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| – | Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis?Doesn't this have more to do with feeling safe and secure rather than penis size? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 03:11 PM |
| – | The recent rise of butt-focused fashion is driven at least partly by a desire to attract heterosexual male attentionOr that it's solely about driving male attention. Women wear what makes them feel attractive and comfortable as well as driving male attention if wanted, and they also use it to status signal to other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why the double-standard with approval of hairstyle between men and women.Thankfully that's changing, but pretending men and women grow up under the same pressures around appearance is absurd. I agreed with pretty much everything except this. Society isn't changing, if anything the progressive side is forcing everyone to view things through appearance/race/identity. Regardless of that, men will always look for attractive women who are nice. All the advertising in the world can be spent on trying to convince men that ugly fat chicks are actually attractive, but when th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.lol you totally don't have a GF and would let that chick sit on your face the second she offered and you're completely fine with being the 'friend that's there for her'. It's so obvious dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.Your GF is cool with you hanging out with a chick you were obsessed with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:18 PM |
| – | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.I have a great understanding of human relationships. Did you get married and move on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:01 PM |
| – | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.Haha oops, didn't realize that. Then yeah, you are flat out lying then. Buddy, you were friend zoned and are pretending to like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:38 PM |
| – | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.My presumption is that he's settled for being friends with her because he likes her (which is completely fine) but if she came to him tomorrow wanting to get together, there is no world where he says no, I just want to be friends. What's so insane about that? Maybe I'd accept it if he's happily married and has completely moved on, but there is no world where a wife let's you regularly hang out with a girl you had gigantic crush on and so they wouldn't still be close friends. How is this projecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:27 PM |
| – | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.Not really. Been happily married for 7 years, together for 11. I just don't believe the poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.You would let her sit on your face the second she offered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If it's true that men don't pull their weight in housework in reversed relationships, it's a "fuck you pay me" situationOutside of the boomers, I've never seen the men slacking while the wife slaves away thing. All millennial and Gen X couples I know with kids have a pretty even split of housework. If anything, the pink tasks are more regularly being done by men as well as the woman, including cooking, cleaning, and laundry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If it's true that men don't pull their weight in housework in reversed relationships, it's a "fuck you pay me" situationI don't think there really is a disparity in "house work" among most couples, it's just what's labelled 'house work' are the female coded chores which is what causes the outrage. If everyone took a step back and looked at the totality of keeping a house and raising children, the work load is often even, just different. There are obvious exceptions in relationships, but generally speaking: If something breaks, the man fixes Any car maintenance - man Primary income earner - man Painting/Plumbing/C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticMy kids are still little (4 and 2) and we have to basically schedule it into our week, and yes it's often quick or interrupted by something. It's definitely different from when we first got together, but it will be different again one day. How old were your kids when the sex life went back to the same quantity of before kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 10 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticI have been with my wife for going on 12 years. Sex life has had it's ups and downs with kids, but the one thing I've learned is that when you have a strong relationship with good communication, you will have a good sex life. Ours has only improved in quality over the years. Frequency has varied which should be expected when you go through different life events, but I don't think either of us even think about what sex was like with other people, ever. The relationship and how well we know each o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:59 PM |
| 2 | How common is it for women to have higher sex drives than men?What are you talking about that most women find most men unattractive? They're most likely to swipe left but there is way more to physical attraction for women than just a photo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:39 PM |
| – | Who's worse: a man who pays for sex or a man who lies to get laid??It's really telling that all the women are responding with lying, except basically you - and when you are the outlier they assume you wouldn't have an issue with lying. Just such a reddit midwit mentality. Question: which one is worse? Option B. SO YOU HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH OPTION A?!?!?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.It's not a literal statement you midwit. Obviously I know she has testosterone in her body. WEELL ACKSHUALLY. thanks for the contribution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.It's not a literal statement you midwit. Obviously I know she has testosterone in her body. WEELL ACKSHUALLY. thanks for the contribution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.Attraction is a wide spectrum, but if you're talking about women being attracted to male behaviour more than men being attracted to women behaviour, then yeah, it's because men are more visual oriented and women are more interested in people, generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.It's the opposite of exhausting. It's the best part of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.I'm attracted to her in general and she's typically pretty feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.That's not true. We like women who are feminine. We like guys who are guys. They are completely separate worlds. My wife doesn't have a drop of testosterone in her body. Does it drive me nuts sometimes? Yes. Do I want her more rationally sometimes? Yes. Would I change anything about her? No. I don't want her to act like "one of the boys". Part of what makes marriage between man and a woman so special is the fact that I'll never fully understand her. We're 11 years in and I'm at maybe 40% compreh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.Men don't know what women want because we aren't wired the same way. One of the most beautiful parts of marriage, as well as frustrating at times, is that you have to navigate the world with this person who you know better than anyone else, but still only have 50% comprehension on what and why they do the things they do. Women are often very explicit in what they want, we just don't pick up on it. Men are the same way and women are just as oblivious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.It's enough evidence to shape my worldview. Lived experiences tend to do that. I don't outsource my life to 'studies' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Every woman I know who was a whore in high school/college is a mess now. Most of the ones who weren't are married with families, houses, jobs, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 0 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.I completely disagree, if you are looking for guaranteed quality sex, then get married and only have sex with that person. If you have a strong marriage, you will not have any issues getting regular sex, and it's the best sex since you have a strong connection and already know how to please your partner. Women can easily get sex outside of marriage, but it's not very fulfilling and in my opinion, promiscuity makes them age like milk. Men have a way harder time getting sex outside of marriage. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Yes. It's a bad faith question, because I know the answer, you know the answer, and everything you advocate for falls apart once you admit it. Why would you make the billionaires richer by investing in the stock market if you don't think they should exist in the first place and want society to collapse? If you actually thought societal collapse was inevitable, and the sooner the better (for your kids sake?), you would be dumping all your money into precious metals, food, and ammunition. You know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:33 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Cool. So tomorrow we seize the assets of anyone worth over 100M. Then what? Also, it's really hard to get communists to understand this, but just because someone gets rich, doesn't mean they made someone poor. You totally have stock investments. You dodged the question twice, and the second time I called you on dodging it. You don't actually believe in societal collapse AT ALL. You just like jerking off to Hassan Piker videos and complaining about billionaires. BTW I'm not opposed to it. Putin s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:11 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.So you don't hate capitalism, you just want limits to it? Would Denmark be your ideal? There are billionaires in Denmark too. I don't have any issues with limiting the power of free markets, I just don't know how you get there. I don't think you do either, since on one hand you want societal collapse would destroy all the things you want people to have. If you and 20 people like you all went to rob and distribute Elon's wealth, what does that do? He doesn't have billions of dollars to take. His … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Cheating is almost inevitable in human relationships.People in relationships generally don't genuinely love each other. Their love is almost always dependent on something like resources, sex and so on. And because of this, cheating is inevitable because there will always be someone with more resources, or someone who is more attractive and so on. And since most relationships are transactional, people will always be drawn to someone who they think will give them something better in the transaction. What an absolutely fucked up worldview. You will n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:44 PM |
| -2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I read some of your comments and you responded to a couple of mine... You're in your 40s with kids and wife. Do you have any investments or stock holdings? And so you're OK with the society and global economy that exists today, you just want total collapse of the government and for it to be replaced with some kind of quasi socialist/communist state? But you still believe in democracy? I have my problems with capitalism and democracy too but this sounds like fan fiction. I don't know how you get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 4 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.A total collapse would actually apply the pain in a far more fair way than when the system functions Dude, in a total collapse, the poors are dead within months, or rounded up by the elites and put into camps. It's bad for everyone, but the poor people will be the first to suffer. Can you describe this collapse you keep fawning over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:29 PM |
| -4 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I believed you had kids, I was just emphasizing how bad your take was and that I couldn't believe you'd actually want that for people you love. What does societal collapse look like? What is starting over with a lot of pain? What exactly happens to trigger that scenario and how many people die? You don't have to be exact, but if you've thought about it this much then you must have some idea in your head. You are right - there is a world where we just continue to kick the can down the road and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Modern dating is completely fucked. Men are frustrated because simply being a man doesn't guarantee a woman’s interest anymore. simply existing, never guaranteed a woman. When women entered the workforce in mass, it shifted the entire foundation of society. We’ve seen marriage rates drop and divorce rates rise, and it’s become pretty clear that when women have their own financial power and autonomy, they are often perfectly content without a partner. Agreed. Minus the divorce part. I've read tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:00 PM |
| -1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I hope for my kids sake it happens sooner rather than later. I pray to God that you don't actually believe this, and if you do, you don't talk to your kids about any of this doomerism. Do you have any idea what societal collapse looks like? It's lawless anarchy. It's assassinations, murder, home raids, death, destruction, rape, the complete loss of rights and freedoms - that you have no idea how long would take to rebuild once we come out the other side. You would want that for your kids sake? T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:41 PM |
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