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| 3 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?Lol, it's so funny. I literally just posted this video. Spot on, brotha | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?This is the best video I've seen explaining exactly what you are asking about. Ironically, I just watched it last night. I'm not affiliated in any way. I hope it helps. Short version: You can be a badass who is also the hero. You don't need to be a bad person or asshole to accomplish the same thing https://youtu.be/RB1Ed_kvZNM?si=gcMyc2yIK-McxoE3 | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 06:17 PM |
| 2 | 2 big issue that I need help on. Girls telling me that I flirt to much with them and other girls and girls telling me that I am annoyingThe older the woman, the more experiences she has. I prefer mid to late 20s women for this reason. They tend to have more to offer in any given interaction, whereas a high school chick that is 18 and is hot, hasn't even begun to live her life yet nor has she had to go through any difficulties to even have an attractive personality (I'm massively generalizing). She just wants validation. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 03:45 PM |
| 4 | 2 big issue that I need help on. Girls telling me that I flirt to much with them and other girls and girls telling me that I am annoyingOkay so there are a lot of different things to address here, I'll do my best. First off, great job getting out there and making an effort to get good at game, most guys are too pussy to approach. Few girls tell me that I flirt with them or other girls to much and it gets annoying. Are these girls that have known you for a while? Like before you started learning game? If not, you may be turning your 'game' on, rather than being authentic. True game involves congruence; which is being aligned with… | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 03:23 PM |
| 0 | How to structure a basic beginner routine?check this out Since we men like to think logically. This has really helped my game. I would listen to the entire video if I were you. But he breaks down the 4 main questions that you seed off of at 7:25. Good stuff. Hope it helps bro. Keep gaming! | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 05:59 PM |
| 0 | How To Get A Girlfriend, The Obvious Reality That People Often Avoid And Wish For a Magic Pill InsteadMaking a girl your girlfriend is simply a choice once you built attraction and you should never have to be 'gaming' your girlfriend. Being your best self should always be enough. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I FORCE myself to pursue women? (Please help anyone's suggestions are welcome)You are fucking awesome, thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How do I FORCE myself to pursue women? (Please help anyone's suggestions are welcome)love this. Reminds me of Ekhart Tolle, the power of now. Rather than thinking of the past and future, think about right now. Your ego will reach for past information and create fake future information to validate why you should not approach. But if you don't give yourself time to think and just say "hey, I'm John" and start talking about your day, maybe your favorite sports team, whatever you think is genuinely cool, if she likes you, she will help the conversation continue. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I FORCE myself to pursue women? (Please help anyone's suggestions are welcome)Sorry I don't agree. Be a fucking man and talk to them. It doesn't matter what you say. Intense sets, like 5 girls talking to each other, break you FAST, because they are terrifying. That is evidence theory. That if you were able to open that set and walk away alive, you can literally do anything. I know it is terrifying, you might be sweating and shaking! They may give you looks like WTF!? But when you walk away alive, you will feel relief. Like a weight came off of your shoulders. To me the 3 … | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 09:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I FORCE myself to pursue women? (Please help anyone's suggestions are welcome)Just think about this when doubt crosses your mind. Do you want to start now? Or a year later be in the same socially awkward position you are in now? If you realize it is something YOU HAVE TO DO. Then you better get started. It takes YEARS to get good. And don't you want to be really good in your 20s and 30s so you can really enjoy it? At first I would approach, stumbling on my words, sweating A LOT. Sometimes shaking and leaving the interaction screaming in my head, "God your such a loser!!" … | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Girls saying they don't like my style. Shit test or should I actually make a change?I'm usually all about making whatever you like into your own. But personally, I hate Oakleys and yours specifically remind me of this guy Ditch em get some RayBans, its 2015 Edit: missing word | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.you are eating too much bread. Cut out the 3 whites. SUGAR, SALT and FLOUR. In two weeks you will lose substantial weight. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.Exactly, and I know some big girls that are the life of the party. Alpha women. They can bag any dude they want because their social proof is through the roof. But don't use this as an excuse not to workout. I am simply saying, looks aren't everything, also be more outgoing. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.Big boobs indicate high fertility. Good post. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.I'm the same way. It isn't that I cannot respect them as a person. But rather their appearance is a direct reflection of their self control. A woman that takes care of her body indicates to me on a base level that they are healthy. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.1000% this. If you try to change everything at once, you will crash. Little by little. Step by step. Eat a little healthier by adding more fiber (apples, bananas). Walk around your neighborhood, even if just for 5-10 minutes. Make these things habits. Everyone wants to enjoy the great things in life, but nobody wants to sacrifice. If you want that beach body and they guy of your dreams, you must sacrifice. Good luck @ OP | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyYour attraction for her was a year of built up thoughts in your head of how AMAZING she is. Of course this happened! Do yourself a favor, you like someone? Immediately do something about it before you have time to think. Learn from each interaction. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOGname checks out. DATS DAT SWAG SON! | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 09:43 PM |
| 10 | Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOGI don't think he should have fought, but I 100% agree you have to stand up for yourself. Even if he wasn't trying to hurt you, once he picked you up, that is assault. The moment you felt yourself being grabbed, I would have been saying, "WHOA WHOA WHOA WHO THE FUCK IS TRYING TO TOUCH ME!" Loud enough that the whole bar could hear me and with a face of absolute disgust. Now the entire bar is looking at this muscle bound fucking loser trying to physically pick you up. He will stop. Once the attent… | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like meHe really did and I did not even meet him in person. Check out his YouTube channel, type in: RSDTyler Also go to RSDNation.com I've dedicated a lot of time to watching vids and reading articles, it has perfected my open with practice in the field. If you ever have any questions, I'm more than happy to help. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?Okay here we go. So if you believe someone is 'out of your league' that means you place higher value on her than yourself. The thing is, she does NOT want you to give away your power. But by NOT approaching or acting reactive you ARE. So quite simply, you need a deep identity level change. One that removes your EGO and amplifies your core confidence. This comes from approaching more and more convincing your mind that this is OKAY and fun! Remember, girls don't care about looks, don't care about … | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like meI know this a lot but I wanted to add one thing. What happens at first is that you may get into state rather easily. But then slip out of it just as easy! Wings help keep your state up in the beginning, but even then it may only last for 15 or 30 minutes at first. Your state is a muscle. It is the YOU without the EGO that has been built to defend your social identity. So when you exercise being in state, you are DESTROYING the EGO and enabling your state to last longer and longer. Imagine being … | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like meSup homie. You gotta get over the whole looks thing. Something tells me you are not approaching enough. You need a deep identity level change and the only way that will occur is by flooding yourself with new experiences that counter your currently beliefs. Meaning, many guys believe looks and money matter, when really all that matters is your state and congruence of your THOUGHTS, WORDS and ACTIONS. The only way looks matter is that you don't look homeless and money to at least get a cab home. M… | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 09:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygame: approached my first 2 set today. It was exhilarating.Busted out laughing in my quiet office...lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I did the right thing right?Good F*cking job bro. Keep it moving APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH!! | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Throw some shit at me. I hesitated to approach a girl.I'll 2nd that. Seeing that hotty and looking away real fast and then cursing yourself for not saying anything later sucks. Go for it! And if you crash and burn, you will still have a smile on your face because you did what most guys won't do! | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say.I think the 2nd one fits my personality more, to each his own. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 05:33 PM |
| 2 | When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away.NO MORE PORN. Your expectations are too high and as a result you aren't turned on. Quit and see the difference. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 04:48 PM |
| 16 | I see a lot of guys talk about girls approaching them, why does it happen and why doesn't it happen to me?Thanks so much for this post bro! Thanks for being open to us! Firstly I just wanna say that women are not attracted to looks and money. I'm sure you already knew that. With that said, everything on the surface is just bullshit. Women are checking out your posture, movements, tone of voice, reactions, EYE CONTACT (the underlying real you inside). They will look to see if you are centered in yourself. If they feel this sense of purpose from you (which they can without even talking to you), they c… | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 04:42 PM |
| -3 | PUA Vet Adam Lyons moves to polyamory: Two live-in girlfriends: Sharing child-rearing, date nights and a kingsize bed... and he wants another woman to join themlol. Grow up bro | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 04:19 PM |
| 19 | [FR] Just directly approached a girl for my first time and need a little adviceThe best advice I can give you is to approach another hot girl. TRUST ME! Do exactly what you did with the first and get the number again. Repeat this process. The reason I say to do this is because it will lower your 'neediness' naturally. You will be coming from a state of natural abundance. Think about your reaction if a chick flakes but you have 2 or 3 others to call. Ddot220 is on point with what he said. Be your best self. Breathe. Keep your mind on the present moment, NOT the future. Get … | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | A few comments on body languageWearing a TapOut shirt is usually a mistake. hahahahaha Good post bro, concise and to the point. | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | The little Mental Shift that Cured about 50% of my Approach Anxiety and Anxiety Over Escalation.Blue meth | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 06:46 PM |
| 4 | What Women Are Universally Attracted ToPLEASE READ WHAT THIS MAN IS SAYING. DEAD ON. Blank slate. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men: Have you ever been seduced by a woman? How did it turn out?It is so funny you say that. Because women find it insanely attractive for a man to know exactly what he wants and goes for it head first :) | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do people now hate outer game?You are somewhat on the right track, but think of inner game as a seed and the game that comes out as the plant. With that being said, your game will be COMPLETELY from inside. The game has finally come to the point where it is much like exercise. Everyone (for the most part) knows that there isn't a magic pill you can take while continuing to eat garbage and have six pack abs. Just like there isn't one line you can say to a woman you meet to have her drop her panties and fuck in the bathroom. W… | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 08:51 PM |
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