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| 3 | talking to guysEveryone is different and they all fall somewhere on the spectrum between dominant and submissive. I would say just say what you want to say. That's hotter than having someone tell you what to do. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 41 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Exactly. It's the complete opposite of "overthinking it." It's breaking it down into something you can actually DO without backing down. If it was as simple as "just go and talk to people," 99% of us wouldn't be on this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Protip for guysI think the point of OP's post was to not take it too hard when something doesn't work out. Appearing unfazed is attractive. That's what I got out of it and I think it's an important reminder to those who struggle with an easily bruised ego or feelings. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | First rejection that kind of hurts (I guess)Look at it this way man: You liked a girl and you took your shot. Think of all the millions of guys out there who would've pussied out and never even tried. Second: Work on your one-itis. Crushes are natural, but it's not healthy to let them linger for months and months, or even years for some people, at a time. It'll sting for a little while but if you focus on meeting other people and on yourself, it'll go away in time. I know that's cliche, but it's true. Don't wallow in self pitty. You will … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Holy shit. All I had to do was approach.Exactly. At 5-8, some of your friends might call you short, or those 11/10 girls on tinder, but in reality we're still taller than 90-95% of women. I've never been with a girl taller than me. Be confident in your height! | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Having a little troubleSounds like you're totally on the right track. Next time one of these instances comes up, try to set up a date in the moment. Girls are a lot less likely to ghost if the date is already planned. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 12:43 PM |
| 3 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?In my experience, girls can be pretty picky with their drinks, so having a mixer on hand is a good idea. Maybe keep a sixpack of Mike's Hard lemonade in the fridge, and then you can always make a joke about liking girly drinks or being out of "the good stuff" if she teases you about it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What to do during your first hookup???I'm not a female, but I have had a first time. The first thing to realize is your first time might not be that great, and that is totally OK! Just follow his lead and don't be afraid to ask him to slow down, or to try something different. If it's great, awesome! If it's not, don't be afraid to try again with someone else when you're ready. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:45 AM |
| 15 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?Buy some cheap vodka and some cranberry juice. Everybody (especially chicks) loves a vodka-cran, and if you just go heavy on the juice, it'll taste fine despite the shitty vodka. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:39 AM |
| 7 | How do you guys just stop caring.It's OK to start small. Next time you're at a grocery store or coffee shop, make an effort to ask the cashier something. Even just "How's your day going?" Then move on to talking to someone while you're out walking. "Hey, cute dog. What's its name?" Interactions like these can be good practice at social interactions to build up to approaching that hot chick at the bar. | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible girls ignore all your good qualities simply because you’re not good looking enough?Are looks a huuuge part of attraction? Of course they are. Are they everything? Hell nah. Just look at Neil Strauss. He's a short, bald, soft-spoken guy with a big nose who has an 11/10 wife and has fucked dozens of women. | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 02:45 AM |
| 4 | SEX Must Be Your Fault (guys)Good post. If be interested in more examples of better ways to say "Let's go back to my place." | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Very weird hookup experience last nightThat might have something to do with it! Try to mix it up (standing, sitting, laying) and don't masturbate the same day you might have a hook up. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Very weird hookup experience last nightHow much do you masturbate? If you masturbate too much, it'll be harder to orgasm during sex. If you really have to yank on your dong to get off, it won't be as easy when wearing a condom + inside a wet, smooth vagina. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 05:38 AM |
| 36 | How do you guys sexualize the conversation?Darts/pool/beer pong on a good shot: "If you're that good, you must be quite the party animal" Or "That was lucky, guess you need to go buy a lottery ticket now". On a bad shot: "Maybe you'd do better if you aim for the other table instead". Give her your hat, take her hat, touch her arm, take her glasses and say she looks better without them, give her your glasses and say she looks better with them. Flirting is basically all the stupid stuff we did in elementary school except now you might have… | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | I don’t like receiving oral sexI feel the same way. It's a little embarrassing but the main thing is it just doesn't feel that good to me. No shame in it. Lots of people just like different things. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 04:27 AM |
| 20 | How do you guys sexualize the conversation?Tease her based on the conversation. Instead of agreeing with everything she says, tease her about something and see how she responds. If she laughs or teases you back, it's obviously a good sign. I'd worry more about just generally flirting and less about "trying to sexualize the conversation." It's more satisfying when the sexual tension flows naturally than jumping right into the end goal, but some people may disagree with me. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How would game work in a younger setting (middle school/high school).I'd just like to add that in high school and especially middle school, there's a good chance the girl might not be ready for sex yet, even if she likes you. So keep that in mind and don't take it personally if it doesn't happen. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Quick tips for combating neediness and overthinking.Solid explanation on 10 too. It's something we all know, but not take a lot of time to actually think about why. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 03:42 AM |
| 2 | How did you get better at sex?Agree, and wanted to add this (way late but w/e): He mentions having trouble in doggy. In doggy, she really needs to stick her ass out to make it easier. If she has any sort of ass, your average-sized dick is going to have trouble finding/reaching her vag. So don't be afraid to have her really stick her ass out to make it easier. A lot of women really like doggy. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 01:11 AM |
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