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| 1 | Women do get rejected by menYes we are all influenced by our environment; that is a given - But i don’t agree with OP’s specific line of thinking, there’s a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menAnd saying women are shaped by sexism or they inherently view themselves as only good for sex in this world isn’t condescending? Please look in the mirror. You reality isn’t everyone else’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationYes they are toxic so they will do toxic shit… That means you shouldn’t be with that person and let them be fucked up on their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationI’d like to believe there are people that aren’t wounded ; or if they are - they move past it and just have better discernment/boundaries rather than becoming toxic. It’s not the majority but they are out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationAgain, none of that negates what i said lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationOkay, so if toxic men exist and toxic women exist - Then this means all of us get hurt at some point. RP men aren’t special in that regards and they need to stop thinking their past hurt justifies their messed up views and actions. No one is denying that they may have experiences things with women that were genuinely bad and hurtful but you choose what you do with those experiences. And people not supporting that and calling those out doesn’t mean they don’t get how RP men become the way they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationokay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationI don’t go on these other subs at all so i wouldn’t know. On this sub i’ve had women disagree with me and it’s not really my perception that all have the same opinions. In any case, i don’t really see how that negates anything i said about RP men. You’re just shifting the focus which isn’t really an argument. Two wrongs don’t make a right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationi’m not even gonna go there with you because male stereotypes are usually worse - but if you believe in all of that.. More power to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationwomen where? This is a debate sub where people of with different view points debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationThere’s no point to make here, your comment simply made no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationToxic men don’t exist? Every woman usually also has a story of a man doing something weird/fucked up to her, and it goes beyond just romantic partners. Your past hurt doesn’t justify any of this. You’re just explaining that RP men are a group of wounded and damaged men who seek to continue that cycle of toxicity which is already a given when you analyze their behaviour and line of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bisexual?Honestly, i come from a more conservative culture & i know even a lot of my friends would be judgemental of it. However, personally i wouldn’t care. I also think it’s because i’ve made queer friends in the past few years so i see things differently now. Before that i would say i had that mentality you speak of because that’s how everyone around me was thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationSome women being toxic doesn’t negate anything i said though? Like i realize there are women that are toxic. But there are plenty that aren’t. Just like there are men that are toxic (RP) and there are men that aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationevery RP dude is wounded & damaged in some way imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menchronically online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationwhat does that have to do with anything? Just state your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of mensounds personal lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:01 PM |
| -2 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationthat’s such a good point. Because imo, RP mentality is ultimately toxic and in their eyes women all have the same nature - that’s why they feel comfortable playing these games with any woman. I genuinely believe they would not change even if the woman was extremely fair and genuine. They are not concerned with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulationI’ve dated a redpill guy for a short amount of time and that’s exactly the impression i had of him. Constantly lying, faking a personality to match mine, very manipulative and switches up a lot. Mine was lovebombing me - so he was very big on pursuing took me out on very nice dates and was quite consistent. However, his mentality turned me off and saw those red flags so i left. He was also controlling, the type of person to do anything so you can stay where he wants you to be. I feel bad for who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menaverage men are average - not ugly. Average means you are attractive to some, and not attractive to others. Realistically speaking most men do have sex lives so they do indeed get chances. A man that goes extremely long periods of time without being able to have a chance either has personality issues or isn’t average but below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of mendelusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 10:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionYes, that’s definitely also a part of it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:33 PM |
| 8 | Do you actually benefit from this sub ?I definitely think it made me more cynical as well. Also, seeing that more and more men buy into redpill/manosphere ideologies and seeing so many speak like Andrew Tate in real life just made it worse for me because it confirms all the messed up things i see men say about women here and in other spaces online. I still don’t think all men are the same and mainly come here for entertainment/to debate. But i don’t think i’ll be spending too much time on here for too long… There’s too much negativit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionyou can use other men tho 🤔 technically speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionI think perhaps their high desire for sex is primarily why they have such issues with us women. If you think about all the things they complain about, even all the “privilege” they believe we have… It is literally all due to their own sex drive and actions. Even in countries where women are extremely covered up, can’t show their faces or ankles… It’s because in their eyes it causes temptation for men. So much of what misogyny consists of is just men controlling women because of their own urges. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:49 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionPPD women don’t say it replaces romantic affection. But chances are you’ll feel less lonely with a group of truly supportive friends who are there for you emotionally. There’s often talks about male loneliness and suicide rates so it’s to help with that. As a straight woman.. my girl friends don’t have a penis and i won’t ever be able to marry & start a family with them so they could never be a replacement/alternative for a romantic relationship. However, i can say my life and livelihood has imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersExactly… I really dislike how they victimize themselves when they clearly promote hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeLiterally - all of it exists because of their own behaviour. It’s also as if they just assume they cannot or will never change therefore they focus on women and blaming them. But many of the things they complain about could stop if they changed their behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:22 PM |
| 9 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menexactly… Being a good partner doesn’t really have anything to do with looks. Even when it comes to casual sex. A good man will be transparent about what he wants, a shitty man will lie/manipulate/be shitty, it all comes down to character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:48 PM |
| 13 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menShitty average men are not going to have the chance to actually exercise their desired fuckboy lifestyle whereas shitty Chads will. But they do lol… Like life outside of the internet is different people on this sub can’t seem to get a grip. Tons of average men are shitty partners/lovers & they prove it everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?TRP have hypocritical views regardless. These are things they just tell themselves to justify it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It is a false equivalency and whatever TRP tell themselves has nothing to do with their hypocritical views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 23 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menAverage men can be shitty though? Like i’m not sure why there is an assumption that because a man is shitty or a woman had a shitty experience then he is some Chad fuckboy. It’s kind of stupid and not reflective of reality at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:55 PM |
| 2 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?That is such a false equivalency and a trash argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesHow many men do you really think are paying for OF content? From what I gather it's similar to micro transactions in videogames most aren't paying but the few who do pay a lot. It was one example to give context. And there are men who pay and won’t say a thing to anyone too lol Most women probably don't want to date the types of guys who would subscribe to an OF model anyways so why are women thinking "gee these guys I would never fuck are simping for her, I want to be more like her" ? Like i sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allright… as i said, you are a man so you’ll believe what you want. I know what type of conversations i have with my friends whether they are promiscuous, celibate or a virgin. It’s really not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:11 PM |
| 26 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesIt’s not that most women women would feel flattered to be fwb. But that simply being the girlfriend or wife doesn’t actually translate to receiving the respect and good treatment from men as they so often claim. The truth is they also strongly validate the promiscuous women and can mistreat the commitment woman. For example they’ll say they don’t like the “whore” but will pay for the OF model’s content, they’ll say they like a natural girl but his following is full of insta baddies, they say the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:05 PM |
| 15 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesthat is so true, men validate the women they claim to hate - especially main in redpill/manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:57 PM |
| 13 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesshe could also wait because she hasn’t had many partners.. i think it’s one of those things that require a conversation rather than assumptions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:52 PM |
| 36 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesYes men have standards and you can see that by the amount of effort they are willing to out towards a woman. And that effort won’t feel forced and he’ll enjoy it, as long as she’s not awful and actually likes him as well and shows it. I think a lot of women also don’t make guys wait, i know plenty of couples who hooked up right away and remained together. I would say it happens to women who have been judged for it in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allagain, that’s not really my problem. I wasn’t lying. Perhaps you know different types of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alllol typical. It’s fine, i’m used to it and i know men will believe what they want. I was just sharing my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them.LOL i just saw a post on the exact same subject but in reverse https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/8jg2oLYZYg I honestly think it’s not a gendered thing here, people are usually just willing to talk about things that interest them rather than the opposite. Too many times we boil everything down to gender when in reality we all experience those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?As a woman who’s more on the traditional side, and didn’t sleep with anyone until i was well into my 20s (current partner)… there’s honestly not much reward for being this way and tons more for being promiscuous. Men reward promiscuity and even if they say they want a traditional woman, that doesn’t translate to these women actually being more valued irl. I think men overlook how they behave themselves in all of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:40 PM |
| 7 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?they’ll think like this whether or not they actually sleep with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:36 PM |
| 8 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?No, it’s hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:32 PM |
| – | Why do women often not try to get me to like them on dates?I dont do OLD but my friends who are on it also say that men there are more rude, flaky & typically get very inappropriate fast. So i think it’s just an OLD thing, there’s less quality partners there. Personally there’s plenty of negative experiences my friends have had, or messages they’ve been sent by men that i was shocked to see. Never ever had men i met irl be like this so i know it’s not all men. Online anything usually brings out the worst in people. I also personally feel i would probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menNot completely different. Approaching is a part of pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menNot completely different. Approaching is a part of pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menNo, there’s research on it. It’s not just cultural or social, or if it is, it’s not just US men. I’m not even from the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menYour statements are conflicting.. First you add to a comment that said women are terrified of rejection and explained that it’s because they attach their worth to sex. Now women love to pursue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menI never said women don’t. We definitely do, but most women don’t pursue men the way men pursue us. And i am sorry you think of yourself the way that commenter describes it, can’t relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menI said at most, if the guy is more shy or out of reach, yes, women will make themselves available. But my comment was more about pursuing rather than simply approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women do get rejected by menYes we all do, but women don’t pursue men to the same extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Women do get rejected by menAs a woman… i disagree. I don’t do it simply because i don’t need to. Even if i like a guy, simply having a conversation or complimenting him at most does the job. That’s all it takes for a man to pursue me, even an attractive one. That doesn’t mean i’m delusional to the fact that some men may not find me attractive, but knowing the ones that are will make it known (and it’s quite obvious when a man is into even if he doesn’t say it) is enough for me to not have to do any type of pursuing. Men j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Even with all government and social support and gender quotas, Western Women are way more likely to be poor than menyour example literally says “gender wage gap” … that is your answer here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?cause i like debating & since i work home a lot i get bored so i spend time on here to entertain myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:49 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Just because a wife works the same hours as her husband doesn't make it an equal contributionbingo! This mentality isn’t healthy at all and highly dismissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:16 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Just because a wife works the same hours as her husband doesn't make it an equal contributionall those jobs aren’t exclusive to men & women are becoming high earners in many different fields nowadays. If she’s a nurse and he works in an office he might earn more but chances are she’s doing more physical work, things aren’t black and white like that. Plus women are still the primary caregivers in most households when children are involved which is also labour. The effort, labour and care is there. If you make solely about numbers and disregarding everything else sure, you’ll see an imbal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?yawwwnnn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageNot my own.. this is quite literally a response thread from another average man, and other people have replied to you opposing your statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionyes that’s definitely a point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionThat’s not true.. I think a lot of women in their 20s don’t but past 30s+ a lot more women are open to it. I’m 27 and would date a 25 yr old, but i wouldn’t have dated a 22 yr old at 25. Now… would i want something long term with one? It depends on the maturity and if he’s really ready. An older man would most likely already be ready to settle down so i would probably not look for a younger man at all. But if we’re only speaking physical attractiveness i do think older women are attracted… they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsYes, nowadays it’s a lot more mixed and i know a lot of girls who are into gaming and other subjects that are stereotypically for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsIdk i’ve never dated online and only met my partners through social events and i don’t see why the only way women would be at a social event would be for something men don’t enjoy. Like we’re all human beings at the end of the day and both men and women will have many things in common that both interest them - like music, art, event , even gaming. There are both men & women at all of these types of events. It’s kind of a black & white way of thinking. Just live and go places you enjoy. If it’s t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupshaha! seriously… it’s as if they don’t realize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagethat’s your personal experience, that doesn’t mean another average man experienced the same thing. He might be charming in other ways & socially confident which makes him appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsthis is true.. as a woman who doesn’t date online, i’ve always met my partners through social circles. They were always through friends, or friends of friends. Could be at a birthday party, event, hanging out at someone’s place, etc. It’s so much better and you can also see what your friends say about a guy - my current boyfriend everyone was telling me he was great. His friend is actually the one who came up to me cause he was shy & told me he was into me! So i think it also benefits men that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagehe’s just hating bc that makes him feel better about his own personal failures and insecurities. Other men being short and being successful is inconceivable to him bc then he can no longer put all the blame on this one thing and might have to actually self reflect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagewhy are you such a hater lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagemost average men can date and will get relationships in their lives… if you struggle on an extreme level you either are below average or struggle approaching/being social | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.never said it’s for myself… just not sexual/romantic attention from men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?It doesn’t go against my narrative. It’s a no brainer why men may feel that pressure but that was not the topic and it was obvious that i was speaking from a place where i have dated and been ok with men not making more and them still feeling insecure… So YES, you have comprehension issues and just want to be combative. I spoke to another male commenter and he completely understood and agreed with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsYes, i think that’s the whole the gist of many of the manosphere content and even people like Andrew tate. A lot of what is said is “good” and “true” at face value but when you really look into why they think this way, they meaning behind & goals behind these messages- that’s when you realize how harmful it can be for young men. It’s also mostly based on extremely shallow needs that are feeding off men’s insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.I personally post when i like my outfit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.seriously… it’s crazy that people here need to be reminded that women are human beings lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:40 PM |
| 6 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.Most women know this though? That’s why they are picky themselves. Making the first move on a man won’t guarantee a relationship either if the man only sees sex in your or you’re not the type of woman he truly want. Overtime you see what guy is genuinely into you and who’s serious. If the woman is attractive enough then it’s not like she won’t have men interested in actually dating her unless she has a terrible personality or commitment issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?see… you clearly have comprehension issues. I don’t need that overly defensive energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Oh , i have noticed men that help other men in meaningful ways… they just aren’t as supported by other men or as popular amongst men. I never said it didn’t exist, but it’s just not common. s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Eh like i said.. i don’t mind befriending men at all, i’ve just lost them because they all wanted to have something other than friendship at some point. You speak of empathy but you don’t seem to show empathy for women who genuinely think they have friends only to get dropped once they don’t want to sleep with those men. That sucks too. You’re not realizing that you don’t come off as empathetic as you think & make just as many generalizations about women. It’s also not about lacking empathy but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I don't think I am that much of a minority. But you are though? Like how exactly would you know how men interact with women on a platonic level when you’re not a woman? I am one… and i’ve lived my whole life with tons of experiences. And there are tons of articles Id more say red pill guys at the minority offline, which should be obvious to anyone. Men don’t necessarily have to be RP to behave and think in the way i previously explained. This topic isn’t new to anyone and men have been behaving … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)The thing is - women try to befriend men and quickly realize that it’s usually not the intent for men. Like men themselves typically do not care to interact with women platonically, they want more. You are a minority amongst men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allHow is it a smaller range than 6% of the population? Also.. age is something that cannot be controlled whatsoever. Income & other things women value can be achieve and sustained longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Well it’s your personal observation based on your personal experiences. Mine are completely different, i rarely see men value genuine platonic friendships towards women. Plenty of men, especially in the RP space are against that and will have no problem saying men usually will want sex. There’s plenty of content online to prove this. Women will befriend gay men everyday, they are men. Why? Because it’s usually platonic. And like i said, even when a straight is platonically friends - it usually g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alland female attraction isn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)But your point is entirely based on your personal experience so it technically doesn’t prove anything either. I just stated my perspective as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alland those studies are based on what exactly? Men’s preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)lolll ok buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allNobody said that, stop acting obtuse. RP claims that men of all ages want these women. Nobody ever said it’s wrong for a 25 yr old to want s 25 yr old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Personally, i’ve never had a male friend who didn’t end up trying to hook up with me or cut me off once they had a girlfriend so i don’t really approach men in that context anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)1) i don’t agree 2) if that’s your logic… then plenty of women are also lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?right… but you understand it right? Sometimes that resentment for yourself still affects your partner because its in our subconscious. I wouldn’t say the men i’ve dated in that position were bad people or terrible partners - but that insecurity and resentment lead to unpleasant or even toxic behaviours in the long run. I think with your mindset then it’s healthy, but some just don’t think that way. Or they might know logically but emotionally it’s different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)most of the time there’s nothing exploitative in the friendship. I mean, anyone can have a bad friend ofc but this isn’t what i’m speaking of here… I’m talking about men who know they don’t truly intend to be platonic friends with women and use the “friend” route in order to get there instead of stating their intentions from the start. A woman cannot “use” you for friendship if you state your clear intentions and boundaries. If you decide to help them, be there for them - then that’s just a norm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 12 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allexactly… they are so hypocritical. Single women between the age of 18-25 are like 6% of the population, so by their own standards… They are just as picky for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allNot really, i know plenty of single women who don’t even have sex lol. I was one myself until 25 and was still fulfilled in life. My family and friends are what sustains me emotionally and mentally. Some women aren’t into casual sex and can still remain happy single. Plenty of women aren’t on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:01 PM |
| 8 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?no actually a lot of men get insecure about it in the long run bc they want to provide or think they should be in a position to give you more - overtime that insecurity turns into resentment. I think most men would say what you said … but the reality of dating men when you’re in that position is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Yes, i think if you’re a very driven woman who’s successful and makes money - whatever man you chose has to be confident and not have hang ups about making more money bc it 100% creates resentment and insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Unemployed absolutely not - i’m from a 3rd world country and honestly to me not having a job in the west is not something i understand, at least long term. There’s tons of opportunities and it’s completely understandable if you do not have a high paying job or lower income, but at least have one. It would reaaaally depend on the specific circumstances here but for the most part no. Less money isn’t as much of a big deal, i could accept that & dated men that did make less than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Most of the time men don’t want to be our friend & complain about the friendzone though. I’ve even seen men resent women and calling them manipulative for treating them as friends because in their own mind that meant he could eventually get a sexual or romantic connection with her. Then suddenly he was used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)the thing is, you don’t truly care about loneliness here… You care about singleness and lack of sex. Call it what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:33 PM |
| 27 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I’ve always said this and when you talk to men about why they’re not doing anything substantial to help each other they basically admit that men don’t care about other men. Even last week under this sub a man explained this to me. Like if we look at any group that’s ever struggled socially - women, lgbt , POC… they all organize themselves, march, create programs, build communities meant to help each other and men just don’t. They spend most of their energy gathering together to criticize women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:23 PM |
| – | Most women who claim that "sexual past doesn't matter" would probably not date a man who has previously had gay sex. CMV.I think those are probably two different types of women. If a woman cares whether or not you’ve been with men, she probably cares about her own sexual history and her man’s as well. Women who genuinely do not care probably are open minded and would not necessarily judge a man for that. I feel like i used to care about it until i made friends that are in the lgbt community and realize that doesn’t matter that much and if a man genuinely has all the qualities i look for it would not be a big deal.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Words like 'virgin' and 'slut' carry negative connotations. What other words would be more positive or at least neutral to help people who carry such monikers be accepted?All of what i said compared to the word « slut » like there’s no time and place ever when this term can be used in a neutral sense - it is ALWAYS with negative connotations whereas the term virgin doesn’t automatically have that negative connotation. It’s entirely dependent on your environment, culture, beliefs, etc… "I'm not your training wheels" is a common attitude by some in response to someone who's a virgin (kinda like the heterosexual equivalent of, say, some gay men who refuse to date or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:05 AM |
| 3 | The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand.Yes, the other day i was debating on another post about male loneliness and asked the man i was speaking with why men don’t help each other and organize themselves the same way other groups have - and they responded : Men do not care about other men. Which explained a lot. It’s almost like men can collectively gather to express frustration, anger, etc.. but when it comes to real actions to build communities and support each other emotionally there’s virtually nothing that’s done and it’s as if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV : As an average man comparison to exes and potential partners will always lead to the end of your relationship or ruin its qualityWhy do you guys pretend you’re in a woman’s head? This whole post is toxic & only a toxic woman would do any of this. Only a toxic man could think like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: Words like 'virgin' and 'slut' carry negative connotations. What other words would be more positive or at least neutral to help people who carry such monikers be accepted?Virgin doesn’t have any negative connotations though, it’s just a fact. You are that or you aren’t. Getting called an incel however, would be a good comparison to the word slut which inherently has a negative connotation. So for virgin - i think it’s a personal thing whether you view it as negative. Plenty of people , such as religious people will view that as a good thing even for a man because marriage needs to come first. Others will see it as negative because they’ve tried to have partners a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancewhich one is it? i have lots of perfumes, some get tons of compliments, some don’t at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What exactly do RP men want?I think it’s whatever too. But they believe and pretend they aren’t which is ridiculous imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:20 PM |
| 9 | What exactly do RP men want?yes RP men i’ve met in real life are usually materialistic and very shallow, they just cover all of that up with their theories on “female nature” and “the matrix” to make it seem like it’s deeper than it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancedefinitely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men would have an easier time dating if they talked about sexuality without propositioningYeah, men are the same. More likely to simp and accept certain behaviour the hotter you are… I think it’s human nature on some level. “Halo effect”. but i do think OP’s paragraph and millions of questions would be a red flag to many women… Especially in real life. I don’t do OLD at all so i can’t speak on it. Im guessing people there are more superficial and concerned with looks anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men would have an easier time dating if they talked about sexuality without propositioningyou don’t need 1000 questions to develop that. You can ask about consent, what they prefer, what you are both down to explore and just do the damn thing - if there are any issues, then sure, we could talk about them. I think intimacy is developed naturally overtime when two people are comfortable & trust each other - proactively asking tons of questions isn’t intimacy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men would have an easier time dating if they talked about sexuality without propositioningno … honestly even if the hottest guy on the planet asked me these i would dip. That’s too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men would have an easier time dating if they talked about sexuality without propositioningyeah, that’s a bit much. I think a decent conversation to have would be around consent, what they like & what they are down to try. That’s about it. The rest isn’t of much relevance unless there’s some sort of deeper issue with sex… they sound like questions a sex therapist would ask to a patient lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancei beg to differ… plenty of guys don’t do certain things here. Or if they do, it’s not in a way that really compliments them. They’ll get a super basic haircut that doesn’t necessarily fit them for example, they’ll get clothes but they’re not that flattering, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:32 PM |
| 0 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceright??? Like these men have women telling them we like it & their response is “i dont think women care” it’s funny. Most of us LOVE it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceyou’re either really dense or trolling… But either way i’m over this 😂 believe what you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancehe could smell like dior… use your brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:54 AM |
| 5 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceYou live in delusion lol… I mean even science says men have higher sexual desire because of their hormones. I’m not sure why you’re so hung up on denying reality. And yes, maybe some lesbians are “hos” but it does not compare to gay men. Like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:51 AM |
| 4 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceno they seek more.. they seek sex workers, they seek sexual content too at a higher rate. Women express less sexual desire - which is the exact reason why men get less. Look at the gay community vs the lesbian community for example. Apps like grindr aren’t popular amongst lesbians… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancethat’s your opinion… i love perfume. To me it tells me someone takes care of themselves. Plus… sometimes if you borrow a man’s shirt or hoodie and it smells like him it’s the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…that’s not “most likely” anything. Most of what is said here are just speculations and Joe hasn’t come out and said those things himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceyes being respected as a woman (when it comes to men) 100% has to do with attractiveness. I had a “glow up” and i’ve realized men can even be lowkey mean when they don’t find you attractive. If you are though, their whoooooole demeanour towards you changes & you really do get treated better, with more kindness and respect. I’ve even noticed this with men who saw me after a few years and were now finding me attractive. Totally different behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancei don’t think it’s about being completely equal.. because men clearly seek sex way more than women. However, i think on a personal level it can truly improve how a man is perceived when it comes to attractiveness. And i also think men overlook this or don’t even realize how much it can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:07 AM |
| 4 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceactually a man can do these: go to the barber and don’t just get a cut, but find one that suits you (there’s this young barber on tiktok named docdami he’s really good a making haircuts that suits his clients and changes their whole look, you should check him out) trim your beard and keep it clean invest in your style, even wearing things like watches or other accessories add to your style too. But the type of shirts you wear, pants, etc.. and how you wear them can really change your look too. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:57 AM |
| -1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearancewhat do you do to take care of your appearance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:49 AM |
| 0 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceI find that style is something men overlook too much… Yes even shoes or having a cool style is super attractive, but maybe that’s just cause i’m into fashion myself. But i think it can really improve someone’s appearance as well as a good haircut/barber. Add cologne and i basically simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:49 AM |
| – | The Mirrors We Hold Up: How Our Views on Gender Reflect Our Own Inner Workingsno seriously this comment is strange 🤣 for sure they are using it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsRight, same! Most are super nice people and them not being attractive in the past just caused them to develop a great personality. I’ve met attractive people that were insecure, some may have been unattractive in the past.. But i don’t find that it’s some sort of phenomenon. It’s really just something that’s dependant on each individual and how they deal with their own insecurities which isn’t exclusive to a gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsEh…. I think some men that become attractive later in life can also carry unresolved insecurities and be quite unpleasant. I’ve dated those & i really don’t think this phenomenon is exclusive to a gender but more so how a person deals with whatever insecurities they had in the past. I think generally though, people who become attractive later in life have great personalities because they didn’t have to rely on looks to get relationships/validation. Maybe they’re funny, humble; sometimes they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingI know that pew research shows that 70% of men are in long term relationships by 30 & increases with age. So even then, it is indeed a minority who remain single for a very long time and into adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingNone of what you said proved that a big majority of men struggle with this.. It’s a small majority and even separated by age for people currently in their 20s so talking about parents & grandparents here is irrelevant. Lots of things changed since for everyone. But currently, most men can date, have sex, and experience relationships. Those who never do are a very small minority still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsright… like this isn’t acknowledged enough. I went from being less attractive to conventionally attractive and the treatment from men is wildly different. Men can be downright mean to women they don’t perceive as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 13 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsthis is already how many men in pill spaces think - they say things like “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” and have terms like monkey branching to explain why women would do this. I think the point is that a man simply being less attractive doesn’t mean he’s a better person & it’s a stupid assumption - same way a man making such assumptions about a woman would be stupid. People’s core values aren’t based on how they look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 01:00 PM |
| – | Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to datingI said you sound like, not that you are. There’s a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:51 PM |
| – | Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to datingYou sound like an actual sociopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Where is a man supposed to go in order to meet you?I met my past partners through the first 2 so it is possible. I’m pretty sure that’s how most people met before OLD too. And you won’t “establish” a relationship at a loud place or concert… you’ll just met people who could potentially enter your life and eventually date. If not, i guess activities & social clubs in your cities. There’s no specific answer for this bc you could literally meet anyone anywhere i think the focus is how social you are and willing to put yourself out there. Not necessa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV You will never get pump and dumped if you make a realistic pick of men when you consider youre Partners.Honestly… i think men on here who are so adamant about the fact that average men have zero options and probably below average men who project their own experiences to other men… cause their logic and the way they address dating is just beyond ridiculous and nonsensical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:20 AM |
| 2 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.If men are statistically more prone to be victims of violence it is at the hands of other men. And sexual violence victims are actually overwhelmingly women - apart from prisons which essentially goes back to my first point. There’s also no fear mongering, women still live full lives and do what they want to do regardless. Women are safe because they also keep themselves safe for the most part. This post was addressing their biggest fear and women answered what it is. I’m not even sure what your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.Sir… you’ve been butthurt for the past 3 comments, i’m tired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.you’re actually crazy 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:08 AM |
| 2 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.And i’m the hypersensitive one? LOL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 03:59 AM |
| 0 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.yawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:59 AM |
| 60 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I’m sorry … do you think women would want that??? 💀 like we don’t want to know or see any of that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.there’s always someone that’s gotta deflect and point the finger… two wrongs don’t make a right. Next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:50 AM |
| 15 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.They never actually ASK women, they make their theories and run off with it. You’re completely right. Women just want to be safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 11:39 PM |
| 12 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.exactly… like let’s be realistic here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 11:38 PM |
| 48 | Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily livesCause they believe a woman’s purpose is to be a mother and wife. They view those women as selfish. I never got the narcissism argument… It’s probably the opposite of narcissism. Narcissistic people usually want to be liked by people - women who decide not to have children usually get shit tons of negative comments and push back, people think there’s something wrong with them, even their family and sometimes friends. A narcissist would totally have children and use them as supplies, as well as pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Society thinks independent women die alone with cats. It's actually men who die alone.Your mom is living better than many other housewives in the west too. Having maids, travelling, etc… are a luxury in this day & age and the men who can afford such lifestyle aren’t really considered average. It’s not really about singleness here, your mom has some privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Women, which of these four relationship choices would you make if you had to choose?D …. cause i could technically have a, b and c just by picking D lol. The other options don’t include long term romantic relationships so i am technically single either way but with less options. If im going to be single forever than might as well explore and deal with whoever i want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If all men want is sex, and women aren't special, why does it matter what a woman's body count is?As a woman, i think a lot of times their wife/girlfriend’s behaviour reflects on them and their reputation. Like the whole Logan paul situation is a good example of that. Men will look down and clown other men for what their women did. Other situations could be personal values, some men don’t necessarily see women that way and aren’t promiscuous themselves so they want those same traits in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?I wasn’t trying to do anything, i was confused. Calm down. And yes, they definitely do. Like i said, it depends on whether or not they find that average man attractive personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?it’s not that rare… like i said, beauty is subjective. I’ve rarely found my friend’s partners that attractive and most of the time those who do date conventionally attractive guys are conventionally attractive women themselves. But i’ve definitely seen plenty of friends (average w) flirting with average guys & going for them .. those guys were just attractive in their eyes. This type of thing mostly happens in social situations though, i don’t think something like online dating could ever reflec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?ok and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW)Y’all don’t get laid 💀 like at all… cause what is this type of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?not sure if you changes your previous comment cause now im a little confused lol… But i’ve definitely seen women go for average dudes, date them, hook up, etc.. like i think if anyone doubts this they are chronically online. As we both agreed, average isn’t ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?but are they attracted to them still ? Being average doesn’t mean completely ugly to the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?I think they pursue or give signals to guys they are personally attracted which is subjective & different for everyone. Some of the dudes my friends like or date i would never give “signals” to and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Given the status of the dating market it is completely acceptable for men to lie/use immoral means when it comes to datingYou literally justify lying and misleading women then want them to take accountability for “choosing the wrong person” what kind of narcissistic type of mindset is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:37 PM |
| – | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?if that’s something that makes you lose edge in a relationship then find a girl who’s actually into fitness is my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?so the only option are chest or glutes? Do you even know how go work out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:50 PM |
| – | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…please heal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?there’s plenty of women who are into fitness and don’t just “work out their glutes” 💀 what a lame generalization. Just find a girl with similar hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:21 PM |
| – | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…Omg…. stop projecting your past relationships onto other people 💀 Your wife was a liar and cheater… Those are just traits certain people have regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?you start aging the moment you’re born actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:05 PM |
| 18 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…huh what?That doesn’t mean anything lol. Actors are media trained, and introvert doesn’t mean awkward, or can’t talk in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 11:09 PM |
| 100 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…She’s always said in the media that she was a homebody and introvert though, so the alleged PR statement from Joe’s team doesn’t make much sense. Also we’ve never really seen her in the media being in such way either, going in and out of clubs/parties, etc.. Sophie did put out a statement saying it was amicable and a mutual decision so i’d rather believe that than random news articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.i’ve seen it but that has nothing to do with me so idk why you’re still harping on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.nah, i genuinely look younger. It doesn’t matter where i’m at or where i go, who i speak, they never ever think i’m 27. It happens when i travel too so it’s not even an area thing lol it’s not just random people being fake and giving me compliments. Sometimes people are actually put off when i tell them my actual age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?that’s unfortunate though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 11:47 AM |
| 6 | Do men or women love more intensely?talking about them & feeling them (crying, journaling, venting, etc), finding people to open up to and seek support, the list goes on. An example: My friend recently went through a break up and after sleeping nxt to someone for 5 years she didn’t want to sleep alone so i went over to her house, she cried for hours, expressed her anger (he cheated), we ordered food and slept in the same bed. Her best friend traveled from another city to spend some time with her as well. She also started therapy p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 04:28 AM |
| 7 | What vibe does a man give off that makes a woman manipulate and lead him on?I wouldn’t say that there’s a vibe that would want to make a woman do that. I think there’s probably a vibe that would attract a woman that is manipulative already I don’t think it’s any different than girls who get manipulated: being naive, poor boundaries, low self esteem, not handling conflicts appropriately and speaking up for yourself, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Do men or women love more intensely?I think men think they are straightforward but are more complicated than they think But i also think women overthink so it clouds judgement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:33 AM |
| -2 | Do men or women love more intensely?cause women usually process all the emotions then move on, while men try to bury them so it sticks with them longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.why would you prefer that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?so essentially… men don’t care about men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.that’s good too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.I posed this question because a good reason why older people don’t necessarily agree with age gap relationships doesn’t have to do with what OP talks about. It was to provide the example that even men, under certain circumstances, wouldn’t support it either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Sure that’s definitely true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:02 AM |
| 7 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Depends on the subject lol. I think it can give you a good perspective. In my case, i’m the one who’s been at the receiving end of the very question i asked. It’s a debate sub too… meant to debate opinions and perspective. I never said i speak for men either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.other people under this comment did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….No, thinking that all relationships with men will be unfulfilling or bad because men are inherently unworthy is a mental health issue. Literally no one said that… I’m in a relationship rn, and have had others previously. You’re exaggerating. Yeah, you’re definitely on some bullshit. Pay attention to what I'm saying instead of tripping on your own ego. LOL… pls don’t talk about ego. This is laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Ironically I would prefer that my daughter date an older successful man than a loser "musician" from her high school. Unless there are obvious red flags, most fathers are not as strict on age of the guy as women believe. Ehhh… i have 3 older brothers, mostly male cousins, uncles, a father, etc… I beg to differ. I think it would be normal for a man to not want his 18 yr old to bring home a man his own age or close to it. I’m not sure where you got the “musician” part from? the 19 yr old could be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.they’re not obsessed with it so their opinions won’t necessarily be influenced by that, not in the way OP thinks at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:28 PM |
| 16 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.What’s funny to me is that this is a debate sub yet as soon as you question their logic and it’s clear they are being hypocritical/wrong then they become quiet…. Or purposely derail the conversation (as he tried to do before). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:00 PM |
| 29 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.bingo! i have 3 older brothers & grew up with mostly men so this type of speech is ridiculous to me. Men themselves wouldn’t want this for women they actually care about… It’s hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:54 PM |
| 22 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Yes, im 27 and i don’t find older men that attractive, at least past the 35ish range, and even then it’s usually if they are in good shape. I’ve always preferred guys that are my age. I also look super young for my age, most people think i’m like 20 with no makeup on and if i put myself together maybe 22-23. I’ve noticed now older men are more comfortable approaching me and younger men also approach the most since they think i’m their age. I don’t relate to men that are younger, and don’t relate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:15 PM |
| 22 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.i said “date” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Ok that doesn’t answer the question at all. I didn’t ask whether or not you would restrict your daughter from doing anything. I asked which of the two options would most men prefer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:55 PM |
| 37 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Most women don’t spend their whole time on these forums and have a clue what this SMV talk is all about. I’m 27 and i would say the same just because i’m genuinely more mature now so i can handle a mature man better. I’m more emotionally mature, i have some experience in dating, i’m more patient and understanding. The list goes on. I don’t see how in the world i would’ve been appealing to an older man when i was super young anyway, unless he only cared about how young i was & not what type of pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menWomen also choose to have sex while fertile. And? Being fertile doesn’t automatically mean pregnancy. There has to be semen involved. And don't give me the rape excuse, which is like 1% of abortions. How is it an excuse? It’s a real thing. I also have many other scenarios here. If that’s not important to you … which is it is WOMEN who decide, on their own, whether to have a baby or not. They demanded that it be such. Thus it is up to the to shoulder the consequences. But i clearly explained how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….yawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….so preferring singleness over unfulfilling/bad relationships is a mental health issue now? Not wanting to engage in sex with just any guy to reduce the risk that can come with is a mental health issue? Yeah, you’re definitely on some bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….you’re claiming you know more than women themselves why they would want to be single, that’s ridiculous and yes, if you go all the way up to my initial comment, you’re proving it right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Men will lie and say they won’t wife up a promiscuous girl or a girl with a past the same way women lie about their pastI did not talk about kanye in my second comment, try again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….anyway… you’re proving my intial point right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 2 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….what are the exact numbers for single women and men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I never said there was no risk for men. I just said that for women, the risk outweigh the positive when it comes to being in the wrong relationship & that is why so many choose singleness. Even outside of sex. That was one example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:13 AM |
| 4 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menSo abortion should be forbidden since women have also a choice to not be mothers, by closing their legs. False equivalency, i am not saying men should abstain from sex entirely & “close their dick” i am saying they should avoid ejaculating inside. There is a difference. Also: Tons of women have gotten pregnant and didn’t choose to open their legs… even little girls. I think you can understand how. If you think they shouldn’t have to carry, then there’s no reason for abortion to be illegal. Even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:28 AM |
| 16 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menDid he get a choice in having one? Yes, he ejaculates inside her. That’s kind of avoidable if you don’t want children. As a man that’s when your choice comes to play. It’s your seed. ”Many so called deadbeat dads are so as a result of the mothers actions who think they should be in charge of everything except the provision of resources.” Not really, fathers rarely ask for custody. When they do they actually have more chances of actually getting it then women. They just don’t care do it most of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Do men get things like BV from sex? Do (cis) men get pregnancy scares? No. Some things are exclusive to women because of our reproductive system & the fact that our bodies are designed to carry. It’s not hard to make a call, it’s just biology. And it’s not about protection here, but singleness, you’re creating a false narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….lol 1 - english isn’t my first language i’ll make mistakes, whatever.You got the point. and 2 - i know few women who have had that as well. In general though, women are still more prone to infections, even with the same partner and even outside of STI/STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:22 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….YES - You’re doing shit tons of projection here, you don’t know me or who i’ve dated. My current partner is smart, has studied, is a great person, i’m totally in love with him and no he’s not “ripped” and is literally my height (5’6), im still very much attracted to him. I was single for 2 years before i met him & didn’t have sex. As a matter of fact i’ve had a typical “Chad” pursue me for 2 months during that time, with dates and compliments and never had sex with him because i didn’t like who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I wouldn’t consider that a “risk” because that is entirely subjective and part of engaging in relationships & getting to know people in general. When i say women can “lose” a lot i mean potential health risks because of our reproduction system and bodies. This puts us at in more vulnerable positions compared to men so it’s perfectly normal for women to want to remain single if it’s not the right person. The risk outweigh the “loneliness” that comes with singleness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:57 PM |
| -1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….A lot of single women are also not having sex though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Ok and what do men loose or risk loosing while being in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….No… could be that our values don’t align, personalities clashed, they don’t treat you well or is toxic, the list can be long and no, it’s not superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men will lie and say they won’t wife up a promiscuous girl or a girl with a past the same way women lie about their pastI live in the real world and i promise you this happens too. I think to assume that every man is the same when it comes to who they will date isn’t living in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Okay and you just explained why men can get into relationships with women they don’t even like just for the benefit of having sex on the regular. I don’t see why women should care, the women who get pregnant by those men and end up single moms bc the relationship wasn’t good to begin with are still criticized by men. Being single just removes all of that. I personally only ever had sex with romantic partners so i’m not concerned with casual sex conversations. And no one wants to end up single, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Sex is great but sex for women does not exactly come with just sex lol. Women usually have to be on some form birth control, have more chances of infection, pregnancy is a risk, the list goes on. I mean it’s not a one sided thing as in the sex itself isn’t pleasurable. It’s more about everything else that comes with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:18 PM |
| 8 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….The thing is they get jaded without listening & would rather assume we have some sort of superiority complex so yes they are brushing it off. Men can very well stay and remain in relationships with women they don’t even like bc it will still provide some benefit even if it just means getting off regularly. For women, there are mostly downsides & harsher potential repercussions like pregnancy. The other commenter also provided a good examples under my previous comment. That’s why we’re ok being s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:55 PM |
| 33 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….this comment is soooo spot on. There is SO much projection here and even when women tell them the truth they brush it off and create their own narratives and assume women’s intentions. There are different consequences for women being with the wrong partner & being single isn’t that bad when you consider that so i don’t even understand how it doesn’t make sense to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?I’ve heard his story & it’s extremely unfortunate but like i said, previously marginalized groups have had many stories like this as well. I mean, i am black there’s tons of people of the top of my head i could think of historically, this is why i mentioned that those changes didn’t start by them being “saved” but them demanding/fighting for changes. I am questioning the dynamics of men as a group & why there is so much lack in that aspect. For example: Earl was not massively supported by men ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:49 PM |
| 2 | 'Getting women' by lying and manipulating them isn't reflective of skill, it's just coerciveTo be fair, tons of men here to the exact same thing reverse. It’s all a bit toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | 'Getting women' by lying and manipulating them isn't reflective of skill, it's just coercivenewflash: tons of men will completely throw integrity out of the window in the name of getting women. If they convince themselves being awful works, they will do it and justify it, and even blame women for it. You see it every day here. Their moral compass isn’t really strong. Of course it’s not all men but i would say in communities like redpill it’s a big majority. In real life though, a lot of men are upfront and honest even if they just want something physical - that’s why i don’t do online … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Men will lie and say they won’t wife up a promiscuous girl or a girl with a past the same way women lie about their pastKanye married Kim. As a matter of fact 3 men married her after her sex tape came out & i’m sure she could get another tomorrow if she wanted. OF creators and pornstars also get married. I mean… the list goes on. Tons of experienced & successful men do. It really just depends on personal preference here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Men will lie and say they won’t wife up a promiscuous girl or a girl with a past the same way women lie about their pastThere’s also another thing: A lot of men do not want some virgin or woman with minimal experience in sex past the age of like 22-23. They want good sex and someone who knows what they are doing & women who have had many partners fall into that category. I know since i was a late bloomer. Some men just won’t deal with that even if you don’t necessarily want to make them wait, they’re just past that phase in their life. In real life, outside of the internet, things like body count are rarely ever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt that by not having children you are non fulfilling your biological duty?Well to be fair, the human specie won’t cease to exist because you haven’t reproduced and i’m pretty sure the earth is overpopulated anyway. Also: for most of history reproduction was super important because most infants died early and adults died at a young age. Having as much babies as possible was the norm bc it was needed. Now? Not so much. Just live your best life and enjoy your savings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?Ok so pls hear me out, not trying to point fingers but i get genuinely curious when statements like this are made by men. Logically i just ask myself why aren’t men helping men instead of “walking this life alone”. Like of course; women should 100% care but from my POV most of the time groups like women, black people, queer people, etc have a history of not being “saved” but working as a community towards the accomplishment of a goal and betterment of the group. That’s what “saved” them. I don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Thank you for being open & i’m sorry you went through that. I’ve seen very close friends go through the same thing and i will never understand why this whole thing is always looked at “older women are bitter” when in reality older women where once younger women who dated these types of men and just know what goes on in these relationships. There’s no way i would encourage young women to date much older men, there’s just no point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?there are plenty of women in their early 20s who also are against it but y’all just ignore it or assume they must be older lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?I don’t think i’ve ever seen anyone actually get called a P*** for being into 18-24 yr olds, this is obviously a useless exaggeration. I do think though men that are much older (late 30s, 40,50s + and hyperfocus on women in this specific age range are a bit odd. As much as some of you men like to use the “peak fertility” argument i am sure most men would 100% prefer for their daughter or little sister to date a guy that is her age and there are reasons behind that. As a woman in my late 20s, i a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeThat’s not an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeMy point is to obviously have an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeYes, i knew you were exaggerating… duh… but you were trying to get a point across implying that majority of women preferred those types of relationships/men. You’re the one who can’t read between the lines & arguing irrelevant details. Plus you’re avoiding any discussion of men being in these types of relationships which is interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeDo you think there aren’t many men out there with toxic exes too? Wouldn’t that mean men prefer those women too? And by “exceeding” i was replying to your 9 times out of 10 comment… that would mean the abusive/toxic relationship would exceed the good/stable ones when in reality it’s not the case at all. Please think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeand your version of “keeping expectations low” is to test & manipulate that person by being a jerk until they’ve “proven themselves” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifethere’s no 9 times out of 10, you’re just chronically online & making numbers up. The amount of women in abusive relationships doesn’t exceed the ones in non-abusive relationships, this is just something men in these “pill” spaces love to say in order to justify their dislike and/or mistreatment of women or feel better about their previous rejections because being “nice” didn’t get them what they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you're in a happy relationship, you've "settled".Paradox of choice. There’s always going to be someone that appears to have “more” it doesn’t mean they’re not lacking in other ways, or are compatible to you, or that they will want you. Meeting all 3 billion people isn’t realistic & it can only be settling if you don’t get what you actually want. If you have, then it’s not settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeso every woman is addicted to social media & can’t think for themselves? Pls touch grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.That’s not true though? Men slut shame to a way higher degree, and it’s something that is spread out across nations & religions. Men categorize these women as being less worthy as a person based on that everyday. Even when men talk about whether a woman is “good” is usually based on her sexual history and nothing else/ I’m not sure why you are acting obtuse. Past high school i haven’t talked to a woman that actually slut shames unless she’s super conservative or religious. Men don’t need any of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifethat’s highly toxic and manipulative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeMen typically want a wife who is nice and a good person. Women don't care about that. They are perfectly willing to date a sociopath, narcissist, or abuser until his ire is directed at them. This is completely false though? There are plenty of study that show women prefer men who show altruism, are safe, and overall have positive qualities. I think any healthy minded individual wants a partner with good traits. Also its like, plenty of men are also in abusive relationship, or with women that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.You didn’t say “both” you said “nobody except women themselves” .. that is absolutely false and delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating life“good girls” can just be people pleasers with low self-esteem and poor boundaries. That’s why they remain in these relationships. It doesn’t actually mean they are a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeThis type of argument is immature & lowkey reeks of narcissism. It does have an impact on your dating life if you actually care about what type of woman you’re dating. You’re completely right about going for women with low self esteem. I’ve met men like you, highly manipulative & likes testing their partners, it’s the biggest turn off ever in my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Nobody is shaming women sleeping around except women themselves since they slut-shame each other more often For you to be saying under this sub is the epitome of delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:21 PM |
| – | Why Should Men Get Married?Yeah, sounds like you just don’t want black women… but don’t speak on other people’s cultures as if we’re all the same, it just sounds ignorant & just find it odd that this type of mentality coming from a black person but lots of ppl like you exist so im not shocked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.🤡🤡🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.You’re literally delusional 😭 like do you not see how you completely derailed the conversation? Yes please touch grass. You don’t have a point, you’re all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Omg YAWN… you are insufferable & lack braincells. Moving from the goalpost completely & comparing this conversation to rape? Go touch some grass seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.I’m not some sexist like you, i can acknowledge men’s importance in society & women’s as well. You are dense & childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:32 AM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.the women’s day off was a women’s strike. Women stopped working for a day to prove men that this idea that women are useless in society is false, it was true, it caused chaos and it was a huge historical moment. Proving that women are indeed needed! So don’t listen to this person, he is just extremely sexist and i doubt he contributes to society in the way so many women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:28 AM |
| 2 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.LMAO you clearly did not bother to research anything. Women’s day off is something that happened in iceland where all women in the country decided to stop working one day. It destabilized the country completely & it caused chaos, proving that women are indeed needed. You’re actually worse than i thought, im not even going to bother debating with someone who clearly is ignorant af 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?i’ve met a few of those in my life 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:05 AM |
| 8 | 2000-2010 was the best decade for men, women and relationshipswell, we can see where everyone’s values are lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:33 AM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Well the first definition of feminism, regardless of anyone’s opinion, is that it is the advocacy of women. It was always the main goal and was created for that purpose. Egalitarianism is still different. Also… Ok? I mean you focused on one term, an example that i gave and went on a tangent. Groundbreaking. And good way to not acknowledge 90% of my initial comment. Good technique when you have nothing to counter with. I’m not a man but i only have men around me (only brothers, male cousins, etc)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:30 AM |
| 19 | 2000-2010 was the best decade for men, women and relationshipsThe 1950s in the USA were essentially the best time in history in all aspects except technology i know a white person wrote this 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Honestly this whole comment is ridiculous… feminism is the advocacy for women, it always been focused on that. Egalitarianism also has its very own definition. Women participate and work in so many industries too? i don’t even know what that has to be with anything. Google women’s day off, and you’ll see that the world also needs and can’t function without working women! And that happened in 1975, a lot more women are part of the workforce now. Believe it or not we also are capable of contributi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Who’s mad? This is a debate sub & that’s all i’m doing. I am saying if you view it as an issue, if men genuinely suffer from this lack of emotional openness… Since we all know the mental health statistics, suicide rates and have seen the countless articles about male loneliness. Then yes, men should advocate for change and don’t necessarily assume that for women it’s a “natural thing” rather than centuries of conditioning. That’s a lazy cop out & to me, shows that these conversations are more ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.I am speaking of men adhere to the “pill” mindset in general. If that’s not you, then that’s fine. And we are speaking of emotional expression not physical traits. And it’s not about finding “weak” emotions attractive… i don’t even know how logically that’s possible. It’s not like when women have these negative emotions it’s attractive, it’s just accepted. It’s just about accepting. The way you form these arguments and see things is telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 06:26 PM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.No, your problem is that you do not actually care to hear women or people with different perspectives. Cause i am a woman, dating and attracted to men, and telling you my perspective but you’ll idolize some random male influencers who makes you believe they have all the answers while they are most likely just making bank out of this mass loneliness issue. Women are indeed conditioned and it is something that can change. I’ve gone through that myself. and if you don’t believe men should be libera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Women don’t find it naturally i unattractive. Same way men grow up and are told “dont cry like a girl” , “be a man”, etc.. Women grow up hearing the exact same thing & that is coupled with the fact that most probably have never seen men around them ever cry or be vulnerable. So it also affects women on a certain level and it’s definitely a result of conditioning that comes from patriarchal expectations. You are way too concerned who’s blaming who. And to me, when i see men tackle this issue - it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:58 PM |
| 0 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.thank you for making sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:24 PM |
| 2 | If people paid attention to men who expressed any emotion other than anger, men would probably start expressing more emotions than just anger.Feminists don’t confuse anything. Men just generally tend to hate any mention of patriarchy for some reason. And honestly, feminists have written books on the subject, books that call the way women participate and push this issue to be what it is. bell hooks, will to change is one of them. And she references many other authors, male activists throughout the book. And honestly from a female perspective, it does seem like these conversations are mainly brought up in dating conversations. And sure,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:35 PM |
| 5 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Is crying the only way to be vulnerable or show emotion in your opinion? Also i don’t gather such statistics lol what i can tell you is that they are nowhere near toxically masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?I think you just don’t get it which is fine lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Who said spending days? 😭 you’re reaching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Wearing your heart on your sleeve means being super open with your emotions all the time. You don’t have to be, you can slowly wait to trust people, vet them have boundaries before being open. Just don’t spend you whole life being afraid of being open because that can also rob you from really good healthy relationships. You’ll have to take a risk at some point. That’s what balance is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?But you’re assuming that i am saying you can’t vet or have to always wear your heart on your sleeves when i never did. You should vet, you should have boundaries. I never said you shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Do you think i don’t know? Do you think you’re the only person who’s experienced life and negative relationships or hurt? Men switch up too. A lot. And did you miss the part where i said it’s extremely hard which is why people would rather think like you or OP? You’re literally just explaining why. You think i don’t get it but i actually do. You know why it’s so hard? Because you can work on being authentically yourself, healthy, vulnerable enough and secure… and it still won’t protect you from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Yes, i don’t want to fear a man i’m in a relationship with so i do get men that i trust. I’m fortunate enough to have grown around very loving men so it’s easy to spot the ones that have abusive traits - but it might be hard for a woman who’s grown up around an abusive man or with no healthy men around. Just like it might be hard for a man to find a woman who he can be vulnerable with if he doesn’t know what that’s like or has been burned before. That doesn’t change my point at all. I clearly sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?So is that not a middle ground? Or you consider that toxic? you’re the one who said no to my question. Be more clear. Also… I don’t think keeping it short and only telling key details works in the long run lol just get a partner you can actually trust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?My first comment was : is there not a middle ground between being toxic or crying ? being healthy? You said no… What exactly were you advocating for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Yeah, i mean… isn’t that just general dating advice? These specific things aren’t really exclusive to redpill. I think their general views on women and other dating advice can be quite toxic and encourage men to be somewhat manipulative. Way more than you are speaking of. I think most people regardless of gender keep their options open until they become exclusive or committed, that’s nothing new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Like i said, i think a balance is healthy because if you go through something genuinely troubling then it’s going to affect your mood, the way you act and possibly your mental health. Personally, i would hate for my partner to think like that because of what someone else did. I also grew up pretty much only around men so men showing vulnerability or even crying isn’t something that causes me to feel different. I’m mostly that person for my brothers anyway. And I’m not arguing the fact that a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?not making your partner your whole word is always important - but having other options… doesn’t really lead to anything if you want a healthy relationship? Like if you’re speaking on just hooking up, being young and not really settling down sure. But for an actual relationship most redpill advice isn’t helpful and most likely will cause some issues if you meet a girl that’s genuine and also has somewhat of a self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Of course OP’s example was an exaggerated scenario but it did speak to a smaller phenomenon. Plenty of men who believe in redpill and all this manosphere talk and date based on their advice are often times manipulative and can be emotionally abusive, and i know that from dating them. The only thing is, they don’t see it as such and genuinely believe that they are somehow healthy and don’t do any wrong bc it “works” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?If we’re going off psychology… then it does look a specific way though. All i said, is that way is most way harder to achieve than going about in a more black and white approach, as you are suggesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?to you it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Huh… OP said something, about some men becoming abusive if that’s what will get them laid. I responded to that, and my comment was under that context. No one talked about “taking care of yourself first” idk what you’re on about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Did you read the original comment? there’s a context to my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?You do that if you want it’s none of my concern | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:34 AM |
| -1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?From my experience, men who are that way don’t really think for themselves or have good morals - they’re just manipulative, low on morals and quite insecure. It’s what makes it easy for them to change behaviours and listen to whatever podcast or manosphere influencer tells them to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:33 AM |
| 4 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Yes, and i don’t think it entirely is because “you aren’t doing it right” i also said you can also have the wrong partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:30 AM |
| 4 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Yeah, communication is important. I don’t see how that would be a negative thing unless you don’t know how to do it properly or with the wrong partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?I don’t expect anyone to be any way. But if you’re speaking off mass suicide rates and not having people to talk to about your pain and troubles. When it’s millions who talk about this then surely, the issue is deeper and this phenomenon also happens in very individualistic cultures - there are so many aspects to this subject. Community, healthy social circles are incredibly important for human beings and are directly linked to happiness, way more than romantic relationships, and that is for bot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:05 AM |
| 3 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?being healthy is just harder to achieve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:01 AM |
| 14 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?I have mostly men around me, only have brothers, most of my close cousins are male and show emotions in a very healthy way and remain masculine so i don’t really believe that. I don’t know why things have to be black and white in your eyes… but it’s definitely not something you’re forced to become just because you won’t get as much 🐱. You’ll never be truly confident in yourself if you base how you act and process emotion off what others think and will say. Being a balanced and healthy individual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Men‼️it's not your fault ‼️This also depends on how you come off though? Like i’m a woman and a lot of people think i don’t like them or are upset with their presence when they meet me because im quiet and don’t talk or smile a lot when in reality it’s anxiety. As a matter of fact many people in my personal circle were shocked when i got diagnosed with it. A lot of times that part of me is seen negatively by others, even close friends, family and romantic partners. The only friend who would actually ask me if i was okay, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Men‼️it's not your fault ‼️there was literally a whole phrase that provided context … stop acting obtuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:37 AM |
| -1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?I honestly think they would that’s the crazy part. A lot of these dudes don’t think for themselves and don’t act on their own values… Whatever they think gets them p*ssy is what they will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:33 AM |
| 0 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Do you think men’s loneliness is only related to their relationship with women? Because from what i’ve seen, men don’t necessarily provide that space for each other and have no issues dismissing issues amongst each other or brushing it off. I think mainly relying on women to be that safe space, and not speaking of community (of men) improvement is completely useless in this conversation. As a woman, men and people who i have dated have probably been the cause of my biggest heartbreaks and issues… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 27 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?So the option is either crying or being toxic? 💀Is there not an in-between? A healthy middle ground? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:08 AM |
| 7 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?As a woman, this is 100% accurate. I love seeing how someone is in real life and their personality. It makes me much more willing to get to know them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?Well for one… because men themselves talk about how awful dating apps are for them lol Also… girls on the internet can photoshop their photos to make themselves look perfect. Those girls you see might not look like that in real life. Internet is not always real and you’ve gotten accustomed to unrealistic beauty standards bc you spend most of your time here. It will probably change if you focus on spending less time online and going to social events/places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractivenessthis is not an exception…. i’ve been in the same situation and it’s not that suprising to any woman. Then again women can talk about their experiences all day and people like you will still believe whatever fits your preconceived notion so i’m not suprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?what? Are you actually African? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?what privilege? the only proper women are in asia or europe? you have roots…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?Well, because people don’t get married and plan on divorcing for one. You only mentioned things that can happen during a separation. Plus men do benefit from mariage in many ways, they just don’t benefit if it ends. Married men live longer; are better perceived and can grow more in their careers simply for being married. Single men aren’t a very happy group of people either, this sub and reddit in general are proof of this. I’m guessing that is also why men are more likely to remarry - even if d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:54 AM |
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