Rainmaker0102 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Lost interest in chasing women, so I'm slowly trying to improve myself	Lifestyle	Rainmaker0102	/r/seduction	03/08/22 02:28 AM
12	Three seconds is the average judgement time	Inner Game	Rainmaker0102	/r/seduction	24/02/21 11:15 PM
6	Discussion: Game After Covid	Conversation	Rainmaker0102	/r/seduction	17/04/21 11:51 PM
2	The value of familiarity	Conversation	Rainmaker0102	/r/seduction	25/08/21 03:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Every non-club/bar/event approaches seems to be frowned upon? Anywhere there are people there are opportunities for seduction, but it's important to know who you're dealing with as well as what kind of decorum is expected. At college/University, there's often an expectation that you'll meet new people and make new friends, so logically people would be more open. However, you can still run into people that want nothing to do with you. That's just life. You've got a level head about this. Two people will never have a relationship if they're too afraid to bre…	/r/seduction	11/11/24 01:38 PM
70	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example IRL approaches are entirely dependent on population. The odds seem to balance when you're in a smaller town, as there are just less opportunities to meet people. Yeah, you have the grocery store, the gym, etc however those aren't exactly places people are looking for conversation.	/r/seduction	10/11/24 11:59 AM
1	Field report Perfect! Talk about sports and stuff, then when you get to know her better you can ask if she ever needs a workout partner.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 03:40 AM
1	How to approach men (or women) in "unusual" environments What I notice a lot is when there's a distinction between her being friendly and being flirty. Like not mean, but like sweet. And also if you make time to be together that's also good.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 03:38 AM
1	Field report It solely depends on the context you know this person. From my experience I meet girls they're usually on Tinder or on my college campus. From there you can ask baseline questions and expand upon them. Ex: "Hey, what's your major? I see you around the engineering building a lot." Ex: "Hey has anyone said your rabbit looks like the killer rabbit from Monty Python?" I like to keep it fun and light, because you want to get to know her a little bit more before you get into deep stuff. Generally divi…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 03:36 AM
2	[18m] I don't take opportunities but try to reach the unachievable instead Keep an open mind and learn from your experiences. Fix what's broken and don't what's not.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 03:33 AM
1	Field report Making conversations interesting is something I'm working on too, so I can give you what advice I have so far. Often I try to strike a balance between what I genuinely want to talk about and what the other person might actually want to talk about, because people have many different interests it's important to find a couple to start with and build off that. Sometimes I'll be talking to someone and a really interesting question pops in like "Hey, I see your tinder picture was at a beach, where was…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 03:28 AM
1	[deleted by user] I can relate to your position, however I'm not a virgin, so your mileage may vary. A lot of other people have said it's mental and they're pretty right. Have an idea of what you want to do and communicate that. Don't be afraid to try things, but also make sure communication is a priority. Last thing you want is someone to get hurt, so make sure there's communication on both sides so that you both know what's going on. As to attracting them, that's another story. Only because there's literally a …	/r/seduction	02/02/22 01:09 AM
1	How introverts flirt? As someone who is borderline extrovert/introvert I feel I can share my experience here. I'm generally awkward af, and some people find it funny, others not. That's not my main point, but a preface. What I usually do is make banter from conversation. A good imagination serves you well here. Just have fun with it.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 10:52 PM
69	Can I ask for casual sex? "Know the rule, don't ask for sex, ask for consent"	/r/seduction	06/11/21 04:43 PM
10	You like them, they don't like you, they like you, you don't like them. I disagree, I can be attracted to "less attractive" girls and yet they aren't attracted to me in the long run. I think that this is more of a mindset issue	/r/seduction	11/09/21 03:53 PM
2	Fellas, NEVER send nudes I prefer Tricky Dick, but Dick Cheney is a solid pick nevertheless	/r/seduction	01/06/21 09:02 PM
2	Discussion: Game After Covid Sorry, I should've made it clearer. Covid being a more manageable disease, like most childhood diseases such as Measles, Mumps, Chickenpox, the Flu.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 12:10 AM
2	Well... today I cold approached.... If it's a gym you regularly go to, keep talking to her though. Even if it's one word a day	/r/seduction	03/03/21 05:51 PM
13	Well... today I cold approached.... Failures are lessons. You could've portrayed yourself better and been more engaging with her. Instead of going right for introductions, ask her about herself. "What's on your workout today?" Stuff like that. It's important to note that even people in a relationship can have friends, who later get more involved when she moves on. Be more fun and she'll dig it. Good job talking to the 10 though, I can understand how nerve wracking that can be.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 01:39 PM
1	Alpha male MINDSET One thing that is important to know about number 6 is that we as people have a hard time coming up with a response on the spot especially a witty one. That's why Say This Not That is a book, granted it's more about stressful life situations, but regardless it emphasizes the point that people can suck at responding well to a conversation without preparation. That's why it's important to have something like an opener, something where you can prepare for every outcome of an opener, and not leave he…	/r/seduction	27/02/21 01:40 PM
3	Three seconds is the average judgement time I forgot to mention that! Yeah it's also a good mechanism for fighting approach anxiety. The thing about the three second rule is that first impressions are important in a short term interaction, and so by initiating within three seconds with something interesting, you can get ahead	/r/seduction	25/02/21 05:04 AM
2	If a girl looks at you do look away too quickly just because you're shy This reminds me about a topic I've seen come up quite a few times in "The Game" where in three seconds a girl decides whether or not she wants to kiss you, chat with you, or flag you as a creep.	/r/seduction	24/02/21 01:49 AM
2	19 What do I need to improve Hey it's all good, Goodwill is a chain of thrift shops in the States. They're known for having paperback books for 0.99¢, so that's why I made the recommendation. There's a lot of book recommendations on this sub and r/askseddit if you look hard enough in the comments, so start your search there. Good luck Edit: changed r/Seduction to r/askseddit	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:31 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve One thing I've done is buy a couple dating/self-help books from my local Goodwill, its nice to have those to refer to. Reading them gives you the knowledge, but the real help is whenever you're feeling down, read it again and suddenly a coach is speaking to you. I recommend goodwill because I've found Dummies Dating and Idiot's guide dating for 99¢.	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:58 AM
2	When does seduction turn into simping How do I reconnect then with myself and my sexual nature?	/r/seduction	12/09/20 10:25 AM
1	When does seduction turn into simping See, I do make small talk with people. Like legit can say the same things, but when I'm on snap girls are less interested in what I have to say	/r/seduction	12/09/20 03:43 AM
3	When does seduction turn into simping I think my problem is that I'm weird and don't know how to not be weird (either that or I'm boring) like I can't hold a convo in snap with a girl to save my life!	/r/seduction	12/09/20 03:31 AM
1	If you haven't done anything sexual or romantic with her, refusing to be friends with a girl who friendzones you is incredibly immature Honestly for me I can see both sides. On one hand, you have a female friend that you can talk to, and if your life doesn't entirely revolve around PUA, then having just female friends isn't a bad thing at all. Especially if she still brings value into your life. Ex: There's a chick in my calc class that I've got eyes on. After a while of talking, if she ultimately says we should just be friends, I'd be cool with that and still try to talk to her because she is really good at calc. On the other h…	/r/seduction	01/09/20 09:12 PM
3	What does ‘flirting’ actually mean? How I see flirting is just enjoying the other person's company and not being afraid to show it. For example, I was talking to a coworker at one time, and every day I'd come in and nudge her on the shoulder, say hi, talk to her, just little things that built up over time. The important thing here is to show it, but not over-do it. The whole idea behind a "flirtationship" is that you and the other person aren't in too deep, but there's definitely a connection, and you both aren't afraid to show it…	/r/seduction	01/09/20 09:02 PM