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I dont do OLD but my friends who are on it also say that men there are more rude, flaky & typically get very inappropriate fast. So i think it’s just an OLD thing, there’s less quality partners there. Personally there’s plenty of negative experiences my friends have had, or messages they’ve been sent by men that i was shocked to see. Never ever had men i met irl be like this so i know it’s not all men. Online anything usually brings out the worst in people. I also personally feel i would probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:24 PM
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cause i like debating & since i work home a lot i get bored so i spend time on here to entertain myself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:49 AM
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bingo! This mentality isn’t healthy at all and highly dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:16 AM
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all those jobs aren’t exclusive to men & women are becoming high earners in many different fields nowadays. If she’s a nurse and he works in an office he might earn more but chances are she’s doing more physical work, things aren’t black and white like that. Plus women are still the primary caregivers in most households when children are involved which is also labour. The effort, labour and care is there. If you make solely about numbers and disregarding everything else sure, you’ll see an imbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:09 AM
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yawwwnnn …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:03 PM
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Not my own.. this is quite literally a response thread from another average man, and other people have replied to you opposing your statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:43 PM
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yes that’s definitely a point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:42 PM
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That’s not true.. I think a lot of women in their 20s don’t but past 30s+ a lot more women are open to it. I’m 27 and would date a 25 yr old, but i wouldn’t have dated a 22 yr old at 25. Now… would i want something long term with one? It depends on the maturity and if he’s really ready. An older man would most likely already be ready to settle down so i would probably not look for a younger man at all. But if we’re only speaking physical attractiveness i do think older women are attracted… they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:35 PM
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Yes, nowadays it’s a lot more mixed and i know a lot of girls who are into gaming and other subjects that are stereotypically for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:50 PM
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Idk i’ve never dated online and only met my partners through social events and i don’t see why the only way women would be at a social event would be for something men don’t enjoy. Like we’re all human beings at the end of the day and both men and women will have many things in common that both interest them - like music, art, event , even gaming. There are both men & women at all of these types of events. It’s kind of a black & white way of thinking. Just live and go places you enjoy. If it’s t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:59 PM
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haha! seriously… it’s as if they don’t realize
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:49 PM
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that’s your personal experience, that doesn’t mean another average man experienced the same thing. He might be charming in other ways & socially confident which makes him appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:41 PM
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this is true.. as a woman who doesn’t date online, i’ve always met my partners through social circles. They were always through friends, or friends of friends. Could be at a birthday party, event, hanging out at someone’s place, etc. It’s so much better and you can also see what your friends say about a guy - my current boyfriend everyone was telling me he was great. His friend is actually the one who came up to me cause he was shy & told me he was into me! So i think it also benefits men that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:42 PM
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he’s just hating bc that makes him feel better about his own personal failures and insecurities. Other men being short and being successful is inconceivable to him bc then he can no longer put all the blame on this one thing and might have to actually self reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:28 PM
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why are you such a hater lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:18 PM
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most average men can date and will get relationships in their lives… if you struggle on an extreme level you either are below average or struggle approaching/being social
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:14 PM
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It doesn’t go against my narrative. It’s a no brainer why men may feel that pressure but that was not the topic and it was obvious that i was speaking from a place where i have dated and been ok with men not making more and them still feeling insecure… So YES, you have comprehension issues and just want to be combative. I spoke to another male commenter and he completely understood and agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:55 PM
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Yes, i think that’s the whole the gist of many of the manosphere content and even people like Andrew tate. A lot of what is said is “good” and “true” at face value but when you really look into why they think this way, they meaning behind & goals behind these messages- that’s when you realize how harmful it can be for young men. It’s also mostly based on extremely shallow needs that are feeding off men’s insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:51 PM
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see… you clearly have comprehension issues. I don’t need that overly defensive energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:15 PM
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Oh , i have noticed men that help other men in meaningful ways… they just aren’t as supported by other men or as popular amongst men. I never said it didn’t exist, but it’s just not common. s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:19 AM
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lolll ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:01 PM
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Nobody said that, stop acting obtuse. RP claims that men of all ages want these women. Nobody ever said it’s wrong for a 25 yr old to want s 25 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:59 PM
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1) i don’t agree 2) if that’s your logic… then plenty of women are also lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:25 PM
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right… but you understand it right? Sometimes that resentment for yourself still affects your partner because its in our subconscious. I wouldn’t say the men i’ve dated in that position were bad people or terrible partners - but that insecurity and resentment lead to unpleasant or even toxic behaviours in the long run. I think with your mindset then it’s healthy, but some just don’t think that way. Or they might know logically but emotionally it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:23 PM
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exactly… they are so hypocritical. Single women between the age of 18-25 are like 6% of the population, so by their own standards… They are just as picky for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:03 PM
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Not really, i know plenty of single women who don’t even have sex lol. I was one myself until 25 and was still fulfilled in life. My family and friends are what sustains me emotionally and mentally. Some women aren’t into casual sex and can still remain happy single. Plenty of women aren’t on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:01 PM
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no actually a lot of men get insecure about it in the long run bc they want to provide or think they should be in a position to give you more - overtime that insecurity turns into resentment. I think most men would say what you said … but the reality of dating men when you’re in that position is different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:53 PM
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Yes, i think if you’re a very driven woman who’s successful and makes money - whatever man you chose has to be confident and not have hang ups about making more money bc it 100% creates resentment and insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:51 PM
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Unemployed absolutely not - i’m from a 3rd world country and honestly to me not having a job in the west is not something i understand, at least long term. There’s tons of opportunities and it’s completely understandable if you do not have a high paying job or lower income, but at least have one. It would reaaaally depend on the specific circumstances here but for the most part no. Less money isn’t as much of a big deal, i could accept that & dated men that did make less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:50 PM
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Most of the time men don’t want to be our friend & complain about the friendzone though. I’ve even seen men resent women and calling them manipulative for treating them as friends because in their own mind that meant he could eventually get a sexual or romantic connection with her. Then suddenly he was used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:43 PM
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the thing is, you don’t truly care about loneliness here… You care about singleness and lack of sex. Call it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:33 PM
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I’ve always said this and when you talk to men about why they’re not doing anything substantial to help each other they basically admit that men don’t care about other men. Even last week under this sub a man explained this to me. Like if we look at any group that’s ever struggled socially - women, lgbt , POC… they all organize themselves, march, create programs, build communities meant to help each other and men just don’t. They spend most of their energy gathering together to criticize women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:23 PM
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I think those are probably two different types of women. If a woman cares whether or not you’ve been with men, she probably cares about her own sexual history and her man’s as well. Women who genuinely do not care probably are open minded and would not necessarily judge a man for that. I feel like i used to care about it until i made friends that are in the lgbt community and realize that doesn’t matter that much and if a man genuinely has all the qualities i look for it would not be a big deal.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:17 AM
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All of what i said compared to the word « slut » like there’s no time and place ever when this term can be used in a neutral sense - it is ALWAYS with negative connotations whereas the term virgin doesn’t automatically have that negative connotation. It’s entirely dependent on your environment, culture, beliefs, etc… "I'm not your training wheels" is a common attitude by some in response to someone who's a virgin (kinda like the heterosexual equivalent of, say, some gay men who refuse to date or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:05 AM
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Yes, the other day i was debating on another post about male loneliness and asked the man i was speaking with why men don’t help each other and organize themselves the same way other groups have - and they responded : Men do not care about other men. Which explained a lot. It’s almost like men can collectively gather to express frustration, anger, etc.. but when it comes to real actions to build communities and support each other emotionally there’s virtually nothing that’s done and it’s as if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:55 PM
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Why do you guys pretend you’re in a woman’s head? This whole post is toxic & only a toxic woman would do any of this. Only a toxic man could think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:39 PM
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Virgin doesn’t have any negative connotations though, it’s just a fact. You are that or you aren’t. Getting called an incel however, would be a good comparison to the word slut which inherently has a negative connotation. So for virgin - i think it’s a personal thing whether you view it as negative. Plenty of people , such as religious people will view that as a good thing even for a man because marriage needs to come first. Others will see it as negative because they’ve tried to have partners a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:06 PM
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which one is it? i have lots of perfumes, some get tons of compliments, some don’t at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:22 AM
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yes RP men i’ve met in real life are usually materialistic and very shallow, they just cover all of that up with their theories on “female nature” and “the matrix” to make it seem like it’s deeper than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:48 PM
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definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah, men are the same. More likely to simp and accept certain behaviour the hotter you are… I think it’s human nature on some level. “Halo effect”. but i do think OP’s paragraph and millions of questions would be a red flag to many women… Especially in real life. I don’t do OLD at all so i can’t speak on it. Im guessing people there are more superficial and concerned with looks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:24 PM
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you don’t need 1000 questions to develop that. You can ask about consent, what they prefer, what you are both down to explore and just do the damn thing - if there are any issues, then sure, we could talk about them. I think intimacy is developed naturally overtime when two people are comfortable & trust each other - proactively asking tons of questions isn’t intimacy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:22 PM
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no … honestly even if the hottest guy on the planet asked me these i would dip. That’s too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 PM
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yeah, that’s a bit much. I think a decent conversation to have would be around consent, what they like & what they are down to try. That’s about it. The rest isn’t of much relevance unless there’s some sort of deeper issue with sex… they sound like questions a sex therapist would ask to a patient lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:55 PM
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i beg to differ… plenty of guys don’t do certain things here. Or if they do, it’s not in a way that really compliments them. They’ll get a super basic haircut that doesn’t necessarily fit them for example, they’ll get clothes but they’re not that flattering, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:32 PM
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right??? Like these men have women telling them we like it & their response is “i dont think women care” it’s funny. Most of us LOVE it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:30 PM
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you’re either really dense or trolling… But either way i’m over this 😂 believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:17 PM
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he could smell like dior… use your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:54 AM
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You live in delusion lol… I mean even science says men have higher sexual desire because of their hormones. I’m not sure why you’re so hung up on denying reality. And yes, maybe some lesbians are “hos” but it does not compare to gay men. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:51 AM
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no they seek more.. they seek sex workers, they seek sexual content too at a higher rate. Women express less sexual desire - which is the exact reason why men get less. Look at the gay community vs the lesbian community for example. Apps like grindr aren’t popular amongst lesbians…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 AM
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that’s your opinion… i love perfume. To me it tells me someone takes care of themselves. Plus… sometimes if you borrow a man’s shirt or hoodie and it smells like him it’s the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:34 AM
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i don’t think it’s about being completely equal.. because men clearly seek sex way more than women. However, i think on a personal level it can truly improve how a man is perceived when it comes to attractiveness. And i also think men overlook this or don’t even realize how much it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:07 AM
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actually a man can do these: go to the barber and don’t just get a cut, but find one that suits you (there’s this young barber on tiktok named docdami he’s really good a making haircuts that suits his clients and changes their whole look, you should check him out) trim your beard and keep it clean invest in your style, even wearing things like watches or other accessories add to your style too. But the type of shirts you wear, pants, etc.. and how you wear them can really change your look too. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:57 AM
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what do you do to take care of your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:49 AM
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I find that style is something men overlook too much… Yes even shoes or having a cool style is super attractive, but maybe that’s just cause i’m into fashion myself. But i think it can really improve someone’s appearance as well as a good haircut/barber. Add cologne and i basically simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:49 AM
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no seriously this comment is strange 🤣 for sure they are using it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:44 AM
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Right, same! Most are super nice people and them not being attractive in the past just caused them to develop a great personality. I’ve met attractive people that were insecure, some may have been unattractive in the past.. But i don’t find that it’s some sort of phenomenon. It’s really just something that’s dependant on each individual and how they deal with their own insecurities which isn’t exclusive to a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:57 PM
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Eh…. I think some men that become attractive later in life can also carry unresolved insecurities and be quite unpleasant. I’ve dated those & i really don’t think this phenomenon is exclusive to a gender but more so how a person deals with whatever insecurities they had in the past. I think generally though, people who become attractive later in life have great personalities because they didn’t have to rely on looks to get relationships/validation. Maybe they’re funny, humble; sometimes they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:46 PM
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I know that pew research shows that 70% of men are in long term relationships by 30 & increases with age. So even then, it is indeed a minority who remain single for a very long time and into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:30 PM
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None of what you said proved that a big majority of men struggle with this.. It’s a small majority and even separated by age for people currently in their 20s so talking about parents & grandparents here is irrelevant. Lots of things changed since for everyone. But currently, most men can date, have sex, and experience relationships. Those who never do are a very small minority still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:29 PM
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right… like this isn’t acknowledged enough. I went from being less attractive to conventionally attractive and the treatment from men is wildly different. Men can be downright mean to women they don’t perceive as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:10 PM
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this is already how many men in pill spaces think - they say things like “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” and have terms like monkey branching to explain why women would do this. I think the point is that a man simply being less attractive doesn’t mean he’s a better person & it’s a stupid assumption - same way a man making such assumptions about a woman would be stupid. People’s core values aren’t based on how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:04 PM
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I said you sound like, not that you are. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:51 PM
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You sound like an actual sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:44 PM
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I met my past partners through the first 2 so it is possible. I’m pretty sure that’s how most people met before OLD too. And you won’t “establish” a relationship at a loud place or concert… you’ll just met people who could potentially enter your life and eventually date. If not, i guess activities & social clubs in your cities. There’s no specific answer for this bc you could literally meet anyone anywhere i think the focus is how social you are and willing to put yourself out there. Not necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:32 PM
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Honestly… i think men on here who are so adamant about the fact that average men have zero options and probably below average men who project their own experiences to other men… cause their logic and the way they address dating is just beyond ridiculous and nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:18 PM
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If men are statistically more prone to be victims of violence it is at the hands of other men. And sexual violence victims are actually overwhelmingly women - apart from prisons which essentially goes back to my first point. There’s also no fear mongering, women still live full lives and do what they want to do regardless. Women are safe because they also keep themselves safe for the most part. This post was addressing their biggest fear and women answered what it is. I’m not even sure what your…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:19 AM
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Sir… you’ve been butthurt for the past 3 comments, i’m tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:10 AM
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And i’m the hypersensitive one? LOL…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:59 AM
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yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 AM
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I’m sorry … do you think women would want that??? 💀 like we don’t want to know or see any of that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:53 AM
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there’s always someone that’s gotta deflect and point the finger… two wrongs don’t make a right. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 AM
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They never actually ASK women, they make their theories and run off with it. You’re completely right. Women just want to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:39 PM
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exactly… like let’s be realistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:38 PM
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Cause they believe a woman’s purpose is to be a mother and wife. They view those women as selfish. I never got the narcissism argument… It’s probably the opposite of narcissism. Narcissistic people usually want to be liked by people - women who decide not to have children usually get shit tons of negative comments and push back, people think there’s something wrong with them, even their family and sometimes friends. A narcissist would totally have children and use them as supplies, as well as pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:33 PM
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Your mom is living better than many other housewives in the west too. Having maids, travelling, etc… are a luxury in this day & age and the men who can afford such lifestyle aren’t really considered average. It’s not really about singleness here, your mom has some privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:28 PM
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I wasn’t trying to do anything, i was confused. Calm down. And yes, they definitely do. Like i said, it depends on whether or not they find that average man attractive personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:09 PM
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it’s not that rare… like i said, beauty is subjective. I’ve rarely found my friend’s partners that attractive and most of the time those who do date conventionally attractive guys are conventionally attractive women themselves. But i’ve definitely seen plenty of friends (average w) flirting with average guys & going for them .. those guys were just attractive in their eyes. This type of thing mostly happens in social situations though, i don’t think something like online dating could ever reflec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:06 PM
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ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:02 PM
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not sure if you changes your previous comment cause now im a little confused lol… But i’ve definitely seen women go for average dudes, date them, hook up, etc.. like i think if anyone doubts this they are chronically online. As we both agreed, average isn’t ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:26 AM
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but are they attracted to them still ? Being average doesn’t mean completely ugly to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:45 PM
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I think they pursue or give signals to guys they are personally attracted which is subjective & different for everyone. Some of the dudes my friends like or date i would never give “signals” to and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:42 PM
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You literally justify lying and misleading women then want them to take accountability for “choosing the wrong person” what kind of narcissistic type of mindset is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:37 PM
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if that’s something that makes you lose edge in a relationship then find a girl who’s actually into fitness is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:58 PM
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so the only option are chest or glutes? Do you even know how go work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:50 PM
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please heal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:49 PM
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there’s plenty of women who are into fitness and don’t just “work out their glutes” 💀 what a lame generalization. Just find a girl with similar hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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Omg…. stop projecting your past relationships onto other people 💀 Your wife was a liar and cheater… Those are just traits certain people have regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:09 PM
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you start aging the moment you’re born actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:05 PM
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huh what?That doesn’t mean anything lol. Actors are media trained, and introvert doesn’t mean awkward, or can’t talk in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:09 PM
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She’s always said in the media that she was a homebody and introvert though, so the alleged PR statement from Joe’s team doesn’t make much sense. Also we’ve never really seen her in the media being in such way either, going in and out of clubs/parties, etc.. Sophie did put out a statement saying it was amicable and a mutual decision so i’d rather believe that than random news articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:42 PM
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I wouldn’t say that there’s a vibe that would want to make a woman do that. I think there’s probably a vibe that would attract a woman that is manipulative already I don’t think it’s any different than girls who get manipulated: being naive, poor boundaries, low self esteem, not handling conflicts appropriately and speaking up for yourself, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:37 AM
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Women also choose to have sex while fertile. And? Being fertile doesn’t automatically mean pregnancy. There has to be semen involved. And don't give me the rape excuse, which is like 1% of abortions. How is it an excuse? It’s a real thing. I also have many other scenarios here. If that’s not important to you … which is it is WOMEN who decide, on their own, whether to have a baby or not. They demanded that it be such. Thus it is up to the to shoulder the consequences. But i clearly explained how …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:27 PM
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yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:05 PM
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what are the exact numbers for single women and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:14 AM
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So abortion should be forbidden since women have also a choice to not be mothers, by closing their legs. False equivalency, i am not saying men should abstain from sex entirely & “close their dick” i am saying they should avoid ejaculating inside. There is a difference. Also: Tons of women have gotten pregnant and didn’t choose to open their legs… even little girls. I think you can understand how. If you think they shouldn’t have to carry, then there’s no reason for abortion to be illegal. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 AM
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Did he get a choice in having one? Yes, he ejaculates inside her. That’s kind of avoidable if you don’t want children. As a man that’s when your choice comes to play. It’s your seed. ”Many so called deadbeat dads are so as a result of the mothers actions who think they should be in charge of everything except the provision of resources.” Not really, fathers rarely ask for custody. When they do they actually have more chances of actually getting it then women. They just don’t care do it most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:53 PM
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YES - You’re doing shit tons of projection here, you don’t know me or who i’ve dated. My current partner is smart, has studied, is a great person, i’m totally in love with him and no he’s not “ripped” and is literally my height (5’6), im still very much attracted to him. I was single for 2 years before i met him & didn’t have sex. As a matter of fact i’ve had a typical “Chad” pursue me for 2 months during that time, with dates and compliments and never had sex with him because i didn’t like who …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:16 PM
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I wouldn’t consider that a “risk” because that is entirely subjective and part of engaging in relationships & getting to know people in general. When i say women can “lose” a lot i mean potential health risks because of our reproduction system and bodies. This puts us at in more vulnerable positions compared to men so it’s perfectly normal for women to want to remain single if it’s not the right person. The risk outweigh the “loneliness” that comes with singleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:57 PM
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A lot of single women are also not having sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:49 PM
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Ok and what do men loose or risk loosing while being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:34 PM
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No… could be that our values don’t align, personalities clashed, they don’t treat you well or is toxic, the list can be long and no, it’s not superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:32 PM
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Okay and you just explained why men can get into relationships with women they don’t even like just for the benefit of having sex on the regular. I don’t see why women should care, the women who get pregnant by those men and end up single moms bc the relationship wasn’t good to begin with are still criticized by men. Being single just removes all of that. I personally only ever had sex with romantic partners so i’m not concerned with casual sex conversations. And no one wants to end up single, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:25 PM
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Sex is great but sex for women does not exactly come with just sex lol. Women usually have to be on some form birth control, have more chances of infection, pregnancy is a risk, the list goes on. I mean it’s not a one sided thing as in the sex itself isn’t pleasurable. It’s more about everything else that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:18 PM
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The thing is they get jaded without listening & would rather assume we have some sort of superiority complex so yes they are brushing it off. Men can very well stay and remain in relationships with women they don’t even like bc it will still provide some benefit even if it just means getting off regularly. For women, there are mostly downsides & harsher potential repercussions like pregnancy. The other commenter also provided a good examples under my previous comment. That’s why we’re ok being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:55 PM
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this comment is soooo spot on. There is SO much projection here and even when women tell them the truth they brush it off and create their own narratives and assume women’s intentions. There are different consequences for women being with the wrong partner & being single isn’t that bad when you consider that so i don’t even understand how it doesn’t make sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:23 PM
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To be fair, tons of men here to the exact same thing reverse. It’s all a bit toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:09 AM
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newflash: tons of men will completely throw integrity out of the window in the name of getting women. If they convince themselves being awful works, they will do it and justify it, and even blame women for it. You see it every day here. Their moral compass isn’t really strong. Of course it’s not all men but i would say in communities like redpill it’s a big majority. In real life though, a lot of men are upfront and honest even if they just want something physical - that’s why i don’t do online …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:04 AM
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Well to be fair, the human specie won’t cease to exist because you haven’t reproduced and i’m pretty sure the earth is overpopulated anyway. Also: for most of history reproduction was super important because most infants died early and adults died at a young age. Having as much babies as possible was the norm bc it was needed. Now? Not so much. Just live your best life and enjoy your savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:40 AM
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That’s not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:44 AM
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My point is to obviously have an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:38 AM
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Yes, i knew you were exaggerating… duh… but you were trying to get a point across implying that majority of women preferred those types of relationships/men. You’re the one who can’t read between the lines & arguing irrelevant details. Plus you’re avoiding any discussion of men being in these types of relationships which is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:37 AM
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Do you think there aren’t many men out there with toxic exes too? Wouldn’t that mean men prefer those women too? And by “exceeding” i was replying to your 9 times out of 10 comment… that would mean the abusive/toxic relationship would exceed the good/stable ones when in reality it’s not the case at all. Please think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:13 AM
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and your version of “keeping expectations low” is to test & manipulate that person by being a jerk until they’ve “proven themselves” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:37 PM
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there’s no 9 times out of 10, you’re just chronically online & making numbers up. The amount of women in abusive relationships doesn’t exceed the ones in non-abusive relationships, this is just something men in these “pill” spaces love to say in order to justify their dislike and/or mistreatment of women or feel better about their previous rejections because being “nice” didn’t get them what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:35 PM
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Paradox of choice. There’s always going to be someone that appears to have “more” it doesn’t mean they’re not lacking in other ways, or are compatible to you, or that they will want you. Meeting all 3 billion people isn’t realistic & it can only be settling if you don’t get what you actually want. If you have, then it’s not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:14 PM
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so every woman is addicted to social media & can’t think for themselves? Pls touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:45 PM
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That’s not true though? Men slut shame to a way higher degree, and it’s something that is spread out across nations & religions. Men categorize these women as being less worthy as a person based on that everyday. Even when men talk about whether a woman is “good” is usually based on her sexual history and nothing else/ I’m not sure why you are acting obtuse. Past high school i haven’t talked to a woman that actually slut shames unless she’s super conservative or religious. Men don’t need any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:27 PM
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that’s highly toxic and manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:23 PM
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Men typically want a wife who is nice and a good person. Women don't care about that. They are perfectly willing to date a sociopath, narcissist, or abuser until his ire is directed at them. This is completely false though? There are plenty of study that show women prefer men who show altruism, are safe, and overall have positive qualities. I think any healthy minded individual wants a partner with good traits. Also its like, plenty of men are also in abusive relationship, or with women that are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:22 PM
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You didn’t say “both” you said “nobody except women themselves” .. that is absolutely false and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:59 PM
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“good girls” can just be people pleasers with low self-esteem and poor boundaries. That’s why they remain in these relationships. It doesn’t actually mean they are a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:47 PM
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This type of argument is immature & lowkey reeks of narcissism. It does have an impact on your dating life if you actually care about what type of woman you’re dating. You’re completely right about going for women with low self esteem. I’ve met men like you, highly manipulative & likes testing their partners, it’s the biggest turn off ever in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:37 PM
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Nobody is shaming women sleeping around except women themselves since they slut-shame each other more often For you to be saying under this sub is the epitome of delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, sounds like you just don’t want black women… but don’t speak on other people’s cultures as if we’re all the same, it just sounds ignorant & just find it odd that this type of mentality coming from a black person but lots of ppl like you exist so im not shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:07 PM
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the women’s day off was a women’s strike. Women stopped working for a day to prove men that this idea that women are useless in society is false, it was true, it caused chaos and it was a huge historical moment. Proving that women are indeed needed! So don’t listen to this person, he is just extremely sexist and i doubt he contributes to society in the way so many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:28 AM
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LMAO you clearly did not bother to research anything. Women’s day off is something that happened in iceland where all women in the country decided to stop working one day. It destabilized the country completely & it caused chaos, proving that women are indeed needed. You’re actually worse than i thought, im not even going to bother debating with someone who clearly is ignorant af 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:26 AM
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i’ve met a few of those in my life 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:05 AM
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well, we can see where everyone’s values are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:33 AM
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Well the first definition of feminism, regardless of anyone’s opinion, is that it is the advocacy of women. It was always the main goal and was created for that purpose. Egalitarianism is still different. Also… Ok? I mean you focused on one term, an example that i gave and went on a tangent. Groundbreaking. And good way to not acknowledge 90% of my initial comment. Good technique when you have nothing to counter with. I’m not a man but i only have men around me (only brothers, male cousins, etc)…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:30 AM
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The 1950s in the USA were essentially the best time in history in all aspects except technology i know a white person wrote this 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:01 AM
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Honestly this whole comment is ridiculous… feminism is the advocacy for women, it always been focused on that. Egalitarianism also has its very own definition. Women participate and work in so many industries too? i don’t even know what that has to be with anything. Google women’s day off, and you’ll see that the world also needs and can’t function without working women! And that happened in 1975, a lot more women are part of the workforce now. Believe it or not we also are capable of contributi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:42 PM
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No, your problem is that you do not actually care to hear women or people with different perspectives. Cause i am a woman, dating and attracted to men, and telling you my perspective but you’ll idolize some random male influencers who makes you believe they have all the answers while they are most likely just making bank out of this mass loneliness issue. Women are indeed conditioned and it is something that can change. I’ve gone through that myself. and if you don’t believe men should be libera…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:50 PM
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Women don’t find it naturally i unattractive. Same way men grow up and are told “dont cry like a girl” , “be a man”, etc.. Women grow up hearing the exact same thing & that is coupled with the fact that most probably have never seen men around them ever cry or be vulnerable. So it also affects women on a certain level and it’s definitely a result of conditioning that comes from patriarchal expectations. You are way too concerned who’s blaming who. And to me, when i see men tackle this issue - it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:58 PM
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thank you for making sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:24 PM
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Feminists don’t confuse anything. Men just generally tend to hate any mention of patriarchy for some reason. And honestly, feminists have written books on the subject, books that call the way women participate and push this issue to be what it is. bell hooks, will to change is one of them. And she references many other authors, male activists throughout the book. And honestly from a female perspective, it does seem like these conversations are mainly brought up in dating conversations. And sure,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:35 PM
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Is crying the only way to be vulnerable or show emotion in your opinion? Also i don’t gather such statistics lol what i can tell you is that they are nowhere near toxically masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:41 PM
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Of course OP’s example was an exaggerated scenario but it did speak to a smaller phenomenon. Plenty of men who believe in redpill and all this manosphere talk and date based on their advice are often times manipulative and can be emotionally abusive, and i know that from dating them. The only thing is, they don’t see it as such and genuinely believe that they are somehow healthy and don’t do any wrong bc it “works”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:46 AM
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Huh… OP said something, about some men becoming abusive if that’s what will get them laid. I responded to that, and my comment was under that context. No one talked about “taking care of yourself first” idk what you’re on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:37 AM
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Did you read the original comment? there’s a context to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:35 AM
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You do that if you want it’s none of my concern
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:34 AM
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From my experience, men who are that way don’t really think for themselves or have good morals - they’re just manipulative, low on morals and quite insecure. It’s what makes it easy for them to change behaviours and listen to whatever podcast or manosphere influencer tells them to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:33 AM
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Yes, and i don’t think it entirely is because “you aren’t doing it right” i also said you can also have the wrong partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah, communication is important. I don’t see how that would be a negative thing unless you don’t know how to do it properly or with the wrong partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:07 AM
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I don’t expect anyone to be any way. But if you’re speaking off mass suicide rates and not having people to talk to about your pain and troubles. When it’s millions who talk about this then surely, the issue is deeper and this phenomenon also happens in very individualistic cultures - there are so many aspects to this subject. Community, healthy social circles are incredibly important for human beings and are directly linked to happiness, way more than romantic relationships, and that is for bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:05 AM
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being healthy is just harder to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:01 AM
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I have mostly men around me, only have brothers, most of my close cousins are male and show emotions in a very healthy way and remain masculine so i don’t really believe that. I don’t know why things have to be black and white in your eyes… but it’s definitely not something you’re forced to become just because you won’t get as much 🐱. You’ll never be truly confident in yourself if you base how you act and process emotion off what others think and will say. Being a balanced and healthy individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:59 AM
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This also depends on how you come off though? Like i’m a woman and a lot of people think i don’t like them or are upset with their presence when they meet me because im quiet and don’t talk or smile a lot when in reality it’s anxiety. As a matter of fact many people in my personal circle were shocked when i got diagnosed with it. A lot of times that part of me is seen negatively by others, even close friends, family and romantic partners. The only friend who would actually ask me if i was okay, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:46 AM
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there was literally a whole phrase that provided context … stop acting obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:37 AM
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I honestly think they would that’s the crazy part. A lot of these dudes don’t think for themselves and don’t act on their own values… Whatever they think gets them p*ssy is what they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:33 AM
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Do you think men’s loneliness is only related to their relationship with women? Because from what i’ve seen, men don’t necessarily provide that space for each other and have no issues dismissing issues amongst each other or brushing it off. I think mainly relying on women to be that safe space, and not speaking of community (of men) improvement is completely useless in this conversation. As a woman, men and people who i have dated have probably been the cause of my biggest heartbreaks and issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:25 AM
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So the option is either crying or being toxic? 💀Is there not an in-between? A healthy middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:08 AM
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As a woman, this is 100% accurate. I love seeing how someone is in real life and their personality. It makes me much more willing to get to know them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:34 PM
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this is not an exception…. i’ve been in the same situation and it’s not that suprising to any woman. Then again women can talk about their experiences all day and people like you will still believe whatever fits your preconceived notion so i’m not suprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 PM
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what? Are you actually African?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:57 AM
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what privilege? the only proper women are in asia or europe? you have roots….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:02 AM
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Well, because people don’t get married and plan on divorcing for one. You only mentioned things that can happen during a separation. Plus men do benefit from mariage in many ways, they just don’t benefit if it ends. Married men live longer; are better perceived and can grow more in their careers simply for being married. Single men aren’t a very happy group of people either, this sub and reddit in general are proof of this. I’m guessing that is also why men are more likely to remarry - even if d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:54 AM
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