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Rad1Red/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:07 PM
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OP, you know the answer. Run fast and run far. Leave him to his fate, you have given enough. You'll feel much better, you will see. You are a capable woman, full of heart. What you did once, you can do again. Take the time to heal and be less accepting of bullshit and compliant next time. He, on the other hand, is a roach. His money will go as it came, because he's an idiot, and as we know, an idiot and his money are soon parted lol. You'll see. His looks will fade too. They like to think otherw…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/26 05:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1uvatt7/so_how_do_you_build_a_community_and_get_into_a/ You mean this one? I don't see where you are being ”lit up and crucified”. On the contrary, people are giving you good advice and patient with you while you have a problem for every solution.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 01:10 PM
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sprinkle in some being an arrogant prick in a playful manner. The odd playful insult doesn't hurt either, That sounds vomitous, but you do you, friend. I kinda feel for the women who fall for that shit. There's unresolved trauma there that people like this are taking advantage of. If I see it around me, I'm gonna say something.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 09:52 PM
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Good, a success story! Then OP should follow your example. I'm sure it will work for him.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 06:21 PM
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It's a sociology term used with a different meaning. Your head is a word salad. The lack of education is showing. You said you liked to learn. Then actually learn instead of getting butthurt, ahem, "frustrated", crystallize your thoughts, and then come to preach to us. You're not replying to the comments that invalidate your worldview, however valid, because you're not right and you don't know how to get out of that hole. What do you actually want? To be chosen. I hope you are! But hear me well,…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 05:46 PM
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It is! And it's an important point to make.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 05:42 PM
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Honey... it was supposed to be much longer. I did keep it short. Nice job on bringing out your true feelings. No, you are not an impartial observer. You're a blackpilled dude. I know men are struggling. I'm one of the people helping the men in my life. That doesn't mean that any of the above isn't true. I'm here to tell you that they are struggling without the training wheels they had so far. Something your father would probably have done. I understand you, but I'll tell you what I told my daugh…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:09 AM
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It's difficult for everyone, dude. But since you're a man, you feel that from the body of a man - and that's obviously valid. We cannot do the work of supporting men's mental health if men are not doing it themselves. And they kind of... dgaf about other dudes. This should not fall to women alone, though we do help anyway. Yeah, women changed. We no longer have to accept any guy so we can survive. Men need to keep up, but what do they do instead? They complain that "women's standards are too hig…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 12:02 AM
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Plus Haaland is a sweetheart, and very respectful towards the women in his life. "Bollocks, he's tall," an incel would say. Nah, bro, he's competent, respectful and relaxed. But whatever. 😄
/r/ExRedPill19/07/26 11:42 PM
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Misogynists have been blaming feminism for their shit takes, with almost the same words, since its inception. We don't worry about their rationalizations anymore.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/26 10:49 PM
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There is no noticeable feminism ”growing” in the Arab world that would justify the growth of the red pill movement. It grows because it gives a home and a justification to assholery. Misogyny was never a reaction to feminism. Feminism appeared because we had to fight misogyny and its harmful ways.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/26 07:03 PM
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I just go to work go home play video games and go to the gym Honey, you have to get out more. Are you in any clubs at school? Also, do you groom yourself well? Do you have a good skincare routine? A flattering haircut, or clean hair if you keep it long? Are your clothes clean and do they fit you well? I think chances that ”there is something wrong with you” are quite slim. But getting a gf is not easy. Granted, it's much easier if you're kind and respectful, but those are just baseline qualities…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 03:46 AM
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Idk a lot, it was not a focus of mine.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 07:07 PM
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Oh, yeah.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:54 PM
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Those are just empty buzzwords. Par for the course for a bitter divorced alcohol salesman.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:09 PM
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No shit lmao. I've found it to be hilarious, and honestly cannot take anyone who lives by it seriously. They're dumb as monkeys to me. No "rational" human could believe that garbage.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 03:18 PM
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He'd probably eat you raw, that's what he's like lol. Subordinate as in I am his manager, what is unclear?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 03:15 PM
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No, I am not a therapist plus that would be unethical. But my husband is my subordinate at work and I married "down" socially (not an issue).
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 11:32 AM
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There are many such cases lol, my own included. But there is a powerful deterrent at play here, and it's the fact that a man who perceives himself as "less" will often try to bring the woman down because of his insecurities. Sometimes even in a violent fashion. Cases where the woman does her job and the housework so Little Prince does not feel "emasculated" are not rare. A woman whose man works more / makes more picks up the slack in the domestic sphere in order to help him advance. That does no…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 01:10 AM
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Um, delegates? I do that at work. To my subordinates. That's gonna be a naw from me, dawg. This man sounds ew. Where do you find these dudes, sis.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/26 01:04 AM
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Well, that IS the point.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 06:14 AM
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That makes sense then. Microneedling is not going to ”prevent” anything though. It is, as I said, excessive. I have an expressive face too. That doesn't mean you'll wrinkle. It's genetics more than anything... And if you do, so what? Sis, seriously. That is not your issue.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/26 09:34 PM
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Microneedling and lasers at TWENTY ONE? The sunscreen sure, the retinol I understand if you have acne, but lasers? I don't do that at more than twice your age. Sure, I have a wrinkle at the corner of my mouth and a fine one between my eyebrows. Lol. My skin still looks great and I do next to nothing to it apart from protecting it from the sun, exfoliating gently and hydrating it a bit... You need to leave your youthful complexion alone and talk to a therapist, sis. That is not exceptional care. …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/26 09:09 PM
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Looks like you need to build up some karma, then. 🤗 Hang on and hang around, don't give up! You're in for a marathon, not a sprint. Bropill is a great sub, btw, and so is Menslib. And don't forget to do stuff irl, as much as one person can, anyway. 🤗 Sorry for butting in so much, I'm a woman and I do not want to hijack this and "womansplain" lol. But I hope I helped just a tiny bit.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/26 01:22 AM
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Can you try r/menslib then?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/26 01:06 AM
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Try to post on r/bropill, see what other men are doing and get inspired. I think your endeavour is an admirable one. Good luck, dude. You'll be doing good work.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/26 04:56 PM
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Date an older woman who knows what she wants. Follow her lead.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 06:17 AM
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Yes, my friend, take heart. I've surrounded myself with them, even in a place where misogyny and redpill thinking are prevalent. Assholes sure like you to think there aren't any normal men out there, who aren't misogynistic, pornbrained etc, because that may give women confidence and spoil their market. Find your tribe. They exist.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 08:49 PM
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Without a doubt. Forget everything he told you. It's all bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 03:57 AM
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Oh, dudes like The Unfuckable Man (not called that, but that's my name for him lol) have been around for quite a while. Before 2010 for sure. And that one was a piece of work lmao, so was Rollo.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/26 05:58 PM
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In fact, women have been having children in their fourties for a long time. :) We see things through our lens, the lens of today's society. But ask your elders, they will know, especially if they come from rural communities.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/26 02:56 AM
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"Geriatric pregnancy" is just a medical term. An outdated one, if you ask me. Actually, our great-grandmothers had kids at much more advanced ages. My great-grandma had her last at FIFTY-TWO. And you know what? It wasn't that unusual in their village! How old is your friend? Because if HE is over 40, he should be scared of risks for a child. It has been scientifically proven that older sperm increases the probability of autistic and Down syndrome children. Yes, it's not the egg, who knew lol? Jk…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/26 02:54 AM
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There are ZERO studies that say that "women peak in their early 20s", because that's, and this is true, NOT HOW SCIENCE WORKS. This is not a scientific premise to study. Peak fertility, in general? Now that can be studied. I think the age was around 27, if I remember correctly? Are you referring to that OkCupid thing?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 03:19 AM
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Well, I'm not calling you gay. :) And that's not what I'm saying. Talk to me, not at me. And have you seen a Rubens painting? :) Based on what you're writing, I'm betting not. Take a moment to enrich your mind now. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/03/26 02:45 AM
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😂 Sure, bro. That's why all men in the history of humanity had the same beauty standards. The men of Rubens' time were secretly hoping they could get Stacy from the office. There is absolutely no cultural component to your attraction, no, sir.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 09:25 PM
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They're complaining they don't get the women they want. Which are basically Sidney Sweeney for a dude who looks like Shrek without Shrek's intelligence and wit. They don't SEE the other women. Regular women, older women etc just don't exist to them. That's actually sadly a common male issue, I truly wish it wasn't.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/26 09:09 PM
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So your bf is an asshole who fetishizes your disability because he believes it makes you more easily controllable.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 06:47 PM
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These idiots don't know shit about history lmfaooo. I'm from a place that fought off repeated Turkish invasions. Our women preferred to stick blades up their so-and-so or throw themselves into wells rather than fuck Turks. We liked our nice shepherds. What a crock of shit. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 06:09 AM
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Tf is the War... No, don't tell me. I don't wanna know.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 05:54 AM
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I am in a long, happy marriage. No, I don't "lose respect" for my husband. I love him more when he's affectionate and kind lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 04:31 PM
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Good choice. Be angry at what was done to you. Don't turn into an asshole yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 03:04 PM
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So you met an asshole. I'm sorry that happened to you, OP. :( Look for a better woman, they're out there. I grew up with a sadistic, abuser father. Some bitter misandrists told me "all men are like that" because "it's in their nature". Are all men like that, or even a majority of them? Not in my experience. If I had taken those women's advice, that would have made me an idiot. Don't be an idiot.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 03:02 PM
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That's stupid and not at all the same. Wtf does that even mean? You know, I do want my partner to be better than me in some respects. It's interesting. It's useful, I can learn from him. And I want to be better than him in other respects. We can complement each other.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 01:44 AM
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Hi sis! 🙂
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 03:15 PM
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Friend, I am a literal Domme in a FLR. I am as far in the opposite direction as can be imagined lol. Not alone by any means either, though many of these dynamics are hidden from the general population because men will look down on other men for them.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 04:33 AM
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Did you not see FlamingBudder's comment?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 07:43 AM
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Which one? Buss is generally controversial for the small size of his groups and questionable methodology. Also, evopsych is not real science.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 05:03 AM
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No, I do not. But I know a woman who had been physically and emotionally abused by her father (not sex, just beatings). And came across some really nasty bosses (one of them couldn't stop talking about how incompetent and useless we were and how women were stupid and good for nothing). And she met her husband and him, her FIL and a couple of great male friends healed her heart. Me. I was that woman. Edit: CRUCIAL point. I never became a misandrist. I just fundamentally didn't trust men.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 06:55 AM
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We exist.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 08:50 AM
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Good luck, I hope you pull him out. Definitely steer him away from that shit by suggesting fun videos he can watch instead, like DIY stuff, travel, things that might be fun for him and drive the algorithm away from the rabbit hole.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:37 AM
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If he's as great as you say, this may be salvageable. Apply the Socratic method with him. With love, patience and logic, plus your good example, I think he can outgrow it. He's one of the lucky ones, he has you.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:03 AM
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Oh, you poor woman. I'm glad you got out though, or will soon be rid of him. I'm thankfully not married to a redpiller, but I come from a relatively backward place. So I can relate, I'm sure, if you want to share your experience.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/25 09:58 PM
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People like him take advantage of empathetic people like you. Believe me, he knows what he's doing and he's doing it on purpose.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/25 02:20 AM
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Please read Why Does He Do That. Because he wants to. That's why he treats you like that. No, you won't change his views. And you aren't Captain Save-an-asshole. Leave him. And tell him why.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/25 09:04 PM
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Oh, boy. Good luck with that.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/25 09:12 PM
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Yeah, that's the biggest bullshit I've ever heard. "Second option" lmao. Best of luck poisoning your own mind. Have fun and don't waste our time again.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/25 12:32 AM
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Except you have proof the world doesn't hate you for being short. We literally gave you the time of day, we tried to give you the equivalent of a virtual hug. People respond negatively to you being an asshole, which no one can blame them for. You can be angry all you want, but the way you choose to behave is your fault. And that's why you and others like you lean on the "I'm short" shit, to feel like it isn't your fault. That way you can say "society bad, bitchez bad" and avoid doing any work on…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 08:56 PM
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So do I, friend, so do I. :) But raging at the wind and hating the world is pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 07:48 AM
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You're not a "manlet". You're a short dude. My husband is 5'7" on a good day. I've dated shorter. Chill, dude. Many of us aren't supermodels either. We accept that we're not for everyone, though yeah, a pang of jealousy exists lol. But it's not the fault of the world. I ain't mad at (insert female supermodel) for existing. I understand we all have our niche. If you're an asshole whose desire in life is to pump and dump and hurt as many women as possible and are salty because other men have the l…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 11:48 PM
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Hooking up with women over 40... They should be so lucky. 😂
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 05:38 AM
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This.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 02:26 PM
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Because they think they favour them, and when they don't, it's women's fault.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 02:25 PM
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Pearl sees herself as the new Phyllis Schlafly. She is just as repulsive, but fortunately, much stupider.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/25 01:46 AM
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Honey, this is above your pay grade. I am so sorry. Just live well and get out of there as soon as you can. He will NOT listen to you.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 11:18 PM
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You, collective you because I am not aware of your personal situation and will not disrespectfully presume, are not being treated like fodder. You are stripped of your privilege and perceive that as a slight. Yes, there will be enough men. As I said, do as you think is best. But do it logically and with your eyes open. ”Women” aren't complaining about men not approaching them. Certain women are. The rest of us are a-ok.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/25 04:55 PM
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I'm going to give you the stark reality on this one. Sure, go right ahead. But you know, deep down, that you are only taking yourself out of the gene pool. As males who "opt out" take themselves out of the gene pool all around the animal kingdom. You'd be the equivalent of the cat lady. If that's what you want, of course, go right ahead. Unfortunately, this will not yield the result that you want. Logically and pragmatically, you will not be missed. There will always be enough men who prefer col…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/25 04:15 PM
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There's no reason for US men to protest the draft at the moment. There is no draft. And there probably won't be one for a long, long, long time unless Trump starts WWIII. As for the men in Ukraine, most understand it's necessary... Though nobody is happy about it. It's just a sad, very painful fact.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/25 02:06 AM
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And if they're all drafted, who?
/r/ExRedPill15/07/25 12:06 AM
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Then listen carefully to what these people are telling you. If you truly want to rid yourself of hatred, understanding is the way.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/25 11:07 PM
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Hehe, crickets...
/r/ExRedPill14/07/25 11:04 PM
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What?? I, as ye olde dreaded feminist, firmly believe that the draft should not exist. For anyone. Each country should have a mercenary army (like many do at present). And it's redpillers and tradcons who keep yelling that women's place is not in the Army 'cause "they will get men killed"! Now you do want us in the Army? Make up your minds lmao. Sadly, Ukraine's situation is doubly difficult... They're fighting Goliath all by themselves and while NATO can help unofficially with weapons, they can…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/25 11:02 PM
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By that logic, all men are mules. Some get fed (paid), some don't. But they're all pack animals and most of them, like Tate, are very stupid though they bray and kick a lot. No problem, a harsher whip is required. Women stop "giving sex" when they feel undervalued because they choose to share their bodies with people who value them. Women don't "give sex", but enjoy making love, with the men who value them and know how to love them right. People who think like Tate will never know that connectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:20 PM
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It's a mistery. :) I'd have shot myself before touching one. My husband on the other hand is getting it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:13 PM
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It's rule number 1, as far as I'm aware. But most of them are less stealthy than they think.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 09:37 PM
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Yes, but he's a Tater Tot. That's on the same level as MAGA.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 09:21 PM
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why he would withhold the truth so early on into us meeting To get sex, why do you think? You're fine now, but give him a couple of years and you'll be a shell of yourself. :(
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 09:20 PM
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Girl... RUN.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 09:18 PM
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he just sees truth for what it is How so?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 02:36 AM
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Oh, so he's an idiot. Because people with a modicum of intelligence adjust their beliefs when proven wrong.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 05:40 PM
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Bro, you're lost. The incel subs are that way. :)
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 09:57 PM
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They have a worldview that's divorced from reality. They want to believe those things. They're not observational truths. They're confirmation bias. "Women are weak, emotional, silly, superficial" etc. You meet a woman who's not? She's "masculine". She's undesirable... and there's the key. Women must be "feminine" to be desirable. I.e., in their view, "weak, emotional, silly, superficial". They want them that way. And they want to bitch about it.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:27 PM
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I'm so sorry, OP, the man you loved no longer exists. He's changed. This is not salvageable, at least not now and NOT BY YOU. Your opinion is irrelevant to him now, you're just a walking womb, a "female" with childish, solipsistic and irrational thinking. And you are setting yourself up for a world of hurt if you try to help him. Unless you're a masochist, I would advise you to tap out. PLEASE. He will destroy your peace of mind and self-esteem, and the end result will be the same. If he doesn't…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 11:11 PM
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Well, you need to deconstruct some ideas for yourself. Such as thinking "single people are at the bottom of society". They're freaking not, they're just unpartnered people. And thinking of anyone as a "subhuman beta male" is really, really weird. Look, I'm into S&M. Calling men subhuman worms is my jam lmao. But I don't actually believe they are worms. And crucially, neither do they (well, the sane ones). I actually love and prefer what others call "beta males" lol. It's baffling to me why someo…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 06:52 PM
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If that's the way you think, you don't have as good of a personality as you believe. Sorry.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 06:29 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 04:35 PM
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It's bullshit. However, women will sleep with dudes they are attracted to. They are human. Lol. That doesn't guarantee you won't be that guy. Who says you won't find a nice girl who likes you? Then you will be AF and BB, like most guys irl. :)
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 06:56 AM
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Trump's officials pressured the Romanian officials to let him go. 🤮 That's why he's "out". He was still on house arrest in Romania.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 04:37 AM
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Yikes, that title reeks of ”I sell snake oil to insecure stupid people”. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 11:10 PM
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I am currently the country manager of a multinational. So that responsibility. Also, contentedly the main breadwinner. So that responsibility as well. 🙂 I am not lacking in responsibility, my friend, and I do not mean the paying for my drinks kind of stuff. As for accountability, personal accountability is quite important for me. I wouldn't have gotten far without it and I think I would be lacking integrity. I own my shit, good and bad. That doesn't mean I'll flog myself for any random person on…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/25 05:16 PM
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The authority. With the responsibility. And the accountability. What was unclear? 🤗
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 06:20 PM
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Damn right I want the authority of men. The rest, no.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 04:56 PM
1

Remember that scene in the Indiana Jones movie? The answer is not necessarily. :)
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 12:31 AM
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Irl I would not trust that a "bad boy" has a "soft side". I'm not a naive plaything he can use to experience life for five minutes as a human being, and then go back to his natural state of jerk-ness. Nor am I a hospital for broken men. Lol. If other women don't see that, idk what to say to them. I made sure my daughters will not be preyed upon in such a fashion. Others who will not heed advice are not my responsibility. Now fantasy novels are a different matter, those women I understand a bit b…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 10:35 PM
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Yup. At least Tate uses his real name lol.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/24 12:04 PM
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Idk about Williamson. Sadia, yes.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 05:34 PM
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You are probably downvoted for the advice in your first sentence. He does have to start over, but doesn't have to go nuclear. The rest is common sense stuff.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 06:38 AM
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Yes. Yes it is.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/24 11:00 PM
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They want to be the ones selling the pills.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/24 04:08 PM
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This. OP is avoidant and self sabotaging.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 03:20 PM
2

I'd cuck him and let him know it. As publicly and humiliatingly as possible. The few who tried PUA sh*t with me regretted it. One ended up falling in love for real lol, guess he enjoyed the humiliation part... He was very bitter when I met my husband. But that's just lil old crazy me, and I WOULD NOT RECOMMEND THIS. He might get angry and fly off the handle. What I WOULD recommend is that you gather your things, leave and do not look back. Block him and go NC, he does not deserve an explanation.…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 07:40 PM
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Word. Go to the gym, get heathy, look good = right and correct. Women are hypergamous by nature = wrong and stupid.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 05:55 PM
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Do YOU think your fiance is a "weak, pathetic man"? I'm guessing the answer is no. Nor are you, objectively, a "low value woman" (if that sh*t existed in the first place). Then why do you care what redpillers say? There are a lot of id*ots on this Earth, do you have to listen to all of them or do you have your own head to think with?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 06:43 PM
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Yikes, sick burn. :) So it's really not his looks? That seems to be the case with many of these. Sure, some are guys who cannot date are overweight or objectively unfortunate looking, most are just average-looking but have unfortunate circumstances, but you look at some and think "what the actual fck, how obnoxious must this guy be not to get a date?"
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 06:08 PM
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I think you'll find more in PurplePillDebate. You seem to be a bit lost, this is ex-redpill. :)
/r/ExRedPill06/07/24 08:51 PM
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Oh, yeah.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 08:29 PM
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Because you allowed it to.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 08:37 PM
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No, sane women absolutely do not want abusive men. The men who are abusive and are in relationships don't start out that way, they deceive their partners. But they do want confident men (or so I am told, I seem to be an outlier in many ways lol, so I dgaf about confidence). So don't listen to redpill coaches, they're dumb and toxic, but do go to the gym and develop your body. Physical exercise is great for your brain as well, not just your muscles. Practice meditation and mindfulness to center y…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:12 PM
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Okay, bro.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 06:43 PM
9

You're not a man. You're a literal child acting like you know anything about the world. You will grow up tho, and you should make sure you do that with a healthy mindset. For your own sake. My advice is to talk to your parents and ask them to get you into therapy. Heartbreak is no joke and you need help to overcome it. Talk to someone, son, and I mean someone with a head on their shoulders.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 06:16 PM
10

We appreciate you. And I am glad you were able to get out on that mindset.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 09:58 PM
11

Again, NO, NO, NO. That is not our point. We do not doubt that you are ugly or see yourself as such. WE UNDERSTAND. Louder for the people in the back, we sympathize. Some of us don't consider ourselves good looking either. We understand what it's like to go through life with this "added bonus". But tell me, young man, what am I supposed to do about that? How am I supposed to help with that apart from a "there, there", except with grooming advice? If you just want to complain, this is indeed not …
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 10:21 PM
5

But you do.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 09:47 PM
0

In general.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 09:46 PM
1

Those are two different statistics.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 09:40 PM
18

The statistics also show that the probability of a bear injuring you is like 0.04%, while the probability of a man assaulting you is around 15%. And I am providing the most conservative source in that regard, others list the number as higher. https://www.idausa.org/campaign/wild-animals-and-habitats/bear-attack/ https://www.rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:25 PM
10

You didn't understand sh*t. But if you did, you wouldn't be here. Try again. Maybe it will click. Seriously. I could not have been more clear. The "you don't get my plight" shtick is getting old, dude. :) As for me being the enemy, whatever floats your boat.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 12:44 PM
32

Okay, Imma throw you a bone. The correct answer, and the attitude you should be having, is that you don't find those women ugly. They might not be conventionally attractive, but I'm sure they have qualities that make them attractive in your eyes. If that is not the case - and considering your answer, it probably isn't - you, sir, are an opportunitistic a-hole trying to take advantage, a bottom-feeder of sorts. Which is gross as well as pathetic, because women are not things to be used. Yes, not …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:31 AM
9

You know why, dude.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:11 AM
3

Lol, why?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:54 AM
27

Are you willing to date an ugly woman?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:41 AM
6

You're detoxing from your addictions and the new relationship energy is starting to fade. Your brain is craving dopamine and possibly cortisol/adrenaline as well. I suggest hitting the gym and maybe trying some mildly dangerous activities to restart stuff in your brain. A zipline or dirtbike races would probably work as a sfw option. :)
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 09:00 PM
3

Way to go, dude. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 03:29 AM
23

This. Their success rate is actually rather low, but they shoot their shot very often. And they brag about the women they sleep with in order to make themselves look better than they are.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:12 PM
6

It does come out more easily from incels. They cannot help themselves. The others are much better at concealing it, so they have better success. But no, as a rule they are not openly misogynistic with women. And women can be too trusting, some are even stupid I'd say. Even if they feel something is off, and many times they do, they tend to give men "chances". I mean "maybe he's just guarded because he's been hurt", "they surely cannot be that bad", "one can't always assume the worst", "I don't w…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:01 PM
24

So many of them do. They don't understand others and think others couldn't understand them. :) You're not that complicated, buster.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:12 AM
74

a ton of the women here just can't understand Oh, if I only had a penny... Boy, were they surprised when they realized I actually understood. :) You're male, not aliens, OP. Stop acting like you're a different species, it's ridiculous. You'll find we understand surprisingly well. Also, this sub is FULL of men.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 02:54 AM
5

I wish you the best of luck. :) Good men are out there. Don't waste your time with idiots and posers. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:38 PM
3

Yes, it speaks to personal responsibility, self-control and maturity and their capacity to adapt and function in society. I apply the same measure to women as well. As for men being viewed as wallets or appreciated for their status, that is fundamentally wrong and we do not subscribe to that mentality, OP.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 07:37 PM
22

I'm the breadwinner in our marriage. We've been together for close to 30 years, married for almost 25. Two great daughters, now out of their teens. I love him to bits, and not in a quiet, friendly way, in the I wanna do bad things to you kinda way. But he is worthy. He is kind and loyal and loving and respectful (well, I don't wanna list everything here, but I said a couple of things as pointers). He never even tried to play weird games with me and loves my intelligence and drive, unlike all oth…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 04:27 PM
2

It's not about you. It's not about reality, logic or reason. It's about money.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 08:03 PM
8

I agree 100%. And your experience is by no means unique, especially in that part of the world. There are many women like you. Sane people can see it and there is no reason you should change yourself and your behaviour under pressure from idiots. I would not appeal to reason and logic where none can be found. The people at the bottom of this cult are brainwashed and the ones at the top are grifters who want to profit off them and don't care about your life or your feelings.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 07:50 PM
28

Men don’t give a shit about my intelligence, interests and personality YES, THEY DO. A lot of men around me (and I am including the more dominant types that I personally feel repelled by sexually) value these things highly in their partners. They pride themselves in having a valuable gf/wife. Just not those men. And those men feel small / inferior / stupid and shout loudly "all men are like me" so you wouldn't notice the others.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 12:11 AM
3

Yeah, it's terrible. Just like the redpill forum, by the way, is that banned or still just quarantined? Those "HVM" and "HVW" richly deserve each other, I would throw them in a pit together and watch them devour each other.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 08:59 PM
42

Had us in the first half. :)
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 04:17 AM
7

I am the main breadwinner in my family. Married 25+ years. Still love my husband to bits and respect him for his inherent qualities. I didn't marry him to ”provide” for me, because we're not cavepeople. Also, evopsych is pseudoscience.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 01:18 AM
8

That is the point of it, that cr*p i's psychological warfare to an extent. No need to be a misandrist, just reject those idiots and their ideology. Plenty of good men out there.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 05:13 PM
2

And why don't those wounded and insecure men turn to the positive coaching, I wonder? And to the community therein? Could it be because they WANT to be a-holes? Because being kind and actually working on yourself is cuckish? And in that case, why should I have compassion for someone who PREFERS to adopt ideas that hurt me?
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 04:51 PM
2

Yeah, see you in 20 years. I've seen how it turns out for most men in that part of the world. Sexless, joyless relationships. And their wives despise the poor unsuspecting "alphas", also seen that first hand. They're not gloomy for nothing in those parts. You think you've figured it out. You have not. 😂
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 03:17 PM
3

See my reply above, my dude, and beware. It may seem all right for you now. Speak to you in 20 years tho. And let the woman work and think for herself if you know what's good for ya. Not that I expect you to.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 03:14 PM
1

Their poor wives. I've seen multiple cases where these types steamrolled all over them and just did not care. The women were not happy, but who asked them? It was all about what he wanted. And all of these ended badly, including my parents', who are still together because she has conservative views, but pretty much despises him now. The men weren't even "fully redpilled", I mean they still had some humanity in them... I cannot fathom the depths of stupidity and/or selfishness that such a guy mus…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 03:10 PM
11

Eh, boyz will be boyz because feminism bad, amirite? Jeez... Just no, mate. I may trust you to the moon and back, you're not making decisions for me. What is wrong with you? :) don't answer that, it's rhetorical.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:47 AM
52

he’s just trying to teach me what men feel like deep down and he’s trying to enlighten me What he feels deep down. Believe him. Also, he targeted you for your age and he's grooming you.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:30 AM
4

Ouch. My brain hurts from reading that. :) The mental gymnastics of these people... Edit: I meant TRP, not you, mate.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/23 09:20 PM
5

Sure, my husband's best friend is also like a brother to me, and I have several other good male friends.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:32 AM
7

My husband's ”body count” is 1, me. I personally found that very sexy. I never dated and, if God forbid I was widowed, would never date a man with a high body count. Personal preference.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:53 PM
5

Definitely. As she's about to find out.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 02:29 PM
1

Zero, unfortunately for someone in this situation. My husband is 5'7" and that is how I like them.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 05:05 AM
9

Go for it, sis! You are in for a rude awakening, but do you.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:21 AM
5

I don't concern myself with moral superiority lol. I think I am more intelligent than many, but superior to few, because I do not count intelligence as the core of someone's worth as a human. But equating a preference for intelligence in your spouse with a preference for big t*ts is HILARIOUS. So I think imma head out. :)
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:07 PM
4

Source: "Trust me, bro." :D
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:17 PM
5

Nah, mate, I was attracted by an intelligent man because of the conversation and insight. That is still a big part of our relationship, we bounce ideas off each other, it's fun. I wouldn't have that with a simpleton, and it's important to me.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:17 PM
6

I thought you wanted to know many things. Why did you fixate on that one? And why does it matter if he happens to earn more because life took them in that direction, do you think that invalidates her point? I'm not defensive, champ, I am offensive. Bring it on.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:11 PM
8

You're also the exception. We're all "exceptions". :)
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:09 PM
7

Women PREFER NOT TO BOTHER with men who make less. Not because we care, but because most MEN care. Now mine doesn't, he's actually proud of me. And you can see the result. But most of the others I have seen around me take their insecurity out on the woman in some shape or form if she happens to earn more, be more competent etc. It's like they have to knock the women down a peg. They can get really nasty, cheat because they feel "emasculated" etc. I've said this many times. I'll say it again. Wom…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:08 PM
8

Does that matter? Does she have to check all the boxes to meet your approval?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:04 PM
10

You cannot "see" my relationship, I am presumably far away. But I can tell you about it. We have been married 23 years, together for, I cannot believe I am saying this, 27. We've had our ups and downs, but we are still going strong and you could say many things about our relationship, but "shallow" isn't one of the ways you'd describe it. Oh, and I am the main breadwinner and my husband is 5' 7", with long hair (still, thank God for modern medicine) and softer features (though bearded). I love h…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 02:50 PM
3

It's not the women who live off Andrew Tate, it's Tate who lives off them. Looks like the pimp life is an ideal for many men. :) Seriously now, is the d that good? Otherwise what are you doing with this man?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 12:37 AM
6

Admins, we have an infestation. :)
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 09:29 PM
2

But tHeY are all wOkE... /s
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 07:18 PM
6

My husband is 5'7". You're not speaking truth. Also, we dont "hate" the redpill movement for saying "go to the gym, take control of your life etc". That is good advice... that you can get elsewhere without the sh*t tho.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 07:13 PM
4

Your friend's circumstances were unfortunate. That's not his fault. The decisions he's making now ARE his fault. Tell him to remember his father. Was he abusive? Does he want to turn into him? Because the way he's going, he will.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 05:15 AM
4

I won't say so, because lack of time and desire to pander to a stranger on the internet for more than the minute he is worth does not equate to lack of knowledge. Think whatever you want. Or enrich your mind and be better. Your choice, I don't care.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:59 AM
2

Feeling hurt and mistrustful after being betrayed is normal. Take time to heal, go to therapy. No, not all women are like that. No, not all men are like that. I would not care what redpill "teaches". Are you in a cult? Is Fresh & Fit Jesus? He isn't, right? Then they don't "teach" anything, do they. They just manipulate weak, hurt men, to make money and feel their own puny d*ck is bigger. Just... don't be that man. Don't be a weak sheep.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:49 AM
4

As I said, Google is your friend. In the nicest possible way. If you weren't this lazy, you'd do better.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:29 AM
3

Do I have time to walk you through a whole semester of Anthropology 1-0-1? Unfortunately, I do not. I have not one, but two urgent deadlines to meet. Do you have the world's knowledge at your fingertips? Yes, you do. :)
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:12 AM
4

THIS. You seem very much like my husband of over 20 years. I love him more now than I did when we started dating! Being a good human rules. Your wife is a lucky woman as well. I'm happy for her.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:53 PM
1

What is traditional masculinity and what is being demonized about it, please?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:51 PM
2

Indeed they should! (As good humans, same as women)
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:50 PM
6

Oh, yes. Knowledge will set you free.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:49 PM
5

Yup, good humans FTW.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:48 PM
5

And what would those be? Lol. I VERY much doubt you will get mine right off the top of your head. Except being a kind, good human. Yes. Most of us want those.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:48 PM
1

For men. :)
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:46 PM
4

Thank you for speaking up. My husband is the same. These men need to understand that. "But all men..." "But it's natural for a man..." No, sir, you're just inferior. Do better.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 02:58 AM
2

What is a 1% man? I've seen the clip and that guy is gross...
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 02:54 AM
1

Cool! :)
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 11:11 PM
2

So you managed to rid yourself of the red pill mindset after all. :)
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 05:35 AM
2

Maybe do it for her. She deserves a father who will love her with all his heart. And that means respecting her as well.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 05:29 AM
2

I'm not in a toxic relationship. :)
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 10:41 PM
1

Sure, mate. :) You learned a lot more about biology than I know. :)))) Okay.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 03:50 AM
2

I'm not insulting you. I'm telling you that you have never touched a scientific journal. If you find that insulting, GO FIX IT. Learn actual biology, anthropology, sociology, instead of Cosmo science for dudes. Start with 5th form Biology. Graduate to uni manuals and then learn how to read science journals. Read and learn until your head explodes. Then come back and we can have a proper debate. Sounds difficult, doesn't it? That is how actual science is "done". Until then, since you're not payin…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 11:39 PM
2

Omg, the word salad. You have never laid eyes upon a science journal in your life. :)) Please stop embarrassing yourself. I almost feel sorry for what I made you do. Mate, please go back to school. Nurture your mind.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 04:52 AM
2

Your prerogative. As a researcher though, I have to point out that no truly logical person can take redpill propaganda seriously. It's just... not scientific. It's pseudoscience. Bulls*it. Let me make that clearer: no human in actual possession of a working brain and actual scientific knowledge can believe that stuff! Yes, many believe themselves capable of reason, but in reality are not. And they would be better served by shedding their bias, understanding their limitations, learning critical t…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 05:49 PM
6

Don't worry about that stuff so much! (hug) You shouldn't care about being "dominant" or whatever performance is expected of you. And masculine you already are - because you are, presumably, of the male gender? Define YOUR brand of masculinity, while living in YOUR body. You are what God or the universe made you (and you, presumably and hopefully, have improved and are still improving). Now you have to find your people to complement who you ARE, again not who others are telling you to be. That i…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:02 PM
5

Of course it won't. When you combine stupidity, entitlement and insecurity, you get the redpill and its derivatives. And those traits are a constant of the human race.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:57 PM
11

I am not attracted to cavemen. :) Most women aren't. Or it could just be me and my observational circle? :)
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:51 PM
19

NO. No, we do not. My husband was shy with girls, I approached him in fact. I am put off by bluster and posturing, in men as well as women. VERY put off by displays of dominance. Someone said confidence was attractive ”to everyone”. Well, not to everyone, it seems! :) My husband (I keep referring to him because he is my gold standard), is smart, knowledgeable and kind, and does possess a degree of quiet assurance about his things - because who doesn't if they are specialists in one or a couple o…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:49 PM
1

Tate? Doesn't she have enough problems? :(
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 12:25 AM
2

Introduce him to r/bropill :) You cannot make him a feminist right away. But direct him to proper, healthy male resources, set a good example whatever he says or does, and he may very well become one himself.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 11:20 PM
3

You seem confused. (joking) Redpillers WANT to be the ones who pay for ”gold diggers”. Precisely so they can easily intimidate women into offering sexual favours, or otherwise hold leverage. They only complain about ”being exploited” if they are not given what they want. As for independent women, they berate them and stay away from them because they are difficult to manipulate. They are low-effort manipulators. Pay them no mind and just do your thing. I say continue to pay for your meal because …
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 11:05 PM
1

Very much so. :)
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 05:30 AM
1

He does, and he does. :) He's just an amazing human and being "patient" with him was almost no effort at all.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 06:43 AM
1

Does it matter that they were ”professionals”? Not for him, I will tell you that. They were OTHER WOMEN. Because you know there is no fundamental difference between regular women and escorts. We are all women. Or, as MGTOW call us, ”holes”. So as far as he is concerned, and he knows this, he cheated repeatedly and was able to gaslight you - and make you feel grateful that he ”opened up”. Boy, he must be laughing now. Of course he can now trickle other stuff he wants to train you with. To him, yo…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 03:52 AM
2

Of course it can. There are added challenges. I personally would not have dated a single father because there might be mental issues that led to the dissolution of his previous partnership (as was your case) and because I do not want to get saddled with his children (which many women sadly are). But from there to advising against dating ANY single father or demonizing them as if they were incapable of parenting and leading to the dissolution of society... there is a long, long way. You can be wa…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 04:10 PM
3

And how could I deal with those insecurities? My husband was hurt before meeting me and he was rather insecure about women. Not hating them, mind you, just afraid they would "see him as a brother". It took time and a lot of love and reassurance from my part to rid him of that. But it's work I did not mind doing. :) Train your brain that women are not the enemy. A lot of people, of all genders, are sh*tty and stupid. That is a fact of life. But great people can be found as well, and among them is…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 03:58 PM
6

a girl would most likelly sleep with a hot guy like that behind my back And how many men do the same? RP also claims that is "natural" for men and we should, of course, get used to it. Should we mistrust all men because of that? You know, a lot of what those people say is projection.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 03:50 PM
6

I feel for you, mate, but how is this relevant to OP? I know you are describing your lived experience, but human experiences vary wildly, as you no doubt are aware.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 03:46 PM
3

Single mothers are the proof women can survive without redpillers. That and raise a child. Many also have not been left, but have left, which makes them more likely to see through redpillers sh*t. They must be punished as swiftly and harshly as possible. They must be banished to the outskirts of society. And people must know that they are "incapable parents" and "driving the crime rates up", otherwise what would be the societal purpose of abusive drones like redpillers?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 03:42 PM
2

Well, you can change that. :)
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 03:53 PM
3

Well, he leads. You SERVE.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 03:16 PM
3

Those are high value traits in anyone. The way he views them is twisted, but that's another story. Well, he isn't worthy of a gf with those traits. He probably knows it and that's why he's trying to grind you down, so you're too insecure to leave. Tough luck for him, I guess.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 03:07 PM
2

He says he’s about ME as a person So you are ”hot”? ”Compliant”? ”Daddy issues”? What other RP-lauded trait is he seeing in you that makes him stay? Because I don't think this is the compliment you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 02:05 PM
12

I do believe we have a very strong bond Yeah. A trauma bond.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 02:03 PM
6

Because you lent him a sympathetic ear. Most of us do it, I think it's actually necessary that partners do it for each other in a good relationship. You listen to your SO and try to adjust to them. But then we're blamed for it.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 02:00 PM
1

So why are you validating him by staying with him? As one falls in love, one falls out of love. No amount of love justifies getting trampled over.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 01:56 PM
1

For healthy dialogue? Definitely the wrong place. We're all close-minded idiots here.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 06:35 PM
1

Would you understand if she did? Do you understand that a disproven theory, however delightful, should be discarded? I don't live my life by the assumption that thunder is Thor's hammer.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 05:07 PM
2

What kind of women are you courting? If it's always the kind that fall for ”bad boy alphas” and whom douches can ”get effortlessly”, you have to ask yourself why. Because there are many, many women out there who don't. See, you are not actually doing anything wrong. But you seem to have unhealthy attachment patterns.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/21 11:43 PM
8

You are their worst fear. The "dark triad woman". Or whatever. Muhahaha.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 03:48 AM
7

Hahahahahaha, nice cope. 😀
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 11:48 AM
3

Ding, ding, ding!
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 03:11 PM
4

Yup. Women can be despicable people just like men. We are all part of the human race, stupidity and bias are prevalent. See here: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/commentisfree/2016/nov/16/why-did-women-vote-for-trump-because-misogyny-is-not-a-male-only-attribute And here: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/triggered-feminist--2 As for the other part of your argument. Kudos to you for realizing how toxic that ideology is. In so many ways. It damages you a lot, and long term.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 06:23 PM
7

Indeed, beside that very obvious point.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/21 05:17 PM
14

A true "alpha" would put on a dress and pose like this in reply. Because, you know, they'd have the balls to stand up for their convictions and are secure enough in their masculinity not to let themselves be bullied by these idiots.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/21 04:59 PM
1

We do. We are thus ordered by the Great Female Hive Brain, may it live long and prosper.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:54 AM
1

Of course not. I have a husband whom I love and who loves me. Sex is an important part of our relationship. But I do see why other people would. I hope they find love.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 09:10 PM
3

Well, most of my male high-school and uni mates look like THEY have been hit in the face with ”the wall”. Or hit by a tram. IDK. Meanwhile, about half the women look almost the same as they did then. Some smile lines, some rounding up, but still quite attractive. Recognizable, even. I have a good laugh whenever redpillers bring up ”ze wall”. That's a neg for naive women, mate. The rest of us have eyes.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 11:41 AM
3

Da. world. iz. full. of. peoplez. Unless you were blessed in abundance with the genes that produce the type of attractiveness that is in fashion, you must STAND OUT to be noticed. And if you think that doesn't go for women as well, you are sorely mistaken. I and millions of others can attest to it first-hand. Heck, my 17 year-old daughter can attest to that. She is pretty, but shy, and it has not been easy.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 11:33 AM
2

How do you stop it? Level up mentally. Try to understand more about the world in general, read scientific books, watch scientific channels. I recommend Anton Petrov, he is an amazing YouTuber, an astrophysicist who has really cool videos, and is also really nice. Or Sci Show. Or Veritasium. Try to glimpse your place in the Universe. How insignificant you really are. And how unimportant your ”SMV” really is in the grand scheme of things. We are all worms wiggling on a rock, most of us pointlessly…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 09:55 PM
0

you can just leave them and find someone better yes, but ”divorce rape”
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 04:25 PM
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They're from Canada.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 07:33 AM
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A sharpener that sharpens many crayons is a good sharpener. A crayon sharpened by many sharpeners is a... small, useless crayon. It's idiotic to compare people to inanimate objects, right?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 07:31 AM
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So you've never been subjected to peer pressure to behave in certain ways so you wouldn't drop to the "bottom of the pack"? Would you be comfortable going outside in a summer dress in hot weather, for instance? Taking a job as a manny rather than as a mechanic? Freely admitting to using moisturizer to maintain your skin and makeup to cover up acne / augment your eyelashes / whatever other reason? Having a wife who earns more than you and openly and unapologetically being her support system inste…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 09:44 PM
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I didn't mean pets as a substitute for human affection, just as companions. :) My husband is allergic, so I didn't have larger pets for a long time (we had some Russian hamsters, but those are really small and stayed in their cage, that I, as the non-allergic one, was in charge of cleaning). Well, last year we got a kitten. She is so cute, that my hubs could not drive/give her away. He's taking antihistamines every day now and has developed a certain tolerance to her. My point is this: that litt…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 09:23 PM
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Those are not "my definitions". You argued that you have never gotten a definition, like it's a bullsh*t concept that no one has been able to define for you, and I have provided you with the definitions. Now you know. Pretty effed up, right? But again, I didn't make the rules. And most of these behaviours are forced upon men by other men, sadly. My idea of a "real man" is much, much different. So I am opposed to toxic masculinity, but not opposed to men. And men who display extremely low levels …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 09:10 PM
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Cool, mate. No problems. But I do hope you find love if you want it. Do you have any pets? :)
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 08:23 PM
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Here's one definition (pretty easy to find if you look for it): https://www.dictionary.com/browse/toxic-masculinity ​ Here's another: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Toxic%20Masculinity ​ As for the wage gap, I am not sufficiently well-versed in that area to comment. I have not experienced it either, if anything I tend to negotiate my compensation better than others. But I am not saying it does not exist. If it does, it's certainly not as large as in the past (for reference, my m…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 08:04 PM
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If you're "going your own way" minus the misogyny / vilifying other humans in general and just think your life is better that way, then you're not doing anything wrong. You're just living your life as you see fit. I have a male friend, now in his 50s, who is a lifelong bachelor. He had several relationships, one of which was very serious, but they ended up not getting married (complicated issues with her family, her father drove them apart). Now he prefers to live alone with his dog and cat and …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 06:49 PM
2

May I add r/toastme for a confidence boost? :)
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 06:33 PM
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How is that? One does not exclude the other. That was not my experience there tbh.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 06:32 PM
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I like r/bropill lately.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 06:31 PM
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who think that they never have to do anything to keep me happy and yet expect to be treated like princesses I'm a feminist, independent woman who don't need no man. :) Believe me, if you knew me irl you would not hate me or find me unattractive. Thing is, I did need a partner, and love, and companionship and a family to be happy. So I went for those things. I cannot speak for all women, but perhaps at least some of the "independent" women you are citing are less princess-like than you have been …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:34 PM
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Oh, no. A sane woman with autonomy and self-respect. The horror. :)
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:24 PM
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Nah, thank you, I expect I'd be plastered by the end. 😀
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 03:22 PM
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Your wife was happy and proud of herself because her friends validated her choice, and she got a confirmation of her elevated status in the group due to your perceived attractiveness. It's like winning a game. There you go. Not so different from a man, right? In fact, quite similar, and very simple. When we stop seeing reality and instead do our best to fit it into a box we have created, we haven't been awakened, we've been brainwashed. But you do you, mate. For context, I have been married 20+ …
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:24 PM
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That's not what the motto means. It's supposed to mean something along the lines of "Master of the Slave Sisters", but only "dominus" is a correct Latin word there. The rest is mumbo-jumbo. You'd think that Raniere, with his huge ego, would have at least chosen a correctly worded motto for his "organization". What a quack. :D And yes, many of these cults are similar. Just variations of the same swill.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 06:32 PM
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the more educated the man is, the more red pilled he is likely to be Nope. Educated douchebags just tend to be more entitled. You see, they "deserve". That goes for both men and women. I am highly educated myself, and so is my husband. We run in those circles and know legit geniuses. The smartest people we know, the ones with the deepest understanding of the world, are actually rather humble and egalitarian. The level of douchebaggery is not an education-dependent variable.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:52 PM
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u/Jamonde has it right. And wow, what do you know, not all women want to date "666 HVM". :) Though I'm sure that was (and will be) discounted in those forums as "you're lying" or "you do not know your own mind". Because ALL women want to date rich Chad douchebags who dread game them and spin plates. Our wee female brains just cannot help themselves.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:43 PM
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The red pill in the Matrix movie was, get this, a metaphor for estrogen. :) Estrogen pills were red. Taking the red pill, i.e. hormonal treatments, meant living as their authentic selves for the two transgender sisters who directed the trilogy. Being true to their reality, casting away the comfortable veil of conformity. These idiots, in their limited understanding, twisted it to mean "waking up to the true nature of women". There is no inherent "female nature", as there is no inherent "male nat…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:36 PM
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Ding, ding, ding! :) Men who have been wronged by nasty women do very much exist. But those who are good souls do not turn to MGTOW forums. They can't stomach the vitriol. They live and rebuild their lives. I've been wronged in my life, everyone has. But I didn't turn to "hurr, durr, AMALT" and "female supremacy" at any point, because I am not a pathetic weakling. And get this, I am a bona fide Domme. Still do not really regard men as "lesser". We enact the dynamic, but we're not delusional. :) …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:17 PM
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TRP as a dating guide is about avoiding women that are not demonstrating dedication and loyalty, and who are withholding affection and other similar types of shit testing. I wish, mate. I wish it was about that. But it's really not. Because you know, AWALT. ;) Born female? Can't "escape" that.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 07:07 PM
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was to have a look at mistakes other women made in their life so I don't make those same mistakes. I do that too sometimes, for the same reason. I want to be a moral and worthwhile person, and I don't want to hurt those around me. I appreciate male perspectives, I find they help me deepen my understanding. But you know what I've found? IT DOESN'T MATTER what you do, according to these men YOU WILL BE WRONG ANYWAY. Whatever you do, however you better yourself, they will spin it. Because that's wh…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 07:04 PM
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r/MensLib Check out the guys there. Most of them are really cool. Also r/TheBluePill Good men exist. My husband is one. I know others. Keep the faith!
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 10:17 PM
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Sisters! :) Same.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 06:48 PM
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the woman does not contribute anything to the relationship or that they do not receive anything in return Let them tell that to my main provider arse. Happily married for 20+ years. I do not expect him to bust his balls working alone for this family and burn like a freaking candle at both ends before his time. I plan to keep him healthy and happy for as long as possible. He does not expect me to be a submissive simpleton who earns less and does curtsies all day or else his peepee won't get hard.…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 04:19 PM
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I upvoted this. I was glad for you, mate, I like seeing people happy. It really was a nice story. But you still comment on MGTOW. Including ”AWALT” and stuff. And is this the same gf who beats you? We know good people and good relationships exist. Knowing good people exist does not necessarily make one naive about the world though. Are you telling the bluepilled simps nice lullabies because they'll eat them up? Maybe you were being honest, I don't know you. But if you are, there's something brok…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 07:47 PM
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I think you misread my comment. Yes, that is possible, weak, scared women do exist (and women who perpetuate harmful stereotypes of what men should be). They'll "feel attracted to secure men". Or you know, seemingly secure men... But I am saying a lot of women just don't. Insecurities are normal. Well rounded women can deal with them and actually appreciate their partner opening up to them.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 01:54 PM
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Why are you being downvoted? What you're saying can very well be true and I have met examples.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 03:56 AM
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To be honest, that's also a factor. Men aren't the only ones who can be misogynistic and what you're describing is a sad reality. Fortunately, there's more and more of the other kind of women nowadays. We can handle your emotions, no worries, boys. All humans have those. :)
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 03:55 AM
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Word, mate.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 03:51 AM
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Therapy, indeed. You must get to the root of the issue and learn how to deal with it. Unlike a redpill coach, a therapist will be able to give you a valid perspective and teach you healthy "life hacks". Don't worry, with persistence you will get there. Sending a virtual hug to you.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 03:44 AM
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In this case it’s because when he gets insecure he treats her poorly. Ding, ding, ding! For me, and I'm sure for many women, insecurity in itself is not a big deal. It's a normal part of the human experience. The problem is that, in many cases, these insecure men either overcompensate by trying to step on your neck to prove themselves more "alpha" (see redpillers), by trying to control you and police your behaviour, or by cheating. And, probably, in other ways. Not all men with insecurities do t…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 03:40 AM
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Nah, mate. Too complicated. My wee female brain could not take all that. Hypergamy, wheeee!
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 07:32 PM
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Apparently fishermen don't ask fish how fishing is done, or some crap. Because, ya know, women are dumb fish and redpillers are mighty hunters. :)))
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 02:47 PM
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This restores my faith in humanity. If it's true, that is. No, you're not a "beta". There's no such thing. You're a decent person, or you've strived to become one. Good on you, mate. Put yourself out there and people will pick up on it.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 02:42 PM
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The female lead, despite her dominant persona in everyday life, falls into a submissive role. Wherein my male lead, despite his reserved elegance, is the undisputed dominant role in their relationship. For what ever reason I love that dynamic. For me it's kinda the opposite. I mean the punk guy you described seems quite attractive. Except for different reasons. :) If he really was dominant irl, then he's for you. But if he knows how to relinquish control to a woman, he's for me. :)
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 07:42 PM
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Looool, stealing this. :)
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 07:39 PM
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Right? I'm happy for you. If you're worth picking, just put yourself out there and the right person will see you. :) We've been together for 25 years. :)
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 09:23 PM
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You don't need to ”medmaxx”. Or ”maxx” anything. Give up that lingo asap, normal people run from it. As you could see here, it gives off red flags that you really don't need. You don't need to be an extrovert either. Not that you could realistically and fundamentally change your core personality (the people who told you so were right). What you CAN do is become a good person in your OWN skin. If you want good friends, put yourself in social situations, not with lots of people that may trigger yo…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 09:18 PM
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Word. This describes my now husband. He was shy and introverted, but a really cool person. He did not ”get laid” much, then again he was looking for more. And found it. I approached him.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 09:00 PM
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Shh, he is "high-value" and redpilled himself to steer clear of all those "low-value" wimminz. Don't wake him up, he's sleeping on dat feminist plantation (with his eyes open, of course, since a man who's opened his eyes cannot close them back up).
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 11:20 PM
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Yup. Russian troll.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 11:06 PM
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Indeed, but they could never. Obama's bar is MUCH too high for them.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 11:00 PM
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Hahahahaha 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 10:58 PM
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There is a whole subreddit dedicated to that, mate. This one. Read the posts. We're not making Cliffs Notes for you to throw in your buddy's face, that's not a fair thing to ask for.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 10:38 PM
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Sorry to hear that. :( I didn't mean to be insensitive, please accept my apologies. Yes, I know you're a woman. I've seen your replies before, very articulate and helpful.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 10:33 PM
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Shut up, you had it good compared to OP. At least your dad was a masculine man's man of the manly kind. /s Jesus, the sheer stupidity and entitlement. Young, dumb and fulla blame shifting. And no, I will not argue with idiots on Discord. They just ain't worth my time.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 04:25 PM
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Don't feed the trolls.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 07:16 AM
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:D Or not. Ya know. But whatever, mate.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 09:41 PM
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Often, you get what you put in. Wine her and dine her more. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 07:43 PM
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Really? How so? :)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 07:38 PM
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David Bowie ftw. ;)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 06:23 PM
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I also totally misinterpreted dread-game as maybe not texting too much throughout the day so messages get value again :( Oh, no. The bluepill mentality has irreparably corrupted your brain. You are beyond help.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 06:19 PM
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You sure did. :) Kidding aside, that was actually a reasonable approach. MRP would not be proud. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 06:10 PM
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You make some pretty good points. :) The thing is that we must ALL strive to be the best that we can be. But you don't need the red pill for that.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 06:02 PM
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RP ideas are going to get them ostracized in certain social circles or professional settings As it should be. A lot of people have more sense than redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:55 PM
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unless there's some kind of weird misogynist viewpoint in it somehow /s Nah, mate. Couldn't possibly be.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:54 PM
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those guys are all made for each other actually Ding, ding, ding! :)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:53 PM
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shut the fuck up is what they name the concept of not engaging in an argument. You basically wait it out So you don't try to hear her and fix what's broken, you just dismiss her hysterics and wait for it to be over. Women don't want to be heard, they just throw tantrums and want to be dOmInaTeD. Very alpha, mate, A+. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:50 PM
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Shouldn't I just self-improve on my own? Of course you should, mate. But you don't need the red pill for that. Get out of there quick.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:47 PM
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given two similar options she will choose the man with more money. Um, nope. I chose the penniless one. I've always been of the opinion that I can make my own money. With hard work and love, fortunately things have turned out just fine. However, of the three prospects I had at the time, he was the most remarkable individual. Intelligent, compassionate, genuinely respectful, egalitarian, laid his heart on a platter and did not play ANY games (which told me he was also brave). He was also a virgin…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 05:42 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. But keep telling your story, I think you can help others. It's a good example of how TRP can really affect the lives of ordinary men by turning them into brainwashed misogynists. And the lives of ordinary women who are kind, genuine and giving enough to fall prey to these now changed and tainted men.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 02:12 PM
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I think they're trying to get rid of the competition. Why the hell would I choose a misogynist when I have the option of a genuinely good and respectful guy? If they can shame more men for being "simps" or convince them women like arseholes, then there will be less good guys for us to choose from. And more of us would have to settle.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 01:49 PM
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You're right. Peace out.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 02:59 AM
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He's the n-th redpiller I've seen here with the same shtick. "Convince me not to be a redpiller anymore". I've really tried. Links, lengthy arguments, everything. Nothing worked. And then it dawned on me. First of all, they're not really looking for answers. You can tell by the wording. Second of all, if I have to "convince" someone to be a moral person, one who doesn't manipulate, discriminate, who doesn't subscribe to misogynistic ideas and dreams of supremacy... that person is not worth my ti…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:13 PM
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How do you avoid becoming a racist arsehole? By not paying attention to racist sh*t. How do you avoid becoming a misogynist POS? Stop listening to the likes of Elliot Hulse and other redpill dumbsh*ts. It's quite simple, really. You "want to be convinced you shouldn't be a part of redpill" ? Have at it, mate. Nobody should have to convince you to be a proper human being.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 12:02 AM
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Perhaps this is a soft form of MGTOW philosophy? Nope, just common sense.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/20 06:39 PM
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Of course it's not too much. 🙂 Listen, I wish I was God mate, and tell you that you WILL find someone SOON. 🙂 But all I can do is tell you that YES, there is hope for gender non-conforming people like you (or me). Especially in today's world, more than ever before. Just do your thing AND put yourself out there as much as you possibly can, in the ways you can. 😘
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 01:38 PM
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Mate, I am a bit more than RR. But I don't presume everyone is like me. 🙂 Rather than just giving my own experience and desires and having OP not meet those very often irl, I'd teach OP something he can really use with the majority of ppl. Not many 19-20 year olds have my confidence and life experience, and even if they are dominant, they are still learning, and are still influenced by the societal script. People evolve, we're not "born ready". 🙂
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 12:47 PM
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I'm 5' 7", 148 lbs, glasses +sensitive and empathetic? Sounds hot, tbh. I am NOT surprised. :) When I doubt myself, I remember something I read a while ago that rang very true: "You're attractive. You're just... not your type".
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 10:35 PM
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That is a legitimately funny cope. No, mate, in the real world most don't. 55 year old men are gross. All my attractive, Chad-type mates/acquaintances from high-school and uni look like they've been run over by a freight train. It's sad, really. If most 25 year olds weren't such vapid cock of the walk types, "soccer mums" would totally go for 25 year olds. We can get them, too. I have men 20 years younger swooning over me on a regular basis. Most humans have an expiration date, and from what I'v…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 10:09 PM
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So, first of all, women DO care about looks. But "attractive" means different things to different women. And personality does factor in, because it CAN make a plain-looking man legitimately attractive. But ALL humans gravitate towards people they find attractive. Second of all, WE LIKE NICE GUYS. We do. NO SANE HUMAN likes arseholes. The thing is that we like people who are genuinely nice, like for its own sake. Some men make the mistake of believing that being nice will get them laid. Being nic…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 09:37 PM
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Please tell me that all these people are crazy and that most people in the real world do not think like this. All these people are crazy and most people in the real world do not think like this. :) Sometimes the best explanations really are the simple ones. I need to have a high paying career, ton of friends, great physique, and amazing charisma to even have a chance I met my husband when he was in college. He didn't and doesn't "have a high paying career". I am the breadwinner. But we are a uni…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 09:02 PM
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Neither gender is ”pathetic”. You shouldn't think that, simply because it's just not true. Allowing ourselves to feel and show vulnerability can get us hurt the most, but the deep connections that can only be achieved this way are the ones that make life worth living. Sure, shit people will take advantage of you when you're kind and open. And statistically, there are many shit people in the world. But we meet them and learn and understand that it's the other kind, of both sexes, that propel huma…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 08:34 PM
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Definitely. My husband was one, and still is today.
/r/askFDS13/03/20 06:01 PM
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Rotfl, mate, I spit out my coffee! 😀😀😀😀
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 03:50 PM
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Yeah, sure mate, it was women that brought about the downfall of Rome. Also women are causing global warming, you know, because they're hot and everything. And I'm not saying it was aliens... But it was aliens! 😜
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 03:49 PM
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Wow, way to be defensive, mate. I was not suggesting any of the above... It literally did not cross my mind to attack you. Do you react like that often? You may have bigger issues than you think. I'm out, bye.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 09:01 PM
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Of course, that is just life. Everyone gets taken for a ride at the very least once in their life. The important thing is WHAT we learn from it, and this is what many get wrong and few get right. Any chimp can "learn" that hurr durr wimminz bad because a flaky person cheated on them. It takes a bit more brains to realize that they may have chosen wrong and should change the pond they fish in. I do get your point, of course. I was trying to perhaps assuage your fears by pointing out that people i…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 08:34 PM
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Could I point out that these women cheated with... men? Men who knew they were in relationships and still pursued them or accepted their advances. Do you really think so little of man-kind that you assume it was impossible for them to turn down dat sweet pussy? Because my husband would strongly disagree. I'm not keeping him from anything. He's keeping it in his pants on his own and according to him it's not that difficult. You sound the same. You would be faithful. Be honest, you KNOW you would …
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 05:49 PM
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Same. My husband was also a virgin when we met, some 25 years ago (which was a plus for me). My sister as well, my two best friends same.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 05:29 PM
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Hm, you could count as one. Welcome anyway. :) I hope you'll find the support you need here (as well as through therapy). FYI, I am a feminist. :) And I very much like men. You just have to hang around enough good ones for enough time. They're people. Don't let those Terper idiots bring you down again. They are either misguided drifters or just trash people. They may be aggressive, but if you come to think about it their logic is flawed and their opinion doesn't really matter.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 05:21 PM
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Yes, he does seem very negative, doesn't he. All the time... I would bet money that's a big reason for the rejection he's facing. But maybe he's just venting here.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 01:28 PM
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Heh. Kinda the same as r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, though. Right? ;)
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 11:38 PM
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TRP-er. :)
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 09:50 PM
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Good for them. Only they're not understanding how the "female brain" works. They've come up with a shit predictive model that they're basing their entire worldview on, and they try hard to stretch it to fit everyone. REAL science comes up with a theory (so far, so good) and first thing scientists do is try to DISPROVE it. If they find ONE instance that disproves it, then: In the hard sciences, that means the theory is crap. Whatever is not 100% true is false. In the soft sciences, they explore f…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 09:08 PM
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Oh, he called me a women that tought i was "the exception" Welcome to the female experience with TRP. We're all "exceptions". :) Also, we don't know our own minds. And are incapable of logic and reasoning. Yes, it is really and truly dangerous. It's not just a boys' club for hurt people who need a tough love hug. That kind of supremacist, dehumanizing thinking rewires your brain and we have some guys detoxing here who can attest to how difficult shaking that conditioning is.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:55 PM
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He does have a point (and so do you). We do have a lot of work to do on ourselves and our own mindsets, it seems. Education, taking responsibility, no longer behaving like we need daddy to hold our lil hand... Not you, obviously, but us women in general. And I also think it will happen. Though that's of little comfort to OP until he finds a good'un, I suspect. Rights and equality were step one. Getting drunk on freedom was step two. If we're smart, getting rid of the patriarchal vestiges in ours…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:48 PM
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Um, that's a hard no from me. :) And I'm leaning left. But I know what communism was REALLY like.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:41 PM
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Nah, it's just some hurt bois who have been wronged by evil wimminz and think it's okay to nuke all woman-kind now. But we should understand them and pat them on their lil headz. /s Now pain, I understand. Being wronged by bad humans, I understand. Dealing with it by becoming a shit human in response, that I no longer understand.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:20 PM
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I've lurked there for a while and I'm a woman, so technically I could post if I wanted to. They have some good ideas, just plain ol' Grandma's advice, really, but there's... something I really dislike about that sub. The bitterness towards men, maybe? The transphobia? The excessive standards? Being too quick to call any woman who disregards them a "pick-me"? I'm also wary of anything "sisterhood"-like. I mean I do consider myself a sister to all ethical women and a friend to all ethical men, but…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:11 PM
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Pfftt, you're too beta for me. :p
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:01 PM
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Seconded. :) And welcome to ex-redpill, guys.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 08:00 PM
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noble goal of being a better man That is a noble goal. And you can always achieve it as a normal human, in the real world. :)
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 07:58 PM
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now this thing haunts me that I might have hurt her psychologically playing these shitty games Ding, ding, ding, we have a winner! Welcome to the ACTUAL redpill. Reality. There is no easy way, no system. There's just an infinite variety of people and someone for everyone. Try to be a good, principled human being and if you don't get a response in kind, learn from the experience and look for better people. You attract people that are similar to you and confirmation bias is a huge part of all our …
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 07:50 PM
1

Ah. Foiled again. I'll know better next time. Be well, mate.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/20 04:53 PM
1

Sometimes, some things are - at least observably - true, but not for the reasons terpers think they are.They miss the point more often than not and poison themselves with all sorts of harebrained conclusions. Above faults, if you perceive them as faults, can apply to flawed PEOPLE. In general. And most people are "sheep". Look at terpers, blindly following the terper gospel and actually reprogramming themselves for it. Aren't they following their "successful" gurus like sheep? But let's discuss …
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 01:51 PM
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You've been making great steps since I've known you online, though. If you've worked on your depression, perhaps it's just a question of numbers and luck from now on. Reading your post, I wonder what would've happened to my husband had I not "snatched" him... He was shy and serious, like you, and according to him he spent his high-school and early uni years feeling sorry for himself at parties while his friends were hooking up. :) He never approached, it just wasn't him. So the girls who liked h…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 12:26 PM
1

Oh-kay, mate. Go with your bad self! Don't let those predatory wimminz lock you down and make a slave out of you.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/20 03:21 PM
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How does this relate to my post, except to mention that it's not easy being green? We know, Sherlock. No one said it was. Nice rant there, though. Like a beautiful bridge in the clouds, built on general statements, falsehoods and fallacies. Bye now.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/20 02:44 PM
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Just talk to her, mate. Tell her about your day, tell her about your studies, share what you think about stuff, the games you've played lately, the places you've been, the colleagues who annoyed or helped you, the movies you've seen... Come on. I mean is any of this rocket science? If you ask me again, I'm going to assume you're trolling. How do you do this part? You open your mouth and you speak.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/20 02:34 PM
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Actually, there are some garden variety ones. They're not evil. They are just convinced that "men are the superior sex". For... reasons (they vary). And from this core belief stem all kinds of toxic ideas and behaviours. They don't "hate women", no. It's just that "women are...". But that's okay! Because they "like/accept them anyway". I've also become quite wary of "men and women are not equal, they're complementary" lately. Complementary how? Ask and watch the misogyny pour away.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/20 10:48 PM
1

What do you think will happen, though. :) Shortly, in fact.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 06:44 PM
1

Oh, good for him. I'm glad he found his way out. :) I think he'll still need a bit of therapy though, if he's like the guys I'm seeing recently who have lasting trauma from TRP.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 06:43 PM
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So you are asking for replies from blokes only? Just so I know if I should reply or not. :) I'm a woman. If you're interested in my perspective, I can share it. If not or not at this time, that's also cool.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 06:40 PM
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I see that nobody here took the bait. But you did get a lot of replies from askTRP. Perhaps that's why the people here thought you were a troll. Well, those replies are all crap, except for the arcade games one. But you bought into every single one like a puppet on a string... It's sad to see how strangers on keyboards can ruin lives from hundreds of miles away. Mate, your friend communicated quite clearly. She told you what she wanted, IN SO MANY WORDS. She wants to connect with you more, to sh…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 06:30 PM
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OP is female. Enough said. He will not listen.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 05:00 PM
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This post needs to be seen by whoever preaches that RP knows ”The Truth”. They don't know jack shit. Instead of getting to know you, they TELL you what you're like. 'Cause THAT's logical. I'm sorry, but you have indeed lost him. Unless you can get another MALE friend to talk some sense into him. And that's not guaranteed to happen. From now on, you're an inferior creature whose main talent and purpose is procreation and entertainment, driven by emotions and incapable of logic. Any attempt at suc…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 04:57 PM
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A lot of intelligent people fall prey to cults and extremist organizations under the right conditions. Feeling stupid for it is actually a good sign. A sign that we've learned, and we're capable of admitting our mistakes rather than blindly seeking validation for our choices.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 12:48 AM
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Funny. I am the main breadwinner in our family, though. I also do my share of the housework. And shock horror, I love my husband not for what he does for me, but for who he is, and the joy he brings into my life. That must be an alien concept to some. I... don't wonder why.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/20 07:04 PM
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Exactly. They need a different kind of pill for their depression. There's shame in misogyny, but there's no shame in that.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 10:12 PM
1

Well, then perhaps you should read your own sidebar, as well as the extensive ”literature” posted by your high priests. Should I link some of the immortal words of your guy Illimitable Man? Some wisdom from your boy ”Zaytsev”? By the way, the true Vasily Zaytsev would roll in his grave. While puking. If you don't like being compared to white supremacists, stop behaving like them. Bye, Felicia!
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 09:47 PM
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Someone does not understand the definition of an ethical system. Also... how men and women differ in their usage of emotion and reason in their thinking Um, no. That's not what TRP teaches, by a long shot. That's like saying white supremacists are just teaching how whites and blacks ”differ in their usage of reason”. In the sense that black people are little more than animals that must be controlled and patronized because they are fundamentally inferior, and white people are the master race. Kin…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 09:24 PM
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That is a very insightful addition.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:56 PM
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If you're both pulling your own weight why are you together? Because we love each other and are looking for a partner, not a cart.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:50 PM
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There's billions of women on the planet. That's too many variables to simply define. No shit, Sherlock. Cognitive dissonance much?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:48 PM
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She was being sarcastic, mate.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:44 PM
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they are getting pregnant by them then wanting a man with a job to raise those kids while the messing with the "superior" continues behind the other guy's back Hahahaha. No. ”Women” are doing no such thing. There are women who do, though. But to a discerning human of superior intellect, AWALT is hilarious. And AWALT is one of TRP's central tenets. That's not a principle. It's a dehumanization tool borrowed from psychological warfare that makes you justify assertions like "women can't control the…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:43 PM
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and you oppress them Nobody is oppressing terpers, lol. We are just calling a spade a spade.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:38 PM
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If a woman cant help herself that's just proof they shouldnt have rights because they cant control themselves. The fuck did I just read.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 08:36 PM
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We all accept a set of illusions while trying to deal with harsh perceived realities. It's called "the pill of life".
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 07:40 PM
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You have been consuming poisonous material (probably for a while now...) and need a personal detox. Talk to a therapist and find your own personal way. This is the only advice that applies to ALL ex-repillers I have seen in this sub. People get frustrated because we don't provide ”the solution” when they come to us. ”But what should I dooo, I came here to fix myself and all you people are offering is generalities and platituuudes! You're frauds and haven't convinced me, trp/blackpill/greenpill/e…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 07:30 PM
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👍
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 05:17 PM
2

the people you attract are a reflection of you. This.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 05:12 PM
1

So you would be what they call a "sigma"? "The independent"?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 05:11 PM
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This is a chicken or egg situation imo. There are multiple factors involved. One's station, one's family, one's environment... And why not, one's looks. For instance, I sometimes wonder what I could have become if my environment had been less abusive growing up and thus had scarred me less. I think back to my grandparents and the huge positive contribution they made in my life, as my main grounding and confidence-building influence. Had my grandfather been my father, I would have been orders of …
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 05:09 PM
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Yeah, no. He wasn't necessarily redpill or MGTOW. Then again, she gave a valid reason and was respectful about it herself. I, as a woman, and I'm sure many women will understand what I'm saying, would have understood if a guy had to reschedule sometimes because of work. Men need to get with the program and do the same, and tbh I would not date someone who reacted like that. Mate, you're important (or have the potential to be), but my career is important too, and although family and partner will …
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 04:47 PM
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Well, a lot of folks are switches and we don't think there's anything wrong with that. They say switches have the most fun. :) I have personally not seen discrimination against them in the way bisexuals are discriminated against. Kinkiness is a spectrum too and women fall all over it, just like with sexuality. There are sexual sadists or harsh mistresses, and there are lots of "gentle dommes", "mommy dommes" etc in the community. Those people do not enjoy being submissive. They very much prefer …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 03:52 AM
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Women's "achievements" aren't attractive to men in the same way that men's achievements are attractive to women. That can upset you if you like, but it's just reality. Really, though? :) The men I associate with beg to differ, in word and in deed. Perhaps I just know better men? That can upset you if you like, it's just reality.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 01:10 AM
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I have to approach it far more carefully than I feel like I should need to because some men are, not just not into it, but violently not into it and any suggestion is seen as you rebelling/making a bitch of them. It's genuinely hazardous to let out. There are nutjobs out there that would want to 'correct you', I shit you not, mate, it's scary out there. Can confirm.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 12:51 AM
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Here's a woman for whom it's not disgusting at all. It's actually the hottest thing ever. And I've been lucky enough to find a "real man" who's very much into being my sub. The best kind, imo. He doesn't give af what those TRP morons think. We laugh at them together. Embrace your sexuality. Be happy as you are. You only have one life, and it's not for terpers to live it.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 12:49 AM
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But isn’t that relatively irrelevant? How so? OP referred to "all hetero women" who "want to be treated roughly during sex". I think my reply is relevant, both to their post and to your comment. Female lifestyle doms do not "engage in that". They are genuinely INTO that. It's their sexual identity. I thought that went without saying without me spelling it out lol. Oh, you'd be surprised. :) I specifically mentioned averages, and the vast majority of women I’ve engaged with/other I know have enga…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 12:15 AM
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Have you ever been to a play party? There's this idea that female doms are few and far between, because we're besieged by hordes of faux-subs looking for fetish dispensers. But there's plenty of us. :) So many that we actually have trouble finding ACTUAL subs. In the general population, though, a large percentage of the women are neither submissive nor dominant. They're pretty vanilla. Most women who want men to "sweep them off their feet" are not looking to be controlled, face-fucked and roughe…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 11:56 PM
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Some might engage in that, but wouldn’t mind being dominated themselves. Um, nope. Switches do exist and good for them, but we exist as well. Unfortunately though, some people (mostly male doms...) still believe that sh*t even in BDSM circles. They come up to you at parties (or online) and proposition you, 'cause they know you just "haven't met a real man yet". It's actually one of our biggest peeves. Refraining from a touch of ballbusting is mighty difficult on those occasions...
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 11:12 PM
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Debt-free virgins without tattoos know that they're worth more than a redpiller.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/20 01:14 PM
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This is awesome. Mega-cringe! I hope they bring the tickets down from 1,999 to 1.99. I might consider attending. Wearing a "Warren for President" hat. :)
/r/ExRedPill18/01/20 02:18 AM
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I will tell you one thing, unless I am the "center" of my man's life, unless he lays his heart down at my feet, I will not look at him twice. I don't know about other women. But I've always been like that, and I respond in kind. Probably kept me away from proto-redpillers, and brought me my great husband of 20+ years.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/20 02:13 AM
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Up until WWI, half the men died in various wars...
/r/ExRedPill18/01/20 02:04 AM
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Hahahahahahaha. That's how I feel.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/20 10:12 PM
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7-ish ? In any case, high. That's, of course, very subjective, and please consider the fact that my preference is for light-skinned men (the more "translucent" the better). You're cute though! Upper body looks good too. Shave the beard.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/20 12:43 PM
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again trp-tier advice Except it's not TRP advice. It's self-improvement advice. It's been around for a long time and of course it works, it's common sense. But the fact that they've hijacked it to give their crap pill a shiny wrapping does not validate TRP.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/20 10:16 PM
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This is going to be long, apologies in advance. I wouldn't worry, mate. I don't think you've been redpilled. However bad things are right now, you seem to have enough sense to realize that this is ONE woman who hurt you. Not "womankind". She did you wrong, perhaps you did her wrong as well (idk), you certainly weren't right for each other. Sad facts of life. Be mad at her, let it out, let yourself heal like people used to for thousands of years before MGTOW became a whiny bitchez club. That way,…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/19 10:08 PM
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Well, I'm not poly or anything and I'm still in love with my sensitive, human husband. After 25 years. As you can imagine, we've been through a lot together and I've seen him cry and express "weakness"... more than once. Same goes for him with me. I do know women who are like your exes, one expressed her disdain for sensitive men in my presence. Many of these women are not even bad people. They're insecure, scared people, people who need someone to lean on. Okay. Look for someone to lean on. Jus…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/19 04:52 PM
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How about no. How about you go eat your poison pie back in your circle-jerk and leave us normal folks alone.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 07:45 PM
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As you should be, until you can regroup and find some balance again.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 07:37 PM
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Be honest with us, mate. You're a Chad. 😀 Now seriously, I agree with you on pretty much everything above. I'll also liken this kind of cult with drugs, promising a quick, tried-and-true feel-good escape. From which you need expensive and lengthy rehab to detox...
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 07:36 PM
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Is that supposed to cast doubt on our "recipe"? We don't peddle recipes here, mate. This is the real world, where we know that people who sell you recipes want to take advantage of you. Your journey is your own. I personally think it's extremely hard to detox from the ideas of harmful cults and it takes YEARS. Decades, sometimes. That's why you won't see any "success" stories overnight. What you do with this information is your business. Being a normal human being, do you want it hard enough? Th…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 07:16 PM
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No, it's not. Goddamn.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 06:59 PM
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Hahahahaha! That bullshit again.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 06:50 PM
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What's a "success story" to you, then?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 06:39 PM
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My husband is 1,70 (5'7"). I don't care. He doesn't even possess "all virtues" lol. We're both white Europeans. Yes, I know, I'm an "exception". We're all "exceptions".
/r/ExRedPill17/12/19 06:37 PM
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Excuse me? You mean that because some dumb bimbo across the pond writes to a Tyler Durden in jail or a bored housewife gushes over 50 Shades, I shouldn't "complain about how and why men come after women"? Do those men have brains upstairs? I DID NOT CONSENT TO BE STALKED OR TREATED LIKE SHIT BECAUSE STUPID WOMEN EXIST. So no. Be a gentleman or hit the road as far as I'm concerned. I for one DON'T go for arseholes.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 06:26 AM
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What do you mean by "having your cake and eating it too"? That doesn't seem like much of a cake to me. Go to the BDSM subreddits and you will see that most women who prefer dominant men also want them to behave like old-school gentlemen outside the bedroom. So they don't want your garden-variety arsehole. Blame it on the romance novels, blame it on the teen flicks, blame it on society or family, I don't know. I'd have to meet the actual women you're referring to. Many are feminists too, in the s…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 04:41 AM
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The one who will make her happier.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 04:17 AM
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Eh, redpill teaches they don't actually want that. They say or perhaps, brainwashed by feminism, even think they want that. But you can't rely on their judgment because women aren't self-aware. What they actually want is an arsehole "alpha", who treats them badly and keeps them on their toes. That's why they go for the "bad boys" instead of the "good boys" redpillers think they were (well, before they took the red pill and became enlightened as to the true nature of wimminz). Yes, they really sa…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 04:08 AM
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Exactly. Don't concern yourself with the personal preferences of people who will not be a meaningful part of your life.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 03:30 AM
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Oh, no, mate. You're not tall? How did you ever get any women? Any redpiller worth his salt knows us hypergamous wimminz only go for the tallest alfalfas. /s Seriously now, good on you for detoxing from that crap. And welcome to our subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 03:27 AM
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I concur with this and I'm a woman. The blokes there are really nice, it's a good space.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 03:20 AM
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Personally I have no desire to be feminine Just do you, mate. :) I am truly sorry about your experience, but objectively thinking, there are a lot of good people of both genders in the world. Please get therapy. It will help immensely. But it will take a while.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 03:11 AM
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The reason why me and my ex broke up is because of my art so it is taking me a while to find pride and something that she used against me There's a stupid woman for you. Girls aren't Saints Duh, mate. Some are downright evil. Same as blokes. I just don't think it's worth the risk anymore Then take a break. Regroup. Work on your mental health. It ain't a race, it really ain't.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 02:38 AM
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Get better mentally, it's important. Priority no. 1, I'd say. OP, listen to this person. they know what they're talking about (the rest of the message as well, not just this).
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 02:35 AM
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I've been doing that and now it 23 Mate, you are TWENTY THREE! There is one thing you haven't done. Exercise patience. all the toxic stuff was the right way to go especially if you want romance Then do the toxic stuff. You'll get the "relationships" you'll deserve, just like all the other horrible men. Redpill stuff will work with the stupid, vulnerable women that are easy prey - if you want those, by all means, go for it! I'll tell you this, if a redpiller would try that kind of shit with me, I…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 02:30 AM
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It's not. :) TRP is lying to you. Self-improvement brings positive things if you do it to... self-improve. For YOU. But it won't always bring you other "results".
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 02:05 AM
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You don't pursue self-improvement for da pussy. You pursue it for yourself, because you owe it to yourself as a human being. And when you get tired, you take a break. What are those many things people consider flaws? People are diverse, and indeed there may be many. But I'm interested to hear about your experience.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 02:04 AM
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Have you ever actually pointed this out / explained your pov to those women? I mean take the time to really explain (because everyone is presumably resistant to being shown something negative about themselves initially). Really talk to them. Make them see your point of view. Make them see YOU. MOST young people lack self-awareness. That, believe it or not, includes young men. So lack of self-awareness is a youth characteristic, not a "female" characteristic, it's indicative of a lack of life exp…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 01:57 AM
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They don't, though (have different sexual power). A poor / average woman will find someone to FUCK her once or twice, because a lot of men will fuck a keyhole given the chance. That's where the disparity in OLD (online dating) that people complain of comes from. She won't necessarily find someone to economically "support her" more than a poor / average man will find sex on the regular. You're confusing the two. Also, may I please ask something that could help you get a sense of perspective. How …
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 12:13 AM
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You mean sexually submissive? What's wrong with that, mate? You can develop your confidence, knowledge, courage, and grow happier with your life while still being true to your nature. You can be a - very manly - knight to a wise queen. Have you seen The Last Kingdom? Kind of like that Uhtred guy. You're 21, mate. You don't want to struggle against your deeper nature for years, like a fish on dry land, and wake up in your 40s still submissive and with 100 more hangups and detoxing to do. I've see…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:51 PM
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This.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/19 01:39 AM
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<3 <3 <3 then more power to you
/r/ExRedPill26/11/19 01:22 AM
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What tells you that they did, though? :) Please don't answer "field reports". You don't know the people MistressShadow11 is talking about, so "field reports" about other people would be useless. In science, we call what Terpers do in order to justify AWALT "extrapolating from incomplete data". It's a big no-no.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 10:18 PM
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Now THAT is scientific thinking. OP, read this carefully.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 10:11 PM
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If you want to escape, the online "brotherhood" must be replaced with another space that offers a feeling of brotherhood. So until you can form irl male friendships, which I cannot recommend enough regardless of your personality, I think you should visit other subs that can offer redpill's benefits. You can subscribe to r/MensLib or r/weightlifting or r/leangains. Now with 100% less pseudoscience and misogyny!
/r/ExRedPill05/11/19 12:54 PM
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I'm sorry, mate. I know it hurts, but it will pass. Virtual hugs to you. If it makes any difference, I am a woman and I've broken up with people because we were incompatible, without having anyone on the sidelines. Just because I don't like wasting people's time, or my time for that matter. Please get away from TRP. It will fuck you up badly. There was a guy recently in a sex advice sub who was asking for help, he felt he was going nuts and didn't know what to do. Guess what his problem was. :) …
/r/ExRedPill30/10/19 02:41 PM
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if you didn't match up with what THEY told you was masculine then you where nothing Which has been demonstrated above. :)
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 04:36 PM
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The term "philosophy" gives it more legitimacy. They claim they are creating a set of tools designed to help men. Their stated primary objective would not be to rally those men into a movement (i.e. cult), but to help those men thrive individually using said set of tools. Maybe it started that way? Like a sort of "let me teach you how to get dem bitchez, clueless young'un". But it grew into a monstrous, soul-sucking contraption. Some men that seem more self-aware have been able to extract themse…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 04:34 PM
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Yeah, I expected that one. First of all, thank you for your advice, I will continue to apply it. Second of all, evopsych STILL isn't science. So I will not be turning to that, thank you. But I'm sure I can do better otherwise. Third, everyone makes general statements based on personal observation. The thing is that not everyone presents them as absolute natural law and the voice of God. I don't. TRP do. Nowhere in my message did I refer to "all women", "female nature" and such bullshit. So there…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 03:17 PM
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Oh, women would too, mate. I know, shock horror. A harem composed of your trusted SO and several young bucks, with various qualities, sounds pretty good to some of us. If anything, women are more loyal in general and put more effort into a relationship. In real life, that is. A worthwhile woman won't just open their legs for any idiot that pays her a compliment. If they leave their husbands, it's often because they have serious issues they haven't been able to fix over time. So they get to a poi…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 01:53 PM
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Me? :) Or another poster? If he asked for a divorce I would do everything in my power to solve the problem/s while keeping my dignity. And don't think we haven't had any of those. Strong bonds are forged in adversity. :) The important thing you have when both partners "suffer" from "one-itis" is a powerful motivation to make things work. A fix-it rather than throw-it-away mentality that you don't get if you start off with a back-up plan. Also, my husband knows that he is allowed to do whatever h…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 09:29 PM
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Let him go. He's not ready. :)
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:37 PM
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She didn't say he was perfect. :) Presumably, she is aware of his flaws. They are just not dealbreakers compared to the rest of him. That's how I feel about mine.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:27 PM
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Me too. He is my other half. Married 20 years. :) Some really are good eggs.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:25 PM
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I hope you think misogyny and AWALT are in the other 10%... Sexual techniques are always going to work on some people. Whatever they are. It's a big world out there. The self-help advice is not inherent to TRP. They just claim it as theirs, sort of bragging about other people's ideas... Actually, if you had to define the main ingredient in the Red Pill, what would you say it was? Because having studied the phenomenon, I have a good idea of it myself. I've seen some smart, professional men have i…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:22 PM
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You're welcome, mate. By the way, what will you be studying? Edit: This impressed me. I don't think they only refer to the physical act of birth. There's a much deeper, spiritual meaning. "From woman, man is born; within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married. Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come. When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound. So why call her bad? From her, kings are born." And I can tell you this. From man…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/19 09:17 PM
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Where it is true, their philosophy is only true of damaged or stupid women. That's what they will attract (because no self-respecting, intelligent woman will touch with a ten-foot pole a man who thinks she's just a moron and a good for nothing walking sexthing). Of course, their "field reports" will sometimes legitimately validate that, based on the catch they attracted. It would be stupid to assume that those women don't exist. They do. Unscrupulous or plain stupid people EXIST, and women are p…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/19 08:27 PM
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Actually, maybe not, you know... If they are vapid c*nts, then yes. But not all actresses are, for instance. Maybe not all models are either. We for instance know how much education (including science education and critical thinking) we are pumping into our youngest. She wants to be an actress, but that will just be her profession. She still needs to be a well-rounded, smart, cultured human being. She should know better than to choose her mate only from among the "superhuman", "above-her" bunch.…
/r/ExRedPill24/09/19 07:08 PM
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Obviously, we can't be sure. :)
/r/ExRedPill24/09/19 06:08 PM
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Me: girl. You: not girl. But go ahead, mate. Teach me how I'll react when approached respectfully. I'm used to that kind of "lessons". No, boobs are not a cute dog. Obviously. But if he approaches it with that mindset, clinically so to speak, he has a shot. If he drools all over her because he's incapable of being a human being in the presence of a girl and starts "flirting", he doesn't.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/19 05:38 PM
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No, I didn't. I wasn't joking. You all think he'll shoot himself in the foot. But I didn't tell him to "flirt" or be creepy. I told him to be honest with her and respectful. Like asking to pet the fur of a mate's cute dog. It will work surprisingly well for a teenager. But whatever.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/19 05:27 PM
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Wow, mate, that is a hell of a story. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/19 06:40 PM
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So it appears the legal system did not wrong you. Maybe because you were in the right. I'm sure injustice does happen, but there are a lot of ppl who claim they were ”divorce raped” while not telling the whole story. Good on you for getting your kids, mate. Much happiness to you guys.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/19 05:19 PM
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This is SO FUNNY. You are an actual soldier. You give him the cold facts. Cognitive dissonance strikes his withered misogynistic brain hard. Error. Error. Implementing doubling down and stupid insult. I am so saving this exchange for the next cretin who claims wimminz cannot do fightz. Thanks, mate.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/19 04:58 PM
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Oh, and Red Pill DOESN'T work. Because The Red Pill is, fundamentally, "unplugging from feminist teaching and waking up to women's true nature". And they get it hilariously wrong. What works is the common sense advice, that you'd also get from elsewhere. Like self-improvement, as someone else said "having a life", understanding "no" (they preach that you should move on after being rejected, 'cause there's POF in the sea - which is, in actuality, another way of saying "she said no, don't be a cre…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 01:58 PM
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The irony, when we're considering how logical these people think they are, is that some stuff works, but not for the reasons they think it works. :) That cracks me up, tbh. I mean they are smart enough to make some observations about human nature and interaction, but not smart enough to actually understand why those things happen. Instead, they assign arbitrary meanings drawn from confirmation bias or, quite simply, poor reasoning skills. And teach each other this bullshit, like the blind leadin…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 01:38 PM
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Glad to have brightened your day.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 09:09 PM
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Well, I hope you can heal then. Someone suggested therapy. For issues of such magnitude, I think it's good advice. You need a lot of deprogramming. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 08:36 PM
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The answer is very simple and straightforward. I read your blog. Multiple articles, including the ones you posted on r/theredpill. I recognize the discourse, have been in contact with it many times throughout my life. I call it "the benevolent misogynist from a patriarchal culture speech". So familiar it looks almost carbon-copied. The part about the dating plight of the career woman was especially funny, with the little graphs in pink and blue and everything. My husband laughed hard at that. If…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 08:33 PM
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Well, if you are not one, I guess we shall see soon enough. Are you looking for advice? Are you looking to offer advice? Just to be welcomed into the community?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 08:01 PM
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And here, dear viewers, we have not the TRP Alfalfa Male, but a Garden Variety Misogynist. Make no mistake, he's still a snake, just not as venomous.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 07:45 PM
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Why is this account new? There is literally only one post on it, this one. Something is fishy about this. To me it smells of TRP troll making a "field report". I'd like to have hope in humanity, so I hope I'm wrong. If you're EX-trp, just post from your regular account, mate. So... we'll see all the shitty history. No one is flawless, Mary Magdalene was a whore before she was a saint. But... your TRP friends will also be able to see what you're posting here. Which you shouldn't be ashamed of if …
/r/ExRedPill18/09/19 01:25 PM
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Mate, if you absolutely need to feel a girl's boobs, just tell her so. You can tell women sexual things in a respectful manner. We are sexual beings, we like boys just as much as boys like us, we just don't appreciate being treated like meat. Ask her nicely, with "pretty please". Tell her you find her very beautiful and attractive and you're curious to know what things feel like. Be sincere. Don't pressure her if she says no.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 09:49 PM
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Yay, I'm glad. She does seem interested and fortunately is not afraid to show it. And it seems you did the right things as well. We're rooting for you!
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 09:34 PM
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So how did your date go? :)
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 07:47 PM
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I am a forward woman who normally did the chasing in my relationships. I actually much preferred it that way. You're right, a man who shows no interest is going to make a woman back down eventually. The secret is for them to "trip" a little so we catch them. But we are going to give them a good chase, exercise is healthy after all. 😀
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 09:10 PM
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So, to be clear. Passive-aggressive stuff like "I'm just another guy to you" will not work. At this early point, you may well be, that doesn't mean you have to stay that way. Pressuring her to tell you "what she wants" will not work. Perhaps she knows, perhaps she doesn't, perhaps she has an idea and is waiting to see what you're like (I initially wrote "what you're made of", but then remembered this is exredpill and that may be interpreted as a call to show her how "alpha" you are, bleargh). Sh…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 04:40 PM
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She would very much tell a friend about her date with you, especially if she liked you and found you interesting! I find that to be a good sign. Starting uni, a graduate program or a job will indeed take up a lot of one's mental energy. I can totally see that as a good reason why she isn't texting as much. I can't tell you how he feels about her, but that's irrelevant to your relationship with her if you do get together. Other men will be around, we don't live under a rock after all. Just think …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 04:30 PM
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If you look like Jordan Barrett, you are HOT, boy. Your looks are not an issue. And personality can be developed. Regardless of who you meet and what your experiences are, make an effort to be a good, principled human being. The right people will pick up on that. My husband is 5"7'. I think he looks amazing and I'm still in love with him after 20+ years. This may sound corny, but when a reasonably intelligent woman sees that, in addition to having a not-too-ugly exterior, you are beautiful on th…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 02:33 AM
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"disabled men find partners" Not technically "disabled", but I was very attracted to a bloke with ASD. It didn't work out, but that wasn't anyone's fault. He was an amazing person, quirks and all. My husband has ADHD, he told me that from the beginning. There are some challenges, but I concentrate on his many qualities. He's very creative, for one, and always has a fresh perspective on things. ☺️
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 07:21 PM
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My husband was shy and nice (but genuinely nice, not the "I'll behave in a helpful way and be your shoulder to cry on so I can get into your pants" nice - women pick up on that and run like the wind, and then those ppl bitch about how girls only like arseholes). I actually approached him, but he did make it easy for me to connect. If a girl sends signals that she likes you (seeks closeness and makes physical contact with you, compliments your attire, intelligence, appearance etc), and you like h…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 07:05 PM
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You are welcome. Indeed it is like a poisoned gift... Something that seems like a lifeline for young men and promises to help them make sense of the world, but is actually making them even more bitter and lost. I hope you get better. And trust me, nice women are out there. I've been bullied in school for being a nerd. But I've since met many people that were very unlike my bullies. Shitty / vapid people still exist, and always will. I've just learned not to mix with them.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 06:33 PM
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I could understand why people want to marry up to escape poverty. That makes sense. I'm "checking my privilege" and thanking the Almighty I and my friends didn't have to.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 05:51 PM
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Mate, I don't know about your country (we could use a legit national statistic that states this is not just your view), but at 25 I wouldn't have dated a 35 year old bloke for a Titanic load of money and status. All the women I know married equal "status" men (except one who married "lower" - think UMC/LMC). I can confirm though that many women used to be TAUGHT that such an approach would maximize their lot in life. I.e. "honey, be smart, make the most of what you're got, get married in your ea…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 05:19 PM
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You're selling sand to Arabia here. 😀 I am a sexually (and generally) forward woman, I did pursue and I completely agree that we shouldn't expect others to read our minds. That forward attitude eventually got me my husband, who had always been shy around girls and naive to their cues. But it also got me a lot of heartache up to that point... Let me say that I do understand how men feel when approaching women, although from a slightly different perspective. I was actually looked down upon as the …
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 04:14 PM
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And again, I am showing you a red-blooded woman who could not give two sh*ts about older men. I always liked mine younger. My husband is younger. Our daughters like boys their own age and they actually told several older ones (think 3+ years older, not even more) to take a hike. Dating a 40 year old seems nauseatingly creepy to them. I get that some women or girls have daddy issues. Just like some young men have mummy issues. It's a youth wanting to connect with experience thing, I'm not dismiss…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 03:32 PM
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You confessed that you didn't know girls were into you until much later or because other people told you. Either those girls didn't indicate in any way that they liked you (very unlikely) or you did not pick up on their cues. I wasn't trying to criticize you. I feel no hostility towards you whatsoever. Just trying to help in a meaningful way.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 03:18 PM
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You have to detox just like you would detox from any cult. Read about that. Treat it just like any other addiction. In order to be successful, separate the common-sense self-improvement ideas that TRP graft their bull on from the actual toxic core of it. You have to understand - and see for yourself - that the good things they say have been promoted ad nauseam by other people too, often for a long time. TRP may just have been your first contact with them. I.e. going to the gym and taking respons…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 03:03 PM
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So your exes liked older men. At least for a while. I always liked younger men. People are different. The bigger issue here is that you aren't picking up on social cues. A touch of ASD, perhaps? If so, don't worry. Speaking from personal experience, social cues can be learned and you will get better in time. For now, get over the idea that you are somehow inferior to older men in "women's" eyes. You are not. You are what you make of yourself, and youth does present the great advantage of energy,…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 01:35 PM
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Funny. YES. That. And listening to her at least as much as you talk about yourself. I.e. showing her that you care about learning who she is.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/19 01:42 AM
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I see logic and reason are getting you downvoted. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/19 02:41 PM
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As with anything, I'd still need to see a basis for Strauss' numbers. :) But your assumption does sound logical. Having been the product of an abusive home myself, I can confirm that making healthy bonds as a young adult after living in such an environment is difficult. They don't end up with TRP because they're happy, that one's for sure.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/19 09:52 AM
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Everybody needs to learn lessons. All the time. "Women" do, "men" do, I do and you do. As a young woman, I have gotten in physical fights. I was a nerd and had some bullies at school that would not stop picking on me, shoving me, trying to knock me down the stairs etc. I told my parents. I told the teachers. Nothing could - or would - be done. So I defended myself. Other than that though, although I am not a wilting flower, I would never hit anyone - man or woman - outside a consensual, negotiat…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 01:20 PM
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Guy goes on picture-centric hookup app, finds that girls "like" pics of good-looking people. *surprised Pikachu face*
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 07:05 PM
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"Kissless virgin" as yet. There, fixed it for you. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 12:04 PM
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Boom. :) There you have it. I'm happy for you, mate. Do your thing and have fun.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 12:02 PM
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Whatever. Men are still not trash. Women are still not scum. I dismiss radical feminist views as much as I dismiss TRP, don't think you've impressed me. Does somehow #menaretrash validate "women are but warm holes" or viceversa? What the hell kind of logic is that? You guys pride yourselves on logic and reason, right? Take this simple, high-school logical proposition: "If a number of A are B, then all A are B." Does it sound true to you? Peace out. I've wasted enough time on trolls today.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 09:37 PM
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Well, we go as close as we can, it's the most any of us can do.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 09:05 PM
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Many people want a partner that will be all of those. :) It's called having standards. Hopefully they are realistic for your situation. Only you know that. Good luck, then. :)
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 07:52 PM
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No, he does not need to "accept" that. Because it's bollocks. Not stating that "women are superficial", because there is no "superficial Grand Hive Vagina", and "superficiality" has not been scientifically proven to be inherent to "female nature", does not give anyone an excuse for anything. It just means YOU'RE not being stupid - and shallow. Newsflash: women are people. I can't believe I'm explaining this. As such, they can be worthwhile people or less worthwhile people. You're married. I assu…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 05:26 PM
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Perhaps. There is always that possibility. Do you mean this? "Women are cunts. Women do want the sixes and they will friendzone you etc". Or this? "Everything the red pill says is true. When you first read trp, you found it to be true because it is." Do you honestly not see what's wrong here? You're just telling him and others that women are pond scum, but he doesn't need to be a dick about it. How is that respectful towards women? It's just the "post anger TRP" phase I've seen before. I don't w…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 04:17 PM
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As you very well said, "women" are not a hive mind. I generally know what I want, mate. So do most of my women friends. But what do I know. My tiny lady brain gets so confused.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 03:10 PM
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Wow. Another enlightened TRP troll. Must be something noxious in the air this week that attracts them. "Respect yourself and others". Very good principle. I assume you only mean other blokes though? Women sure as hell wouldn't feel respected by what you're spouting like it's God's honest gospel. Because of course you are. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect So how is that helping OP, though, since he's looking to get his just deserts from those very women? This is ex-re…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 03:05 PM
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The relationship status of the "alpha dudes" is kind of irrelevant. Money could have bought them a nice, dumb bimbo. That doesn't mean it will happen for the poor blokes who buy into the MLM. Or they could be very single/divorced... I couldn't see who the good-girl "Mrs Tomassi" was so I could send you a link, because Rollo Tomassi is an alias. Yes, the high priest of TRP is so "alpha", he doesn't preach under his own name. Of course, there is a reason. He's in self-mandated "witness protection"…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 08:49 AM
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Good points. That's not to say that there is currently something wrong with OP, for all we know. It seems he's been doing his due diligence. Hopefully we can help as well.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 08:46 AM
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Actually, it does. And breathing is EXACTLY where you lose weight. https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/the-truth-about-metabolism https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/287046.php You live and learn. Also, TRP will not really teach you how to get into a proper relationship. It will teach you how to hate women and warp you almost beyond repair. It is a mindset that's very hard to detox from. And don't call people "bitches" for opening up and seeking help. That's pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 03:36 AM
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If that's the anthem of this sub, I want no part of it. But somehow I doubt that.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/19 03:08 AM
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Thank you. :) That's because women like that would rather die a painful death than get close to a RP. Actually, most self-respecting women, shy or less shy, would. Which, of course, reinforces their bias. But what can ya do. To be honest, mate, when I saw that gem of wisdom on The Illiterate Man or whatever it's called, "women are just warm holes and they know it, so they objectify themselves", I was totally in. And the rest of their gems made for a full crown of shining approval. After all, it …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 12:22 AM
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And is that a bad thing? :) Actually, I thought he sounded very much like a bloke. He seems like an intelligent person either way. By the way, great post. Very to the point and solution-oriented.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 11:07 PM
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I disagree with the statement “be someone there want to be around” I feel that this implies that I shouldn’t be myself and should change myself so others would like me? No, mate, it just means "don't be a bellend". :) "Myself" can mean a lot of things. We should all feed the white wolf inside us.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 10:55 PM
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Preach, brother. :D They're planning on making WoW even worse. That franchise is a great example of how you can shoot yourself in the foot. Edit for clarity.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 10:50 PM
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Mate, it's ok to be shy. That's not it. You yourself said girls have "cornered you" on several occasions. Just don't say "no" next time one does. :) Make it clear by small gestures that you like her (if you do) and would like to be more than friends. If she says "sorry, you misunderstood", then you misunderstood. It's no skin off your nose and nobody will think worse of you. If she says "yes", you're in business! More and more women will make the first move, but they too are scared of rejection.…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 09:55 PM
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I spent a few free hours browsing the "manosphere". Such a beautifully-sounding name for such a nausea-inducing space. I wish someone hijacked it and filled it with handsome firefighters saving kittens and volunteers helping rebuild hurricane-stricken cities. Please, someone make that happen. Any Anonymous hackers here? :) Hooooly shit. No wonder you're feeling insecure, OP. I thought TRP were just bitter, disappointed blokes who put women down because they need to make themselves feel better an…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 06:15 PM
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You've answered your own question. :)
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 11:13 PM
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Yes, that's a common problem for your age range. :) You will eventually find someone you'll be interested in who will be interested in you as well. And it will feel amazing (speaking from experience). Actively look for a partner rather than focusing on immediate gratification with a hookup. Go out a lot. Upside: you'll have lots of fun in the meantime. And in the meantime, yes, God gave you two hands and using them is free. Get horny again? Use them again. My male friends reported as many as ten…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 10:33 PM
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Not sure how this is sex addiction rather than a normal young person sex drive. How about finding a proper partner that you can be intimate with regularly, rather than a hookup or a professional? Why is that off the table?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 09:37 PM
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I love Iceland's parental leave system. The wage gap is closing there as well. A child is the responsibility of both parents and either should be able to care for it. Parental leave for everyone! Society will benefit.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 07:26 PM
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Let's hold out hope that the ex red pillers who post here do want to be helped. I'm staying and commenting for them. I'm commenting for the depressed young lady firefighter whom an enlightened red piller was teaching to make peace with her "female nature". :))) There was a young man recently, no older than 16, who fortunately couldn't swallow the pill because of AWALT - and he loved his mother. I'm staying for him. There was another bloke who's struggling with the aftermath of TRP in a relations…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 06:50 PM
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To be fair, we are all driven by emotion to an extent. No decision is emotion-free. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/study-suggests-emotion-pl/ Just save that for the next time a red pill idiot will tell you "wimminz is emotional". :) Everyone freaking is. Science, bitchez!
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 06:32 PM
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Of course you do. But I think you're a bit confused. A belief system is indeed "stuff a person believes". Your second statement is logically sound. However, a belief system does not necessarily reflect reality "as it is". So again, "stuff a person believes" does not necessarily reflect reality because they lived to come to those conclusions. The fact that you think it does is not an "of course", it's an "oops". https://www.lexico.com/en/definition/belief_system Antivax mums have their belief sys…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 06:00 PM
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the points --------------> your head ​ :) no worries, mate
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:46 PM
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I always felt ashamed and guilty in advance for things I'd never done, never planned to do, things that disgusted me and harmed my dignity to even have associated with me. That's an awful way to live. I'm sorry you felt that way. So you should understand how women like OP can feel when they're faced with stuff like AWALT, plus the pseudoscientific tenets of "evolutionary psychology" that TRP proponents lap up. (There are actually multiple legitimate fields of study that deal with adaptive biolog…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:07 AM
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Don't waste your breath. :) I asked for a study that would prove "hypergamy" is an inherent biological trait of females, as they claim (AWALT and all that), and he took it to mean "some peeps doesn't believe gold-diggerz iz existing". I have yet to see the study, and I won't ever see it, for obvious reasons. I say potato, you say tomato... Doesn't make for a very intelligent conversation. Then again that's not what he's after, look at his post history.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 12:35 AM
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This made me LOL. Take my upvote, funny internet stranger.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 06:39 PM
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OP, you're working with an inferiority complex and a bit of depression that this toxic shit has grafted itself on. Those are the issues you need to address, and I recommend that you do this with a specialist. From what you describe, you are an accomplished, valuable individual, and the imposter syndrome you experience may actually be indicative of a higher-than-average intelligence. Many intelligent people feel like they're "playing a role" in their chosen workplace (https://www.kalebmckelvey.co…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 06:16 PM
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Oh, friend, you talk such a big game, but you're not playing in the big league. Please cut the 1770s pseudo-epistemology and get to the actual grind. Quote one. single. blinded study that confirms "hypergamy" as an intrinsic impulse and behaviour of the human female. Help me accept it as a scientific concept. Since you're so in love with science. Aren't we all, though? Although it seems not all of us understand the difference between science and pseudoscience. If you want to talk anthropology, l…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 05:42 PM
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Oh, I'm sure we are many. :) We just can't meet enough people to make an estimation.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/19 12:27 AM
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This is the best reply. Going to the core of the matter and offering solutions. Have my upvote!
/r/ExRedPill18/08/19 11:43 PM
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Yup. :) A mum would.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 11:36 PM
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Mate, what the hell is SMV? Some stupid, made-up stuff about market value? Forget it, don't answer, I don't want to pollute my mind with it. Just understand that people in their right mind don't care about that made-up TRP bullsh*t. Also, you've got to be kidding me. Artists are sexy af. Women aren't screaming for Brandon Flowers or Drake because they hate them. Do your thing and do it proudly!
/r/ExRedPill18/08/19 10:37 PM
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Resistance is futile, little man. You will be assimilated.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 10:24 PM
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I think you're both right... You've done a great job explaining some of the tenets of BDSM, but to be honest, in my experience, it's hard to fully explain a kink to someone who doesn't share it. If I got aroused every time someone showed me a finger, you would have a hard time understanding the mechanisms of that unless you felt it too. I've made that mistake and opened up in detail with someone very, very close to me, from whom I expected support and understanding. They were horrified. They wer…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/19 08:50 PM
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I'm sure some pills can fix that, mate. No worries. :) Have a good week.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 07:34 PM
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Your radar is broken. I'm a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 02:20 PM
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No, "women" will not. Stupid, entitled people come in all genders, we should regard them as just that. "Pussypass" is an idiotic concept. So is "boys will be boys". Just be a proper human, ffs.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 12:21 PM
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I disagree. I think everyone should be praised for their efforts. This dad should be praised for going the extra mile for his family. A mum who takes woodworking classes to have more fun with her son should be praised for it. Everyone likes to be appreciated and praise is not a commodity we'll run out of. By the way, I truly "believe women are capable" of a lot of things. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 12:18 PM
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Why isn't this upvoted to hell? You're a great parent and husband. So is the husband in the story. Take 100 upvotes from me and my family. 😘 I don't get why men should not be praised for being great partners and parents. I don't get why women should not be praised for it. It's not like praise and affection are limited commodities we're going to run out of if we "use" them too much. Look, I'm a woman. And I don't bash feminism and what it should mean. I do call myself a feminist and am not ashame…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/19 12:07 PM
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That's a very interesting reply for me as well, in terms of understanding the other side from a woman's point of view. Thank you!
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 07:36 PM
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I'm really emotionally invested into having a sexual relationship where my partner is satisfied. I guess you could say it's even a bit of a kink of mine, too, in a way: the only sex I can comfortably have is where I can satisfy my partner's desires That's actually more common than I thought. We call these men "keepers". :)
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 07:28 PM
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Don't worry, it's confusing to many other people. :) Since I'm not a therapist or neurobiologist, I couldn't reliably explain to you the mechanisms that drive otherwise independent and self-respecting women - or men - to submission. I will research the topic further, though, because it really is an interesting question. But, like with almost everything in life, I think I'll find that the causes are multiple and quite varied.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 07:18 PM
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Here's one thing that confuses me to no end about bro-talk: isn't that a bit like the blind leading the blind? So instead of actually asking a woman (like you are), they teach each other generic stuff about women. :) I understand your impulse about submissive women. When my subby man kneels to me, I want to tear him to pieces. In a safe, sane and consensual way, of course. ;) When I see a woman kneeling though, my primary impulse is to protect her, to extend my hand and raise her back up. I've e…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 07:11 PM
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Hehe, then be a service top, or maybe a switch or what have you, and have no shame! :D As I was saying, there are many flavours in the world. To be very honest with you, the champion thing confuses me too. It's something very alien to my structure. Have you ever watched German S&m? That's my alley. :) So I'm afraid I cannot provide first-hand insight... But I am quite able to understand that it's a thing for many other women, and it has been confirmed by a lot of my female friends. Speaking of v…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 06:39 PM
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Oh, you didn't imply that in any way, no worries! I just felt I had to mention it. Back with a more detailed reply once I read your comment.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 06:16 PM
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This is another excellent reply.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 06:14 PM
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Another topic to raise here is that we're forced to examine this issue through this lens because of how gendered domination and submission in the bedroom actually is, even in BDSM circles. I don't know how good this data is, but, according to this Psychology Today article, among women, 96% prefer to take a submissive role in kink, while 75% of men prefer to be dominant. That disparity is hugely gendered. Not in my actual experience, real-life and online. Dominant women are literally swamped by s…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 06:13 PM
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Exactly my point. A lot of women (like most of my friends...) just want loving sex. Why would this be an unpopular opinion? You're not kink-shaming and are quite entitled to the way you feel. Vanilla is a lovely flavour. :)
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 06:03 PM
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Ah, and the fact that your current gf is a sub does not in any way demean her or imply that she doesn't respect herself as a person otherwise. She just gets aroused by being treated roughly in the bedroom. Some powerful and valuable men I've met like to be whipped by women or otherwise "molested". My husband is one, and I guarantee you would not guess this if you met him. It's just good ol' brain circuitry and chemistry. Simple as that.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 05:55 PM
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First of all, you could discuss this conflict with a therapist and gain some interesting insights from a professional. As an internet stranger with a bit of an inside knowledge into BDSM, I think the crucial phrase here would be "I can adopt a dominating role, but I've never been turned on by it". The idea is there are many flavours in the world, you need to choose the ones you actually like. This particular woman is into something you can (as a capable human being) do, but are clearly not into.…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 05:44 PM
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Thing is your situation just seems like a "nice person who's too shy and/or hasn't had much luck yet" thing, at least at first glance. So I guess... just be patient? You don't seem like an "incel" by our description, just a single guy. Of course, we don't really know you, so there's that. Just be nice to people and look for social situations or play collaborative online games like WoW of LoL, stuff like that. You can make friends of all genders that way. I have a very long reply to another post …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/19 12:43 PM
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A bunch of internet strangers cannot tell much about your personality from a few words. You will need to talk to someone face to face, on a regular basis. Could you visit a life coach / therapist in your area? People do go to those just for general life improvement. They could help with techniques for overcoming shyness, which seems to be your issue here since otherwise you seem nice and an interesting person. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill16/08/19 11:39 AM
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You're welcome. :) It was not meant to be uplifting... It's actually my experience. But I'm glad that it was. You will be just fine, young padawan.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 04:27 PM
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You fell into it because the bait was good. And then the other ideas were infused into you boiled frog style. The fact that you question and feel you can't trust yourself is actually indicative of a high intelligence. Do continue to question yourself and your ideas! I'd like to see the scientist that can come out of you. :) That doesn't mean we can't be certain of anything in life... There's death and there's taxes. :)
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 04:23 PM
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Just go on living your life and enjoying your friends and loving family. :) Self-improvement is a lifelong process. Einstein said one should never stop learning until the day of one's death. What hobbies do you have? Do you like making or repairing stuff, computer coding, drawing, writing, cooking, driving? You should pursue those. Try to become as accomplished in everything you do as possible. Take care of your body by eating healthy stuff and working out or doing sports. These are not TRP idea…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 04:06 PM
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On the topic of games. This is going to be long, so buckle up. :) I have a friend (he's average-looking AND a nice, soft-spoken fellow, so double kryptonite in some people's opinion) who met a Finnish hottie playing World of Warcraft. They were in the same "guild" and used to "raid" together. This went on for about 2 years, during which they "met" almost every night to go to war together :) and first of all became good friends. Eventually, he invited her over here for a holiday, we had a lovely …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/19 09:19 PM
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You're not a unicorn. Same here. I have at least three male friends of 20+ years, and several newer ones. About the same number of female good friends. My husband also has close male and female friends (now they're mostly common friends, since we've been together for so long that we've met and befriended each other's "people"). One female friend whom we both know, but is closer to him because they click better, had a marriage crisis at one point and wanted to leave. She lived in another city (no…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 08:07 PM
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Does my personal experience (and that of several other people I know) qualify as "facts" in your opinion? If so, then you have facts. :) Men and women can be good friends and we are living proof. I personally relate well to the male mindset and I think having male friends has greatly enhanced my life and perspective. I, in turn, try to be a good friend and influence, a helper and perhaps a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on for them, if necessary. I have both old male friends and newer ones…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 07:49 PM
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I have three of four male friends that I've known for 20+ years. They are good looking men (though none of them come close to my husband, but I could be biased here) and I am capable of seeing that. They may have found me somewhat attractive in turn, who knows, they were always respectful. But none of us acted on it and we're still great friends. They would jump through fire to help me and I would do the same for them. Of course it's possible for men and women to be friends. We're human beings, …
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 07:36 PM
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About same. :) Husband looks like a death metal rocker. He's educated but I trump him there, I'm also the breadwinner of the family. He's also 2 years younger than me. We've been together for 26 years and I still think he's awesome. Then again, he's not a misogynist pos... And I'm not a freaking "unicorn" either. Just a regular woman. If you see garbage everywhere, you might want to get your eyes checked, mate. Chances are the garbage is not on the outside.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:13 PM
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First, you need to understand, nay, internalize, that it is absolutely normal for people of both sexes to be physically drawn to partners they find reasonably attractive. It's a biological drive. Of course, attractiveness doesn't mean the same thing for everyone, but everyone IS drawn to people they find attractive. I wouldn't say I'm conventionally attractive. But my husband is attracted to exactly my type, and I to his - and why should we settle for less instead of trying to be happy? You're n…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 10:20 PM
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Then your biggest problem isn't physical, is it? I concur, you need therapy, and lots of it. You have let yourself be brainwashed by a cult, anyone would need serious therapy after that in order to be able to function normally.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 09:13 PM
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