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| 2 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.I’m sure you’ll get much better results than me No don't worry I'm a sore loser. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.I'm less good looking and almost 190 what's the deal 🥲🤣 | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.I always gave him tips on what he was doing wrong but he could never “get” it. Do you think it might have had more to do with how he looked? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.It's probably more so to do with looks. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyA little pro tip : try to get “with those” just to practice game and how to have flirtatious conversations, deep conversations, how to toggle between topics, how to escalate the relationship to a sexual one. Bro, I was so fucking naive. Like that last girl that was really into me (she wasn't hot but she was a cutie), I'm pretty sure she wanted to get engaged but all she said was let's be in a relationship.. but since i knew she meant get engaged I didn't say yes and I even avoided going on a dat… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyOh you're from Morocco. Similar boat but I'm from Egypt which is arguably worse. Shit is really hard here. But I know some people do well here which makes me feel worse about it. I basically don't get anything. I've had one or two opportunities maybe (for LTR) but I wasn't very interested (not for an ltr with those). | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What are some conversation shifters to “raise sexual tension”Following. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?And we're talking about dating or hookups? Because if you're also looking to hookup... 🤷 | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?How about paid photoshoots? | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 11:13 AM |
| 0 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I’m talking hot girls that are friends with your buddy’s gf, hot girls on you beer league volleyball team, girl at a party you’re at, etc. Oh. Makes sense. Not sure how to get more of these. Guessing it needs some really good social skills. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?Well shit... | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Interesting if true. I just feel when I see a pretty girl that I never match with that on dating apps.. why should I expect any good by talking to her? I hope it's true but Idk. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I feel like real life might literally just be a reflection of OLD. question. If women have to lower their standards irl why won't they just keep to OLD to find matches? | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | First cold approach after LTRHaha thanks mate, good luck out there! | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | First cold approach after LTRHahahaha congrats on the approach man, and I'm probably stealing that line 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Do women have higher standards than men?Lesbians are still women after all. He's trying to say the supply/demand ratio is the same so it shouldn't really matter what their gender is since that's what influences women to be picky (and would influence men as well if they were in the same shoes). | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Why so hard despite being attractive?You're conflating too different things. Looks being important and you affording to be picky. Looks are just as important to women as they are to men. Men just can't afford to be as picky and are more easily aroused by a wider range of women. This can actually sometimes make it seem like looks are less important for men. Men care less about personality and a woman's wit because they can't afford to really be picky about that. If men had 100s of options at any given moment they'd afford to be more… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:41 AM |
| 6 | Why so hard despite being attractive?looks aren't that important to women, Yes they absolutely are. You need personality too though, but to illustrate with numbers, 2 points of personality are needed to make up for 1 point of looks. And vice versa. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:12 AM |
| -7 | Why so hard despite being attractive?Looking attractive is part of being attractive and tbh i think it's most of it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Got ghosted what should i do??Depends on how she ghosted you and how many times you sent her after she stopped responding. If she says hi, and opens up a conversation I'd say engage a little bit then bring up the conversation yall had over text. Say you were thinking of asking if she was down to do whatever (drinks, food etc) but "you never got back back me". Don't make it seem like it was a big deal for you and like you only bought it up because you remembered when she started talking to you. I feel in this manner it's tota… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 07:44 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?Idk the answer to your question but I wanted to comment on something. It's way easier to approach someone alone then in a group. I can't imagine how it would be the opposite for anyone. That just baffles me. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badSo in all aspects it's gotten better and easier for women and harder for men. Well that's just great. Thanks for the heads up. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:15 AM |
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