| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sex | CMV | Radical_Libertarian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:06 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | If autistic men learned to mask would that really solve the problem for most?I mean, not every relationship is going to be matched assortatively Sometimes opposites attract, but similarity is more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | If autistic men learned to mask would that really solve the problem for most?From my experience, dating seems to be largely a game of luck rather than skill. If someone hasn’t found a compatible partner yet, it could literally just be random and not evidence of anything wrong with them. Starting from the assumption that dating is deterministic can cause a lot of insecurity and false perceptions of pathology. That being said, it helps autistic men if they date autistic women, which requires an ability to identify autistic women, which is a skill acquired from life experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | If autistic men learned to mask would that really solve the problem for most?As an autistic man, I don’t mask. If a woman has a problem with who I am fundamentally, she’s not someone I’m interested in dating. I’m not wasting my time with bigots or reactionaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Dating as an autistic manIn my experience I’ve found it easier to connect with autistic women than neurotypicals. I’ve recently gotten out of a relationship actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:52 AM |
| – | “80%” of men are not unequivocally “doomed” to never experience carnal desire and affection from a womanYeah I see. The autistic women I’ve dated, or even just talked to, have always been very good at masking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:31 AM |
| – | “80%” of men are not unequivocally “doomed” to never experience carnal desire and affection from a womanI’m curious, are you NT or ND? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:17 AM |
| – | “80%” of men are not unequivocally “doomed” to never experience carnal desire and affection from a womanu/GridReXx, I’m an autistic man. In my experience, I’ve been able to get into relationships with autistic women, but I haven’t been able to connect with neurotypicals. I do think there’s truth to the idea of dating “in your league”, when it comes to personality and social skills. I also don’t see an intimate relationship as valuable or meaningful if you have to mask your true self from your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:33 AM |
| – | My hypothesis for the rise in young male sexlessnessAh that’s interesting. To be fair, it was rising until 2018. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:01 PM |
| – | My hypothesis for the rise in young male sexlessnessWhen I walk outside, it looks like men and women tend to pair up in couples, so monogamy seems like the norm to me. I’m just not observing the “harems” in my daily life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:20 AM |
| – | My hypothesis for the rise in young male sexlessnessDating apps aren’t representative of the general population, because they have more male than female users. In the real-world, there is an even ratio of men and women, and polygyny is not a cultural norm in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:09 AM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.The “fuckboy” has the right kind of fun, laid-back personality that women are attracted to. It’s not an excuse, just an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:52 AM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.Tell me, if a woman goes on dating apps and she keeps matching with thirsty men who only want sex, wouldn’t her natural reaction be to stereotype men as sex-obsessed creeps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:09 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.Maybe she thought he was joking around? Women tend to find humour attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:02 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.To be clear, are you claiming that autism is curable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:30 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.Are you suggesting that these therapies “cure autism”? I have zero tolerance for pseudoscience and neurotypical supremacism, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:26 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.One can believe that misogyny is unattractive to women, but that the abusers have better social skills to be able to mask it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:25 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.If you’re dating, you’re already likely interested in other people. And the misogyny is caused by lack of success, not the other way around, though of course it doesn’t help. This goes for unsuccessful women too, they naturally tend to be misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:14 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.Which are likely genetic. Statistically, disorders like autism tend to be highly heritable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:59 PM |
| – | With women, you need to cultivate the vibe if you want a good conversation.It’s not a simple matter to change your entire personality just to be attractive to the opposite sex. Even traits like how good you are at cracking jokes, are likely to have a genetic basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:53 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexThey really enjoy one-night stands with strangers? Also, where’s the lesbian Grindr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:01 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexThose aren’t lesbians at all, but bisexual women. There’s actually evidence that bisexual women tend to have higher sex drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:45 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexI’m talking about men and women on average. If you visit this subreddit often, it’s all about population-level statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:41 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexWhat do you make of the fact that gay men are more interested in casual sex than lesbians? I don’t think your Red Pill deception hypotheses hold up in same-sex mating contexts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:39 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexWomen like you are a small minority. All the women I know IRL really do need emotional connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:31 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexHow common is it statistically for lesbians to have sex with strangers, compared to gay men? Don’t appeal to individual anecdotes, I prefer empirical evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:30 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexLesbians aren’t promiscuous, they tend to prefer long-term emotional connection, kinda like straight women. In fact, the behaviour of lesbians is the best insight men have into women’s true sexuality, because their preferences are unconstrained by the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:25 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexNo that’s not the reason. The reason why stealthing and stuff are illegal, is because agreement to sex under false pretense is equivalent to rape. If a man has sex with a prostitute, then fails to pay up, this would be rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:23 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexI don’t think the woman I’m dating has ever had casual sex, or would want such a thing. I have no good reason to suspect she might be concealing anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:21 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexYes, but why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:20 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexIf a woman lies about being on birth control and has sex with a man, or if a man verbally agrees to use a condom but then sneakily slips it off during sex, would you consider this rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:17 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexExplain to me why gay men have more one-night stands than lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:14 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexSexual liberation is built on the premise of free will. But biological determinism shatters that assumption in the most brutal way possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:13 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexI do actually date women IRL. I’ve had them tell me straight in their words, they need emotional connection to consider having sex with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:11 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexYou fail to address the idea that a woman doesn’t benefit from having emotionless sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:34 AM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexI don’t think tricking women into sex is much different from rape tbh. You might as well drug and then molest them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:33 AM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexKinda yeah, that’s a good example of class conflict. Sexual conflict can be thought of as a sort of class conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Do we downplay misandry?War isn’t matriarchy. It’s (overwhelmingly) men oppressing men (and women). | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 06:33 AM |
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