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I think it is FDS aligned. I think it is a good book for any woman who has found FDS. You can not only understand your attachment style, you can also understand the attachment style of your partner or your past partners, to find patterns. I do think people can get too involved in the attachment styles and justify the poor behavior their partner is doing in the relationship. Personally I find it helps to understand the other person, but let's say for example you are Anxious preoccupied and your p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:43 PM
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I love this haha. Man-Go. 🤣🤣🤣 Mangos are my 2nd favorite fruit lol. This made me want to get some mangoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:47 PM
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Holy shit! She was shushed during probably one of the most painful moments of her life... Giving birth to YOUR child? I would of have flipped and divorced his ass if that were me. The audacity! Men will NEVER know how painful childbirth is, so they have no right to tell us to "shush" when we are giving birth to their kids. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:35 PM
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You dodged a bullet. 💖 It's okay to have a preference. No one has to date a person with autism, however how he reacted was completely disrespectful and it shouldn't of have been said in that way. I have autism so if a guy outright acted that way with me, I wouldn't see him again and I would move on. You'll find someone who will accept your family. This guy should of have just said you guys were incompatible and just moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:59 PM
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Me too sis. 🙋 I was strung along for 5 years. Kept as the FWB option. Then I was dropped like a hot potato for his dream girl which he had to chase and he committed to her. 🤦 Never again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:31 AM
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Yes and when we do approach them and believe that Libfem Kool Aid we just get rejected and the Men aren't attracted to us, and they drop us like the hot potato for the dreamgirl that he had to chase and work for that wouldn't give him the time of day. 😒🙄 Been there. Done that. Got burned everytime. Nah sis....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:20 AM
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Oh God. Malu sounds like a pick me... Sweetie, he's not a "nice dude." 💁🙄 Hopefully she will learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:56 PM
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This is so wholesome! Men please take notes. 💕 Oh man. I'm hoping I can find a man like him. That is so sweet. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:58 PM
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Most likely unresolved trauma. :c
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:03 PM
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BDSM is basically consensual abuse. 🤦 How do people not realize this and why is this so popular? 🙄🙃 I used to be into dominance and submission back in my pickmeisha days, and with only my ex FWB. I loved being submissive. I never really got into the whole BDSM part of it. Even in my pick me days I didn't like the idea of being choked, slapped, beaten, etc. But now the whole idea makes me sick so I never will be getting into that again. I never really looked into it as "consensual abuse" but from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:31 PM
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Of my collection? Sure! I'd love to. 🐾❤ I have loved that movie since I was 13 maybe 14? That movie got me through bullying in school. I have been obsessed with the movie for years. I feel like the movie made me accept my autism because I could relate to the character. I was an outcast. Nice to know other people loved this movie too. ❤ Steele was such a Narcissist haha. This movie needs more love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:36 AM
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I have been wanting to get back into drawing. I might go and draw tonight, while watching Cars 3 lol. I kinda might add something to my Balto collection since I have a little extra side money. 💅🐾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:43 PM
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Yes... Let's blame women for everything... 🙄🤦 Typical Scrote logic. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:07 AM
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Yes you can. :) 50% of people with Autism also have ADHD. I had no idea either until I was also diagnosed with ADHD. Nice to see other aspies (or people on the spectrum) in here. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:04 AM
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Me! 🙋 I am autistic and have ADHD. Happy to have you here. 💕 Glad you saw your worth. FDS is a great place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:05 AM
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Lmaooo I just saw this on my Facebook feed today. It's true af. 🤣😂🤣😂 I am so glad I found this subreddit. I feel myself becoming more secure by the day. This subreddit has been a Godsend to me. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:46 PM
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Lmaooo I just saw this on my Facebook feed today. It's true af. 🤣😂🤣😂 I am so glad I found this subreddit. I feel myself becoming more secure by the day. This subreddit has been a Godsend to me. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:45 PM
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Dump👏His👏Ass!👏 This dude legit is a narcissist and an emotional abuser. The Silent Treatment is a textbook sign of narcissistic abuse. If I were her that shit wouldn't be flying and I'd divorce his ass. Boy, Byee. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:02 AM
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Oooh thanks! I have been wanting this book. I should get a copy. 🐾 I loved his other two books. He's Just Not That Into You and It's Called A Break up because it is broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:21 AM
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He's just not that into you, right? I thought I have seen this somewhere lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:49 PM
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Yeah. Lol Hopefully she will wake up. I hate that men will bitch about women being so entitled. 🙄 No dude. You're projecting. Men act way more entitled than women do. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:54 PM
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The Audacity. 😒🤦 His Finacee is probably a pickmeisha. 😐🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:48 PM
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What the heck did I just see? 😐🤢 She's freaking pregnant! Smh. That woman is probably his girlfriend or wife. The audacity. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:00 PM
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We also need more posts here in regards to attachment theory! In regards to strategy and stuff. I forgot to add that in my last comment. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:00 PM
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I would love to see more of: ~ Green Flag posts in regards to HVM and how to find one. ~ Level up posts on how to become a HVW. ~ Red Flags on how to Avoid LVM. How to avoid relationships that do not benefit you. ~ More posts about the male mind and psychology so we can understand how men really think and break the myths that we believed for many years. ~ More strategy posts. 💕💅 I would like to see less of: ~ Reposts. ~ Low Quality memes. ~ Redpill/MGTOW/Incels/PUA complaining posts. I think tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:05 PM
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Yes! We need this. I think it would be useful for the new comers as well. I am trying to currently study the male mindset and psycology. I want to understand men. I feel like part of my past pickmeism was due to me not understanding that men are different than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:25 AM
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I'm in agreement on that one. We need more posts about HVM. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:18 AM
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I used to believe that lie. 😒 (I was considered low maintenance.) Lmaooo what a crock of shit. Men are lying. Men don't like to admit it but they love high maintenance women. No matter how much they say they don't. They do. That's the kind of women they wind up with anyways. 💅 I am striving to become high maintenance. Ladies, it is okay to be high maintenance and don't let any scrote neg you for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:51 AM
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I love her videos! I will have to check this one out. I have learned so much about narcissism from watching her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:58 PM
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My ex claimed to be brutally honest. 😐 In the end he was anything but.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:49 AM
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I am a fearful-avoidant, trying to become more secure and this article is so helpful! I just realized that my LVM ex FWB fit most of these. 😬 I also found another article on there similar to this one. Only, about what she did to become securely attached. I bookmarked that and will be following that. 💅💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:43 PM
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THIS! I agree with you 100%. Man I wish I knew this sooner. I wasted 5 years of my life on my LVM ex FWB because he just wouldn't commit to me. It was always one excuse after another to why he couldn't commit. 😐 "I am not ready for a relationship right now." "I am too damaged." "I just don't have the time to date." "I never want to date or marry. It's just not my thing." "I don't do long distance relationships." And the worst one: "I see you as a very close friend and honestly, that's just about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:49 PM
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I follow this religiously now. I used to be in denial back in my pick me days, but this is so true. If he doesn't show he's interested and isn't putting in effort, he's just not that into you. NEXT! I will never waste my energy on a scrote who shows absolutely no interest in me. If he ain't chasing me, then I am moving on. You can't make a man love or commit to you. I love this quote. I am happy for FDS this subreddit has woke me up to the truth. 💅💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:26 PM
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Savage. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:21 PM
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1.) Empathy 2.) Ambition 3.) Respectful. There is probably way more than that but this post asked for 3 things. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:41 PM
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How do you ladies feel about "The Rules For Marriage?" I've been skeptical on reading it. I am not sure if it aligns with FDS. 🤔 I do love The Rules (books 1 and 2) and Not Your Mothers Rules. Apparently they also have The Rules For Online Dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:09 PM
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Put - Him - Back Artistry? Dead. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:39 PM
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Right. I agree with you 100%. I was caught off guard by it because he did treat his female relatives well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:55 AM
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This post is handbook worthy! 💕 I am a mix between the Childhood wound pick me (Fearful Avoidant here.) And the Bored pick me. Trying to make more friends with women. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:46 PM
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Oddly, my ex FWB loved his mom and sister and thought the world of the both of them, treated them well... However he still wound up treating me like shit and kinda had hatred subtly towards women. But he was kinda a cynic and was burned quite a few times. (Not that I believe that.) But I guess there can be exceptions to the rule. I thought I would add in my two cents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:23 PM
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He sounds like a narcissist. You dodged a bullet. My advice is to keep yourself busy with friends and hobbies. Do what you enjoy. Lots of self care. 💕💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:48 PM
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I love forensic files! I watch it pretty often. To educate myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:36 PM
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That Don't Impress Me Much - Shania Twain Idk why that song isn't in the Spotify playlist lol. I think it fits well with "Any Man Of Mine."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:07 PM
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Interesting. Thank you so much for the link. I shall research further. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:06 AM
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Hold up. Gallbladder disease? It can cause gallbladder disease? I was on the birth control pill in 2017. In 2019 I had my Gallbladder removed. 2 years after getting off the pill. 🤔 I am unsure 100% if the pill contributed to it directly, since I started having issues in 2015. (I didn't know it was my Gallbladder yet at the time.) But it did seem like the pill might of made the disease worse. But it's an interesting theory. I was 20 when I had mine removed. Though there was extensive family histo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:25 PM
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My Dad was 23 when I was born, but I still had autism. I guess there are exceptions to the rule. But my dad is autistic too so that's probably why I got it. I do agree with you though. I just thought I'd add that I was an exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:57 PM
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I have PCOS but I never want to take BC ever again because it really messed up my body the first time I took it. It gave me a breast cancer scare at 19 years old. Never again. I'll just manage my PCOS through diet. It's sad that these pills have so many terrible side effects for so many of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:54 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:10 PM
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Damn. I better pick up that book again then. I must of have completely missed that when I was reading. I will have to reread that book after I am done reading the rest of "Cats Don't Chase Dogs." I read "Power Of The Pussy" after I read "Why Men Love/Marry Bitches". I was new to FDS and was reading the book list in the handbook, which was how I found Power Of The Pussy. 😅 Yeah. 😬 I don't think I'd ever do that. That would give me an unneeded infection that I don't need lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:10 PM
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Woo! We did it! Here's to several hundred thousands more lol. 🎉 FDS has been an absoulte life saver for me. I'm a recovering pickmeisha who discovered this subreddit at the very beginning of 2020. I've been a lurker for nearly a year now but I have learned so much! It has changed my life and I woke up to the truth. I dumped my LVM ex fwb and did a lot of work to improve my life. I don't miss my pick me past one bit. 💅 I have self respect and I love myself and I never want to settle ever again. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:04 PM
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Preach! 💅👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:42 PM
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