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| 6 | When did you start to bloom?most college guys aren't getting laid the way you think they are. maybe only about 15-20% of guys are living that lifestyle you imagine, and most of them are kinda rapey. read through these comments. most of these guys didn't start blooming till their mid 20s. you're 19. you're fine | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Work with affirmationsI think the best positive self-talk actively combats the negative self-talk that you use on yourself. AKA, make it personal. Let's say I'm a very socially anxious person and I, idk, I grew up in an environment where people were very explosive. I might be super afraid to talk to strangers bc I think they're gonna be dicks or women are gonna publicly humiliate me or some shit. Instead of framing it as such, I can instead say to myself "People aren't that bad and I'm gonna meet someone new today, a… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funYour definition of progress is x amount of lays in a month? I feel bad for you. There's more to life than getting laid, and I'm saying this on a forum for getting laid. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractiveSpeak for yourself. Some of us want to make our partner's lives better, not just get our dicks wet. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with sexual depressionHow good are you financially and where do you live? | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Good books to read?If you enjoy prose, The Alabaster Girl. Not seduction specific, but The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius I couldn't finish the 3% man. I thought it was trash. Models is the best tho | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Get over approach anxiety with hotter girlsrating girls on a number scale always has and always will be dumb as fuck | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Good adviceThanks, Warren | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 10:00 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First F-close With a New MoveI lost 35 pounds at one point. the biggest difference between me at 200 and me at 235 is that everyone was nicer to me. From friends and family to coworkers and classmates and strangers alike. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 06:21 AM |
| -1 | Joe Rogan | Are Alpha Males and Beta Males Real? w/Adam ConoverThis is exactly why I hate Rogan. I'm sure he has good intentions but often he ends up giving his platform to the wrong people. And his platform is incredibly wide-reaching. Watch one of his videos and watch your entire youtube recommended section change. Hell, if Joe Rogan put M. Night Shamalyn on his podcast for 45 minutes he could probably convince him he's been dead this entire time. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Best PUA books for absolute beginners?Models by Mark Manson is literally all you need. The Game by Neil Strauss is fine if you don't take it too seriously as it hasn't aged too well. I tried reading the 3% man and I thought it was absolute garbage. My therapist also recommended to me "The Man's Guide to Women". It was written by 2 PhDs apparently, but I have not given it a read yet. A lot of pick up/self help books have a lot of bullshit to sift through. The best ones are the ones that have the least. Models is that book. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 04:44 AM |
| 314 | Tinder in Asian countries VS europeare you a white guy? Because in SE Asia as a white dude you can pretty much act like a sociopath and get away with everything. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | If you’re bad with women, don’t feel bad. Most of us men are until we put in the hours of research and experimentation. Here’s where to put your efforts.There are more people on the planet, we are more connected now than ever due to technology, and gender roles are less fluid so now a lot of people aren't sure how the dating process works. There's no one answer. It's a combination of a lot of things. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 06:32 AM |
| 2 | How to stop holding your personality back when talking to girls?Blasphemy! | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Recommend us some good books on seduction, which will help us pick up womenModels by Mark Manson. Easily. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do i stop seeking approval stop being a doormat nice guy? And take action???Read models first. It's easy to get a ton of literature and get bogged down with all of them. Start with Models. Maybe re-read it if you need to. Internalize the things you feel resonate with you in that book. One step at a time. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do i stop seeking approval stop being a doormat nice guy? And take action???Not OP but yes it is. Been reading through the comments in this thread. If there's any book you read first, it's gotta be Models. From then, you can decide if The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck is also worth a read. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Wow a 9-5 life is hardif you live in a big city, game on weeknights. that way you won't be spending the weekends at dive bars competing with every other testosterone-driven dude for sex. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Would it be messed up to ask someone on a date if you only want to be FWBfriends with benefits | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?palm reading, astrology, things like the cube test. good not only for seduction but group events and parties in general | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Let's be Honest Here About VirginityDo you mind further elaborating on how the combination of an overprotective mother/absent father molded you into the "nice guy"? Also worth mentioning that I know 2 of my guy friends that lost their V-cards to escorts. One in the US and one in Europe. Obviously you don't want to normalize seeing escorts as it could mess up your mental reward system (equating sex as something that can be bought or something that needs to be earned) but it's really not that big a deal. If you wanna do it then go f… | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 12:59 AM |
| 5 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I understand where you are coming from but I feel we may be referencing 2 different things. I feel you are correct in the case of the OP and his situation where those women were just using blanket statements. At the same time when I apply this way of thinking to myself I feel it is not correct. I find all races of women attractive, but do find myself having a preference at the same time. And that is ok. There's a strong difference between "Hey, I date all races but I prefer x" and "I don't date … | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.You'd be surprised at how overtly racist East Asians can be, esp those that have not integrated with other cultures/ethnicities They're not even taught to be lowkey about it One of my friends was explicitly turned down from a rental property because his roommate would've been a Jamaican man and the Chinese landlord was visibly uncomfortable with the idea of renting to a non-Chinese person, let alone a black man I have Chinese friends and non-Asian friends who have spent significant amounts of ti… | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 07:05 PM |
| 6 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Feel free to disagree + debate, but I actually believe unattraction to certain races is a symptom of racially biased subconscious beliefs. Very rarely in most segments of society do you hear girls say they don't date white dudes, But for example, guys in general, if they were to ever say they aren't attracted to a certain race, would say they aren't attracted to black girls I think if we weren't subconsciously taught that there were differences in race + how we perceive people of different races… | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 07:01 PM |
| 4 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Due to societal perceptions, some people have it harder than others tho in the dating world when attempting to date interracially As a brown dude myself I bet more girls would not think twice about this sort of thing if I was white, then again I am much less likely to be fetishized as that is the "norm" if you will. | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 06:58 PM |
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