Rabbit-Punch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different?		Rabbit-Punch	/r/askTRP	07/06/17 03:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-4	Girls from Tinder disappear after whatsapp chatting. You’re a bitch	/r/seduction	18/07/24 10:46 PM
-2	Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. hard to tell if these posts are written by a virgin or somebody who is struggling and wants to feel better than guys who are struggling harder. also so stupid, skill by definition is something you train, and very few people train the skill of dating. which is why people that focus on it can get such stupid results	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 03:48 AM
8	I hit milestones but then they feel like they don't mean anything Bro you did 20 approaches. That’s great but it’s going to take a lot more to make shit happen. In our heads we probably all believed we just needed to do one approach and we would have a girl. You got to keep going, don’t get frustrated yet. Also, there’s a lot of good info online. So keep going, get a social media and use that so people can see who you are and you aren’t just sending texts, do more approaches, keep evaluating your beliefs	/r/seduction	16/07/24 03:43 PM
1	Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success. Pay for online coaching or accountability then. And if you’re really serious you would probably move if your town has so low opportunities. Just look for solutions, if you’re dedicated you will get what you want. It’s in your control	/r/seduction	16/07/24 03:52 AM
1	I am living in my head and so sick of it. How the do I calm down Decide you’re going to get out and the first step is to lighten up. It feels hard but it’s easy if you let it be. Remember what helped you get out.. being with other people who forced you to talk to people. One technique is to keep doing things. Feeling hi feels hard you said, imagine saying hi to five people, imagine just keeping it going, having longer conversations, etc etc. Talk to 20 people in a single outing. Then do that three days in a row. Three weeks in a row. You will get out of your …	/r/seduction	16/07/24 03:44 AM
1	Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success. You’re wrong man. There’s a lot of people that do that coaching. And you don’t have to hire somebody either, you can find men that want to work on these skills. Have you looked..? Good luck, if you want to there’s a lot of assistance out there	/r/seduction	16/07/24 03:37 AM
2	Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success. Yes you need somebody to force you. Need to pay somebody. Need accountability. You’re probably not going to force yourself without that pressure unless it comes from another sense of urgency.	/r/seduction	16/07/24 03:18 AM
2	Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success. Approach people. You can approach people, you’re just scared of what might happen. Pay somebody to force you to approach people. That’s money better spent than a therapist	/r/seduction	15/07/24 10:53 PM
5	How is it possible to be attractive if we are not preselected? Just act like you’re already selected, done.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 08:37 PM
2	You need to spend money to get laid! Don’t need any of those things. Logistics (good apartment location) helps but you don’t need it. Mainstream tier advice here, maybe useful for some but I know plenty of brokies who have dating lifes better than you could imagine	/r/seduction	15/07/24 08:35 PM
1	How I faced a hard rejection on a bar approach and what I learned Good, yeah address the group and not just one person usually. Also, I recommend doing more approaches. You won’t progress very much just from one. You should do at least 20 so you don’t stop at your rustiest one	/r/seduction	13/07/24 10:54 PM
3	No excuses, just go talk to her You’re coming off insecure or not respectable. But it could be worse, she could literally ignore you. You need to not hold back though. The fact you even try is good but keep trying and see if you figure out what I’m talking about. This shit is all about subtleties so any insecurity you have about the approach is going to affect their response to you.	/r/seduction	13/07/24 12:58 AM
1	What do you even talk about? You have to learn to lead eventually. Doesn’t matter what you talk about. It literally does not matter. It can be anything. It’s more important the vibe. Is the vibe we are having a fun conversation or is the vibe I am talking about something I don’t want to talk about because I’m worried about offending you	/r/seduction	12/07/24 09:51 PM
2	Is this boring? To give a counter perspective. It may be a red flag. For instance, do you like party girls but you are uncomfortable at parties and around them? Are you lying to yourself about why you don’t like parties. Girls do like having fun, and if you don’t drink that’s perfectly fine, but if you are not able to lighten up and have fun then a lot of women will not feel comfortable around you. So in summary, if you are fun then you will attract girls. Make sure you can have fun with all kinds of people and…	/r/seduction	12/07/24 06:13 PM
2	Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties? Yea but especially if it’s YOUR party	/r/seduction	10/07/24 01:49 AM
2	How do i get this girl just have fun with her. see what happens. don’t try to force anything. just make a move by playing it cool and having fun with her. don’t confess your love or anything. just vibe with her and see where it goes	/r/seduction	09/07/24 05:38 PM
1	How do I get consistency taking someone home from the bar? lol! loved the analogy	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:28 AM
2	How do I get consistency taking someone home from the bar? You answered your own question. Stop drinking. Does that scare you, oh man you're going to have to warm up now! lol keep going, but make sure you focus on your mood too. are you focusing on things that are bringing up your mood or are you getting thrown off for each "uninteresting" interaction keep approaching, your approaches can be shorter at the start of the night. you don't need to lock down a conversation until later project your energy harder. the music is your competition. make yourself m…	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:23 AM
1	How do I break out of beginner hell as fast as possible as a 23yo who just lost his v card 5 months ago and has never been in a relationship? Don't stop but change your approach. As in first, chill the fuck out. Don't go into each approach really wanting it to go a certain way. You have to be okay with not getting anything. Paradoxically, you can only get something if you are okay with getting nothing. Be okay with jacking off at home. You literally have to view jacking off at home as a good way to end a night. Keep doing everything you're doing but go out a least 3 nights a week. You did hundreds of approaches so far? Do a hundred ap…	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:02 AM
1	How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one? No amount. Keep going. Burn it to the ground! By the way, you should never feel like a weirdo for talking to people. Just respect boundaries and keep going	/r/seduction	03/07/24 06:45 AM
26	How to escalate from daily snaps to something else with a girl? Don’t be a pussy and just do it. If it doesn’t work out then oh well you still tried	/r/seduction	02/07/24 09:47 PM
1	Do you think joining toastmasters would help me increase my social skills especially when it comes to talking to women? Public speaking teaches you how to command attention and be a strong communicator. It definitely helps you find your power	/r/seduction	02/07/24 06:08 PM
3	Seeking advice:) Just keep doing approaches. Trying to change your body language consciously isn’t a good strategy. If you feel good then your energy is good. You will feel good if you do strong approaches. Even if you don’t feel good at first, keep going and learn to focus on things that make you feel good. So keep doing approaches and make sure you’re focused on the right things (don’t focus on judging yourself, worrying about something, focus on having fun, or the person you’re talking to, or something funny …	/r/seduction	01/07/24 09:12 PM
2	How to be happy alone Dude, whoever gave you that shit tier advice is wrong. Woman are not a byproduct of your success. If you want a woman, you should get her now as in today because you already are enough for a woman. Don’t put off that until you’ve built your empire or whatever	/r/seduction	01/07/24 05:31 PM
2	Anyone think that Seattle is the worst day game city in the USA? Really dump this idea that you’re not a night time person or a club/bar person and get over it. You’re literally missing out on the best place to practice and meet people.	/r/seduction	01/07/24 04:06 AM
1	Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the opposite Confidence and leadership. Being overly kind makes you seem like you will be nice to everyone because you’re afraid of them not liking you. People pleasing	/r/seduction	30/06/24 03:25 PM
1	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? You’re asking him the wrong questions. Actually the only good question is how deep is his voice. Your voice depends a lot on your comfort level. For example, you will notice it goes higher when you’re uncomfortable. Your voice sounds stronger when you feel good. If you think your voice is getting you rejected, it’s more likely that your voice is reflecting something else	/r/seduction	30/06/24 05:38 AM
9	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? You have to keep trying brother. Keep doing approaches until it clicks. This is like a thing where if your attempts are too weak, you get shut down (rejection). Then after rejection you may decide to keep doing weak attempts. The answer is in going in strong. Then go in stronger after each rejection. Start to even question rejections and ask if you wanted the girl to reject you. Going in stronger after ‘rejections’ is the only solution imo, otherwise you become more and more fearful after each a…	/r/seduction	30/06/24 05:34 AM
1	Have you had great success with night game/day game (not old) without using established pua strategies? They have no incentive to give you good info because people don’t want good info, lol. You make it sound like they just need to tell you some secret idea that you’re missing. There is no secret, be an actual man and you will have no troubles with any of this. People want techniques because it’s better than fixing the actual issue	/r/seduction	29/06/24 07:17 PM
1	Have you had great success with night game/day game (not old) without using established pua strategies? Strategies are just meant as a crutch to get some success. If you’re actually good you don’t have any strategies because you don’t need them	/r/seduction	29/06/24 07:16 PM
1	Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent) I’m talking about the guys that are dating the hottest girls. They don’t look broke if you see them. If you end up in their circles you will find out many of them keep up a social appearance but literally have no money. Working very low income jobs. You think a girl gives a shit? lol	/r/seduction	29/06/24 03:27 PM
1	Anytime I try to “be myself” around girls and let my mind and words flow I get told that I’m being “weird” and “scaring the hoes but then when I try to act normal and “non weird” I get told I’m boring. I feel like I can never win. I’m thinking it’s a looks issue. It’s never a “looks issue”. Don’t even think like that. You get tested in social interactions. If you seem a little unconfident then people may see that and try to knock you off course by making you feel weird. If you believe them then you lose. You need to stand your ground basically. Now it is possible you do things that people dislike, you have to learn the difference between actually pushing people away compared to when people are just testing your confidence. From the context of your post I…	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:23 PM
1	How do you guys cope? Nothing is guaranteed in life. But without the confidence you will get literally nothing. With confidence you have the bare minimum requirement to make something happen. It’s half the battle because you will approach where other guys won’t. It’s as close to a guarantee as you can get that you will have some success	/r/seduction	28/06/24 01:49 PM
0	Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent) Yeah easily. It’s called having swag. You have no idea how many players are literally broke and get the hottest girls	/r/seduction	28/06/24 01:45 PM
-17	I fumbled a baddie You sound jaded dude	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:17 PM
5	How do you guys cope? You can just admit that you’re giving advice here yet get no results or poor results, obvious from ur mentality. Obviously it will take effort and time but if you honestly believe you can’t date 10’s because of some reason you are completely wrong.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 05:10 PM
11	How do you guys cope? More like, if a woman is super hot, and you’re a super low self-esteem pussy, chances are she won’t be. Fixed that for you	/r/seduction	27/06/24 04:57 PM
2	How do you approach girls despite anxiety? Share you conversational strategies and experiences Realize it’s going to be there at first, but you will get more comfortable if you force yourself to do it. Aside from that, trying to examine why you are anxious in the first place. You probably fear some scenario happening but in reality the scenario wouldn’t even be bad if it did happen and it’s just a fear which is sometimes irrational and not based in reality. Short answer is just do it until you aren’t anxious anymore	/r/seduction	26/06/24 05:46 PM
2	So tired of having great dates from dating apps and great interactions from cold approach. Just to get ghosted. I hate social circle but It’s my last option before becoming a passport bro. Any tips? Could be something like you’re too available. They feel like they can see you anytime?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 03:31 PM
-5	Why You’ll Never Get Better At Game There must be some desire to improve if they come here though. But yes this mentality of fear of risks is really prevalent and growing with each generation I think. It’s creating this complete rift in the dating world with the few successful men and the many starving, lol	/r/seduction	26/06/24 12:12 AM
9	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. Don’t wine and dine. You think the guys who are really successful are taking these girls to dinner? Lol.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 12:09 AM
6	Why You’ll Never Get Better At Game haha the fact this is getting downvoted proves this post right. if you have a higher standard for yourself you get better results. too many people just want pats on the head and to be told it’s hard	/r/seduction	25/06/24 11:33 PM
2	Is this a hard no? It’s a no but it doesn’t mean she is focusing on herself. She could meet somebody new tomorrow that she likes. She was being polite yeah, she’s not going to say something rude especially to somebody at work	/r/seduction	08/04/24 05:24 PM
1	how do you answer the "soo what are you looking for?" You're 31. Don't ask people how you respond to something, ask yourself. What are your intentions with her? Go from there.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 05:24 AM
-6	How can I attract a woman with a BBL? Retard, the only women that can be bought are hookers or the alike. What fantasy world do you live in?	/r/seduction	08/04/24 04:46 AM
1	How can I attract a woman with a BBL? Same way you attract any woman. It's probably because you care too much about getting them which is what makes it harder for you, or they get more attention from men which is why they are harder. Just keep trying to get all girls and you will be get there	/r/seduction	08/04/24 04:46 AM
3	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up Change how you take rejections. You will be okay. Just understand this is the only way. You gotta do the in-person approaches if you want better results. Just think of it like this. Every approach and rejection is getting you closer. If you keep at it for a year you will be happy you did	/r/seduction	08/04/24 04:05 AM
6	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up Okay dude. Then you are fine man. All you have to do is more approaches in person. The thing about online is that it's harder because people only look at pictures. So unless your pictures make your life look REALLY EXCITING and REALLY COOL, you aren't going to get much attention online. Just start doing them in person. Whatever social events you can attend, bars, clubs, etc. You will progress much faster in 4 months of approaches compared to your previous 4 years. Imagine how confident you will …	/r/seduction	08/04/24 03:57 AM
-4	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up Find somebody good then.. there are solutions. But I doubt this dude really was going out for 4 years in a row and got zero results.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 01:07 AM
-1	Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terrible Well you are weird and demented pill boy	/r/seduction	07/04/24 11:04 PM
-3	Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terrible And you don't get laid too. forgot to add that	/r/seduction	07/04/24 10:56 PM
9	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up I asked you a question dude. I'm trying to help. You said 4 years. but how many approaches are you doing in person every week?	/r/seduction	07/04/24 10:50 PM
6	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up 4 years but how many approaches per year. how many approaches per month. per week. per weekend. etc. If you were doing a lot of approaches and you are getting zero results, then you must have been doing something wrong. I'd suggest hiring somebody or having them watch you if you are getting no results. You are probably making some really basic mistakes.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 10:45 PM
-1	Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terrible fuck yourself demon	/r/seduction	07/04/24 10:19 PM
-1	Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terrible Fuck off retard. I doubt it even worked for you	/r/seduction	07/04/24 09:34 PM
2	Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond? Haha. I see the mistake you made. You agreed to the relationship. Don’t do that bro. You fell for it. Keep it the way it was before you told her that.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 02:59 PM
2	Do Women like to be ignored? If she feels like all you do is chase tail and message girls, she’s gonna be turned off, she’s nothing to you but a conquest Beg to differ	/r/seduction	07/04/24 06:14 AM
5	How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date? Ha, well I'm curious to see what that looks like	/r/seduction	07/04/24 05:36 AM
88	How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date? Just another way of saying have fun. Most guys are too stiff that don't have a lot of experience.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 02:53 AM
2	Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? The fact ppl downvoted you for being muscular is hilarious haha	/r/seduction	04/04/24 06:03 PM
1	Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? Just go to bars and clubs even if you don’t drink if you want to progress fast	/r/seduction	04/04/24 06:01 PM
3	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? Fair but I’m not trying to have a certain style I just see the girls I like are not always alone and don’t know another way	/r/seduction	03/04/24 08:08 PM
5	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? If you control the conversation you don’t have to fight for it. And if she just met you how is she going to know if she likes you. Unless it only takes you a second to attract her and it’s never about pissing contents. that never goes anywhere. but leaving any interaction with another guy is a lot of potential opportunities gone	/r/seduction	03/04/24 07:32 PM
8	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? You can’t expect some girl you’ve been talking to for like two minutes to be that invested in you. If she is hot some other guy may walk up. You don’t need to leave.. Unless you believe he should have her and not you. Leave if it’s actually not going anywhere	/r/seduction	03/04/24 07:18 PM
15	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? Exactly. You are right. The first thing is actually to not make it look like a competition. You always wants to own the situation and the best way of doing that is to see it as you are the one having fun. Don’t get sucked into whatever the guy is doing, but also don’t just ignore him. Just take control of the conversation. If you do it right he will start to get quiet and leave while the girl is still attracted to you. The more you are in that situation the more you will learn to deal with it	/r/seduction	03/04/24 06:32 PM
8	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? Horrible advice.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 06:21 PM
22	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? Dude. You can’t call it quits everytime you go into a sticky situation… Do you even go out?	/r/seduction	03/04/24 06:20 PM
13	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? The post says “a girl I was talking to”. If you’re talking to a girl, other guys may try to talk to them. You can’t just assume they “respect you enough”	/r/seduction	03/04/24 06:20 PM
2	Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive man Maybe this is good advice for people that already around a lot of women and social opportunities. Not for somebody starting out	/r/seduction	23/03/24 04:39 PM
2	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move Extremely extremely extremely good post. You should interact with them out of fun or being sociable, sharing yourself with no expectations	/r/seduction	22/03/24 06:29 PM
5	Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive man Seduction sub and you're telling people to stop seeking..?	/r/seduction	22/03/24 02:16 AM
1	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men what’s it important is learning from it and seeing what’s going on	/r/MensRights	21/03/24 03:14 PM
2	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men You’re too jaded. I’d say you need to get along with women for your own benefit. Why are women disrespecting men? Because men have become bitches. You are currently bitching. Women will like you when you chill out. I’m not discussing this with you further but you will know what I’m talking about if you have the confidence to introspect	/r/MensRights	21/03/24 03:11 PM
1	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men Yes it’s a cultural issue but there’s still a solution. If you’re doing well you aren’t going to have issues dating essentially. It’s only when you’re struggling that you have trouble dating. The “average guy” is worse off than in the past but he isn’t making up for it with his actions. If the structures of the past are gone then it’s up to you to build yourself up. You’re only replaceable if you are replaceable. If you’re an individual you will have no trouble attracting the cream of the crop w…	/r/MensRights	20/03/24 08:58 PM
2	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men They only ever cared about your emotions. If you are self-conscious they run from you. If you aren’t focused on yourself they run towards you. Have fun with it dude. And meet a lot of women before you decide who you will pick for a relationship	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 11:27 PM
1	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men Interviewing a woman and THEN paying for the meal is your first mistake	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 11:23 PM
0	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men I agree that men are becoming weaker (obviously). But there is nothing wrong with focusing on women. If you want a relationship you should get one. If you are having trouble you are taking is too seriously as paradoxically as that sounds. Just have fun and you will get a girlfriend, start trying to find a wife and that’s where you get into trouble. You have to learn how to walk before you can run. This is not the 1920’s where all of us would be married young. Also, dating apps are a joke. Let’s …	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 11:21 PM
0	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men If you want good relationships.. you should be friends with women. If you’re going to dismiss your own emotions as being nebulous then don’t bother. Women are not men, they are different. If you care about money and creating things only, then I’d say you don’t need women. But if you want to have fun and let go then that’s precisely where women come into your life. Btw “building yourself up” for a woman does not exist. It’s good that you do those things for yourself, achieving your goals; but the…	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 11:11 PM
1	Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit men Dating has always been about benefiting the top men so either be that or quit bitching and take your scraps Also if you’re trying to prove yourself, spending money, etc you are only hurting your chances	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 11:02 PM
1	Self help industry is seriously flawed as well. Read The Six Pillars of Self Esteem or Tony Robbins. It has nothing to do with that. It’s only about not being a victim and resolving	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 11:09 PM
3	34m accused of molesting daughter by wife 35f Dude, she was cheating on you the whole time. Sorry to tell you. Don’t be a victim about it either, but you really need to re-examine your priorities	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 08:38 PM
1	How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one? Well I think we are on the same page. Though what's obvious to you probably is not obvious to most guys.. Approach em all (if u want)	/r/seduction	31/01/24 02:45 AM
1	How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one? Are you a woman? Find women that look like they want to be approached? lmao	/r/seduction	28/01/24 09:59 AM
1	How many rejections at a single venue before you hop to another one? Just say whatever comes to your mind. You’re 30 dude. just try. don’t think too hard about it. keep it fun. if you’re so nervous just say whatever even if it’s awkward, you’ll get over it.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 09:55 AM
2	Is it a bad idea to just be yourself? 100% truth. Hence the pull of a “limited time offer”. Somebody can literally like you but there’s no rush if they can get to you in the future (even if it never comes)	/r/seduction	27/01/24 05:37 AM
1	Is it a bad idea to just be yourself? Important thing here is enjoying your life which makes you magnetic. However some people are not going to enjoy life without women, no matter what (at least for a phase of their life). That puts you in a harder situation but it’s still doable as long as you don’t “give your power away”, a useful skill in life always	/r/seduction	27/01/24 05:35 AM
2	Is it a bad idea to just be yourself? Being yourself IS the best advice. However it’s often misused as “myself is some sad loser and people should like the real me”. The process is finding yourself, as in finding what feels right.	/r/seduction	27/01/24 05:26 AM
2	What i learned It’s bad advice because you have to be at a point where you’re expressing yourself at your strongest before you’re going to really be attracting people. You would be amazed at how many people are “convinced” of your value when you know how to show it, and that’s not something most are doing well. In other words, you’re helping us practice :)	/r/seduction	01/01/24 06:32 PM
0	What i learned I really disagree with this. If you come off bad or nervous because you are uncomfortable that will interfere with attracting somebody that you may really get along with. The only exception is if you’re good at expressing yourself no matter who you talk to and will attract or repel people like that. I don’t think that’s most people here by any means	/r/seduction	01/01/24 06:25 PM
1	RSD Motivation Videos Can you send the vids?	/r/seduction	30/05/22 07:34 PM
2	How I Learned To Seduce Women With My Eyes Yeah. Not accepting your looks is a sign of major insecurities. Yeah obviously looking like a male model would be nice. Most guys are average though, and everyone single man in the world has insecurities about how they look. The ones that get over them aren’t affected by them though. If you are going into social situations with the belief in the back of your mind that you’re lesser than other men, that’s a handicap. It’s self-hatred.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 04:24 PM
5	Is tinder a scam for average guys or am I unlucky? I dont recommend dating apps unless you already have experience with girls IRL. There is a lot less competition than you think IRL, people would rather do apps because it’s less nerve wracking but in the long run won’t force you to learn how to be comfortable with women. If you’re not getting a lot of matches you need better pictures (professional quality).	/r/seduction	03/04/22 10:51 PM
2	Advice on meeting a girl Just focus on being social. Socialize with men and women. Join something social. Don't fight that anxiety and just accept it, but don't let it deter you from what you want to do. This will all be hard of course, but it is the only way to become comfortable with people. I don't think you need any pick up artist advice man. This will all come natural to you as long as you learn to enjoy yourself and enjoy other people. Of course there may be blocks towards you doing this... you might be very insec…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 08:26 PM
1	Life is easier after stopping trying to date You can date while not worrying about your appearance. In fact you should try to date while looking exactly how do you when you hang out with your friends. The thought of this probably freaks you out, which shows most of us are already entering dating from a place of fear instead of being care-fee and having fun.	/r/seduction	28/03/22 08:01 PM
3	When asked about my job I tell girls that I’m a male stripper Because we are scared, duh. We want a formula or script to tell us what’s the best path to having a successful date	/r/seduction	26/03/22 03:16 AM
5	Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general? I think a lot of what confidence is, is just about growing out of your insecurities. If you are only shy because you don’t think you have anything to over others, then that is a big insecurity. Being outgoing can come from a place of insecurity too, but I’d say that people who are confident are more likely to be outgoing in some form.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 07:04 PM
4	Asked a girl out for the first time in person I wouldn’t give up on her. Assuming she understood, i don’t know isnt a bad response. Try to just communicate with her and ask her out again when it feels like she is getting along with you	/r/seduction	26/02/22 10:04 PM
8	Very hot girl gave me a record-breaking number of shit tests on our first date. I deflected most of them and she ended up initiating the kiss spot on. we can’t be resentful about how nature works	/r/seduction	17/07/19 05:12 PM
58	Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls? Well said. You should always get dating advice from men who are successful with women instead.	/r/seduction	29/06/19 05:49 PM
1	Girl at the gym (update) chill man, hes not indian	/r/seduction	15/06/19 05:34 AM
2	Any older guys here? 30's or 40's Well said. All experience I have dancing with women at concerts came from me just dancing by myself and then they start inching closer to me until we are dancing together. But that passive style seems to not always work which is why I want to learn to be more forward.	/r/seduction	14/06/19 05:15 PM
1	Any older guys here? 30's or 40's I see. Are you looking around at people and giving them eyes or they just approach you because they see you doing your own thing?	/r/seduction	14/06/19 03:45 PM
2	Any older guys here? 30's or 40's you are 42 yet get approached by women at clubs and concerts? you must be a good dancer :) or do they approach you when you aren’t dancing?	/r/seduction	13/06/19 10:58 PM
0	Turning things sexual You are a pussy and you need to get over that by not being a pussy. Except its going to be awkward since you are inexperienced but just go for it and make it feel natural not forced to the best of your ability	/r/seduction	09/06/19 04:55 PM
1	How To Get Laid On The First Date Nearly Every Single Time True losers don't get dates at all. then I am a mostly true loser :)	/r/seduction	10/05/19 06:27 AM
52	How To Get Laid On The First Date Nearly Every Single Time the part where im a loser that you didn’t include!	/r/seduction	09/05/19 06:27 PM
4	How do I lose feelings for my FWB? Lose your soul and everything that makes you a fucking human, that should work!	/r/seduction	09/05/19 05:27 PM
3	Learn to walk im American and there is nothing like a nice walk by the beach or through the city. not many people do this. i felt kindve weird my first few times going on long walks because its seems so uncommon	/r/seduction	24/04/19 05:44 PM
4	A 75 day challenge that will change your life why are you still detracting from the fact that you don’t read literature? how can I take your insults seriously? if I was dumb I would only read self help books like you	/r/seduction	23/04/19 10:28 PM
5	A 75 day challenge that will change your life bye, literal retard. you couldnt intelligently debate with anyone	/r/seduction	23/04/19 10:25 PM
3	A 75 day challenge that will change your life lol see. you just admitted that you are an uneducated moron. you equate fiction with harry potter. that tells me you have never read a real piece of literature in your entire life. its ok though, its not for everyone:)	/r/seduction	23/04/19 10:18 PM
2	A 75 day challenge that will change your life if you want to grow as a person, you should undo this ridiculous idea that non-fiction is what you read. why not just tell people to read every day, why did you have to say non-fiction?	/r/seduction	23/04/19 10:00 PM
7	A 75 day challenge that will change your life this guy thinks fiction is for kids clearly. i hate when people specifically say to read non fiction because they don’t know anything about literature	/r/seduction	23/04/19 09:51 PM
1	A 75 day challenge that will change your life thinking non-fiction is what makes you intelligent xD	/r/seduction	23/04/19 09:50 PM
-11	An example of how not to approach ””pussy””	/r/seduction	03/04/19 09:20 PM
35	An example of how not to approach not a pussy he just doesn’t want her to feel uncomfortable. a gentleman	/r/seduction	03/04/19 08:25 PM
-11	What made you realize that trp wasn’t exactly telling the truth? The whole point of the red pill is about becoming masculine to attract women that you like. It's not about grandma or mommy. It's only about dating.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 08:12 AM
-7	What made you realize that trp wasn’t exactly telling the truth? I am not sure who you mean when you say "TRP". It is a pretty diverse community of people. If I had to sum up the goal it's about being masculine. Obviously different people have different ideas about what that means. I take issues with the community a good amount but to say they don't have helpful information is wrong.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 08:07 AM
12	Don't Get Cucked By Cuckservatives Liberalism gave us the mess we are in today.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/18 04:36 AM
2	Disagree but be smart about it, plus thoughts on management t. the enlightened Centrist.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/18 10:18 PM
9	A reminder to live your fucking life I agree 100% with you. I take it this post was more for OP than anyone else, but it can still provide motivation. It's good to have a prayer of sorts to recite to give you a fresh breathe of inspiration.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/18 02:53 AM
-5	Pragmatism: The secret weapon of TRP mindset This philosophy as in TRP philosophy. Not philosophy as a whole. If you think this sub is about philosophy, you are a retard.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 04:38 AM
-4	Pragmatism: The secret weapon of TRP mindset I agree this is about MASCULINITY but saying this ‘philosophy’ is by any means all encompassing implies IDEOLOGY. There is more to life than masculinity and we should keep these things separate.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 04:24 AM
0	Pragmatism: The secret weapon of TRP mindset “how TRP can be applied to ALL aspects of life”. Didn’t realise this was a religion now!	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/18 02:35 AM
-19	Woman who ordered more than $1,600 worth of treats from her daughter's Girl Scout troop is arrested after 'she refused to pay the bill and kept them for herself' xD lmao thanks	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/11/18 08:26 PM
-15	Woman who ordered more than $1,600 worth of treats from her daughter's Girl Scout troop is arrested after 'she refused to pay the bill and kept them for herself' he just got #schooled. smelly	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/11/18 06:45 PM
1	Breaking The Rules - Part 2 I meant to say that I am out of college but I still attend stuff from my college since its local.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/18 06:39 PM
6	Breaking The Rules - Part 2 it’s not like college life disappears when you graduate	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/18 04:53 PM
16	Michael Kimmel, male feminist founder of the Stony Brook Center for Studies on Masculinity, the institution indicated by reddit admins as providing good reading on "positive masculinity", forced to step down on accusations of workplace sexual harassment and sexism by past collaborators I don't think it's a secret that being a "male feminist" is a mating strategy for weird creeps.	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/18 04:33 PM
7	Michael Kimmel, male feminist founder of the Stony Brook Center for Studies on Masculinity, the institution indicated by reddit admins as providing good reading on "positive masculinity", forced to step down on accusations of workplace sexual harassment and sexism by past collaborators HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA breathes in HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/18 04:30 PM
5	Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantine I thought scientism was applying science outside of it's bounds, as a proxy for spirituality and philosophy.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/18 02:02 AM
-5	What do men think about a woman's style? Very true. Atheists have a very naive and shallow understanding of God (it’s a man in the sky!). I am glad my life coach understands ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/18 04:14 AM
1	ALERT A Firefox & Chrome add-on was created to target and harass this sub and identified this a "hate sub" -albert einstein	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/18 07:52 PM
1	My life from Blue Pill to Red Pill to Blue Pill to Red Pill: Diary of a 54 year old. Well relationships are work and our culture doesn’t make them any easier but I don’t see any alternatives to this. Surely your marriage was good at some point?	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/18 11:14 PM
3	My life from Blue Pill to Red Pill to Blue Pill to Red Pill: Diary of a 54 year old. Welcome to TRP. WHAT HAPPENED TO LOVE?	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/18 07:49 PM
1	Your phone is cucking you. Hard. Here's how to stop it. And how is this done? Any resources or recommendations you can give?	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/18 01:10 AM
3	My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP Relationship Thanks for a good post about a healthy relationship, not too common here.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/18 03:24 AM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking I can only tolerate so much of this teenager level atheism that I have grown out of. Read some philosophy at least, William James would be good... Well, have fun worshiping science and pretending it can answer the deepest questions!	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 04:29 PM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking “Most modern people abandon their religious impulses for a childish sense of rational enlightenment” -Jung	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 03:14 PM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking Wow, people have a conscience? I never knew that. Guess I don’t need to be religious anymore, thanks!	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 02:55 PM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking durrr religion was a failed science. don’t be a sheep. science cannot replace religion since science cannot determine proper morality. morality is just feel good mumbo jumbo though right? nothing really matters anyways we are just tiny specks in the universe durrr	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 02:20 PM
2	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking I just think we risk throwing the baby out with the bath water by disregarding Christianity. Churches have failed for the most part. They are uninspiring at best and hypocritical at worst. Free thinking is extremely important for forming your religious/spiritual/philosophical beliefs because religion/spirituality/philosophy is extraordinarily personal. With that being said there is so much truth about the human condition that Christianity reveals and its ideas truly have transformed the West and…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 03:31 AM
2	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking Recovering Catholic indeed, I am as well. The Catholic church is very good at producing atheists. Anyways, your religion is what you believe. I believe the academic definition of religion isn’t a useful definition. I distinguish between organized religions and an individuals religious/spiritual beliefs. Of course people get offended when I say everyone is religious, but we can just say philosophy of life (same shit). Everyone has a philosophy of life.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 01:10 AM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking I don’t think you understood me at all. Are you Indian or is there a language barrier here? Get out of here with that weak logic.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 10:52 PM
2	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking Define factual? There is nothing factual about any moral system. Morals are based on values. Values and facts are two separate things. I believe murder is wrong for example. There is nothing factual about my statement. I also believe humanity is good and worth preserving. Again, nothing factual. You can’t use science to answer these moral questions, you use religion/philosophy.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 09:54 PM
-1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking If you were born in the woods and never met somebody to tell you about religion, would you be religious? Yes, you would be religious probably. In your isolation you would probably develop a sense of transcendent purpose, which is completely natural for people to do since its been happening for the whole history of humanity. Religion just doesn’t mean organized religion. Watch more JP if you really don’t get it. You seem to have this idea in your head and are twisting around what JP already said …	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 08:16 PM
1	Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinking Please tell me how being religious is being terribly mistaken, you typical science atheist.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 07:53 PM
1	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day Yeah religion is the number one cause of death we need more science that will teach us how to behave!!! Tribalism is what you meant and proper morality (religion) is the only defense against this. Also, you don’t understand organized religion (or real philosophy). You are just another sheep. Head over to the atheism sub to join your herd!	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 08:27 PM
1	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day I put a lot of effort into this post and to dismiss it become of my comment history is pretty gay of you. You must be an atheist by this logic.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 08:20 PM
0	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day The real red pill is that humans are religious creatures and not rational creatures. Religion doesn’t mean ‘organized religion’. Everyone has their own religion. Your religion are the beliefs you hold about the most important questions in life (who am I, why am I here, what is my purpose). Everyone has a system of values, and a highest value. Some people believe they have a purpose beyond themselves, some people don’t. You can call this being spiritual but thats just a weakened term that means r…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 05:10 PM
1	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day No, instead you are living in the West. A culture deeply imbedded with Judeo-Christian and Hellenistic values that you take for granted and fail to recognize their roots. Or did you really think our legal system came from secular values?	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 04:49 PM
1	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day If you think religion is about denying reality you are surely mistaken. It is about CONSTRUCTING A MORALITY after you accept the reality of the human condition. ‘We are just animals’ is a belief that will lead you to be morally bankrupt, of course you don’t actually believe this because if you did you would treat humans and animals the same...	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 03:48 PM
0	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day Yes that is what religion is to a lot of people. Sadly those reasons are naive and precisely what a teenager would come up with after despising Sunday school. It is no secret that organized religion has failed to teach people and is churning out nihilistic science atheists by the millions. The truth is that religion teaches you moral truths about life and the human condition that you cannot find anywhere else. You don’t see the benefits to religion because you are ignorant to how much it has tra…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 03:41 PM
2	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day Most people on reddit have an underworking problem rather than an overworking problem. They don’t need to be told to rest when they browse reddit 8 hours a day. But yes it goes without saying you need to rest so that you can be a more efficient worker.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/18 11:02 PM
-1	You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every Day Are you atheists going to get tired of normalizing adultery ever?	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/18 10:59 PM
15	Physical traits to help hold your frame and confront situations. If you think people are treating you differently because you haven’t been to the gym in a while, you are probably insecure about it and that’s affecting your behavior.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 03:59 PM
1	Life or primitive Jane: the boys are hunting so deep. comedians are so smart	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/18 08:04 PM
3	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Is asian masculinity leaking?	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 12:13 AM
1	Just Fucking Lift Yeah if I got to that level I would be happy but thats way above and beyond what I want fitness wise	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 03:15 PM
1	Just Fucking Lift noooo lol. BJJ is only strength training if you are super new. BJJ guys are notorious for being able to win without exerting themselves much	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 02:13 PM
0	Just Fucking Lift If we are talking about being attractive here, I don’t need to bench my body weight. Twink style abbs is what is needed	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 02:10 PM
20	Looks Maxing Trying to imagine being so gay that I get a haircut every 2 weeks	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 09:36 PM
2	Looks Maxing I would have a suit if I had an appropriate place to wear one. You go to formal events a lot?	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 09:34 PM
34	Looks Maxing it says no drugs my dude, you won’t get laid now	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 09:33 PM
4	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention lol I also thought that was the worst possible response. Would’ve been better to actually pretend to be gay	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 07:21 PM
2	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention Amen brother. It’s easy to have the excuses like your looks being the issue.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 07:16 PM
19	You can't sidebar and monk mode your way to success - eventually you have to step out into the real world. And the real world is not as easy as it seems. A guide on how to make the transition. I have a theory that most TRP posts like these are written the day after the op loses their virginity	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 05:23 AM
1	How Should I Spend My Time? LIFT READ MEDITATE. WORK ON YOURSELF	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:31 PM
4	The SERIOUS Importance of Vitamin D (trust me, read details within) myself and many other Californians that spend over an hour in the sun a day disagree	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/18 03:41 PM
15	The SERIOUS Importance of Vitamin D (trust me, read details within) It takes like 3 hours in the sun to get enough vitamin D, not the 15 min lie	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/18 03:01 PM
1	The SERIOUS Importance of Vitamin D (trust me, read details within) have nothing better to read?	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/18 03:00 PM
1	Billy the Beta orbiter. Its not just PDA, its unclassy. PDA can be done in a classy or unclassy manner.	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/18 08:52 PM
3	Killing the ego If you can't moderate your ego and aren't a grappling genius, you're not going to get a coloured belt in BJJ. You haven’t been grappling for too long I take it	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/18 07:47 PM
-2	Killing the ego Yes this gets into the nonsense that is Buddhism.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/18 03:25 PM
0	Killing the ego Thats just some Rogan BS. BJJ and wrestling is filled with egotistical people.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/18 03:24 PM
1	OC Jordan Peterson's Climbing School impressive reductionism	/r/MGTOW	12/03/18 07:07 AM
6	A Billy-Beta acquaintance has zero clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons. How would he know better? The same way anyone else would know. Usually by experience. Life is unforgiving, I am not placing fault on anyone but thats just the way it is and the way it has to be. What constitutes a good man is a deeper question. A good man is not naive. A good man knows the evil that himself and other people are capable of, and chooses not to be evil and to keeps his eyes open.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/18 10:51 PM
13	A Billy-Beta acquaintance has zero clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons. I mean, Billy isn’t a ‘good’ man. He is a compassionate man probably, but a good man would know better about turning into an unattractive mate	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/18 07:39 PM
-3	Critical thinking is perhaps one of the most important skills a man can develop. Your mind has not adapted much over the past 1000 years, and many of its tricks are destructive in our present environment. Here are 4 Cognitive Biases you should be well aware of. racial profiling? fuck off	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/18 04:37 PM
13	Dating girls does not equal happiness its easier to resist the urge if your IQ is higher, see the Savanna Principle	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/18 04:00 PM
1	Religion got one thing right. So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/18 04:41 PM
1	Learn from Samson's example in the bible, or you too can have your strength cut from you and die a tortured prisoner of war. I love when atheists pull out bible quotes, please teach me more!	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/18 04:11 PM
1	Don't Get Cucked By Conservatives I don’t believe that you actually know what liberals are conservatives are, but I will keep quiet so you guys can continue LARPing	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/18 06:06 PM
8	The Marriage Game Marriage is a commitment. It's not for everyone	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 01:40 AM
1	SMV increase and “friends” jealously. This post was more for you then anyone else. I am sorry for your struggles but stay strong because time heals all wounds	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/17 07:40 PM
3	(FR) Same Night Lay Basically, you are on the right track but you have to suck his dick now	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/17 04:09 PM
1	Elon musk and his multiple divorces Why do I hear about Henry Rollins so much not in the context of music? I know nothing about him or his music keep in mind	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/17 06:02 PM
1	Elon musk and his multiple divorces trp says 'awalt'. and you better believe they think its true	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/17 06:01 PM
5	Society rejects weak man - and then crushes them Smiling is good for making friends out of strangers, its a big friend signal	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/17 11:08 PM
2	Learn To Take A Hit Exactly man. Fight, flight, or FREEZE. Only one of the options is weak.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/17 03:37 AM
30	Delete Your Social Remove the first paragraph...	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/17 06:19 PM
1	How to be funny I can see that being true. If you can do that you can probably crush any social situation with your charisma	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 01:49 PM
1	How to be funny Maybe I should say more esoteric than edgy... stuff that the majority wont like. I like comedians like Dave Chapelle which are universally funny, but im also a huge fan of lesser known comedians that most people would just think are either retarded or make no sense	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 12:15 AM
1	How to be funny I think the trying improv advice is good, something I would be scared to do and the fact my sense of humor is edgy wouldn't help much	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/17 10:04 PM
13	How to be funny if a how to be funny guide actually helps anyone become funny id be amazed	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/17 09:57 PM
4	Men, It's okay to play the field in fact it's part of modern dating You would be just as unsatisfied if you fucked a girl everyday from the 6th grade up. You are the same person pursuing unfulfilling sensations	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 12:00 AM
3	TRP Tinder as an Attractive Male must be more than being tall to tinder or my profile wouldve got more matches...	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/17 11:49 PM
3	Men - the most important post you'll read on Testosterone. Your levels are being systemically lowered with plastics. Science inside. Science hasn't it showed that it reduces T in everyone to a meaningful amount yet.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 05:20 PM
2	The importance on having a large network socially. where was there a video linked? /u/red_reality /u/S-Blaze	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/17 02:56 AM
1	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different? thanks, awesome	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 03:37 AM
1	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different? It doesn't matter whether you're talking about a hoe or a decent chick, you DO want her to be very attracted, not "investing" her sex on you. Women that invest sex, again, no matter whether hoes or decent chicks, offer terrible prospects for LTRs: You will become an average frustrated chump. Can you explain this to me? How can you tell teh diff between attracted and investing sex?	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 03:36 AM
1	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different? haha, true. I don't want a complete Christian girl, just not a complete hoe. There is a middle ground	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 03:35 AM
2	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different? until? I thought a relationship will fail if you don't keep your alpha frame	/r/askTRP	07/06/17 04:00 PM
3	If my goal is getting 'relationship type' girls should my approach by different? ok, well while it is uncommon, there are girls who dont hook up, or do so really infrequently (not hoes)	/r/askTRP	07/06/17 03:50 PM