RadicalFemale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Walked out on my Toxic Family I am so so proud of you. Hug yourself for me, you are saving the only life you can, helping the only person you can help, yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 03:37 AM
42	Another woman is not yours to “offer” or “give” 🤮 Twice now, two women i thought i had close friendships with wanted me to join them and their husband as a third. It felt so gross. After I said no neither woman talked to me again. It felt dehumanizing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 01:46 PM
19	How men insult women by how they define them. UPDATED Just call me Elsa! ❄️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/21 01:23 AM
32	HVM are not offended by FDS Maybe we should change ours to #YesAllWomen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 07:41 PM
3	Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supreme My brother was my childhood abuser. Nahhhh, if he’s broken, he’s broken. Broken things hurt people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 01:33 AM
2	Chronic illness, CPTSD Yep, the body keeps score.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 04:02 AM
7	Engagement ring without an engagement My brother, who I went NC with last year, has done this to two women so far. Completely destroyed the mother of his children and is working on her replacement now. It’s so sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 04:01 AM
4	Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked. It started to grind my gears around 21 or 22.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 03:26 AM
3	I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this. My daughter got my last name. We were young and unmarried and it didn’t make any sense to me why the person that didn’t sacrifice their body for a child should have the honor of bestowing a family name. He didn’t argue with me about that and his respect for me in that sense saved our coparenting relationship. He’s emotionally constipated and self centered but it’s like I can occasionally remind him other people exist, or that his daughter and I do, at any rate. Bullet dodged.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 03:09 AM
1	What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violence Women are not sacrificial lambs for males depravity, ffs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:46 AM
32	Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title. I’ll be 38 next month and I love ever silver strand of hair on my head, and there are so many now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:39 AM
187	Guess I'm Strange AF Then Streisand effect, one of my very favorite effects!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:21 AM
125	SINGLE MOTHERS: NEVER SAY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS IN YOUR ONLINE DATING BIO. Pedophiles deliberately target single moms on online dating websites to get access to their kids. I gave it up completely when my daughter was about 10. And i was very choosy even before then. It’s just not worth the risk and being a healthy present mom took all my spoons, no time for scrubs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 03:15 AM
4	I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy. My mom was pretty forward for her time. She got her degree in 1980 and has had a successful professional career. She emphasized education and the importance of being able to support myself in the absence of a man. But it was a weird mix because she was so warped by the beauty standards and how things need to be “just so” and she passed that along to me, along with my eyes and the shape of my lips. I’ve forgiven her for what she passed on in ignorance and we’ve hashed it out and have made it to a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 11:31 PM