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| 24 | BOYCOTT DATING APPS! (TRIGGER WARNING: R*pe, violence) Ladies, you are not a product to be consumed or a tool to be used and discarded by men. Especially not men like this. Protect yourselves by removing yourself from the equation.I’ve deleted my dating apps after my final trolling last night, and it feels like a breath of fresh air. Instead of wondering if I put too much in my bio, I don’t even care now. With my trolling profile, there were no actual pictures of me, and I listed I was female with several useless facts on my profile. 🤯 Men still swiped and I honestly can’t find a reason for them to do so. I could have been a catfish and they didn’t care. 🤔 Enough about those men. If I never met them outside of dating apps… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI’m posing as a Magic 8 Ball on a dating app and whenever they ask for nudes or real life pictures, I send them a link to the image of a Magic 8 Ball😂 I also answer with standard Magic 8 Ball answers. 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:21 AM |
| 24 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI’m trolling on the last app before I delete it. Messing with men is horrifically easy when they let their pee pee lead them. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsI’ve been wondering if I’m on the spectrum and hearing these ladies speak about their experiences has helped many things click for me. I really like the analogy (?) that one of the special guest ladies made. That they feel like a Mac in a world of PCs. That really resonated with me. I’m effective at many things and I’m lacking in some areas. I liked how she mentioned FDS is structured (and holy heck I’ve needed something like FDS for years) and how one of them mentioned having clear cut boundari… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 61 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Throw him back into the garbage where he belongs. There’s no reason for any man to go into a woman’s phone and send himself her nudes. That’s a gross breach of trust and there’s no coming back from something like this. This guy is a waste of space. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 10 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.You can feel it. I can feel it in the air. I was about to start humming a song from reading that. Back on topic, I agree wholeheartedly. Enough is enough. Porn isn’t healthy and shouldn’t be normalized under any circumstances. Our children deserve better than growing up thinking it’s acceptable to abuse another human being and be abused because “iT’s sooOoO eMpoWeriNg!” It’s not empowering when all one feels is shame, guilt, and sadness after all is said and done. Those emotions are telling ones… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 15 | This subreddit helped me avoid a LVM. Thank you.Saving this post for future reference and reminders! Your intuition and FDS principles were on point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 241 | I hate everything about thisIn what universe would any self respecting woman want to have a relationship like this? Especially with a guy that looks like a moldy toe? 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 16 | If you ever want a reminder of why you're here, check out ScaryMommy's confessional.I wish I could give more that one hug to the women there. It hurts my heart to see how much they're struggling with. Props to the queen who divorced. She deserves better than a trashbag that chose laziness over his wife's health. I hope she finds a support system that loves her for being her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 30 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021Thank you for this list and your investigations. Please stay safe with your next manosphere reconnaissance. 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 25 | Men are oblivious to how they ruin their families with their porn-soaked sexual greed. Dude asked why his wife appliance broke. Saw this gem in the comments. He spent hours on Tinder, but he had no time for helping his kids with their homework and now he wants he wants HER to "act like an adult".He wants her to act like an adult? Alright. Adults tend to throw things out that clutter their home and cause nothing but trouble. So he should be really happy for her when she drops his worthless self. ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 30 | Settling because you want kidsI've come to the decision that when I get to the point of my life where I can raise a child with their needs being met (financially stable, physically stable, mentally stable), I'd want to look into artificial insemination. A lot of men, if not all men, suck and they only want to bump uglies with you before swanning off and bumping uglies with another person. As such, I'm accepting the fact that it's okay to not have a relationship. I do want children, and the biggest dilemma now is biological o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 17 | What I love about this sub.I’m thankful for FDS, because I always felt like I was hearing only the comments of men on certain topics. I couldn’t discuss without someone playing devil’s advocate, getting upset, or saying I was wrong. I like discussing and debating to understand, especially when we both have facts to back up arguments. I also like that FDS and other factors in my life are helping me find my voice again. Thank you FDS. I’m blessed to have you here in this moment of history. 🤗🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | When you get catfishedI don’t know if I’m taller than my listed height (173cm I’m a tall tree), and the few guys I manage to meet are either around the same height as me, or clearly shorter. Why lie to me? I won’t find you attractive if you lie. 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:29 PM |
| 47 | Smelly scrotesI was standing next to someone a few years ago, a man I had a (stupid) crush on, and a lovely young woman. One of them smelt how skittles taste, and it turns out it was the lady (he went to grab something and it was just me and her for a bit). The guy wasn’t smelling very nice, and my crush on him started to die down after that. I really liked how nice she smelled. It didn’t offend my nose! 😌👃🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 159 | I'm sick of people thinking sex is a need. It's not. It's a want and a privilegeIsn’t a need something that’s needed to survive? Do their genitalia explode from a lack of sex? Do they die because they didn’t have sex? No? Then it’s not a need. It’s not that hard, men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 40 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."I'm saving these pictures to remind myself that not having a relationship doesn't mean there's anything wrong with me. It just means it's hard to find a good man in a sea of fools. I've never heard that before and now I'm happy I did. I wish I was attracted to women. 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 16 | Age of consent.I always thought the age of consent (before 21 then you're considered an adult) was for people in the same age range/same age. Like 16 year olds can have sex with other 16 year olds. Not 16 year olds be coerced and abused by 30+ year olds. It's not okay that people are so depraved that they make it mean something it never did. At least, that's how I see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 13 | How to detach from men you have crushes onThis helps me realize having a romantic relationship while taking college classes will not help me at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 19 | Woman spends THREE YEARS as a FWB, later feels resentful about it. 😔Ladies—we can and must demand more.Thank you for telling me this and I wish you didn’t have to lose your little brother because of a toxic, two faced, walking, talking, trash shaped humanoid. I send you hugs! 😔🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 26 | Woman spends THREE YEARS as a FWB, later feels resentful about it. 😔Ladies—we can and must demand more.Oh gosh. I think I can feel your exhaustion through the internet. I couldn’t be around that without feeling tired. 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Woman spends THREE YEARS as a FWB, later feels resentful about it. 😔Ladies—we can and must demand more.Right?! I don’t understand at all! 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 4 | I just wanna know what about your clammy ass, wobbly arm, mouth breathing do you think is gonna "look cool during sex"?I saw the answer and I felt my food try to come back up. This makes me sad. Why does everything have to be about sex for men? 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍I like the second picture of him. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 10 | Simon NessmanToo late. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 13 | Simon NessmanSame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Freddy Carter 🥰I love his eyes! They’re a very beautiful shade of gray. ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 163 | Woman spends THREE YEARS as a FWB, later feels resentful about it. 😔Ladies—we can and must demand more.Was her ex-best friend stalking her or following her to ego boost herself? Like “I can have sex with any guy you’re interested in because I’m prettier,“ or something stupid like that. Holy balls. Ex best friend is trash, husband is trash, it’s a dumpster fire. He probably only got married because the others ghosted him or knew he was trash. She can do so much better, build herself up and leave the trash where they belong. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 11 | David GiuntoliI would give him a big hug! Then I would leave because I like hugs. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playThank you, queen. I will challenge myself too, you courageous woman! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 20 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playI've started moving away from men who sit close to me when there's other seats available. Recently, some guy was sitting across from me on the train and I made sure not to make eye contact. On the next stop, I acted like I was going to get off and realized it was the wrong stop before sitting somewhere more empty. He didn't follow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 36 | The truth about all your guy friends.This brings a horrifying light to previous guy friends calling me their awkward little sister. I'm scared that they were porn fried when saying that. On the other hand, they never made a move on me. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-InThank you to all ladies that replied to my post! I have some research to do and a routine to make. And I send a thank you in advance to any other queen that gives a suggestion. You all are so wonderful, and I love all of the ideas! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!I love her accent, too! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InHappy Birthday! I hope you're spoiled and loved deeply on your special day. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-InThank you fellow queen! I hope I can get my own routine down. Teeth is fine, I need help with chapped lips even with lip balm. My face, too. I want to watch out for wrinkles. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InI want to say my skin concerns is maintaining how my skin is, and help it look more healthy and glowing. 😊 I have some Google searching to do! Thank you, Amarantos! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 45 | Weekly FDS Check-InSo I'm doing my best to level up, I'm enrolling in classes for the fall semester, I'm setting appointments, meeting goals, and reminding myself how much I deserve someone's full attention, and I'm loving myself day by day. It's a little hard to keep busy at times, and I don't want to fall into old habits of avoiding. As such, I'm wondering how you ladies set a skincare routine? I'm wanting to set that and a haircare routine for myself, so I can feel more satisfied with my hair and skin. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 11 | How to stop women from seeing you as competition and more as leader/respectable friend?This is very prevalent for me among African American women. I don’t want those misogynistic, self-hating scrotes who see nothing wrong with treating their girl as a second option. I want to foster a sense of community with other women of color, where they don’t ignore me or treat me with hostility for seeing me as a threat. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 4 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️I traveled from the upper Midwest to the south for a NVX. I paid for everything when we were together, and he didn’t get a job until after we broke up. He also verbally and emotionally abused me and blamed me for things other people were doing, because he didn’t have the nuts to stand up to them. The dealbreaker was when he threaten to snap my neck for teasing him. I’m glad that my mom helped me come home. 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I send your past and present self big hugs if you need it. Vomit on any man who dares to trifle with you like this again! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 23 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I hope you threw up all over that repugnant scrote. I'm so sorry that you had someone that tried to take advantage of your vulnerability. I hope you're doing better now, queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 20 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringNoooo! 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 19 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?It’s a leech! Peel it off, salt it, and burn it! She deserves to have peace of mind and not keep this guy around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 50 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateI got ghosted for not sending nudes. I’m glad that the trash takes itself out. 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.Gross! It’s not your house! Go back to you nasty hovel, scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:54 PM |
| 58 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringCan’t I just be a happy tree and sway in the breeze?! Or will they sexualize that too? 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 10 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.If I could upvote you a million times I would. That’s so disrespectful! And gross. Go pee in a urinal, scrote. You’ll find your ‘normal’ there. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?They said it, not you. 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 9 | I said what I said.DDLG What, why. You know, I think I could have lived my life not knowing that was a thing. That is disgusting and sounds verging on incest, even if people aren't related. Ugh. This makes me want to projectile vomit like the exorcist! 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 69 | I said what I said.Gimme Vanilla. I don't want to be stuck in a bear trap, or spat on in order to get an orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatsI hear you there. It really is sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatsThis is one of my deal breakers. I don’t trust a man to have or be around any female friends. Especially if the friend is a Pick Me, because she can have him if I was fooled into something like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itNooooo! Now I'm remembering the pain! I'm so sorry you have to endure pain until it heals! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 15 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itSame! I learned it as a teen too. I'm sorry it happened to you too! And heck yes! I'm on the way to being mature enough to love my body as it is, no more shaving if I don't want it and if I do, it's for me. And I do want to shave my pits during the Summer months, because I sweat so much in the heat. 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 49 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itI could never shave my area and the last time I tried, I nicked my labia. I would recommend to never do that, ever. The only thing I do now is trim the hair when it I want it to look neat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 81 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManosphereAny perpetrators of sexual assault should get life in prison. Especially the ones who prey on children, that's a special kind of disgusting that can't be tolerated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 21 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upYes, especially that last paragraph. YoUnG, fERtiLe, fIt, fRienDly, atTrActIve, adventurous in the bedroom, FLesHLighT. How about we cut out the filler and boil down to the point. You want barely legal child to mold to your standards, and when you've used her to the point that she's wizened up to your BS, you'll go find another one. And they don't seem to realize that women can still have healthy children past 30. It's their decayed sperm they need to worry about. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting.Ditto! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡This makes me think of that, "If Google Was a Guy" video with the lady who believed that vaccines were harmful. 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 25 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.What on Earth?! Why are the blaming the teen for the actions of the adult who. Should. Know. Better. Those last few bullets boil my blood of course they'll be scrutinized as a child molester! They are a child molester and a sicko! That post has 2.3k upvotes?! Someone please tell me there's a light at the end of this tunnel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 9 | Never, ever start a business with an emotionally immature LVM.Oh my gosh, the excuses! COVID has been hard on Dan Dan is not thinking clearly Dan's mom died last year Dan's dad died when he was a child 50 years ago Dan is a good person Dan has bills to pay COVID has been hard on many people! That doesn't give him a free pass to obstuct your business! He's not thinking clearly? Nooooo. I can understand the mother's passing, I wish no one would have to experience pain like that. Still not a free pass for utterly crappy customer service, and obstructing sales… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Some of y’all are still pick-me’s, you just hide it betterI'm glad you posted this because I had something happen last night. I matched with a guy on a dating app and he said my profile picture was cute. I felt myself smiling and reaching to respond. I stopped and reminded myself that male attention is abundant and low value. So I took a breath, mulled it over, looked over his profile some more, and unmatched. I felt really proud of myself for taking a step back. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 38 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterI'm a black woman and I think I can sincerely say that I hate this picture and what it represents. I hate looking at it, I hate how it's dehumanizing black women, I hate the blatant colorism, I hate how the women are in boxes like dolls at a store, I hate the "New", "Used", and "Clearance" tags. There's so much I hate about this picture, especially because it exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 17 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮I wish she knew that she's not a horrible person. She's not being shallow, at least to me she isn't. To me, physical attraction helps women learn a lot about a man; learn about a potential mate. It can help tell a woman if he actually puts in the effort of taking care of himself, and if he can maintain basic hygiene for himself. The fact that he let himself go tells me he's unmotivated to take care of himself, or even a slob. Who would want that? Why would a self respecting woman want to take ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 67 | You can't have it both ways. They've always needed us more than we need them. Never forget it."Nayernia says the technique could enable women to have a biological child with two mothers and no father. Their offspring would always be daughters, though, because sperm made from a female cell would always carry an X instead of a Y chromosome. Weirder still, a woman could conceivably use sperm made from her bone marrow to inseminate her own eggs." You mean I will have the choice to reproduce asexually? 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Loss of Identity and MarriageThis woman gave me this look and said 'I don't discuss politics with my children.' and marched away with her nose in the air and I just sort of... stared at her, shocked. But you're not her child...? Did-- did I miss something? 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 5 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂The paragraphs is trying to distract you with icing, while instead of chocolate, a turd is waiting. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThis is me, too! For the most part. There was this creepy guy at the bus stop who disregarded my personal space and stood right in front of me until I looked up. I think I have a resting b!tch face, cause he skedaddled away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:12 PM |
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