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Yeah, this is pretty much true. Not that you can’t find love when you’re out of shape. I did. But life is just a whole lot easier if you’re in shape.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 06:37 PM
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I got married after 6 months of meeting my husband. We’ve been married for years now and we have a kid. It’s a good sign as long as you you can see and feel that the connection and compatibility is 100% truly there. It’s pretty easy to tell when it’s just working vs when you’re seeing someone love bomb you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 09:01 AM
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You are on a high horse. How does it feel up there?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/25 03:33 PM
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No one is jealous, maybe I shouldn’t have been so harsh. But keeping finances separate is also something that seems more important if finances are tight. I don’t quite understand getting married, being well off, and not completely sharing finances.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/25 03:10 AM
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Just manage it together - and talk to each other. Everything you both make is yours as a couple now. :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 06:30 PM
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Oh Jesus I just read your incomes, why are you even worrying? Just do a joint account and don’t be dumb with your money? Honestly why is this even a discussion- you’re both well off separately.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 07:09 AM
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Joint account! All purchases over $5-$20 are discussed. Most of the time he makes more than I do, but sometimes I become the breadwinner for a bit (if he’s making a career transition or travelling or something).
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 07:07 AM
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But it seems like she is being coy about the seriousness that she wants for fear of losing him. The thing is she might lose him, but if she does, he wasn’t a great guy for her anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 05:08 PM
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I haven’t said to overshare or call too much. Articulating clearly what you want is very different than being psycho clingy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 04:49 AM
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Also three sentences isn’t too wordy. Plus she needs to able to walk away of it isn’t working. He will either jump at her or not. Either way it’s 100% ok.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 12:11 AM
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100% disagree. It’s about clearly articulating what you want while also not being psycho or clingy. Men don’t know how to decipher actions. They don’t get nuance. You have to be almost autistic in communicating to them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 12:09 AM
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The strategy is to use words to tell him you are serious and watch him step up in commitment. It’s sex that should be slow.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/25 08:20 AM
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Have you told him “I want to be in a relationship with you. I want to be married in the next __ years. I want these things with you.” Otherwise he might just think you’re not serious.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/25 08:17 AM
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Tell him, silly! Don’t play games.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/25 07:49 AM
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Also the idea of a women putting all of her happiness on her child screams of narcissism to me. I want my baby to be healthy and happy and feel loved. And I’m so excited for them to be a part of my life. But I’m not going to put the pressure of them being the one thing in my life to ever go right. That’s not fair to any child. A child deserves to have parents who showcase healthy and balanced behaviours and attachments.
/r/RedPillWives13/12/22 01:46 AM
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Sure, but why do they get themselves in that situation? I also don’t think that one can claim to be a mother while only a few weeks pregnant. I am pregnant and I’m not yet a mother. Not really. I mostly feel like I have the flu or I’ve caught some sort of parasite. 😂 I feel like an overly emotional reaction to being a few weeks pregnant is a bit neurotic in most cases.
/r/RedPillWives13/12/22 01:43 AM
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I met my soul mate husband at 31 and we were married within 6 months of meeting, and now I’m pregnant (I’ll be giving birth right around the 2 year mark after meeting him). It’s so great that you didn’t have children! And you didn’t even get married. Being engaged means nothing imho. It sounds like you’re in great shape to reassess what you want and how to find it. You’re way, way wiser now - so you’ll be able to much more easily notice red and green flags that new partners exhibit. It sounds li…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 01:39 AM
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Agreeed.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/22 04:20 AM
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This automated post is getting very old and isn’t engaging.
/r/RedPillWives29/11/22 05:22 PM
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You’ve known him for 3 years and you hardly seem to be in a relationship. You definitely don’t seem on the road to marriage. I would pay attention to your mothers advice, unless you really don’t think you can do any better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 04:05 PM
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How do you see yourself using your time/contributing?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 12:24 AM
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I’d leave. That’s way too lonely.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 07:56 PM
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Aww, okay I will focus on letting him know the many ways he’s the best for me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 01:37 AM
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Yeah, I totally agree with you. I should focus on how I feel about him. He’s super stable (one of the many things I love about him) he just has a little bit of depression that he’s aware of and working on. I find a lot of highly intelligent people deal with bouts of depression though.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 01:34 AM
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I watched the whole series and the ladies are so frustrating! They really don’t seem to be looking for a partner or husband. They’re looking for a boyfriend at best and a trophy at worst. I think they need lessons in how to be modest, and patient, and to look beyond the surface of potential matches. They also need to be excited to change and grow as a person once they meet their match. They were all together much too single person minded and stubborn.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 09:59 PM
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I love being married! That’s it. 🙂
/r/RedPillWives29/05/22 01:52 AM
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Do not repair. Leave, divorce, never look back. You are so young. This is not love. THIS IS NOT LOVE, even in the moments it seems like it is. He is not a good person and does NOT love you. You can find someone who does LOVE you fully and is a safe and supportive partner. You did not make him do this. It is not repairable.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/21 09:46 PM
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