RacistsCallMeRacist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	For men who have "given up" for longer than a year, how is your life now? Was it the correct choice?		RacistsCallMeRacist	/r/AllPillDebate	25/09/23 01:12 AM
1	MonastaryNet - A Monk's to Dating		RacistsCallMeRacist	/r/AllPillDebate	25/09/23 01:15 AM

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–	You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted) 80/20 is a gross exaggeration of the very real result you get when you combine male variability theory with female hypergamy. You get the reality that there has almost always been a much larger tier of untouchable omega males than females. Begs the question that the mods want toavoid being discussed: what do we do with the irrecoverable omegas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 06:55 PM
2	“Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].” If they find you attractive, they'll make it easy to approach.If you're getting no such signals, well, that says something about you, doesn't it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 11:41 PM
1	If a man does not have the Hero Instinct, then what? I am way too selish to be afflicted with Hero Instinct. For me, it's both nature and nuture. I was born a loner and that was further promoted by all my unattractive traits that led me to be ignored. In addition, reciprocity is key. As an omega male, I expect no help and will give none except to a small group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 12:51 AM
2	It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years. I think there are a category of people who this does not apply to. (So I suppose you could say that the exception proves the rule!) The omega males, those that will never have partners in their entire lives, ought to spend their time excelling in their studies as they have no chance at sexual relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 12:43 AM
–	Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships? 99% I have my doubts about this: "At some point they would realize their collective power and likely galvanize." I don't think there will ever be a "losers unite" movement, but the losers might be attracted to some demagogue. I wonder what happens to losers when they dont get killed off. What becomes of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 01:15 AM
2	Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships? What happens if the incell rate gets too high? And what is "too high"? Can you give me an example of a situation where too many incells are/were present?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:41 PM
4	Has Red Pill Advice Worked at all? It'll be ok. I know you just got poked in a sensitive spot but consider accepting what you are, and redefine your expectations around that truth. Trying to be a winner when you are a loser is the most frustrating experience imaginable. So don’t try to be a winner. Instead, realize that even though you are a loser, accept the fact that you will have to work 10 times harder than winners to make half the progress. Be ok with that. Stop comparing yourself to other people and focus on what you can do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:14 PM
7	Has Red Pill Advice Worked at all? Absolutely! I found the single most important thing for a lifetime recluse is to establish a healthy, everyday rhythm. Having a purpose-driven existence is paramount to happiness as a solitary person. Here is an example: http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_5510710 Now, this was someone in a much worse situation than a merely lonely, solitary individual, and yet he managed to get through his day, everyday, and wring some measure of enjoyment out of the most meager social gruel. Now consider the pli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 04:58 PM
3	Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age. Thx 4 having my back!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:48 PM
1	i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up women Nope. Looks/height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:22 PM
28	Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age. As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo tribeless virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description. For me, work, some travel, taking care of my parents, writing and reading. 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 02:44 AM
1	is it just me or the blackpill is going mainstream now? There's another step. ⚪️ Truly give up, perhaps assisted by advancing age. You don't even think about it anymore. You don't post anywhere about it. White flag.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/09/23 04:58 PM
1	As a lesbian, I sympathize with men This account. Hmm.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/09/23 06:05 PM
24	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Many women apparently thought it was difficult, at least in my case, as I am an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo tribeless virgin with a microphallis. I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:22 PM
3	"A lot of men are not desirable." Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not? Years ago, a poster on Usenet with the mysterious name of "Coats" had a more elaborate scheme that I think was spot-on: "There are roughly nine major factors that could lead a man to being unable to meet a compatible woman. The Physical Factors: 1) Disability (Fairly obvious. For example, over 80% of spinal cord injury victims never marry.) 2) Height (Study after study has determined shorter men are less likely to marry, date, etc.) 3) Unattractiveness (Rarely studied outside of empirical observ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 02:12 AM
1	The insults 50+ khhv here. I found the single most important thing for a lifetime recluse is to establish a healthy, everyday rhythm. Having a purpose-driven existence is paramount to happiness as a solitary person. Here is an example: http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_5510710 Now, this was someone in a much worse situation than a merely lonely, solitary individual, and yet he managed to get through his day, everyday, and wring some measure of enjoyment out of the most meager social gruel. Now consider the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 05:01 PM
7	"You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomers 50+ khhv here. I found the single most important thing for a lifetime recluse is to establish a healthy, everyday rhythm. Having a purpose-driven existence is paramount to happiness as a solitary person. Here is an example: http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_5510710 Now, this was someone in a much worse situation than a merely lonely, solitary individual, and yet he managed to get through his day, everyday, and wring some measure of enjoyment out of the most meager social gruel. Now consider the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 05:00 PM
0	CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. Some. I think many such low value men don't overestimate their attractiveness, however, but rather simply can't summon the desire to approach comparable women. They just aren't attracted to them. Just because someone's a 2 doesn't mean they want a 2, or will even settle for one. They'll just stay alone. The whiners in that group then make themselves known here. The one's who accept their lot stay silent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 01:27 AM
0	CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. "Many men overrate their own attractiveness..." And many don't. Check out the FA pages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 12:06 AM
1	Pure (and deficient) gaslighting: "It's not about him being an evil man. The key is his self-confidence." Look, I know you just got poked in a sensitive spot but consider accepting what you are, and redefine your expectations around that truth. Trying to be a winner when you are a loser is the most frustrating experience imaginable. So don’t try to be a winner. Instead, realize that even though you are a loser, accept the fact that you will have to work 10 times harder than winners to make half the progress. Be ok with that. Stop comparing yourself to other people and focus on what you can do to cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:34 PM
2	“Some people have nothing to offer” So do I.	/r/AllPillDebate	23/08/23 01:57 AM
–	CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaints "What we desire in a man when we are 20 is different when we get to 30, 40, 50, and older." But what they don't want seems to stay the same over the decades. As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description. This has not changed over my entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 02:29 AM
15	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world Does he lift his therapist in the shower?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 05:02 PM
–	CMV: Red pill is dangerous for autistic men As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, autistic, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description. So the Red Pill realization that I was forever alone was driven home to me early and thank the Flying Spaghetti Monster it was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 04:55 PM
2	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching Hearing the answer so plainly spoken is pleasing. It confirms nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:01 PM
2	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching Um, actually... this is a great answer. It is THE answer. You might be surprised at the lengths people will go to avoid saying it in an effort to be "polite."	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 06:36 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? Yes, some are unfortunate and not everybody can be helped. Necessarily, there's a few on the loser end of the spectrum that possess no advantages and only know disadvantages. These omegas may need to find something else in life and should consider avoiding unwinnable competitions. As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description. Focusing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 03:11 PM
2	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching "Yes, some are unfortunate and not everybody can be helped" What should those people do? As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 03:04 PM
6	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching People are always afraid that those with low Sexual Market Value (SMV) will "hit on" them. I haven't been romantically interested in anybody in 20 years and people will still occasionally bring up imaginary factors - SOs, homosexuality, religious convictions, etc. - in order to make sure I know to stay platonic - even when the thought of anything otherwise never entered my head. Just how it is for the low SMV people. 🤗	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 02:14 PM
4	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching Necessarily, there's a few on the loser end of the spectrum that possess no advantages and only know disadvantages. These omegas may need to find something else in life and should consider avoiding unwinnable competitions. Focusing on my career saved me. It was the drumbeat that kept me pulling the oar instead of making potentially self-destructive mistakes ranging from too much drinking to wasting time "finding myself" and other nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 02:14 PM
11	Women actually want to be approached by a man Exactly. Women are always afraid that those with low Sexual Market Value (SMV) will "hit on" them. I haven't been romantically interested in anybody in 20 years and women will still occasionally bring up imaginary factors - SOs, homosexuality, religious convictions, etc. - in order to make sure I know to stay platonic - even when the thought of anything otherwise never entered my head. Just how it is for the low SMV people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 08:58 PM
3	Women actually want to be approached by a man They want to be approached by attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 08:57 PM
3	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? None, if you have low Sexual Market Value (SMV). People are always afraid that those with low SMV will "hit on" them. I haven't been romantically interested in anybody in 20 years and people will still occasionally bring up imaginary factors - SOs, homosexuality, religious convictions, etc. - in order to make sure I know to stay platonic - even when the thought of anything otherwise never entered my head. Just how it is for the low SMV people. 🤗	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 08:54 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? Right! And to complete the thought: A small group of guys are irrecoverably unattractive and therefore will always and forevermore make women uncomfortable when they approach. Therefore, those guys should...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:48 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? What about if you're unattractive and cannot do what it takes to not be unattractive for whatever reason?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:41 PM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Exactly. All life is a "cope." It is not a bad word. When there's absolutely no hope, and you've tried everything to no avail, there is nothing left to do but completely give up cold turkey and move on to something else. Focusing on my career saved me. It was the drumbeat that kept me pulling the oar instead of making potentially self-destructive mistakes ranging from too much drinking to wasting time "finding myself" and other nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 07:18 PM
2	Active dates are excellent first dates Do kids still "date"? I thought they just got together, partied and scrogged, and then sort of went from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:36 PM
4	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" Wise losers tend to accept their station with time. There are few lifetime failures at twenty. MOST of us were filled with potential, promise, and great expectations. Anyone could turn out to be president of the U.S. or at least of a company. Few were bald, fat was still being passed off as muscle, and every man you knew was going to make it someday. So where did we failures go? I contend that there are just as many men now as there were when we were, say, twenty-three. We just don't recognize o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:34 PM
1	Women generally want men desired by other women As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, I can tell you no unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 10:52 PM
1	If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you. As an ugly, short, pudgy, poor, balding, awkward 50+yo atheist virgin with a microphallis, such interactions were my only chance for any contact with females. No unrelated female has ever spoken to me, much less touched me, unless it was in her job description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 01:59 AM