RainyNightDub Archive

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3	Promiscuity is unfilling for both genders People are at different stages, in different spaces. Casual sex can be incredibly healthy. I am recently divorced, finding my feet emotionally, financially. I have my kids half the week. I adjusting to life after a marriage. The healthiest thing for me is to look after myself, rebuild my life, and for that I need space and time - and not have to navigate demanding intimate relationships while i do that. But do I want to live like a monk? No, I damn well don't - so I engage in casual sex and I am…	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/22 10:34 PM
2	'It's a slippery slope': How young men fall into online radicalization \| Reid Brown says YouTube started showing him problematic content when he was 13 it's terrifying, tbh. give me the old "MSM" anyday	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/22 01:31 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory But when all is said, it's not unusual to make disastorous relationships choices, especially when young. The guy has opened himself up here, and he should take some credit for that. I think perhaps OP the message is to take responsibility, learn from it, and try not to make teh same mistakes again. You sound like you're roughly on the right road. Good luck.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 09:19 AM
5	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory A real man of God would not blame grifters online for their mistreatment of another. It was you who got sucked into the bullshit, and it was you who decided it was advice worth following and it was you who totally and utterly mind fucked your girlfriend. Well done for posting as it shows you have made a small step to actually realise that something terrible happened - the next step is to realise it was you who created that situation. I'm no God worrier, but isn't that sort of introspection the w…	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 10:14 PM
2	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory People mentioning the N word, narcissism. I wouldn't be surprised if it is rife in REd pill communities, which is essentially, to use their own language, a bunch of 5s whinging that they can't get 8s and 9s and 10s throw themselves at them. Narcissistic, much? Even if it's the "covert" type, where the self pity itself is just narcissism in reverse but still narcissim all the same. Most people just get on with life, with wins and losses, without hating on folk, not these guys.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 10:04 PM
9	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Erm, not sure you can blame red pill for that. That's triangulation, dude, look it up. Sounds like attachment problems. You treated your gal like trash. Sorry, but you maybe need to look within a little, ethically. Not through a self help lense. But an ethical one.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 09:58 PM
10	little pick me up? I would say "be strong" but actually I'll say the opposite. Allow yourself to feel the sadness and fear. Because what you are going through is sad and it is scary. Just give yourself space to feel and process. We live in a "fight it" "be strong" culture when actually, in my experience, dealign with this, I need to make myself vunerable to my self. To really feel the pain of it. I could then process it. Go for walks with no destraction (music, podcasts) and you will literally see your mind sortin…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/22 10:18 PM
4	Is redpill really that bad? Red pill is, fundementally, bro science. It's trash. It's for people who have never read anything other than self help in their lives. It's basic bros telling us all how we are, when no one, anywhere, really knows anything regarding essentialised gender. It's trash mate, leave well alone.	/r/ExRedPill	28/08/22 09:11 PM