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I’ve had this problem before too. I’m pretty good at dancing and having fun in the club but I’ve also experienced this frustrating situation where my game is thrown off when the girl actually joins me. I’ve since gotten better at this by doing a few things. First thing is I try to treat the dance floor as a chance to have fun and dance to music. Even when the girl joins me I try not to smother her with attention. Just do some simple and fun dancing with her. Don’t make it too complicated. Show h…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:40 PM
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Society is built on the foundations of a family and long term relationships. Nothing wrong with getting married and raising some kids if it’s with a loving partner. Without good people doing this we will literally go extinct or society will breakdown. Of course, it doesnt have to lead to marriage to still be a meaningful Ltr. In my opinion trp doesn’t conflict with this goal of an ltr. The red pill helps you better understand many of the underlying motivations of women as well as offer a great g…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:25 PM
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Disagree
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:41 PM
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I'm not. If she acts like a hoe call her a hoe. But no need to just call her one right off. these sorts of assumptions are what is giving him bad advice. Rather than trying to actually understand her and the situation. Also, it is rude.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:28 PM
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We are not growing roses. Analogies i think distract from the real issue here. I'm just saying we need a less toxic hostile environment in TRP. I don't have a clever analogy it just seems like a good idea to me. I don't think the unnecessary women bashing helps our cause. We should be focusing on the positive sides of masculinity. And how it can create a good enviroment for both men AND women. a healthy relationship that is mutually good for women and men. One that could eventually lead to a fam…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:22 AM
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This is well said. I agree. there is some good advice and strategies on here, especially about bettering yourself and psychology of women. But it is surrounded by a toxic culture where men often bash women unnecessarily. Sometimes i just can't stand the shit talk. It really distracts from those who have actually good advice.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:39 AM
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I dont' think she has a problem with just one joke though, rather i think it's more the general tone. Maybe she's a little worried he will always joke like this even in more subtle situations. I'm gathering this becuase she didn't seem to get angry at a certain situation but rather had overall issues. And OP seems to have a gut feeling for what that issue is which is his over the top humour. His gut is probably telling him something, to tone it down a little and maybe appolagize. I think he shou…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:43 AM
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Bad advice but funny. so it will be upvoted.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:31 AM
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I dont' think she has a problem with just one joke though, it think it's more the general tone. Maybe being a little worried he will always joke like this even in more subtle situations. I'm gathering this becuase she didn't seem to get angry at a certain situation but rather had overall issues. And OP seems to have a gut feeling for what that issue is which is his over the top humour. His gut is probably telling him something, to tone it down a little and maybe appolagize.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:20 AM
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I don't think he should be trying to decide or argue with her if he is right or not. The point is she took offense, and frankly it was not really unreasonable to. it is some pretty strong jokes for a first date. it's not a snowflake complaint. He simply needs to now decide how to handle the sitiuation. defending his statement is really not a good idea. He should either ignore it or appologize, and to me it seems obvious he should just appologize or atleast explain his sometiems over the top humo…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:11 PM
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Yeah. I see she had fun. but she also clearly had some issues based on what OP tells us of her reactions to his comments. So, seems like there is promise but i do think the issues need to be addressed.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:02 PM
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It is by very definition an issue, she litterally said she has some "issues"... And it is not trivial. She wants to know if he has "chill". It's a legitimate question for her in regarding their relationship. trivial would be her having issues with the clothing brand he wore, or the dessert he chose for them. Those he should ignore. Her issue is not trivial. There is nothing wrong with being nice. not all the time, and don't be a pushover, but when you can consider other's views, while still hold…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:58 PM
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Only good advice i've seen on here. well said.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:44 PM
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First, when a guy asks for advice about a girl he is dating, don't refer to her as a hoe. just in general is pretty stupid. You have no idea if he really likes her or if he is looking for something more casual. let him say what she is. Second, it's not beta to apologize when it's needed. third, who cares grammar nazi.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:37 PM
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Haha, i can tell you're not. You seem cool. I sometimes will joke too strong too, especially when im a little nervous like on a date. i try to make a more conscious effort though to have my crazy jokes when im just with the guys. She will probably go on another date, don't worry bro. It will cool. she clearly had a good time too. And she can see the more cool side of you too and you can both see how things go. Good luck, she sounds fun! :)
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:30 PM
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Wrong. he may not have hurt her feelings but she was probably a little uncomfortable with the remark as most girls would understandably be, especially on a first date. If you think all girls who take offense to offensive jokes are "not worth it" then you will not get any good girls and probably mostly undesirables. Her saying she has issues with some things shows she is wondering if he can be chill also or if he would embarrass her in front of friends. None of this is unreasonable. I will add th…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:24 PM
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Oh nice. i love foreign accents. very sexy. Cool. Well, that's good. Sounds like you'll need to go on a few more to see what you really think. Also, sometimes really fun crazy dates can be a bit difficult to really get to know a person because everything's so high energy. Show her you can take her on a casual date, like just coffee and a walk in the park, and it still be a nice time (not crazy nightlife fun just chill fun) and she will really fall for you, because she will have someone she can j…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:12 PM
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Thanks. Nice to hear i'm not alone with some of them, haha. How do you feel about the girl? Do you like her a lot or unsure yet? Hope things work out!
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:03 PM
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He is not getting the reaction, that's why she said she has some issues. He should clear things up.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:59 PM
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Why is it insulting for her to have issues if they are legitimate issues? I don't understand why no one even considers that just maybe you should tone down the joking a bit. atleast by its content. Honestly, such bad advice. Everyone just circle jerking to "dump that crazy B" cus it feels powerful rather than actually considering the options. If you just want to be patted on the shoulder for no matter what you do then this is the right place, but i really don't think there's actually good advice…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:56 PM
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Or, consider what you have said and be man enough to admit when you are wrong.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:49 PM
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Yeah. I think in person is best. assuming you have another date. I agree if you can just show her that side is of you is best. But if she said "issues" it leads me to beleive she has specific points she wants to say. So, i guess it's just my advice, but i would just be honest with her. It's what I would do. I've been following TRP for a while and I'm cetainly no redpill sage. I just know my experiecne has been that following TRP too strongly can come across too aggressive sometimes to women. Jus…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:43 PM
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Yeah I gotcha. you sound cool to me. but i'm also a guy haha.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:34 PM
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I know you weren't. and i totally get your point and humor. it's cool! but only to guys probably. Not everything you knew is wrong. The Red Pill is an amazing set of strategies you can use to improve your life. But it's not the only good advice you have ever learned about how to be with people. Some simple things like appologizing when you hurt someones feelings or make them feel uncomfortable is good advice still. It's boring and obvious so no one will write a cool catchy post about it but it i…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:21 PM
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no. I think just don't joke so harsh. Apologize. explain sometimes your humor can be a little strong. Dude, she is thinking about the future, because girls always are. she's thinking if i bring this guy around my friends or my parents will he say something embaressing? she's NOT shit testing. don't listen to that. i mean i don't know for sure because i'm not there, but my best guess is she's just evaluating if you come across too strong. Your gut is telling you this or you would not have explain…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:10 PM
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Yeeeeah... I'm gonna advise tone down the shock humor by like 300%. Just be more chill
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:06 PM
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Disagree. Ask her what the issues were. If they were about your jokes then appologize in and assure her that they were only jokes, your not racist or other, and you just have a strong sense of humor and your sorry for making her a little uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:01 PM
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Yeah, I'd clear things up. Just do it casual. Maybe when you meet her again in person. not through a text. Be like, "hey, you know i have a strong sense of humor. just hope i didn't come across wrong with my jokes last night. With the black joke and groping joke. sometimes i go a little too far..." something like that. Nothing unmanly about being able to apologize for offending someone with a bit off color remark. especially one about groping a girl when on a first date. she's bound to feel a li…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:56 PM
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Completely agree. Good to be calm and collected during most situations. And totally need to be the leader of the girl. As a a note of caution though i do feel like i have seen guys take this strategy to a fault; basically when they are too scared to speak up or act because they are scared of looking uncool or unrelaxed. You were stuck in that situation so you were right best to buckle up and roll through, but there are times when you may need to speak up and cause some alarm for the sake of safe…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:57 AM
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Wow. Beautifully said. You've got a real way with words and thinking deeply! I think you pretty much nailed it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:56 PM
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Thanks! Same, I've never cared the eye color. More the eye shape.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:53 PM
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Nice dude! Congrats on the lady ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:36 PM
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I've literally been putting it into practice too. Works pretty good to me. Edit: I admit, does probably need more practice though to be conclusive.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:33 PM
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Hey, thank you! :D Glad I can help. I'm putting it into practice now. Good idea about the glasses too, i don't mind them at all either.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:31 PM
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Heeey I homeschooled until late highschool too! so i know where you are coming from! I'm sorry about you being teased. I know how that feels. People can be cruel. deffinetly sucks. But sounds like you've got a good boyfriend now who knows you are beautiful though, so fuck those bullies. I was hopelessly awkward for so long (and still am sometimes! haha) having been homeschooled. But similarly I was forced to almost learn for the first time how to be social and have personality later in life. May…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:27 PM
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Thanks for the comment. Yeah, i agree with this reasoning. need to struggle and grow to dev your personality. note: it is long but if you read the whole thing the title will become obvious.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:48 PM
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This should be at the top. completely agree. the ultimate form of the red pill is to contribute back to society. what better way to do that than to raise a child who you can instill the knowledge that you've learned and struggled to attain? It's really a beautiful design. Yeah, there's fucked up stuff and it can be a struggle, but don't throw the baby out with the bathwater (almost litterally in this case!). anyways, i agree with you. Unfortunately i think TRP is more populated by people still s…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:59 PM
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I think you have the right approach. I don't think anyone realistically thinks "hmm there are too many people on earth so i won't have kids..." . more likely they probably just don't want the responsibility (which is fine), and they are using the overpopulation reasoning as an excuse for their own personal choices. which i guess in the end is kinda whatever. it's just interesting how many times i've heard this weird arguement that to me feels constructed. Anyways, good for you. I think raising k…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:51 PM
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I feel you are being a bit one-sided. Yes, there are many disadvantages to having a kid. Many risks and responsibilities. And certainly we must be careful in a society that is so unfair to fathers in divorce. But you are not stating any of the benefits of having a child. It can be a very rewarding experience to raise your own child. preparing them for society. teaching them skills like how to build things. going hiking. thinking critically. reading great adventure stories. helping them when they…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:43 PM
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Hear me out on this: I know plenty of funny women. The thing is they are not good at stand-up humor. it's too aggressive. takes too much dominance. It doesn't suit them. It's much better suited to men. I think women are ussually better at subtle social humor especially one on one. I actually really like this humor more "soft" humor. i just wish they would play to their natural strengths and stop trying to do humor that clearly doesn't suit them as well.
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 03:14 PM
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"Can a woman really love you"... I think she can. I agree it can change though. How rapidly is hard to say. And why it may change is unsure as well. But I don't think that means she doesn't really love you when she does. I just can't believe that the experiences I've seen have not been real love. Not just from me but with friends and family. could I be that mistaken? I hope not. I mean, we're all human. women and men. Haha, very interesting about the sugar daddy story! Yeah, totally agree. you d…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:32 AM
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I never said I wanted to love a girl for life. That was kind of my point: I want real love without it being for life. That's the difficulty. I also don't think Disney and TV is the culprit for a theory of life long love being real. I think they have capitalized on it maybe, but we've had life long marriages for many many years before them. I don't know, I don't like your way of looking at love. it makes it sound like a frikn drug I'm taking. it's not a "buzz". I mean, it's an important thing. I …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:16 AM
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Is it really such a weakness to want real love from a woman? Why would you think that is so unattainable? and why would it being a chemical based feeling make it any less real? Perhaps it's a weakness in the sense that I crave delicious well cooked steaks over cheap boiled meat even if the latter provided me with as many nutrients. Meaning, I suppose it would simpler if I did not have such feelings, but I think everyone wants some kind of real connection.. Yes, I want a real connection. I suppos…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 05:32 AM
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30 here. I really like your perspective. I've come to a similar sort of conclusion myself. I find that I enjoy my relationship with a woman who I've developed some history with and real feelings for far more than the small flings. In fact, if I'm being honest with myself I almost don't enjoy those. The difficulty that most men seem to have is not falling fully over the edge and becoming blue pilled again etc. You seem to have a strong enough grasp on your own boundaries and past wisdom to keep t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 04:07 PM
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no need for everyone who doesn't live in china to reply with no... i was more looking for a reply if you DO live in china..
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:55 PM
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can't do at the moment, i got a 2 year contract. already making future plans for a better place, but don't want to wait for 2 years doing nothing...
/r/askTRP26/11/17 04:50 PM
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I'm asking for advice on TRP in Beijing spcefically. It feels like a different enough area that it would warrant some advice. Is this ok? Also, I was hoping to see if someone wanted to meet up possibly in real life, is this allowed? at a public place of course, just don't want to get banned!
/r/askTRP26/11/17 04:14 PM
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deffinetly not the only reason, a good job too (on the high end of teachers for sure! and excelent school). but the women were certainly a strong factor in my decision. the fact is my smv is automatically higher because i am in a poorer country that somewhat idolizes westerners (for better or worse). so i know i need to continue to raise my smv but it helps to be atleast on a level playing field now (i never had much luck eith the women i wanted in the states,..). i hope that doesnt make me shal…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:52 PM
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thanks for the advice. i probably did come across as rather lame sounding in my question. im not sure theres a way to state my problem without sounding hopelessly lame: 'help me sleep with more women'' ... anyways, i dont care how it sounds, it is a biological need i have. i know what your thinking, but i assure u i really am pretty good socially. i think a problem can be that i make friends too quickly rather than stay as the potential boyfriend/lover or whatever (i heditate to use the term fri…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:42 PM
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Thanks for the in depth response! I think you are right, i need to think about what I really want. I think i kind of know, but not really able to implement it yet because of current responsibilities. But i will be graduating very soon and moving for work so things will be put into place soon. Just don't want to rock the boat yet. I love how you sleep with them, and then ussually save sex for morning. That probably helps with performace anxiety too (atleast, it would for me). I also read (part of…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 08:14 PM
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ahh, i see. that makes sense actually. because otherwise you'd probably just get friendzoned.. (experience there!).
/r/askTRP05/07/17 08:04 PM
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huh, that's kind of amazing. friends with benefits. I guess that is exactly what i want, technically. friends, but sex too. because i have plenty of girls who are friends. and i love them. but they never feel jealous when i'm friends with other people. and it doesn't mean i love them less as a friend! good point about not venting with them too. i probably need to make more time with guy friends so i have someone other than my girlfriend to complain with. i know that is a good strategy.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:45 PM
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thinking more about it, i guess i'm afraid of it getting too serious. not sure how to be genuine yet not lie to her. basically, i'm not exactly a typical alpha. most girls who are interested in me take me for a beta, although i'm actually rather independent and strong willed in nature, it's just i do this in a way that comes across very beta. Basically, these girls mistake me for beta, so that's the relationship i get from them and the type of girls i attract; nice girls. not drop dead beauties,…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 10:59 PM
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Yes, maybe it's a blue pill trip. i just started feeling guilty, and wondered if everything i had told my girlfriend about loving her was just a lie if i knew the relationship was meant to be short term. But that's a very good point: "real" (or, maybe more accurately, 'serious' ) relationships are really about creating an environment to raise children (not my goal). And all of the things that I perceive as being about us (becoming close emotionally) are really about the future children (in her m…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 10:47 PM
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i see. so you're saying if i make myself a high-value man then women will be willing to share me? (so long as i don't commit exclusively to them, of course.). I'll need to be clear that I'm not exclusive though i guess.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:48 PM
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Hmmm.. interesting point. I like the idea of being in multiple relationships. except I doubt most women feel the same way... (Alt+11)
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:17 AM
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