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i said want to have sex with. donald trump may be married, but that doesn't stop his wife publicly treating him with absolute disdain and disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:39 PM
3

If you'd like to link me to the scientific literature advocating the necessity of hating trans people existing, please go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:19 PM
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oh so you want to ignore the provably rampant, active, and hateful conspiracies? that's cool. it's your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:13 PM
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type 'afbb' into the search bar and search only this subreddit. you will find thousands of results. afbb is not supported by any evidence anywhere ever. what would you call a worldview shared by a collection of hateful dipshits that is completely detached from reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:10 PM
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the fact that you put even one monogamous relationship on the table is literally repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:08 PM
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it is uncomfortable for any sane person to see people like you advocate some extremely sinister shit purely to please the most repulsive, low value, and hateful people in the sexual market. seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:04 PM
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Legalized prostitution will lead to more trafficking. australia has legalised prostitution, it should be easy to show an increase in sex traffi- no? nothing of the sort? weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:02 PM
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luckily a reply to your very comment is railing against 'gaslighting, lying feminist' so you can probably accept that there are some hateful dipshits in this movement. actually, quite a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:56 PM
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these people https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ti53p2/ovulatory_shift_afbb_vs_mate_shifting_hypothesis/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:52 PM
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maybe you shouldn't agree with and promote the idea of everyone getting at least one woman regardless of how shitty they are if you can't provide a solution that doesn't say something very shitty about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:50 PM
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i have also clicked on your post history and found some more genuinely hateful shit that actively ignores broad scientific consensus. i think you can stop pretending to be indignant about the perception that the red pill philosophy is genuinely hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:45 PM
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i'll find you two examples of AFBB from the front page if you like. this is a conspiracy theory that attributes malice and exploitation to the entire female population of earth. it has no basis in rational thought or scientific literature, and is nothing but malicious and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:39 PM
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im just clarifying with him what he was asserting, not litigating whether or not it's worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:58 PM
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he assures us that he has put significant energy into his physical fitness and appearance. i'm only going off what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:54 PM
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yeah man absolutely. i'm intimidated by the type of person who thinks that listing off his 'accomplishments' that amount to nothing more than a perfectly average person is a brutal own. you basically just boasted about living an average life, and tried to leverage that to convince me that your deranged opinions about female nature are legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:45 PM
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yeah it's probably fair for a mod to just delete the op and replace it with the phrase 'don't make us rape you'. most of these people are genuinely delusional and the red pill community is pushing them towards getting violent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:43 PM
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what? he frames his argument as a monument of unassailable fact and strawmans his detractors immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:41 PM
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Most would be perfectly fine with 1 monogamous relationship. this is such a fucking gross thing to say. that '1 monogamous relationship' would involve a very real woman, and that woman does not deserve to be forced into close proximity with the shittiest men on the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:38 PM
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what? change the word from sex back to relationships. he's still absolutely right. men are not entitled to literally anything from women. the extremely shitty men who are finding it particularly hard to enter relationships are not owed sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:36 PM
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men are not entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:34 PM
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women do not want to have sex with misogynistic lunatics and no law you can enforce or societal change you could hope to put in place will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:32 PM
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this is good-written? he lies blatantly about his 'source backed' op, strawman's the criticism, then proceeds to explain what the women were actually trying to say. to make your rambling bullshit even more incomprehensible, of course you'd reference right wing theocrat and benzo addict jordan peterson. that's a given. ahh who am i kidding. it's very good-written. good-written.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:24 PM
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when i became sexually mature i got a knock at the door and had my allotted portion of sexual experience distributed to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:16 PM
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I talk to women the same way I talk to men. hm? Women don't want to be talked to the same way you talk to men you are a very strange person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:10 PM
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yeah. i remember when i desperately needed people on the internet to validate my life experiences i also posted long, rambling screed's source backed by anonymous reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:04 PM
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that's nice. the suggestion here is looking at them and talking to them like human people in lieu of looking at them as sex objects and talking to them like robotic demons trying to manipulate you into being their 'betabux' or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:58 PM
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i'm appeasing your very serious explanation of your very serious concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:55 PM
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of course it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:47 PM
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i think it's important to consider two spinners in a lidge whip rolling dirty we don't know nothing about lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:44 PM
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by all means carry on trying to 'dominate' people and social situations. it's only a matter of time before you attempt to dominate something and run into someone with actual charisma who will effortlessly publicly humiliate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:36 PM
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no. this is not typicall. instead of posting here about it, i'd recommend talking to the friend about it and asking them how your actions caused affront.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:33 PM
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So you're a physically attractive person with a large social network who is still struggling to get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:02 PM
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that's more than fair. have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:46 PM
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when you've got so little insight into where you're going wrong it's probably best to assume that you're doing something wrong rather than insinuating that it won't work for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:45 PM
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very sorry to have you called in to tell me off again. i keep thinking these dudes are alpha males and try and speak in ways they might comprehend. instead i appear to be really hurting their feelings and i'm genuinely not here for that. i'll tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:39 PM
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for my entertainment can you explain how women do want to be talked to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:06 PM
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lol yeah i'll trust the type of guy that has taken the red pill to be correct about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:56 PM
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i could have guessed. so you have two possibilities, either women who like casual sex are everywhere except where you are, or you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:50 PM
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literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:47 PM
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don't know if this will be out-upvoted by a 3k word dating guide by a pickup master but if you want actual success this is the actual answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:38 PM
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lol sorry for ruining your enjoyment of a definitely real story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:30 PM
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lol that's alright. as long as you don't ever leave this bubble for the real world you won't be challenged on your extremely normal views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:15 PM
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is if the guy is really attractive for real? cool. feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:45 AM
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look man with all due respect you're now coming across as fully unhinged and i feel bad now for exacerbating it. my opinion is whatever will get you to stop posting at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:37 AM
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because they got an 18 year old virgin housewife this is so fucking gross. like, the other misogyny is gross as well but the laser focus on the exact age where they can't be called a pedo is more than suss. and fucking gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:35 AM
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no i think your suggestions are insane and based on something not from this century or reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:29 AM
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cool man yeah definitely. normal. that'll fix your problems for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:23 AM
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there will come a time when you understand that nobody in society, nor society as a whole, gives a single fuck about whether or not you can get a girlfriend. alternatively, you spend your entire life trying to impress an entity that could not give a single fuck. either way, this shit is depressing as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:21 AM
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i do not understand what you mean by that wifey shit because the third date i had with my current partner was at her place where she cooked dinner so i assume you pulled that stupid shit from wherever you got the idea that men were financially supporting women they were dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:16 AM
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cool man totally normal cause to fight for. it makes women feel really good when you split the bill up until the point you have sex and then you start picking up the tab. bitches love it when you make them feel like prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:01 AM
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i know right? i tell all my friends i financially support people i'm dating and everyone knows that just means i buy dinner on dates. normal words meaning normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:53 AM
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sure thing mr. financially support women while dating. whatever you say boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:44 AM
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yeah i don't believe you know a god damn thing about what happens on dates in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:40 AM
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holy shit this is an absolutely massive shifting of the goalposts from your op. but still, what year is it?! splitting the bill is absolutely accepted as normal in the dating scene today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:26 AM
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should women have to earn financial providing and protection and not expect that while dating? what year is it?! op, if you had ever had contact with a single actual woman at any time in the last 50 years you would have a 90%-95% chance of knowing that women today work. nobody is financially providing for a woman they're dating. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:14 AM
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if you switched the genders around in the op and agreed with it, you would not be posting here. you'd be living a happy and fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:09 AM
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the irony of posting this here is killing me. especially this: i dont see how you can blame all men for that. the fact that someone can post this shit and then immediately start treating all 3.5 billion women on earth as a hivemind out to get them is indicative of something deeply disturbed going on. op, you need to account for your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:00 AM
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nah, i think that's some insane passive aggressive beta shit that isn't an option for men with self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:54 AM
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amazing. you're like a self owning machine. i can find you 5 academic journals in under five minutes that will treat humans needing food and sleep to live as fact. so your example isn't a generalisation, it's a literal scientific fact. you will find zero evidence supporting the embarrassing shit you ascribe to women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:21 AM
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you basically repeated what i said back to me but from the perspective of someone who is determined to be disingenuous / wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:15 AM
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they sure do. it's a convenient short hand for people being disingenuous or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:11 AM
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one of the most fascinating aspects of this sub is how people with zero experience in the field will confidently make broad assessments that are so wrong you have to at least consider the possibility of satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:41 AM
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the kids, kids, you're both just awful meme springs to mind but i'm going to guess women will consider you more right because you at least allow for the possibility of women finding other attributes attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:24 AM
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'should i lie to a woman in order to suckle on her teats?' no dude, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:00 PM
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yes this is definitely the beginnings of the revolution. some dweebs on tiktok drawn to the story because of the same reason you were are actually the vanguard of the fall of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:51 PM
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much obliged.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 09:31 PM
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i am very sorry that the apps that might have given you a chance to shine wasn't picked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:28 PM
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you have exactly two responses: leave them to respond in their own time, if at all. act like a possessive, needy psychopath. godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:19 PM
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I like to think of myself as a storyteller. Someone who is witty and engaging, a raconteur if you will. you could post a picture of getting your head flushed down the toilet by two 10 year olds. i'd argue that this would be roughly analogous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:14 PM
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appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:44 PM
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can you explain a bit? because i'm quite clearly stating that i think his account is a sock puppet and the things he says are silly. am i not allowed to make fun of this? it would be weird to restrict me from making fun of this guy when he is literally one post above calling me a fat neckbeard. seems way more uncivil and abusive. just trying to figure out what exactly the problem is because i genuinely want to play by the rules here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:38 PM
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Yep, you can tell far more about personality with a 2 min advertisement than some pictures, bullshit. what would you be able to say about yourself in 2 minutes that couldn't be a photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:34 PM
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this is... absolutely unsurprising. the setting this data is pulled from is god damn speed dating. stranger to 'do you want to go on a date' in 4 minutes. like online dating it is highly superficial with positive results resulting from [drum roll] being attractive. wow i wonder what else they could have unearthed in the whole 4 minutes they got to know the real person underneath? this data is only worth shit when applied specifically to speed dating and expanding its results to dating in general…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:31 PM
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so, people are doing 2 minute advertisements, and that highly curated snapshot = personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:10 PM
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it's just straight facts dude. when someone points out that the way i represent my thoughts and recount my actions online read like a profoundly sad weirdo playing pretend i just tell em to suck it up buttercup and then, bam. crush some more puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:51 PM
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For women, looks as a category seem to matter much more than anything else, and it's also a much narrower spectrum compared to men. probably don't bring up hard evidence a couple of sentences before hitting your audience with this paranoid delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:41 PM
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ya dude, not to brag or nothing, but just by walking around i cause women to disrespect their partners in public. pretty embarrassing you know dude? speaking of things that definitely happen, every time i make some time to talk to attractive women, they detail for me exactly how hot a guy has to be before she'll consider him. right dude like exactly the type of behaviour red pill guys indulge in and everyone else finds fucking weird and childish. anyway i'm off to do some cool stuff and crush so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:39 PM
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wow. maybe consider a career in the fbi or law enforcement in general? what you are doing is absolutely mind reading. people critical of you will say 'oh yeah, this is a sad weirdo so completely obsessed with the sex he isn't getting that he's essentially writing fanfic for his friend's sex life and post-hoc justifying this embarrassing behaviour by pretending to be a mind reader so you could attribute your weird obsession with your friend's sex life to information that was forced on you as you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:20 PM
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lol deal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:55 PM
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it's really cute that you think you are such a social genius that you can effortlessly read facial expressions and directly attribute them specific thoughts. you could probably put this superpower to good use instead of using it to write fanfic about your best friend the sex haver
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:53 PM
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you're a lunatic standing on a milk crate screaming at passers by
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:46 PM
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Most women who observe him get a look in their eye. Like they have to HAVE to fuck him. you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:21 PM
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it starts as comedy, but steadily becomes less and less funny when you can no longer ignore the actual harm that breeds here. enjoy it while you can!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:20 PM
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god is a real thing to enough people. maybe try praying to not be a fucking loser. it will be more effective and less pathetic than believing in the concept of an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:12 PM
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Shouldn't the audio apps be at least somewhat competitive if personality is that big of a deal? what traumatic brain injury caused you to conflate hearing a person's voice with an accurate representation of their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:08 PM
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Those apps had an infantile and childish view of human nature. the op and a staggering number of other people conflate 'hearing a voice' with 'accurate representation of one's personality'. this is all so fucking stupid i'm struggling to believe that these people exist and aren't embarrassed to say this shit in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:04 PM
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alpha male is not a real thing and the alpha male gaze is not a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:47 PM
1

fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:04 PM
0

what is automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:51 AM
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From the very first time you start a conversation through any dates you have. You have to make them laugh and steer the conversation to keep her engaged. powerful beta energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:24 AM
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i hate to be the bearer of unsettling news homie but it is not normal to be locked away in an all boys convent well into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:21 AM
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man i don't care what you do but if you want to carry on condescending to short men then i'll carry on calling you and anyone who echoes you weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:33 AM
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oh you want to go back to the parent comment in this chain and amend your post to read 'generally will have a harder time' rather than flat out dictating what they're capable of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:27 AM
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ok. try this. cut out of the sentence and post a concrete fact about the woman's sexual partner. actual words serving as an actual description. not what your head is inserting because it's all messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:20 AM
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no it isn't. notice how nothing about the imaginary woman's sexual partner is mentioned. you're inserting that information in on your own because this philosophy has actually fucked with your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:12 AM
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hahaha oh god i can almost hear the fat jokes for real and i haven't seen inside a gym in like 5 years. devastating. glad you're doing your bit for the next generation man. i hope one day soon you run across some of the work i'm going to put in here. if you do, i'll always appreciate your feedback. take care. watch those boys grow up well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:54 AM
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And how'd they manipulate you? lol smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:13 AM
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this is phrased in a really off-putting way but i'm depressed to admit that if any comment has a chance of penetrating the brain that made that op, this is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:09 AM
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who is upvoting this. this is literal gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:05 AM
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don't forget maslow's hierarchy of needs. need to throw in some actual social science to prop up the mountain of anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:01 AM
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i don't know. conversation in this sub's predecessor birthed a hateful ideology full of confirmation bias, pop evo-psych bullshit and appeals to common sense all recycled and barely repackaged in order to haunt us to this day. that's something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:00 AM
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Friendships aren't hard to navigate because there's only so much commitment to tie to those in the first place i thought this sentence contrasted well with your second paragraph about your hard emotional limits and the inevitability of a slow fizzle out. also, big ups for this: Female friends tend to be be more dismissive and entitled than male friends, but it isn't hard to just stop talking to them if they get annoying. cool broad prescriptions blanketing 3.5 billion with a b people. what i wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:50 PM
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that's a really considered and grounded answer and when you put it like that i think your estimate is accurate, but with the caveat that i don't think a lack of sex is the prime reason behind this apathy and depression. i think there are an awful lot of factors in play such as stagnant wages, increasing cost of living, social media warping perspectives, hyper awareness of global issues, once in a hundred year pandemic, once in a generation market collapse that seems primed to repeat to name just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:56 PM
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what's up fellow fight dude past his prime! you're a stronger man than me. jesus the thought of getting back on the skipping rope... condolences for your losses. i lose a few guys every year too, though it's mostly ptsd related (i assume) i share your concern. my life has been relatively awesome and i hadn't really paid attention to the ground swell or ill-feeling coming from the youngers. i finally paid attention. i'm looking to make some content to reach out to some of these people who are wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:34 PM
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optimistic to assume a world view will prevail when all of its active ambassadors are radioactive weirdos. still i'd feel wrong shooting down optimism in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:06 PM
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And it doesn't have a good, how should we say, reproduction rate. lol. vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:56 PM
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“I am doing all this self improvement to increase my QOL. For me, without expectations of success in dating as a result” this is what i always thought mgtow was about. i remember getting really excited when i read the description because i thought a ton of men were going to start doing what worked for me so well. then i actually read some of the posts. why is nearly 100% of communication on the subject of mgtow posted by people who say they are mgtow just whining and bitching about women / datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:53 PM
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finding other purposes in life besides the pursuit of sex. this is the only thing that differentiates mgtow from just being a normal adult so i'll focus on this. what percentage of the male population do you think is so devoid of sex / intimacy that the thoughts of having sex they're not getting dominate their lives to the point of misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:46 PM
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so basically mgtow is fishing for the people who can't be bothered continuing to improve themselves because they aren't getting sexual intercourse enough? that does not sound like a powerful army.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:42 PM
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As refusing to be exploited come after being exploited, over and over untill you realise being decent is not socially rewarded and valued. i don't follow your logic. step me through it with real life examples if it doesn't dox you. for example for me, i got played by a girl when i was young, learned how to recognise people not worth my time, then carried on being decent to everyone until they gave me reason to do anything else and haven't encountered a woman with ill intentions in many years. i …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:39 PM
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thanks for commenting. i see you like the word solipsistic. fun word. since you've got a bit of time before a combination of vr and mgtow take over the world forcing women to do... something, can you explain to me what part of mgtow you think might be attractive to normal people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:35 PM
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when talking with people outside of a cult, you have to pretend to subscribe to the same reality as the people you're trying to recruit. 'it's literally common knowledge that the 50 year old sweaty guy is our messiah!' isn't going to cut it. maybe something like 'you know, that sweaty weirdo has done things i didn't believe was possible'. ease em in. don't immediately go screaming shit 5 minutes on google scholar could debunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:14 PM
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'it's weird to treat 3.5 billion humans like they're basically the same' [said while crying] fucking woman. thinking they can get any man they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:51 PM
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i developed an alpha mindset and now i too scream at dudes on a forum like some low rent GET ON YOUR GRINDSET hustle porn grifter on youtube. cut that shit out dude this ain't it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 05:01 PM
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holy fucking shit. my dude. jesus hang on let me compose myself. my dude. to say you are overthinking this would be an insult to neuroticism. a fist date is simply you figuring out if she's worth getting to know. it'll go as long as it needs to. who cares. every subsequent date is actually getting to know the person. if you're vibing, shit will just take care of itself. if it isn't, why are you forcing it? go date someone else. god damn dude how do you form coherent replies while thinking of all…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 04:49 PM
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take care of yourself, and be careful with the information you come across round these parts. if you're ever interested in hearing another opinion, just send a message. i'll be working on this project for a while. peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:40 PM
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each case was unique with their own interpersonal details but fundamentally they all shared something in common. basically i took an honest look at the relationship and came to the conclusion that something was missing and it was affecting our happiness in the relationship. i then talked to them and see if they saw what i saw and agreed. they did. then we would decide if it was worth attempting to fix or if a clean break and happy trails were in order. mostly we agreed to separate but i did veto…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:22 PM
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Do you think you're immune? nah. that would breed complacence and leave me vulnerable. that said it's been 15 years since i've let someone with bad intentions be around me for more than two weeks before i see what they're doing and press eject. 15 years ago the woman managed about 6 weeks before i got wise. she was the best i've ever seen and honestly that's pretty impressive. so yeah i can teach you how to spot a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:08 PM
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I see a lot of my friends young 20s going Gaga over a pair of tits despite the personality being trash and then they get all sad and waste a ton of time on chicks that most people can tell they shouldn’t. hahaha oh man. that brings me back. yeah, look, it's mostly ultimately harmless. don't get me wrong, it hurts, but that's a solid lesson on relationships: if you focus on things like a solid rack, crazy ass etc so hard you miss the red flags, you're going to be hurt. In your opinion how rare yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:47 PM
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good looking out man, but yeah i am far past worrying about what hr thinks about my posts. basically the things i say i will genuinely believe and i accept the consequences of that. and avoiding toxic women is high up my list, but i'll give you the cliffs notes here in case you never see my work. basically a healthy relationship will be a gradual process of spending more and more time together over a span of months. you are looking for lies. untruths. deception. extreme exaggeration. lies by omi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:26 PM
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appreciate your concern but would an alpha male cover his face? seriously though in ten years if i give a single fuck about reddit then i've got bigger problems. anything you'd like to see discussed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:07 PM
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another teachable moment! remember when i said this? it's worth keeping in mind that in this day and age, there is a whole lot more of whatever it is that confirms your existing beliefs. so we have two court cases, one ruling entirely in heard's favour, and the other ruling mostly in depp's favour. mostly, except for that time when he accused her publicly of shit that didn't happen and did it with malice. so who is right? well someone without skin in the game would probably declare them both ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:02 PM
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lol can't fault my man's logic
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 02:08 PM
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it's worth keeping in mind that in this day and age, there is a whole lot more of whatever it is that confirms your existing beliefs. shit, algorithms will straight up do it for you. it's much harder to look at the whole story and react in a measured way. for example, the depp / heard case. a lot of focus on amber, but it was rarely mentioned that her behavior was directed at someone that you could legally call a 'wife beater' in a national news paper. we know this because a court ruled that eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:00 PM
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damn clickbait. i was told it was going to turn me into a demigod. instead i'm just a pretty normal human.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 01:36 PM
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this is pretty contrary to my own experience. basically either every woman on earth stopped being a stuck up cunt at exactly the same time i sorted myself out or the problem was me all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:28 PM
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that's fucking cool that it was a thing somewhere, at some time. we need to bring it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:08 PM
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i personally guarantee that any 40 year old women looking for happiness in the wrong places you can dig up i will find an equivalent number of equally sad men. sorry to hear about your ma, but i don't think she's living in a fantasy land. doesn't sound like she's waiting for a prince so much as willing to settle for someone who isn't a complete piece of shit. and if that's a fantasy, it's the most depressing fantasy i've ever fucking heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:56 PM
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for sure. two independently happy and secure individuals can find each other and enhance the happy times and weather the sad times. good company is a truly awesome thing. too many insecure people settle for a person who will treat them poorly because they fear being alone. you seem to have shit sorted though. why would you tolerate bullshit when you've got your weed and cats waiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:50 PM
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both genders have expectations of life that gradually fold under the weight of reality. in my experience women have the blindfold ripped off much faster. i don't know too many 23 year old women who still think that their prince or princess charming is still en-route to sweep them off their feet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:39 PM
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that point can come at basically any time. you just have to figure out how to be independently happy and lose the last fuck you have to give. 'being alone is for betas' cool story bro. i'ma just be over here doing cool shit that i like doing 'being alone says something about your worth' yeah it says people are fucking up not being with me, i'm with me all the time and i'm rad. 'society says your abnormal' wow i can't remember the last time i gave a fuck about society. thanks for reminding me why…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:32 PM
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in addition, i think some more actionable advice for people who maybe aren't up to socialising yet would be to take the focus and pressure off socialising. do something for you, by yourself, with no expectation. walking, hiking, learn to ride a motorcycle, make anime music videos, spend $15 on skillshare and learn to sing, dance, take photos, edit videos, use photoshop to create memes, craft jokes the list is literally endless. all these things are community-adjacent but can be done at the level…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:16 PM
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highly dependent on the individual.one of the few cases where the popular wisdom actually holds some water and the answer is 'whatever you are interested in, that'. what is not often talked about is addressing the underlying mental health problems that are stopping you from seeking out a community for the things you enjoy. ditto from branching off what i'd call a 'given' community which would be the people you work with or the people in your class at college. there are extreme options that will …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:06 AM
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that's a lot of words for healthy diet, sleep, and working out. i don't think that makes you an alpha, i think it will make you a relatively fit and healthy normal person.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 10:51 AM
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actually i'm in the process of creating content for exactly this community. i have a shitload of solutions that i intend to give away for free. is there anything you'd like answers for specifically? or topics you wish you heard discussed more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:33 AM
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Yes decent men are being exploited that is my point that men need to be aware of. this isn't what i asked. i asked if being decent and refusing to be exploited are mutually exclusive traits. you're not alone with the marriage feelings. men and women are massively giving that shit the boot. seems weird to worry about the implications of a dying practice no one wants. noticed you didn't answer the question about masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:52 AM
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nah. hookups are just as empty to men as they are to women. and i can't speak for all men but there is not a man i am aware of whose hookups don't outnumber their relationships by an order of magnitude. you are as wrong as it is possible to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:02 AM
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my dude, that last paragraph indicates exactly why a person should not listen to the ravings of deeply sad people to the point where you feel confident enough to talk on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:50 AM
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yeah it's not really talked about. the only people talking about it seem to be weirdos who start filling their heads with conspiracies about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:59 AM
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sort of. you seem to be worried that being a decent person will lead to being exploited, you're concerned about being a 'beta', and you're concerned about marriage and divorce. do you think being a decent person and having the self respect to not accept being used by someone are mutually exclusive? do you worry about your masculinity? why are you concerned with an archaic and dying social practice like marriage? it's dying, and is not in any way mandated in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:54 AM
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You're definitely typing words but they are not answering the question. what makes you think that men deserve families and 'decent' women? was the question. What makes you think that the most they could aspire to is to be step fathers? this is not an answer. They need to aspire to be more. That starts with having self respect. Neither is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:45 AM
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no. just no. dudes have kinks and preferences too that some girl you convinced to come back to your place is not going to be interested in fulfilling. not to mention the difference between sex you have with a stranger and with someone who knows you, gives a shit about you, and cares for you. the fact that you considered neither of these really simple and very important elements to sex leads me to believe that maybe you don't have the experience to be having opinions about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:09 AM
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what does waking men up involve? lots of this vague sort of language floating around that doesn't really mean anything. if i had a mission it would be for men to accept themselves as they are, to empower them to change if that is what they want, and ultimately be content with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:02 AM
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don't avoid the question. it's cowardly. i have never posited that women need to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:53 AM
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man there needs to be some sort of psa for late teens / early 20s dudes to know that at that age, dating sucks. you're either a student or making fuck all money, you're insecure in your masculinity your social circle has dispersed post high school, and you're competing against dudes who have their shit together. that said though the dudes who develop as human beings will probably fair bet in their mid 20s than dudes who spent those years screaming about how unfair life is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:46 AM
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What are you guys fight and moaning for. amazing question. what are you spending all this time typing fanfics about some guy's life for? what do you actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:36 AM
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Men deserve to have there own families. Men deserve to get a decent girl when she is still young and not used up. i know a lot of men who deserve to be slapped around a bit and then banished to a institution that never lets them near decent humans ever again. what makes you think that men deserve families and 'decent' women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:29 AM
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Well no, they're just too stupid to realize their own bias. oh well that sounds rea- Females expressed a general preference for dating males taller than themselves oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:24 AM
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wow. that must mean women are lying. they didn't expect someone with your intellectual capacity to be reading their work. well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:37 PM
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lol good DAY sir cycles off furiously on a penny farthing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:22 PM
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my dude. delete this. this post contains at least one example of you pissing your pants at the insinuation that you may hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:19 PM
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hahahaha i've got out my analyzer, and i'm analyzing, and the results are you're 6'2 which means YOU MADAME INTEND TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND FOR HIM woman furiously dials the police analysing hundreds of guys and analyse if there's a correlation. analyse the men. for what women think are attractive. good god man give it up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:15 PM
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no of course not! what i meant to say was you think any incident of hundreds of different people saying what they think and the results showing commonalities is either a complete coincidence or a conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:05 PM
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yeah it's very obvious. pestering me to answer someone's insane hypothetical is very academic. also very academic to declare that asking women what they think is bs because they might accidentally say the opposite of what they think or however the fuck you justify that particular strain of stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:58 PM
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that's it! we're getting further and further from the scary thing! keep going!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:55 PM
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don't worry about it big guy. you should get to rocking back and forth until you repress today's nightmare experience of having something challenge your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:53 PM
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nah i think i'm safe. i'm allowed to assume what you think and feel and merge it into my sweeping world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:51 PM
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sorry i didn't mean to offend you. i meant what someone who is not the woman being asked thinks women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:50 PM
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lol in one corner we have someone saying what they think. in your corner we have what someone who hates women thinks women think. the judges cannot decide which is more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:49 PM
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yeah, since in my corner i have an academic study and in your corner you have what you think women think once it's been distorted by an unfathomable amount of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:47 PM
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sure einstein https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167289154014
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:44 PM
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do ur own research!!! lol just kidding. knock yourself out cassanova. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167289154014
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:43 PM
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every man on earth has a preference for 10s. guess 9s and below are shit outta luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:42 PM
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lol yeah it's a leftist academic conspiracy. you've cracked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:41 PM
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did you not like my answer? why did you downvote and scurry off without a reply? you pestered me to do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:24 PM
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lol. ok. i fed the data into my machine and this came out Females expressed a general preference for dating males taller than themselves and reported dating taller males more frequently but did not rate their tall male dates as more attractive. Moreover, no relationship was found between the height of the male subjects and their self-reported dating frequency. so basically in reality while women have a preference for height, it had absolutely no bearing on how attractive they found a guy and hei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:19 PM
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i directly addressed the question here: i think it's worthless to run a simulation where i compare 2 people who are exactly the same in every way except for height because humans don't work like that and i'd feel wrong indulging it. if i reply again to you positing an insane hypothetical that means nothing, would you feel obligated to humour me? because if so i know what i'm doing twice a day for the next few weeks. let me know big guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:11 PM
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Thanks for the tip. I did. This is what it said: emales expressed a general preference for dating males taller than themselves and reported dating taller males more frequently but did not rate their tall male dates as more attractive. Moreover, no relationship was found between the height of the male subjects and their self-reported dating frequency. Thanks for convincing me to ask academics instead of dudes applying anecdotal evidence to billions of people. I might do that first next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:53 PM
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Probably shouldn't say 'we' and speak for yourself in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:47 PM
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Thought I passed out and came to reading the bargain bin section of literotica.com but no this is a post on the purple pill debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:46 PM
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In all likelihood it's probably all fueled by insecurities buried so deep that our descendants will stumble across some of them while burrowing to the earth's core for warmth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:33 PM
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You seem earnest so I tried but to be honest I'm not getting any new information from it. Sorry. I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:31 PM
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Could manifest from a variety of other thought processes like a desire to control women, another excuse to continue to hate women, or to frame their lack of success with women as a moral choice in this world gone mad. That said I'd probably still bet my money on insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:28 PM
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i don't think a man with enough matches to warrant sending an amount of messages so enormous that he falls asleep during the attempt is really relevant in this case but you're obviously pretty passionate about this so i'll just say cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:59 PM
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That's seriously enough anecdotal evidence for you to apply it to 3.5 billion women? Cool. Appreciate you being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:42 PM
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posting a source for critical analysis is a really bad idea if you have incorporated an out of context statistic into a fundamental part of your argument. so i understand why they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:39 PM
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basically humans are extremely complex. genetics, education, culture, wealth, socialisation, number of books in the house they grew up in and an uncountable number of other variables influence how a person exists at any point in time and this applies to every human on earth. i think it's worthless to run a simulation where i compare 2 people who are exactly the same in every way except for height because humans don't work like that and i'd feel wrong indulging it. still interested in the questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:24 PM
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can't wait to engage in a long reply thread consisting of me saying 'tom cruise vs the 6'8 guy doing the ungainly gangly dance at a wedding? probably tom cruise' followed by you getting angrier and angrier that i keep bringing variables into my answer. anyway if you feel like answering the question i'm still interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:14 PM
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it's a blog post from a dating app and it does exist. the problems with the the 20/80 argument isn't whether or not the results exist or are accurate, but with where the data was pulled from and what data proponents of 20/80 always leave out. basically when looking at this data it should be noted that only roughly 20% of a dating apps user base is female and that dating apps by design promote an approach to dating that is extremely superficial. the negative feedback loop caused by a huge number …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:03 PM
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as there's much more women that are strongly attracted to tall guys than those that are okay with short guys. what convinced you that this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:45 PM
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spin plates. Seen this a few times, what does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:25 PM
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