| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Does anyone else hate the nervous shaky feeling when you're not sure if the opposite party has mutual feelings towards you? | Fundamentals | Railionn | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 7 | How does one stay dominant when feelings are starting to catch up? | Inner Game | Railionn | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I cannot talk to woman in a club, outside no problem | Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broad | Railionn | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 08:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | what to do on first date with MILF ??After seeing ops responses. .. nothing | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?There is no playbook on women. Trust me. My "game" was learned from experience. No woman is the same. T | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 2 | How many of you are virgins?I get why someone would want to find "the one" for the first time sex, I'm just making sure you're not not having sex with the few chances because of insecurities. And if you truly are waiting for the right woman then good on you! | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How many of you are virgins?I've had more than a few chances before but didn't take them. why? this reeks of insecurity and downplaying it as not into casual sex. Find the right woman and open up my man | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not.😂😂 | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Life is so unfairI don't think that's fair. I live in a good country. Are you saying I cannot say life isn't fair just because I don't life in a poor country? Makes no sense | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 28 | What’s your go to move during sexy times?Take the lead with things. Show your dominant side. How I tackle it with making moves to escalate it into sex is start with passionate kissing, stroke her hair, slight grabbing/pulling the hair occasionally during the act. Switch the kissing from mouth to her neck, don't forget her ears and lick them. Go back to making out and move your hands slowly to breasts, ass, etc. Don't do anything near her pussy yet. Just tease her and have her enjoy it. Sit on top of her and grab both hands above her he… | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 12 | What’s your go to move during sexy times?lmao I can't believe crypto has rooted this far into people for it to be a joke comment in /r/seduction Still feels weird hearing about crypto outside crypto places. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks, that makes much more sense! Good move. Fuck that. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]She said she'd be down to be a +1, I wouldn't stress it. She'll text. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I mean it sucks having someone cancel on you 3 times, I agree on that. But you could just say that to her, instead of ignoring? There's a chance it was all for legit reasons and she apologized | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Why is it with women they all give each other negative advice about guys. A guy has to do one thing wrong and all her friends will burn him into the ground. While on the male side they say just give it another chance | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.Thanks man. I sometimes need posts like this to make me be grateful for what I have. I need to exercise more, and stop smoking as well | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfThese examples are almost never used as a true shit test. Unless the woman has fucked 100 guys and needs to know you're the one. They are more or less situations that can happen any moment. Therefore it's good to always be aware that woman pick up on "bad answers" or behavior that could turn them off. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Invited over to a girls house as a first date - do’s and don’ts?Always prepare for sex when you go to someone's house. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Only use texting to set up a date.Wtf is this post lmao. Learning how to respond over text is a very handy skill to have. It also kind of mirrors how the person is in real life so you can prepare. But I prefer calling anyway. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 6 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Of all the first dates I've done never ever have I sat right next to a woman. Maximum is a 90 degree angle so on a square table it's fine to sit at a side instead of opposite. But NOT next to her. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE!For me I simply cannot befriend a girl when I don't like her. Have dated countless times but if I had to recall a girl who I didn't fancy that I'd actually want to be friends with.. I wouldn't know. Those who I feel interested in building a friendship with I could potentially still get feelings for. | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Sound like u been fucked and dropped a bit too much hon | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Idk man, couple I've fucked basically came to the conclusion it wasn't more then that. And it's not my sexgame.. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?You're dating the wrong women my man. Date a woman who has power and a dominant but sweet character. One who isn't afraid to call you out and one who makes you work for her. I've had the same stuff, boring woman are no fun to be with. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else hate the nervous shaky feeling when you're not sure if the opposite party has mutual feelings towards you?Interesting. I Do the same, love to pleasure, cuddle, give head, etc. Something I thought is what sometimes certain touches can feel too quick. Like holding hands, stroking her hair, etc. It builds affection but also could be too quick feeling? | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else hate the nervous shaky feeling when you're not sure if the opposite party has mutual feelings towards you?Thanks :) good advice. What's your thought on woman losing interest after sex? (my game is pretty solid btw) It feels like lots of people clear their mind for a decision when they've slept together for a night. | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Finally made it into bed with her, didn’t go so well. Any advice?It's not always about dickgame. Sometimes a night sleep is what makes girls go yes or no. Maybe she's thinking the same about you. "was I not beautiful enough for him to get proper hard?" etc Just ask her straight up. Wanna hangout again? If no, then just go on man. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too SeriouslyIdk, ask the last girl that fell in love with me while I didn't. Exactly the same. People don't always go equally up with their feelings | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too SeriouslyThen you must've never felt in love before. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too Seriouslyall fine and well until you start developing feelings towards her. Then the game get's a bit more difficult. Being the self assured man suddenly isn't as easy anymore, making her possible lose interest. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfRemember that these tests don't necessarily have to be done by her as a true test. They can be done subconsciously by her. If you then fail it might still trigger something inside her that could put you in a bad light. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I quit texting this girl?She works at the same place? Maybe she doesn't want any awkward situations. Either way she might just not be interested in you. I'd say ask her out in real life sometime to get a straight and clear answer. if no then just act cool and start treating her like someone you have no interest in and get on with your life.. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 12:51 AM |
| 12 | Delete The Dating AppsFor me tinder helped a lot on learning to communicate with woman and getting experience, experience I would've NEVER gotten without these apps. Tinder for example also shows you people based on your ELO score, so you see more people who share the same look score. I agree you shouldn't only use dating apps tho. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 11:50 PM |
| 4 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditMan this reminds me of the time I saw this girl sitting in front of me at a pub with a friend. Never walked up to a woman before but I felt for some reason the need to this time. Buddy of whom I was drinking with said "dude you're so quiet, are you ok?" I said yeah fine, but deep inside I was so nervous and thinking about how to handle this situation. Then I just did it and it worked. She wasn't interested in me tho after haha. oh well. Congrats! | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | What is the "sexiest" couch?I like this one! Not L shaped but does the job. /s goodluck on your search it's an interesting question. | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 0 | You can't make someone love you.Disagree. A spark can be created by personality. If love was based solely on sparks we could simply approach the first person you feel a spark with and ask her if she does too. I've dated countless of woman and some of which I didn't feel a spark with in the beginning did form one later on. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | To guys that are struggling to get over your exThat's a nice way to look at it, thanks. great mindset! Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 7 | To guys that are struggling to get over your exThe fucked up thing is that when a woman rejects me you have this sense of urge to make her know what she would be missing out on. I don't do this, but deep inside me I keep wondering what IF I did, what IF she started to like me, etc. These what IF's are annoying and are the thing making this hard. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Help on shit testsalright well I hope it turns out well. This will probably one of the many cases you should learn from. Don't ever chase woman. Make them chase you. | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Help on shit testsWell you went wrong already, since this probably started off with you asking why she's taking long time to respond. What happened before this? She's right, she's not obligated. Perhaps say "I don't expect you to" or something like that | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Wisest thing I've ever heardMan, I am currently in this stage.. But the moment you get her and she's finally in your hands, you may realise that she looks just like the other fishes and even though she may be prettier or bigger than the other ones, you have been waiting for her for so long that you may even start considering if that was even worth the time and effort you've given in to it I deleted tinder, for the first time for a woman, but she's a very busy woman but making me question if it's worth it. The feelings are … | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Talk To Women - Keep It Siimpleit's hard because humans have this kind of "but what if!" mentality if that makes sense. . | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Talk To Women - Keep It Siimpledon't do this over text tho | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | A Fix for conversations “drying up”which makes her think shes special and that you, the guy are replaceable so she doesn't have to put in effort. So? this is /r/seduction, up the game and make her want you | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | How does one stay dominant when feelings are starting to catch up?Thanks. But that's the whole problem. I am being real until I start catching feelings. I don't feel like myself anymore. My brain is on overtime, and my weakness is showing. | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 16 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouIf I may add to this great list: Never give her more attention then she is giving you. Always try downplaying it a little. examples: She says: "I really like you" You say: "I like you too" She says: I really like your personality You say: I think you're very interesting too. It's subtle things like this that will set girls off immediately. You have to keep her on her toes. Asap you're more interested in her then she is into you you really have to take a step back. Just my personal experience. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it typical to go out with girls and not a feel connection?I have the same issue. Barely no connection and i've had a few dates..... BUT when there's that connection I get a little nervous and the confident me actually get's a little less confident. That she blocked you could just be her way of closing things. Take no hard feelings of it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | The fastest way to get a girl on a date through text is by going SLOW | Texting 101 |fact your dumping girls for the slightest imperfections or cuz your becoming dopy and an idiot when you like them lol? Haha when I see a imperfection I pass them on and I have zero trouble keeping game because you start acting more "distanced", they seek confirmation. This distanced act get's blown away when I like them, making me possibly say things that are making them feel uncomfortable. For example I never ever tell a woman on the first date I like how they dressed. Why? Because they will ke… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The fastest way to get a girl on a date through text is by going SLOW | Texting 101 |You seem to doing it the same way as me, works like a charm. Different question though. I date a lot of woman but I feel like I am way too critique on them. In my head I want that perfect girl, and if there's even a slight downside I pass them on in my head and finish the date. In a way it's good, because it sets my mind to "it will probably not be the girl of my dreams" before and during the date, and it makes me very confident. But as soon as I get that connection, even a little bit feelings f… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?Dude this is such a legit post. A guy with 1000 girls following him will be much more attractive to woman if you had 100 girls following you. Get your insta follower count to atleast 700, it will help you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | How often do girls want to do the chasing?I'm starting to dislike tinder for this reason too. They should really get some new ways of connecting with people. Like Happn, being able to send voice messages, or allowing to answer questions like OkCupid. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?Yep. Way to picky for the perfect girl.. on the other hand it kinda helps me. Usually when I date a hot girl she lacks something from her personality. A hot girl + less personality actually makes me more open to talk to her as I don't feel the need to fall for her. But then in the end I do end up getting feelings and it messes up everything . | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!I never like the "cold" approach. Just tell her in a quite manly way "I'm going to kiss you though before you leave" It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffDating apps are perfect for starters. Why? Because you can first: send voice messages, and later on ask them to call. It really helps understand why and how they respond to your voice and way of talking. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained.Nothing like a pair of louis vuitton mocassins to start a conversation. Personal taste but those look horrible. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | "Yesterday was the best day I've had in a while."Yep, she is monogamous. She stated she has only had one BF and is extremely awkward around boys, so much she just freezes. She already tried to cancel the first date and told me she wanted to drive off when she came close to our meeting point. I asked her several questions what she would do if I were to cheat on her, her respons was she would probably forgive me. I really like her, but I don't feel a deep enough connection personality wise because I don't feel like I have to keep putting pressur… | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | "Yesterday was the best day I've had in a while."Some for woman btw, atleast for me. This girl i'm seeing right now continuously puts an X behind almost every sentence, and has ordered a sweater for me after dating for 2 weeks. Not trying to brag here, just stating it. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I need to stop seeking validation from women but holy fuck is it difficultgood point! agree | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I need to stop seeking validation from women but holy fuck is it difficultIf a girl likes you they will ask, "so when do we meet up?" after. When eventually you date the girl you tell here you actually weren't interested in a second date because of this behaviour, but keep in mind to be polite, so mention you still thought she should be given a second try. When a girl cancels a date or shows a lack of interest in me, I walk. I do not look back unless she works for it. Interest should be there if not, it's just not going to work and she will be a waste of time. This is… | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 09:37 AM |
| 2 | I need to stop seeking validation from women but holy fuck is it difficult“No worries, but I’m not going to wait around. Take care.” "Alright, no worries. It's up to you now to plan the date then. We can still talk ofcourse!" | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls I date "suddenly" see me as a friend?Dude, don't get yourself worked up about the confidence part. You dated girls, and managed to have her attention for 2 months. It doesn't work with anyone. Did you change behaviour? If for example you became very depended on her after a few dates, it could be a turnoff. Try to stay level headed and have her be depended on you instead of the other way. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 12:17 AM |
| 2 | I need to stop seeking validation from women but holy fuck is it difficultYou tell her fine, but I won't be the one asking for another date. Girls need to chase you and not the other way around. Being mysterious and not emotionally attached in the beginning is key. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 12:12 AM |
| 3 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicLoad of bullcrap. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this?I cried, fucking funny as hell | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 01:05 PM |
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