| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 329 | Men Who "Don't Know What They Want" | LIES MEN TELL | RacePinkBlack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 147 | Reminder: You Can Do Bad All by Yourself | NAH, SIS | RacePinkBlack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | If You Have to Confirm Plans, Cancel Them Instead.If he says he’ll meet you at “X-ish” time, This is my biggest pet peeve EVER! I'm glad I'm not the only person for whom this is a deal breaker. I need a precise time!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWhat is everyone's ingredients for their own lip exfoliator? I was thinking brown sugar, honey, and argan oil. I know argan oil is dangerous when swallowed so I'm not sure if that is necessary to include. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 117 | Not All Men..YOOO the end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InWhat tips do you have for women traveling alone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InI worked in an office like this. One of the directors had three different administrative assistants within three years. The work environment was toxic. I was so happy to be gone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 07:17 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Check-InI hope your grandma ran ! she didn't ;-/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 45 | Weekly FDS Check-InI need to tell a story. When I was about 11 years old my grandma, her boyfriend, and I were at a diner in Alabama. Her boyfriend asked his coffee be brought out with his meal. The server brought out his coffee before his meal. I'm assuming she thought his food would be ready soon after and it just didn't happen. I don't think she was terribly early either. Anyway when he saw her again, on God, he grabbed her by her arm and said in a stern voice: "I asked that my coffee be brought along with my m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InDid the invisalign hurt? I need to get braces in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inNo. I'm about to cut her off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inY'all my pick-me parent asked me to take out a $100,000 loan for the house. '-_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 94 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inThis is a comment from another subreddit. It got 76 likes and gilded for a reason: -- I'll be honest, I used to pursue men a lot more because "feminism" but when I realized it wasn't serving me well I stopped. The issue with women pursuing is that society has already conditioned many men to believe if they don't pursue, they'll never get dates/sex. Everytime I've "pursued" a guy I've been into first, it's been someone where I'm not really their ideal type but they'll try anyway because women pur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI'm getting a $1,500 bonus from my job due to COVID-19! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI just joined that subreddit. I hang out a lot at justnofamily . They gave me lots of good advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InBeing her usual emotionally-abusive, shit-starting, pick-me self. She has stated that I have planned to commit homicide. Some of her friends have warned her that she needs to have eyes in the back of her head because she doesn't know "what I'll do."-- She is 85 and her health is rapidly declining. 3 out of her 4 kids do not talk to her. The remaining talks to her sparingly. She cannot live with them. She refuses assisted living due to expense. She has of value things she can sell such as a house… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI told my grandma I'm moving out. As I suspected, she is trying to sabotage my plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWould it be okay to walk away from a first date if the guy lies about his height? Absolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 33 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InIs it cause nobody told them no growing up? This is anecdotal but I've seen this with my brother. Not only did parents enable his bad behavior, but his current wife also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 80 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI'm leveling up and I can't tell my pick-me mother because she'll sabotage my efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThis is...telling and definitely supports the fact most men are there for sex no matter what their written intent is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 71 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleyou turn them down, you can’t go to prom. what the entire fuck. This is just awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:53 PM |
| 18 | I finally tossed out my Valentine's bouquet and after noticing that, my partner came over with a replacement bouquet - of my favourite colours! Always something bright to look forward to 💐These are so pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah the mother I'm referring to is actually my biological grandmother who adopted me. She was in an abusive marriage. She was pregnant at 16 and she literally had no other options. I think we will get along much better once I leave because in her defense her situation was really shitty. Not to mention Jim Crow and all the other racism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah this is the level of pickme my mother is on. '-_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThe post FDS resentment I have for my low value mother is insane. Only two more months until I move out of the house! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYour username made me laugh out loud ROFL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inY'all come look at this bullshit https://imgur.com/a/Ud8FoFg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI'm so sorry. -hugs- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 5 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.Great content, OP! I needed this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 32 | I had a date tonight...ROI is too low. THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI hope we are on the backend of the pandemic. I am an extroverted person who loves going out and this has just been awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inY'all, I am it, I am the fucking one. I have been working 12-14 hour days for 3 months non stop. 2 jobs, 18 credit hours with an A in every class, making dinner every night, keeping my house clean, taking care of my cat and plants. I SEE YOU SIS! #Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!LOL I had to read this twice! bAhahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 7 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I had to cut off LV family members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousThe most frustrating thing about this is how accurate it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?Multi-level marketing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 54 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveeven if they look like Quasimodo’s long lost identical twin and have the hygiene of a sewer rat. Great post but this part had me rolling LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 60 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?BAHAHAHAHAA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:21 AM |
| 57 | If he’s not making you feel like this in bed, dump himLMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 181 | Reddit is out of their minds. Her husband hit her and the comments are telling her it's okay because she said something rude to him.This is only going to escalate. The children will internalize this as normal. He'll probably calm down for a while then the cycle of abuse will start soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 34 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedRight?! I know of men who are actually similar in this regard '-_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 26 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedOh my fucking goodness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 82 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️LOL I actually laughed out loud at this. The only thing is I would never sleep with my laptop on my bed. I sleep wild so it'd definitely fall on the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManThank you so much for writing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 21 | SpyI also like how they cast a fat woman to be one of the main characters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 25 | Another heartbreaking sub- Waiting_to_wedAnother example from somethingsomethingover30: https://imgur.com/a/9G2EsVU https://imgur.com/a/NRYYNxK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020OP I sent you a private message but I do want to add that you should not take the advice of men on the foreveralone sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:56 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020https://imgur.com/a/t2eK1UW Woman and boyfriend initially agree to get married then purchase a home. Boyfriend changes mind and woman agrees to a house purchase without a ring. Found in a sub for those over 30. Ladies this is a disaster waiting to happen. I have never owned a home but I have heard nothing but horror stories about bf/gf home purchases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020https://imgur.com/a/hC0e7yg Oh my goodness. Backstory: woman is dating a man who “isn’t sure what he wants” and wants to know if she should stick around. Found in somethingsomethingover30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ewvo6e/as_requested_a_medical_professional_explains_why/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Comments will probably still be helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020After Tennessee, we were never on our own on a date, she was always included. Hikes? With her! Dinner dates? At her place... The icing on the cake is that he's moving in with her too (different rooms but still). I have never seen such audacity. Sorry you went through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 09:27 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I am a newbie too but personally I am freaked out by this. When you said "He pushes" that was the final nail in the coffin. Watch him carefully sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I have seen several posts in the past couple of weeks at datingoverthirty where the MAN asks a woman out and she declines. Then the man will ask some stupid ass fucking question like “She told me no should I ask her out again on Instagram?” Fucking hell!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:46 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020What do you all use to run your background checks? I do not mind paying money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 37 | This is how you should treat a guy who cancels just two hours before and treats you as a second option for a first date 👋🏼😊Which type of cuisine does this restaurant serve? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 18 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I wouldn’t be interested in interracial dating in the PNW, the Midwest, or anywhere where the black population is less than 15%. Why? Because it increases the novelty of being black. It means men from there are less likely to have known another black person in a meaningful way and as such, As someone who has grown up in predominantly white cities where the black population has been less than 10%, it is tortuous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 99 | This tweet sums up nicely why bending over backwards to please men, exhibiting PickMe behaviour and tolerating LV behaviour never pays off.I'm in this photo and I don't like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020I got back from my staycation this past weekend and I feel so re-charged. These will become a regular part of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:51 PM |
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