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It’s less important to some when there’s other more valuable qualities mixed in, or the illusion of some. Like not being a pushover, being ambitious, physical attraction, illusion of competence and confidence. The halo effect even at times. Many people will overlook terrible traits when someone is THAT attractive. Not everyone of course but it happens enough to where we can all observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:54 AM
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I would take guy B. Im tired of being surrounded by incompetence. I’d trade my looks— which is inevitable as looks fade. But my influence on outcomes won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:43 AM
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I would like to say, that there’s a happy ending to this. I’d later go on to meet my soul mate essentially. Things are good. I appreciate you. Wishing all the lads love and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:20 PM
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I was there for her. She wasn’t there for me. Lesson learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:14 PM
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A good 70% My closest friends are girls. Although they are a specific type of girl. The intellectual types, they are attractive and would probably be considered to above average. (I say probably because I don’t look at them that way) they are like sisters to me. And they’d destroy most guys in debates. They are very bright individuals that I can turn to with even the most controversial of topics. Yet somehow they are very open and non judgmental. I don’t let sex determine whether or not I’m able…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:11 PM
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I’m 22 and I’ve only had 2 girl friends. Mostly because i don’t really let hormones cloud my judgment. I was born from a single mom of 4 kids and some of my siblings are single parents. Trying to at least break the cycle so I don’t hang with people I couldn’t see myself being with for the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:46 PM
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The more I read these post the more I realize how lucky I must be as a guy to have a partner that’s nothing like these post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:48 AM
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No thanks. 1. Surrogate activities aren’t like the real thing. 2. Illegal 3. Rather just buy car parts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:52 PM
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Yes , I don’t really see them as leftist. They are so far “left” that i can not reasonably justify calling myself left leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:06 AM
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I’m a moderate / somewhat centrist person but I tend to avoid far left leaning women like the plague. It’s for my own safety really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:07 AM
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It happens to me all the time. I’m some 6ft lanky mf. And all the time I have different girls do things that would be considered creepy if they were a guy. Like— waiting at my work and then finding me on social media , drunk texting me hoping I’m down to f and then begging that she will be sad if I’m not attracted to fat women. Another occasion was this one girl recently who said because of our zodiac signs we must be soul mates. She also mentioned she had a boyfriend in the military a few convo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:21 AM
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6ft. Black. Do you have to get out some black-pill meter to verify your suspicions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:09 AM
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Long story short I model sometimes so I’d take photo shoots and occasionally I’d be having a conversation about angles and poses. That used to end up being a segment into you know — some kinda pseudo talking stage. I’m not prudent , but I’d let it be known that I’m looking for a special someone (found her btw) and I guess for brief moments here and there they’d get the confidence to go the extra mile with trying to be photogenic. That’s the best way I can describe it. None of the women were from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:32 PM
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You’re not breaking anything to me, no worries. I’ve turned down people for that same reason. Trust- I’m with someone who’s just like me in that regard. I’m not one to treat relationships like commodities. Where people are this pseudo monogamous “one person at a time” thing. If I do, it would become a slippery slope to me becoming a Fboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:28 AM
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I don’t download dating apps because I don’t expect to find someone who has the qualities of being a wife. If anything - I expect dating apps to be full of women who have a backup plan collection like they are trading cards. Doesn’t bother me any, I just know they aren’t the kind of people I would work hard to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:57 AM
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This implies every guy is focused on sex. I’ve been saving myself for marriage— It’s not like countless girls haven’t offered and sent nudes etc. but I’m not rushing to spend my resources and time building a relationship that doesn’t lead to marriage. If anything I see that as someone much stronger than a lot of these whipped guys who don’t shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:36 AM
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I have zero attraction for the 3. And I have dignity so I won’t do the nasty with someone I’d rather put a paper bag over. But the “10” wouldn’t be any better. If she’s not interested who’s to say she won’t turn around and claim that it was grape? Neither. But if I was forced to I’d pick the 10, because the 3 would just be embarrassing for the both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:56 AM
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People indirectly say what they are attracted to. Why? Simple: People are punished for not being attracted to others. They become silent about it, and when pressed— come up with rationalizations as to why. Health is not the only reason, but because it’s such a strong indicator in general: it’s easy to say “I want someone who works out” because In most cases they won’t be obese. Not always of course (for an obese person who just started working out) It’s like the women who say they want an ambiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:00 PM
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That’s my reasoning. I prefer being around the same size as my partner. I’m tall and slim , and I have a preference for tall and slim women. Although I don’t really care all that much about height. The other reason at best for me would be a partial reason behind it. My bmi is 19 so being with some with a bmi of 30 regardless of how the fat and muscle lands just doesn’t do it for me. I’d rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:52 PM
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Stuff like this is why I’ll have a hard cutoff age for getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:52 PM
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The most shaming I’ve faced was not chasing overweight women. You’re probably going to assume “oh it’s because you were being vocal and rude about it” but no, I simply minded my own business. Also the amount of girls I’ve faced that have the audacity to assume you’re gay for not being into them. Imagine having such an ego to think you can get every guy. Ofc not all women are like this, just wanted to give some legitimate examples of shaming I’ve faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:02 PM
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This “passport bro” talk just as any other discussion has fallen into being considered a monolith. Funny anecdote though. I wouldn’t consider myself a passport bro— coincidentally all of my best relationships were with non American women. And no— not limited to third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:24 AM
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I mean… there seems to be a lot of animosity towards me being a “traitor “ to The bLaCK community often times. Some Have even tried to use it as an insult, akin to a defense mechanism. “I bet you date white girls” “you are not black because of xyz” But I don’t care, as I don’t make the color of my skin my personality and will simply strive to be in The best relationships regardless of race.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 AM
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Actually this kinda points out part of why all of my relationships have been with women from other countries. Not country specific or anything for example: Russia, china, South Africa , Lebanon, turkey. I didn’t mind “missing out” on the women near me given a lot of them were almost twice my size at one point back when I was in the fattest state. It helped me develop a habit to avoiding playing those stupid hookup games. And now the habit has stuck regardless of whether or not I’m attracted to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:49 AM
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The perfect example off the top of my head was this girl I went to high school with. She was cute but we didn’t pay each other any mind, this was before I had a glow up after high school and was uh more reserved with a lower self esteem. After high school we both worked at a job- me her and her babies father (we were all in the same graduating class). Me and the guy were sortof cool with each other but they would always be together without my knowledge because again, I mind my own business. Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:07 PM
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Many of them had experiences first hand or second hand that ran contrary to the whole “women are sugar spice and everything nice” narrative and did a complete 180. It tends to get called “red pill rage” Edit: I’m not justifying their extreme behaviors. Just pointing out how people who perceive that they’ve been “wronged” react.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:30 PM
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Literally, all that cringy “fair game” talk and the girls who immediately make millions on only fans upon turning 18
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:12 AM
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That left wing male advocate page has a few of them. They just aren’t FAR left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:28 AM
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I’m a guy who lands on the above average in looks /tall category after glowing up over the years, but due to having clinical depression, I kind of find most dating to be akin to entering a crucible. It’s very unforgiving if you are having any mental struggles/ suicidal etc. I won’t project the horror stories I’ve faced from a few women, but what I will say is : if I were to be open and honest about the way I feel— to no fail I would be quickly vilified. Although I’d consider myself lucky. I actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:23 PM
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I’ve grown to know this of the countless times women have found me attractive to them, despite this Regardless of how well off I am. Having a history of depression really ruins it for me. I fundamentally lack that certainty that I’ll stay in one piece etc. but I work to not slip as much as I can, when I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:45 AM
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I’m pretty sure the reason a lot of men are being drawn to people like Tate are the increasing “standards” from those hypocritical Miami girls that are plastered all over the internet. A lot of guys aren’t connecting as much and so they are left being constantly exposed to the the worst of the worst in women. Couple that in with the lived experience with a lot of average guys and you get an unfortunate concoction of disillusioned men. They see paying for dates and such as a low return of investm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:54 AM
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I’m only translating what they were doing not how they were actually doing it. For example: when I payed cash instead of financing because I didn’t intend to haggle something at this one place. One of the coworker sales ladies starts going on about how she knows the area really well and wants to “bless me” after prying about my relationship status. Another case was the girl who’d flirt off and on with me and then sent that request. Mind you, none of these women are my type so I decline all of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:04 PM
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-Sending money order/cash app request thinking you’ll be like the previous guy who’d be willing to spoil her for a chance. -Asking when you’ll take them out. -Questioning what you’d do for your partner for events like Valentine’s Day etc. Just a few examples that I used to commonly experience. That first one was particularly annoying because “is that all you think of me? A wallet”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:50 PM
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You’re asking a question directed towards some perceived “blue pilled” group about something you claim to be “red pilled” using “black pilled” ideology/ lookism. Not that I’m advocating for this “red-pilled” movement because the ship has already sailed and is no better than those feminazi movements that it so desperately bashes. Honestly do you even know what you’re going on about? This question is straight up cringe. At this point it’s not even worth giving a clear answer, because what you’re r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:15 PM
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Those “most guys” you’re referring to would probably say “don’t care, still hit” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:03 PM
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Maybe I’m an anecdote here but the difference in sex drive isn’t my biggest concern, it’s the economics surrounding dating. Now I’d like to preface that I’m taken and that I date with the intentions of marriage. 0 body count on both parties etc. But I’m purple pilled because I can not recommend other men to do the same. Financially there are more pressing matters than partaking in what’s essentially becoming a betting game. Even if the guys who are in a drought ended up with the so called abunda…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:21 PM
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Came to second this. r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:48 AM
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Funnily enough- as a guy you’ll get more attention from gay men though. So that could be a good indicator that you might have a few things going looks wise. But that varies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:30 PM
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When girls approach me to talk at work to no fail the managers will assume I was the one who came to them to talk and try to tell me to stay on task. Actor - Observer bias + women are wonderful effect = let’s assume the guy was the one. It’s kind of annoying actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:32 PM
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This has been my experience mostly with women. To no fail all of the most attractive women who are drop dead gorgeous have been nothing but friendly to me. It’s usually the ones I wouldn’t have gave a second glance that seem to try to knock me down a peg etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:34 PM
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Because you are shunned and labeled as an outcast/incel without social proofing. Or possibly gay if you’re actually attractive despite not being sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:25 PM
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You’re focused solely on dating here, whereas that’s only a spec of dust compared to other looming implications. You speak with contempt for the men that are falling behind, but it isn’t just men but also little boys that are failing. But even more important: all of the goods and services you’ve grown so comfortable with are likely to be in jeopardy without that prime labor force of working aged men. The underlying national security risk, financial issues that will arise as a result, etc. I’m a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:33 AM
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I have met many girls who are what you’ve described. They aren’t my type lol. I’m with someone who’s genuinely authentic and unique to herself. Gorgeous and just so happy and silly. We both fell in love with each other because we weren’t afraid of being different from our stereotypical backgrounds. With that- we have a shared struggle with many goals together. Oh and she comes from a better off background than me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:38 PM
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Which is and has for the most part always been the case, the troubling part that is being left out is that in the United States at the moment: prime age working men (25-54) have seen a significant decline in labor force participation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:22 AM
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Interesting that I find myself working hard to become economically , emotionally , and physically viable BUT only because I believe that I’ll have a shot at leaving the United States for good. The future is female though so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:31 AM
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Wait until you see the gendered differences in education rates and workforce participation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:28 AM
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I get your sentiment but respectfully— from my pov: the only reason these men are being mentioned is because it’s going to start exponentially affecting women. (Our cultures primary focus on accommodating women) If that weren’t the case they’d simply never get mentioned tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:24 AM
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I’m in a long term committed relationship as a guy that’s voluntarily celibate. I don’t want to hook up with the women who came crawling back after they’d never give me the time of day in the past I guess lol. But in all honesty— I don’t place my worth in. “How many women I can get”. Found someone who’s like me and that’s that. I don’t want short term. I want long term. Oh and short term ends up being some kind of sunken cost thing which I don’t want to put my efforts into. No return of investme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:01 AM
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Over half of the women I interacted with in the past were like this to me. No woman has ever turned me down but I know that not all of them were into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:57 AM
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🥸 good point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:12 PM
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Came here to see nuance and realized I don’t relate to most men. And that I’m also not attracted to most women. I wouldn’t really write myself off as an incel or anything— Over 6 ft, got the 6 pack, and once I’m done with school gonna try to shoot for 6 figures. But then again I’m also pretty typical, kinda lonely since im always moving around etc. good news is I have one amazing relationship lined up for me once I leave my current location so I don’t mind. But yea Funnily enough— I think about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:17 AM
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”The iron rule of politics is that if there are real problems in society and responsible parties don’t deal with them, the irresponsible parties will jump on them.” -Daniel Schwammenthal, director, American Jewish Committee (tai). Seems the many “left-wing” sides have made it a point to present masculinity as a bad thing, vilifying men and causing them to suffer in silence. As a result you now have right wing sides trying to use that as a bargaining tool to get men to do things the “right way” p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:14 PM
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I’m glad someone’s actually mentioned this about women in the past. Oddly enough.. the tables perhaps could end up turning. In the past women were cast aside, not exactly taken seriously. As a result they were extremely underrepresented in the mental health spaces / most psychologists were male catered to masculinity. Today, the tables haven’t just turned, it has completely flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:57 AM
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Turned down a girl that all the guys wanted and then she proceeded to treat me like all of her ex’s even though I politely declined due to her flirting with too many guys etc. She was so eager and excited and even would do little things like steal my jacket, but after she got angry at me for interacting with a guy that was an ex I wasn’t aware of— and talking bad about me behind my back I called it quits. There was another girl that was sortof similar minus all of the ex’s and all of the guys wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:02 PM
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Just gave me a memory of some girl coming up to me and my first gf saying “is he bothering you”..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 01:24 AM
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It really does prove a point regarding atomized males being on screens mostly. Anyways, I’m hopping off my screen to go be productive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:10 PM
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I come to this place to be a beacon of hope for some guys and gals in their early 20s and this is what I see… Truly saddening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:18 PM
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No. There’s something unrelatable about them. I’ve tried in the past but there’s simply not much to stimulate my brain. But maybe if my lizard brain was stronger, but that would make me as vulnerable as all of their orbiters— that I refuse to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:15 AM
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I do not have any racial preferences as far as I’m aware. In my case I hold myself to a high standard that the people around me tend to not come close to. As well as a few incompatibilities on what values we share which plays into the standards ofc. Doubt I’d be considered one of those passport bros as I have yet to go overseas or anything, but what I can say is that I tend to be much more compatible with women who are not from the culture I came from. Urban Black American Cultures. (Although I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:07 PM
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I’m a black American and by virtue of not being ghetto, or into mainstream rap music etc. also not a god fearing man. (Primarily the god fearing part is a strong key factor) I’m pretty much automatically incompatible with the average southern black American woman. I’m 6’2 and currently in college to become a software engineer. I’d consider myself pretty eclectic and I do not struggle to get attention from women even though I’ve long since decided to remains— Virgin until marriage. Of my positive…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:53 PM
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I mentioned being perpetually used as a meal ticket— got similar pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:48 AM
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You’re good mate, at first glance the red flags when it comes to that stuff is pretty inconspicuous, and for the most Part it is, they are just hobbies lol. It’s primarily targeted at the women who go for the guys that run through lots of women. Girls who turn into groupies on their Miami trip. Hard pass from me. It’s worth mentioning that I’ve gone to school with these types of girls and had the opportunity to be surrounded by girls with body counts twice their age- and guys with body counts 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:13 PM
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I legitimately mean it when I say if she goes for rappers and drug dealers. I’ll be the first to admit the culture I came from isn’t conducive of making stable families. Raised by a single mother and I’m surrounded by baby mamas who get passed around by lowlifes. Edit: of course not everyone is like that, but any indicators of being that way will invariably turn me away. As a result I have a tendency to end up with people far away from the places I came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:01 PM
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Do you know how goofy this comment is? I’m a black guy. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:52 PM
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It’s like you and me have the same replies or something. Prioritizing and understanding what is more so than getting stuck on the oughts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:01 PM
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In this case you pretty much have to get very good at discerning the types. Because if you don’t you’ll be in for a world of hurt. But there are traits and signs. One of the most notable ones is running into the type of girl that treats me like I am potentially one of those guys. (Crazy I know) I actually sometimes get superficially judged to be akin to an Fboi but ironically I’ve ran into a number of girls that wanted me to be the tattoo covered angry guy even though that isn’t me. Off the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:51 PM
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Long story short knowing my “body count” is 0. I initially figured most women would have more experience than me. But with who mattered more to me than the amount honestly. If she’s the type that targeted athletes and entertainers such as rappers for example. There was no chance in hell I was going to continue. Even worse if there’s a history of dating felons and drug dealers etc. I’ve worked too hard to risk it over some broken situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:31 PM
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Wouldnt consider my partner “too traditional”. The entire reason we work so well is that we both do not follow the paradigms around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:21 PM
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Lol no matter what I do I’m going to get labeled. I wouldn’t call myself a passport bro, but I just so happen to attract a certain crowd. So here I am, a black American man that’s in love with a Russian woman. No crazy fetishes or anything like that. Just found someone who relates to me strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:07 AM
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Whether you agree with it or not. People are using each other for their self interest. Food , sex, attention, time. This happens to many guys and girls. Actually. Just take a moment to notice how this entire time you’ve held me with moral agency. I’d imagine if I were a girl the sentiment would be flipped. And no, another assumption. I don’t like to argue. But I refuse to let you invalidate my terrible experience. Shoutout to the girl that tried to FaceTime me nude and ask for doordash only to v…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:56 AM
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One last thing— those girls who get used for sex must need to make their intentions clearer too huh? You see how you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:44 AM
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Again with the assumptions: today is the one off day I have in the week for your information lol. And no I’m not making a problem out of this— I simply said I don’t offer to take girls out anymore / at the moment. (Not unless we’ve already hung out and started dating.) Because I come from a place where there are women who will eagerly use you as a free instagram meal post. You just have your mind up that I’m some guy that struggles with women or something. I literally have the ideal partner any …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:42 AM
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This entire time you’ve sat here holding me with agency whilst holding women with some form of moral patiency because have your mind made that regardless of whether or not you’re being used. Being used for sex is “worse” than being used as a walking wallet. Which is fair to each it’s own. But to say that accepting a date with no intentions of dating someone (free food) isn’t using someone? I’d rather outright be rejected than left as a placeholder or a money mule. I’ve simply said that of all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:24 AM
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I just said that from the beginning and I have done that. I’m already with someone who’s on the same path as me. And I’ve said not generalizing women. But my original point still stands. There are women who do use men for those kinds of things. Imagine if those women who weren’t interested simply declined instead of using someone for free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:07 AM
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Why does it matter: let’s say you try searching for someone who you’d marry and they proceed to “make you wait” while they sleep around with other people free of charge etc. And because I know I won’t find it— it goes back to my original point: why bother offering if there’s a guaranteed chance of people doing what you’ve described. It’s happened to me twice so far. I actually had to take my card away from one girl when she snatched my wallet, and I had to tell another that we never hung out as …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:54 AM
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Another part I failed to mention: Not every girl does this but I’ve also ran into girls who tend to try to throw me in the “make him wait category” I.e. attracted to me but do not want to give me the impression that they sleep around easily. Problems is: I know the guys they have slept with on the first meetup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:30 AM
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The intentions: some guys will sleep with women with no intentions of anything else, no desire to learn about the person etc. the girl becomes a flashlight. Something similar happens but for guys they become just a wallet. “Make his pockets hurt” “Just be a man and get over it you’re expected to pay anyways” There are bad actors all around. But seriously when you run into someone who knows they are attractive to many guys so will have a guy for every little thing: a guy that takes her out, guy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:27 AM
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And to answer how that’s using me. Would it be any different if a guy only decided to possibly hang out with you if you slept with him first?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:17 AM
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I’d rather just take my guy friends out if that means they will at least play along. There’s definitely a cultural clash here. I don’t think you’ve seen the amount of women who will post pictures of their food with a different guy cropped out of the frame every other week. I don’t ask these women out, but I’m surrounded by them in the places i frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:15 AM
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And so the cycle continues. Harder to go around offering when many who have said yes could just use me for a free meal Ticket. -and yes I am young. 22
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:07 AM
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You do realize that I’m not trying to date just for sex right? / not every guy just wants sex. I’m actually saving myself for marriage. So I tend to only offer to people who seem as though they could be good company. No intentions of sex. Oh and the girls in particular tend to be the ones that advance with me sexually by trying to send pictures etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:04 AM
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Why do you think I do not offer? It’s going to be impossible to gaslight me into assuming that when they have been the ones asking me for food. I’m not generalizing women or anything. But I have quite literally ran into some very terrible women. Just recently a girl tried to cheat on her boyfriend with me and when I found out by accidentally running into the guy, she proceeded to give us both the cold shoulder. The entire time she still very much so had plans for me to pay for the event she was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:00 AM
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I literally haven’t asked anyone out on dates as I’ve had a 100% success rate of women accepting just to use me as a meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:41 PM
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I don’t know why I’m here. I am convinced I’ve met my soul mate. (Yes I know crazy right?), but believe me I’ve had my share of terrible experiences with dealing with both sexes (I’m straight, a guy that just gets hit on by guys a lot) I am genuinely in love with my partner. But yeah I’ll try to keep my dynamic a bit private.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:45 PM
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I’m a guy and I gotta say bingo here. Some would consider me fairly attractive , especially gay men so I get hit on and gay men sometimes try to befriend and get close to me, some even being pushy. Despite all this Id probably consider myself voluntarily celibate and do not see myself faking a personality for women. There’s this running gag about the guys around me playing up a particular personality just to get some and I could never do that. I know this because I’ve declined the opportunities …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:30 PM
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Ouch lol. Did I do something wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:45 PM
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TL:DR that would be a win for me— I’d rather be successful and alone actually, as long as I know I can attract the type of prospects I’d go for im good. -no debt. -not children out of wedlock. -no child support -healthy and attractive (always takes work) -I get to do what I’ve always wanted to do within reason If what you set out to achieve does not align with your desires and expectations you failed. Simple. You can choose to try something else even if things aren’t the same /more difficult etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:19 PM
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Before I say anything I’d like to preface that I haven’t given up entirely— I just see a lot of girls on the day to day as not worth the effort. I still have amazing girls who are in my circle (not trying to sound like a fuckboy) I get the attention of a good bit of girls. Like more than all of my male peers but I don’t act on them. Partly Because I’m not driven solely by sex but even more so because I’m Better off just focusing on my education and wellbeing . The girls seem to be chill with sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:55 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with Competence (multiplied/divided by looks) Some of the “douchebags” younger girls go for often times appear to be on top of some hierarchy. Think of the hood dude with the hellcat charger or whatever— the other guys in the area want to be him so he gets preselected. The typical jocks and athletes— same thing. It’s just that perceived competence isn’t always a good thing. Nice “pushovers” or less confident types get put lower on the list— and looks do play a role.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:43 PM
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Become the man that other men look up to and other women want. Competence goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:04 AM
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I’m not signing contracts when there’s incentive to break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:55 AM
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Ah yes, they would definitely breed a certain kind of user to those echo chambers. It gets even worse with the black pilled spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:29 PM
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There are also some who have never heard of it but would be your typical player with a few “red pilled” ideologies. You don’t have to take my word for it— I only found this space after a girl false accused me of something for rejecting her in high school. Destroyed my perception of girls being all sugar, spice and everything nice. I would say I was learning towards this before given i was also so curious about the established norms on dating and the double standards. My concerns were mostly abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:23 PM
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I can get a bunch of girls to accept dates and send nudes but I don’t really see dating as worth the effort. I also was in a slow paced relationship for 3 years and never did anything with my ex. That was between the age of 17-19. I went to do something at age 20 and was too busy to date— I did be open to accepting dates but of the one I went on the girl turned out to be sketchy. (Fast forward to 2022 and she’s a stripper actually) At the moment there’s a few girls interested in me and I’m think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:13 AM
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I mean if I had the clock against me to find someone to have my kids I’d be picky too. I think the issue comes in when said women are unable to match their own expectations. The whole “I’m perfect, I don’t have to do any work, I am the table” mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:33 PM
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I wonder how these “advantages” hold up when they are paired up with their respective cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:24 AM
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More to gain- less to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:59 PM
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I am the 3rd of 4 children to a mother that had me at 22. Somehow I have a stepdad and I can’t wrap my head around it. Also it seems the apple didn’t fall far as my older sister is also now a single mother at that same age. I’m probably just going to get a vasectomy or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 10:30 PM
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Funny. Not a thug but I do have dreadlocks. I get told I could look like a fboy but when I speak. I’m told “why do you sound so proper”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:39 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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