Rain-And-Coffee Archive

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11	79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and Dating Similar background here, late bloomer (first gf at 20) then ran through ~100 or so women in my early to mid-30s. My biggest improvement was when I focused on myself (gym, hobbies, mindset) and made myself outcome independent. I regret a few of the flings, but ended up with some funny stories. Now I prefer quality over quantity, 1-2 FWB with a good friendship and great sex is enough for me :)	/r/seduction	23/07/26 10:51 PM
3	Where did yall find your fwb? The Apps brother, got 3 on steady rotation from there The hardest part is the first meet, expect most to flake	/r/seduction	23/07/26 05:43 PM
1	Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK. Having money helps. Not rich, but being established and being able to offer a different lifestyle. I’m 39, and my rotation includes: 24 year old, 26 year old, 30 year old, 32 year old.	/r/seduction	21/03/26 04:20 PM
1	CMV: Most young men would benefit greatly from going on as many dates as possible. If you’re a 6/10 what makes think you deserve to date higher? The purple hair girl is probably in your ballpark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 09:17 PM
2	How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex. Good for you, here’s an award 🥇	/r/seduction	01/01/26 11:26 PM
4	How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex. The average lifetime body count based on CDC statistics is 4.3 for women and 6.3 for men. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm	/r/seduction	01/01/26 09:27 PM
228	How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex. As someone who has slept with 100+ women (over the past 10 years) you ain’t missing much. A meaningful relationship is worth more than a bunch of flings. But you got the other parts right, focus on yourself, have fun, and be a confident person. The rest tends to work itself out.	/r/seduction	30/12/25 10:27 PM
1	“Maybe” Maybe if you have time to waste. IMO I prefer to hang with people who give a strong yes	/r/seduction	08/12/24 01:34 AM
1	How can I navigate intimacy with a woman while being transparent about not wanting exclusivity or commitment, without causing her to feel misled or upset? Treat her like a friend, with added benefits. Also be upfront about wanting something casual.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 12:11 AM
3	The #1 Habit of losers. This was actually coined 30 years ago in the west as having a “growth mindset vs fixed mindset”. —— Alternative take for arguments sake: If you suck at something it’s ok, you can play up other areas. It’s the reason you sometimes see unattractive (Fat) guys with hot girls. Looks wise they’re not much, sure they could go workout but realistically they’ll never be more than average in that category. So instead they focus on being outgoing & funny, ex: Jonna Hill.	/r/seduction	04/06/23 04:10 AM