embarrass yourself a bit when you’re trying to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Being a Chad may not have a lot to do with looks, but with feeling like a winnerI mean, it totally has a ton to do with looks, but you’re also right. Confidence is such a major thing that a CIA operative can disguise himself just by being less confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: pushing RP theories like the wall encourages immature women with very little life experience to make rushed decisions about who’s genes to pass onI mean, the Wall isn’t so much of a theory or a fact as it is a general statement. All women know this and this idea has been around for much longer than RP. Why do you think so many women dread turning 30? Why so you think that it’s a common joke at womens’s birthday parties that this is their 20th “25th” birthday? Of course though, some people can definitely stand the tide and it’s not a rule that is true 100% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?I believe you don’t deserve anything in a pragmatic sense. However I get what you mean and the answer is no ( not that I’m that type of guy ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Do you think in general having high social status allows men to get the highest quantity/quality of woman?Er, in the past yeah. These days however I feel you’ll get divorced and robbed if you’re unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kidsYeah, I’d agree, although I worry on a deeper level countries will keep it alive because the replacement rate for many countries are literally suicidal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:42 AM |
| 0 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?I say, it comes down to the Father figure. They’re is absent in many men’s lives. Economic > Men have little discipline or skill because no dad was around to each them. Emotional > This one, I’d say is because so many men are raised primary by their mother, they’re taught it be more emotional. No shade on mothers - what a mother does for her child is wonderful, but that is true. With no father in the picture guys aren’t taught to be tough. Physical > Again, with no one in the household to champi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Tell me this is stupidHey, don't beat yourself up. Here at Redpill there's a future for anyone willing to put the effort in. Honesty and self awareness is good. Most women don't have it in them to admit that they were wrong like this, but for your own sake, put things more tactfully next time. Yeah, it's unfortunate that he doesn't like you but you've got to move on. Keep grinding and you'll get you're happy ending with someone who actually likes you. Don't seek out this guy once you're up though. In the chance that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Tell me this is stupid'Aint no way, I thought only hyper-red pill guys used that term. Don't use it to describe yourself - it makes you look very bad. There's a reason they call it that, OP. The entire point of the term is that women cluelessly jump from guy out of their league to guy out of their league thinking these guys really do like them. These men were not the slightest bit interested in you romantically. You have fooled yourself into thinking otherwise. It's good that you want to improve and get "within his l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Tell me this is stupidWhat are CC days? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | My husband is a catch. I want to learn how to overcome my flaws and nurture our relationship / him better.Damn, forced? I'm really sorry for you and your husband, it must be tough. I know I'd be absolutely destroyed if I heard that my wife had to force herself to do that for me but was bubbly for her ex. Hope you guys can work through it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousy - boyfriend looking at women he knows on IGI see. Well, if he said he's not interested in causal stuff it's good. On the main point of the post, play it by ear. Don't act right now but keep in in mind and look out for if he does it again. If it's really ruining your sleep, then talk to him about it but make sure you're soft about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you show your standards in a feminine way?Listen, I'll be honest, this isn't the way. If you know it's a bad hobby, you should make efforts to quit in spite of attention, not justify going to the bar because of it. On the other side of RedPill, guys will literally warn their mates about becoming serious with girls that do things because they like the attention. A guy's wife/girlfriend doing stuff for the sheer quantity of attention from other guys is like the No.1 thing guys hate. I doubt you'd like it very much if your guy, who you're … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousy - boyfriend looking at women he knows on IGGuy here . . but aren't family oriented guys disillusioned with the casual scene? At the very least, if a guy who has been causal in the past is now serious about dating, shouldn't there have been a clear shift in his lifestyle, personality, ect. marking his "before" and now "mindset"? Don't let me poison the well if you're really sure it'll work out though. Just keep that in mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopWait, white socks are bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you plan on having children?Huh, I see. I personally really like kids so I’d be happy to have some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you plan on having children?Yep. I want to be well off or give them a good life though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold?Degraded in bed? As in what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold?Yeah, agreed. Anyone who’s into that stuff is either a pushover or crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold?It’s just a bad decision. Like doing drugs or excessive gambling. That stuff destroys relationships with a near 100% guarantee. Besides - No one in their right mind enjoys watching their partner be intimate with everyone but them, and no one in their right mind goes along with something so ludicrous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold?Yes. I can’t respect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Yeah, unfortunately, it really is that way. When there's an abundance of something, most of that something is trash. If anyone's in need of an actually good creator, check out Hamza on youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Should sleeping with others in the talking phase of a relationship be seen as a dealbreaker? why or why not?I'd probably be out. To each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?Hrm. I guess that's correct. Perhaps not "need", but "like". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold?Listen . . people can do whatever they want . . . but yeah. 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when 'Chad' starts flirting with you and you are in a relationship? How do you feel?Ah . . I don't know. Love and sexual attraction are different, although related. If she's working with Henry Cavil every day then I just can't imagine her being very crazy about coming home to her comparatively "boring" husband. Although, I do believe that after a while of loving each other people can do just fine even when next to someone they would like - that is to say that only having eyes only for your partner is possible in long term stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Nun mode as a single mom without childcare?Oh wow, you guys have your own version of Monk Mode? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I just hope it's not "Asa" level rizz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I agree with you, although for the N count thing I've got to say that guys won't care if they're just hooking up with you, but will if they're doing any sort of committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Well, unattractive and not feminine, I suppose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | A deal with the DevilHell nah. I don't need the devil's help to attain that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:55 AM |
| 6 | men should never help women with anything unless they clearly verbally request itAh, I don't know. Redpill has helped me a lot, but I've sworn to myself and to god that I'd always do the right thing, even if it means putting myself at risk. If that makes me a simp, guess I'm a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Almost anything a man does can screw him over in datingMeh, I feel that there's usually a balance to these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Do older women have less value in the dating market than younger ones ?Well, I mean, yeah. It's just that women are generally prettier when younger. Is what it is - It's the same with guys, but only to a certain extent, because men usually have a better time aging and can use the extra time to generate wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:50 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Lies/ exaggerates the Evils and Problems Women Allegedly causeFair enough, I agree with most of what you say. Although we can argue endlessly on where you're right and wrong, I'd just say that this doesn't damage redpill as a whole. I feel that these days, there's too much "level 1" redpill content, you know? Too much "women aren't shit dude", and not enough "let's become the very best person we can for the people in our lives". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Eh, I don't really see DiCaprio as being anything other than a playboy for dating such young women. I wouldn't do it and it isn't exactly respectable, but for sure it's not the pedophilia that everyone else thinks it is. The girls know exactly what they're getting into and can make their own decisions as grown adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Signs a guy is genuinely interested in you?Based answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/23 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Should I give up on marriage if I am an ugly woman?Hell nah. Before I go further, full disclosure - I'm a guy, so my advice might not work. I promise you that with a little work, you can become the type of girl that guys trip over each other for. Make sure you're in great shape, don't dye your hair the colors of the rainbow ( blonde/brown/black is fine though ) and dress nice. Listen, I don't mean to insult women when I say this, but if it's anything like what's going on with us guys, very few women are doing this. Think about the last time you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/23 03:07 AM |
| 3 | If you're against open relationships, you're pathetic.As if my feelings about dudes having sex with my wife have anything to do with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:55 PM |
| 7 | If you're against open relationships, you're pathetic.Exactly bro. Pathetic? Sorry, the only pathetic dude is OP for thinking that people are wrong for disliking open relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangersAh, well, that’s true, but women should still be careful, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate & the other RP creators - Where exactly is the misogyny?You guys should check out a guy on YouTube named Hamza. He’s easily the best, most helpful, and simultaneously least hateful self improvement created out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?Oh damn, not 6ft? Nice, I don’t see fellows like you often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?Exactly man. The more the world changes, the more it stays the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?I can get how u/Apprehensive can seem arguementitive, but he really is right. It’s terribly dangerous for both the baby and the mother if the mother is older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?Agreed, a decade is far too long, but he’s right. Yes, make fertility also declines over age, but compared to a woman’s fertility graph, a man’s fertility graph looks like a straight line. She can get relationships if she’s pretty, but if she doesn’t hurry up, she might not find a spouse that wants kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?Oh damn, WGTOW is a thing, I thought it was just MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?Uh, kind of. If I’m correct, 30 is like right before female fertility jumps off a cliff, which means you and your partner may have difficulty having children. Don’t give up though. Your fertility at 30 and 35 is much better than what it is at 40! Admittedly, you’re running out of time to get married and have kids, but the train hasn’t left the station just yet! Really grind and you just might catch it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | women are not self-aware on how badly they treat menQuestion, what does “CMV” stand for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?Exactly man, that’s just nonsense. If the end goal is happy marriage, why would you also have to hate the woman you’re marrying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?Because although it’s slower for men, it still fries your pair bonding just the same. Once that happens, you can’t have a happy marriage until you go to therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?I don’t really consider myself Red Pilled, but I do consume a lot of that sort of content and agree with a lot of sentiments associated with it. However, I just can’t respect all these dudes out here trashing women and saying they’re worthless. That’s level 1 beginner ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?I feel that as a whole, there just can’t be an “industry” for people improving their personality, because that means becoming a good person, and the road to that is a personal one. There isn’t an industry per say of men an women improving their personality, but a community of men and women trying their best to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What exactly makes women horny?Well, it all depends on how much you make then. You’ll have a harder time if you make above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What exactly makes women horny?Before someone comments saying that OP is trying to find general things that women like, what r/LimpetMinecrafter is saying is that most things that aren't looks, confidence, and respect are simply to varied for one single strategy to stand out and be effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 4 | What exactly makes women horny?Er, well, to be fair, women with careers ( especially high paying ones ) only want to date men who make more then them, generally . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What do you think actually helps men date?I'd say, Red Pill is generally not bad to dip your toes in, but you should never get swallowed ( same thing goes for Female Dating Strategy, honestly ). Red Pill really will teach you thinks that will help you be more confident, and they always give advice that is extremely easy to execute. That's kind of like the honey that leads you to the angry bee's nest honestly, as it's so easy to fall into Red Pill and absorb all the bad stuff there too because they really do have some stellar advice. In … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Eh, I guess you're right. Having too many partners is bad for women trying to get a long term relationship, but honestly after a certain point, anyone's pair bonding would be fried, no matter the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menNah, just acknowledging it is enough. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Noncommittal pseudo not boyfriendProbably the money. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Noncommittal pseudo not boyfriendYou really should have learned what his intentions were with you a long while ago instead of waiting like this. From what it seems though, he definitely has no real plans with you. Men only hide women from the public that they’d be embarrassed to be caught with. You haven’t asked him because you likely knew this at some level, but ignore it/pushed past it/refused to accept it. That didn’t do any good for you. It just meant you had to deal with the problem later on when you’re more invested. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What feminine hobbies should I try to pick up?Nitting. Super unique. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/22 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Is jealousy ever good?As a dude who accidentally stumbled into here just now, I can confirm. If a guy actually likes you, he’ll find just a pang of jealousy endearing. What’s important to remember though is not to go overboard, as even with dudes who are taking you seriously, they only like jealousy when it doesn’t restrict their personal freedom. The reason why this is mainly has to do with how men generally get next to no attention, so they really like it when they do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Venomous vixen's versatile veritas: vanished visitor vibrates Venus' viscera. Vociferant volcano vomits vindication, voluntary version vehemently vexes verisimilitude - vilipending vapid vows.I remember this post! I even commented on it! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Narcissistic neanderthal neglects nice nobleman. Non-negotiable nightlife nighs necrophily - not nearly newsworthy. Nevertheless, now Niflheim nears Nirvana; noncommittal nomination notifies nemesis. Night night, ninety-ninth nuisance!Ah, true. I didn’t even catch that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/22 05:06 AM |
| 12 | Narcissistic neanderthal neglects nice nobleman. Non-negotiable nightlife nighs necrophily - not nearly newsworthy. Nevertheless, now Niflheim nears Nirvana; noncommittal nomination notifies nemesis. Night night, ninety-ninth nuisance!Exactly. I’m not saying that she has to do anything she doesn’t want to, but why is she incapable of doing something for the nice dude, even if it doesn’t benefit herself, but she’ll do anything to protect the name of the chad that harmed her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/04/22 10:07 PM |
| 18 | Narcissistic neanderthal neglects nice nobleman. Non-negotiable nightlife nighs necrophily - not nearly newsworthy. Nevertheless, now Niflheim nears Nirvana; noncommittal nomination notifies nemesis. Night night, ninety-ninth nuisance!I don’t appear here often simply because I’m a little afraid of being radicalized, but I just have to say, it’s really telling that she wasn’t willing to file a police report on her ex. Man, what a betrayal. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Oh my God! It's almost like degrading yourself into an rálach through personalized online pornography isn't a respectable position all the feminists said it was! WOW, I am really in shock over all of this! /sJust curious, why does this subreddit use so many non-English words in otherwise english text, and what language is it? I'm not complaining; in fact, this is super interesting! I've never seen such a phenomenon manifest in a seemingly non-region specific subreddit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 4 | [40-F] Why do all the ugly men match with me? I'm not Shakira… I'm better!Oh, shoot! Sorry, I’ll fix that! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | [40-F] Why do all the ugly men match with me? I'm not Shakira… I'm better!I love that they went private! They are like little closed systems ( er, sorry, I meant echo chambers ) with no outside involvement. It's really seriously interesting. Man or women, I recommend to lurk there from time to time. Sometimes, I like to bounce between here and FemaleDatingStrategy. It offers an interesting balance. Over all, this subreddit is far more reasonable ( one of the reasons being that you're not actually banned from it if you're not a man ), but every group has their radicals… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The final word on paying for the whole dinner date vs. going dutchI remember a quote, that said something along the lines of the dude ( the person giving the statement ) not going on the second date with a girl if she didn't offer to pay the bill. The dude said that he pays first date bills anyway, but her offering matters because this is the most polite that person is going to be to you. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Do guys really think that very hot girls can date easily, like any time and any guy they want?You said it yourself. All eyes are on you. People just walk up to to, no matter where you are. You can date any dude at any time; it's just that you won't. In the example you gave, you no-joke could have started dating that man right then and there if you asked. For most men ( and frankly, almost everyone ), that's impossible. Your problem isn't that you can't date a dude as you please. It's that no matter where you go, you can't avoid prying eyes. Look, I could go on and on about your advantage… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 03:54 AM |
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