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| 2 | Like Her Friend More | RabbitEater2 | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 07:16 PM |
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| 21 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisWhen you take out the anxiety, game is basically the same as playing a video game, where you can just worry about optimizing instead of "what do they think of me" or "oh no I look stupid". Being a sociopath makes life a lot easier in that sense, and Ive seen that firsthand with my friend. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it more difficult to have a gf when you're a short guy or it doens't matter ?I'd consider leg lengthening at 5 foot tbh, but that's just me. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I a bad person for doing this?Imagine if that was a "2" guy, he'd need to be fit (gym + diet + hard work), make good money (also hard work) and have some game (time + getting out of comfort zone) to allow him to date average to above average and even then with some limited success. For a woman, makeup + not eating too much and maybe some gym would be an equivalent improvement. Which one sounds harder to you? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Which type of girls are easy to approach?Only the ones with feminine ones in my experience. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to find older guys to hookup with?Reddit: women have too high of standards, hard to find women who doesn't want anything serious. Also reddit: lol she trynna get some? Belongs to the streets. Y'all are bipolar I swear. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 4 | [24M, Toronto] Why do my cold approaches fail?Lmao, had me in the first half | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hormones are strong with this one | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:19 PM |
| 28 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityWhilst a better viewpoint than "I'm a victim, waa", it doesn't really account for the whole picture. If you take 2 identical (personality, salary and fashion wise) people, one is 5'6" and below average looking and the other is 6'2" and handsome, the lack of success that the prior man would achieve is not 100% their fault. Discounting external factors is a myopic view of reality, ideally you'd know where you stand but also take responsibility to do the best you can with what's given. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get more comfortable with physical touch in general?In the words of Shia le Beouf, just do it. I absolutely hated touch too, but I slowly forced myself to incorporate it into my interactions, male or female. It felt weird at first, but that feeling doesn't last long and you'll get used to it. Not sure about the other commenters suggesting you have some disability or childhood underdevelopment, it's just a form of rejection avoidance lol | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | 88 DAYS REMAINING IN 2019Indirect works better for some girls but is harder to do overall, so for someone who is just starting, getting the first few approaches is Mor eimportant to then experiment | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:55 PM |
| 3 | 88 DAYS REMAINING IN 2019"Hey I know it's a little random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" Then you can introduce yourself and ask "so what are you up to?" and go from there. Very basic and straightforward. It might be too forward for some, but once you get used to the good and bad responses, then you can start to switch it up. Do this approach 5 times and let me know here how they went, should not take you long. Good luck friend, I'll be waiting for your response | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Can you be a shy quiet guy but still get laid like a mad man?Game super solid and shy are pretty much mutually exclusive. If you get laid as a shy guy, it's cause women are throwing themselves at you and that happens if you've got mad status or look like Henry cavill, or both. You can be introverted with good game, but not having confidence is a major turnoff | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:02 AM |
| 18 | Im having a really hard time trying to comprehend what women find attractive in men.Theres no set things since girls are, surprise surprise, complex and not one dimensional. Certain traits (height, face) play a part, personality plays a part, wealth and assets play a part. Different girls like a different proportion of those traits,and that preference may change at any time. Generally, if you look your best, are confident with an abundance mindset and not broke eventually you should find someone who finds you attractive back. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Does nobody else envy male pornstars?You can just pay for prostitutes, at least you won't be naked on the internet and won't have to inject Viagra into your dick. It's not like you're actually gaming any of those girls anyway | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How important are physical looks in attraction?In the same analogy, better looks can even get you through a VIP door where more bullshit is allowed and with not enough looks you won't even get in in the first place, both of which are important to consider | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 02:44 AM |
| 8 | Soul is pretty much deadA nice long break can help you out. When things would be down for me, I'd focus on other things and then try again. When you say you tried everything, can you give a list of what you've done? | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I wanna have sex with my mom's friend. Any advice on how to approach her?Legit thought you were listing porno plot intros. Then I realized you were for real. | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 05:42 PM |
| 3 | I did a some daygame coaching in London and approached 10-20 girls per hour. A few days later in my home town I'm struggling to hit 2 per hour. Is this normal?The expectation to do approaches since you paid for it makes it so that you're approaching just for the sake of approaching so you're not dependent on the outcome. Now you're approaching for real, so you're more dependent. Plus the wing helped and having more girls to approach also helps | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I show her I care while maintaining attraction? (Relationship)Wait, so me saying "missing the taste of your lips but good otherwise" to some girl I've been on 2 dates with when she asks about how I'm doing is being needy? Damnit. Or am I overthinking this? | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 24 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsSo what's the issue? 5 to 6 by 16 is a lot, ikd why you're getting caught up in this so much | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Getting erection while talking with women.Jeans? Plus, unless you have a full on boner, having a bigger bulge might not be so bad if it doesn't look obvious. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 07:18 AM |
| 1 | If a girl has handsome guy friends...That's fair | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | How to handle "I have a boyfriend"Too far up into PUA my guy, not everything is a shit test, you just cut your losses and move on | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Are overweight girls easier to seduce then attractive girls?Since you go for 9's and 10's, what can you offer them that they can't get from 100's of other guys always eyeing them? Just good game is only 1 aspect. | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:06 AM |
| 6 | How to handle "I have a boyfriend"And 100% of the time they're not interested in pursuing the interaction further and would rather let you go nicely than be rude about it which you should respect | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | If a girl has handsome guy friends...I'd disagree with not trying to be confident, as the old saying goes "fake it till you make it", faking confidence helped me to actually embed it as an aspect of my real personality with time. I agree with the other points though | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | A girl I liked ghosted meShe met someone better/found something you said not up her alley. The issues with having many options is that you tend to not care about others, just yourself. And emphasized how “real” of a person she was Lol if you believe things like that. No one is going to say that they're fake/a liar/a cheat etc. May be just compensating as well, you can't take girls words directly. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 9 | I have absolutely NOtHING to offer?I guess you know what to work towards then. Girls are fun but mostly temporary, developing yourself is permanent and more fulfilling | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:37 PM |
| 23 | Just because a girl "likes" you doesn't mean she is a good fit for youAlso why it's important not to be hard on yourself if you haven't got a gf yet when most people are in a relationship - many of those people are there cause they settled (also why divorce rate is so high) | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Approaching Highschool girls?Bruh | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Need advise on picking up when ladies are with their small group of ladies friends.Firstly, thanks for the long and thoughtful response, I appreciate it. I like the first idea, that's what I was thinking of doing as well. The 2nd idea is great except that they're both conservative Iranians (since I'm looking for a gf), if I manage to pull this off by some miracle and a half, it would all go downhill from there for me aha. But if I do, I'll send you $100, take my word on that. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Need advise on picking up when ladies are with their small group of ladies friends.if you pay attention to the fugly one, the hot one will actually think you like the fugly one and will lose interest Fuck, I'm worried this may be the case in my class this semester. Should I just straight up ask the hot one out? The fugly one keeps texting/trying to talk to me, but I've been trying to not reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Need advise on picking up when ladies are with their small group of ladies friends.I tried that and now her friend is into me (I'm still only a fan of the original one) - any tips? | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:25 AM |
| 5 | There's No Way Around It: 'Good Game' Is Essential For A Successful MarriageTrust me, being a single man in later 40's is way better than being a single woman in her late 40's, it's not even close | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I’m 26 and no woman has ever been interested in or attracted to me, is it because of my looks? (Pics included)Depends on your standards as well. What do you define as normal? If by that you mean average, that is still batting high since you're slightly below average (no point lying to your face and sugarcoating it) so you gotta either get lucky or make up with social skills/game/have a social circle. I've seen guys looking worse than you be with very hot girls, and I'm sure you have as well, so don't limit yourself my guy. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Pursuing multiple women at the same time seems to strike me with a lot of guiltMost attractive girls do that all the time, they always have options ready | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 11:56 PM |
| 12 | Game comes naturally with girls i dont find all that attractive?Or it could be that the girls you don't find attractive, are actually not all that attractive, as as such they chase after you | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary HighThe same can be said for anything else (except for money) | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | If all is going well, is it offensive to try and kiss a girl after the first hangout?Depends on calibration, if you had enough escalation and touching during the date, then kissing during first dates is fine (expected even for me at least). If you sensed distance/didn't escalate enough and then randomly swooped in for a kiss then it could easily have taken her aback | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Like Her Friend MoreMy main issue is that I have a year long class with both of them, or do you think that doesn't matter? | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late.People make time for things that are important to them, always keep that in mind. And with 1 real flake already, (knee surgery is a reasonable excuse), you won't regret dodging this bullet. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But MeLet's see: You're right, bumble and tinder are bad for anyone not good looking, and even then the quality is meh at best Then 1 girl off a dating site. Then you had the 1 girl from class who didn't have a bf go on a date so you must have done something right. And then you just weren't compatible which is perfectly reasonable. The bf ones don't count. So a grand total of 2 girls who didn't have a bf who said no to you. You see the problem? And yes, 5'3 hinders you, but you can make it up by hitti… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:28 PM |
| 6 | It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But MeYou missed the part where you tell us all the ways you've tried to actually meet and talk to women. Or is that part blank? | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | how would you react when the AMOG calls you a bitchAMOG dude sees me and goes "cross the street bitch" ? So some random guy just yells at you to cross the street? I would just laugh and look away, I'm not here to entertain some fools | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How to handle girl with a lot guy friends who are interested in her?Even better, she can have an expensive meal by some beta orbiter and then come home and fuck you. If you're confident in yourself and your value then you shouldn't worry about others especially if she says that they're just friends. | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.You should aspire to hang out with low class people ? Why would anyone want to bother with that unless they're your customers/workers? The people you talk to influence how you are, and I sure as hell would not want to inherit any low class attitudes | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 0 | GAME IS FUN AS HELL! Please explain why some people are demotivated??You clearly haven't seen Toronto nightclubs or must be incredibly good looking | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Only getting dates with 5s/6s on online dating, what can I do to get better?Oh, what you wanted to say is to not limit yourself by putting very attractive girls at a higher position than just attractive girls if you're attracted to both in order to avoid needy behavior. It came off more like "don't rate whamen, it's disrespectful" | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Fair enough, but my point against a mostly unconscious part of attraction still stands | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Firstly, bigot means intolerance to those who hold different opinions, so you probably mean discrimination. Secondly, unless you have very strong dislike of a race, attraction won't change that much. People tend to like people that are similar to themselves and that's mostly unconscious. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I (M20) am afraid of making a move(go in for kiss) at datesLearned this the hard way. Basically, if she's in a date with you, she knows what's up. If you escalate (light touching, eye contact), the next reasonable progression is to kiss. She expects you to. I've never regretted the times I went for the kiss and got swerved, but I severely regretted the one time I knew I should and didn't. | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.I have a real life example. My lab partner, who I dated for a while, mentioned well into our relationship that my first impression on her was negative and she talked shit about me to her friends. Meanwhile, I always thought she was down. Eventually she gave in. Tldr assume they like you unless you have definite proof they don't | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 10:30 PM |
| 44 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Not to be that guy, but your arteries to the brain are highly regulated so the total flow is the same regardless of your state. But yeah, exercise does help with anxiety and depression | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a girl who is not attractiveI was merely pointing out that just because the less attractive girl may have a better personality, doesn't mean it makes sense to approach her instead of the conventionally attractive one, unless that wasn't what you were trying to say originally | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Approaching a girl who is not attractiveEven better question is what happens when you enter a relationship with a person you have no physical attraction to? | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?Early 20s male. Depends on the looks. If hot I'd be very wary since there's no way a normal hot girl would ever have to approach. If average and below, then I'd take is as a compliment and comment on her bravery. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)I actually get approached as much as I approach others You mean on the street or during events? Cause if it's on the street you must be much better looking than you claim (or I should move to your area) | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Height insecurity preventing me from approaching girls and ruining confidence, help appreciated.While it's true that height is important, it's more of a hurdle than a deal breaker. I do have a simple solution however - get some tall man shoes or wear height raising insoles. Some people say that it's not being honest - by that standard, girls should not wear makeup as well and they still do. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I’ve learned that I don’t care about the sex. All I really want is the chase.Probably a mix of her being crazy with some issues and OPs rating scale being very generous. With heavy leaning on the latter | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I’ve learned that I don’t care about the sex. All I really want is the chase.I have no doubt in my mind that OP is good looking as fuck. Make a tinder profile with a model dude and see for yourself the difference | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | When an FWB starts falling for you> Is that normal? To know that it's only gonna be short term? Yep, nothing wrong with that, given your past relationship history. You can act like you might consider being in a relationship but you're still not ready. Then again, assuming you're not just acting cool on the internet, do what you want since whenever she leaves, you can always find more judging from your post | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I spent a week writing a Tinder guide for the beginner Swiper. I hope it helps :)Dude, you can't say things like Based off of my readings here and elsewhere, I tried about everything under the sun to make the app convert to lays And not know one of the more important points that is very commonly seen. Oh and BTW Never look directly into the camera Was proven wrong But hey, assuming you're not lying, you actually got laid from the app which is more than I can say for a lot of people giving advice about it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Guys, I spent a week writing a Tinder guide for the beginner Swiper. I hope it helps :)Good thing you told OP about your goals absolutely nonrelated to the topic | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?Just use "hey, what are you up to?" then. But that's if there's nothing to comment on from pics or from the bio. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Opening: girls telling me to f*ck off almost instantlyI should do in this situation I think you already know the answer - just walk away. Although it's not that common to get that response, maybe something about your body language or tonality that makes them say that. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Had sex, she friendzoned.A lot of people's first times don't go well. Idk what she expected from you if you were a virgin at the time tbh. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I've pretty much come to terms with the fact that I have to be funny.Generally speaking, as steve harvey mentioned once, developing a sense of humour is very hard to do. You can try to get some funny friends and hopefully learn from them. As well as watch some comedians and see how they do it | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I was friendzoned for the 3rd time. What dosince the very first days we met (it's been a couple weeks) You shouldn't waste a couple of weeks before asking her out, if you notice attraction you gotta strike it while it's hot. She could also be the kind to enjoy attention/flirting so maybe she's just that. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Fucking a girl who already fucked your friend???Stop asking permission from other people to do the things you want to do. Is your friend cool with it? Then go ahead. Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 02:58 AM |
| 8 | Insights after 2 years heavily in the game and on "leaving the game"Not really all that weird. One is investing in yourself. Other is investing into someone else. If you truly cared 100% about maintaining a relationship you would've read how to do so and one of the prime points is to not be needy. But I get your point. | /r/seduction | 11/05/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How to Give off More of a Sexual/lover Vibe Instead of a Friendly and Platonic VibeNo time = no results. Enjoy keeping your life together and paying bills while other people chase after their goals and ambitions. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | How to Give off More of a Sexual/lover Vibe Instead of a Friendly and Platonic VibeSo in 365 days which equates to roughly 9000 hours, you've managed to approach a staggering 20 girls. It's like complaining that you're bad at basketball when you shot 10 hoops the whole year. No one said that this won't take time and effort and if you believe otherwise you're just deluding yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:46 PM |
| 12 | Use their name as often as possiblewhy is a member of the greater sex here on this sub Dude, please, have some self-respect, this is /r/cringe material right here | /r/seduction | 06/03/16 03:07 AM |
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