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Most straight women don't like anyone. Especially other straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:06 PM
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Bisexual men, by virtue of their orientation, have emancipated themselves from the need for feminine validation. Hetero women's homophobia stems from a loss of power in what they thought was the only sphere where they thought they had a slight advantage in agency in the contemporary era.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:58 AM
2

You see gay besties as better to hang out with because they're "not trying not to fuck you all the time" without "mental gymnastics". I see through hetero women's avarice, hubris, and homophobia without "mental gymnastics". Both our lives are more enjoyable because of it. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:13 AM
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They must convince themselves and others around them that they are better than their instinctual prejudice, bigotry, and inclination to manipulate. It's the same as, "see! I have black friends! I can't be racist." Replace black with homosexual and racist with homophobic, in this case. They must virtue signal to reinforce the narrative that heterosexual women are an oppressed class. Especially wealthy, white anglo-saxon protestant women. It's about power and the perception of who wields it. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:29 AM
4

They have a cultural and epigenetic homophobia. Hetero women are homophobic to gay and bisexual men because they don't like the fact that these men are immune to their attempts at controlling behavior through sexual desire. Even if there's no sexual attraction, the fact that any woman doesn't hold that kind of sway over a man inspires a sour, bone-deep, epigenetic contempt within a typical heterosexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:51 PM
2

For now. cries in Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:01 PM
2

The "solution" remains the same as it has for millenia. Ignore people and attain wealth and wisdom. Time is the most valuable asset, and to trade it for empathy or attention is what fools do. Immature, insecure, vapid, and bitter children play-acting as competent, rational, and well-adjusted adults make up most of humanity. Don't be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:25 PM
0

Investment. Crypto, Securities, Real Estate, Businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:04 PM
1

Very nicely put.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:10 PM
5

Libido and mutual sexual attraction are certainly not the only pillars of successful romantic relationships, but still are absolutely vital ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:59 PM
2

I have to agree with u/silentlurker666. The sample size is too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:00 PM
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This poster's argument that the sample size is too small is compelling. I have a background with applied statistics and agree with their point. Do you have a rebuttal or counterargument, u/lillithofbabylon?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:57 PM
12

The number of people who are confused about the implications of the Pareto distribution and are uneducated about statistical theory and analysis is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:48 PM
1

If she breathes, she's a SLUUUUUT THOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:02 AM
1

But if you try to divorce rape them, as per your flair, they'll behead you. Then again people are strangely aroused by mortal danger all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:31 AM
8

Precisely. Furthermore, it's a fool's errand for rational people to attempt to moralize the cyclonic malevolence of the average heterosexual woman's capricious desires, especially when it comes to relationships. It's unwise to ascribe malice to what can easily be explained by incompetence, whimsy, or avarice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:21 PM
1

you will lose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:45 PM
1

It's definitely an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:05 AM
4

MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:23 AM
1

Women want a gay football coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:25 PM
2

We South Asians don't need anymore people telling us to "sToP bEiNg SeNsItIve" about racist stereotypes. Kick rocks barefoot, asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:50 PM
1

The way they portrayed Raj is racist as fuck. Fuck that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:08 PM
3

Precisely the correct answer. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:05 PM
3

Because their results will potentially get them "cancelled".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:01 PM
1

You can be the recantation reincarnation of Jesus in kindness, do selfless acts for many years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 02:52 AM
3

My guess is that (some) men are insecure about the fact that their penis can't and will never be able to compete against a motorized device. I personally don't care that my wife uses a vibrator (I'm away from her and out of the country a lot); I'd rather have my wife watch porn and/or use a vibrator than find another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:13 AM
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r/femaledatingstrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:11 AM
0

She's below average, if we're only going by this picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:06 AM
1

Cosmetic surgery. Developing a talent to elite-tier ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:56 AM
5

Secular justifications for adultery. Look closely here, folks. The religious will never miss an opportunity to throw in their sales pitch. It's not enough that they believe. They want you to believe, so they can give you their moral guidance from their invisible friend tell you what to do. It's always been about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:41 AM
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So all these this stupid "advices" is pointless now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:21 AM
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They look unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:46 PM
1

Nice of you to gracefully concede the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:14 PM
1

Autonomic limbic electrochemical response chains can be controlled consciously with training.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:11 PM
1

What is? Thirsty dudes? Dead bedrooms? Climate change? Everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:03 PM
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Any rebuttal to this, u/goldenstatewaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:17 AM
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Money. Obtaining money can release you from the wage-slavery of this world. Sex can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:57 AM
1

You should thaw your consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:28 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:03 PM
3

Cultivation of those traits lead to better outcomes for both parties whether it's one date or a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:23 PM
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Cultivation of those traits lead to better outcomes for both parties whether it's one date or a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:22 PM
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Be a good, caring, honest, and supportive partner. Hit the gym sometimes. Be able to reasonably adapt to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:33 PM
3

Get a load of the Astrology expert who's 35, going on 58 Never underestimate the predictability of stupid hoes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 02:39 PM
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>Evolutionally Evolutionarily, we have put physical dominance on a pedestal- that is a biological fact that has extended to our social infrastructure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:56 AM
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Being a disgusting pig is a genderless attribute. It's up to you to avoid such people, and not apply your butt-hurt judgement to half of the people on the planet. Clean up after yourselves. Or don't. But don't make it a talking point for your petty gender-war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:28 AM
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Red Pill's general tenants tenets educate guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:29 AM
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Just world fallacy does work; the idea of a just world doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:37 PM
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I think my statement is far more civil than what u/sabahrub originally said, which I quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:29 PM
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Well, there's no mention of "scrotes" or "#WasteHisTime" so looks like they're presenting a pretty vanilla version.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:14 PM
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no i was wrong
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:46 AM
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Yeah same. Personally, I sympathize with MGTOW over redpill philosophy more, but categorically can't be MGTOW since I've got a LTR. Saw a lot of friends and my father get royally screwed in very litigious divorces. If this LTR doesn't work out, then never again lol! But I consider her to be what the MGTOWs would call a "unicorn" so I'm hopeful for our future together!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:48 PM
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I guess you're leaning a bit MGTOW my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:10 PM
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You're omitting the severe legal risks MGTOWs cite when associating with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:02 PM
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The rub is when you see how they treat straight women and homosexuals who disagree with their treatises. But your right in that they seem like a typical reactionary TERF group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:00 PM
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Based on what they say, it seems like the TERFs of FDS might hate gay men even more than straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:56 PM
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Both groups operate under the assumption that everyone is of "low value" (see: "scrote" or "thot") until they pass a series of shit-tests proving themselves otherwise. Neither group will ever be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:46 PM
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bare bear
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 03:54 PM
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People hate men who don't toe the line. Recent example: Colin Kaepernick.
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 06:54 PM
1

But god damn in my experience even the "good" kind of Americans are just so much more talkative and so much more opinionated than your average European AND they willing to express their opinions very fast to people they don't know so much. Yeah, I knew that's a big part of our bad reputation when visiting abroad. Hence, it's why I tried to remain polite, shut the fuck up, and only speak when spoken to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:54 PM
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What he's not accounting for is the potential for a false accusation of sexual harassment or rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 03:23 AM
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Canadians are polite almost to a fault, indeed, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:45 PM
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Agreed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 05:39 PM
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Correcting people on their use of grammar is considered classist and or racist in some circles of thought nowadays. Not in mine, certainly. But don't get canceled. edit: nope nope, i was wrong. not really true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 03:41 PM
0

Yes, certainly. Listen to what they say. Observe if it matches their actions. Judge and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:20 AM
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I'm from Chicago (in the middle-North, by the great lakes). I'd hoped our reputation as loud-mouth, ignorant, arrogant barbarians was largely exaggerated, but I get the feeling, based on the comments here, we're still seen as assholes and a liability. I was, generally speaking, polite and quiet when abroad. And I was hoping my humility would rectify the poor image of my people. Not so much, I suppose. Depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:13 AM
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I know. People seem to think the United States is one homogenized culture with no regional differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:15 PM
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I am a product of public and private American education. They teach us quite a bit. It's just that most people don't pay attention or have shit retention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:13 PM
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Man, people really do despise us all over the world. And yet, as a yankee everyone was so friendly to me wherever I traveled (Mexico, Canada, Sweden, Iceland, Netherlands, Belgium, France, Germany, Poland, Switzerland, Italy, Czechia, Slovakia, India... the list grows). Guess it was just to my face, and not really how they felt. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:10 PM
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I'm an American with a Dutch partner and I'm 178cm. Perhaps I'm the exception that proves the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:58 PM
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Very rarely do they cheat when they think they can can't do better. I think this is what you meant to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:36 AM
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Plus, she's 50-100 lbs heavier in your hypothetical scenario. For me personally, and for most guys, that would be a huge turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:48 AM
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I refuse to. I also hate the chicken-hawk theocratic fascist pussies that are on the right in the USA. Radical Centrist Gang, rise up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 11:30 PM
-3

Bullshit. The founders would be considered commie pinkos by the mouth-breathers that constitute the contemporary republican party. if only they'd actually read the literature of the era and the philosophical treatises of the enlightenment. Edit: Bring on the down votes. I'm right. Start with John Locke, Thomas Paine, Adam Smith, and Ben Franklin. Read all of their words and tell me they'd be considered theocratic fascists "conservatives" of the modern Republican party.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 11:27 PM
1

It's called selective service. I had to sign up in '98 for eligibility for some scholarships.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 12:33 PM
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I had to sign up for selective service in '98 to be eligible for a scholarship I was applying to. Thus, when I was young, the "draft" was voluntary.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 11:28 AM
2

Women's problems in pair-bonding aren't caused by exclusively by men. Women are just as susceptible to toxic, maladjusted, manipulative, psychopathic, and sociopathic tendencies as any human is. Do you speak for all women? Clearly, with you it's "me me me me me me me me me" with a thin veneer of "we <insert demographic>" to make sure everyone knows how inclusive you are. Ridiculous clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:43 PM
0

The solipsism displayed in this comment is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:34 PM
2

For me personally, I like it when the guy pays for the FIRST date just to show interest and effort. I'm assuming that you're assuming the guy asked you out initially. Would you pay for the first date if you asked the guy out in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:02 PM
2

I'd say it'd be time-tested wisdom, but I'm a hopeless romantic at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:34 AM
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A critical part of one's masculinity is the subjugation of one's ego while aggressively cultivating the competency which conversely builds it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:33 AM
1

Almost nothing that I can personally think of. That's why people's theories sound dumb when they speak with absolutism, especially about subjects that probably have associated statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:25 AM
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I think it's disingenuous and misleading to speak in absolutes, and it perpetuates unnecessary reductionism that's harmful to gaining insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:13 AM
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Men will take the sex if it falls into their laps. Women won’t. Not universally true. Depends on the man and the woman and the quality of the potential mate in either scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:18 PM
1

Just some background on why you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:47 PM
1

To be fair, the desire for having a family typically implies a successful sexual strategy. One exception could be that you're both asexuals, and just want to adopt children into your family. Sharing the same beliefs and values with a partner are important, but aren't the only pillars to sexual compatibility. There's evolutionary and behavioral psychology and sexual biology at play within the elements of human physical attraction. Our whole bodies' physiologies give input to our conscious and sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:52 AM
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Gentlemen, pro tip: Download the ACLU app immediately. It's designed to record and document fuckery from the police, and upload the media to a cloud server in case authorities try to wipe your data on the recording device. But it will help you in situations like this. Start recording as soon as you start feeling uncomfortable, but try not to be obvious that you are or escalate, encourage, and promulgate the other party's bad behavior.
/r/MGTOW220/06/21 07:17 PM
1

Niches, counter-intuitively, don't necessarily ensure profitability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:04 PM
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Is it part of our natural instincts to believe that we "act beyond our instincts"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:42 PM
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Indeed, but not wholly accurate. Siddhartha Guatama (the Buddha) also realized the folly of sitting and meditating without end. And the folly of never meditating. Looking inward (sometimes) is one of the eightfold path to moksh (liberation) from the cycle of birth and death. Nirvana is a state of realization in that one has attained liberation. And a bodhisatva is one who has attained liberation, but willingly chooses to remain behind to teach others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:39 PM
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And if market conditions are such that there's little or no reward, even with internal improvement, don't have a business! Or find a different market.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:30 PM
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Those sites are Tinder with surveys and questionnaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:37 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:35 PM
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My point is that analogies about male and female nature in mating strategies with the "matrix pill(s)" are reductionist, unnecessary, and conflate myths and pseudoscience with legitimate evolutionary biology/psychology. A good strategy in building relationships for men and women, in spite of this over-reductionism that's in vogue right now, would be to understand, develop, and use risk-management skills with people. That involves behavioral psychology (mostly) and would be a good start to better…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:02 PM
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I always wondered what that meant, thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:09 PM
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I've said it once to you before, I'll say it again: You sound angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:26 PM
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I agree. I've said it once, I'll say it a million times: Rational people don't need a "pill"; only confident risk management skills regarding the people they choose to interweave their lives with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:10 PM
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Your position(s) would imply that relationships are transactional, and my opinion is that many on this subreddit would never admit to that. Personally, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:44 AM
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N-çount means very little to men if she has a lot on that list checked off, well-adjusted and stable is far more valuable than n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:28 PM
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It won't start getting noticeably bad until legislation passes for single people to pay an extra punitive tax for being middle aged and single, since they're not "contributing as much to society". I doubt it would pass in most countries, but it could potentially mass revolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:39 PM
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And I applaud all of them for having some reciprocity and empathy. I would also submit that there's a pretty large number of men that wouldn't want to make sure "she loves him more" in the course of a relationship. Just thinking about all the time people must waste with this trash mentality... blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:58 AM
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And so do their wives and girlfriends. Consume porn, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:44 AM
1

Everyone's standards and demands keep going up while people of both genders keep becoming more and more dysfunctional. Well said. I think people should ask themselves what they actually bring to the table for their partner, and see if it aligns with their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:42 AM
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I'm honestly wondering why. Relationships with lethargic, porn-obsessed, video game playing, manipulators, as you've described men, seem to be a waste of time. If what you've said about men is irrefutable truth (I don't think it is), shouldn't hetero women seriously consider lesbianism at this point if they want meaningful relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:40 AM
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lol Okay there, bud. Grabbed a snickers for ya there, bud. Got my emotions under control there, bud. You're totally not a piece shit, bud. You're definitely worthy of respect there, bud. Oooooh Canadaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:05 AM
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Lmfao. Okay "bud". Don't have to hope for anything regarding that, you're doing a masterful job of revealing that yourself. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:43 AM
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Yeah, to hold that sort of FDS type of attitude says everything I'd need or want to know about you, so again, all good. You keep doing you. The only thing I'm honestly curious about is the extent of your position: if you were a lesbian, would she have to "love you more"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:31 AM
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Oh it's all good. You do you, "bud". Just glad you casually cued me and other people who read what you said into another dimension on how awful some people are. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:09 AM
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No one said anything about conversing after that, boss.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:03 AM
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I realize you just said don't care what anyone else says, but holy shit, what a disgusting attitude about relationships. Lesbianism is always an option. Or would she always have to want you more than you want her too? I'll definitely be vetting women for this toxic ethos in the future. Absolutely gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:43 PM
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That would mean an assumption of gendered roles and I don't think many people on this sub would ever want to admit the importance of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:15 PM
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Emotional intelligence, counter-intuitively, doesn't necessarily equate to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:57 PM
5

An interesting perspective. how did it end? and did he personally know you didn't find him physically attractive from the start? did he even know your actual feelings about his physical appeal to you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:46 PM
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lose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:54 PM
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The OP suggested that a solution to that is legalized prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:32 AM
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should of have
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:42 PM
10

shouldn't of have
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:29 PM
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There's a shortage of women who aren't solipsistic and bitter manipulators with a pseudo-intellect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:54 PM
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I think pretty much everyone overstates their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:58 PM
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If they want to leave, let them. They're doing you a favor. She was never yours. It was just your turn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 06:31 AM
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should of have
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 06:25 AM
1

Forgive, but never forget. I can't be mad at a poisonous snake for being poisonous, but I'd never try to be near one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 06:23 AM
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So many women on this sub seem to be on FDS too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:28 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:04 PM
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I know. You're just incredibly wrong, and judging by what you say about men on this subreddit, you're an excellent source of material for r/womenwritingmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:01 PM
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She thinks men are irreparably brain damaged from porn and we only judge female sexuality as lasciviously as porn makes them appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:12 PM
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Escorts are cheaper (generally) and less stressful I hear.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 02:20 PM
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We don't need no thot control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 02:03 PM
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initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:53 PM
1

heartache
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 03:07 AM
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Unless you can't stand the thought of dying alone, there's zero actual benefits for men to be married. Honestly, as time progresses, I think there's zero benefits for women to get married either, if they're self-sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:05 PM
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lose lose
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:10 PM
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I'm not 100% positive, but it looks like that woman has dementia. He needed to get out of the car much sooner.
/r/MGTOW224/04/21 11:38 PM
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"Hey, Uncle u/Radiant_Bliss, what's the right age to get married and have a child?" "Well, young nephew, and niece, that would be financially-stable-with-a-notarized-prenup-years-old."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:53 PM
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The more men and women emancipate themselves from one another, the better this world will become.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:19 AM
1

I'm sure you'll all be fine without us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:26 AM
1

tendency
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:24 AM
2

r/menkampf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:21 AM
1

Will do, sorry 'bout that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 02:33 PM
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Oui
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:50 AM
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straight up dehumanize man It's unfortunate that so many of the femaledatingstrategy crowd only see their emancipation via dehumanizing men. As they escape their shackles, they're building the walls of contempt that will be the confines of their new prison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 02:49 AM
2

Start by reading about and comprehending the neuro-chemical pathways that give rise to our psychological abstractions. Digest how primate neuro-physiology governs mood and emotional states, especially the limbic system. That will give you an edge in determining the legitimacy and depth of your emotional states, and how to heal or reinforce resultant negative and positive behavior patterns respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:34 AM
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No one is arbitrarily owed sex or relationships, no matter what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:25 AM
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But even then, she clearly IS an 8....since an 8 thought to stick it to her. Not true. Hypothetically, I can be an Adonis and can fuck a goblin-like bridge troll with boobs, and it doesn't automatically turn her into a bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:23 AM
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After opting out of the market, I noticed counter-intuitively that I've far more options than when I was actively participating in it. It doesn't make sense, yet the lesson is clear to me. Not giving a fuck is a vital pillar, among others, to contentment in life. Not facts, just my observation and opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:18 AM
7

Mysogyny, as an "irrational hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls"? No. Those men u/BROWN-TOILET-PAPER was referring to don't necessarily have hatred or contempt for the specific demographic of women they deem not worthy of their effort to maintain a LTR. They are just ambivalent, and ultimately indifferent, to them and their desires. An important difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:10 AM
1

Word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:44 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:53 PM
1

cenario scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:49 PM
9

I wonder what that implies about the denizens of r/femaledatingstrategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:45 PM
1

So much of what you do defines who you are. Paradoxically, many people's value is determined largely by what they do, yet many bristle at the thought of it, and resent the implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:34 AM
1

He knows in his subconscious that they'll be gone forever in a few minutes or hours after the act. He said he wanted a LTR. He's not aroused by ONS anymore, so he has difficulty maintaining his virility when the aftermath is yet another empty memory. The issue is that he can't reconcile who he has to become with who he is currently to have a chance at what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:20 AM
1

The more men understand this basic premise, the better their lives will be!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:54 AM
2

I think I was butt-hurt when you said "all you nice guys". "Nice guys" has a certain connotation with it. The last thing I'd ever want to be is a "nice guy", so my ego was bruised a bit. All good. I'll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:21 AM
2

I sense an unwarranted condescension towards me after re-reading your reply a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:11 PM
3

I guess they mean for people to "just google it".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:08 AM
6

Keep walking, mind my business, and say nothing. Offer a polite "good evening" if she extends a greeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:06 AM
1

I'm not your bro, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:39 PM
1

Eh, you can do it. I mean what are you? Some kind of soy boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:29 AM
16

Some people don't have the same inhibitions about discussing sexuality as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:50 PM
16

It's possible to not discuss it a lot but also not have to lie about it, if brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:42 PM
37

The entitledness entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:19 PM
31

Because people with a shred of decency would rather not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:18 PM
1

My health and my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:50 PM
5

See Japan and South Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:44 PM
1

"Soy boy" isn't a well-thought-out insult. This guy does a pretty good job of explaining why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:55 PM
2

worst worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:16 PM
7

wymyn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:15 PM
1

Time to report her to the school! Name and shame.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/21 12:19 AM
4

never was were
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:37 PM
10

You're correct; whether they have dumb logic or not, people have preferences and it's inescapable. No one is owed attraction or sex. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:41 PM
0

Yes. No one would blame the guy in your hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:50 PM
0

In an ideal community, we all would contribute and get contributions in return. But for now, that community is something we can only hope for. Better to build your own sustainability, than to hope for "people coming together". Because usually, when they do, they start doing horrible shit to each other and the animals after some success. Group efforts to survive need clear exit strategies to minimize harm to its members, other people, and their environment. People are sorely lacking this skill an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:37 AM
2

We as people deserve to heal from collective codependency. I agree, and that is a well-put statement. ​ We can all contribute something. We are certainly blessed with innate abilities and potential value to the survival of ourselves and a larger community of humans. My question is should we contribute to the community? Do we owe anything to the community, de facto? Especially, if the community exists to consume you as a resource and give you nothing but pain, resentment, and fear of retribution …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:06 AM
1

I think women have finally accepted they don’t need a man to find them worth something to know that they are, and I hope men can find that soon too. I'm repeating myself, as I've said this a lot in many other comments. However, the fact that more and more women are realizing they don't need men anymore is a fantastic development to me, and as a hetero man, I'm overjoyed at our increasing emancipation from each other. Men and women should go their own way and avoid pair-bonding and cohabitation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:32 AM
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Breaking the cycle would mean an admission of solipsism, cynicism, and the denigration of the other sex. I just don't think the human race is mature enough to look in the mirror that deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:01 AM
1

It seems as if a lot of people on this sub would rather have men be asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:57 AM
1

I imagine it would be 50/50 on whether the results would be impactful on SMV or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:07 PM
6

Their solipsism reaches astounding new heights at every moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 01:58 PM
1

dispicable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:39 AM
5

"where heals" Guess this one won't be splittin' the atom anytime soon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 02:33 AM
1

I meant your skin. I'll add a comma for clarity.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:23 PM
1

u/butterflydoors111, this is what I would have said to myself at 17, knowing what I know now. I'm repeating myself, but I think the following is incredibly important for a young man to hear. Most people are petulant children pretending to be adults, and are mouth-breathing idiots no matter what is between their legs. An ocean of mediocrity puts excellence in stark relief. Delete all social media connected to you IRL immediately, unless you're running a business. If you do, then hire someone to m…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:15 PM
3

Jesus sacrificed himself. You haven't. What's stopping you?
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 10:47 PM
2

To clarify then, it reduces the population of at-risk children, unsupported by parents, and delivered in resentment. Which is a net-positive.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:15 PM
4

The idea that humans have some sort of primacy in imperative to exist is a childish solipsism. Just my opinion.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:13 PM
0

Well, we agree that it's a clown world. However, the religious never fail to disappoint me on their predictable babble about their nihilistic hubris and desire for Bronze-age value systems. Save it for church, bible-thumper.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:10 PM
2

I personally know women who've had abortions, and they still don't have children, nor have they had multiple abortions. My anecdotal evidence makes for poor evidence, but I find your theories hard to believe without any rigorous data to support it.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:05 PM
-8

The name "Satan" is a plagiarism of the ancient Egyptian god, "Set", the ruler of the underworld.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:01 PM
2

I'm failing to understand the relevance of what you're trying to say, or the humor implied.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 06:59 PM
2

Please cite sources for your theories, if you have time.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 06:57 PM
1

Correct. Will adjust accordingly.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 06:00 PM
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Satan isn't real. Less Fewer babies means less fewer people. That's a good thing right now.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah, because I totally want a "job" so I can work for the rest of my life. Don't get a "job". Find a mission. Try and figure out a way to quietly make money while you sleep. If you don't, you'll be working for someone else for the rest of your life.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 04:49 PM
1

You're a credit to nice people everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:10 AM
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The antidote is the realization that most people are petulant children pretending to be adults, and are mouth-breathing idiots no matter what is between their legs. An ocean of mediocrity puts excellence in stark relief.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 10:29 PM
1

You're a fantastic conversationalist and everyone loves talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:55 PM
2

Complimenting an obvious winner, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:00 PM
2

I bet you're irresistible at parties too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:27 PM
9

Run. the. fuck. away.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:13 PM
1

You're very charming and so well-adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:33 PM
1

You sound angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:49 PM
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Rational men and women don't need a "pill". Only confident risk management skills regarding the people they choose to interweave their lives with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:03 AM
2

I got the prize and the game is over. Quit playing games. Theirs and yours. Want liberation from a world that consumes people? Figure out how to make money quietly while you sleep. Start there. You'll start attracting valuable people.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:26 PM
7

Are you able to help him stop living out of his car?
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 03:06 AM
12

Consider the implications and act accordingly, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:18 PM
8

The answer is easy. ZERO. ZERO DOUBLE STANDARDS. People should get no privileges, rewards, or penalties based on what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:44 PM
1

Sounds miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:32 PM
2

After reading your response to OP, I just thought it was a bit weird that someone would still go to a sub that would spew so much hate about something they admit that's really positive in their life. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:15 AM
5

Suggestions like "all men are low value scrotes until proven otherwise"? This doesn't strike me as a rational or healthy ethos to promote to help someone recover from trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:07 AM
2

Happy that you've found a measure of stability and happiness with your partner. Of what use is frequenting FDS at this point if you admit that they would mock you, your relationship, and your partner? Is it really like a religion for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:00 AM
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To them, all men are low-value-scrotes, "UnTiL pRoVeN oThErWiSe".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:49 AM
1

There’s a woman in this thread saying she loves sex all the time and women aren’t oppressed at all in the west. Sounds like your soulmate. I don't see how a sex worker could be anyone's "soulmate", since they're paid to mate with a variety of clients for a living. She definitely can't be mine, since I don't believe souls aren't are real and I will never and never have paid for sex. Her opinion on whether women are oppressed or not in the West is none of my business. Sounds like your trying to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:38 AM
1

She's not telling the truth. And there's no such thing as a soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:11 PM
1

For the most part, none, if I believe the women on r/PurplePillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:57 PM
0

Psychoses connected to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:54 PM
3

You're going to lose, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:51 PM
4

Smart men and women will go their own way and avoid this mess altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:43 AM
1

jealous envious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:04 AM
3

Thanks! Much appreciated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 06:07 PM
3

Thanks for the flair. Is there a chance you could change it to "You seem angry, and should consider meditation." instead of the 2-sentence version? I was looking at it and I think it rolls off the tongue easier for some reason. No problem, if that's a no-go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 10:54 PM
2

As if they haven't already commoditized us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 06:21 PM
1

I think eventually, everything gets commoditized, and in turn is interchangeable. From the white face to the "yoga". Definitely in this era, but sometimes I feel it's always been that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 06:19 PM
1

See my response below above about the commoditization of my culture. It's very difficult for me to take without anger, but I must remember, just because I come from a Hindu background, doesn't mean I have any personal rights on our culture in order to "protect" it from being commoditized.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 04:29 PM
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I said I was brahmin to qualify myself (as in, I've studied the subject), and give a bit of my background. Saying "Listen, ________" is a Kushnerism? I wasn't aware. And the other commenter was lumping meditation with YouTube new-age stuff. He edited his comment later to "astrology", after our exchange. Which is what he probably meant to say. You seem angry and should consider meditation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 03:41 PM
3

The other commenter was directly talking about meditation as some hippie dippy bullshit and then changed it to astrology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 03:33 PM
2

Are you referring to me?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 02:47 PM
6

Kali Devi better get out there and start slittin' some hippie throats then. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 06:09 AM
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It's very difficult for me to take without anger, but I must remember, just because I come from a Hindu background, doesn't mean I have any personal rights on our culture in order to "protect" it from commodification commoditization.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 05:39 AM
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He edited "meditation" to "astrology", after my response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 03:25 AM
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I accept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 03:08 AM
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Edit: For clarification, the commenter changed "meditation" to "astrology", after our exchange. Listen, I'm Indian. First-gen, US-born, from a brahmin family. I work out, learn new skills, have good employment and meditate. Meditation is not some "woo-woo" hippie psychobabble. Our traditions in medicine and psychological study are thousands of years old, and have measurable scientific merit on positive impacts on health. Combined with regular exercise and actual vedic yoga, one can use meditatio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 02:54 AM
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It's a primary variable of information in determining who the exact individual one wishes to obtain accurate criminal and marital information on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:39 AM
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Giving your social security number to a private corporation with zero to little oversight should be a cause for concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:09 PM
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Am unclear. Is this option only available for women? Or anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:03 PM
5

It's my belief that people of beauty (inward and outward), talent, wisdom, compassion, intelligence, and motivated resolve will opt to seek out the means to sustain a quiet, enriching life as fast as possible. Here is some introductory information on Voltaire and his version of horticultural quietism. Virtuous men and women will go their own way. Edit: These are the only things that mattered enough to say versus the diatribe I originally wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:05 AM
1

Absolutely not. Sexual chemistry, while not the only factor in compatibility, is still a vital one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:31 AM
1

A great cereal. May you be as sweet as your namesake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:15 PM
7

We'll have to agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:08 PM
1

I said leave me the fuck alone. /s Also, is it hanniebunches, as in "hannie bunches of oats"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:06 PM
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The future doesn't bode well for anyone who isn't already part of the ruling class(es). Men and women of high value (internal and external attractiveness, intelligence, compassion, and motivation) will hopefully live out their lives in a manner akin to Voltaire's horticultural quietude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:38 PM
1

Ladies, if we're talking, there better be some emergency. Unless we're at a place where people typically strike up conversations with randoms (usually with alcohol around). Then sure, let's humor each other politely. Even when alcohol is present, I am wary. I've been groped 6 times in my life now, 4 by women, 2 by gay men. People think they have a license to be degenerates once the booze starts flowing. But I get it, at a bar/pub, people tend to want to mingle with strangers sometimes. In genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:40 PM
0

To one-dimensional morons, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:05 PM
3

guys still are attracted to them Guys that they probably don't want. The men they do want are probably laughing at them. High value people usually aren't turned on by Cheetoh dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:40 PM
5

Please. Feminism, as movement nowawadays, is about as "woke" as Kendall Jenner handing a riot cop a Pepsi in that commercial a while back. Like every populist movement, from civil rights, counterculture, occupy wall street, unions, democratic socialism, to climate change, feminism has been coopted by corporate powers to sell more products and add value to their brand optics. The only thing that "frees" people is quietly making a lot of money while you sleep. If you want liberation from a world t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:27 PM
2

For some, no. Variety is the spice of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:16 PM
4

An actual sense of humor, a winning smile, tactfully honest, decent job, and a plan for her future. Doesn't treat me as expendable as the rest of civilization does. And if I'm puttin' time in the gym, I want her to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:58 AM
3

He did you a favor.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 07:43 PM
2

There's so many deviations, it's beginning to look like the norm is a deviation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:58 AM
0

Usually after the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:55 AM
3

The Pareto distribution describes metrics of performance within a closed system of analysis. SMV could be considered a type of performance metric, but the problem with applying the Pareto principle is that it's not a closed system. SMV is too subjective to individual tastes which itself changes over time as the individual ages.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 06:46 AM
1

aestheticize anaesthetize
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:06 AM
6

I don't know about the rest of humanity, but I have a theory for high-value-people who are students of history, and are assertive enough to act upon its cautionary wisdom. I believe it's emergent right now, in this moment. TLDR: Men & Women of high value will go their own way, ignoring the need for marriage and even pair-bonding, in general. Inundated with the miseries associated with arbitrary authority, vapid societal values, and anachronistic traditions that can only consume people, the predo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:44 AM
-2

Gods, I hope you're right!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:50 AM
10

As soon as this idea becomes normalized, the world will be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:49 AM
2

I posted this above earlier, but here's some details regarding the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:43 AM
13

Not true at all. There're plenty of reasons men may find trouble orgasming. This is one of many articles about it. r/womenwritingmen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:40 AM
3

Do you still find each other "sexy", despite the hiatus in engaging in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:51 PM
1

He's slightly ace "Ace" as in, asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:21 PM
1

I agree with his assessment, assuming you're telling the truth about him. More to the point, do you think he lied to you about just wanting sex in the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:12 PM
1

Assuming you're hetero, what does he say about "the stereotype that men just want sex and will lie to get it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:06 PM
0

Do you have a partner right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:02 PM
2

I'm 37. So I'm talking about in their 30s. I have a close friend who's a psychiatrist who treats a ton of 40+ women. She constantly tells me about their built-up and growing resentments towards their kids, husband, and ultimately themselves for "tying themselves down", as they put it. This is anecdotal, and makes for poor evidence, but I imagine even elder, middle-aged women who are child-and-partner-free cherish their autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:07 PM
1

Sometimes I like to have some fun and see what crime against humanity I'm guilty of for having a Y chromosome on any particular day. Nice little dopamine hit from all the outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:58 AM
1

To some (not me), that attitude is toxic and oppresses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:51 AM
1

Far too many risks. Not enough reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:27 AM
1

No. I don't know her or her specific circumstances and desires for her life. However, it's natural that a child will outgrow the need for their parents' and religious tradition's validation structure as the individual asserts their own agency and constructs their own values successfully, over time. It's known as growing up and making your own decisions about what is real. The degree to which this person emancipates herself from her childhood, parents' values, and religious values depends on what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:33 AM
2

As a child of an arranged marriage that was horrible for both parties and ended in an ugly divorce, they're barbaric, largely made for other people's happiness besides the betrothed, and perpetuate slavery to arbitrary authority. If you're offered a choice, don't do it. Ever. Focus on improving yourself and find someone who actually wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:01 AM
2

she has religion and her parents in her life I have a feeling, based on how you described her trajectory, she'll not be needing those weights on her ankles either for long either. Aging parents are different sort of burden, though. Very pernicious to comment on without knowing more about her and them. I wish her luck and congratulations on her success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:29 PM
33

Single women, with great jobs that they like and no children, are the happiest women I've met, as a demographic. Edit: And men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:09 PM
1

Look, I gotta admit. I'm pretty confused at this point. Q: Do I think that the guys I was talking about were abusers? A: Yes, if abuse is obfuscating the truth about your intentions. My corollary would be that I'm not sure if it could be classified as abuse per se, because I argue that they weren't even aware of their own conflicting delusions and desires. But, if it's a black and white yes or no you're looking for, then yes. Q: Do I think that their girlfriends knew beforehand about their lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:37 AM
1

Can you quote me on when I said "they do know"? I don't think we're reading the same conversation. I can't make any claims on what those women knew in terms of the true intentions of their boyfriends and their commitment because I can't read people's minds. Only take note on how they behave. The guys, if I'm remembering correctly, eventually all got dumped by their girlfriends at that time. One of the dudes I was talking about found a good woman, and they're married and have kids. You seem to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:12 AM
1

Where did I blame women and gaslight about what they believe specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:47 AM
1

I don't think I'm "going hard" for men who lie and manipulate women. On the contrary, if you recall, I actually said that it was sad to see them build lives of delusion around what was clearly self-serving lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:39 AM
1

Which abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:31 AM
1

If you're talking about my attitude, I think it's a pretty fair shake for both parties, especially when it's 2 working adults with careers to manage too. Back in the day, I was just observing some of my friends build up fake lives. Never once did lecture anyone about it; it's not my business to. But I'm not blind to others' delusions in the slightest, and people should pay attention when people fuck up badly. We're all responsible to how we digest and apply the information from events surroundin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:25 AM
1

yeah thats bullshit Which part(s)? The linked article? my attitude on that is "you" can do whatever you want but you can't do it with me. if i dont like what you offer, i don't have to accept it. "seeing where it goes" isn't a good enough offer. lets part ways and stay open for the right things for us. That's a good position to take. Up until age 28, I was watching a lot of my guy friends dance around the idea of having an SO when all they really wanted was sex, and it was sad to see them lying …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:58 AM
1

I'm surprised at your lower numbers! My estimates are 95% OLD, 80% (hetero) general population. ​ "Love is actually a habit that is formed from sexual desire as desire is rewarded," Pfaus explained. "It works the same way in the brain as when people become addicted to drugs." I think most hetero men are reluctant about communicating honestly about their willingness to commit to exclusivity because of an instinctual drive to not ruin the chance of having sex and feed the lust-associated dopamine …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:57 AM
1

What percentage of men do you estimate that to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:15 PM
1

Theres lots of emotional and rational motivations, but usually it's hunger, boredom, fear, and envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:59 AM
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I don't think that really answers OP's question directly, but that's a point that I really agree with. Do you think those men are getting into the relationship only for consistent sex? Or are they lying to themselves and their prospective partner about it being more than access to consistent sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:11 AM
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They're not down for sex with no commitment? I'd have to disagree just from personal experience, but I admit that's anecdotal to me and not very good evidence, empirically. You'd have to do a rigorous study at n=1000+. I do agree that most want a commitment. And that's perfectly fine. As I said, if that's the case, I'm more than ready to disengage courtship with zero fuss. As for women's judgement about my intent and attitude, I can't control that. All I can do is be honest, with tact, and show …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:49 AM
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Just tell the truth about what you want. And move on if they're not into it. And try not to be too butt-hurt if women view you as a "scumbag" for just wanting to get laid without a commitment. If you want commitment, say it. If you don't, say it. Never had a problem with it. They can't get down like that? Cool. The world spins on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:28 AM
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People don't need a "pill". Only confident risk-management skills regarding who they interweave their lives with.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:26 PM
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What's sad to me is that they don't have to lie. But it's easier, and many are desperate, spineless, and lazy. Never a good combination. My theory is that many haven't had success in getting sex the way they want to by being honest about their intentions and desire from the outset, and instead of moving on and finding someone else, they resort to lying to their prospective partner and themselves. They'll continue building "castles in the sky" and run fool's errands to try and create the pretense…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:34 PM
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There're legions of men with that preference, and the number is growing every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:56 PM
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Please point out specifically to where in my statements I "reveal my disdain for women". Also, you don't know me, anything about my life, my sins, nor virtues. How could you possibly know how "abominable" I've been to other people? As a person born with my own free agency, just like you, my only responsibilities are to the people I choose to make commitments to, and since I have a sense of morality, those who've been harmed by me, inadvertently or purposefully. Thankfully, throughout my life, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:48 AM
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Once again (and maybe I'm a little dense), what are you accusing me of so I can understand and respond to you better: chauvinism, inceldom, MGTOWism, or all 3? Perhaps you're taking issue with my stance that men shouldn't seek validation from women? Maybe that they shouldn't care about people that consider them threats in the first? Are you just not wanting me to voice these ideas? Your hostility, straw-manning, shaming language, and ad hominem attacks speak to my earlier point of more and more …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:14 AM
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I am blessed to have a career-path and job that allows me to have the temporal and financial freedom to browse and comment on reddit sometimes. I do have hobbies which include digital art and fabrication and music composition, and I can send examples if you'd like. I submit to you that I have the freedom, just as you do, to post on forums like this and opine about a wide variety of subjects. Why are you trying to shame me for something that you do as well? Also, I'm not sure I'm following you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:01 PM
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You're using false equivalence. Ambivalence about their approval doesn't equate to contempt. And women, as free individuals with their own agency, may believe whatever they want about men. But I, as a free individual with my own agency, need not ascribe any importance to their opinions about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:30 PM
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How about "effete"? Maybe, "weak-willed"? Perhaps, "brittle-spirited"? "Invertebrate, supine, protoplasmic jellies"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:28 PM
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As I said before, I'm not butt-hurt by women's suspicion and contempt for men. I just don't care about it. Nor do I have suspicion and contempt for women. I just don't need their validation, nor am I willing to legally bind myself to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:23 PM
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I've read and re-read your reply a couple times and I don't understand what you're trying to say here. Can I get an ELI5?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:25 PM
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For fuck's sake, this fucking "soy-boy" insult again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:11 PM
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After observing my own and others' failures in dating, I concocted a recipe for young men trying to attract good women called "The 5 Pillars of Attraction". Don't be "rapey"/needy/over-zealous. Don't smell. Hit the gym. Have some money (at least enough to cover yourself). Ya gotta bring the funny (especially if you don't have an attractive face). Those aren't in order of importance. Doesn't guarantee success, but helps to elevate your SMV. I could go on about the details and nuance in each of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:46 PM
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All of the supposed benefits of marriage can be attained without entering a legally binding union with someone. The current zeitgeist casts most men as creepy psychopaths, manipulative sociopaths, emotionally stunted buffoons, and/or outright predators. Which is fine. It's also not enticing for a heterosexual male to marry a person who holds these prejudices. I'm not butt-hurt by suspicion and contempt. Just ambivalent to it. I acknowledge that my position is not popular, but to me, marriage in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:58 PM
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Yeah, no thanks. I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:13 AM
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More reasons not to marry. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:24 AM
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After observing a lot of failed marriages, including my own parents', I've always held that marriage, in contemporary times, only has value when considering raising children. Even then, only tepidly so. The supposed benefits of marriage can be attained without it. It's always looked like a fool's errand to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:44 PM
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Do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:55 PM
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Argue for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:44 PM
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