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After taking some time to understand how pimps run hoes i have to mostly disagree. Sure, you cannot expect genuine panties wet desire 24/7 if you are not in great shape. Sexual desire is much higher if a woman feels that she has earned the opportunity to have sex or a relationship with you and that means starting out correctly. After a woman has worked consistently for your approval and then you finally reward her with sex and/or a relationship then she will continue to work the same for the ent…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/25 01:40 AM
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I don't believe you. I think you are still waiting around for her to come home and dithering about on the internet when she's gone. I think she's going to talk you out of it if you are still sleeping in the same bed. I think you have not gone nearly far enough in your planning and preparation and you are going to lose your ass to her. Please tell me what actual changes you've made to reach this point and really learn how to STFU.
/r/askMRP14/02/25 08:20 PM
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"You are so cute when you pout" ( pinch bottom lip, hug, slow dance, kiss,etc.) "You are always my _." I would say favorite but I'm an asshole that never fully commits to any one woman. Insert something sincere, especially if she has been respectful about it. Just don't overdo it if she is serious. I would say something like "I care a lot less when you take up my time without a good reason" or "waste my time when I really need to focus on other things besides your feelings or we won't have _ tha…
/r/askMRP14/02/25 02:38 PM
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Psycho? Thanks, this is literally a seduction forum. Not for smooth brained idealist that have no concept of mating and dating.
/r/seduction13/02/25 04:36 PM
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You are self absorbed. Seduction requires that you put yourself in the mind of your targets and get out of your own head. This is an ego problem. If you aren't having fun then you will not attract positive attention.
/r/seduction13/02/25 10:03 AM
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You sound like you're smart enough to be a side chick
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:17 PM
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You fell for it my dude. That's life in the modern world and you are not captain save a hoe.
/r/seduction06/02/25 11:24 AM
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The more it affects you the more you will see of it. In would bet she's more controlling than angry.
/r/seduction26/01/25 12:25 PM
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Stop posting on reddit. Your posts will be used against you. Reduce online presence and worry about self-preservation.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 10:08 PM
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Stop focusing on your relationship with your wife and focus on your own damn work. Do you have adhd? Pick one thing on top of all the other responsibilities you already have to improve upon gradually until that thing is no longer a glaring weakness and then pick something else. STFU before, during, and after the process and just enjoy your wins as they come and get as many lessons out of the losses as you can. You need emotional distance from the whole thing. Vulnerability is not strength and be…
/r/askMRP19/01/25 07:46 PM
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You are boring and passive. Your mental attitude needs to shift to knowing that they are lucky to share your time. You are letting them get what they want from you (validation) without first getting what you want( sex). Stop giving your time away to women that are not really into you.
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:52 PM
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I have seen some meetup groups dedicated to it but never attended. Girls definitely respond to some of the things they used to but peacocking and game changes with every generation. Having some regular decent looking women friends is really helpful because you will find out really quickly what they complain the loudest about is usually what is turning them on or it's adjacent to it. Girls that love men that ride motorcycles often complain loudly about how much they hate motorcycles.
/r/seduction17/01/25 05:05 PM
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Worked for me and after about two weeks I didn't need help from them very often unless there was a bigger project that I didn't want to tackle and didn't want to delegate to FO. it does initiate some increased dread the point is to delegate effectively and create mental space to focus on other higher value tasks. With my ex I basically delegated everything before our divorce so that I wouldn't really notice that she was gone and after she was gone there was significantly less because she just th…
/r/askMRP16/01/25 08:32 PM
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Hire a young and helpful woman to help with the chores and focus your energy where it belongs, work, gym, kids if you have any. If you were single with the same income you would have to do the chores anyways or pay for help. You need to neglect the areas that she values, attention, snuggles ain't free, find your medium tone and keep it until there is consistent respect or she gtfo.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 10:16 PM
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How old is this woman? Might be time to trade her in.
/r/askMRP13/01/25 07:20 PM
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BINGO
/r/askMRP13/01/25 07:20 PM
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You never know until you talk to them, most of them just want to be talked to like anyone else and the more special you treat them the more you invite them to act like entitled. Fact is you are probably not the most interesting man they have communicated with that day but it is a numbers game because of the nature of a woman's short term beauty and youth. She could be just broken up and needs a rebound, she could be in her hoe phase, she could be trying out nice guys again, etc,etc. When a girl …
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:14 PM
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One of the best reasons to only go for women that obviously choose you first is that you can stand them on their head and fuck them however you want and they will say thank you, daddy. I shit you not. Watch for the subtle signs that a girl is inviting you into her space and then make her invest by showing up consistently and spending her own money, etc. When you chase women they get an ego about it and think they have some kind of control, be like the man with options and do not chase pussy.
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:00 PM
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Pretty clear that you have not set the proper frame from the beginning of the relationship. If a woman told me to get away from her I would make her regret those words by literally leaving and not worrying about her for at least the rest of the day. I have been known to leave women on the side of the road and tell them they can get an uber or apologize right this second. I have left 4 women on the side of the road for disrespect and they have all come back after the fact. Your big issue is how y…
/r/askMRP31/12/24 03:36 PM
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Never take money with you and do not pay for female intimacy of any kind. It's a great way to learn game if you just see them as players in a 1v1 game where the points don't matter and nobody is probably going home with anyone else. I used strippers to callous myself to the beauty of women and got to know a few well enough that they would give me a lap dance every now and then for free. I was successful at taking one of the newer girls home once and I considered that a graduation because she did…
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:07 PM
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If I haven't been out with a woman more than a couple times then I will probably contact her about once a week and gauge her interest level and then I decide if I'm going to ask her to go with me to do something I was going to do anyways. I give women chances to come to me but I do not go out of my way for them. I probably miss out on some decent women but I never waste mental energy playing the will see won't she game because I'm way too busy for that. I only choose women that have given me str…
/r/seduction28/12/24 01:13 PM
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They plan to see if you fit into their life plan or have such obvious status that they have a reason to sleep with you in an effort to cast you into that role. Occasionally a girl just wants a good excuse to get some dick but that's not the typical.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:53 PM
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I've been doing this a couple of years and it's a noticeable difference in the way that women show regard for my presence. I see wrnkles, badly fine tattoos, messy hair, uneven eyebrows, poor hygiene, bad manners, cottage cheese on the back of the legs, double chins, one titty sags or is slightly smaller, crooked noses, unkempt nails and the list goes on. This practice along with just immunizing myself to beauty has taken women completely of the pedestal. Like Patrice used to say she is just sit…
/r/seduction19/12/24 12:56 AM
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I would not want the potential drama so close to my doorstep when I am there to focus on my studies. You do you.
/r/seduction15/12/24 08:12 PM
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I would recommend you do not pursue just because of her proximity to you and when things inevitably go bad you will still have to see each other and whomever you are hooking up with every day. Find out if she has cute friends that you can meet instead. Friendzone this one and network with her.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:28 PM
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Beautiful women don't have game because they have never had to work to get a man. - Patrice O'Neal Develop a personality with a little depth or get ready to be left by another man that is just tired of your bullshit.
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:25 PM
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Tests of character and seduction skills tend to be at odds with one another as seduction is all about liberating sex from women without formal commitment. Truly testing a woman's character can be very anti-seductive but can work in your favor after the woman begins to both pursue and test more thoroughly for psychological and emotional strength.
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:34 PM
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Ignore a woman's beauty and focus on her character.
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:20 PM
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Everyone here has it right. You are not the prize and that is the biggest issue. Whatever you do, do not take the bait because this is absolutely a trap and you do not have the ability to navigate these waters sailor. This desire for communication precedes her returning to evolutionary selfishness and trading up, do not seek the treasure.
/r/askMRP26/11/24 04:53 PM
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A big caveat here is to defend one's mind from conflating this inward reflection with the feminine imperative. Driving oneself to a self determined greatness requires a constant vigilance to avoid entanglement with those that will leech off of that progress. There are many that are happy to fill the void left by blue pill ideals being eradicated.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/24 09:12 PM
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Why is usually the wrong question to ask at this stage. What to do is more important until she is living fully in your frame. My philosophy is distance from her gets absence from me, within reason and appropriate to however cold she has become. If the gym is open 24 hours then it's extra time to pump iron.
/r/askMRP19/11/24 11:38 PM
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I definitely have an ego about it and I have no problem admitting that I am ruthless with valuing my time. I believe that the only measurement of a woman's intent is her actions. Flaking is just a low interest signal overall and there was probably not adequate interest generated before the date was proposed. If I were seeing a girl for awhile and all of the sudden she started being flaky then I would press her only once to value my time or never be taken seriously again. If I set up a first date…
/r/seduction18/11/24 12:54 AM
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It's a trap. Don't fall for it. Tell her it's out of the question and not up for negotiation.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 01:28 PM
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Don't react but also do not waste your time trying to get her out. Dating at work is not a good idea
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:40 PM
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Flakiness itself is a shit test. Hold her accountable and be indifferent to her feelings about her actions but instead focus on her lack of character. I would only accept flaking from a girl that I am content to have a casual relationship with. A woman that demonstrates that she will not respect your time from the beginning is not a good pick for a relationship of any importance. I am honest with women about this way of thinking and that's where the outcome independence comes in. They can choose…
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:43 PM
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Is she respectful when she brings up the issue? If she is respectful and living in your frame then you can deal with it in a couple of ways. If she is not respectful then how is she going to act when you become even more successful? Just don't buy into her framing of it and do not react to her fits. If she weren't jealous then I would be a little concerned.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 10:28 PM
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No. Gym is for suffering not seduction. When the girls feel too comfortable with you at the gym you will not be getting shit done because they will pester you for attention constantly. Don't waste time on women at the gym.
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:40 PM
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How did you become single? I want to know before I help you.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:53 PM
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Stop being nice to them
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:25 PM
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Always be willing to go without her. I would have told my FO to go change into something appropriate for a date. "Hey. Go put this outfit on. " I then would have put her together just the way I liked her. If there was a bit of resistance then I would immediately leave and go do whatever it was I was planning to do WITHOUT her. "I'm not going out with you dressed like a soccer mom, put on something sexy or you are staying home. " Also, just tell her you don't like the way she's dressed. There is …
/r/askMRP09/11/24 11:02 PM
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I thought this sub had strict rules to be apolitical?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/24 01:33 PM
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I think he means you are just barely cracking the lid on sexual dominance. When you say "now" and she says "yes sir, thank you sir"and means it then you are getting somewhere.
/r/askMRP06/11/24 01:27 PM
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Do tell.
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:45 PM
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From a seduction perspective it is good to have an anchor friend that you actually enjoy as a friend that will also open up your opportunities to meet new prospects. Overall women are a waste of time and energy and money so build your life to minimize opportunities for others to take these resources from you without getting some kind of reciprocal value.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:27 PM
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Ok dude, get a Harley or something. We don't do full prescriptions here so hit the damn sidebar and figure out your mission.
/r/askMRP30/10/24 02:01 PM
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You either upgrade your social circle to a more mature crowd that your relationship can thrive in or you cut her loose to go back to the churn or you open things up on your end which will probably destroy your relationship. A relationship like yours should be a vehicle for greater success and that means focusing your energy on achieving your mission and not on the never ending opportunity outside of it. If she is living in your frame then there are very few things you cannot lead the relationshi…
/r/askMRP30/10/24 11:14 AM
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Just tell her you have a bottle of wine you are bringing over and she will decide pretty quickly if you are in. I like to get girls on the phone for just a few minutes to give them a chance to melt a bit and invite me over.
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:37 PM
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It's the making women communicate directly that implies skill in seduction. What was your point exactly? I am a very experienced seducer of poon.
/r/seduction26/10/24 03:31 PM
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Absolutely that is at least a green light to flirt and test for interest. It could also mean that you are never getting out of the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/10/24 08:13 PM
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Yes that is pretty exceptional but does not happen as a rule. That means OP is super super nice.
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:01 PM
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If that were true this subreddit would not exist. Women do not communicate directly in a romantic or sexual context.
/r/seduction25/10/24 05:29 PM
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I had a similar issue when I was much younger. People will treat you badly when you are really good looking and it makes it tough to develop confidence or understand why people treat you rudely. I recommend going to a different city and just work on trying to get rejected by being a jerk just to see where the line is for you. Do not call it a night until you get 20 real rejections.
/r/seduction25/10/24 05:28 PM
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You showed way too much interest and she lost hers by default. You have so much to learn. Be difficult to reach and have better things to do than her and stop with the friend zone thing. Do not give your time away to women for free.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:25 AM
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Your friends don't go with you on the date do they? It all depends on you my friend. I don't need friends to find women but I'm also not a keyboard warrior that lives in my mom's basement.
/r/seduction18/10/24 04:18 PM
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I'm an amateur gynecologist so it can't hurt to just put it on there.
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:21 PM
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Set the stage for it by having awesome friends and a valuable network and also by teaching her enough about female nature to help her make wise choices.
/r/askMRP10/10/24 01:30 AM
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This kind of behavior will get worse with time unless you don't put up with it now. This is pretty standard emotional terrorism. If it were me I would tell her something along the lines of I will always choose my training over her and that will never change. I would probably tell her to come over after I got done training but set a firm bed time.
/r/askMRP08/10/24 10:39 AM
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The only thing that makes me any kind of Chad is the amount of female attention that I get when I am out in public because I am very fit. I do not apply game to women in any significant measure and I tend to socially reject women, politely of course, and focus on building relationships with other men of status. The bulk of my energy is spent on work and managing my ship but occasionally I will get out with the guys and catch and release a few women just to keep the skills sharp. Even the bulk of…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/24 05:26 PM
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I tend to really ignore the first couple waves of shittyness. I'll say "Hey, how are you?"(More shittyness) "Hey you have me on the phone now so how is it going?" (More shittyness) "I had a really good day and if you can not be pleasant then I am going to let you go, got it?" (Medium tone) If she persists at this point then I just hang up the phone and give her a few days to figure out that she will have to treat me with respect if she wants any of my time. I might joke around a bit with her in …
/r/askMRP24/09/24 01:28 AM
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Women are the essence of the red pill by their actions but they are blue pill in theirs ways of thinking. They do hypergamous things and rationalize it with blue pill social conventions. Revealing the game to women creates a painful cognitive dissonance, don't recommend. Every time a woman in a relationship cheats with Chad she will have a reason that she created for the purpose of hiding her real motives. Blue pill is a way of making an ugly world seem a whole lot nicer than it is and if you ev…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 11:50 AM
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I used to be a nice guy and I would get plenty of interest from women but that is where it typically ended. I had no idea how to convert the interest I caught into the sexual zone so I did exactly what Dr. Glover said and got stuck in the friend zone. Nice guys must learn to be disagreeable and that does not mean that you lack tact but that you can politely or sarcastically disagree at any time without having an ego about it. Being overly nice is simply not something that attracts women. Being p…
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:30 PM
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It's called the indirect approach and not overtly signaling interest so that a woman does not sense an incredible amount of interest from you. This is seduction 101. When you overtly signal interest it can certainly go your way but you must also put yourself in a position of not seeking approval and that means having a broader perspective on any interaction and internalizing that if the girl in front of you doesn't like you that there are 10 more behind her that do. I have a much different appro…
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:46 PM
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Having skin in the game is the exact opposite mindset that you need to have when meeting new people, especially new women. Do not invest in women that don't show some kind of interest. Learn to attract instead of chase. You must approach with a care free attitude, that is your bit. The woman decides in ten seconds if you are bedroom material and while you can change her mind it is nearly impossible to do so when you are attached to what she "might" offer you. It's much better to have her hoping …
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:12 PM
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Not gonna write out the entire story but I went from simp to pimp over a decade of working through my blue pill bullshit mindset. David D'Angelo got me started.
/r/seduction09/09/24 11:17 PM
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She wants someone with zero frame so she can do what she wants until a better option comes along. She isn't looking for alphas but for resources and freedom. Trans people in relationships have non existent boundaries.
/r/askMRP08/09/24 06:38 PM
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You nailed it. It's not an either or process. As you gain in real world results from actually improving you also gain a natural confidence that will not falter under pressure in the SMP. I've met plenty of nearly homeless bums that have game and can certainly pull women for a night or two but just like they can barely hold down a job they can't have a stable relationship either.
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:14 PM
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I've run into a similar situation at a water park and I think you did the right thing for the wrong reasons. You are there to hang with your son and not to flirt with hoes. At most I would have discreetly asked for her number near the end of the line because she was most likely just bored in line and flirting with you and getting your free attention.
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:40 PM
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Your marriage is basically over. She already has someone in mind and is already getting pipe from at least one other dude. I don't think it's a test at this point and I would just go to defcon 1 and nuke it. If you are in decent shape and won't be financially untenable then you can replace an aged woman within 6 months and i would already be spinning plates in your situation. Do the things you will be doing as a single man because you basically are already single and focus on investing in things…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 02:18 PM
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This is the only reply that matters. Stay clear of the friend zone.
/r/seduction15/08/24 12:58 PM
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It sounds like you showed way too much interest after she already rejected you. You may have had a chance if you followed a simple rule of least interest. If she is interested then you must be slightly less interested than her no matter how high your interest is. I know, it's stupid, but that is just what women respond to. I've got one that consistently hits me up about every 30 days when she is drunk or high and the only success I've ever had with her is if I really treat her like she is a supe…
/r/seduction13/08/24 10:36 PM
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Why are you attempting to moralize on TRP? This is in direct opposition to the founding of the red pill praxeology. Should? Who the fuck died and made you emperor of what should be? Controlling ones self means controlling your desires to serve your own ends, that also means controlling your eyes. Homo sapiens are a visually oriented species and we subliminally verify mating viability during every single interaction with a female. It is a base code and it is also our base nature. Some would tell …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 03:59 AM
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Again, I generally agree with this thinking for all but the highest quality of women. You do you.
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:21 AM
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Your emotional reaction to this demonstrates a serious lack of understanding of female psychology. I agree with this strategy for an entirely different reason. Women that choose you and are genuinely attracted to you are probably not going to wait more than a day to respond. That's a generalization that applies to all but the highest of genuine self-esteem women, those women can wait years for the man they desire to come around but they will never initiate. Blocking all but the highest quality w…
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:18 AM
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I did this when I first started out but I did not take any money with me so it forced me to work on my game. After I was given a free lap dance and invited over by one of the girls that I had not met before I considered it like a graduation. I really value women of character and regularly ignore women's beauty and it is like a super power in the work place and with women in general.
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:54 PM
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It is a rare man that can maintain a relationship with a woman like this while building frame. Many have tried and failed and are still riding that beta train to nowhere. Do you acknowledge that this is all your fault? Do you have the balls to leave for a few days without contact to weigh your options dispassionately? If a woman did this to me I would laugh in her face as I got ready to go iut and find her replacement the same night.
/r/askMRP10/08/24 02:08 PM
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So glad I have your support...lol. I would not even begin to consider what women would think about my way of doing anything. I am not legally married and will not entertain it at any point in the future. This whole process of taking ownership of one's own life is not meant to be a comfortable one in my opinion. Betterment is not a comfortable process. The whole point of my post was to share some of the things I have implemented to build and maintain frame effectively and to query the group about…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/24 04:11 PM
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Yes, you will get friend zone with that attitude. Get jacked. Women under 25 tend to focus on confidence and physicality in mating and dating.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:23 AM
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You have the attractive part down but you lack in ability to arouse and create real sexual tension. You are probably struggling with nice guy syndrome.
/r/askMRP22/07/24 11:09 AM
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This is good advice for men that have a baseline of confidence but this guy is borderline depressive so u really think this is a good place to start?
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:51 AM
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Actually it doesn't but that's where the artistry comes in my friend. Know your targets. I have no problem stroking a woman's ego for a night to get laid and I am very selective about it and I will bail the minute pussy is not on the table.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 04:38 PM
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Girls ALWAYS WANT to be pedastalized but you just don't give in. I used this as a tactic to get the lay with a woman that I was only interested in for one thing. She was a classic attention whore that relished the idea that she was already important enough to me to drag me away from my work.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 02:44 PM
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I should clarify that these are both examples of exact messages I have sent to women that were on the fence at the last minute that I also banged the same night. You do you.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 02:42 PM
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Yep, I used this on a same night lay that felt she needed to be pedestalized a bit to give it up. I would never blow off business for a woman. Money is more important than women and context clues can get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 11:45 AM
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"K, I'll be at xyz bar, maybe I'll see you there, have a good night. " "I blew off a strategy meeting for tonight to work out so please decide right this minute if you are coming." You did good and if you are strong and congruent then being direct is far more efficient and will help you filter out women quickly.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 10:52 AM
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Looks certainly matter and tight game matters more or there would not be over confident ugly dudes with hot chicks. Looks make everything easier. I am currently cutting down from my typical 12-15% body fat and while it's miserable to be forced to to go easier in the gym I am getting wayyy more female attention as I get leaner and a bit more tan. I don't care if you look like Addonis himself if you are a nice fucking simp. I personally know plenty of jacked bodybuilders that constantly talk thems…
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:58 PM
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If your game is tight then women will pay for the time and attention that you give them. Desire cannot be negotiated but it can be stoked. There is a big caveat here though. If a girl is over a 7/10 then you will probably have to invest SOMETHING initially to get to know her but after the initial encounter not much is required if she is into you. Some of the best sex with the hottest girl I've ever been with didn't cost me a dime, I just happened to be in the right place at the right time. Women…
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:03 PM
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Back up your claim that it's pseudo science you uneducated troglodite.
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:47 AM
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You're right, be an ugly loser I don't give a shit. If you are going to call it pseudo science then back up your claim. Works fine for me in real life where there are actually women. Touch grass.
/r/seduction13/07/24 12:23 PM
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I hate to pull out a Dr glover reference on you but stop making those women into sexual celebrities and treat them like all other women and also it sounds like you need to lift some fucking weights bro. In all seriousness you may have to give some less attractive women a chance while you develop your game because looks matter. Your energy and confidence are contagious once you really develop a great and congruent frame of abundance and outcome independence. Choosing signals are HEAVILY related t…
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:20 AM
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Lay the five bricks. -Dante Nero
/r/TheRedPill10/07/24 10:05 PM
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It's a phase you go through right before you realize the game you were playing is not the one you actually want to win.
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:01 PM
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I disagree. I think men have very little understanding of the passive cues that women give off to approach. Women are not nearly as uniform in what they like in men and the oddball sneaks through with a beer gut and charisma. I'm a real nerd at this stuff and there was a landmark work by one Dr. Timothy Perper that details many of these cues. Now I am certainly an exception to the rule because I get female attention every where I go because I am a jacked monster but I have helped plenty of my fr…
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:42 PM
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I disagree. I think it is indifference. I do not see it as rejection because it is just another roll of the dice that will eventually pay off in my favor. Caring too much about a woman's beauty is what sets you up for feeling despondent and rejected. I rarely go out of my way to chat up women any more but you are giving too much power to women when you think like this. Banging girls is a numbers game and finding the good ones out of that pool is a matter of watching their behavior towards you ov…
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:50 PM
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I disagree by simple demographics. There are literally millions of women that privately disagree with the articles of feminization but publicly will not participate in the discussion because they are feminine and therefore naturally passive.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 02:59 AM
32

You build the perfect woman. She enters your world gradually and continually earns a position in your life by adapting to you. They require guidance to be good women either from their fathers or the men they are with.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 12:54 PM
1

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/24 01:20 PM
2

I have no idea why I wouldn't want the ability to lock my office and if the door is locked then there is never an accidental intrusion on whatever business I am undertaking. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/24 01:17 PM
1

I partly agree with you but I also believe that men have been systematically conditioned to aim low, especially once married. My relationship will support my ambitious goals and not deter them. I am far more ambitious than you and really this is just a start for my future plans. You guys get so hung up on the cameras it's fucking hilarious. They took maybe three hours to install and I manage them from my phone. The whole idea to me is that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. I am st…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/24 05:37 PM
1

Outcome independent interactions AFTER self improvement will always yield better results for everyone involved than ego driven approaches. "Don't hide your dick but don't go around waving it around in women's faces either. " I take a long game approach that forces women to come to me but that doesn't mean that I didn't get my reps in when I was younger chatting up everyone, not just women. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 11:29 AM
1

Listen to Leykis 101 on youtube everyday until you inherit some of the arrogance of that guy. Leykis was a fat slob that allegedly got loads of pussy because of his show but the mindset of this man is what we are really after here. Leykis had far more self-esteem than what most would deem appropriate for a porker like himself but that didn't stop him from being number one in LA radio for years and being seen with top shelf pussy at every red carpet event.
/r/askMRP16/06/24 09:25 PM
1

You could use your allowance to go get your nails done once a month, I give you permission.
/r/askMRP16/06/24 09:15 PM
-2

Well if you are not trolling and don't get me wrong, I think you are trolling. Your wife is boring to you and it is easier to just go along with her ego stroking and your degradation because being dominant is too much work for the same ol' pussy. The only way to know is to put yourself into a catch and release situation where there are women that are actually going to get the juices flowing. If you are being dominated by your wife in the bedroom then that dynamic is going to continually play out…
/r/askMRP16/06/24 09:12 PM
1

I dunno man I am truly satisfied with my existence and the direction things are going. I probably could have expanded on the underlying decision making but its difficult for me to care enough to suss it out completely. I have an enormous amount of personal freedom and an excellent relationship with my new wife and my kids. Life is good when you apply yourself consistently.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/24 02:32 AM
1

Perhaps but your inability to make distinctions makes you come off like an unintelligent bigot. Nabal would have been wise to listen to abigail in that instance.
/r/RPChristians12/06/24 07:55 PM
1

Well, his stubbornness cost him his life so take it however you want. There are plenty of wise women worth listening to but that does not equate to leadership but instead insightfulness.
/r/RPChristians12/06/24 07:21 PM
1

Not necessarily. Abigail was far wiser than Nabal and he really should of listened to her.
/r/RPChristians12/06/24 06:31 PM
2

That's true, she could start shit at any time but in two years I have made zero concessions or compromised whatsoever. I have indeed kept my focus on my mission and not on my woman. It's a good start but I make no assumptions that this will be permanent but have enough game and SMV to find a suitable replacement if needed in a short amount of time. I have no qualms about kicking a bitch to the curb which I demonstrated thoroughly when I did so with my baby mama. Everything I have done basically …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 01:43 PM
3

If a woman takes one step away from you then you take two steps away from her. You are spending too much time with her and she is testing your level of emotional investment. If a woman feels comfortable enough to say this shit to you then you have not made her invest in the relationship enough before giving her a bunch of your time.
/r/seduction12/06/24 09:58 AM
3

Nope that was Sarah's idea and ultimately led to the nation of Islam.
/r/RPChristians12/06/24 12:56 AM
1

Actually if the brother is already married it creates a polygynous union because the man in question would then have at a minimum two wives. More than one wife with one husband is the definition of polygyny.
/r/RPChristians11/06/24 09:19 AM
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Sex without marriage is the primary issue. There is no instance of God's approval of sex outside of the marital bond. Polygyny is another matter altogether however because there is at least one instance in the old testament of God commanding a man to marry his brother's wife if he were to die before having a son to carry his name (deutoronomy 25:5). There are other instances of God's approval of multiple wives but never of sex without marital bond.
/r/RPChristians11/06/24 02:30 AM
4

Works well for me. If you don't find it useful then that's cool. Good luck with your 24/7 always present hall monitor wife. I do not have that problem because these things are built into my life. You can call it insecure but you just sound like a woman when you do. However you fuckers slice it I have a great home life and also an enormous amount of freedom to advance my status. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/24 05:12 PM
4

This worked well for me also. Starbucks was my second office for nearly two years.
/r/askMRP10/06/24 11:19 AM
5

I just wrote a post with some ways that I have made this part of my everyday grind. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/1db6kmd/the_law_of_presence_and_absence_or_how_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button I was once in a similar situation.
/r/askMRP10/06/24 11:17 AM
3

The idea is to set your betterment as the primary objective in the relationship. Your progression in life as "the prize" is the authority of your house. If there is some kind of creepy vibe then that is on you because having an office that locks has allowed me to take the time to study finance and other difficult subjects without distraction. I set this frame early in my new relationship because in my marriage I was consistently sabotaged when I attempted to take the time to study or do basicall…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/24 12:42 PM
4

I can see your point but I didn't come to these ideas through some covert contract. In my new relationship I have established myself as the authority in the relationship since it's inception. These behaviors are just the cliff notes of what level of freedom I have dedicated myself to in life. All of the things I do came from my developing preferences post-divorce and these are just things that I want to do anyways so I do them without thinking. There is no scoreboard because I never put the blam…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/24 11:54 PM
-4

Having groupies certainly is nice, how many groupies do you have? What do you do to maintain the frame in subtle ways?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/24 07:42 PM
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Why yes, I forgot to mention that the I paid the girls at yoga beforehand to gather round and complement my yoga in front of my girl. LOL. This is just how I live and it has worked well for me. I bet you don't have a locking office do you?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/24 06:20 PM
2

You screwed up. I bet you need your wife far more than you think an you are about to find out the hard way. Kiss your pension goodbye. Ever heard of hysterical bonding wise guy? This really is a case of giving dynamite to children. It is much better to be honest about getting pussy on the side before you actually do it but that would require you to not be a chicken shit.
/r/askMRP03/06/24 11:09 PM
7

Go to hot yoga for 60 days and do not invite your wife. You probably need a good stretching out anyways but your wife definitely know the women at yoga are way hotter than her but obviously you are gonna be way too busy attempting to stay alive through the class to worry about the high class ass around you. You are getting soft, old man.
/r/askMRP03/06/24 12:06 AM
2

While nearly all of the organizations have either been deleted or feminized, if you look around a bit you can find the wealthy man in his fortress of solitude that is busy lamenting the downfall of society. There are mentors available but their perspective and advice will always go against the grain and is usually common sense but requires hard work.
/r/RPChristians24/05/24 09:38 AM
1

That's a really long winded way of explaining how to be your own mental point of origin. Do what you are into and not what your women will inevitably attempt to steer you towards.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/24 09:29 AM
6

Only weak and unhealthy birds fly into cages (relationships) -Pook You are needy and need to spin more plates prior to being monogamous with one. Do not give away commitment so easily because it signals low value, optionless. This is basic stuff guys. Is there not a wiki these guys can read to learn the basics instead?
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:53 AM
1

Ask her what time she is having dinner and then tell her you will meet her for a drink after dinner. Leykis 101. You; what time would you like to have dinner? Her: 8, blah blah blah filler. You: Great! I will meet you at 10 for a drink when you're done with dinner, is that long enough? What she says next is really not important because she will at least know not to put you in the "buys me things and waits for sex category. "
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:52 AM
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I always expect betrayal at some point when it suits a woman so I am rarely surprised and never hurt by it. I know just because a woman sleeps next to me and fucks me regularly that it does not mean that commitment is going to withstand trials in my life or hers. Being realistic about this is a good start to understanding how women view relationships in real life. The woman is choosing this guy for sex and to assume that he is obligated to commitment because the sex is great is akin to assuming …
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:42 PM
2

This is not how you get a fwb. Say less, not more.
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:21 PM
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If she is volunteering to be a human pin cushion at his leisure then why would she not bear responsibility for her own choices? What's the morality of it? They are already fucking out of wedlock.
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:20 PM
1

Indeed. I'll take all the 6 and sevens that do all the work and never spend a dime on women. Loving, leadership, and laying pipe. Easy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/24 11:24 PM
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It sounds like you spent way too much time with her to start. When a chick rejects your advances then you do not cuddle, you kick her ass out. 8-10 hours is wayyyy too long to keep things going initially. How did she possibly earn that kind of time commitment from you? You have to change the way you think.
/r/seduction17/04/24 11:02 PM
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This post makes me so happy I got a divorce. Most of the time a woman's goals are just a play for attention so you could give her a task to complete to show that she is invested because you are not going to accomplish her goals for her. I would certainly spend the next weekend doing something out of the house without her ,preferably hanging with other dudes doing something fun. Remember, you can just get a new one and the next one will probably put out everyday like mine. Enjoy your marriage pal
/r/askMRP17/04/24 10:57 PM
6

Well see she had another dudes dick inside her and lied about it and then I found out after we were married. She kept in touch with the guy at a bare minimum but probably had others.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 02:20 PM
13

Along the way I found out she had cheated on me while we were dating and then I caught her talking to the same guy and avoided all accountability and refused to cut ties. I knew then but took my time to get my shit together first. Made the bitch walk the plank. I doubt if she was ever faithful to me and we were married for ten years. There were other huge issues but that was the beginning of my red pill journey in earnest.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 04:13 AM
8

Disloyalty on social media, obstinacy about avoiding accountability in regards to lying about it and hiding it. I took my time and made the most of it but that was what started me on this journey initially.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 03:16 AM
3

Yes, my comment was more in the realm of a warning for all those that would listen and keep the dark arts at arms length. Never drink the poison kids, there is really danger.
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:42 PM
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Focusing ones professional energies on such pleasurable pursuits tends to be a velvet lined path to hell. Being a master of seduction will not take you far unless you can adapt those skills to other endeavors that will actually yield something besides orgasms, smaller bank balances, and loads of personal drama. The thing which you desire tends to possess you until you detach from that desire or are destroyed in the pursuit of its ever growing demands. The only guys that stay in the game long ter…
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:28 AM
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When she didn't show interest when you were alone that was your answer. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and you got gatekept already. Also, stop being in a relationship that assumes loyal monogamy while you are doing this shite. Stop being a pussy and tell your girl that you are not going to only be with her. You have a glaring lack of game and other options or this would not even occur to you.
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:30 AM
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It really depends on if she is being respectful or not. Hearing her out is one thing but changing ANY household policy because of the heat of her emotions is the real issue that I see in most homes. Wife complains about wanting a bigger house, nicer car, etc and the man works hader to please HER, big mistake. Do not allow emotional sabotage to derail good policies, plans, and biblical principles. If your wife brings a legitimate concern to you then of course you make a plan to handle it and be g…
/r/RPChristians20/03/24 07:26 PM
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You are not at the gym to meet women and they are only a distraction to why you are there. Focus on your training or find a new gym before hooking up.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:26 PM
1

Unless you are super duper chill and dngaf then it ain't happening. Be ready for the shit storm that is coming tomorrow as well. If you haven't banged at least one of them then you are out of luck and just providing weed and booze so they can get laid AFTER.
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:57 PM
1

Your logistics the night of are pretty poor. Venue change and stop by your place to grab something for 5 minutes.
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:51 AM
8

Relationships of all kinds are taken on good faith. There is no security in this world really but just an illusion that we use to comfort ourselves. I think most of you guys would get better results if you focused your attention only on the women that will work alongside you to achieve your goals. Her presence in your life should have a purpose and if she is only half assing it then you will find out pretty quick that her work ethic is shit. Banging sluts is nice sometimes but ultimately a waste…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 04:53 AM
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Just be willing to burn everything down at the drop of a hat and it's much simpler. I care for my dignity as a man far more than I care about money or material possessions. Keep your passport handy and always be willing to next, even a wife. Women tend to behave very well when they sense that you will burn it all down before living with disrespect. But what do I know? I'm just a pirate leading the rebellion.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:50 AM
1

Or you can have a little fun with it and manufacture a single tear while you detail how sad you are to not have your balls sucked while you are fucking her or how one set of tits in your face is just not enough. She won't ask again after that.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/24 01:29 PM
2

The art of seduction by Robert Green details the exploits of Errol Flynn and much can be learned by this approach. I never make the first move and instead force them to choose to initiate intimacy because in today's world every vagina might as well have a jail sentence of some kind at the bottom of it. So as I have some idea a woman is very interested in me I will invite her to help me with important things I am doing but never just the two of us and I will keep several of these helper women goi…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/24 12:24 PM
2

She is more experienced than you in this game and plays it better. I think there are treadeoffs in bedroom fun with more stable women. Crazy women always give the best head because it is the only bright spot in the relationship. The price you pay initially for a more stable woman is just lower quality sex but you can gradually open that box if you really take the time to learn what makes your woman tick. I would office away from the house as often as possible. Ever thought of taking up a combat …
/r/askMRP11/03/24 12:07 AM
1

Practice Hypogamy Do not take them on dates or go out of your way for 6 months minimum Only choose women that choose you first I tell them I need money for this or that bill and I give them about a week to get it taken care of. Stay very focused on your mission and refuse to be derailed. Do not have sex with them until they have proven themselves to be in your corner. (I waited over a year with my last one.) If you do this for just a few months then your demeanor and relationships with women wil…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/24 09:37 PM
6

Take the apps off your phone completely. Check your phone as little as possible and segregate your time more thoroughly. The only time I spend on my phone besides its primary function is to play chess and check the markets/ news. I take a couple months a year without screens outside of work and watch almost no television. I do like audiobooks but they have become too distracting lately so I tend to save them for my drive to and from the gym and during warmups. I think it's really important to ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 04:36 AM
10

I believe these standards are set in the Old Testament. Forgive all tresspasses, yes, but if the punishment of said tresspass was being stoned or cut off from one's own people then that person no longer has a place in your life. I have frank conversations with people and I tell them that while I have forgiven them I have learned a hard lesson from trusting them and choose to never allow that again. Keeping those that have sinned against you so egregiously in your life is a huge temptation to exa…
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 03:05 PM
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If you aren't banging them then they don't count. I bet you are checking your social media 30 times a day. Did you actually stop watching porn? You write like someone that is addicted to pleasure. Look man, everyone loves short-term results but you are not doing anything constructive here that will last. Your wife will eventually get burnt out on your childish antics no matter how much dread there is or how good the sex is. Do you have an actual mentor that you respect? Get one. I have done plen…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/24 09:07 PM
3

Watching my mom destroy my father's mental health and give zero fucks. Mom attempting to turn me into a momma's boy and the poison did not take, thankfully. Growing up in a church where women were allowed into leadership and watching the destruction that it wreaked on the families. Being emasculated by me ex wife and lied to constantly only to later find out how she was just trying to break me and limit my progress out of her own insecurities and rebellion against our shared faith. In particular…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/24 09:27 PM
1

While you are beginning to see a bit of the truth this rabbit hole goes much deeper. I am having trouble remembering who to credit this with but, " women want what they are used to." But this definitely applies to both sexes. If you grew up in an dysfunctional household then you will subconsciously attempt to recreate the household dynamic that you grew up in unless you have done significant personal work to overcome this.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/24 10:43 PM
0

I have to disagree completely. I know of one that went from just okay to worse to get someone more beta due to serious wall hitting and I know another one that had her own house and tons of freedom and moved in with a broke but really alpha guy. The lifestyle decrease in both cases were drastic. Both guys have game.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/24 12:13 AM
1

Train something 6 days a week and do it in bad conditions and make it extra difficult when the inner bitch tries to come out. Yoga, martial art, weights, trail running are my go to activities. I eat better when I am training hard but eat healthy anyways because who wants to be a fat ass? Audio books on all drives, non-fiction. Nothing has really enriched my life more over the long run. Read all financial news and studying finance whether it is part of your job or not. Finance affects everything …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/24 02:20 PM
1

Your perspective seems pretty limited. Teasing women is one of my favorite hobbies. A true, in your face neg(insult) only "works" on women with the lowest of self-esteem but it is really just sad. I once spun a plate that was a solid 8 but she was an alcoholic with tons of personal issues and she was telling me that she was broke one night and I told her quite frankly that she could easily go the rest of the month without a meal and it might do her some good. I expected her to just eject or cry …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/24 01:05 PM
1

It depends on how you arrived in bed but if we are talking regular dating then absolutely. However, if I meet a woman while I am out doing something awesome and there is some kind of chemistry then the quality of sex is not even comparable. A great reason to never do the normal dating rituals that women tend to expect.
/r/seduction15/02/24 12:48 PM
2

Train yourself to be moved more by a woman's treatment of you and her character rather than her looks. Also, do not do anything to garner a woman's favor or edit yourself. Do your best to immunize yourself to a woman's beauty so that you avoid pedastalizing them in any way. You don't have to go to the lengths that I did but I used to go to strip clubs and take no money with me on purpose so that when I talked to the girls I could clearly see all the little things they tried to get me to open my …
/r/seduction15/02/24 12:18 PM
2

This is the only answer that matters.
/r/askMRP14/02/24 04:31 AM
3

Do you even lift bro? Honestly these types of relationships can sometimes be the very best in the long run because that woman will never likely stop qualifying herself for you after she has put in all that time and energy. I cannot recommend legal marriage given our current state of affairs but just realize the moment she is pregnant or as a ring on her finger then she will change unless you have set a frame that is incredibly strong to over ride the nonsense that we are constantly discussing he…
/r/askMRP13/02/24 02:14 AM
2

You are certainly entitled to your opinion but I just prefer to have a bit of obscure fun with it.
/r/askMRP10/02/24 08:20 PM
-1

Actually no, I am simply attempting to make the truth a bit more memorable by adding a anecdote from my long history of having women do things for me that they would never want to admit to anyone. It is just a bit of window dressing to help digest the deeper and more cynical belief that I have that the majority of women that I have encountered in all areas of life seem to have no actual principles and therefore no actual boundaries that are not completely subjective and flexible. I find this is …
/r/askMRP10/02/24 06:34 PM
-4

I see that I made the mistake of assuming that the intelligence of the people reading this might be sufficient to discern that. Figure it out for yourself.
/r/askMRP10/02/24 04:41 PM
-2

Women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas. In my experience women's boundaries are more like default computer code that is automatically updated with new settings after a certain period of time. After you have made a woman walk a half a mile in the dark on a busy street in the middle of the night so she can park her car without your girlfriend seeing it you start to get an idea of how things really work. Adding a marriage certificate really doesn't change this but it will change how …
/r/askMRP09/02/24 11:04 PM
3

This is the answer and your wife is not your mission dude.
/r/askMRP04/02/24 07:04 PM
1

I have figured out that I would rather not have a woman in my life unless I can express myself to her within certain limits without being overly concerned about her losing desire or respect for me. I generally discuss my feelings on a subject after the fact and definitely not before the issue is tackled unless it is me getting myself ramped up to tackle some difficult shit like HOOYAH M'FER! The only complaining or whining I might ever do is playfully with a ton of sarcasm like if I am actually …
/r/askMRP31/01/24 03:11 PM
58

Word to the wise, only choose the women that choose you first.
/r/seduction28/01/24 12:11 PM
2

I am not sure how to use this information to get laid more but that is definitely why I am here.
/r/seduction26/01/24 03:50 PM
19

So now leverage that reality by positioning yourself as a healer. Healing hookie dook is the new chick crack.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 02:15 PM
1

It sounds like you are trying to fit the new you into a box that contained the old you. If you still live in the same town/house/ state/ country then move away for a significant period of time and work on those achievements. Breaking contact with your old social circle including your family will quiet the noise a good bit and you will get realistic feedback through trial and error and not the ball kicking that you get from people that knew the old you.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/24 03:29 PM
7

r/askMRP for this dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/24 09:44 PM
2

Verbal intercourse is optional. Stop paying attention to behavior you do not want. Also, realize that this just may be a feature of this particular girl and this is literally how women like this get themselves ramped up for sex. The crazier she gets the more and better sex she will typically give you if this is the type I am thinking. Listen more to the context of what she is saying and how she is saying it rather than the content. It sounds like she is getting exactly what she wants which is fo…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 07:58 PM
4

The good news is there are 3.8billion other available women. This is a classic oneitis issue. You have tons of work to do. Listen to Leykis 101 on youtube until your little virgin ears bleed and get your scrawny ass to the gym. If you are serious then do the work for three months and then come back here and post again. Read the sidebar as well. That is more help than you deserve mate, get to work.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/24 11:13 PM
6

GET THIS MGTOW SHIT OUTTA HERE.
/r/askMRP21/01/24 04:19 AM
18

She is showing you with her behavior what to expect if you are to become unsuccessful. I call out bad behavior when I see it right then. If PMS is ramping up I call it out then and I tell her I expect her to show up to our relationship as an adult and I will not tolerate childish behavior. My girl does not nag but I'll take a crack at it. Nag, Nag, Nag"Oh yeah?", " Really?", "Hmm, Tell me more, oh riggggght." "K, I am going to go back to what I was doing now." Broken record after that. "mmmhmm, …
/r/askMRP20/01/24 08:09 PM
1

Yes. That was pearls before swine moment, swine.
/r/askMRP20/01/24 01:31 AM
1

Kindle reader and audible. Audible allows you to archive titles as well but if she is gonna snoop then you probably need a separate email account and device to read them on. This is a primary reason to not get married gents. Think of how controlling a woman is to stop her husband from reading forboden materials. Don't want this one making it off the plantation boss.
/r/askMRP19/01/24 05:57 PM
2

An example of a covert contract is that if I don't make my side chick scream too loudly while I am banging her in the living room then my wife SHOULD not complain about it. I have never actually had this conversation with my wife but I FEEL that she should not complain because of RATIONALIZATIONS( she's a water buffalo, has a terrible gag reflex, etc.) Now if I am banging my side chick and my wife complains then I might suffer from cognitive dissonance and wonder why this cow is ugly crying at m…
/r/askMRP19/01/24 11:40 AM
2

My friend, do you even know how to pass a shit test in a way that moistened the panties? All of your assertions are the precise reason the Red Pill Praxeology came into existence. Women respond to the things you are describing when it suits the latter half of their sexual strategy and usually after they have hit the wall or had so much cock they are no longer viable for long term mating. The skills that men can hone that target women's natures bypass all the social programming that you are on ab…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 11:17 AM
1

This is really all your fault for giving any kind of commitment to a woman that really did not qualify herself for it. Good luck.
/r/askMRP18/01/24 11:43 AM
2

I think you can love a woman but in my opinion a man should never be "In Love." That stuff is for women and rom coms. You need to be in love with conquest and the ground you can take in different arenas in life. You need to be in love with trying things that scare the shit out of you and failing , only to get back up and try again. Figure out what you would want to see changed in the world so badly that you would die for it and then become the man that you need to be to accomplish that. You must…
/r/askMRP18/01/24 11:38 AM
1

Been there dude. If she really is BPD then your withdrawals may have an initial positive effect on her behavior but then she will ramp that shit up to nuclear levels for as long as necessary to subjugate you to her emotions. Leaving a BPD woman that you are married to is a living hell. There were a few things that worked for me to calm the emotions that she would constantly use to control me was time away from her for any reason, social events away from her so she could not be a wet blanket, and…
/r/askMRP18/01/24 11:25 AM
0

If this isn't some dancing clown monkey bullshit I don't know what is. This IS legitimate insecurity on your part dude. You really think you can keep up with that forever? I can't imagine the effort I would have to go to worry about what my FO thinks about some rando at a networking event. Train your FO to be your biggest advocate and corner girl so she can go to bat for you in social situations. I think of my girl as my number one groupie and when we are out I will give her little missions of w…
/r/askMRP18/01/24 03:45 AM
1

Damn the effort required for this is just beyond me. Something to consider for any of the younger guys that have not married yet or may be shacked up. Go out randomly during the week or on the weekend and just tell her you're going out and leave it at that and then keep the habit going throughout the relationship and then it will just be something she expects is a part of who you are. I have an amazing woman that exists totally in my frame and she definitely feels privledged to live with me. I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/24 05:02 AM
1

I followed Dante Nero's advice and laid the five bricks daily until I was less awkward about approaching people in general. You just give five random complements in passing and have no expectations. It is nice to get the girl behind the counter to blush at a compliment but that is just a bonus. I started out EXTREMELY behind because I was raised by two really socially anxious parents. I did all kinds of stress inoculation training and supplements that helped but it was mostly just a matter of ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/24 08:12 PM
1

From reading many of your responses I can say with confidence that you have no business having a girlfriend due to the fact that you lack the experience in frame control and perhaps life in general to settle in with one girl. You need to spin more plates and really take time to develop your game to the point to where you don't need to ask these questions. "Healthy birds don't fly into cages." -Pook ( I think?) In other words, don't look for a relationship but keep developing your options to the …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 12:38 PM
10

Hypergamy doesn't care about your spiritual hookie dook.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/23 04:12 PM
4

IT TAKES TIME and repetitions to learn how to both develop and exercise your options. This woman is doing you a favor and you are still making contact with her? Here is your rule going forward, if she wants to come over to fuck and then leave then that is okay but if not then she can get her attention needs met somewhere else. You should not be spending non-sexual time with this woman but you don't have the frame for that. You are needy and lack the spine to walk away and mean it. Do not contact…
/r/askMRP24/11/23 06:44 PM
2

The benefit of seeing a BPD woman is that once you learn how to stay emotionally detached from her drama, then dating all other girls becomes quite easy because not every stumped toe becomes an hour bitch fest. The sex is always great, but you can not spend too much time with these women and expect to maintain your sanity without just becoming a huge asshole. I would keep telling this one that I saw on and off that I know she would like it if I slapped her around, but that is just not who I am, …
/r/askMRP16/11/23 11:30 AM
7

Public emasculation would be her talking about your micro-penis at the office Christmas party after her third chardonnay. And the correct response is, "Lisa from accounting didn't complain last weekend while you were getting your nails done."
/r/askMRP16/11/23 02:47 AM
1

If she goes to bed before you then wake her up for sex but don't expect much enthusiasm or satisfaction. Quality is better than quantity at your stage imo. To increase the likelihood of great sex while not away then take something off her plate and give her psychological rest. I will send my girl to get her nails done or something she enjoys to help manage that libido. I'm not expecting anything necessarily but taking on more of the pressure myself gives her room to be sexually receptive.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 10:54 PM
3

I've got a girl that would catch a charge for me and politely excuse herself if she walked in on me getting blown by another woman. I think you are a bit pessimistic my friend.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 08:50 PM
2

When they speak and their entire body echoes what they are expressing with wrapt attention and the words come from deep in the pit of their stomach instead of the usually airy tone. It has all the makings of an alpha imprint when responded to correctly. In my case it was a younger woman in a class that I had been teaching for awhile and the way she expressed her desire to work with me privately told me everything i needed to know in 2 seconds. She is not a plate to spin mind you, but she is a fa…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 08:41 PM
3

I started with the sidebar and all the stickied posts. I had a rough childhood so as I began to own my shit and really hear my own voice again my passions began to become more apparent as I worked harder towards living in my own frame. I took stock of what I am good at, what I would like to see changed in the world bad enough that I would die to achieve it, and what kind of man I would have to become to make that change possible. I still have plenty of fear and tons of work to do but now I have …
/r/askMRP01/11/23 10:36 PM
11

It's political and I hope to pimp our political system to promote quiet patriarchy, just kidding. It's personal and for family law reasons I can't really get into it too much because the ex is probably monitoring this subreddit. I learned the hard way that you do not talk about fight club. Plenty of mistakes were made along the way.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 05:00 PM
2

Do you have children with this woman? Be sure that you are truly absent from her life from now on. She no longer exists.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 01:00 PM
3

I get it. Before my divorce I laid similar plans and I used to reassure myself that divorce would be no more than a six month break from frequent sex(I was still banging stbx). I ended up doing quite a bit better than that with a woman ten years younger and daily sex for over a year now with all the other goodness that comes from a relationship that is completely within your frame. I recommend you start thinking about how to bring a woman into your frame gradually in a way that she earns her pla…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 02:11 PM
3

I would expect this to last maybe another year. I'd keep two in the kitty for sure. My own standard would not allow me to stay with a woman after infidelity.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 12:02 PM
5

Do like goggins says and train your ass off to callous your mind. The key is to be congruently non-reactive not some dancing dancing monkey clown bullshit.
/r/askMRP19/10/23 07:28 PM
4

Begin any countermeasures you may have in place and either continue as usual or be sure that she comes home to an empty house.
/r/askMRP09/10/23 10:11 PM
3

Leave for a week to clear your head. You are spiraling and you need some space to oodaloop.
/r/askMRP09/10/23 09:53 PM
2

In a new country you want to be focused on rebuilding. They find a way to fit into your life or they are out.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 09:28 PM
2

If the sex was good it means that she has plenty of practice my dude. Stop listening to these hoes like they ever tell the truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/23 01:56 PM
8

This is the only comment that matters.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/23 01:41 PM
2

The solution has always been the same; approach more women, face potential rejection or success, rinse and repeat as often as possible. Nothing both teaches you more and motivates action like rejection so stop "thinking" and start "doing." Usually doesn't even matter what you say because women really decide pretty quickly if they like you. You will NEVER be 10/10 or imaginary Don Juan with women so stop worrying about it and JUST. TRY. AGAIN.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/23 07:45 PM
143

Take the next year and get yourself ready to leave her . Become as attractive as possible and spin at least one viable plate and then leave. You will never recover the respect you are after from your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 05:57 PM
2

I had a similar situation with mine but I made sure to hit it before I quit it. She doesn't want to feel responsible in any way for ending the marriage even if it was her doing.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 08:19 PM
1

Only choose women that choose you first in this way. You should have made her work for it a bit but this is the ideal starting point for a relationship where the woman is more into you than vice versa. I will occasionally put some effort into a girl for short term relationship/ fling but as you get older you begin to realize that the women that choose you and actively seek you out are the only ones suited for long term relationships. For these women I always invite them to do something that I wo…
/r/seduction05/09/23 10:34 AM
56

When the red pill is actually the red pill for a day and not just a bunch of horny larpers. Drink the data in gang, actions have consequences.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/23 02:33 PM
2

How much experience with women do you have?
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:04 AM
2

Funny you should say that. I will have a "date" with a woman a couple times meaning that I get there first and get my food and start eating before she gets there. I then ask them to do something crazy with me like 5am yoga or hitting the trail late at night that I would already do anyways and if they show up(they usually do) then I know they are definitely interested. Doesn't take any extra effort on my part and we almost always have a great time.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 02:52 AM
1

You need to slow down the interaction and don't respond until you can keep a big shit eating grin on your face while you say whatever it is you gotta say. This is really low self-esteem behavior from her and you gotta learn how much pain they can take before you soften just a bit and then she would probably do whatever you suggested. I have dealt with these type of women more than I'd care to admit and they become a huge pain in the ass very quickly so she probably saved you quite a hassle.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 02:43 AM
1

Rewind in your mind the first time she made some kind of rule for you early on in the relationship. Got it? Don't do that. She is just a plate and will always be now that you have lost the frame. Tell her its time to get your name tattooed on her ass.
/r/askMRP30/07/23 04:35 PM
12

You are overly concerned with generating dread and not concerned enough with communicating like a man that owns his shit. Get off the dancing monkey clown shit before you destroy this woman's life. Why the hell do you think you are ready to be a full fledged captain if piddly shit like this gets your hamster going? You need to take a step back and stop the train wreck that is coming.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 10:23 PM
1

The takeaway is like this; until women have a real incentive to behave in ways that will honor the highest ideals of men then they will continue to devolve into that which we discarded long ago in our more inhumane history. Never before have women been given the biological power to decide the reproductive course of all cultures, literally deciding who lives and dies. No one knows what will come of this grand experiment in role reversal but the writing is on the wall and we are probably fucked. M…
/r/askMRP26/07/23 12:37 AM
1

I'd love a real life reference to that last point if you can muster it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 03:19 AM
0

After my wife filled for divorce but still wanted to cuddle I always charged her with sexual favors. I told her she was not getting what she needed from me unless I got what i wanted from her. It was a few times a week like that until my gut told me that she was seeing someone else and I listened to my instincts, good call. Cuddles certainly ain't free.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 03:00 AM
1

BINGO
/r/askMRP23/07/23 09:41 PM
1

Of course all of those ideals apply to marriage 1.0 very readily and if you can legally consolidate on a relationship that doesn't put your livelihood and your ultimate legacy in constant jeopardy because with marriage in western countries IT IS ALL ON THE LINE EVERY SINGLE DAY. Any woman you give your baby batter to can own your ass for 18 years WITHOUT CAUSE. GET REAL. If that genie could be put back in the bottle and the nuclear family could begin again don't you think that we would have figu…
/r/askMRP23/07/23 09:36 PM
1

Legally married? Um, No way. It is very nice once you reach a certain point of attractiveness to have a woman there that adds value to your life by supporting your mission and acts as an amplifier for what you are doing. "A good relationship should be effortless"- The Rational Male A good LTR allows you to put your energy where it belongs and not into women and the more successful you become the easier it becomes to have women coming to you without applying much effort. A primary reason for a ma…
/r/askMRP22/07/23 07:02 PM
9

No, you are just a child, I will not be giving you dynamite.
/r/askMRP07/07/23 02:02 PM
19

Lack of genuine desire. Inability to fully bond with you unless you displace the trauma. More likely to use sex as a tool for compliance. Never fully invested in the relationship. Can manifest in several ways depending on the woman. Some are much more needy and insecure. Some are much more independent and will never even hint at sexual or domestic submission due to the need for controlling the frame and not being abused again. Bonus: if you start gradually adding dark triad methods to your sex l…
/r/askMRP07/07/23 01:07 AM
2

I dunno man. I had a wife that treated me this way and ignoring her just made her ramp up her bullshit to nuclear levels and stay there. The trouble is that OP cannot simply laugh in his wife's face for her antics which is what any one of us would do without a marriage contract in place. She deserves to be ridiculed for her childish and dramatic behavior but OP is not even close to fit enough to be captain, maybe ever depending on how he handles her bullshit over the next year of owning his shit…
/r/askMRP06/07/23 04:47 AM
14

You need to read every jacktenofhearts post asap. Your case is extreme and you have more work to do than most and honestly from other situations like yours if you ever want to be your own man again you will have to be willing to absolutely lose your wife because you are probably going to anyways. My recommendation is to start VERY SMALL but daily things that you do for your own development or enjoyment that your wife will not know shit about. Learn to play chess, get an audible habit, learn the …
/r/askMRP06/07/23 01:59 AM
-2

Your girlfriend is too attractive for you and you should date uglier until you learn to express yourself as a man. P.s. you will never regain the frame so just kick her ass to the curb and start over.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 02:56 PM
2

I certainly will check it out, thanks for the reference.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 03:35 AM
1

Clowning is just another potential shortcut and it works for some guys better than others, I don't like that shit either but the slightly inebriated 22 year old I'm running it on cannot process much more than entertainment value because her dopamine system is fried from never ending validation from online simps.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 11:38 PM
1

What you are saying is biblically inaccurate. No virgins, no engaged women, no prostitution, and no married women. It's detailed just after the ten commandments in exodus. The bible is littered with overt warnings about such behavior so you should really consider reading it for yourself instead of just parroting what you were told l.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 11:34 PM
2

Clowning works because your grandiose frame draws them into your shared fantasy and out of the mundane, non-gina tingling reality of everyday existence. Caveat for already chatty dudes, you still need to have a masculine affectation and be far less emotional than the girl while still providing the roller coaster for her to ride on.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 09:15 PM
1

If you know your woman then she might as well have. I do not give women the benefit of the doubt unless they have a really great habit of doing what they say they are gonna do.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 11:29 PM
1

Due to prior experience I certainly know it when I see it. I have never believed women were all that loyal.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 10:47 PM
2

I side with Rollo is this regard. In the first rational male book he details how evidence of cheating is usually ignored unless blatantly obvious and that a man should always trust his gut in this regard. I was living with a soon to be ex and we were hooking up a couple times a week while the divorce was going through but she was going out a good bit and for a long time she was faithful but I knew in one moment when she came home that she had fucked someone else, my gut told me immediately and I…
/r/askMRP21/06/23 09:33 PM
1

How's that, private?
/r/askMRP21/06/23 06:17 PM
3

When it comes to women, always trust your gut. Given today's women you have about a fifty fifty chance she cheated.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 03:42 PM
1

She is probably lying so she doesn't have to fuck you as often.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 03:52 PM
1

Never give up your network for a chick. Plenty of playboys in the investment world. Time to make a phone call to your boys and go find something better to do with your time that whine like a bitch to a bunch of married dudes online. I was serious about the ice bath.
/r/askMRP10/06/23 04:25 PM
1

Get yourself in an ice bath twice a day for two minutes and think about your utter lack of frame. You moved for her?! Stop it.
/r/askMRP10/06/23 03:56 AM
12

Move out to the Wyoming outback and become a fire fighter, buy a motorcycle, and forget all this noise. You have 30 days, we will find you.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 06:09 AM
1

So stop beating your dick to a threesome and PRACTICE the sidebar.
/r/askMRP07/06/23 01:52 PM
2

Mrp is a grind and few will apply the principles in the long term to realize gains. There are foundations here that are deep and it takes a significant amount of practicing the principles detailed herein to actually add value because most of the things you feel that you have discovered are actually well worn principles that have already been covered.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 03:10 AM
5

You have no frame. You have no game. How are your lifts?
/r/askMRP24/05/23 01:36 AM
4

I recommend that you focus on leading from the front and being a properly fun captain. Focus on your fun, it's vacation.
/r/askMRP21/05/23 10:26 PM
20

Realize that you are opening pandoras box and what will be will be. You cannot control the Gaul storm of feminine hypergamy once you introduce direct competition into your most intimate zone. You are likely going to step on your own dick out of over-eagerness. You are attached heavily to the outcome and are missing the fact that if you/they wanted a threesome then you wouldn't have to go on vacation to do that, desire cannot be negotiated. Simply have her over for drinks and make sure you are al…
/r/askMRP21/05/23 02:10 PM
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