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| 46 | Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels?Great question. I've never visited/stayed in a hostel during my solo travels. Usually I stay in pretty cheap motels... I set up meets as best I can ahead of time via OLD and also scope out the hangout spots beforehand. This lands me a steady hookup while in country. A hostel may have some difficulty given the demographics of the visitors (age, traveling in groups, etc) and lack of privacy, causing your prospects to be a bit nervous about hooking up with someone that is outside of the norm. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?ETHICAL non-monogamy is a thing..... I've been married for 12 years now | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | I think I am going to die alone because I am uglyNot gay but if I were I'd sxck and fxck you after showing you off to my friends.... | /r/seduction | 21/12/23 01:48 AM |
| 9 | "just move on" is NOT good adviceBro you said that you have convinced women after Months or YEARS later. Man... your post is speaking to the sound advice for guys to be efficient. Waiting patiently for years to possibly get someone is not efficient. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | UPDATED Seddit Rules / Posting Guidelines - 10/21/21It's safe to say that both men and women are superficial. Pointing out an exception does not negate that confidence wins more often than not. Yep, she picked him based on his looks... That sounds like the start to a lot of encounters. Keep building that confidence and you can learn to overcome that rocky start much faster to the point that you are winning. My ugly, funky-breathed buddy was NEVER the first choice. But he was definitely the one that they left with. Bad start, phenomenal finish. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | I am a female in the friendzone. How do I get his attention?Nice. Follow his lead. Make yourself desirable without being overly aggressive. If you are seeking a relationship do not give in to his sexual requests without getting what you want; don't tease him but make that you don't be too easy. For instance, if he wants sex have him invite you out on a real date. At the end of the date suck him with the force it would take to pull peanut butter through a coffee stir straw. If you just want to fuck then do all of the above without prompting him for a date… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I am a female in the friendzone. How do I get his attention?Are you seeking sex or a real relationship? If it was a fling so many years ago and you two have only been friends who see each other every few years then it doesn't sound like it is destined to be a serious relationship. With space and time apart his attention is elsewhere. If you do something drastic like attempt to move closer he may freak out completely. Enjoy what you have with him and go at his pace... I married my wife of ten years after dating her as a teen, separating after two years, m… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Something Funny Happened Tonight…I've had drill Sergeants call me by other people's names. Teachers, parents, friends, strangers. Yes they may have misspoke for numerous reasons. I was called the wrong name because I sat next to someone else when all of us were introduced. It just locked into their head that way. I've been called the wrong name because I was always around the original person. I've been called the wrong name because the spelling was similar. Bro, this does NOT mean that she finds you attractive. You need to have… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Something Funny Happened Tonight…You're reading too much into it. The last time you called someone by the wrong name, was it because you wanted to fuck the other person? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 4 | My co-worker got in my car with her sundress w/ no panties on & she wanted me to rub her pussy when we got to a stop light .. is she being flirty? or just showing off?She was being flirty and she was showing off. You were being safe and you were afraid. I have experienced this too where women are flirting just to get their attention fix. To play it safe AND to not have regret go ahead play the game with her. If she says to touch it, do so. If she says to look, get yourself an eyeful. She was testing you and yes she was using you. You failed. She will see you as a really nice friend who she can tease. Your job is to not allow yourself to want more than what sh… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Wearing a Santa hat in the clubGreat job! Peacocking is a thing. Too much and it tends to look corny. I find that if I make it a RARE treat it works best. Spread out amongst different venues and use a different tool each time. Also limit how often you use tools or you may forget how to do the basics. Good luck and happy hunting. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Did you get lazy? Were you detached? Did you stop doing what you needed to do? Did you stop investing into the relationship? It's not her job to make you live up to your end of the agreement. It's her job to protect herself. She did that. You fucked up. Do not punish her by attempting to get into her head, heart, and bed again. She already gave all that she could. She needs time to heal. Learn your hard life lesson and don't repeat it in any relationship moving forward. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My guy, I have female friends who have changed clothes in front of me, shown me their asses/tits, etc to get my opinions on how they look. I have female friends that talk to me about sex ALL the time. I have female friends who have kissed me on the lips and said that they love me. Their reasoning: because they trust me as their friend. This isn't to say that when she sent those photos you two were not a couple. But it is to say that nude photos do not make you a couple. Either way, the relations… | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Fuck the gameMan, take your ass to the gym over this next year. If you are done with everything and everyone then you have ZERO excuses to skip a workout! You can blame laziness on anyone else but yourself. Gym's closed? Do some fucking pushups, crunches, squats and jumping jacks. Quit on this, sure. Quit on trying, ok. But don't quit on yourself. Do it for no one else and for no reason except for the drive and love of the pain. What are you going to do? | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit needs to be appreciated.Do not feel sorry for them. I read their posts and it seems that they like to troll. Like you, I was empathetic to the claims of discrimination but then I viewed their posts. Nah... | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachI honestly didn't know that it was a script... Been doing something similar to this for about 20 years. It's worked for me in grocery stores, dance clubs, etc. I appreciate OP for posting it for others to see. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachThis is dope. I open with the "excuse me" similar to "I'm sorry" and add my own version of "I'm going to...(do something other than bother you)" similar to your false time constraint. Sometimes I will actually simply depart on a high note to use the first set as a bit of social proof for later on in the same venue. Smart move to NOT compliment her on some physical attribute like how cute she is: this is overdone and lumps the guy in with every other male she has encountered since age 13. Great j… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:31 AM |
| 12 | First time cold approaching a woman went well, but turned weird....Bro I must say that under the circumstances this was a TERRIFIC win: you broke through social discomfort, killed the anxiety approach, rolled with resistance, had great witty banter, phenomenal cadence and follow through. Moments like this add to your emotional piggy bank. Your self respect, confidence and efficacy have increased. Kudos. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | First time cold approaching a woman went well, but turned weird....I won't disagree but I will say it may be better applied if you are hitting on someone who is not sitting next to their partner. Getting in good with the friends may not work in this scenario. The glaring lesson here is to hit on someone without their partner present (or better yet if they are totally single). | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | I hate myself for being effeminateI literally just commented (the post about the virgin who had sex with 3women) about my family member who is an “aspie”…. While he learned to mimic social cues, more importantly was his learning to find spaces where he could enjoy being himself= sports because he can recall ALL of the minutiae, cars because he can hyper focus on the mechanics, etc. These “hobbies” allow him to blend with NTs who share similar interests and no one is the wiser. They simply view him as stoic and chill. His ex gf w… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 3 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI have AN EXTREMELY CLOSE FAMILY MEMBER on the spectrum….Asperger’s; and ADHD. While he lacks the “mirror neurons” of NTs he has mastered mimicking social cues to include certain body language movements, jokes and timing. Mind you it took him a lifetime but I have seen the success. I can recognize that his smile, hug, and eye contact is not a natural thing for him but others simply see him as eccentric. His lack of emotion is perceived as stoicism and chill. It is NOT easy but it is not impossib… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What means to have a good social proof?You can be the real version of yourself. I have no social media besides a Linked In that I rarely update. I build social proof in real life scenarios and tend to go solo if I step out for the night. My approach anxiety is real. Because of this I will pregame in a totally different venue than my hunting grounds, and I will recon the site before the hunt. Before I do anything I reframe nervousness as excitement… I smile big, hold my head up and I have a great time. After awhile other guys are shoo… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up?Saying it “isn’t true at all” is kind of limiting as well. It may be fair to say that there are many possibilities of the crush’s reasoning to bring along a friend. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Nightime Advice: Choosing the right club matters a lotAh, fishing in the right sea with the right bait... I agree with you 100% The sad truth is that it takes a lot of guys a long time to figure this out. We are conditioned or simply lie to ourselves that she has to look like this and has to be found here and so on. Once I found the perfect fishing hole, they would essentially jump in the boat with me. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 3 | 27m with my flatmate 21fThe signals aren't mixed. You are attracted to her and you are projecting. Let's assume that I am wrong because I don't know you. The two responses that said it worked out for them are exceptions. If you do happen to have sex with your roommate, it can get real bad real fast. If I and the multiple other responses are correct, you could end up at best looking like a creep...Her behavior could be her way of expressing how safe she feels with her cool flatmate. If she were a he and doing these same… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 01:31 AM |
| 6 | UPDATED Seddit Rules / Posting Guidelines - 10/21/21I have a friend whose breath smelled like dumpster water and he would pull 8-10s all the time. He was short, overweight, and an ethnic minority. Confidence and a sense of humor were his best attributes. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 03:57 PM |
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