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Honestly as a man who doesn't attract female friends and who has like one legit female friend, I was pretty insecure about not having female friends. I thought something was wrong with me because all my friends seemed to have female friends or maybe even "best female friends". I learned for myself that I really don't need to care about this. I am quite content with my group of friends, even if they are 99% men. Personally I just look at whether a person brings value to my life and if I am able t…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 05:12 PM
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Imo the only solid youtubers for male empowerment have been "The Roommates" on Youtube. They have some controversial guest from time to time and they even had some redpill youtubers, but they also invite women who make content for women. They themselves have a really balanced view and also look at men's mental health. They are also a bit more on the religious side, but the content they create is not explicitly religious.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 05:02 PM
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Hey this is a late comment. So I took a break from redpill content and communities for a few months now. The weird thing is that I am a 29 y/o virgin and I haven't had that much dating experience with women (mostly first or second dates), so isn't much personal experience that I draw from. The red pill stuff caught me in one of my weakest moments, when I was depressed after my first big crush rejected me after two dates. I still believe in many of the core principles, but I don't like the macho …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:02 PM
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I don't know, maybe I sound petty because I'm a virgin, but how can someone have too much meaningless sex? You sound like you want to have a relationship. Have you tried doing more with a woman than just fucking her? Invite them to one of your hobbies? I guess it's some kitchen sink psychology, but if you already think that a girl will put you into the "beta box", then she will probably end up doing it. I think our minds tend to create and interpret situations in a way that fits in with our inse…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:40 AM
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29-year-old virgin here. I do get where you are coming from and kudos to you for showing your friend the hard truth. Nonetheless I came to the conclusion that I want to get fit, successful and whatever else I want to achieve for myself and not for women's sake. I mean imagine getting so "high value" with the idea of getting laid and it doesn't work out. I want to achieve things because it's good for me. If it won't get me laid, I am not mad. Making losing your virginity your priority is the epit…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:59 PM
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Oh well, I haven't heard of that, but I am from Germany.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 09:54 AM
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Does this also count for virgins? 29-year-old virgin here. I am not expecting to get laid anytime soon anyway, but I wonder if it would bring any harm to tell a woman before that I haven't had sex before.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:48 PM
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Sorry for mentioning this, but I find it interesting how millenial your question is.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:41 AM
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Hey, a little late response, but I am that (now) 29-year-old kissless virgin from your former thread. About the point of "A girl's attraction is peaking somewhere between unquestionable loyalty and plain cheating from your part": how am I supposed to convey that, if I had no real success with women so far. I was on like 4 dates since my last birthday, but I couldn't get any of them working out. And I can't just be delusional to myself and tell myself that I could get any woman. A female coworker…
/r/seduction21/09/20 10:14 AM
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Just to have a counter perspective, I wasn't raised that protected and my mother definitely wasn't a poster parent and I still struggle with approach anxiety. Don't try to reflect your inner struggle with approaching on external things or past experiences. We both need to change our attitude.
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:36 AM
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Thanks man! All I want is to be able to tell myself in another year that I made steady progress. I don't have to get laid, I just want to be better at expressing myself as a sexual person.
/r/seduction09/09/20 07:51 AM
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Thanks bro 💪🏾 I won't stop until I'm dead. I want to at least tell myself that I tried, if I should really not be able to get laid.
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:45 AM
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May I ask how you got to know the girls who you had sex with? I am also struggling with Tinder and other dating apps. I think I am definitely better at attracting women in real-life.
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:19 PM
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28-year-old kissless virgin here, about to turn 29 this month. I still can't get myself to cold approach, but I also struggle with showing physically that I am attracted to a girl. I had like 4 dates since my last birthday (which were also my first 4 dates ever), never got myself to kiss a girl. But I am getting steadily better with the physical escalation part. I generally noticed that I am getting a little bit better with each experience and that I learned a lot from the few dates I had. I rea…
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:15 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. Action trumps any overthinking. Having a proper mindset probably rather helps dealing with the emotions after being rejected. But I admit that I am still scared to death to cold approach women after the first time I did it. The rejection stung pretty badly because I got basically ignored.
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:34 AM
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I think you have to calibrate and manage how much approaching is good for you. But I lack further information to tell you anything more.
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:31 AM
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I am reading this thread after 3 weeks, but I still want to thank you for setting things straight. This subreddit is dedicated for men to approach and attract women. I feel like many women find it creepy because they simply never had to learn and build the courage to approach.
/r/seduction20/08/20 12:14 PM
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Do you even take a girl like that back after she disrespected you like that? Genuine question.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:12 PM
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Man, I really appreciate that you put so much thought into this. I didn't think about the vetting part as a tool to support my preset boundaries. Although I probably can't vet for everything as the noob that I am. I feel like I have to go through a few rough experiences to learn how I apply my boundaries. Also having seen and experienced abundance (=know that I can replace her) in my life probably helps with walking away.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:42 PM
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Nonetheless you should no longer associate with them. It is really important to forgive since it is an entirely personal and internal process. It is about healing mental wounds. But forgetting is something else. And people who pushed your boundary of friendship should have no place in your life anymore in my opinion. It's about how you value yourself. Also, I would stop making excuses for other people.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:50 AM
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Hey man, boundaries is a big thing that I try to implement in my day-to-day life because my mother never taught me to have any growing up. I am also a virgin mofo who never had a girlfriend, so I am kinda scared that I would get eaten up by a woman in a relationship. So I am happy about every little nugget of experience and wisdom I can get from other men. Could you by any chance give me some examples where you should have had boundaries or where she deliberately stepped over yours? What should …
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:20 AM
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Guys who went full-on crazy and subbed to MGTOW are polluting the red pill with their incel talk and make the rest look like women-haters as well. I notice that everytime some dumb redditor generalises woman in a negative way. Recently I've seen a comment here saying "essentially all women are prostitutes". I believe that you could in some fashion make an argument for that, but in general it seems like men projecting their bad experience with women onto all women.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 07:47 AM
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Or you just friendzone her, block her on all chatting channels and get a restraining order, if she is batshit crazy. I would much rather live my life with pride than succumb to acting like a bitch just to get rid of one.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 07:29 AM
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Same here! I don't give a fuck about people's political views. It's a waste of time to be a keyboard warrior. I am just here to learn about self-improvement and women.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:21 AM
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I don't get it. We aren't hating on people. We are just a bunch of men who want to improve in life and become aware of the social and sexual dynamics between men and women. Even if you disagree with our views, we aren't actively harming anyone. We are not a hate group. How can they put us together with degenerated subreddits?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:01 PM
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Ok I looked it up, but what should I write, if I would be at a girl’s place?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:33 PM
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Or she could just be a cheating bitch.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:05 AM
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Could someone explain this to me?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:04 AM
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I watched a video of Alexander Grace about simps and I really digged his view. He basically agreed that being a simp is a terrible state to be in, but that the term is kinda used as a word to degrade men. Instead we should feel compassion for these mofos and try to remember that many of us were exactly like them. I try to share tidbits of red pill philosophy every now and then, when a friend is telling me about his problems with women. But I don't talk about red pill itself or try to shower them…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:52 PM
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Damn, that's true.
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:20 PM
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Hey man, I am struggling with starting cold approaching because my mind fucks me up so much. Anytime I see a hot girl and just slightly think about "what if I approach her now" my mind comes up with all kinds of excuses not to do it. It's either that I just moved to a new city and I have no couch or TV to invite her home or even some insecurities like my height (5'3") or my ethnicity (I'm a short Tamil in Germany).
/r/seduction23/06/20 10:28 AM
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I still think that it is easy to say for someone who already made all these experiences. But I am a 28 y/o kissless virgin, so why shouldn't my goal be to get laid and try to work towards that? It sounds like you have transcended the stage of pursuing women/sex of us mere mortals, but I haven't even gotten to first base yet.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:27 AM
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Then don't do it. It will be better for your character to have certain values to live by. RP in itself is amoral, so it is totally up to you and you should listen to your conscience on this one. I personally wouldn't do it because I would hate it, if someone else would do that to me.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:09 PM
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This is the most thoughtful comment in this thread.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:57 PM
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If one of my bros would come to me and cry, I would surely not lose respect for him. If he would cry all the time, I would probably tell him that this will lead nowhere and that he needs to man up at some point. Nonetheless, if we can't go to women in our weakest moments, we need our brothers to have our back.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 07:45 PM
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Hey, is your Telegram group still going?
/r/seduction15/06/20 06:46 AM
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Hey guys, just wanted to tell you how much I love your podcast. I just found out about it and I am currently listening to the second episode. A lot of the principles were known to me from reading the subreddit, but I definitely appreciate the practical approach of how to cold approach, how to overcome approach anxiety and all that. I hope I can just get the balls together to actually do some shit in real life.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 09:07 PM
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Hey can you send me the link, too?
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:55 PM
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I am a 28 year old who just encountered the red pill at the beginning of this year. I feel like I have wasted away my 20s. Never did much for my body, never did much for my self-esteem. I was jerking off to porn, playing video games, defeatist virgin aka incel, living in my mom's appartment, kept falling into depressive oneitis with girls. Did nothing for my studies. I moved out this year, switched to a new university, got rid of porn (~8 months nofap streak), hitting the gym 4 times per week no…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 10:23 AM
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It was weird for me. I had a bad case of oneitis in winter of last year and during that time my lust for porn somehow vanished. I was so focused on that one particular girl and I got kinda depressed over it. (That was also the time I first found TRP.) And somehow as a blessing in disguise I still didn't watch porn, even after leaving the oneitis behind me. I gotta say that I relapsed and watched porn around 4-5 times in the last 7 months which is still pretty great for me. I haven't fapped in th…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:44 PM
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If you're asking this question (about how to get others to respect you), you're on the wrong field. A wise man will listen to advice, and weigh it accordingly, but he does as his own heart and mind dictates (as guided by God), and not what others think can or should be done. If you're worried about respect from other men, you need to fix yourself first. Otherwise your actions are going to be determined by what they think. Damn, this hit me hard. I always wonder how I am supposed to get people to…
/r/RPChristians08/06/20 06:50 AM
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Wait, so you were divorced two times and yet you recommend no prenup? Furthermore the major problem is that you absolutely cannot predict how your and your ex-spouse's feelings for each other will be before and after the divorce. And most of the time it is us men being the ones who get screwed over after divorce. Also keeping in mind that most divorces are initiated by the wife. Imo it's wishful thinking and over-romanticisation of something that was a social construct (arranged by your parents)…
/r/askRPC04/06/20 07:09 AM
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If it was that easy. Feelings change. Behaviour changes (or they become uncovered over time). And if you divorce as a Christian married couple, you are on your own with the paper work and lawyer bills.
/r/askRPC01/06/20 02:08 PM
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What I don't understand is how are we supposed to build families, if moving in is always bad? I mean I want to be a father one day and be there for my kids. I want to be there and be a male role model and not let my kids - especially sons - be raised by a single mother like I was. If we followed the rules of only fucking women, never moving in with them and probably never have families, then we would be extinct or be left by a hoard of weak men raised by women.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 08:50 PM
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So how should OP phrase it?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 08:42 PM
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And now? Are you an inventor? I am studying in an engineering field and I met lots of women who are excellent students and will become successful engineers. Yes, there are engineering fields with a good quota of women, check bio and chemical engineering. Stop hating an entire gender. Oh my gosh, some of you guys make me sound like a damn feminist. Can't we respect women and still be redpilled? Anyone who disagrees is probably very welcome in MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 10:18 AM
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Alex is a good intro, but you won't become full Sith Lord on just his material. And that's exactly what I am talking about. I know you mean it half-jokingly, but this edginess of a becoming a sith lord or "hardcore red pill" is just silly. Many of these type of people simply turn out to be hating and degrading women which we don't do here! We simply see female nature for what it is and work with it. Sadly MGTOW and blackpill infiltrated the red pill subreddit making it borderline incel here and …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 03:15 AM
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Would you have done something differently? Or do you think you respondend well (keeping red pill in mind)?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 09:46 PM
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Could you give me the link?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 09:38 PM
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His channel had red pill in its name originally. And he is very much red pilled. He is simply not one of those keyboard red pill warriors who say that women are just meat to have sex with. He differentiates between high and low quality women and promotes becoming a high value man to attract the high quality women. Nonetheless I would like it, if Alexander would post more videos with some practical advice for guys to achieve that instead of analysing some girls on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 08:00 PM
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That doesn't sound like shit tests, but rather disrespect and red flags. You are right, best avoid.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:18 PM
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Do you mean the movie "wild at heart"?
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 07:23 AM
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Thanks for the unintentional motivation, bro.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:32 PM
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As soon as a girl has lost respect for you, it's over. If you are married to her, you might be able to turn it around, but it will take a lot of time and effort. Might as well dump her ass and live your life in peace.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:58 PM
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You really gotta weed out these hoes and not put a ring on the first girl that shows interest in you.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 05:49 PM
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I agree that there are a lot of people who are able to maintain a moderate use of porn, but I am still not fond of the industry as a whole. But same as with alcohol people should acknowledge that there are quite a few people who cannot moderate their porn consumption.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:22 PM
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/u/1v1rustfaggot69 A gf will not help you in the slightest to get rid of porn. It might even turn you off your girlfriend because you could just as easily rub one off to the most good-looking bitches instead. Porn induced ED is a thing for many men, too. I am not saying that you porn makes you unable to have a sex life, but the less porn you watch before entering a relationship, the better.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:48 AM
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You should put less focus on hating imo. I get it, you realised that a lot of men are bluepilled and weak-minded. We all have been through that here. But instead of calling everyone a simp, you could just go out there and live a red-pilled life. Be an example.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:44 AM
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Bro, you can't tell me you said that not on purpose. lol
/r/RPChristians22/05/20 08:45 PM
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May I ask how what you mean (or what you said to her) with "putting your foot down", when she talked some men-hating bullshit? Sorry, I would probably have been as oblivious to this shit as you. Would like to learn from your experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 07:34 AM
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You username checks out, man. Props for talking that real to her. She definitely needs help.
/r/askRPC17/05/20 09:55 PM
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Sorry for being curious, but I am a virgin dude who wants to learn from your experience. Soo, did she get attracted sexually to you again, when you started working out and living healthy?
/r/askRPC17/05/20 09:54 PM
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Or get a prenup? Won't save you everything, but at least you can take more with you than 50:50 after divorce.
/r/RPChristians17/05/20 07:00 PM
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Hey, I ABSOLUTELY feel you, my brother. I am 28 y/o man, virgin, and I am doing NoFap for 7 months now. I am going CRAZY!! I feel like a horny teenager. That would probably be cool, if you had a gf/wife who would like to have sex with you. But as a Christian single man, this is hell. I can't stop thinking about sex all day every day. What am I supposed to do? I feel like I would jump on any woman that would open her "door" to me.
/r/RPChristians17/05/20 06:58 PM
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May I ask how it is going in the sex/virgin department for you? I can relate to your story. I just moved to my own place at 28 now. I am on my own for the most part. I only get 100€/month from my father, but that's it. And I can't tell for how long he can support me. It's more on a month-to-month basis. I am working part-time at a theater at the moment, but that's in my hometown and I need to find something in the city I moved to. I have to learn to budget now. Also wash my own shit. Go grocery …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 05:44 PM
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She beats out my fish. I love Patrice. This dude got it down to preach TRP and be fucking hilarious at it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 11:19 AM
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Glad that we have so many recordings of his teachings on Youtube.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 11:05 AM
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What if you don't tell your girl certain limits right from the start? You said right from the beginning that you don't like for her to have bikini photos on her social media. What if you didn't tell her from the start (because you didn't think of it) and she blames you for making up "rules" along the way?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:40 AM
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Sorry, I am not a native speaker. What does gaslighting mean in this context?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:59 AM
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What's PDA?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:47 PM
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Sorry, but for clarification. How should I respond to that beta test, if a girl-friend tells me that she wants "emotional time" and not want to be seen as sex toy?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 11:23 AM
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Thanks, I will have to think about it. At the moment I would say that I have to be cautious. I used to do only porn+masturbation, so I can't quite tell how just fapping would affect me. But I am still kinda scared that I would fall back to porn, when I start fapping again. On the one hand this sex drive has made me more eager to get in contact with women, but on the other hand I feel like I tend to try "too hard" because I want to bang. It's kind of a double-edged sword. I'll have to see how thi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 08:18 PM
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Man I am abstaining from porn and masturbation for about 6 month now, but my sexual drive is making me crazy. I am a 28 y/o man, virgin, and all I can think about is sex. You guys might suggest to just hook up with a girl, but I never did it, so this feels pretty far away too me. It feels great to not be a slave to porn anymore, but at the same time I feel like I became way more "thirsty".
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 07:53 PM
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test
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:14 AM
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This is great, man. I have been looking for a clear explanation of an abundance mindset, even if you aren't the guy that can or even wants to have a rotation of chicks. It's not necessarily about creating options just for the sake of being not dependent on any one of them. Abundance mindset means that you are completely confident that you can be with other or even higher quality women. Surely making positive experience with women will give you a lot of confidence.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:13 AM
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So would you say I should go for hookups rather than LTR? What would be your response, if a girl gets emotional and wants to be in a relationship with you?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 09:49 AM
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I am a total novice to this shit, so please bear with me. How should you react, if you girlfriend disrespects you like that?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 02:00 PM
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Man this post really hits home. Before the quarantine I had a girl who I felt was very invested in me for some reason. We had a date before and were about to get to the second, but I wanted to keep it all cool. (I guess that got her to chase me even more.) Then corona hits and I can't see her again. I send her a message every few days about me moving to another city (not too far away) and that I was painting the walls, etc etc. I guess this was just an attempt of me to maintain some sort of inte…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:57 AM
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This post is sponsored by accutane.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:45 AM
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Short 5'3" dude here. I appreciate your positivity! Online dating market might be all fucked up for me, but I could actually attract women in "real life" scenarios, when I could impress with more than just my physical appearance.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:24 AM
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Wow, that is actually pretty powerful advice. I will think of it next time I become too invested in a woman who I haven't had anything with yet.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:21 AM
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Except that we don't have those exact labels and a more diverse political spectrum to choose from. You can vote for a conversative party and there are still even more conservative parties to choose from. Also, what is considered conservative here (at least in Germany) is probably left/liberal in the US.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 04:05 PM
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Well, for me "first date" means that I don't know them very much or not at all and I want to get to know them. That is the point at which I would not want to creampie them on the first date as you phrased it. Or are we not talking about the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 03:20 PM
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Thanks man. It looks like this sub is becoming MGTOW. Sure, a tattoo tells you something about a person, but you simply can't generalise everything. The dudes in this thread like to make things easy.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 01:49 PM
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For real man, do you really creampie into strangers? What if she tells you shit or she for whatever reason hasn't taken birth control? You'd be fucked for life, if she gets pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 01:42 PM
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Children are genetic trash? Man it sounds like you had a terrible childhood and even mine was horrible. Even if you believe having children and raising them with your values is meaningless TO YOU, please don't imply it's gospel.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 11:26 PM
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This is some great stuff. I like the drill-sergeant type of talk that kicks my ass and gets me back on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 11:15 PM
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The main problem right now is that you are idolising her. You have to get in your head that she was not special and that there are plenty of women out there to go out with. Furthermore you should work on why you are getting so emotionally invested in a girl that you just knew for a month and haven't seen in months. My main problem with my oneitis was that I projected the happiness that I lacked in my life onto her. I thought that being in a relationship with that girl would satisfy me. That she …
/r/seduction21/03/20 07:15 PM
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Could you give me some hints/advice on how to treat your woman in a relationship/marriage? I am not married yet, but it would be great to have some advice from a man with experience.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 07:44 AM
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I'd say men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:30 PM
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Thanks for the video on sexual escalation. That dude is great at explaining! It's like he is talking to me directly with my insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 02:32 PM
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To be honest the number one thing that TRP taught me was to be on my grind, pursue my purpose, and love myself (which also means doing things that are good for me, i.e. fitness). This all comes first, then women.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 01:02 PM
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Is it a one-time 5$ payment to join the server or do you have to be constant Patreon subscriber?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 10:19 AM
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Wait, what? I am a beta male for having a favourite basketball team? Come on now guys. Stop projecting.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/20 06:26 PM
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On the other hand they are barely making babies because of their fucked-up work ethic.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 10:25 PM
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I don't know, if I really have to experience it myself. But all the more power to you for going for what you desired. The feeling of real abundance must be incredible for your self-confidence.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 10:16 PM
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There's some wisdom to be found here.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 06:47 AM
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28 year old. My 20s sucked so far. Trying to make the best out of it, so I will be confident in my 30s.
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:17 AM
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I have a huge problem with daydreaming. It feels great for a moment, but at some point you head right into reality again. But what about dreaming about my dream body, if I am working out and trying to achieve that image in reality? I guess it could still be problematic because the images in my head are influenced by super high standards in the media. Why do you consider poetry and being creative as feminine energy? Why do you consider spending time with family feminine energy?
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:11 AM
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What's your opinion on dominance/applying dominance in bed as described in OP's text, in terms of the man taking the role of the dominant one?
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:00 AM
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Late comment. Thanks, this really helps me at the moment. I was quite hesitent with redpill (still am), but I greatly appreciate the advice you guys have here. Currently still stuck in my oneitis. I have to get to the point at which women aren't my focus in life. I also have to understand that the girl I am so invested in isn't any special. My mind still tells me that she is the best girl that I have ever met, but actually she probably was just one of many. I hate it that my emotional state is l…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:55 AM
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As someone who is pretty new to this subreddit and all its content. What is a warm approach? I think cold approaches are interactions with total strangers, right? Like talking to a girl walking in the park. Or am I wrong?
/r/seduction09/02/20 04:45 PM
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Could you give me some other book recommendations that rather focus on building yourself rather than memorising methods?
/r/seduction09/02/20 09:43 AM
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Cold approaches would probably kill me, too. So far I have only asked women who I gotten to know a little bit first.
/r/seduction01/02/20 01:31 PM
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Thanks for the motivation! I am 28 years old, but just now starting to learn all this stuff about confidence, approaching women, how to talk and act with women, etc etc. But better late than never, I guess. You are right, I have to walk up to them and ask. There is no way around it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 04:48 PM
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Thanks for the motivation! I am 28 years old, but just now starting to learn all this stuff about confidence, approaching women, how to talk and act with women, etc etc. But better late than never, I guess. You are right, I have to walk up to them and ask. There is no way around it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 04:47 PM
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Thanks for the motivation! I am 28 years old, but just now starting to learn all this stuff about confidence, approaching women, how to talk and act with women, etc etc. But better late than never, I guess. You are right, I have to walk up to them and ask. There is no way around it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 04:47 PM
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Thanks for the motivation! I am 28 years old, but just now figuring out all this stuff about confidence, approaching women, how to talk and act with women, etc etc. You are probably right, I just have to walk up to them and ask. There is no way around it. But better late than never, I guess.
/r/seduction28/01/20 04:45 PM
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This kinda hits home. I was raised by a single mother (with narcissistic tendencies and other problems) and parallel to that I went through institutions which were mostly run by women. So yeah, never really had a male role-model and attachment figure in my life and it's really, really hard to figure out a lot of stuff on your own. I still do at age 28.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 07:16 AM
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I'm a 5'3" man and I am at a point at which I feel content with my height. It took quite some time, but in the end it's a mental thing. Sure being taller has several effects on social interactions (specifically with women), but so does actual self-confidence. And you can't have a surgery for that. Only way to go is on the painful path of self-acceptance.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 06:53 AM
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Hey, late comment. I found this thread and your comment by searching through the subreddit. Could you give me some hints or advice how to work on the nice-guy syndrome? What helped you become the version that you are today?
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:38 PM
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I think you or - at least I - have to learn that. It's also about making mistakes and learning from experience.
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:27 PM
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