Rainai Archive

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3	Is redemption possible? I don't know if redemption is possible while you are still being (in your own words) a cheater, a lazy ass piece of shit, a leech and an alcoholic. Actions have consequences. Maybe it will take you a few years to regret being a cheater, lazy piece of shit, a mooch and an alcoholic...but it will eventually catch up. I don't understand the point of thinking about redemption while you are still a hot mess with loads of baggage yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/17 04:10 PM
1	what is wrong with having an abundance mindset when it comes to women? At least you get pass the puting on pedestal stage. Here is something to remember. You put someone on pedestal, and you'd be forcing them to look down on you. Never ever. Also energy and focus at your age should better be spent on yourself. I am serious. All that fire inside you? Use it to make the best version of yourself. I will be the last person to give TRP the nod, but abundance mentality can be good if you apply it right. It indeed stops you from being stuck with one individual. However it…	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/17 10:16 PM
1	what is wrong with having an abundance mindset when it comes to women? You follow the very predictable trajectory of putting women on pedestal, getting desperate, and then going red pill...if it does not work or only makes you bitter, next step is MGTOW or black pill. You are still obsessing about women...and even worse now, not only obsessing about finding that one unicorn, you are also thinking about spinning plates. So much for 'abundance mentality'. Here is an advice, pick up a hobby that will occupy your time.	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/17 09:57 PM
23	I do not look at women the same anymore. I don't think I will ever look at women the same again. Depends on your starting point. If your starting point is looking at women like some precious angels like u/hb8only , glad that you are free of that bullshit nonsense. Now on to see women just like how you see men. As individuals who are capable of both bad and good things, as individuals with their own personal thoughts and goals and that they do shit and fart.	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/17 03:21 PM
9	I do not look at women the same anymore. I was looking at them like some precious angels Wut? Where did you get this garbage from? Blame whoever put this kind of thought in your mind in the first place. I sincerely hope, it was not your parents.	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/17 03:13 PM
2	Explain to me the problems of Red Pill There are a lack of truly strong men in society. Strong father figure, imo. I hate to say this because it makes me sound like I dislike my own gender...but my personal experience taught me that strong fathers/father figures raise strong sons and daughters. In my opinion, another problem is that many boys and girls are being raised not to work with each other, but to compete against each other. This is not good, because when they grew up (assuming that many of them are mostly heterosexual), they …	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/17 09:58 PM
3	Explain to me the problems of Red Pill The problem is for many, it turns them into insecure, dreading shit-testing, weaker version of themselves. Many even stay in what actually mutually abusive relationships because of the AWALT thing. They think women behaving badly is just AWALT and staying and trying to apply TRP's own brand of shit-tests, instead of seeing it as a sign to leg it off. Being a confident and assertive man, fit both in body and mind, financially independent, socially successful and fearless are qualities that many m…	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/17 09:46 PM
2	I've been addicted to reading redpill and similar material for years and like most addictions, it has had a deeply unhealthy effect on my life. Go to r/daddit for example for many stories of normal, happy family fathers' stories. Many posts in r/askmenover30 are usually very insightful too.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/17 03:02 PM
9	I've been addicted to reading redpill and similar material for years and like most addictions, it has had a deeply unhealthy effect on my life. You have to realize that their problems have nothing to do with you. I am working in engineering field and 99% of the men I know are completely normal, hard working, kind and humble people. They are well-adjusted and live happy lives. The 1% are them who were failed by both nature and nurture---and almost all of them often put the blame into some group of people who have nothing to do with their misery. You have to stop this addiction because it poisons you. Why don't you read instead about happ…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/17 12:06 PM
1	Please lets debate rationally Might be assuming wrong again but...Andalusian perhaps? My family actually run/move away from a fanatical Islamic cult and move away somewhere else when I was six. I see a lot of good things in the religion, but as always, I also see how much it is being misused. My family ended up more or less agnostic. We want to believe that there is something out there, without the thought of it being misused to hurt others. My experience with Western women is actually very pleasant. Many that I know of neve…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 04:41 PM
1	Please lets debate rationally But perhaps you owe that to your original culture that teaches women to respect men. It is a culture where men have to work with women and vice versa, else the tribe will starve. Both the men and the women have to be strong for survival, but they do not compete with each other. The culture also respects elders very much, then again, our elders are also working hard to pass down their wisdom to us. I might be assuming too much, but are you from a place where darker skin is being seen as less than…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 03:27 PM
2	Please lets debate rationally I come from a place where men can have 4 wives if he wants to and does not need to fulfill his duty as a husband (if he wants to). Most men I know are still want to go the monogamous way, despite them being told that they can have many women should they want to. I asked a friend from Yemen, and he told me that all of the men in his family have that one person they love very much too. The choice is always there for them, they just choose not to take it, for their own personal reason. A man can ce…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 02:51 PM
7	Please lets debate rationally I am trying not to stay with someone who will fall apart if/when I am gone and at the same time, I try to be someone also who will not fall apart if/when my partner is gone. That is the least one can offer if one wants a healthy relationships. OP, as long as you feel that you will be destroyed if your partner leaves you (for any kind of reason), then you are not ready for a relationship. In a relationship, the risk that one of you will be gone or die is always there. Isn't that actually the poin…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 10:30 AM
7	Please lets debate rationally My BF is with me, but he and I both know that he does not need me. I can die this very second and his life will continue on. With his personality and his amazing support system, I know that he'd be alright. Same on my side. I am with him because I want to and not because I need to. Once you feel that you need someone to be able to live your life happily, the relationship turns into co-dependency and Co-dependency breeds resentment. I think ideally men and women should have found their own ways a…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 09:13 AM
8	Please lets debate rationally Forgot to adress the part about if I feel as if I am sacrificing something. The answer is no. How can it be a sacrifice when I feel happy and fulfilled being with him and doing what I do. My BF is, despite his physical limitation, a great man. He has been involved in many local disadvataged youth programs, both passively as donator and actively in teaching/mentoring programs. For himself, he is very focused on reaching financial independence that he left his job and started freelancing during hi…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 07:52 AM
6	Please lets debate rationally Not religious and no attraction to other men if I am already with someone. I believe I am like this is a result of part nature and part nurture. I am surrounded by couples that are loyal and devoted to each other and for them working together is not a chore. It also helps that my father and brother are good men who love their families but not neglecting their own well-being for it. They are happy men who have found their calling in life. My dad worked and reached his goal to build his own compan…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/17 06:59 AM
9	Please lets debate rationally I read your post replies and I don't think anything I'd say will matter. I can say that my own experience is vastly different than yours. That my friends and family all have happy relationships, mostly with their high school sweethearts. And the relationships are also far simpler than internet makes it out to be. Both, the man and the woman, are just trying their best and giving their 100% for each other. My boyfriend is a physically disabled man. Meanwhile, I am working in engineering, surround…	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/17 09:50 PM
5	Ex-Redpillers/ Redpillers, don't you feel bad for how you treated your girlfriends? Instead of calling these things deal breakers and running screaming, I accepted them because "all women are like that." I feel that a lot of ex-RPers would be able to relate to that, else there won't be such things as dreads, etc...which is the equivalent of shit testing for men, instead of just leaving the relationship or just like you've said, not going into the relationship in the first place.	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/17 11:57 PM
7	Thank you for your help When someone is that deep in a cult, unfortunately the only thing you can do (and left to do) is keeping your distance from them, for your own safety. He chose to jump into this insanity, he has made his bed. You can do this. Be around your friends and family. They will understand.	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/17 06:31 PM
1	Do the majority of people you know cheat on their spouses? The majority of people I know, do not cheat on their spouses or partners...but, just like any other relationships, a non-cheating relationships still have their problems. One that I see too often is addiction. So while cheating is not a problem where I come from, I have a feeling that some of the people I know would prefer if their partner just cheat instead of amassing secret debts, needing operation because liver marinated for too long in alcohol, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/17 05:30 PM
3	CMV: Can anyone break my fall? I feel like on my current trajectory I'm gonna end up redpill. I am afraid I have no other ideas to give. All of my family who have long term relationships all met organically. I have never been in online dating, so I cannot say anything about it, except that now I know why a sucess story is often celebrated in subreddit for online dating. Maybe because it is rather rare. Maybe if you want to continue giving online dating a try, checking out the subreddit like that might help. The members have stories on their own about being ghosted or falling off contacts…	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/17 06:17 AM
4	TRP isn't all bad, but hurt and/or hatelful men take it too far I can agree to many of what you've written. I sometimes forget that many are not so lucky to grow up with good parents/guardians. It is hard indeed if it is your own parents who feed you wrong information (often to mske themselves not look bad or look like a failure. Eventhough failing at something and having weakness is just being human). I also perhaps was being raised in the 'takes a village' kind of community. It is good (in my opinion), because it tends to give father/older brother figures …	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/17 10:50 PM
11	TRP isn't all bad, but hurt and/or hatelful men take it too far Very often I read about this 'angry because of being lied to'. Being lied to. By whom? Who is this fucker that telling you guys growing up that women are no longer attracted to assertiveness, independence and physical quality of a man? Who told all of these guys that the way to a woman's heart and to her loyalty is by being a pushover and a doormat? Also who told these people that once you get someone into a relationship, it is a sure guarantee that this person will not cheat on you and be besid…	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/17 09:37 PM
8	CMV: Can anyone break my fall? I feel like on my current trajectory I'm gonna end up redpill. I don't know if it will change your mind or not, so I will just tell you my experience. Since dating my BF who is physically disabled, I became quite active in the community. Coupled with my BF's work in volunteering for local disadvantaged youth program, it gets me to know a lot of men who are down on their luck. Sometimes since birth even and fallen through the crack of CPS. A lot of these men look haggard from suffering, some of them having skin disease, having very bad teeth, etc. Not all of…	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/17 08:48 PM
13	Can I get my husband to leave TRP? He is deep in a cult and the person you knew before has gone. Don't even entertain the idea of having 'the old him back'. That is how many people are staying and trapped in abusive relationships and ended up dead.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/17 04:36 PM
2	Does a shitty past cause hateful beliefs? Well, you do you. I just do not see the point of resenting people who will not give you chance because they have better options rather than resenting the ones who causes the hurt in the first place. It just feels like misplaced resentment.	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/17 12:14 PM
4	What I've learned the hard way I like it and agree with it, reminds me of this comment? post from yesterday. True that even then, there is no guarantee. Not even a guarantee if your partner will stay forever even after decades of being together if you managed to find one who you can build intimate connection with.	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/17 04:21 AM
3	Does a shitty past cause hateful beliefs? Losing acne is not going to make your more attractive, just going to make your skin looks more clean. Well, this is the part where I don't understand. Your parents are the ones giving you that genetics...and they did not prepare you enough for the life as a less attractive person, in a society where attractiveness counts a lot. Other parents, knowing that their kids are going to grow up unattractive or short, or even disabled, are actually doing something. Some parents in South Korea for example…	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/17 04:06 AM
3	Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology? people have no idea who they'll be attracted to Yeap. This should be written everywhere. How many guys and girls I know ended up falling hard for someone who are not their imagined 'types'. Even happened to me. Never imagined that I'd ever fall for a physically disabled guy, but here I am now and this is my easiest, most intimate and most affectionate relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/17 03:23 PM
2	Does a shitty past cause hateful beliefs? Go to skin care addiction subreddit, they usually have many good advice. If you have the means, go straight to a dermatologist. If the acne is cyst acne, it really is something tough. Acne can be caused by genetics too...so your parents are (unknowingly) having part in your current condition.	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/17 03:17 PM
3	Does a shitty past cause hateful beliefs? You do have low self-confidence if acne breakouts makes you think people think differently of you. Although won't that actually be the fault of your parents/guardians and upbringing, that you grew up as someone without enough confidence? Isn't it better to blame them than blaming complete strangers for rejections? Confidence guys got acne breakouts too.	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/17 05:02 AM
2	Does a shitty past cause hateful beliefs? A lot of people are happy going their own way without subscribing to MGTOW or WGTOW ideas. You have bad experience with people around you growing up and now you just want to be left alone and be happy on your own. That is perfectly normal, that is a more noble goal than many low quality people who just want to take their problems and hurt on others. I know two men and one woman where this completely going their own way thing and be happy in solitude really works well for them. First and foremost…	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/17 08:25 AM
3	I just want closure. Women, I have one question for you. Please. Woman here and working in a male dominated industry, being asked out by guys (some of them are according to society standart will make 'better' partner than my BF) is nothing new. What they do not know is that whenever I am in a relationship, other guys (because I am heterosexual) become invinsible in my eyes. How can I even think about possible chance of an 'upgrade' when my mind is occupied with "what shall I cook my BF later?", "have I checked if he has enough clean undies?", "does he have to…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/17 10:01 PM
2	Want to be ex redpill but.... You are 22 years old now and are already in this kind of situation. If you continue with this path, you will only get worse year after year. More isolated, fatter, more bitter, mentally deteriorated. I know this will not convince you, but what happened to you, happened also to other men...and to women even. And what do most of them do? Licking their wounds but then bounce back. You have been not only licking that wound, but adding salt to it and rubbing it in. My parents told me that pain is to …	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/17 10:55 AM
9	My struggles as an incel and as a promiscuous person Technically incels can still pay for whores if they want some fuck and short term companionship. Doesn't that negate the involuntary part?	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/17 06:36 PM
6	What do you think about The Black Pill? Yeah, I think he has. I googled his name in relation to black pill and it was one of the first thing that came out. I am not suggesting for anyone to do anything, but looking for GF or BF is similar to market a product (in my opinion). The more people hear about that product, the more people want to try it. Regardless if the product is good or bad.	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/17 05:10 AM
8	What do you think about The Black Pill? That guy (Eggman) has a GF now and seems to be very happy with her. By making those videos, he put himself out there and get to know more people, one that he likes and likes him back.	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/17 04:54 AM
5	My friend turned redpill and I won't deal with him anymore It is hard to keep friendship with people like these. I am SEA living in a village in Europe. I know how it feels to be a token minority. My 'friends' say I am different...but other foreigners/immigrants/assylum seekers are just subhuman that should be sent away to sink into the bottom of the sea or be gassed. But I am oh so different than these foreigners for them. I have much more important things to do than to befriend these kind people.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/17 10:36 AM
1	Ex-RedPiller, Now Black Piller (egoism, nihilism, fatalism, etc.). Disillusioned with the Manosphere I remember this post from a few days ago and just out of curiousity asked around in my former high school whatsapp group about some of the more isolated or bullied students. No one knows mostly. One poor kid was a ladyboy and he got openly sexually assaulted while in high school. Just because he was effiminate, a lot of more rowdy guys grabbed his crotch or his ass everyday. The girls always tried to defend him though. The latest news from him (her now, after transitioning), she opened her own s…	/r/ExRedPill	14/06/17 01:32 PM
16	Husband is reading TRP and MRP subreddit and following it 100% Married Red Pill. Also OP never cheated on her husband but her husband cheated on her in the past. These red pill guys always say that they dislike shit tests, but they shit tests the hell out of their women themselves to create some unnecessary drama. They seriously should get better hobbies and stop clutching their pearl necklace.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/17 10:14 PM
18	Husband is reading TRP and MRP subreddit and following it 100% No one wants to be with an insecure man who shit tests his wife at every turn because of his own mental problem.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/17 10:09 PM
3	Ex-RedPiller, Now Black Piller (egoism, nihilism, fatalism, etc.). Disillusioned with the Manosphere I asked a girl out for coffee at work once. Luckily she didn't complain to HR on me for non-existent sexual harassment. It is not luckily, it is just a normal response. I've gotten asked for lunch, movies, even a bold one asked me if I want to have sex with him (he has this flirty old man persona but actually harmless), I've seen more than fair share of guys peeing in construction sites if I currently work on one (if you gotta go, you gotta go). Most sane workers men or women try to avoid to hav…	/r/ExRedPill	11/06/17 06:50 AM
2	Ex-RedPiller, Now Black Piller (egoism, nihilism, fatalism, etc.). Disillusioned with the Manosphere I feel very uncomfotable reading your post, maybe because I cannot really understand where all the bitterness is coming from. I work in engineering and while I do not have close friends, some of the working colleagues are diagnosed autistic. One guy just got diagnosed last year but it was no surprise for all of us. Also many experienced bullying. If we talk about bullying, most of them fought back and win or loss, that fighting back gave them the sense of respect and control back. The ones that …	/r/ExRedPill	11/06/17 05:15 AM
5	XRP, I have a dilemma. I grew up in a rather conservative land and even there, there is no such things as unconditional love. It was more of a 'let's keep up appearance so that we won't lose face and dishonor thy family' thing. (Albeit from both sides.) This usually ended up with the story of abused and long-suffering wives, or husbands. I don't think you want to or even can or should love someone unconditionally, because it has tendency to breed resentment when she does not return the gestures. And when you start to …	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/17 05:55 AM
7	Anyone here no longer browse TRP/Manosphere but still hold the same beliefs? I used to have a folder appropriately titled "pics of dead women" Rocking it Ed Gein style ey? Next step, exhume dead bodies and make some sweet nipples belts.	/r/ExRedPill	29/05/17 06:44 PM
1	To all of you "ex-redpillers" define what the Red Pill meant to you. I have a 'similar but not quite the same' struggle more or less. I grew up among the most fanatical muslim community till I was 7 years old and then even after moving away, I was still raised very traditionally. In a way that I can be whatever I want to be but being a mother is most important. Also how to be a good first, second, third or fourth wife. After moving to the West, I was suddenly being expected to shed all of the traditionalness. As if something like that will be as easy as changing …	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/17 05:38 PM
3	To all of you "ex-redpillers" define what the Red Pill meant to you. the masculine sexual schedule is shamed upon (spreading our seed to as many eggs as we can). They are called studs. People love studs. I am going to agree to some of what you have written above. But I am still thinking that all of those ideas, you can learn them without even going RP. There are two guys I know in my life who are the shining example of being RP/alphas if you want to call them that, without even ever hearing about TRP or manosphere. One is a guy who quit his lucrative job as a fiv…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/17 03:52 PM
6	To all of you "ex-redpillers" define what the Red Pill meant to you. To make the relationship work both of you have to communicate your wants and needs and if your partner feels like commiting to the relationship then the he/she will change and shape their behavior accordingly. Do you (or anyone) really need TRP to understand this simple concept on how to maintain a relationship with another human being though? It is as if saying that fire is hot.	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/17 08:59 AM
9	For ex-redpillers; I have a few questions for you? Divorce and cohabitation laws are different from one place to another. You know that. Marriage is also not the end goal for every relationship. At this point, I think you seem to tell yourself things to make yourself feel better in your choices. It is alright to do that, other people are doing that too. "Why should I go to college? It does not guarantee secure employment and big salary anyway.", " why should I go to the dentist? They are there to sell expensive treatments anyway.", "why should I…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/17 11:02 AM
2	For ex-redpillers; I have a few questions for you? That percentage seems always to be changing everytime. Some said 45%, some said 50%, some said 70%, etc. Some said it is for first marriage, others said it is for second marriage. It will always be bad if you want to focus on the doom and gloom. I agree that honesty breeds vulnerability, but only you can decide whether it will screw you over the head if someone is lying to you or taking advantage of that. When I was younger, I let it get to me if someone betrayed me (it was because I would give …	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/17 06:36 AM
20	For ex-redpillers; I have a few questions for you? It is sad that you think women (or men) like Jaggedyellowpill's wife is rare. For fuck's sake...what kind of men and women are you sourrounding yourself with that you get this kind of world view? Just like that poster above you said, try to be around people who are honest with their intention (a lot of them out there) and you will see a nicer world.	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/17 02:40 PM
11	The Redpill led me to Islam It is so strange reading this. My family are from SEA and we used to live in a Islamic community that was quite fanatical. Talks about killing Israeli jews were often, despite none of us ever met or known a jew. Stray dogs got chased away and neighbors with different religions got ostracized. The straw that broke he camel's back was when our imam asking for my hand in marriage for his 15 years old son...I was around 6 or 7 (granted first night will happen after first period...but still!). My par…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/17 08:36 PM
2	The Daily Beast Published A Second Article about Robert Fisher, The Creator Of The Red Pill After Exposing Him As A Politician From New Hampshire. We do not talk anymore...and to be honest, it was not only because of the TRP thing. He has changed a lot since US presidential election. I heard too much toxic ideology from him, short of putting refugees and illegals into a big boat and just sink it. It makes me very uncomfortable, because I am also an immigrant (legal, but still). On the other hand, I am also pro free speech and free thoughts and I do not want to tell him what is right or wrong.	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/17 08:29 PM
3	The Daily Beast Published A Second Article about Robert Fisher, The Creator Of The Red Pill After Exposing Him As A Politician From New Hampshire. Time to see if he is as tough as his internet tough guy persona. You are a real cool bean, u/RedPillDetox. I have read some of your posts and they are always well thought. One of the reasons I visit this sub is that I used to be quite close (not in romantic sense) with a guy who openly and strongly hold RP beliefs. I am a traditional woman so some of those thoughts unfortunately or fortunately did not clash. There was a time when he broke frame (something that will happen eventually imo. Humans …	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/17 02:28 PM
3	Can't seem to think women are equal I wrote this few threads back: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/65ka27/anyone_from_rredpillwomen_here/dgb98s5/ Take that what you will but I can tell you one thing. People here are trying their best to help you. You are an adult man. Make your choices to listen to them or not. Choose your own way well. Here is to add: My boyfriend is severelly physically disabled. He was bullied badly growing up. He has every reason to be a bitter adult. But he does not, why? Because his parents raise…	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/17 03:17 PM
6	What is your opinion on Woman's Love Then I really don't know what to say man. Because you do actually know that these women exist. If you read a bit of my post history, you'd read how often I shared about how much I love and admire my BF. He is severely physically disabled but leading a very happy life. He has never, not once, been cheated on by his ex-GFs. Many will say that he is just lucky, but I'd say it is really his personality. He is very comfortable in his own skin. His happiness level are also mainly the same. Whether he …	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/17 06:40 PM
8	What is your opinion on Woman's Love It makes me wonder how were you raised if you at some point in your life managed to somehow convinced yourself that women who love their SOs and faithful to them are so rare that they are unicorns. Like wtf man? That is the norm in my life. The women and men are faithful to each other. Are you living in real life Ashley Madison town or something? Billions of men and women are staying in a relationship where not only they love their partners just as the way they are but also are still together af…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/17 06:17 PM
2	Convince me to not go down the path of TRP I cannot and do not want to convince you to do anything. It has to be your own choice. So let me tell you about my BF instead. He is crippled. He is short. He used to be badly bullied at school but he always fought back twice as hard. He has also...slept with many gorgeous women. He had many fulfilling relationships. He has a lot of loyal friends who love him. He has never been cheated on by any of his former GFs. He partied hard and the world is really his oyster. He is a very happy, charitable…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/17 04:15 PM
7	Realised Redpillers and MGTOW defame women as self-defense and way to control them. MGTOW got awkward when the 'Going Their Own Way' turned out to be bitching all days about women on reddit. There are millions of true MGTOW who enjoy their lives and not dating/marrying, but concentrating on their own hobbies, jobs and happiness. You won't find these men wasting time on reddit though, because they have no time for that and trully satisfied with their own lives.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/17 10:11 AM
7	Do men have emotions like women have emotions? They have. Even in a culture where stoicism is encouraged, they have emotion. In my homeland, men don't cry even if people they love very much died. My dad did not cry when my grandpa died and they had a great relationship as not only parent and child but also buddies. I know my dad was in a lot of pain, but culture dictates that he does not express it. I feel bad for him. I am happy that my SO comes from a different culture than mine (he is from the West) and he is free to show both his strengt…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/17 10:06 AM
17	Anyone from r/redpillwomen here? If I am being very honest with myself, perhaps I am still a bit RPW-ish. Though I'd rather call myself traditionalist. I was raised in South East Asia. No hook up culture and I lost my virginity after marriage at the age of 19. I took traditional role of nurturing and being a quiet, submissive wife. I was happy with my life and my family...until my ex-husband abused the absolute trust and love I gave him. Absolute power corrupts absolutely. In the end, he admitted that he just wanted to see how …	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/17 10:13 PM
12	To what extent is it a woman's fault if she falls for a TRP Guy negging her? I think the same can be asked to guys who got seduced to buy things for girls. Such as guys who paid for dinner and getting ghosted after. Can we assign blame to these guys who got charmed and get nothing in return after investing time and money on the girl? I am not sure. On one hand, it is the guy's own decision to spend money on her, also on th same side, the girl's own decision to fall for some negging guy. Can blame their naivety, can blame their stupidity, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/17 08:45 AM