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Aw now I feel for you too :( Do you know about the storefront vs salesman theory? Essentially that women advertise themselves to a large audience via storefront: how they look, social media presence, clothes. Passively And men are like salespeople going from door to door. If you are struggling with the sales persona due to anxiety maybe you could develop some type of storefront? That is what I observed with the most successful men I know, yes they did direct sales but a large part of the persuas…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:52 AM
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Yes but don’t you think that usually gets you used and discarded at the speed of light?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:44 AM
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Oh I am one too actually. I found it helped get some interest especially from extroverts who tend to need some immediate hook in order to get interested in you. Got over my fear of social media and made an art instagram and a website and essentially I noticed the people I met kind of proudly referenced it almost, like they were happy to be associated with me because of it
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:38 AM
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No fap, more work, hobbies and groups
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:35 AM
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Men also don’t like that type in women in real life if it makes you feel any better. Maybe try to let your work speak for you? Write a blog, book, do a podcast, do art, do a public project. I mean there are many ways to project what is inside of you to the outside not only dialogue
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:34 AM
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Because that is not a woman thing. It is a people thing
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:31 AM
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Yeah this is why we need a sex license
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:28 AM
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Typical defensive male
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:27 AM
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It is not that women like bad boys. It is that highly desired people get away with more things. It is human nature to get high on power and start to behave worse and worse.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:26 AM
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„Get laid“ = so you are wanting sympathy for not having enough ‚success‘ in harming, exploiting and traumatizing a group of people for your ego ? Why do you even need to do that in the first place
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:25 AM
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High Intent + low attachment = is the non needy way of wanting and successfully creating a relationship. High Intent + High attachment = needy
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:22 AM
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Newsflash: Short term mating DOESN‘T EXIST. Since the advent of reliable birth control mating success criteria has changed for men. The wording used is entirely wrong. Short term mating does not lead to mating. It is a blinking dopamine driven slot machine where men who try to do it based on an old instinct are genetically DYING because they fail to adapt and realize they are not mating. The feeling of success is an empty shadow of an antiquated instinct that was useful in the past but is not an…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:20 AM
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Yes actually agree. I think though also red pill „solutions“ are making things worse. I don’t see redpill teaching guys to pick better. They pick worse and then act surprised and generalize all women. The real solution is to be less shallow when selecting a mate. But instead they teach skyhigh „standards“ essentially making men hypergamous. Then they get cheated on, are not loved, only a utility, with a shallow narcissist etc. Or they create a „roster“ and then wonder why the relationship is bad…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:10 AM
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You cannot do anything, just cut losses, protect your mental health
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:04 AM
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„Be the nastiest, sluttiest whore“ and chase the high value guy in order to be picked. Okay Orion. That works for you guys right? Marriage material
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:03 AM
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They want to turn these girls into something else to feel alpha. They don’t actually want to keep them or keep them that way silly
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:01 AM
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I think it is the externalization of their self esteem. They need the ideal (paper consensus of other men) product to prove their worth. So rejecting the other products increases their feelings of self worth. They perceive the world to be pushing faulty products onto them, because in their mind the world doesn’t understand how alpha and valuable they are. They confuse chance and market dynamics as feminists ‚pushing’ certain women into them. That is also why they hate single moms. Verbally rejec…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/24 07:30 AM
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Using the default value "nice" as a selling poitnt in dating is trying to bank on the abusiveness of other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:13 AM
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I always assumed the greater inclination to protect women vs men was based on the possibility of pregancy. Pure stonecold logic. But ofc men have to make everything about them and their little feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:26 PM
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He will go back no matter what to push his ego and see how many he can get. You are still assuming there is any level of logic attached to their behaviour in the sense that you can influence it. They don't care if they are in a happy relationship. It is a thought the'd rather not have, postpone or push aside to continue being on the lookout. The fact he already got you renders you boring in his mind no matter how long it took. Men on dating apps are addicted to novelty. Their primitive instinct …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:52 PM
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YES. Being nice to men can literally get you pregnant, STDs, make you sterile (chlamydia when they think they can cheat on you), make you poor (pay stuff while his lifestyle is way more expensivethan yours, pay his rent so he can save up for the next woman), beaten up or even get you killed. It can also make your kids traumatized. Because most men do👏not👏 care👏about👏others. Their prime focus is their little peepee and little ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:59 PM
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I actually like incels in the way that they are at least honest. F-boys are the most dishonest species of people known to man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:47 PM
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I'd advise against dating white men who have a string of gfs or hookups with foreign women who don't speak the same language. They tend to objectify and be abusive. They also tend to like the uneven power. Also often they leverage an exotic feature they have to these women (like blue eyes) and behave way more entitled than their actual attractiveness would justify. They will behave like a princess you have to chase and attempt to not commit and play Roman emperor. It will be bizarre and you will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:15 AM
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This is a really good article detailing the ages men are most likely to marry and why: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.today.com/today/amp/tdna74671 For very educated men the high commitment phase (where they are most likely to marry) is mid to end 30s. For high school dropouts it is true, the high commitment phase will be early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:26 AM
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Childbirth doesn't even make you loose. It is just a myth perpetuated by men. If they stitch you, you may very well end up being tighter than before or even so tight it gets uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:59 AM
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It is easy for all attractive people to get more offers yes. It is true that females get more offers overall as well. My point was the huge number of offers, in my case, was irrelevant, as I was only going after peoole who were still 'difficult' peoole to attain based on their attractiveness/status etc. The conclusion of op is: having a lot of people interested in you = having an easy time. My conclusion based on my case is: A huge amount of offers =/= having an easy time. As I am not going for …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/22 09:03 AM
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You respect 'someone' who displays good virtue? But in your initial post you say you respect the men regardless of what they do.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 04:55 PM
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My ex 'won' Chlamydia by being a senseless fucktoy to women who gave 0 fucks about him. I have 20000 Tinder likes on my phone. Yet the only times I actually had casual relations with someone were people deemed by society as extremely high value. 0.1% of society successful. Realistically speaking I still 'won' compared to him as I was dealing only with desirable people who were difficult to attain for any woman and I did this with nothing. No money spent no extreme effort other than mental effort…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 04:52 PM
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Yesterday I was swiping on Tinder and I wondered why suddenly all men were appearing unappealing and dull/ugly. Then I realized I accidentally set my filter to 36-37. I promptly set it back to 26 to 31 and was relieved as suddenly sexually attractive guys re-appeared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:31 PM
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This is really not true, I would only have sex with someone who I am attracted to. The standards for a longterm partner are way higher than for a one time thing. Also in looks. The person would have to really be my type. Also men who had a lot of hookups are shit in bed and have 0 self awareness about it. They just move on so quickly from one woman to the next who fake scream as soon as he touches them. They rarely actually give women any pleasure in bed. Sex with a 'womanizer' type was usually …
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:15 PM
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'Being wiling to fuck you and not spend time with you' TRANSLATION: I am willing to impregnate you have you spend 100k to 250k, 20 years of your life and all of your free time on my offspring while I cannot reply to your text more than once per year. (And run your health, social relationships and life aspirations into the ground because the only thing your life is worth to me is you being a slave to my sperm.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:16 AM
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"Based on characteristics"!!??? - How could they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:09 PM
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I can attest to that. My nvm ex kept my stuff in his house after I moved out for months and wouldn't return it. I later found out that he kept a STICK BEHIND THE DOOR TO HIT ME IN CASE I SHOW UP TO COLLECT MY STUFF! He is Mr. Niceguy from Barcroft's book. Professional victim. Made his friends believe I abused him so that he can have an EXCUSE for attacking me. All a plan.THIS is the reality of a lot of 'nice' males. Passive aggressive, cowardly, evil and without honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:10 PM
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I wait 24-26 hours and then block. I blocked musicians, celebrities and a guy who looks like Benedict Cumberbatch. I also block when they give an attitude. It has saved my mental health and allowed me to focus on work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:54 AM
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I hate these lvm. I hate society for allowing this anarchy. I hate the legal system for REFUSING to make CRIMES against women actually ILLEGAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:39 AM
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My ex had a pickme from tinder dress up in lingerie all the time upon his request and just came like a dog when he whistled with lingerie to get blinfolded, copulated with and then sent home. This is sad for both genders. Sad for her and sad for the damaged men experiencing free prostitution and then being so desensitized that they can never appreciate their future gf or wife anymore. How are you going to make a damaged male like this happy. How can you have a wedding night. Everything is just n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:29 PM
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Relationships actually mutilate women's bodies. Literally rip them apart. Why do men still need us to pay their rent? What is wrong with them? I really don't understand. So they have more money to cheat and impress the next woman? Don't they have any humanity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:59 AM
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I saw this with my ex partner who did this to me aswell as with a lv ex who did this to a previous partner. This is not a coincidence. My only takeaway: NEVER imply that you COULD maybe be okay with poly or an open relationship EVER. Never say anything mild, neutral, accepting or positive about it. Lv men WILL use this one vague sentence of you to cheat on you rampant because they will remain QUIET about it but rationalize that it is 'okay' for you. That you have an 'agreement', that you 'don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:46 AM
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Them getting someone pregnant is a punishment and them being disrespectful. Not a sign of love. That they will fuck anything. Being sexually attractive to them is not a goal you need to attain. That you should never cook or clean for them unless married with prenup. That I should go to the police as soon as one of them misbehaves. That they would do the same if they were in our position. And most important: Don't tell men about your trauma. They will just try to one-up your abuser by doing more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 12:29 AM
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In todays world you can have 130+ IQ, be an international supermodel, be the sweetest person to them or dedicate your life to caring for them. And they will still make you a single mom with the speed of light. This is why I am supressing my wish for a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:05 PM
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He was probably getting it on the side. Many of these 'asexual' men do, then claim sex ""doesn't matter"", and then starve you for sex and attention bc you remain loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:52 PM
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Pursing of the lip when I asked after 2 months if he is still seeing other people. Yes he was and proceeded to cheat with 10 women in 6 months. Otherwise great communicator, confident, empathetic and extremely warm and caring. The lip purse struck me as odd then and I even researched what it means. We really need to LEAVE at any and every sign of incongruency. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 09:08 AM
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They counted his first baby in (which sadly passed), I think. His children are from his first wife and his girlfriend Grimes, the 2nd wife did not have children with him. Still unacceptable. Why is it even legal to impregnate someone without marrying them. They should get fined for that, it is so disrespectful and I am sure they themsevles see it as a sign of open disrespect. Even if the woman says she chooses not to get married it is just convenient for them and allows them to run freely throwi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:10 PM
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Bet they don't have an anonymous tip line for rape perpetrators, runaway dads who ghost their child and sexual harassers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:21 PM
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Signs that I noticed in myself and society that I realized in hindsight should have made me wary of birthing a child: You enjoy being alone (This is a nightmate if the father leaves you, you will have a child glued onto you 24/7 7 days a week with no escape.) You are very intelligent and are easily bored by low level things like childrens books and playing with young kids who cannot articulate themselves. How would you feel now if you did these things the whole day? That is the same way you will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:19 AM
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I would not advise dating a Single father: Fathers who abandon their children are a population with a higher percentage of domestic violence perpetrators and mental illness sufferers. Many get someone pregnant on purpose to then leave. Society allows them today instead of putting them in prison. Male birth control and choices are never going to solve the issue. There is no instance where men are being forced into parenthood on a large scale. Quite the opposite. They force women into it by using …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:33 AM
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Same with my manlet ex who I started seeing out of pity and HVM sharade: 15 year age gap, he was 43. He said he now felt entitled to date a woman like me (looks/age) and cannot be satisfied with anything else now. I vomited in my mouth a little. He also pretends like it is oh so easy for his 60+ year old also ahort das to find a new girlfriend 30 years younger. Pure entitlement. They will never be grateful! Dont give them that and show them their place. They cannot compute that you are doing the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:52 PM
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