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What is a way to recognize your own worth/value?
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:20 AM
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I made this reddit account about 2 years before I met her. I made the account name after a sad and lonely period of my life.
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah but in oneitis and infatuation. You feel as if there is no other option which is objectively wrong. You don't have 5-6 times,you have an insane number of options. You have more options than you can ever avail. The stakes aren't high,they get seen as infinitely high in oneitis because it is either eternal success or eternal failure.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:32 PM
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Considering your example of a tribe. If you didn't mate with one partner,you would just move on to find another mate. You are correct in the chance of not reproducing being astronomical but you have to take into consideration that the chance isn't zero. I think from my limited experience,short term oneitis and infatuation with a person with whom you have had extremely great conversations and chemistry with is completely healthy. The real problem is when the short term behaviour becomes the new n…
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:22 PM
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Is that hormonal addiction mutual? Can like women experience that too? What is like a step wise or a video that can give a step by step guide to dealing with this mentality?
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:53 PM
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I hope to God that I do. I do wonder that If I see her as someone rare,does she view me as rare? We both vibe and get along in ways that we don't get along with literally anybody else. If my scarcity is a form of her scarcity as well but she herself doesn't feel or get affected by that scarcity. She ignores any other guy that tries to talk to her,she doesn't ignore me if I try to talk to her. It is just that we can't be together and she doesn't see me as an option.
/r/seduction28/10/22 10:30 AM
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So what would be like a solution or answer to deal with each one or those issues?
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:52 AM
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The whole point is that this isn't true and one needs to learn to break away from this unhealthy and debilitating mindset.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:07 PM
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Oneitis is when you obsess over one person thinking that you will never find anyone else like them again.
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:58 AM
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Oh wow,thanks for that explanation. So a part of my brain responsible for fear is forcing me to feel fearful in potentially losing this person.
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:25 AM
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Why does it feel like you won't be able to?
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:18 AM
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Why does it happen to some people but not others?
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:17 AM
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Ohh makes sense. Any advice on if it is possible to get out of this state? Or is it just to move on?
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:50 PM
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I don't think it would be reasonable to even class it as friendship.We rarely see or talk to one another. I am talking like 7-8 interactions across a year and a half. Most of it is just me running in to her or going to her to talk about something specific. There might be a reason why the romantic interest side of her isn't showing or sparking. I haven't told you more details but let's just say that for her and I to currently get together,it would cause issues for everyone involved.It won't be th…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks for your input, she hasn't told me everything about her personal life,but she has shared personal stuff about her life with me.She was careful in choosing what to share with me,I can say that for a fact because I learned some things about her like a year after talking to her which I completely didn't know. She doesn't always talk to me about her problems but it happens every now and then. Like I go to talk to her about something and I was telling her about some of the kinds of issues I de…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:40 PM
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I want to,I just have to be sure and weigh all my decisions before doing so because there are still things I need to make sure or else I could get her or myself in trouble.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:11 AM
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I know for a 100% fact she likes me.I just need to figure out the kind of like. Whether she likes me or loves me. The thing that makes me hesitate or doubt it is just a handful of experiences where she didn't initiate the conversation,didn't say much or try to plan something. It is like when I go to her,she's happy and excited to see me,but she herself doesn't come to me. I am trying to figure out what kind of interest it is.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:05 AM
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