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| – | Do you think men need a stronger sense of collective male identity to collectively advocate for male interests, especially as a counterweight to female interests?I think there is a need for women to have a collective voice, because too often they might not feel bold enough to stand up for themselves. Having such an organized voice like feminism is something that I think is needed. However like so much of your examples of what women in feminism have supported and encouraged, it shows that there's something wrong there too. In the same way, I also think having a collective voice for men on the issues we face would be great. But that doesn't mean it won't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:36 AM |
| 5 | The goal is to give mens rights activists an easy resource to refute claims about mens rights activism not caring about issue x or women and men in generalRight now there is so much against men standing up for issues that we face. Or to have groups for men by men. The double standard is huge, but that doesn't help when it's pushed down your throat that trying to do anything is sexist against women. That and the issues men face aren't all shared by women. Like child custody cases. I agree it would be nice to have solutions too. But on the face no known options, would you suggest silence and do nothing? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I have a little question about the elusive patriarchy.There's a lot more to it than that. Patriarchy is used as an excuse so much to distance themselves from what men do that us good too. To the point that when a guy want to protect women or be a gentleman and open the door for women (or anyone else) the idea of patriarchy is thrown out there like this is demeaning to women and should be another thing crossed of the list of things society does and values. I mean even good things done are considered bad and patriarchal if women can find ab insult by… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/22 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsIt's not reported as much but I've heard studies saying that women are just as violent as men are in domestic violence type of cases. In fact they might actually me violent more frequently, until the other person finally is violent back. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsHate is the reason for racism too. Sure you want to just says it's ok for groups to sow seeds of hate and prejudice and do nothing about it? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsIndoctrination. At least that's how I see it. In school kids learn about the feminist movements in history class, and how much it's helped women in the past. And for the most part it's exciting to be part of that kind of thing, and to feel like your part of history, even if all that's been done is make a big deal that men are holding doors for women, or that man is in a certain title (like fireman or something similar). Even if there is nothing to actively fight for or stand against, kids are ra… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 11:41 AM |
| 16 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsToxic femininity. There are a few observable types. Both of them are too common among women, and specifically engaged in by women. One of them is toxic femininity pointed towards other women. I've seen it in workplaces more then other places but I'm sure most women know it from a much younger age. To be just horrible and but at eachother with what they say about each other to each other's face if behind their back. The second one is aimed at men, and it is also common. I'll call it basically com… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsHere. It might help if a woman explains it. Though I'd say this is just enough to be an introduction to the subject, it might still help you see something that you seem to be blind about. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/yh957u/the_prim_reaper_how_to_talk_about_mens_mental/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsDo you need a source to know that the sky is blue? That fire burns and to not touch it? That water is wet and the rain will soak you? These things need no source because they are evident by what we see. By our own experience and observations the obvious things need no outside source to repeat what we already know. Likewise a common past time among women has been to hate on men to eachother, and let that bond of womanhood hating men become a public scorn for men. This too is common and not becaus… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 01:41 AM |
| 9 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsThey do turn fairly rabid,bitter, and hateful. The difference is that society accepts them even if they are hateful. Man are just kicked while they are down. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 01:08 AM |
| 16 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsObservations and experience. You practically have to be blind nowadays to not see it. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The Prim Reaper: How to Talk About Men's Mental HealthFair enough. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The Prim Reaper: How to Talk About Men's Mental HealthIf the video gets people to open their eyes, I would say that's very good. Of course you cannot put a "comprehensive guide" in 15 minutes, but those who care will find more resources (including other videos from her channel). I'm sorry if it came off that this wasn't a good thing. My thought is that it's not really telling men anything new (at least not much in my opinion). But is is good as an introduction for women. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The Prim Reaper: How to Talk About Men's Mental HealthI don't like this approach... I don't understand why. Nowadays if a man says anything he's either sexists trying to put women in their place, or they are influenced by patriarchy and as wishy washy invisible culture making them hate women. Women have a cultural voice that now acts like a buffer from ever hearing feedback from men, unless it's in agreement with them. It almost has to come from a woman that women are treating men like crap, or that society treats them like crap. Because otherwise … | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The Prim Reaper: How to Talk About Men's Mental HealthThat's awesome. I'm glad to hear it. I know it's needed. But I have no idea what can be done about it. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 10 | The Prim Reaper: How to Talk About Men's Mental HealthThis might be a better video for women. Because it's not really offering much to guys. At least not in my opinion. Baby steps for women to actually give a crap about men is a women pointing out that they aren't giving a crap. Most people can just sum it up in fewer words and not have to explore it further. But for those who don't even see an issue. This could be an introduction for them. Honestly I don't know. It sounds like saying a lot without saying anything at all. Or at least not any new in… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | After witnessing the childbirth of my new daughter, my thoughts on women have changed...👆 well said | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 4 | After witnessing the childbirth of my new daughter, my thoughts on women have changed...The enemy is not feminism (or whatever name you want to give to the movement that is committed to representing women's interests). The enemy is gender based bulllshit of all varieties, and we need to keep that in mind. I really wish feminism wasn't the enemy, because like you've said it's pretty much the only organized voice for women and women's interests, from other women. But the thing is that too often they are infected with a culture and a position of hating men. (regardless if they acknowl… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | After witnessing the childbirth of my new daughter, my thoughts on women have changed...Glad everyone is doing better. The good news is this is most likely temporary (no lasting effects). Congratulations too. My wife and I tried to have kids several years ago, and we were never successful. Not everyone gets to be a parent. So good luck and congrats. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | After witnessing the childbirth of my new daughter, my thoughts on women have changed...How is their health right now? (Your wife and the baby). | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 5 | What is being a man according to you?The only qualifications for being a man is that you are an adult, and your genes/anatomy are the same as a guy's instead of a girl's. There are a lot of good men out there who have different characteristics or a mix of good characteristics, and they aren't all the same. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 5 | People are more sceptical of sex difference research when findings favour menI don't blame them for being skeptical. Nowadays it seems you can pay for research to come up with the results you are paying for. Expecially when things talk about political things I start to question whether it's reliable or not, or if it's just pudding an agenda or trying to move the population in a forced direction around election time. However what this basically means is that the regular suspension on whether a research study is reliable is now first looked though whether you already agree… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 7 | What's your response to ppl who claim Misandrists don't exist??Never met someone who said this. I imagine I'd correct them on the matter, but it's possible I'd just move on and leave that person be. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Here we go... What are your thoughts?The article looks like another study out to prove a point. I think biased is a good word for it, but I'll also say it was based on opinion pools and those can be tricky in trying to make their points by how they phrase the questions and that the conclusions those questions and answer mean. For instance it says it has pro rape questions. And maybe it does. But in general I'm suspicious with the level of trust to give them. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Help this feminist understand.1) I don't know where feminism went wrong in the first place or any offshoot after that. But right now it's grown from being a movement to basically representing women anywhere and everywhere. A problem there is that if there are any issues with feminism it seems like it's taken super personal to be about criticism women in general. And by that response alone you get the response that men are misogynist for not agreeing with anything and everything that either feminism or women dish out. Srlerat… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | How do I argue with staunch feminists?These are your family members. I get your frustration, but think long and hard if it's worth it. That said, what are you trying to argue against? Political stances that you support? Double standards? Or just angry at feminism in general. I ask be cause the clearer your direction the better. If it's a general angry and against feminism (again I get it, lots of reasons to feel this way), but if it is a general anger towards anything feminists they will think you are against all women. The mose spe… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 02:10 AM |
| 13 | attack misandry not feminism for strategyUntil feminism gives up the keys and stops driving misandry around in feminism's car, fighting both is how I approach it. I don't care about strategy, I'm not here for an cause against women. But I'm not going to stop being honest about the issue. It is knee deep in feminism that it needs to ba addressed within feminism instead of hoping they recognize that you were talking about them when you said misandry instead of feminist. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 2 | feminist tries to justify misandryWish I could tell her this, but who knows, maybe one of the women lurkers around here might read it and try and move away from the toxic side of misandry they are part of (if they are part of it). Never feel proud of the hatred in you. It's not a good thing, it's not for a greater cause. Crap in life has made me bitter towards women also, but it's not something I am proud of as if it's a good thing I second guess women in general because of a few select women in the past. You have to recognize t… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Incels are cluelessJust reading the term in the context it's given. When someone else calls someone an incel (usually see this in the context of online forums), it's not a complimentary term, nor even a neutral term. I understood it as an insult by the context before any understanding of a definition or a self-identification. Context is always how you can tell when something is intended as an insult or not. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Incels are cluelessSeems like language is changing. I don't think I've ever heard of the term incel until a year or two ago. Along with several other terms that seem to be the new generation's random word choices for what's good and what's bad. But now trying to catch up with the vocabulary of a younger generation, I still am not understanding what incel is. Looked it up on multiple occasions, got a definition of it being a person who is celibate but doesn't want to be. Then got several articles that describe it a… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 11:00 AM |
| 17 | Toxic femininity?I think a toxic side exists in how they communicate, and how good they can be at subtle or not so subtle jabs. But they do it so often as a whole that they are also more aware of it when it's done so it can just feed on "I can't believe she said ____," while at the same time saying similar things about the other woman. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior (transcription)I don't need your approval. And I don't support rape. As far as I'm aware you posted in the Sub for men's rights, and I'm a man who disagrees with the idea of sex being used as a form to get what you want. Like an economic trade off. If I comment it's because I have something to say. No one forces you to reply any more then me. If that bugs you, you can stop replying and I'll likely not rely back. It's really that easy. But I am not a creep, and I am not rapey. Keep your slander to yourself, or … | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 12:22 PM |
| 13 | Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior (transcription)Not a creep. Look if you put this here knowing men are going to read it and then call them a creep because they disagree with it, then what is your angle? I don't care if you think I'm a creep or if you use insults as a means to get people to agree with you (or side against the person you don't agree with). Either way side stepping the whole thing to call me a creep (for no reason besides that I said no to the whole idea of sex economics) shows that there is nothing of value to offer. Character … | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior (transcription)Not a creep, and I'm not wrong. Using sex as a way to get what you want is toxic to any relationship. It's fine when you look for who you want to be with to make sure they have everything you want. But after that point, using sex as a bargaining chip is wrong on so many levels. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior (transcription)Yes | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 11:18 AM |
| 9 | Sexual Economics: A Model of Heterosexual Behavior (transcription)Sex is an important aspect in healthy long term relationships. When it's treated as an economic trade off instead of an act of a loving relationship, then the relationship deteriorates. It might not break the relationship, but it does harm it quite a bit. Not just when it's withheld, (though that's bad enough of an issue when either or both people can't let the other person be intimate with them), but it gets worse when the sex economics type of logic gets played into whether or not to stay loya… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | For the love of womenAccountability. That's a good word and focus on. And it takes out a decent amount of the anger and hatred for even mentioning women not being mature, or treating men (or themselves) right. Thanks for the video, I'll try to use that word more, hoping it reaches anyone who normal conversations would have hit a wall with. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Creating a r/twoXchromosomes postJust be careful ok. You are a teenager and trying to come to terms with a lot of issues that are in the world. Adults can be a lot more to handle because we gave experience and time to support our views and undermine other's views. Just think about your own well being and not getting sucked into a potentially toxic sets of conversations that weigh on you after the fact. That said if you do decide to go through with it, as an experiment, It's important to not view it as an experiment. Go there wi… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | I want to tell my Mom that I’m and MRA, but I don’t know how. I feel like I’ll be shunned.If you want to tell her, I think you should go in prepared and with a lot of resources and information. You don't have to share it all, but it helps to have it so she knows more what you mean when you say you want to support men's rights. Then after that it comes down to timing. Telling her when either she is upset or stressed, or you are is going to be a bad conversation. But if you can approach it when both of you are calmer it might help a lot. Then throughout the conversation, do your best t… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 05:20 PM |
| 5 | This is what happens you try to debate on r/askfeministTheir answer is that they don't want to debate. One point said that they realize that men have difficult hardships too, but that's as far as it went. That might be the only way to discuss these matter.instead if debating them, compare notes. Let them know what men face because chances are they have no clue. In the same way I have no clue what women face, I doubt they understand what men face. Of course this would require a different starting post for that discussion, but it might be a way for th… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 3 | What can we do?Some men will grow out of the propaganda against them just like many of us before them. But if we give them a head start before this realization hits and they look at what options are left for them, then they might have more options in general. It doesn't have to be a large group of people starting this. Just enough to help teens get a better set of options and a better grasp of obstacles they will face. If it's done well, it'll spread. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 02:49 PM |
| 8 | What can we do?Not in UK so I don't know if any orginizayions. But if you want to help in a way that will be accepted, you can try to help younger men and teens forge their futures. When people talk about men versus women a lot of the time they get the image of adults, not high schoolers who will start adulthood soon. Help them, and it might be both societally supported and help men in general. It's my opinion that we often give the best we have to offer to our kids and those of the next generation. So with th… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Where does MRa stand in women's rights and equality movement?Mostly agree. However I think we should pay people for their time, regardless of the effort. If the job is valuable enough to need an extra person to do it, then it's valuable enough to make it worth their time to stay there instead of looking for another job that pays all of their bills. More pay for harder jobs, or more skilled jobs that require education and training, but any full-time job should be enough to live off of instead of living at or near the poverty level. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Where does MRa stand in women's rights and equality movement?I still disagree though. Our interests don't make the demands on the economy or on specific markets. We have to try and find jobs we can do and at least not be miserable in. If we can like them that's all the better, but a lot of the time it has to do with who you work with almost as much or more than what you do for a living. But to pay the bills we still need to have that job that noone else was interested in doing so we got hired for it, stuck with it and got better at it through experience. … | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Where does MRa stand in women's rights and equality movement?If a person is worth the hassel of paying them for a job, they they are worth it to pay them enough to live off of it. Even if all they are doing is nothing more complicated than holding a sign to direct traffic while there is construction for 8 hours a day. Bottom line their time is worth being paid enough for them to live off of it. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Where does MRa stand in women's rights and equality movement?I believe that if effort is required to achieve a business outcome, then any effort needs to be paid at the same rates: it's all equally important Though this isn't about men's or women's rights, on this point I disagree. In my opinion the best option (that still might be out of reach) would be for every job to be livable off of it, but higher wages for more important or more training and experience still. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 06:10 AM |
| 7 | Where does MRa stand in women's rights and equality movement?Do we believe that we live in a patriarchy, if yes and if not why? No. As far as I can tell "patriarchy" is too loosely defined and can mean whatever you want it to mean as long as it's telling about men in power or privileging men at the cost of women. No, what we live in is just a society. There are no perfect societies, and women will face similar issues no matter what based on being the mother regardless if there is a dad in the picture or not. Do we believe that we have more problems than w… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Is a large scale society without rape impossible?One think I've heard and come to find as a reliable standard to consider. If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is. I'm just getting the impression that the video gave a good impression by giving the positive highlights, and probably only gave those instead of giving the full picture. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 08:57 AM |
| 6 | Reddit promotes hateI'd give the same advice to FDS. Wish I could give the advise to women as a whole. So they don't get involved in those groups, and the group dies naturally from no one joining them | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 25 | Reddit promotes hateIf you ever want a happy relationship with women, then don't treat them like they are the enemy. A focus on groups like to study their tactics this will only polorize our views against women. Not a healthy focus if you ask me. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Why there are almost no debates between men and feminists?There's nothing for the average non-feminist to gain from having or looking for such a conversation, and even if there was any hope of something good coming from it the potential abuse of power it could lead to (on top of the stress, irritation, and depression that talking to feminists can cause) is just too high a cost for the chance. Too true. And really sad. There are a lot of points in feministic views that hold merit, but they don't want any open discussion if it's not 100% agreement. Those… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 05:30 PM |
| 11 | Why there are almost no debates between men and feminists?I think there's a block on a lot of open discourse between groups of people. But it's really easy to see among women supporting women's issues. The ideas as I've heard them are: -"If you aren't part of the solution, you're part of the problem." Meaning there's no point talking to you, your already wrong. -"if you don't have a ____, then you don't have an opinion, or your opinion doesn't count." From feminists it is usually a body part that is only related to being female. -"you don't understand … | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Feminist argue mutual abuse does not exist, they justified it with this explanation, do you agree? If not how would you debate this?How I would argue it would ask what the point of self defense is. It's to get out of a bad or dangerous situation. But when you stay and both sides still are toxic and abusive to each other, then it is no longer about self defense, but is about harming the other person more. Which is mutual abuse. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 12:11 PM |
| 11 | #vitamingap lolThere's men's vitamins out there too. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 08:44 PM |
| 4 | The Feminist Case For Men’s Rightsand push for real world change instead of blind platitudes about the patriarchy. 👆 This. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 6 | An impassioned understanding of Men's Rights.Both men's rights and women's rights has a spark of anger in them because of certain injustices or harms they face. While the movement should be about equal rights, it's good to acknowledge the rants for what they are. They are part of men's rights as a culture, even if we strive to keep them at bay from being part of the movement or politics. In my opinion the best way to make sure men's rights doesn't turn into hating women culture, just like feminism has done in it's own group, is to make sur… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 11 | The Feminist Case For Men’s RightsHow 'bout we stop trying to fit it into a feminist box, and just say what the issues are that would help both sexes. That way it's not about being pro feminist or not, but us about looking at practical issues and resolving them. If it's an actual issue then stop trying to push it as a feminist thing, because that's getting in the way. If the issues relating to men are different, (many of them are) from what women face as issues, then it's better to focus on those as their own thing instead of tr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Losing hopeTry the best you can. I think every generation faces their own issues. I know older generations faced an economic depression, and just had to do what they could and really live frugally to keep food on the table. Nowadays we still have to strive to get by however we can because the world isn't fair and won't start getting fair any time soon. I don't mean to make light of the situation or how much it's frustrating. But know that you aren't alone. As a generation living in today's world, we are al… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Making Mental Health more ManlyMake it practical, easy to access, and able to get results. Without these things it's not a thing of do things to get better when it's needed, but it's an issue of whether it's actually helping or just bring a giant focus dump. Where people spin their wheels and sound better, but nothing changes for them. Mental health issues are embarrassing. So it's got to be something that's not a hassel on top of whatever else is going on in their lives. Which is why I say practical, easy access, and results… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 09:48 PM |
| -2 | What men's issues should be heard more?Last thought (sorry for multiple posts). But one issue is that men and women actually do communicate differently and see the world differently. Until a few years ago I had no idea how much women see the world as a potential threat and to navigate around it. I doubt a lot of other guys are aware of this either unless they have sisters or daughters. I think it would be very helpful for both men and women to compare notes on what each face. That way, as a man we don't accidently do something that s… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 0 | What men's issues should be heard more?Less about it but more in sitcones and shows. Showing how to deal with frustration and difficulties. Most of the time men are expected to handle it all on their own, or even if they get help, the help is shirt and just enough to puch them back on their feet. I doubt we can change that standard, so let's have more out there showing how men deal with frustrations without breaking down, burning out, or over all shutting down. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 9 | What men's issues should be heard more?More positive stories about men. Right now, expecially in schools it's easy to get the impression that men are evil overloads, or criminal psychopaths. And growing up with that leaves a bad taste, that eventually makes it difficult to either see yourself in a positive light, or to take seriously any of the crap thrown at you for being a man. Fix this by not being against man type of education and stories from childhood on. Have examples of good healthy and supportive or courageous men that are r… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Which men's issues would you like to have more information about?This might have already been covered, but one thing I'd like is more about relationships and interactions with women. Things that are common, good, bad, and ways to make them better in many different places in life. Like in the workplace, in relationships, (expecially long term ones), standing up for yourself, or letting things go, healthy for both men and women and red flags for issues. I know this might be considered common sense, but sometimes it's difficult to deal with a female boss, and tr… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?In order to stand against abortion there needs to be done thing to help the mothers. And now there are states that have made abortion illegal. I know I'm biased on this issue because alI don't agree with abortion, and I think our culture is too casual when it comes to sex. So I'm not looking at the issue as much from the perspective of men being harmed by the law as much as I'm looking at it from the lens that we shouldn't use abortion as a contraceptive. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Shutting men down just increases the angerThis sounds off. I have my own thoughts and criticisms if feminism too, but there is no good in unmerited accusations. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 13 | Shutting men down just increases the angerNarcissism is female in nature. This statement needs more of an explanation. I've met narcissistic women, and I'm sure many have also been harmed by narcissistic men. So why call it female in nature? As far as I can tell there are other factors in play besides being nare it female. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on feminism subreddits?I get that. For me, by the time I'd heard it was about men's rights, I'd already seen how it was about being anti man. I had other reasons to be angry with feminism and in general grew to not trust it. It's years later, and while I still don't trust it, I recognize that it's basically the only organized voice for women. And that sticking up for women is a good thing, (even if it's mixed with things I don't like about it at all).So I don't see it for what it's claimed to be by feminists, and I'm … | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | debateI see. I wish I didn't have to say, "fair enough.". But I think in most cases that's pretty much what they are contributing also. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 12 | bro what is up with all the toxic groups on reddit?If I were to wage a guess, I would have guessed it was something about being anti capitalism instead of a battle between the sexes it for either of the sexes. Or more likely just an unorganized voice to complain about work, but not be for a certain agenda. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | debateAt this point in life, I've decided this is a bad tactic. Better to let them know their faults, then to let them think everyone agrees with them. Silence too often is considered agreement or at least acceptance. The question is how to remain civil and not go to the same level as they are. But the strategy to not engage only lets people get more polarized in their anger, instead of less. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 12:51 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on feminism subreddits?I never expected feminism to be about men's rights, and when feminists repeated show no sign for men's rights I'm not surprised. But they claim to be for equality, do I think at least done think rights for both are important, and many will go along with that notion even if they don't believe it much themselves. That said, as much as I want more support for men, and to have society give a crap for roughly half the population, I think there is a need for feminism still. Right now it's the main voi… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 33 | bro what is up with all the toxic groups on reddit?Anti work is a feminist group? I would not have made that connection by the group name. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 3 | I used to wonder what drove a man to take his own lifeDo you want to talk about it? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?The thing with gender roles is that it's a double standard. With women they are encouraged and praised for stepping out if gender rolls. If a man does the same, usually the best they get is a sad pat on the back and a lot of backlash for not being nan enough | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it.This slogan is one reason I stopped listening to feminism for a while. It basically pointed out that my opinion only matters if I agree with you, and at that point, I realized they don't care about men at all. Looked at other feminist stances and their arguments and realized it was generally still the same. They don't care about you unless you agree with them. Now that was a little while ago, and recently I've rediscovered where feminism has merit. It:s not as much as they'd like, but the parts … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseRights of the woman, rights of the man. Can we at least celebrate at the right to not be ripped apart limb from limb? Because that's how abortions are done. The more you know the more the issue if rights sound barbaric and selfish. We kill unborn children in the most gruesome way, and we don't have a second thought because we've convinced ourselves they aren't human. Or that they just don't count. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | There should be an equivalent to “mansplaining” for womenPatronizing works. And hey look at that, we don't have to invent a whole new word to demean the other sex. 2 points for being better than the mansplaining terminology. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 09:15 AM |
| 14 | Girlfriend tells me she hates men; it hurts me, but what am I supposed to do?Ask a simple question for her. "Am I worth the effort to you?". As much as it hurts to ask this question, it hurts more to find out on your own that you aren't. And it makes the point clearer on how she is treating you. If she says no, then no matter how much you love her, let her go. It will save you a lot of misery. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 4 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?And for those who want to start a family? This doesn't sound like a good outlook for having a stable family household. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Thank you for putting this example as a type of situation to consider. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?My intent was not to be a snipe or anything. Just pointing out what seems like a double standard. I could be naive of the fuller situation, but I don't think so. When it comes to the sexes including things like marriage there is an underlying conversation of the battle of the sexes. Even if it's not an actual conversation it's a cultural battlefield. In that context its very important to not hold double standards. Which is why I mentioned it. The women who expect marriage as a way to alleviate t… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Sounds like a lot of mistrust within those statements too. Just saying. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Would you trust someone who made no statements of commitment in one form or another? Personally I wouldn't. But that deals with bad relationships and learning my lessons. It's a really a healthy thing for people to earn your trust on certain things instead of assuming you are on the same boat regarding those things. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?What about common law? If both of you are in agreement in this then go ahead. But it might be more likely that one of you cheats on the other because there was no formal announcement of commitment to each other. On the other hand if she wants to be married and you love her, then you might get married for her sake. Which isn't a bad thing. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You live by your own convictions,. It if you want a relationship, your going to either need to find someone who agrees with you, (I doubt that will be easy to find), or out of the sake of acknowledging her need for stability and commitment, you'll at least get married in a government office. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Honestly, if I someone I was dating gave a similar explainations, I would question if they really want a relationship with me or if this is a temporary thing. I assume if I tried to explain this to a person I was dating the feeling would be the same. Bottom line there isn't any other recognized status for commitment besides marriage. At least not where I'm at. relationships aren’t something I show off to others. You don't keep them a secret though do you? Because that's a bit of a red flag. Hone… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Because you love each other and want to confirm that love and commitment to each other. A lot of the time unless you are married it's assumed there's no real commitment in the relationship. My marrying both people say they are committed to each other and will strengthen the relationship from a break up, or mixed signals. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 3 | I did not know anything about Men’s Mental Health Month being last month until I googled when it was.In the US, June is also pride month. No surprise which one gets attention instead of both getting recognized. (Nothing against homosexuals, I'm just bitter about how society has treated men as the villian in just about every situation and stereotypes it). | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:26 PM |
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