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| 174 | Don’t.do.this ladiesI’m getting secondary embarrassment from this. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Oh Boo-hoo it's so scary to be a gOoD MaN these days. You have to be extra careful. We, females just don't get how scary it is. Plus obligatory false r*pe accusations argument.Favorite movie ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Oh Boo-hoo it's so scary to be a gOoD MaN these days. You have to be extra careful. We, females just don't get how scary it is. Plus obligatory false r*pe accusations argument.“Everyone just believes you and the guy loses everything” Said within the same 24 hours that Bill Cosby walks free after HE HIMSELF admitted to raping a shit ton of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:27 AM |
| 3 | MLB player raped and violently beat woman he met via IGSome of the “kink” supporters’ comments on other forums… ugh. I will never understand why wanting to beat and abuse women is considered acceptable when it sexually arouses you. Why are we as a society not questioning the things people get off to? Racism, child abuse, and domestic abuse is 100% okay as long as your dick is hard. Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 538 | Don't be a pickme, even men won't like you. Credits: https://twitter.com/finegodmother/status/1410316385545330689?s=20“I guess I am now”… I cringed so hard. Girl, NO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 24 | YOU COULD GIVE A MAN YOUR KIDNEY AND HE COULD STILL CHEAT ON YOU. WAKE TF UP SISI won’t even get a tattoo of my husband’s name (name tats are tacky to me anyway but I digress), much less donate a body part to him. The only people in this world I would donate a kidney to are my sister or my own child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:51 PM |
| 194 | The amount of times Incels have misunderstood my kindness for flirting 🤮Yup. I’m only kind in professional settings to men, otherwise they get widely ignored. I have zero male friends, and I’m proud of that. I’m nearly 30 years old and life has taught me that no man wants to just be friends, and most will get angry when they realize they put in “friendship” coins but sex isn’t happening. Don’t have that problem with my female friends ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 34 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Yeah I truly don’t understand some people’s attachment to high school. I still talk to a small handful of friends from those days, but they are all female, and we rarely talk about the past. We are grown adults with adult goals, careers, and relationships now. As we should be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:35 PM |
| 44 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.My heart is breaking for this poor girl who knows nothing of her sick boyfriend’s thoughts while she is engaging in what I assume she thinks is loving and fulfilling sex for both of them. How absolutely sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 1181 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Sorry I can’t get past the fact that he’s married and they are still carrying on with this foolishness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 32 | This is so cute 🥰 He put in so much effort into his proposal and he's so emotive. 🤵♂️👰♂️ If a man isn't THIS excited to get married, I don't want him! 🙅 | From "last day as a boyfriend" by AJ RafaelWhat a sweetheart! Love to see it. Good for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:58 AM |
| 18 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyUnfortunately I married one of them (now divorced from him). I lived in the south for 10 years and can honestly say the only decent men I met there were a small handful of professors in college and a rabbi. The culture down there is just especially patriarchal and misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 51 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄Yes!! I didn’t even notice the 2nd picture at first, sorry about that! Glad you called it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:22 PM |
| 292 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄And who has been the majority perpetrators of that violence against men, might I ask? Could it be… OTHER MEN? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 135 | Subtle signs of manipulation and psychological abuseMaking negative comments about your friends or family. This is an attempt to isolate you. Ordering for you at a restaurant without your input. Early over-knowledge regarding your social media history. Trying to connect with your friends/ family too early. (Like adding them on social media, etc.) Giving the silent treatment at any point without a very good excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Men are bald because they watch too much porn or have too many flings. Watch the hair.I’m so glad I’m not the only one who side-eyed this. Balding patterns are heavily genetic, and if I remember correctly it is often passed on to male children through women (or maybe that’s color-blindness?) Anyway… while I do think it is 100% important to take note of hair hygiene and how kept it is, baldness is not correlated with flings or porn use. We need to see the science on this one, and I’m gonna go out on a limb and say it very likely does not exist. Edit: typo correction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 26 | The tenets of FDS don't function ONLY to keep parasitic LVM and LVW at a distance. The major reason to enforce boundaries, focus on self improvement, and appreciate one's worth is to become the person YOU want to be.Yes! Prior to finding FDS, I was so confused about whether my own standards were too high, because everyone around me seemed to settle for so little. FDS continually reinforces that I can be confident in my own standards and boundaries for men as well as women I surround myself with. I call out bullshit now for what it is, and if people think crappy behavior is acceptable then that is sad for them, and it is not a reflection of anything wrong with me. It’s empowering! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 102 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyOh I love oddly specific criteria! Here are mine: No Scorpios. I’m not even a believer in astrology, but nope. No southerners from the United States. No man buns. No men who hate holidays/ birthdays. No cops. No firefighters. No men who wear Affliction attire. No men who are into “classic” style motorcycles, like HD. No gun enthusiasts. No men who are “against abortion except in cases of rape or incest.” I could write a whole post on this topic and how it is the most misogynistic abortion stance… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:48 PM |
| 49 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyOh wow, I sense a fantastic story behind this one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 206 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realIt just makes our lifestyle that much easier tbh. These loser men are literally calling themselves out as not good enough for us. I’m fine with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 101 | The Porn Paradox | Megan Johnson | TEDxGreenvilleI wish this could be shown as part of every sex education course in middle schools. Once men become porn users there’s basically no amount of statistics that will make them care or change. They will toss out any straw man argument they can to avoid the truth. One that always grinds my gears is when they go on about “media doesn’t cause behavior! This is like saying violent video games cause violence!” Sure, dude. Media doesn’t affect behavior at all… that’s why every large corporation in the wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 167 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Just think of all the advancement that we are missing out on when women are socialized to take a back seat to their male partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:14 PM |
| 24 | As a HVW, how do you combat feelings of hopelessness in today’s harsh dating climate? How do you stay positive, yet realistic?As a person who suffers from PTSD symptoms due to past relationship trauma, I will share my tips for helping myself out of various stages of helplessness. When I am in a full blown PTSD attack there is not much to be done. However, box breathing, which is inhaling to the count of 5, holding for 5 seconds, exhaling for 5 seconds, then holding for 5 seconds, and repeating, can at least get my heart rate down and make the shaking calm down. It’s a good place to start. From there: Taking a warm show… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsThis is spot on. When I was a senior in high school I dated a boy who I met in person when I was visiting my old hometown. We only saw each other in person for a couple of days, then dated long distance for a full year before he moved across the states to live with me. He was an absolute dream when we were long distance, no surprise there, it isn’t hard to impress someone when your relationship requires such little effort. Once we moved in together (bad bad move), he repeatedly raped me and it w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 7 | Just listened to the bonus episode of cosmopolitan & emotional labor on the podcastI really have no words… I can’t believe this is a published article. And that ending… oh no, honey. This is the type of thing she’s going to read again in ten years and wish she could invent a time machine for the sole purpose of slapping her younger self across the face and telling herself to LEAVE THIS LOSER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 10 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMI fortunately never read this series, but I do still giggle when I remember reading/ hearing someone say that if Christian Grey had lived in a trailer and wasn’t a rich dude that the plot line of these books would have simply been an episode of Criminal Minds. And yet here we are with all these women lining up to do BDSM with losers 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:23 PM |
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