RXCC00N Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	One of the latest studies on the outcomes fatherless families, shows that what matters more are positive male role models more than a mere father at home. realtalk i believe explanations like this are infinitely more useful than actually just calling something "toxic masculinity" and being done w/ it	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/22 01:55 PM
14	One of the latest studies on the outcomes fatherless families, shows that what matters more are positive male role models more than a mere father at home. I wonder if there is a societal pressure of what "being a man" is and if that is what negatively impacts boys. homie the cure put this shit to bed in 1980 basically, i think a lot of dudes grow up in lame environments wherein being a Real Man(tm) is given a lot of uncritical importance. a lot of us grow up in bubbles defined by this relentless mantra of: don't cry, toughen the fuck up, don't be a pussy, stop being a f*g, grow up, man up, nut up, sack up, find your balls and stop bitching. this k…	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/22 11:30 AM
1	The saddest groups on Earth? hey dude, ilu and want to support u unconditionally, but as someone currently in clinical practice it's important we look beyond the choice of phrase or the shitty ideas people are expressing on the surface level to see the actual intent behind their words and meet them where they're at. the first thing you're gonna learn when you've graduated and entered practice is to lead with empathy. :) i agree the sadness ladder is dumb, but this yungboi is probably thinking more about the hurt they're goi…	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 07:39 PM
6	Do they not understand that freedom of speech doesn’t apply to YouTube? If someone's insisting that the points being made by a deplatformed party need to have a place, it's OK to ask followup questions: what is the benefit of the particular points they're making having a voice? Do they live the way they're saying other people should? If everyone did, is that a world you'd want to live in? It's also OK to explore what the boundaries of their own desire for free speech are. If they're carrying on about this shit but also they think we should ban, for instance, pride…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 03:05 AM
9	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). For sure. And like, dude, it's starting to hit kids. We got little boys out here smash or pass rating their classmates before their balls have even dropped.	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/22 01:44 AM
26	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). Sure, my point is more that women don't really give a fuck about things like whether you're dateable when they criticise red pill dudes. If you're in these red pill spaces, they're probably already not interested in fucking you. The criticism of the red pill in most womens' spaces is that you all act super, super fucking creepy, and they'd prefer there be fewer creepy men out there making the world uncomfortable and potentially dangerous.	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/22 01:29 AM
35	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). I see quite a few women on Reddit be upset about red pill. Let me make this abundantly clear. A man who believes in the red pill is not a good long term partner. Women care about shit beyond dating and romance, man. The criticism of red pill dudes ranges far beyond "they're unattractive partners."	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/22 01:23 AM
1	How can I help? I get where you're coming from. With that said, positive community mental health is also extremely valuable, as is creating positive spaces. You don't need to be a licensed therapist to support people at a sort of layman bros with the bros level, but you should establish a boundary. If a dude tells you he hates women because he was molested as a kid, that's probably out of your wheelhouse as a layperson, but you can absolutely say "I don't know what that's like man, but I'm sorry it happened to …	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/22 12:03 AM
7	How do I for sure tell if a man is trying to redpill me? black queer feminist writer who's all about men needing to have empathy for one another	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 11:54 PM
12	How do I for sure tell if a man is trying to redpill me? Also, what are some things a woman can do to get a rp man to write her off? "so i've been reading a lot of bell hooks lately,"	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 11:49 PM
1	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing I might be confusing them for another subreddit group? There's some subreddit out there that's mostly just dudes trying to present positive, healthy masculinity while being sensitive to how what feminism would call patriarchal norms affect men, ie. bullying boys for crying, treating men as inherently violent, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 11:10 PM
5	I believe a lot of invisible men don't feel like they are sexually attractive, hence why groups like the redpill exist, as a last-ditch effort to try something else. I will be off my parents medical in 2 years, so doubt I could afford the medication The US medical system is a fucking nightmare dude, sorry you've gotta deal with that additional BS.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 10:58 PM
2	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing That's fair man. Something to keep in mind is that "feminists" like the ones you're worried about only seem common because they're loud. They aren't actually that popular in feminist spaces. r/TwoXChromosomes is not a realistic representation of a feminist space, it's mostly old white cis women dunking on men for upvotes. Feminist spaces for men that might be able to help you out include r/bropill and r/MensLib. The reason red pill dudes present these men as beta male soyboy cucks or whatever is…	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 10:55 PM
5	I believe a lot of invisible men don't feel like they are sexually attractive, hence why groups like the redpill exist, as a last-ditch effort to try something else. Dropped Medication and stopped therapy I'd recommend trying a different therapist and possibly, based on their judgment, a different medication, as it's possible that the first dude's approach wasn't right. Not every individual therapy method works for every person, and neither does every medication. Even with the pills, the adaptation phase for some bodies and medications can last around six to eight months before you start seeing any meaningful improvement. For instance, one therapist might …	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 10:23 PM
2	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing Yeah, it's not worth dwelling on. Anyway, do you find venting and discussing problems / solutions with your dude friends useful in addressing that sense of isolation? Isolation is a really broad feeling and can describe a lot of things, ie. lack of and desire for human touch, outright being horny, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 10:00 PM
1	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing OK sis, it's evident that I can't convince you to use more effective methods, so you stick with yours, I'll stick with mine.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 09:51 PM
2	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing Yeah, it's definitely made more difficult by people who do not have similar experiences believing that the solutions to issues like this are simple. Up top, you gotta block this person and move on. You are not going to debate her out of her current stance. She's doing things like breezing over observations of institutional racism and ableism because she does not actually understand nor does she want to understand these issues, she wants to fight with men, possibly the kind of men who've hurt her…	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 09:36 PM
0	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing What's your endgame, exactly? Like, by coming into a space like this and picking fights with dudes, do you think you're going to debate them out of their shitty worldview?	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 09:18 PM
1	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing No, the solution is not to turn your partner into a therapist. A positive practice is to foster positive social relationships with communities of friends, regardless of the genders of those friends, who are prepared to share and respect one another's emotions, which is actually something plenty of men actually do. Shit, we're seeing such an increase in men rejecting cliche / stereotypical masculinity to instead explore previously niche interests like Dungeons & Dragons or fucking model trains, w…	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 01:04 PM
1	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing tbh, the "go to therapy" refrain is some extremely white middle-class people shit. I'm saying this as a therapist, I am begging uninformed people to stop using "go to therapy" as some kind of thought terminating cliche mantra to call each other out, minimalize one another's issues, or in any way present an adversarial dynamic toward therapy itself. "Go to therapy" is applied like essential oils to the skin of an autistic kid. The way it's used ignores the vast and complex systemic issues that - …	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 12:11 PM
3	Just realized something - both RP and Fem are anti sharing To be absolutely fair, for a lot of dudes who ended up peaked on red pill bullshit, their whole downward spiral started with reading self-help psychology nonsense. I think it's important to understand that the whole medium of self-help books exist primarily to prey on desperate people who have been left somewhat adrift by poorly funded and understaffed mental healthcare systems, and many do not actually offer anything useful to say.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 11:48 AM
2	Question to r/exredpill; Do the women in these videos exist in the real world? How do you avoid them? I mean r/exredpill tells me that these women don't exist. this seems like nutpicking	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 11:35 PM
2	If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox. When it comes to deradicalisation, you walk an extremely precarious line between reinforcement and actual, effective practice. The bros over at Life After Hate aren't sitting there like "yeah man you're right, the crime rates are really sus, but try your hardest not to say the n word any more, OK?" No, they're using concepts like graduated exposure, contrary storytelling, etc. You are right in that this space could probably do with more compassion, but I just do not think that jerking each other…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 07:01 PM
2	If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox. what does this look like in practical terms?	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/22 11:49 PM
2	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Yeah, I won't bullshit you, the isolation that comes with conditions like ASD can be absolutely brutal. How long have you been attending therapy dude? Is it going well? A real challenge with ASD is that, because we're often missing a lot of the information that people without ASD can infer easily, we sometimes make the mistake of filling in the blanks ourselves. If we'd have a pretty bad experience relating to and involving ourselves with others, as it sounds like you have, what we put in thos…	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/22 12:01 AM
1	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? I think I can relate to you more than you realise and I wanna keep talking because I have some suggestions, but I wanna ask first, Social worker has no social programs she can recommend. What context are you seeing a social worker under? Is there a disability element like ASD involved in your case?	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 11:35 PM
3	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? You should only sleep with people you trust dude. Also, the constant paranoia about being baby-trapped, the weird pseudoscientific tendency to attempt to decipher women, and shit in redpill spaces suggests that straight boys are in fact having some issues with trusting women. the race shit is insane and far more common than yts will admit imo "we don't have friends as much as acquaintances" — this is not everybody's experience, and certainly isn't mine. i'm moving in about two weeks or so and i …	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 11:01 PM
3	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? oh for sure. i went through this vicious closet phase when i was 18 - 19 wherein i lied to girls in order to have sex with them, but because i thought being in a relationship was being in the danger zone, as in it'd only be a matter of time before they found me jacking off to dudeporn or whatever, i used to be really, really shitty in ways that'd end any possible relationship ASAP, like "boy that was great — anyway i need you to get your shit and leave, my girlfriend's going to be here in a coup…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 10:15 PM
10	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Yeah, I broadly agree with that. Do you think then that he isolation that dudes feel is down to a biological factor and therefore an inalienable state of being as a man, or could it be addressed by either a shift in culture, or - more importantly imo - a shift in how one places oneself within culture? Anecdotally, what I think is: it's becoming increasingly common now for dudes to seek out subcultural pockets wherein the need to perform masculinity is vastly reduced, especially as more and more …	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 11:28 AM
13	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? OK, I agree with you on some broad strokes here, but who isn't taking men seriously? What societal forces exist that prevent men forming emotional connections and is it possible to exist outside of those norms?	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 10:46 AM
43	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? i think the conflation of loneliness with sex makes it hard to take seriously. like, are you feeling isolated because you lack profound emotional connections, or are you horny? if the former, why is pussy perceived as the gateway to that sort of fulfilling emotional relationship? if sex can exist without an emotional connection, why does an emotional connection necessitate sex? further, why does this belief seem to primarily be held by dudes who, by their own admission, seem to lack much sexual …	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 10:24 AM
3	How to stop being an incel are you in the states	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/22 02:48 PM
15	Help I’m definitely not at the point of breaking up but I’m nervous for it worsening, especially when he doesn’t see a problem with it. ok because of this part he doesn’t see a problem with it you should re-evaluate this part I’m definitely not at the point of breaking up	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/22 03:19 PM
6	is falling in love with a woman dangerous? do you believe that love can bloom on a battlefield	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/22 07:20 PM
4	Should men wait until their 30's ? a guy who's presence radiates power quick vegeta, what does the scanner say about his power level	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 08:52 AM
3	Is it worth it to save my money for gender issues courses? I'd recommend looking around CrashCourse on YouTube. Their videos are highly accessible. For instance, This video explains how women can have a shit time at work. This video is about how women have had a shit time historically. This video is about how our idea of what a woman is tends to work. and so on. Using YouTube as a resource can be pretty iffy because if you just type "what do women want" or "gender studies" or whatever into the search bar, there's like, a 90% chance you're going to find …	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 12:54 AM
15	Should men wait until their 30's ? what's going on here is redpill dickheads trying to punch down on women by insisting they're motivated purely by a man's wealth, reassure their fanbase of their ideology as a pathway to success and security, and to further isolate them from peers who demonstrate happy, healthy relationships as they marry while under 30. you gotta realise their primary source of revenue is lonely dudes in their late teens and early 20s, so if they can stretch that shit out to their mid to even late 20s, their mea…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 10:25 PM
6	My life is going downhill at a faster rate than ever before. How do I get out of the RP? roughly where you at in the world brah? i want to see if i can do some googling and hook you up with financially accessible mental health services. in australia, we have a program called headspace, which is specifically designed for people under 25. you need to be looking at access to actual therapy with qualified practitioners, rather than these self help losers, especially if you're perceiving some sort of danger in yourself. what i think you should try to understand is that what a lot of thes…	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 09:37 AM
12	What women really want bro what if what if hear me out what if the only reason men are exclusively heterosexual is fear of being labelled as a homo by other men and experiencing the subsequent discrimination? what if we all have occasional gay thoughts and maybe even gay impulses, but we're pretending we don't in order to project some kind of heteronormative ideal to one another? what if we're all locked in a game of reverse gay chicken, and those of us willing to fuck a twink are the only ones to truly escape the mat…	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 09:38 AM